The strongest predictor for success | Angela Lee Duckworth

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    A clip from Angela Lee Duckworth's TED Talk "Grit: the power of passion and perseverance" from TED Talks Education 2013
    Leaving a high-flying job in consulting, Angela Lee Duckworth took a job teaching math to seventh graders in a New York public school. She quickly realized that IQ wasn't the only thing separating the successful students from those who struggled. Here, she explains her theory of "grit" as a predictor of success.
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Komentáře • 611

  • @grahamkerr9143
    @grahamkerr9143 Před 3 lety +227

    I struggled all the way through school and uni, studying engineering, as I always told I wasn't cut out for such a math-heavy subject...got a 2:1. Then no job after graduation. 2.5 post graduation, I retaught myself calculus, learned to program and began my own research in distribution networks and battery modelling. Literally yesterday, I got a job offer for a grad scheme. Intelligence and talent only pays dividends if you put in the effort: keep plucking away; continue questioning; take failure in your stride and uphold the belief that things will eventually go your way. It's not easy, but I'm proud to be the one that had to work than someone who didn't.

    • @shazaselvarajoo585
      @shazaselvarajoo585 Před 3 lety +8

      Huh.. interesting.... your story is quite similar to mine, thanks for sharing man

    • @coder6808
      @coder6808 Před 3 lety +7

      Thank you for putting in the work and not giving up. I am on a similar path.....and your story just encouraged me to keep going........thank you , be blessed.
      P.s. We all have different learning methods - you seem to be a good 'self-direected learner'

    • @esthermunaka5559
      @esthermunaka5559 Před 3 lety +3

      Really inspiring, thanks for sharing

    • @jackeroo75
      @jackeroo75 Před 3 lety +4

      Good job! Real student here! You may lack speed on test but in real world you used your iq and critical thinking skills to enabled to deal with real scenarios.

    • @galaxylucia1898
      @galaxylucia1898 Před 3 lety +2

      Congrats to you!!

  • @TheSatzy6699
    @TheSatzy6699 Před 3 lety +591

    My grit made me complete this video without going for the next as I normally do every 5 second 😂👍🏼

    • @henrykhiangte3834
      @henrykhiangte3834 Před 3 lety +3

      Same here buddy

    • @reneleow
      @reneleow Před 3 lety +2

      i failed..i watched it at playback speed of x1.5

    • @ytbvdshrtnr
      @ytbvdshrtnr Před 3 lety +9

      Funny you say that, I only watched it because I saw it was 3 minutes long

    • @arjunskumar5882
      @arjunskumar5882 Před 3 lety +1

      @@reneleow 2×

    • @juddotto3660
      @juddotto3660 Před 3 lety +2

      Literally did that for the past 5 minutes and ended up here

  • @BusyBasaz
    @BusyBasaz Před 3 lety +189

    Me: *reads title and clicks the video in hope that the predictor for success is sitting at home playing video games*

  • @piranhamusic1331
    @piranhamusic1331 Před 3 lety +81

    This is absolutely true. As a "smart" kid I was always told I have great things ahead for me. Only later as an adult I realised intelligence is useless without consistent hard work. Which is also why the tortoise beats the rabbit in the famous story.

    • @kulturfreund6631
      @kulturfreund6631 Před 3 lety

      That’s nonsense. Intelligence gives you the advantage needing to work less and save a big part of the time others need to spend on learning.

    • @piranhamusic1331
      @piranhamusic1331 Před 3 lety +5

      @@kulturfreund6631 It does, and you are absolutely correct. But only a fool underestimates the power of raw motivation and hard work.

    • @user-sg8kq7ii3y
      @user-sg8kq7ii3y Před rokem

      @@piranhamusic1331 And only a fool underestimates the power of raw intelligence. To achieve great things, one needs both - talent/intelligence AND hard work.

    • @JoelSuryaSantana_
      @JoelSuryaSantana_ Před 8 měsíci

      @@user-sg8kq7ii3ymy father has a very smart friend but not a good work ethic currently he is jobless event though he is “intelligent” but my father came from hard work and been through ups and downs from a supervisor at a management store and living from paycheck to paycheck
      And now he owns one of the best school in my city so yeah I think hard work truly matters

  • @gummydino1793
    @gummydino1793 Před 3 lety +59

    Her book on this is amazing 10/10 very good read if you are feeling down or hard on yourself about a failure or set back

  • @DavidElstob73
    @DavidElstob73 Před 3 lety +189

    This is the type of content that everyone should pay attention to.

