Should I stay In Pakistan Or Leave? | Ask Ganjiswag

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    00:00 - Intro
    06:54 - Confused between Mother and wife
    16:33 - Some One Tweeted About Me
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    01:09:04 Outro
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Komentáře • 249

  • @ra1nn379
    @ra1nn379 Před 6 měsíci +145

    If someone doesn't want to allow her wife to do a job then marry the girl who doesn't want to pursue her career. Simple as that.

    • @user-wm9ti8fk7v
      @user-wm9ti8fk7v Před 6 měsíci +3

      La illah illallah hazrat asim munir rasool allah!!

    • @ra1nn379
      @ra1nn379 Před 6 měsíci

      @@iqratakreemsaeed2862 there is always a trade-off. The choice is theirs.

    • @mtalhaasif
      @mtalhaasif Před 6 měsíci +8

      Yeh chez!
      But in reality it's the opposite.
      they get a working woman who wants to pursue career and grow professionally but she is forced to stay in the house and work like a maid and serve the entire fuckin in laws.

    • @cyberkhwn
      @cyberkhwn Před 6 měsíci

      only women after you

    • @Kwm-519
      @Kwm-519 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Yes but the main problem is - how do you know her preference ?
      The only way is you ask her about it and explain your preferences (that whether you want a working woman or not). Problem is that in today’s day and age, people like Junaid Akram have made it a crime that a guy has a preference for a housewife
      Just like a girl has preferences, guys have preferences too.

  • @abdullahhanif1379
    @abdullahhanif1379 Před 6 měsíci +103

    You should start a big bro guide for boys, I see many teenage boys are learning it the hard way. Maybe your experience help them navigate.

    • @nimfall
      @nimfall Před 6 měsíci +2

      He doesn't have experience listen to Andrew Tate

    • @Uninformed2.0
      @Uninformed2.0 Před 6 měsíci

      ​@@nimfall Andrew Tate doesn't have experience, listen to Mufti Tariq Masood.
      Ajeeb

    • @nimfall
      @nimfall Před 6 měsíci

      @@Uninformed2.0ok

    • @sarim4
      @sarim4 Před 5 měsíci +1

      @@nimfall Andrew Tate is the worst person to get advice from 💀

  • @muhammadraza6665
    @muhammadraza6665 Před 6 měsíci +12

    For 1st email: my opionion to keep you wife at her parent house and tell her to find a job (assuming she will take 4/5 months to find a good job). In that 4/5 months save good amount for advance and after this go for rent home and then you along with your partner can earn enough to afford rent and daily household (obviously you would face some financial issues during this period). Do this for atleast a year and your mother might realize that it was at her fault. Rejoin your mother with a condition that she will not stop your wife to continue her job (obviously her stance k haath se nikal jayegi would be clear as your wife would already doing job for 6 months).
    Please note that this is my personal opinion as i found it the only way to not to loose any from your wife and mother and your mother may realize her mistake.
    May Allah help you 🙏

  • @DanishYours
    @DanishYours Před 6 měsíci +32

    19:40 "The young people think the old people are fools - but the old people know the young people are fools." - Agatha Christie

    • @user-wm9ti8fk7v
      @user-wm9ti8fk7v Před 6 měsíci

      La illah illallah hazrat asim munir rasool allah!!

  • @mohibkhan1962
    @mohibkhan1962 Před 6 měsíci +4

    The video quality is epic Junaid bhai
    from 1 Mobile to now a proper studio

  • @Memon.1425
    @Memon.1425 Před 6 měsíci +7

    Always waiting for ask Ganjiswag❤

  • @KhanHaseeb
    @KhanHaseeb Před 6 měsíci +6

    I vividly remember the Khalida Riasaat’s play. It was sad yet very insightful.

  • @Sk-nb3yl
    @Sk-nb3yl Před 6 měsíci +12

    20 is not too young. Rather it’s the age when people have the maximum number of flings/relationships etc. it’s easy to fall in love due to raging hormones. So please do not discard or brush aside any such queries/emails by saying oh you’re too young to be in a relationship. It’s the time when people need guidance the most

    • @NorazeAshfaq
      @NorazeAshfaq Před 6 měsíci +5

      which he gave eventually .. And He was right .getting in relationship because your hormones are in spike is the worst thing you can do to yourself.. 20 is age of building yourself and be high value. When you achieve this then you will eventually attract High value Men

    • @hannan_zaid
      @hannan_zaid Před 6 měsíci

      The message is suggesting that the age of 20 is not too young to be in relationships. It mentions that at this age, people often have the most flings or relationships, as it's a time when hormones are strong and it's easy to fall in love. The author advises against dismissing or ignoring inquiries or emails about relationships by simply saying someone is too young. Instead, they emphasize the importance of providing guidance and support to people at this age, as it's a time when they need it the most.

