EVEN IF YOU WANT TO DATE A TRANSGENDER YOU ARE TRANSPHOBIC

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  • @ZoeHerron-hf7zt
    @ZoeHerron-hf7zt Před měsícem +322

    That was the most aggressive positive speech I have ever Hurd about love. Thank you

    • @ZoeHerron-hf7zt
      @ZoeHerron-hf7zt Před měsícem +11

      Heard* dang typo

    • @TVTIME-be8ze
      @TVTIME-be8ze Před měsícem +3

      @@ZoeHerron-hf7zt I thought you did that on purpose

    • @kateshiningdeer3334
      @kateshiningdeer3334 Před měsícem +9

      I also want to add, you are 100% right. There is no pleasing these people. As soon as the rest of us realize that, we can go back to our regular, sane lives, without trying to "fix" things for people who will NEVER be satisfied! Sooner the better, if you ask me!

    • @Vialys
      @Vialys Před měsícem +2

      Oh yeah, definitely, I was laughing but feeling very motivated honestly

  • @officerbucktuddrussel394
    @officerbucktuddrussel394 Před měsícem +567

    If trans women are women then why do you need the trans prefix?

    • @MyAramil
      @MyAramil Před měsícem +116

      Why do you think they call women as cis, or "womb havers"

    • @senatorarmstrong4662
      @senatorarmstrong4662 Před měsícem +105

      @@MyAramilDon't forget birthing person.😂

    • @ruckusbeblack
      @ruckusbeblack Před měsícem +70

      Because they aren’t… 👰🏻‍♂️

    • @maramra393
      @maramra393 Před měsícem

      If trans women are women why do they need the surgeries to become 'real' women?

    • @Iudd_
      @Iudd_ Před měsícem +16

      I think this is a weak argument since they will just argue that the "tall" and "short" prefix is the same as the "trans" prefix

  • @naingaung2748
    @naingaung2748 Před měsícem +774

    Waiting for “if you’re transgender your transphobic”. 😂

  • @1jotun136
    @1jotun136 Před měsícem +116

    I'm solely homosexual, does my exclusion of women from my dating pool make me a misogynist? Hell no. Follow the damn logic.

    • @rustyjones7908
      @rustyjones7908 Před měsícem

      Most of the gay guys I know are incredibly misogynistic though.

    • @marcushoward6560
      @marcushoward6560 Před měsícem +5

      Welcome to "intersectionality".

    • @Bakesuta
      @Bakesuta Před měsícem +2

      You the type of guy I can stand for sure. Love is love be their motto. SO WHY ARE Y'ALL SAYING IT AIN'T?

    • @rustyjones7908
      @rustyjones7908 Před měsícem

      @@Bakesuta I loved ur mum last night.

    • @Techridr
      @Techridr Před měsícem +2

      Preach

  • @darkblondewatch8652
    @darkblondewatch8652 Před měsícem +555

    how pathetic do you have to be to bully someone into dating you.

    • @maxpudlowski8820
      @maxpudlowski8820 Před měsícem +26

      Well if you decide to start wearing pantyhose, and call yourself a whaman, everything else is less crazy IMO..

    • @KhaeLikesCoffee
      @KhaeLikesCoffee Před měsícem +33

      I'm old enough to remember when stuff like that was frowned on.

    • @Ilivedbih
      @Ilivedbih Před měsícem +21

      It goes much deeper than that - it's emotional manipulation, I see it honestly as extremely r-pey. I'm *actual* trans (got gender dysphoria) and majority of us wouldn't date trans either 😂😭.

    • @Exercise-01
      @Exercise-01 Před měsícem +4

      Because this people don't have any integrity or shame.

    • @rottenhead8385
      @rottenhead8385 Před měsícem +1

      Yes

  • @octaviahh8774
    @octaviahh8774 Před měsícem +218

    Sexual coercion is also a giant red flad. Say it with me. No is a complete sentence!

    • @ThomasBoyce5000
      @ThomasBoyce5000 Před měsícem +23

      There's a term used for people who use coercion and guilt tactics in order to get sexual relations.

    • @twentysecondcenturywoman
      @twentysecondcenturywoman Před měsícem +13

      No is a complete sentence. You can’t tell people to be attracted to something they’re not

    • @garrisonjones1827
      @garrisonjones1827 Před měsícem +4

      @@ThomasBoyce5000will the term manipulator suffice?

    • @signorasforza354
      @signorasforza354 Před měsícem +2

      @gaelanwhite8842 Lmao😂😂😂

    • @ruckusbeblack
      @ruckusbeblack Před měsícem +10

      @gaelanwhite8842 the usual transgenda deflection 👰🏻‍♂️

  • @hanna1753
    @hanna1753 Před měsícem +308

    The word transphobia has completely lost its meaning
    If someone calls me transphobic, I just cheerfully say “I know…. Isn’t it wonderful!!”
    It throws them off

  • @invader4life36
    @invader4life36 Před měsícem +189

    Black woman here, I found my true love who a white man. Got called a traitor and that “oh so you don’t like black men?” It’s annoying. As long as the love is legal and both parties consent and there no danger, who cares.

    • @Muf315
      @Muf315 Před měsícem +1

      Unfortunately, someone cares... And what till you will have children: You will be accused of diluting your black genes.

