Understanding A Virgo Man's Love ❤️

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  • čas přidán 6. 11. 2022
  • This video explains how to understand a Virgo man's love and behaviors.
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Komentáře • 68

  • @lilllikowalski8842
    @lilllikowalski8842 Před rokem +27

    This kind of short videos are better than the long ones. 10 minutes on point!

  • @MIMIDSH
    @MIMIDSH Před rokem +28

    Well, I definitely check all the boxes that a Virgo needs in a woman. It's been a long long (slow!) dating period and he's just now starting to let down his guard. When we met, he insisted he did not want any relationship, and I respected that. And we kept seeing each other, no pressure, no expectations, plenty of space, enjoying each other's company. I proved to him that I respect his space and never pushed. It's been wonderful. I just realized he hasn't gotten to know the other side of me- the serious, hard-working, calm me. I'm usually very happy and playful with him, which he said he loves. I can feel things are changing because he's opening up a lot more. But it's two steps forward, one step back. Also, I've been modeling/mirroring. I model the open, loving behavior to him, then dial down a bit to mirror his level.

    • @BlkOnyx0508
      @BlkOnyx0508 Před rokem +12

      oh my, the mental gymnastics of it all

    • @MIMIDSH
      @MIMIDSH Před rokem +9

      @@BlkOnyx0508 Yes I agree-- it can be tiresome and at times I question whether the "prize" is even worth the effort (will I even win the prize?? lol) though he's a fascinating human being and I love having him in my life. Right now, I'm ok with this because I recently lost my spouse, so am not looking to get too deep in, too fast. Meanwhile, I'm evolving into a calmer, more understanding, loving person. Him being who he is has got me working on myself in so many ways (not that I'd tell him!). I firmly believe the right man will come into my life at the right time (him or someone else), so being at peace with who he is is a nice place to be.

    • @Its_Mechele
      @Its_Mechele Před rokem +4

      I relate to this so much. It’s been 5 years and we are finally there. He calls me and lets me in like never before now. I’m loving where we are now.

    • @kathleenmcconnell2384
      @kathleenmcconnell2384 Před rokem +4

      @@MIMIDSH I am with you 100%. I’ve been dating a Virgo man since last year and it has been a slow build. Before me he was engaged and broke it off due to the lady not treating him right. So he is SUPER veting me. But since last year he has let his guard down a whole lot. I know a couple close friends that have Virgo husbands…they understand the slow build we are going through. They suggested to hold on because it is worth it. Virgos love with all of their being and when they commit to u it’s 100% solid. So girl I feel your pain but you will see the progression, Virgos just want to make sure you’re the right one. And since you are still in the picture that’s a great sign. They don’t like to waste ANY time.

    • @debsmith2789
      @debsmith2789 Před rokem +4

      If you wanted a relationship, why did you stay? Many of them are seeing other intimately as you are patiently waiting. If you are seeking commitment, keep seeing others.

  • @nataliegreen960
    @nataliegreen960 Před rokem +3

    On point as aways Bro 🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @Askandyoushallreceive

    Great video short yet very informative. I thank you very much.🙏

  • @mrs.haynes4636
    @mrs.haynes4636 Před rokem +6

    These videos help a lot

  • @STME2003
    @STME2003 Před rokem

    Enjoying the new format J!

  • @Tionaintown876
    @Tionaintown876 Před rokem +3

    Thank you for your wisdom ❤❤

  • @Stop-loss-BoSS
    @Stop-loss-BoSS Před rokem +4

    We are fighting a battle in our own heads. Yes. I love the calm. nothing BETTER. automatic love when the woman is callllllllm. And if you say you will do something DO IT!! We do!!

  • @debsmith2789
    @debsmith2789 Před rokem +2

    Quality women are good friends who want the same in return from a quality man. He must be living, giving , and supportive.

  • @NathanAklilu
    @NathanAklilu Před rokem +7

    Those are great points but I never hear you talk about virgos deep need for trust, sacredness and loyalty

  • @lilliestrauder259
    @lilliestrauder259 Před rokem

    Thank you kindly 💯

  • @MelancholyMars_
    @MelancholyMars_ Před rokem +12

    These videos are single handedly getting me through my Virgo situation I like him ,he rushed into it ,I mirrored the interest level , he backed off, now he’s seeing someone else,we’re just friends but my gut says he’s trying to build a foundation and we speak more regularly now as friends but checks every story of mine and before he didn’t lol

    • @TeganM.C.
      @TeganM.C. Před rokem +13

      Get out now, please. Just run. I'm not against Virgo men at all as they are good people such as Mr. Whitfield but I've been through this before. If he wanted you, he'd be with you. Now unfortunately there is someone else in the picture and if he does decide that he wants to explore a relationship with you, that other person will still be in the background. I do not mean to project, but I've seen it time and time again. You could be placed into a love triangle and not even know it. Please protect your heart and do not get sucked into a mess. I have learned that if someone wants to be with you, then there won't be any need to wonder about their feelings. Take care sweetheart and please don't be offended by my comment.