    • @lukecooper3820
      @lukecooper3820 Před 3 lety +2

      I couldn't agree more.

    • @Lenduya
      @Lenduya Před 3 lety +8

      LOL what? Hard work pays off, ground breaking idea, never heard of before. Great content.

    • @amish665
      @amish665 Před 3 lety +4

      @@Lenduya
      You know many things, you just need revision and confirmation so yes.

    • @anuk1311
      @anuk1311 Před 3 lety

      I skipped this video

    • @msdukaaa
      @msdukaaa Před 3 lety +1

      @@Lenduya Lol yep

  • @supernovachampions
    @supernovachampions Před 3 lety +12

    Literally the mantra "fierce grit" got me through one of the hardest times in my life - enduring one of the toughest grad programs, a horrifying divorce, and the death of a very close matriarch. The concept of exemplifying grit in every moment can be life-changing.

  • @fucker1714
    @fucker1714 Před 3 lety +27

    I wonder if thats why so many "gifted" students kind of fizzle out after school. They've never really had to work too hard for anything so they've never really needed grit.

  • @sanagr3050
    @sanagr3050 Před 3 lety +101

    As said by Rocky Balboa " it's about how much you can take and keep moving forward "....the essence of being successful is just not limited to one's achievements it lies more in the realisation of how you overcame those tough phases,how much you worked hard for it,how much you sacrificed and how you NEVER GAVE UP.....

    • @epichardwareyoutube4630
      @epichardwareyoutube4630 Před 3 lety

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    • @mihailfelixdumitresc
      @mihailfelixdumitresc Před rokem

      I have never met anyone to quote Sylvester Stalone....😄

  • @jamesgoines7663
    @jamesgoines7663 Před 3 lety +5

    Grit is another word for Commitment.
    .
    There's no trying to be committed.
    Be committed. Truly committed

  • @jacobmullins3838
    @jacobmullins3838 Před 3 lety +48

    Reading her book and carol dwacks is what made me become a therapist :)

  • @shreyareddy1608
    @shreyareddy1608 Před 3 lety +37

    This was inspiring. Grit is passion and perseverance indeed!

  • @laneatkinson6441
    @laneatkinson6441 Před 3 lety +18

    As a child, I was (and still am) extremely stubborn. I'm just learning to use this to my advantage, gotta turn the negative into a positive!!

  • @vincent6382
    @vincent6382 Před 3 lety +60

    Persevere is such a powerful verb.

    • @valeriamahlangu372
      @valeriamahlangu372 Před 3 lety

      My Boarding school matron used to stress this, "perseverance is a mother of success" MHSRIP

  • @endahrosa7963
    @endahrosa7963 Před 3 lety +6

    I think this is one of the best TED videos on personal development. I've watched and read Dr. Angela Duckworth's book about GRIT and I think it resonates with me and is pretty realistic. It also propels me to work harder on my dreams and help me persevere. Those endless efforts and sleepless nights eventually get me to Columbia (even though I'm not coming from a top uni in Indonesia). Thank you so much, Dr!

  • @NerpWolfheart
    @NerpWolfheart Před 3 lety +15

    Wish I was taught this mindset as a kid - I just remember being yelled at when i did poorly and even trying to find ways to hide bad grades.

  • @ennius42
    @ennius42 Před 3 lety +960

    Another predictor for success is that you don’t spend hours every day on CZcams watching videos.

    • @yhp99
      @yhp99 Před 3 lety +26

      But wat if you stick to you tube videos day in and day out not just for a week not just for a month for years and years? WHat then?

    • @sanafarooq9828
      @sanafarooq9828 Před 3 lety +7

      Ugghhh that's me these days

    • @chillpalz4987
      @chillpalz4987 Před 3 lety +17

      @@yhp99 thats grit

    • @clarkstant
      @clarkstant Před 3 lety

      Lol. Facts.

    • @djtan3313
      @djtan3313 Před 3 lety

      Ah fml

  • @Tapas2017
    @Tapas2017 Před 3 lety +29

    Summary: Strongest predictor of success is Grit. Grit is passion/stamina/perseverance to stick with your set goals long term, until goal turn into reality.
    Grit can be built in kids with "growth mindset". Growth mindset tries to study/understand the mind conditions and deems failure (to attain goals) as a temporary condition that can be overcome.