    • @kmgyening
      @kmgyening Před měsícem +12

      They pulled a Waffles vs Pancakes on you

    • @braedenmclean5304
      @braedenmclean5304 Před měsícem +26

      Usually people that pull stunts like that are deeply unhappy and can’t find a good partner for themselves so they lash out at others to try and feel better about themselves.
      So if anything, take it as a sign you are doing something right

    • @hilariousname6826
      @hilariousname6826 Před měsícem +17

      Many people seem to assume that if a couple is of different races, then race must have been the main factor in why they became a couple - it couldn't have been that, say, they worked together, or went to the same church, or were classmates, or just met by happenstance, and simply were attracted to each other; no, that doesn't fit anyone's narrative ... !

    • @davagevorriose8046
      @davagevorriose8046 Před měsícem +9

      Love that you both found love in each other. F the haters.

  • @AGhostintheHouse
    @AGhostintheHouse Před měsícem +193

    I have XY chromosomes, if you have XY chromosomes then I'm not interested.

    • @garuelx8627
      @garuelx8627 Před měsícem

      Science dispells that delusion pretty quick. And I mean real science, not whatever this new shit claims it is...

    • @1TightMinute
      @1TightMinute Před měsícem +2

      What if my xy chromosome identifies as a yy chromosome. You heard me YY!

    • @BloodrealmX
      @BloodrealmX Před měsícem +16

      @@1TightMinute Someone with YY sex-determination chromosomes wouldn't be able to be born, they would fail to properly form in the womb because the X chromosome doesn't _only_ contain sex-determination genes, it contains other important stuff as well. XYY is a real thing, though.

    • @Mark70609
      @Mark70609 Před měsícem +2

      @@BloodrealmX good answer, I could be wrong but aren’t many of the people with genetic defects infertile?
      I remember looking up men who have XX chromosomes as that was brought up in a discussion about multiple genders and found out they are infertile and thus cannot be another gender as they are unable to reproduce.

    • @ismellthecheeze6436
      @ismellthecheeze6436 Před měsícem

      @@BloodrealmXyeah and they do not come out pretty and fully formed

  • @karlburmeister1552
    @karlburmeister1552 Před měsícem +275

    Problematic preferences? Not my problem, it's yours.

    • @ThomasBoyce5000
      @ThomasBoyce5000 Před měsícem +33

      "Your triggers are your responsibility" comes to mind

    • @Daemonik
      @Daemonik Před měsícem +3

      ​@@ThomasBoyce5000Oh, I like that. Snappy.

    • @jamessampson964
      @jamessampson964 Před měsícem +2

      I just say too bad, so sad. Get over it or don't I don't care. Your problem not mine

    • @kevin-jo1qu
      @kevin-jo1qu Před měsícem

      So disgusting hearing these people speak on things that they understand less than the average person. Which is literally everything

    • @Malicavarus
      @Malicavarus Před měsícem +1

      That first woman is a walking red flag. 😂🚩🚩🚩

  • @pillznarRy
    @pillznarRy Před měsícem +639

    bro the way these folks can gaslight THEMSELVES is true MAGIC.

    • @atrane365
      @atrane365 Před měsícem +1

      They are inherently miserable people. Their only temporary serotonin comes from making others miserable

    • @Zonedoutallthetime
      @Zonedoutallthetime Před měsícem +59

      We have passed mental gymnastics and entered the realm of Mental *S O R C E R Y*

    • @jamesneese7663
      @jamesneese7663 Před měsícem +11

      Like the scarecrow from Wizard of Oz, if they only had a 🧠.....

    • @joharrison6014
      @joharrison6014 Před měsícem +3

      I think it's possession, but maybe it just looks that way. Very angry people that love to stay angry, are open to possession. 3:18 she seems like one of them

    • @mangersavoir4213
      @mangersavoir4213 Před měsícem +5

      Dark magic

  • @unheard1827
    @unheard1827 Před měsícem +382

    They always need to be a victim...

  • @galaxystarrs5432
    @galaxystarrs5432 Před měsícem +388

    Being called transphobic is just a medal of honor nowadays. If I'm dating a biological man, and I'm a biological woman, would that immediately make me transphobic? How many badges do I receive?

    • @munkydreads
      @munkydreads Před měsícem

      equal to the number of genders in their echo chamber

    • @jenniferhamels1176
      @jenniferhamels1176 Před měsícem

      At this point transphobic has been so diluted due to it being applied to anything now I guess, it has no meaning anymore.

    • @QuintenWhyte
      @QuintenWhyte Před měsícem +18

      Amen to that

    • @alycefrench5753
      @alycefrench5753 Před měsícem

      I got called transphobic and I'm a tranny transformer lol

    • @RhumpleOriginal
      @RhumpleOriginal Před měsícem

      They get badges because most of them need an incentive to continue the farce.

  • @gentlesavage2068
    @gentlesavage2068 Před měsícem +240

    This is such a manipulative tactic to use against someone. This is like an incel or fake nice guy trying to guilt trip a woman into having sex with him.

    • @twentysecondcenturywoman
      @twentysecondcenturywoman Před měsícem +37

      It’s the same dudes! That’s why!

    • @MusicForMyDemons
      @MusicForMyDemons Před měsícem +9

      100%

    • @signorasforza354
      @signorasforza354 Před měsícem +24

      Same dudes in masquerade.

    • @robertwoods3871
      @robertwoods3871 Před měsícem +12

      "They're the same picture"

    • @Ilivedbih
      @Ilivedbih Před měsícem

      THAT'S literally it, what I've been saying. And majority of trans people do not even want to date trans people, they say that we have "internal transphobia" then lmao.
      Like no, you're just a r--ist through emotional manipulation. Or just really dumb.

  • @allenpoe17
    @allenpoe17 Před měsícem +153

    Being a victim is one of the most addictive drugs.