    • @MelancholyMars_
      @MelancholyMars_ Před rokem +3

      @@TeganM.C. i appreciate you and I will take your advice and just not pursue anything with him, my gut doesn’t full trust him anyway. Wish they all could be as good as Mr Whitfield ! Thank you 🙏 you’re not projecting you’re looking out and I appreciate it

    • @TeganM.C.
      @TeganM.C. Před rokem +4

      @@MelancholyMars_ You're welcome my dear friend. I was broken down from my experience and it makes me sick when innocent people get hurt.

  • @dopecakezinc.779
    @dopecakezinc.779 Před rokem +1

    Hello .. Sumter SC checking in

  • @carmin0898
    @carmin0898 Před rokem +3

    3:07 We spent like a month talking and then we met, we do have a strong connection he even said “is not that easy to let us go” cuz we’ve been trying to be far away from each other. I’m a Virgo too so for me connection is important too and that’s what keep us going 🥺

    • @strawberryxoxo6841
      @strawberryxoxo6841 Před 6 měsíci

      I’ve ran away a few times and trying to keep distance from him but he doesn’t let it happen. He is so persistent and chases me so much.

  • @TeganM.C.
    @TeganM.C. Před rokem

    Hello Chaplain! I hope your job is going well and rewarding for you! 🙂

  • @cytinachavis9157
    @cytinachavis9157 Před rokem +5

    Y'all pray for me and my relationship with my Virgo. When J. describes relationships with Virgo it feels like he is describing how I am as a good woman for Virgos. But I'm being ghosted right now.

    • @vegan33
      @vegan33 Před rokem +1

      Be patient, Is not ghosting, Is recharge

    • @justsomeideas9594
      @justsomeideas9594 Před rokem

      @@vegan33 I was once married to a Virgo man and he was a handful and I swore to myself that I would never deal with another one. Never say never, I’m literally a Virgo man magnet. They can spot me from a mile away and they love me. It could be that I’m a Capricorn and understand the need to have time alone and peace. I had confident Virgo man approach me and we’ve been dating for several months. Yes, he requires alot of alone time, which I had to readjust to. He has actually been opening up to me about what he’s dealing with, so that means he trusts me and likes me😊Now I’m starting to get a better understanding of how the move.

    • @miadeathwish
      @miadeathwish Před 5 měsíci

      ​@@justsomeideas9594you almost got me! I read your words and went to go be nosey lol. 9/19 lol

  • @smoothflight3090
    @smoothflight3090 Před dnem

    Peace comes from the Most High GOD.

  • @sunnyctv7526
    @sunnyctv7526 Před rokem +1

    Mines doesn't give me a chance to ask him his opinion 😂😂😂he proudly voices it

  • @sorayasu6049
    @sorayasu6049 Před rokem +2

    Hi thanks for your video. I have a question please with my virgo we have been in a short relationship he said he loves me and want to marry me but he is distant at the same time. He is not making himself available and I feel he is not really into me. What should i do? walk away?

  • @donnaleopard8669
    @donnaleopard8669 Před 4 měsíci

    Just celebrated our 7 months long distance I’m Taurus I love my Virgo Taurus need their space to I have no problem we have a good relationship I understand him my mom a Virgo to

  • @tanyawhite8511
    @tanyawhite8511 Před rokem

    Me and my Virgo man have a 20 yr friendship and we started dating again we vibe we have deep conversations but he started needing space and im trying to be here for him and we been talking but hes still very hesitant how can I get him back to where we were. He does take his time and hes very slow moving now

  • @roselafrance970
    @roselafrance970 Před rokem +1

    Hello, I have a long distance relationship with a Virgo , live in Cali he live in Michigan, we been online dating for 6 months he ghost me from time to time. Me a cancer and older then him but I bring peace and understanding in his life. Because of the age gap I am not trying to marry him and told him he can live his life as he chooses and I mean that
    Our energy is awesome very strong I know we have a soul tie I believe he knows that to. My.Venus is in Virgo so have no problem getting him
    We are discussing him visiting me soon . I would like your feedback

  • @mrs.haynes4636
    @mrs.haynes4636 Před rokem

    Oh boy it's one we not dating but my phone stay busy I don't know if he's infatuated with me because he's completely opposite of me