  • @johnmariano47
    @johnmariano47 Před 3 lety +6

    This is true, allthough grit is nothing more than a variation of the advice of "Don't quit whatever obstacles you may face, whatever struggles in the way." In order to see a goal through you have to stay the course no matter how many times you fall and even stop midway, keep reminding yourself of the reasons to move forward especially what is on the other side if you stop which is mostly regret, more suffering and ultimate failure itself which resides in our minds forever of the what ifs questions.

  • @joshuajinsu2559
    @joshuajinsu2559 Před 3 lety +431

    When you want to prove your "grit" by staying for the whole video.😂

  • @VinegarPotato
    @VinegarPotato Před 3 lety +10

    I’m glad my teachers talked about a growth mindset.

  • @viswadeepkopalli6160
    @viswadeepkopalli6160 Před 3 lety +1

    She is true, grit is really a real factor to decide success, i experienced this personally, mainly with my project work for my bachelors, we had to make a dual arm robot, neither me nor my team had any experiemce with robots priorly nor we had a clue where to start, but slowly we did, there were days when i said to myself you are dumb and wont finish the project but my team and i kept pressure and worked and we finally finished it and i will soon graduate as a mechanical engineer. Its just a university project but i can see this being applied to almost every task we sit down with. Keep doing it keep pushing yourselves, believe in yourself.

  • @_Diggler
    @_Diggler Před 3 lety +8

    Grit only matters when I have a vision for my future. Dream. Then take persistent action.

  • @lukecooper3820
    @lukecooper3820 Před 3 lety +14

    I strongly believe that we would have a much better world if everyone could work with what they love to do because so many people hate their jobs.
    She's such an inspiration; thank you for sharing this video.

    • @davidhenry862
      @davidhenry862 Před 3 lety

      ​@@GabrielCazorlaPersson1 Yes and no. I am passionate about small things, games, books, certain storylines or ideas. Those arent things that can elude me, I just choose to find wonder and awe in certain things compared to others. However, other things that I love aren't as simple. If I want a certain job then I have to get the training and find a place to hire me, and that doesnt always work out which is kind of your point. But my point is that its both. You can find passion and love and it can find you, look at everything as is it and not want you want it to be, live each day, look at different opportunities. Its always a negotiation

    • @FlyingDwarfman
      @FlyingDwarfman Před rokem

      @@GabrielCazorlaPersson1 In many places, jobs *are* getting worse -- in that workers are being pressured/ forced to work more hours for less ability to afford basic needs. "Overworked" has become a legitimate, and in some places (Japan, Korea, Taiwan, USA) common, cause of death.

  • @andik70
    @andik70 Před 3 lety +7

    Dilbert: persistence is the key to success.
    The other key to success is to know when to quit.

  • @LadySuchiko
    @LadySuchiko Před 2 lety +2

    I wish people acknowledged how mental issues affect this kind of thinking more...

  • @graysurfs3209
    @graysurfs3209 Před 3 lety +64

    Accidentally clicked it... and prolly might have changed my life forever

    • @Lenduya
      @Lenduya Před 3 lety +2

      Change life how, you didn't know before this video that hard work is important? LMAO

    • @graysurfs3209
      @graysurfs3209 Před 3 lety

      @@Lenduya yahhh 😂

    • @rehan4223
      @rehan4223 Před 3 lety

      Can u elaborate on how it changed your life?

  • @suicune2001
    @suicune2001 Před 3 lety +8

    That makes a lot of sense. I think of when I was in college and I was doing homework on the floor in the school store because I couldn't afford some of my books.

  • @Riddlemethiseveryone
    @Riddlemethiseveryone Před 3 lety +13

    I don't even have a grit to watch this video full.

  • @CharlesHenderson1
    @CharlesHenderson1 Před 2 lety +2

    I've been following the work of Angela ever since she entered the phd program at the University of Pennsylvania with professor Seligman and love what she's discovered in her research. I have a 6 year old Goddaughter named Amahle. One way of getting her to embrace a growth mindset is when I say to her "work harder," she enthusiastically replies, "get smarter!"

  • @GrnXnham
    @GrnXnham Před 3 lety +8

    I hear a lot of people today say that they don't want kids to fail EVER. That is the reason why many school districts have removed F's from report cards.
    But I've learned far more from my failures than my successes. To try and then fail is a very important part of growing and learning.