    • @kizylle5204
      @kizylle5204 Před měsícem +1

      If you use social media at a young age you will most likely develop narcissistic traits. Which sucks because narcissists are already the cause of the majority of evil in the modern world (imo but it's not hard to see the overlap) and it's only gonna get worse. Not to mention npd does genuinely give you a paper thin ego and not everyone with it is able to recognize that what they're doing is wrong and manipulative, and some people do genuinely get hurt over any sort of adversity whatsoever.
      This is really scary and I wish it was more mainstream knowledge.

  • @axelthunderpaw7013
    @axelthunderpaw7013 Před měsícem +112

    If you have so many rules and guidelines on how you need to be interacted with, then it just becomes easier to not interact with your group.

    • @kizylle5204
      @kizylle5204 Před měsícem +15

      the ones who make the rules want them to get broken then use people breaking said rules as proof for why that rule needs to exist in the first place

    • @MargaretBurmingham-qm5dx
      @MargaretBurmingham-qm5dx Před 26 dny

      @axelthunderpaw7013 it sucks because so many trans people I know are really kind, great people. The idea that ppl associate them with these lunatics is disturbing 😭

  • @beartube1984
    @beartube1984 Před měsícem +60

    Infertility?! YES! There are couples who break up over that issue!

    • @noonyabeezniss4911
      @noonyabeezniss4911 Před měsícem +6

      It's a huge plus to me, imagine never having to worry about mistakes or being smart
      Never having to worry about your resources being siphoned off by the little goblins
      it's perfect, and adoption exists,plenty of poor kids out there with nobody

    • @braedenmclean5304
      @braedenmclean5304 Před měsícem +2

      @@noonyabeezniss4911and I think a lot of those kids exist in the first place because of that mentality “imagine not having to be smart”

    • @noonyabeezniss4911
      @noonyabeezniss4911 Před měsícem +3

      @@braedenmclean5304 well i dont
      hence why its so great to me
      29 and still no kids with this mentality, as its all about context
      im not rawdoggin unless shes as barren as Mars, being smart isnt fun, having kids is less fun

    • @nineteenfortyeight6762
      @nineteenfortyeight6762 Před měsícem

      They 100% DO bring the same energy.

    • @noonyabeezniss4911
      @noonyabeezniss4911 Před 25 dny

      @siren-rs8mu note how i said "barren as mars" m8 not infertile
      im talking about the impossibility of creating life, then im going wild

  • @EdgarFriendlysCivicsTeacher
    @EdgarFriendlysCivicsTeacher Před měsícem +94

    Well fuck, if I'm transphobic either way, I'll save myself the hassle.

    • @kingwolf9447
      @kingwolf9447 Před měsícem

      Transphobic by default, means their word slander holds no power

  • @thetruesimplegrid
    @thetruesimplegrid Před měsícem +118

    1. Some people need to learn that not everyone is attracted to transgender people.
    2. People need to stop conflating being comfortable and safety.
    3. Touch grass and get into relationships with good individuals.

    • @TT09B5
      @TT09B5 Před měsícem

      The touch grass thing needs to go away. "good individuals" no such thing any more. All I see is either camp bible thump/earths flat or woke 1000 genders both sides suck and believe inin magic.

    • @WeWillAlwaysHaveVALIS
      @WeWillAlwaysHaveVALIS Před měsícem

      They're not conflagrating anything, it's worse than that. They've convinced themselves collectively they are actively being killed in the streets.
      That and the definition of violence within the critical thinking lense that they've been taught literally includes disagreeing with someone, as long as they're more "marginalised", so if course us great white monsters can only ever be the aggressors and never the aggrieved.

    • @kingwolf9447
      @kingwolf9447 Před měsícem

      It's because they think there is 0 difference between a Trans Woman and normal Women.
      They ignore reality, it's delusion

  • @gagewesterhouse9558
    @gagewesterhouse9558 Před měsícem +98

    On a year, they'll be calling me 'transphobic' for not dating trans women even though I'm married.

    • @ingridwolfe7016
      @ingridwolfe7016 Před měsícem +10

      Because you didn’t give them a chance! (Promise it’s sarcasm but also fearfully agreeing with you about the possible future)

    • @Pear1sb4sw1ne
      @Pear1sb4sw1ne Před měsícem +4

      Considering these are a lot of the same people who try to normalize "open marriages" or "open relationships", you may be onto something. Maybe in a few years time you'll be prejudiced for not wanting to sleep with someone other than your spouse.

    • @Bakesuta
      @Bakesuta Před měsícem

      Marriage is a promise of monogamy in the modern era. So... Is this really a good idea? Because marrying multiple people at a time really messed up your legal identity so clearly it wasn't made for that.

    • @NiaLaLa_V
      @NiaLaLa_V Před měsícem

      Oh they already hate you. How dare you not be poly for them.

  • @JujuInFlames
    @JujuInFlames Před měsícem +13

    I love when people say “if you don’t date trans.. that’s transphobic” like that’s supposed to change our minds

  • @cptbob100
    @cptbob100 Před měsícem +57

    You can't win. You're not supposed to win! You're supposed to grovel with shame and guilt at how bad you are.

    • @Bakesuta
      @Bakesuta Před měsícem +2

      Yup. Victim mentality is BULLLL

  • @Lloyd-Franklin
    @Lloyd-Franklin Před měsícem +123

    I'm not cis anything.