    • @manjunathmnm
      @manjunathmnm Před 6 měsíci

      ​@@NorazeAshfaqBolo Jai Shree Ram

    • @NorazeAshfaq
      @NorazeAshfaq Před 5 měsíci

      Gay Shree RAm chal shabash nikl ab
      @@manjunathmnm

    • @Logicalsane
      @Logicalsane Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@manjunathmnmeww disgusting

  • @cherryhugsxx
    @cherryhugsxx Před 6 měsíci +3

    Another great video, thank you!

  • @somerandomthoughts7403
    @somerandomthoughts7403 Před 6 měsíci +4

    Congratulations ❤❤❤ 150th therapy session for us 🎉

    • @human_hope
      @human_hope Před 6 měsíci

      If you need him for therapy you need a life

  • @AS-jo8qh
    @AS-jo8qh Před 6 měsíci +7

    Joint family is the reason for half the unhappiness in the subcontinent

    • @ArslanAli-cs1be
      @ArslanAli-cs1be Před 6 měsíci +1

      True but not everyone can buy a house

    • @aqsa6082
      @aqsa6082 Před 2 měsíci

      Exactly

    • @Ali-wf6rh
      @Ali-wf6rh Před měsícem

      @@ArslanAli-cs1be then be able to afford rent at least before committing to another person.

  • @serotoninboost6336
    @serotoninboost6336 Před 6 měsíci

    Some parts you said na Junaid bhai, I felt like you were talking directly about me. Thank you for the valuable talks.

  • @superpowerboyable
    @superpowerboyable Před 6 měsíci +1

    Excellent answers Junaid Bhai.

  • @Nik_diary
    @Nik_diary Před 6 měsíci

    Congratulations for 150th episode

  • @DaniyalNasir0332
    @DaniyalNasir0332 Před 6 měsíci +1

    32:53 Such mature way to say it, without saying it. RESPECT.

  • @Ali_Raza770
    @Ali_Raza770 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Junaid Bhai excellent work, I personally know many people who are in their late 30’s or in their early 40’s but they haven’t matured yet I’m sure majority of of people are like that so they need this kinda podcast where they can learn about different aspects of life

    • @hannan_zaid
      @hannan_zaid Před 6 měsíci

      The message is a comment directed to someone named Junaid, praising their work and expressing the belief that many people in their late 30s or early 40s have not matured yet. The commenter suggests that a podcast discussing various aspects of life would be beneficial for such individuals.

  • @architectworld786
    @architectworld786 Před 6 měsíci +7

    35:11 To the girl who’s stuck between ex & next: Bhen! Find the purpose of your life first & chase some motive with skills then chasing guys.

    • @saadfaran
      @saadfaran Před 6 měsíci +1

      Best comment.

    • @hannan_zaid
      @hannan_zaid Před 6 měsíci

      The message is advising a girl who is caught between her ex-boyfriend and a potential new romantic interest. The speaker suggests that the girl should first focus on discovering her life's purpose and pursuing her goals and skills, rather than prioritizing romantic relationships. The use of "Bhen" is a colloquial term in Hindi meaning "sister," and is often used as a friendly or familiar form of address.

  • @tuneononly
    @tuneononly Před 6 měsíci +5

    Only Pakistani CZcamsr i watch
    Best of luck dude

  • @aneesurrahman8673
    @aneesurrahman8673 Před 6 měsíci +9

    Case#1 is an ideal situation for this couple to settle abroad, in places like the UAE or GCC in general. Work on a plan with a clear timeline in mind and just leave. Mom is mature enough to take good care of herself as she has someone to care for her plus the experience of a lifetime at her side, get out of the 'emotional blackmailing' scene ASAP.

    • @nimfall
      @nimfall Před 6 měsíci

      Ankle don't misguide

    • @nimfall
      @nimfall Před 6 měsíci

      @homecoder7816 absolutely true

    • @hannan_zaid
      @hannan_zaid Před 6 měsíci

      This situation is perfect for the couple to move abroad, particularly to places like the United Arab Emirates or the Gulf Cooperation Council (GCC) countries. They should create a clear plan with a specific timeline in mind and then simply leave. The mother is capable of taking care of herself because she has someone to look after her, and she also has a lifetime of experience with her. It's important for them to quickly remove themselves from any emotional manipulation or pressure.