  • @rishikeyyadav5717
    @rishikeyyadav5717 Před 3 lety +6

    Woa.. she summarized my life's experience in 3 minutes..

  • @chris_2208
    @chris_2208 Před 3 lety +3

    belief in grit is what increases it. consistent failure is what decreases it

    • @MyrnaDeJesus
      @MyrnaDeJesus Před 3 lety +1

      I humbly disagree. I've been consistently failing for the last 20+ years. At basically everything. And although it's taken a toll on me psychologically and emotionally (and financially), I've taken to reflecting on the lessons I've gained along this gut-wrenching journey and I must say, I'm left breathless with the immense, invaluable lessons I've learned. And it's made me all the more refined, grateful, humble and sure of my objectives and goals. Far grittier than I've ever been, only now less impulsive and forecefull. My grit has transformed from reckless, brute force to mature and steady with a deep respect for the natural progression, ebbs and flows of endeavors. I think the trick is to listen to failure as the mentor/teacher that it is. Hope you have a peace-filled month, Matt. 🦛🌺

    • @jazminlane4041
      @jazminlane4041 Před rokem +1

      @@MyrnaDeJesus wow I love this comment, it’s beautifully written.

    • @MyrnaDeJesus
      @MyrnaDeJesus Před rokem

      @@jazminlane4041 Thank you! 😃

  • @stephenomenal29
    @stephenomenal29 Před 3 lety

    She has demonstrated her grit to deliver this speech so effortlessly.doesnt look like she has a teleprompter.👍

  • @reddragonphlyart9831
    @reddragonphlyart9831 Před 3 lety +4

    Some of the best life tips in a very condensed format 👌

  • @sergioperezlindo1893
    @sergioperezlindo1893 Před 3 lety +18

    (I made a mistake, understood greed instead of grit) Well, if the measures of success are all related with a competitive system like we are, yes, greed is by far one of the key points to success

  • @sushantyadav8380
    @sushantyadav8380 Před 3 lety +2

    This is the best motivational video I have watched in a long time in lockdown

  • @MillersLanguageSchool
    @MillersLanguageSchool Před 3 lety +1

    Just go forward! Do not stop! This is the main idea of success!

  • @benwhiley9680
    @benwhiley9680 Před 3 lety +14

    Grit is Conscientiousness.
    Well done, you have discovered something that already exists and is exhaustively documented.
    You have earned the participation trophy.

    • @tarzbaow
      @tarzbaow Před 3 lety +1

      Ikr, everyone is here like it's a major discovery..
      When she said "it wasn't IQ" I was looking for a similar comment, people are so delusionnal.

  • @edemgold4813
    @edemgold4813 Před 3 lety +2

    I saw this as a notification and it spoke to me

  • @Parth_apatel
    @Parth_apatel Před 3 lety +2

    GRIT AND HARDWORK!!

  • @katyfauri
    @katyfauri Před 3 lety +5

    It’s important to teach grit while young.

  • @MegaSquiff
    @MegaSquiff Před 3 lety

    Very ‘to the point’ . Thanks for the clear message...all the best to you.

  • @BishalSomai-ih2dn
    @BishalSomai-ih2dn Před rokem +1

    I am so happy for receving this kind of information in my early age

  • @brettcarter5954
    @brettcarter5954 Před 3 lety

    Grit - Passion and perseverance for VERY long term goals; sticking to it, day in and day out working REALLY hard for years to make the one thing you want in your future a reality.

  • @vellusk
    @vellusk Před 3 lety

    This is great and I agree, shame that the way people are these days most will blame everything but their own lack of grit for their failures

  • @mikegkerr
    @mikegkerr Před 3 lety +3

    I have nothing against grit. Grit is going to get you through army boot camp. It's going to get you that sale when you need one 'yes' out of 100s of cold calls. It will indeed get you a long way in most jobs and pursuits. But for those times in life where you get one shot, to hire the right person, making the right call during negotiation with a key client, or formulating that word in a spelling bee, my experience says high IQ matters more. So if grit is what you have, choose your career appropriately.

  • @josephlat9274
    @josephlat9274 Před 3 lety +1

    Thanks for the video,I really enjoy it and learn alot from it 🙏

  • @maxr2663
    @maxr2663 Před 3 lety +14

    After listening to her podcasts for years I now know what she looks like

  • @ElydiaReyes
    @ElydiaReyes Před 3 lety +1

    Thanks for sharing this video. will defintely watch till the end. God bless.