    • @WatermelonQueen541
      @WatermelonQueen541 Před měsícem

      💯 "Cis" was coined by perdopiles, you know. That itself, makes it a slur. 👿

    • @WatermelonQueen541
      @WatermelonQueen541 Před měsícem

      Pedophiles came up with the term, you know. That in itself, makes "cis" a slur. 👿

    • @lunsine
      @lunsine Před měsícem

      then what are you

    • @clankfish
      @clankfish Před měsícem +7

      @@lunsine normal

    • @lunsine
      @lunsine Před měsícem +1

      @@clankfish cisgender = identifying with what you are biologically, that literally IS normal, meaning if you are biologically a male and you identify as one your cis, thats just the term

  • @Lochlann13
    @Lochlann13 Před měsícem +7

    It's never been about "equality" or "rights"; it's _always_ been about control.

  • @joncooper3188
    @joncooper3188 Před měsícem +30

    I am a man that has never had a desire to date another man.
    And I am not ashamed of saying that.

  • @mohshuvuu9076
    @mohshuvuu9076 Před měsícem +77

    "snow roaches"
    Damn I i can hear the rage fumes emitting from her mouth

    • @johnkinsey6117
      @johnkinsey6117 Před měsícem

      iirc, it has a happy ending. So that lovely lady was responding to a tik tac of a Latina (won't lie, she's a little white, but that alright) woman saying how she loves black men.
      At the end of lovely lady's reaction vid, she says, "stay tuned for part 2"....
      The next video was her crying because the Latina queen called her out on her shit and said "Porch Monkeys."

    • @BlueDingo555
      @BlueDingo555 Před měsícem +18

      My favorite is “Cornstarch Crusader”. I have no idea what that is,but I find it hilarious!

    • @survivorofthecurse717
      @survivorofthecurse717 Před měsícem +9

      ​@BlueDingo555 If someone said that in even a slightly funny tone, I'd just start laughing. Hating but funny is top tier

    • @billmelater6470
      @billmelater6470 Před měsícem +12

      @@BlueDingo555Oh, that's a new favorite! I thought Mayo Monster was the best but now I'm not so sure.

    • @martabachynsky8545
      @martabachynsky8545 Před měsícem +9

      @@survivorofthecurse717 I just _read_ it, and burst out laughing. Cornstarch Crusader sounds like a B-level children's cartoon hero on the Food Network.

  • @warpedreflection3650
    @warpedreflection3650 Před měsícem +40

    I like how she's ignoring a lot of trans people won't date another trans person either. I'm guessing going by what she's saying about straight men. Those transpeople are also transphobic.
    There's also transpeople that won't date non-transpeople are they cisphobic or is it okay for those transpeople to have preferences but not everyone else?

    • @kingwolf9447
      @kingwolf9447 Před měsícem +1

      Yes, it's ok for the protected group to have special treatment while another is demonized. That's the very basis of this delusion

    • @strangerbythesec
      @strangerbythesec Před 29 dny

      This. Personally, i can't wrap my head around T4T couples. I would be mentally weirded out dating someone who also has sex dysphoria and transitioned like me.

  • @Bethrenjakura
    @Bethrenjakura Před měsícem +71

    But trans women aren't women. They are previous men that identify as women.
    When you identify as something it doesn't mean that you are that something.

    • @rosameryrojas-delcerro1059
      @rosameryrojas-delcerro1059 Před měsícem +8

      Yeah, I can identify as a 747 and it doesn't mean its anything but my imagination that can, or ever could fly.

    • @garuelx8627
      @garuelx8627 Před měsícem +8

      I can't believe the world is going through this arc that Mr. Garrison from South Park wrapped up long ago.

    • @Bethrenjakura
      @Bethrenjakura Před měsícem +1

      @@garuelx8627 🤣🤣🤣

    • @500shades6
      @500shades6 Před měsícem

      When it involves socially made identities, that's exactly how it works. Gender is an identity. If you identify as a socially constructed category, you are in that category. If I identify as a sports fan, I am a sports fan.

    • @jasone4263
      @jasone4263 Před měsícem

      ⁠@@500shades6Ummm that’s not how that works. Man & woman are not “identities” that we can arbitrarily choose! We are not self-created beings, and there is no right or wrong way to be a man or woman! You just are what you are!

  • @DiskoRox
    @DiskoRox Před měsícem +6

    Everyday i’m embarrassed to be trans…Everybody thinks i’m associated with the most annoying people

  • @spaceracer23
    @spaceracer23 Před měsícem +18

    I'm glad she said it.
    Her opening her mouth and exposing her stupidity is the ultimate red flag.

  • @theopeneyes
    @theopeneyes Před měsícem +12

    "your preferences could be from trauma, racism"
    I had no idea my gay exclusive interest in the male body was a result of racist trauma, brb calling my therapist.

    • @kingwolf9447
      @kingwolf9447 Před měsícem +2

      Heaven forbid people just like other people for reasons other than sex or trauma.
      It's almost as if humans are social creatures who like partnerships

  • @SiggyF23
    @SiggyF23 Před měsícem +61

    Just put me down in the “transphobic” category. I literally cannot say or do anything that will NOT be interpreted as transphobic. I’ll just roll with it.
    Since this is a no win situation, I will just opt for the “get them help, or get rid of them” side.

    • @kingwolf9447
      @kingwolf9447 Před měsícem +1

      I mean hey, some of us are practically transphobic by default
      I'm white, male, Christian, heterosexual, and conservative leaning, I hit all the boxes for phobics and isms just by existing, nothing their words can do to me

    • @spadinnerxylaphone2622
      @spadinnerxylaphone2622 Před 17 dny

      Taking that side is just playing into the extremists' game though. Most Trans people I know IRL aren't the screeching harpies you see online, thats a minority. My siblings identify as Trans and I love them very much and I don't want them excluded from society.
      But I agree with Deon that I'm not bending over backwards over it.