    • @Shreya...1
      @Shreya...1 Před 6 měsíci

      Then they should behave not any behavior should be tolerated ​@homecoder7816

    • @nimfall
      @nimfall Před 6 měsíci

      @@hannan_zaid
      Leave wife not mother

  • @unknownpara7
    @unknownpara7 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Suggestion: A mega episode 2 or maybe 4 hours will be Absolutely fun ! Best of luck ✌️

    • @hannan_zaid
      @hannan_zaid Před 6 měsíci

      yayyyyyy yesssssssssssssssssssssss

  • @anumzaidi2248
    @anumzaidi2248 Před 6 měsíci

    Hello.. for alarm issue you tell us. You can save a note with the alarm so you can see why you set it. I hope it will help you. God bless

  • @Hamxea47
    @Hamxea47 Před 2 měsíci

    Man that thing of yours "waking up and just dismissing the alarm for not realizing what I set the alarm for is so relatable to me" 😂😂😂😂

  • @duaasohail6666
    @duaasohail6666 Před 6 měsíci +1

    This background looks more beautiful..Please don't change it

  • @israrsonsproperties8354
    @israrsonsproperties8354 Před 6 měsíci

    Good job 👏

  • @SaadRajpoot
    @SaadRajpoot Před 6 měsíci +2

    Alarm wala masla mere sath bhi horha hy lately. Also, ma alarm jis time ka bhi lagata hun, ussy 2 mint pehle khudi uth jata hun lol idk how

  • @laraebrehman
    @laraebrehman Před 6 měsíci

    These podcasts should be available on Spotify

  • @sanaafzal2593
    @sanaafzal2593 Před 6 měsíci

    Listening to your podcasts is kinda therapeutic for me...

  • @shanzaybutt4334
    @shanzaybutt4334 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Anyone who lives in UK know that it's danger here In UK then Pakistan.

  • @HuffyZeen
    @HuffyZeen Před 6 měsíci +7

    In Q 3 when you mentioned that we are not career driven - that's totally correct - and its not about sard illaqay - Indians are so focused and career driven compared to Pakistanis (men or women) - I work for one of the top 5 banks in the world - and I'll honestly say I stumbled upon the career I have, I never got to go in the field I wanted to, not because I couldn't get into it - only because I was a girl and building a career is not a major goal for a Pakistani girl. I have a colleague who has an Indian origin. Honestly, where she is was totally planned for her from the beginning, like she is living her goal and she has also planned for further goals and moving towards them. I, on the other hand, cant plan if I can go for my next exam this year or not cz I have to cater for my family first. I am lucky to have career at this point.

    • @syedmuhammadshaheerismail-8263
      @syedmuhammadshaheerismail-8263 Před 6 měsíci

      Sister I request you to consult a scholar of Islamic jurisprudence regarding whether your job is allowed in Islam or not. May Allah bless you.

    • @HuffyZeen
      @HuffyZeen Před 6 měsíci

      @@syedmuhammadshaheerismail-8263 I work in shares - that’s allowed

    • @hannan_zaid
      @hannan_zaid Před 6 měsíci

      The person is expressing their observation that in their experience, Indians tend to be more focused and driven in their careers compared to Pakistanis. They mention that they work for a top bank and feel that they stumbled into their career rather than pursuing a specific field, partly due to societal expectations for Pakistani women. They contrast this with a colleague of Indian origin who seems to have had a more planned and goal-oriented career path. The person feels fortunate to have a career despite the challenges of balancing family responsibilities.

  • @kamransyed3409
    @kamransyed3409 Před 6 měsíci

    just name your alarm. like when it rings at 3pm it appears as groceries alarm

  • @AsadUllah-py4dt
    @AsadUllah-py4dt Před 5 měsíci +1

    how can I ask question?

  • @av94718
    @av94718 Před 6 měsíci +2

    55:30 😀😀😀 Rizwan & Tariq masood be like-- mujhe kyu tora

  • @user-uh6hl9gw4p
    @user-uh6hl9gw4p Před 6 měsíci

    whats the name of the play

  • @DanishYours
    @DanishYours Před 6 měsíci

    WhatsApp link is not valid in bio.

  • @mannykhan7752
    @mannykhan7752 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I came to this podcast after 6 months. The questions and advice are still the same. Only names have changed.