  • @fotismanolopoulos4354
    @fotismanolopoulos4354 Před 3 lety

    Agree on the first half; second half where she says "you must be willing to fail", she should know by now that some failures are worth taking the risk for and some best to avoid. Failure should not be used as a general term that applies to everything

  • @jackshyanlee9704
    @jackshyanlee9704 Před 3 lety +6

    It’s like anything in life. When you start something, you just objectively suck at it. Only way to get better is to keep going and keep trying.

  • @alberteinstein7180
    @alberteinstein7180 Před 3 lety

    Thank you!

  • @nannybannany
    @nannybannany Před 3 lety

    Dr. Duckworth is great!

  • @gaspartellez6620
    @gaspartellez6620 Před 2 lety +1

    You mean, share this video with the people who don't like to work hard to reach anything!! Let's hope they change their mindset.

  • @rohanfernando21
    @rohanfernando21 Před 3 lety

    This was quite reassuring.

  • @ddoris4118
    @ddoris4118 Před 3 lety +3

    I agree that "grit" is fundmental but it is built on a foundation of delayed gratification - the ability to sacrifice a bit of "now" for future. Being able to delay gratification is one of the keys to long-term success.

  • @Kytetiger
    @Kytetiger Před 3 lety +3

    having grit doesnt pay when your in a bad context and/or in a bad environnement, job, etc
    when you make mistake, you have to keep up and keep working hard, because eventually you will make it and achieve something, albeit small but finally better than average (it's usually enough)
    But it will never repay all the loss with every failure prior.

    • @Frostedminifirecracker
      @Frostedminifirecracker Před 3 lety +1

      The lessons learned from failures are the payment. Failure analysis was my first job. Learned more than just how to do the job. How to apply it in other areas.

  • @m.k.h.2718
    @m.k.h.2718 Před 2 lety

    Failure is never a permanent condition. At worst, failure is an indication that you need to adjust your course of action. From this point of view, some level of failure is a blessing!

  • @ansalias3977
    @ansalias3977 Před 3 lety

    Passion and perseverance ❤

  • @mahirrahman7
    @mahirrahman7 Před 3 lety +2

    Her advice never grows old.

  • @double_courage57
    @double_courage57 Před 3 lety +1

    Its very heavy mental toll re-starting your career. Ive learnt from experience when I changed my domain mid career and moved to a bigger city and only later realized what i left behind. To all those reading this, also recognize what you value in life and work towards that. All too often ive seen people (including myself) get sucked into the rat race & ruining their lives.

  • @shohamsen8986
    @shohamsen8986 Před 3 lety +5

    Yup. Thats right. Only 1 question u need to ask yourself "How bad do u want it?"

  • @risabhify
    @risabhify Před 3 lety

    Great communication

  • @readynowforever3676
    @readynowforever3676 Před 3 lety +1

    Agreed.
    Yet the one metric that “grit” can’t measure, is if every child learning equally believes that the completion of a something (whatever that “something” is) has a worthy valuation that justifies the “perseverance”, and delayed gratification.
    Because if there was equity in belief, those who are front runners in perseverance or possess more at the onset, might have more competition, therefore bringing more challenge to their perceived stronghold on grit.

  • @fatgirlboy9341
    @fatgirlboy9341 Před 3 lety +1

    Prudence, justice, fortitude and temperance

  • @ananyav3395
    @ananyav3395 Před 3 lety

    Thank you so much for the video🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @davidalmendoza
    @davidalmendoza Před 3 lety +3

    Grit is power

  • @girganid
    @girganid Před 3 lety +3

    If only I known this earlier my life would be better ...😮
    thanks for sharing. .🙏

  • @mondaypositivitea
    @mondaypositivitea Před 3 lety

    Ideas, intuition, and strong judgement go hand in hand + ability to take calculated risks.

  • @theangryquad3127
    @theangryquad3127 Před 3 lety +2

    Hard work, Hard work and Hard work........

  • @viki.thatzme
    @viki.thatzme Před 3 lety

    Well said!!

  • @widndn
    @widndn Před 3 lety

    You have to want it to get it.
    I call it the 3 Ds. Desire, determanation and discipline. With these three you can accomplish what you are willing to work for.

  • @VarunKumar-cb5hm
    @VarunKumar-cb5hm Před 3 lety

    NSQ made me click this so fast. I will read Grit now for sure.