  • @BigIndividual
    @BigIndividual Před měsícem +42

    Hello
    A strange game.
    The only winning move is not to play.

    • @Juggernogger64
      @Juggernogger64 Před měsícem +5

      W reference 🗿

    • @-Gax-
      @-Gax- Před měsícem +3

      "How many genders are there"
      "I dunno, I just got here"

    • @erueka6
      @erueka6 Před měsícem

      Lots of us said that years ago and we were fd around and demonized by the creeps and sheeps look at the results too late.

  • @theopeneyes
    @theopeneyes Před měsícem +7

    I think that woman at the beginning didn't realise she basically said "you're not actually gay you're just traumatised", which is...wow what a thing to say to a oppressed minority.

  • @kelanar1
    @kelanar1 Před měsícem +34

    The levels of butthurtness these people go to is most impressive

  • @starlightkynthos
    @starlightkynthos Před měsícem +42

    For the first woman, what about Ace people? People that feel uncomfortable with physical interactions, like autistic spectrum people? Is that still being phobic if, along side with everyone, they deny going out with the T?

    • @MyAramil
      @MyAramil Před měsícem +14

      Its hard as hell for most people to accept they exist and do not think about sex every moment of their lives. to them everyone has to idolize them, praise them, worship them, and be mindless slaves to their attention

    • @gekirobo8720
      @gekirobo8720 Před měsícem +6

      ​@MyAramil to me, that just REEKS of insecurity rather than empowerment

    • @elodieridesagain3018
      @elodieridesagain3018 Před měsícem +7

      As an asexual, this. It's a micro aggression actually lol 😂

    • @chrisrussell8245
      @chrisrussell8245 Před měsícem

      I'm a sponge. I reproduce by budding.

    • @kingwolf9447
      @kingwolf9447 Před měsícem +6

      I know what's occuring, our society is so sexual and perverse, that when someone is ace, and doesn't fit the mold of society, they don't like it.

  • @Mooshkajoe
    @Mooshkajoe Před měsícem +51

    "Keep that same energy for women who are infertile"
    I do.
    Now what?

    • @TaylorUmongusHas
      @TaylorUmongusHas Před měsícem +14

      Then they'll probably be like "WOMEN AREN'T YOUR BABY MAKING MACHINES!"

    • @Mooshkajoe
      @Mooshkajoe Před měsícem +14

      @@TaylorUmongusHas
      Gotta keep those goalposts moving.

    • @WakandaleezaRazz
      @WakandaleezaRazz Před měsícem +9

      “Keep that same energy” nah, yall aren’t the same gender.

    • @Iudd_
      @Iudd_ Před měsícem +4

      @@TaylorUmongusHas Or the "reducing people to their genitals"
      I've personally seen that line too many times

    • @TaylorUmongusHas
      @TaylorUmongusHas Před měsícem

      @@Iudd_ Ikr? It seems they just want everyone to be bisexual.

  • @cameronwest7042
    @cameronwest7042 Před měsícem +28

    I really felt that moment when leon said "you" and the camera focused on just his hand 😂😂😂😂

  • @snowbunny783
    @snowbunny783 Před měsícem +15

    The my body my choice argument for the win.

    • @kingwolf9447
      @kingwolf9447 Před měsícem

      Turn the logic back on them, they can't handle it and crumble. Cannot compute

  • @OneFingerYT
    @OneFingerYT Před měsícem +3

    It's not fear, it's disgust.

  • @benadams3569
    @benadams3569 Před měsícem +11

    No, preferences are not "rooted" in anything other than IT'S WHAT WE FUCKING LIKE!

    • @catandrobbyflores
      @catandrobbyflores Před měsícem

      These are the people that screamed respect our preferences but when the normal people try to do it, they go shocked pikachu face

  • @plastikloser
    @plastikloser Před měsícem +25

    Ya, i dont live in someone elses head cannon

  • @internetzenmaster8952
    @internetzenmaster8952 Před měsícem +25

    3:07 "However, I honestly cannot think of any besides fetishization" That sounds more like projection to me than anything else. People get into relationships for reasons far beyond just 'oh, I want to repeatedly do the horizontal tango with this person!' Maybe the concept of not having rampant pre-marital sex is a dated concept these days, but for God's sake *_NOT EVERYTHING HAS TO BE ABOUT SEX PEOPLE._*
    I blame hookup culture for replacing love with lust when it comes to dating.

    • @catandrobbyflores
      @catandrobbyflores Před měsícem +4

      These people are all: they looked at each other, now kiss!

    • @sarasunshinemt4444
      @sarasunshinemt4444 Před měsícem +2

      Yup. We can't even have close friendships anymore without sex rearing it's head.
      It's so weird; ever since the sexual revolution, we've lost intimacy and replaced it with rampant sexual promiscuity.
      We used to have intimate friends, in that we were close, had complete trust, etc all without the sex.
      Now EVERYTHING seems to be about sex.

    • @kingwolf9447
      @kingwolf9447 Před měsícem +3

      Our society is immoral, perverse, and sexual in nature
      Hmm, maybe all those religions talking about avoiding adultery and perverse actions before marriage had a point

  • @squidy6785
    @squidy6785 Před měsícem +3

    That's like me telling a gay man, "You're hetero-phobic for not wanting a woman".

  • @MisterNightfish
    @MisterNightfish Před měsícem +5

    The sooner everyone realises that it is completely pointless to try and appease these activist types, the better.

  • @WarGhoulKharas
    @WarGhoulKharas Před měsícem +14

    They just like calling people names because it gives them power and a way to project their own unfathomable depths of insecurity onto others.