  • @Medlife663
    @Medlife663 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Love you junaid bai Plz do show with a doctor regarding cousin marriage risks , and Thalesemia awareness amongst ppl

    • @hannan_zaid
      @hannan_zaid Před 6 měsíci

      It seems like the message is expressing love and concern for someone named Junaid, and is asking him to consider doing a show with a doctor to raise awareness about the risks of cousin marriage and Thalassemia among people.

  • @Ts18762
    @Ts18762 Před 6 měsíci

    Are you wearing an Orient Bambino watch?

  • @rahulsharma-nd3sl
    @rahulsharma-nd3sl Před 6 měsíci

    I like the attitude of Ganjiswag.. Love from India.. Khalli Balli❤❤

  • @adeelakhter4865
    @adeelakhter4865 Před 6 měsíci

    Junaid Akram - While I was eatling!
    Me who was listening to the podcast, pausing my work to see "bhai kia kha rehe they"? 😅

  • @kashshahzad
    @kashshahzad Před 6 měsíci +2

    55:30 I think, Pakistan me her banda apna kaam chorh kr dusre kam is lye krta hai kunke ke bachpan me apne interest ke mutabiq usko career choose nahi kerne diya jata, phir jab wo barha hota hai aur daikhta hai us ke pass capital hai aur system me koe accountibility nei hai to vo resources ko use kr ke apne mannpasand domain ki exective power le leta hai but kunke us ki professional education nei hoi hoti, is waja se us department ka berha garak kr deta hai lekin system me jawabdahi na hone ki waja se adamant rehta hai.

    • @hannan_zaid
      @hannan_zaid Před 6 měsíci

      "I think, in Pakistan, every person leaves their own work and takes up other jobs because in their childhood, they were not allowed to choose a career according to their interests. Then, when they grow up and see that they have capital and there is no accountability in the system, they use resources to take executive power in their preferred domain. But because they do not have professional education, they end up causing chaos in that department. However, due to the lack of accountability in the system, they remain adamant."

  • @ajaykotecha
    @ajaykotecha Před 2 měsíci

    What you said about inheriting the business happened to me. Unfortunately, I was kicked out by my mean father, as he did not value me, even though "he" was the useless person and I increased the family business 3x. It has to do with his "akkad". To be honest, my father was an illiterate mean person. People thought I was his stepson, as I have a friendly personality. I see many people work, but don't calculate actual earnings, after expense or cost of work.
    I would suggest a young person to pursue a career, which is of interest to you and is in demand internationally. No use taking courses and having no job in the end. I understand recession and economy is not in our control, but taking software engineering, petroleum/power engineering, trades (electrician, plumbing, welding), medical studies and accounting are a few fields with good prospects. I have a degree, but am facing gender bias in my field. Ishq per zor nahin. "Pyar koshish se nahin milta, zamane mein kabhie, aap hi aap koi dil mein utter aata hain." Work-life-balance should be sustained in one's life.

  • @Homecook.canada
    @Homecook.canada Před 6 měsíci +2

    FOR GANJI BHAI :
    For special episode plz do live podcast where you take calls from people and they tell u the problem

    • @hannan_zaid
      @hannan_zaid Před 6 měsíci +1

      It seems like someone is requesting a special episode for a live podcast where the host, Ganji Bhai, would take calls from people and they would share their problems. This would likely involve an interactive discussion where listeners can participate by calling in to the podcast.

    • @human_hope
      @human_hope Před 6 měsíci

      @@hannan_zaid stop copy pasting from chatgpt

  • @anees419
    @anees419 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Ham parhtay parhtay aur suntay huy thak gy lekin ye society in ghatiyaan cheezon sy na nikal saaki toh junaid bhai aap bhi na thakna bs kaam jaari rakho

  • @SameerKhan-ze5vt
    @SameerKhan-ze5vt Před 6 měsíci

    31:36 the twist😂

  • @flowfairair3297
    @flowfairair3297 Před měsícem

    How to email him?