  • @el3379
    @el3379 Před 5 měsíci

    Hi, one question, I and my Virgo man are together more and more often. he responds to almost everything I say on snapchat. asks what I'm going to do and the next dG he asks what I did yesterday. I also see that he often stares at me. I posted a quote on Snapchat: "I never fake care to anyone what I give from my heart" and he responded with a heart. If I deliberately don't post anything for a few days, he sends something again. He sometimes touches my leg while talking. and when he comes over with his friend, does he want my full attention, does he like me or not? He also is a little bit more open up about me about his family

  • @EyeAmMuur
    @EyeAmMuur Před 10 měsíci +1

    💃🏿💙💯🙏🏿ASHE' THX U PAZTOR, EYE JUZ FOUND MY ViRGO BROTHA AH WEEK AGO, HE'Z AH FINE 70'z VIRGO & I'M 67 CANCER MUUN CHILD, 🦋WE'RE BOTH WIDOWZ OF 4 YRZ EACH,💖 WE HAVE BOTH BEEN LONELY🥳👍EYE AM WIZE ENOUGH 2 HAVE SOUGHT OUT WIZE COUNSEL RE HIZ NEEDz & WANTZ, THAT WAZ JUZ ABOUT AH WEEK AGO, NOW WE'RE TALKING HOLi-MATRiMONY😊THX YU, WE'LL KEEP U UPDATED, 🙏🏿💯🦋🌹

  • @Mcki9292
    @Mcki9292 Před rokem +1

    I would love to talk to you about something personally I just went through with a Virgo do you have a hotline number 😅😅

  • @NinjaCakkey
    @NinjaCakkey Před rokem

    My Mars is in Virgo but going off your description, there is no way I could date a Virgo dominant man 😂 My Sagittarius stellium will not allow it.

  • @ladyt3759
    @ladyt3759 Před rokem +11

    Why do Virgo man lies a lot

    • @Drecalloway
      @Drecalloway Před rokem

      We all don’t lie I’m to honest

    • @ladyt3759
      @ladyt3759 Před rokem

      Yes I’m to honest too but the Virgo man that I’ve been talking for about 3 years lies a lot and he doesn’t know that I know he is lying

    • @Stop-loss-BoSS
      @Stop-loss-BoSS Před rokem +1

      @@ladyt3759 then tell him. Why you letting him lie if you “ know” that’s your problem

  • @jaceylongs7542
    @jaceylongs7542 Před rokem +2

    Oh and also the Virgo stare. Why do some Virgo men stare so hard? I would of chopped it as maybe they like to watch the women their into.. I can’t quite understand lol

  • @kaydee585
    @kaydee585 Před rokem +1

    It's been a while since I visited your channel! I just noticed that you have uploaded videos recently. I've been watching your videos since I met this Virgo guy. It's been more than a year. I don't know what to say. But all I know is I want him. I love him. I'm madly crazy inlove with him. It's just that he left again (again) this is actually the second time. He left - broke up with me. I know you always stresses SPACE and TIME in all of your Virgo videos. But it's just so frustrating. I said I'm tired. But here I am again, bombarding him with messages and chasing him again. I don't know how to let him go. I just really want him. I've chasing him for like a week now. I just don't know want to do. 😢😢😢

    • @kaydee585
      @kaydee585 Před rokem

      I should have seen these videos of yours a week ago. Maybe I could've avoided any mistake.

    • @ShaHov1206
      @ShaHov1206 Před rokem +1

      Never call or text him unless he tells you to. Let him do all the calling and texting

    • @kaydee585
      @kaydee585 Před rokem +2

      @@ShaHov1206 he greeted me on Christmas. and today he didn't text me the whole day. He's asking me to come over to his place. but then he's gone again. I don't want to make myself look desperate but deep down in my heart. I really want a small talk. like hows his day. 😕

  • @najmahn89
    @najmahn89 Před rokem

    Can't hear

  • @user-zx5xw4yw2e
    @user-zx5xw4yw2e Před rokem +1

    Are they affectionate??

  • @jaceylongs7542
    @jaceylongs7542 Před rokem +1

    So what about the Virgo man who claims to be done with you but watches you off fake social media accounts, everyday! 😂

    • @Nae5206
      @Nae5206 Před rokem

      Happened to me too😭

    • @Nae5206
      @Nae5206 Před rokem

      It’s means he still thinks about you

    • @Nae5206
      @Nae5206 Před rokem

      Cause mine came back that way

  • @nettabeatty950
    @nettabeatty950 Před 14 dny

    Great video. I want to ask your advise @jwhitfield I like a Virgo guy a lot but I think I either not his type or I came on too strong. I met him at my job and I instantly felt a connection, something I never felt with any man. So I found him on IG and inbox him. I told him I wanted to get to know him but he told me he was dating someone. Now I have never seen him with anyone. I’m just curious as a Virgo man do you think there would be any chance of winning him over? Please advise thanks.

  • @caliluv14
    @caliluv14 Před rokem

    Ima passs lol