    • @kingwolf9447
      @kingwolf9447 Před měsícem

      I am transphobic by default, their words hold no power

  • @DarthPerkins
    @DarthPerkins Před měsícem +4

    "yOuRE rAcist!"
    "I'm not racist"
    "EXACTLY wHaT a RacIsT wOuLD sAY!'
    It really is a no win situation with everything.

  • @danteshollowedgrounds
    @danteshollowedgrounds Před měsícem +39

    I'm laughing, I'm cringing, bruh help me.

  • @PrinnyLord
    @PrinnyLord Před měsícem +16

    The only way to win is to NOT play the game.

  • @AzraelLevith
    @AzraelLevith Před měsícem +20

    So, feelings don't count again. Wow, sounds like we are back in the dark ages and are being told whom we are to marry.

    • @leileyaravencroft
      @leileyaravencroft Před měsícem +1

      You mean they aren't? Because that's what it sounds like to me. Next up, they'll tell us women can't vote.

    • @doesthisIookinfected
      @doesthisIookinfected Před měsícem +2

      When you are so liberal that you end up being conservative in a way

  • @KodokuProjects
    @KodokuProjects Před měsícem +27

    Yeah I’m about to just start blocking people in real life

    • @Bakesuta
      @Bakesuta Před měsícem

      I been doing it for years lol

  • @natasha83196
    @natasha83196 Před měsícem +9

    I went to college with people like this. At our 30th reunion this year, they are still single, and very miserable as they watched others find love, get married, and have children, while the sat back and judged their choices. SMH

    • @amiraa_...
      @amiraa_... Před měsícem

      Feel sorry for you. Glad ur out of there

    • @Mr.YasQueen
      @Mr.YasQueen Před 20 dny

      I mean statistically the people who are most likely to be single are your average hetero men, that's what's actually sad. Even a deranged woman can find someone.

  • @weswolever7477
    @weswolever7477 Před měsícem +6

    I think that if someone successfully jumped through all of their hoops, they would just come up with more smaller hoops

  • @1jotun136
    @1jotun136 Před měsícem +10

    "you can't win, you can't break even, and you can't get out of the game..."

    • @yelsahblah3270
      @yelsahblah3270 Před měsícem +2

      Boy, those lyrics are heart-breakingly relevant today

    • @1jotun136
      @1jotun136 Před měsícem

      @@yelsahblah3270 czcams.com/video/StvT2BmXR9U/video.htmlsi=k_8i2Bt7PgNGNScv

  • @michaeladdy9878
    @michaeladdy9878 Před měsícem +8

    I would love to ask these same people if they themselves would date a trans woman or trans man, watch them completely move the goalposts

  • @GrapeApe2018
    @GrapeApe2018 Před měsícem +3

    The saying used to be "Some people aren't happy unless they make someone else miserable" Now the saying is "Most people aren't happy unless they make everyone miserable"

  • @pir8prod
    @pir8prod Před měsícem +3

    I'm super straight. I'm not afaid of people who aren't attractive.

  • @tek512
    @tek512 Před měsícem +9

    Schrodinger's transphobia

  • @Tatenak
    @Tatenak Před měsícem +21

    Phobia is a suffix for fear. Pretty sure that some insane people have co-opted and conflated that with hate. What fuels ones ambition determines ones intent. None of us can outrightly say for certain their decision was based in fear, unless they've said so or have shown it.

    • @carriebecker8383
      @carriebecker8383 Před měsícem +5

      Not siding with the tiktok trans warriors, they're wrong and always will be. But phobia is also just used as a suffix meaning repulsion, not necessarily having to do with fear. Like if a surface is described as "hydrophobic" that doesn't mean people think an inanimate object is actually afraid of water, it just means it physically repels water.
      Language evolves, and it that sense I don't think it's incorrect to describe hatred of trans people as transphobia.

    • @Tatenak
      @Tatenak Před měsícem +1

      @@carriebecker8383 Oh yeah! And let's keep it 💯, language isn't exactly their strong suit. For them, it's just a means to generalise negative connotations anywhere they want and anyway they feel they can.

    • @chrisrussell8245
      @chrisrussell8245 Před měsícem +1

      Man, I don't know why people get so bent out of shape over the "phobic" part. Some of these meffers are scary AF

    • @mjbull5156
      @mjbull5156 Před měsícem

      ​@carriebecker8383 The use of "phobic" implies an irrational reaction which can be dismissed out of hand. It is a strawman and an ad hominem attack rolled up into one word.

  • @PTRAINBOY
    @PTRAINBOY Před měsícem +20

    Im unbothered being called transphobic..

    • @stellarthealiendeer
      @stellarthealiendeer Před měsícem +3

      Same

    • @TVTIME-be8ze
      @TVTIME-be8ze Před měsícem

      If it’s not going to curse us, then we should not worry

    • @davidhowell1415
      @davidhowell1415 Před měsícem

      I wear my transphobia badge with the same level of pride as they do in June with all the badges they have

    • @kingwolf9447
      @kingwolf9447 Před měsícem

      I'm transphobic by default, their words hold no power

  • @Grumpy12
    @Grumpy12 Před měsícem +11

    NoThanks i'll keep my transmission in my car 😏

  • @angelalay9909
    @angelalay9909 Před měsícem +4

    I'm not cis anything. I'm a woman of God, a wife, & a mother, & I'm comfortable living in reality.

  • @AHersheyHere
    @AHersheyHere Před měsícem +2

    "If you are only dating for procreation. Bring that same energy for unfertile women."
    For people seeking to have a family, they already do.

  • @kylealmorabi4273
    @kylealmorabi4273 Před měsícem +4

    These people are so weird.... What's happening to us?