  • @jensonphan
    @jensonphan Před 3 lety

    Conscientiousness and iq combined are a force to be reckoned with.

  • @pondholloworchards
    @pondholloworchards Před 3 lety

    Dedication and initiative success is rented and rent is due everyday

  • @nazarottto
    @nazarottto Před 3 lety

    Would be great if you could update the original full talk from 720p to 1080p also.

  • @SimplePeppersCookingBaking

    I go to success every day! This is my rule!

  • @wateenal_sayadi679
    @wateenal_sayadi679 Před 3 lety

    Loved this💜💜

  • @haimbenavraham1502
    @haimbenavraham1502 Před 3 lety

    Excellent.

  • @jswealth
    @jswealth Před 3 lety

    Enjoyed her book, GRIT.

  • @jerryware1970
    @jerryware1970 Před 3 lety +2

    Most people give up. Grit is forged through setbacks.

  • @TomNook.
    @TomNook. Před 3 lety +5

    Success is learning from failures.

  • @T.L.9
    @T.L.9 Před 3 lety

    She is exact right!

  • @Ajax4Hire
    @Ajax4Hire Před 3 lety

    Yes, the way to climb a mountain is to keep the top in mind.
    Do NOT bumble-bee thru life, going from one flower to another.
    Good luck is no accident.

  • @user-or7ji5hv8y
    @user-or7ji5hv8y Před 3 lety

    Very good speaker too as well intelligent.

  • @kietinhthe7852
    @kietinhthe7852 Před 3 lety

    Nice talk

  • @deanbonilla8807
    @deanbonilla8807 Před 3 lety

    Magnificent. 🙏🏾🌞

  • @user-pb2kg1ng4g
    @user-pb2kg1ng4g Před 3 lety

    It's the grit that makes the pearl.

  • @bommaritohawaii
    @bommaritohawaii Před 3 lety

    Hunger, drive, ambition, grit. A fire to win, and win again and again.

  • @user-xq4xc2kj5t
    @user-xq4xc2kj5t Před 3 lety

    awesome!!!

  • @discovertravellers1724
    @discovertravellers1724 Před 3 lety +1

    Remarkable

  • @JConestar
    @JConestar Před 3 lety +2

    Beautifully said, thank you.

  • @MiseryRex
    @MiseryRex Před 3 lety +5

    A good portion of the time real success is knowing when to quit.

  • @A_Different_ViewPoint.
    @A_Different_ViewPoint. Před 3 lety +1

    Great 👍

  • @tulipanrosas
    @tulipanrosas Před 3 lety +5

    I read her book grit, the first 60 pages say nothing, she just says how great and intelligent she is. What kind of book is that? You get bored after reading the first 40 pages

    • @donaldumunawa4787
      @donaldumunawa4787 Před 3 lety

      She's testing your grit by being annoying.

    • @tulipanrosas
      @tulipanrosas Před 3 lety

      @@donaldumunawa4787 I don't like those people who all they do is say how great and brilliant they are. And people still like to read that crap. People who don't know what a book should be about. That's sad.

  • @DKS13G
    @DKS13G Před 3 lety

    That's why Humanity came so far, we are a very stubborn species. Most of the times we aren't right, but by will power and some luck, we overcome.

  • @ryerye9178
    @ryerye9178 Před 3 lety

    resilience

  • @mdarrenu
    @mdarrenu Před 3 lety +1

    I don't think grit is the only difference. Health problems especially Mental Health plays a big role.

    • @MyrnaDeJesus
      @MyrnaDeJesus Před 3 lety

      That's an important factor. There are also determining factors that marginalize communities from having fair access to resources and freedom from violence such as systemic racism and poverty.
      I don't think it should be this way but I have discovered, from personal experience within my own life and from the community/village I'm from, that oppressive living conditions and debilitating mental health can be the catalyst for unrelenting grit to propel your pursuits simply because your convictions for erecting a better society is constantly challenged.

  • @WestOfEarth
    @WestOfEarth Před 3 lety

    I believe this to be true to a point because the extent of your 'grit' depends on how much time you can devote to it. Compare two people who want to be successful authors. To be successful, one needs to be writing every day, thousands of hours, without any monetary recompense. All other things being equal between our two budding authors, the one who has the support of a spouse or family or financial means other than working 9-5 will be able to sustain grit. The other author, perhaps choosing any job to pay for food and rent, will find their grit tested over a much longer period of time. This extended period creates more instances where grit can fail.