  • @johannderjager4146
    @johannderjager4146 Před měsícem +33

    I can be friends with them, I'm friends with one rn named Atlantis. She's really cool and fun to be around and unlike these insufferable narcissists, she doesn't care if you "misgender" her and definitely doesn't make a big deal about the fact she's trans.
    I could never date one, though, I'm 100% straight.
    Of course, they'll still claim I'm transphobic, and I don't care because they're wrong.

    • @mena10ss
      @mena10ss Před měsícem

      He's still a guy, and that needs to be explained to him. Trans people just can't fathom the idea that they live in the modern world and they are free to express themselves/act however masculine or feminine they want, so long as they recognize what their biological sex is. I have a male friend who is feminine and dresses in women's clothes, but unlike these lunatics, he recognizes that he still biologically bound as a male. That is the healthiest way a "trans" can live without dragging themselves and everyone around them into madness.

    • @Iudd_
      @Iudd_ Před měsícem +5

      Fun fact (Or maybe not fun more like interesting)
      Only around 5% of straight men would date a trans woman, so I'd definitely say it falls somewhere on the homosexual scale, not gay and maybe not completely bisexual but not completely straight either.

    • @BloodrealmX
      @BloodrealmX Před měsícem +1

      @@mena10ss Trans and crossdressing aren't the same thing. You can crossdress and still be perfectly comfortable with being a guy.

  • @masumi158
    @masumi158 Před měsícem +5

    It's called SEXUAL preference, it's SEXUAL intercourse. NOT gender preference or intercourse. Case closed 👩🏼‍⚖️

  • @lyingcat9022
    @lyingcat9022 Před měsícem +2

    T for T is basically heterosexual with extra steps.

  • @ambercarter9746
    @ambercarter9746 Před měsícem +1

    NOBODY WANTS TO DATE SOMEONE SO CONFUSED THEY DONT KNOW WHAT THE HELL THEY ARE!

  • @disposablecowboy
    @disposablecowboy Před měsícem +41

    Guys, I’m out and proud of my transphobia.

    • @volklupo5133
      @volklupo5133 Před měsícem +2

      Here here!!!!🍻🍻🍻🍻

    • @Iudd_
      @Iudd_ Před měsícem +1

      Welp it's time to make a flag just like the abc community has flags for every single combination of sexuality, any ideas guys?

    • @survivorofthecurse717
      @survivorofthecurse717 Před měsícem +1

      ​@@Iudd_We already have the good old Star Spangled Banner. For better or for worse

    • @jessicanolan7408
      @jessicanolan7408 Před měsícem +1

      Me too. It’s quite a shame because I used to be super accepting and tolerant of them until this insane angry mob ruined it. And I think a lot of people feel the same way

    • @kingwolf9447
      @kingwolf9447 Před měsícem

      Amen brother.
      I put my faith in God, I used to be very tolerant of these people before they started being aggressive to others over the same personal preferences they have the right to have.

  • @GameJam230
    @GameJam230 Před měsícem +7

    Fine then, I simply won't acknowledge their existence.

  • @nickvoelker7180
    @nickvoelker7180 Před měsícem +2

    When your entire identity is based on being a victim, you'll find a way to be a victim in every situation...despite logic.

    • @kingwolf9447
      @kingwolf9447 Před měsícem +1

      Ah delusional understandings of reality

  • @RoseKindred
    @RoseKindred Před měsícem +56

    Man, I'm lonely and even I don't have takes like this. Some people just wanna stir the pot because they are bored. Like cats, only worse cause no one likes them.

  • @sardonically-inclined7645
    @sardonically-inclined7645 Před měsícem +11

    There is no sense to be made from this. Only jokes.

  • @pageachatter229
    @pageachatter229 Před měsícem +3

    This is an excellent example of why I always say that trying to cater to the woke mob is nothing more than a gigantic waste of time. No matter how hard you try, no matter what you do, it will never be enough.

  • @ashleybrooke2087
    @ashleybrooke2087 Před měsícem +1

    As a gay woman, I have had other gay women accuse me of fetishizing bisexual women because I didn't only date just gay women. They're just looking for an issue to have as if there isn't enough in the world to be legitimately bothered about.

  • @N0EL-7007
    @N0EL-7007 Před měsícem +2

    Snow roaches?? Okay adding to the list.. 🤦🏼‍♀️

  • @smokeslayer420
    @smokeslayer420 Před měsícem +3

    I'm transgender... if a man isn't interested in me is all good. Being attracted or not attracted to someone for any reason is valid (as long as boundaries and laws are followed)

  • @joeroganreviewexperience9964
    @joeroganreviewexperience9964 Před měsícem +11

    Wasting your time with these fools ,u should use your time for better purposes, they are lost .

  • @satyricon65
    @satyricon65 Před měsícem +1

    All roads lead to narcissism.

  • @machellovelivelife658
    @machellovelivelife658 Před měsícem +1

    Whenever I hear the word “rooted in”, I immediately stop taking the person who says it seriously….dont even wait to see if I actually agree with them

  • @user-gy2zj9zk2p
    @user-gy2zj9zk2p Před měsícem +24

    I am starting to wonder if it is possible to be society phobic. The more modern we become the more i think a hermit is the only sane person left.

    • @MyAramil
      @MyAramil Před měsícem +4

      If I was given a plot of land deep, deep in the woods. I would go there in a heart beat.

    • @77Creation
      @77Creation Před měsícem

      Misanthropy.

    • @survivorofthecurse717
      @survivorofthecurse717 Před měsícem

      ​@@77CreationBeat me to the punch

  • @shay1487
    @shay1487 Před měsícem +15

    As a trans woman , i would never understand those people who speak on behalf of trans women. i dont need everyone to like me or everyone to date with me, what matters to me and what people should focus on, no matter what you are, is to focus on the people who are interested in you. That's all lol there is plenty of men out there who would date a trans woman soooo i dont understand why people are so offended that a man would choose not to date one. I'am a trans woman myself and i would never date a trans Man, it doesnt make me transphobic xD that would be hilarious.

    • @Bash70
      @Bash70 Před měsícem +2

      The thing is some would label you as a "transphobic traitor". Some others perform mental gymnastics to rationalize this double standard for themselves while holding cis-people to another standard. It's so exhaustingly hypocritical.

    • @grimi595
      @grimi595 Před měsícem

      I'm so happy reasonable people like you still exist. I am bisexual and I completely refuse to stand under this rainbow flag. Because this community doesn't want peace, they want a war with straight people where they can put themselves into a victim position. They are harassing people into their unlogical beliefs.

  • @Nobody-vr5nl
    @Nobody-vr5nl Před měsícem +2

    So by these rules, i have the right to every person im attracted to. That's definitely not a scary mindset to have.

  • @LexTime89
    @LexTime89 Před měsícem +2

    Here’s the thing about “keeping the same energy with women who are infertile.” If someone wants children and they go on a date with someone who KNOWS they are infertile, then yeah, I imagine they are unlikely to pursue a long term relationship with that person. But most people don’t know they are infertile until they are already trying to get pregnant. There’s a difference between being in an established relationship and hitting a bump in the road versus knowing right from the start.

  • @sun_wukong1984
    @sun_wukong1984 Před měsícem +3

    They can only speak for themselves and not the others, they are unhappy with their lives and it shows by the way they talk

  • @davinadavina1331
    @davinadavina1331 Před měsícem +5

    im trans i dont date other trans. so im transphobic too

  • @KorokHaze93
    @KorokHaze93 Před měsícem +1

    As we all know if a man has a preference its not "his choice" but his problem.

  • @Mr.EintheMorning
    @Mr.EintheMorning Před měsícem +1

    Mirabelle: I will never...be good enough for you. Will I?

  • @acemarvel1564
    @acemarvel1564 Před měsícem +5

    Wow
    Has the dating world always been this horrible?

    • @kingwolf9447
      @kingwolf9447 Před měsícem

      No, actually.
      It was a hell of a lot better before the sexual revolution

    • @Mr.YasQueen
      @Mr.YasQueen Před 20 dny

      @@kingwolf9447 Isn't it funny how after the sexual revolution the only people benefiting from sex is the average women and only the top percentage of guys, leaving over 80% of men single. It's almost the exact same as cavemen times, where only the top got the most mates leaving the rest with little to nothing.

  • @Castle_gaming22
    @Castle_gaming22 Před měsícem +9

    I confused big time

  • @wellsyaknow
    @wellsyaknow Před měsícem +1

    Like how the numbers aren't on their sides...when these people make their arguments...the numbers are crazy low

  • @BBRocker75
    @BBRocker75 Před měsícem +1

    I only like people in disguises ONCE: every HALLOWEEN. Out of that day is just creepy..

  • @LunilWormwood
    @LunilWormwood Před měsícem +4

    This month is my and my husband's 9 year anniversary and next month is our daughter's first birthday 🥰
    And yes there are men out there who will not date infertile women. Sure it sucks for the women but nobody is entitled to a date.

  • @tapuchris-cb9jy
    @tapuchris-cb9jy Před měsícem +18

    While I respect transpeople, sometimes what they say gives me a headache.

    • @erueka6
      @erueka6 Před měsícem

      How about don't it's stupid and wrong.

    • @tapuchris-cb9jy
      @tapuchris-cb9jy Před měsícem

      @@erueka6 Not all transpeople are bad. it's the minority that are bad.

    • @kingwolf9447
      @kingwolf9447 Před měsícem

      I used to be very tolerant of Trans people as a Christian, until they started attacking others like this.
      They keep making a fool of themselves

  • @OfTheSeaKND
    @OfTheSeaKND Před měsícem +2

    “Why don’t you want to date us?! That’s transphobic”!”
    “HOW DARE YOU DATE US YOU TRANSPHOBE!!”
    Umm….

    • @lman2047
      @lman2047 Před měsícem

      I just laugh at them. Behind their backs, to their faces, it doesn't matter. Because mainly why should I take someone with negative IQ seriously?

  • @kingwolf9447
    @kingwolf9447 Před měsícem +1

    Im transphobic for existing, so im not certain what power they have labeling people Transphobic over the smallest things

  • @michaelglynn7010
    @michaelglynn7010 Před měsícem +6

    So this is why we shouldn’t pander to professional complainers on anything, if you give them what they want they’ll just move the goalposts and complain again.
    People like that no matter who/what they are I’m suggesting we stop listening to. Oh but I’m sure their lives in the cushy 1st world being trans is a lot harder than people who have to live in piles of rubble with sheet metal for roofs, yet those people are probably happier than these lot.

  • @missourimongoose8858
    @missourimongoose8858 Před měsícem +8

    My ex girlfriend tryed telling me this garbage so when we went to bed that night i put it right in her backdoor.......she was pissed and i told her she had no right to be because according to her thats all the same thing lol

  • @UnderstandingDarkness
    @UnderstandingDarkness Před měsícem +1

    People making problems out of thin air.

  • @jonugent42
    @jonugent42 Před měsícem +1

    The fact that people have confused fetishs with attraction is crazy