  • @MrRandom699
    @MrRandom699 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Ganji swag breaking limits 👊

  • @quickcinemarecap
    @quickcinemarecap Před 6 měsíci +16

    00:06 The evolution of the Ask Ganji Swag series in Pakistan.
    02:24 Pakistani citizens facing challenges abroad
    06:43 Conflict arising due to dowry demands before wedding
    08:50 Struggles in marriage and financial issues
    13:13 Mothers' influence on men's relationships
    15:04 Learn to stand up for your rights and take decisions for your own life
    18:56 Honor code among Gutka and cigarette users
    20:43 Discussion on conservative family and freedom
    24:31 The struggle for freedom and identity
    26:32 Struggle for financial independence and career decisions
    30:04 Dilemma of staying in a relationship and societal expectations
    31:56 Maintaining a long-distance relationship is challenging
    35:40 Focus on achieving financial independence and career development.
    37:38 Focus on personal and professional growth before marriage
    41:38 Failure is an experience, not a setback
    43:51 Discussion on cultural differences and societal attitudes in Pakistan and other countries
    47:58 Dealing with societal pressure regarding marriage
    49:54 Marriage is just a part of sorting out
    53:50 Conflict between leaving or staying in Pakistan
    56:08 Debating whether to stay in Pakistan
    1:00:01 Nostalgia for simpler times and longing for natural light
    1:02:12 Struggles of a woman facing poverty and loneliness
    1:06:05 Challenges of living in Dubai
    1:08:01 Women face challenges and exploitation in society

    • @cyberkhwn
      @cyberkhwn Před 6 měsíci

      golden hogaya jaani ily

    • @hannan_zaid
      @hannan_zaid Před 6 měsíci

      The provided text appears to be a detailed breakdown of various topics discussed during a series or event. It covers a wide range of issues including societal challenges, cultural norms, personal struggles, and the experiences of Pakistani citizens both within and outside the country. The topics include the evolution of a series called "Ask Ganji Swag" in Pakistan, challenges faced by Pakistani citizens abroad, conflicts related to dowry demands, struggles in marriage and financial issues, the influence of mothers on men's relationships, standing up for one's rights and making personal decisions, honor codes among Gutka and cigarette users, discussions on conservative families and freedom, struggles for freedom and identity, financial independence and career decisions, dilemmas of staying in a relationship and societal expectations, challenges of maintaining long-distance relationships, focus on achieving financial independence and career development, personal and professional growth before marriage, the perception of failure, cultural differences and societal attitudes in Pakistan and other countries, dealing with societal pressure regarding marriage, the concept of marriage as part of life's journey, conflicts between leaving or staying in Pakistan, nostalgia for simpler times and longing for natural light, struggles of women facing poverty and loneliness, challenges of living in Dubai, and the challenges and exploitation faced by women in society.
      It seems like a comprehensive overview of the issues and discussions that took place during the event or series.

    • @waleedhassan1459
      @waleedhassan1459 Před 6 měsíci

      @@hannan_zaid nah seriously ? we didnt know that

  • @islam_muslim665
    @islam_muslim665 Před 6 měsíci

    Zaberdast maza aa gya, examples main 😂

  • @Eric_lee610
    @Eric_lee610 Před 6 měsíci +1

    You have meta quest 2 in the background.

  • @itzmustaqeem
    @itzmustaqeem Před 6 měsíci +1

    23:30 thats wrong family is best friend so teach your child either biy or girl that do what ever they like hut in halal boundry and with family.

  • @motivational6061
    @motivational6061 Před 6 měsíci

    48:55 best line MashaAllah

    • @8109158548
      @8109158548 Před 6 měsíci

      Who's allah?
      Your imaginary friend?😂

  • @Kwm-519
    @Kwm-519 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Its quite surprising that the things Islam prioritises and give guidelines for, Junaid Akram is going completely against that
    For Junaid Akram - “Getting ILM” is free mixing with boys, making money etc.
    It is completely justified for a guy that his wife is not following and / or randomly messaging other guys on instagram

    • @human_hope
      @human_hope Před 6 měsíci

      Thank you for pointing that out

    • @hannan_zaid
      @hannan_zaid Před 6 měsíci +1

      It is surprising that Junaid Akram is going against the priorities and guidelines of Islam. He seems to believe that "getting ILM" (knowledge) involves mixing freely with boys and making money. It is also justified for him to feel upset if his wife is not following Islamic guidelines and is messaging other guys on Instagram.

    • @Ali-wf6rh
      @Ali-wf6rh Před měsícem

      You missed his point completely. And rigid people who take the religious script and implement it without context are a HUGE reason behind Pakistan being a hellhole.

  • @BilalAhmed-bu2mo
    @BilalAhmed-bu2mo Před 6 měsíci +1

    In second question the girl who have a confusion in relationship might catch up with me I think we have a same thought about our career and life partner.

    • @hannan_zaid
      @hannan_zaid Před 6 měsíci

      "In the second question, the girl who is confused about her relationship might reach out to me. I think we have similar thoughts about our careers and life partners."

  • @lifeeasygadgets5050
    @lifeeasygadgets5050 Před 6 měsíci

    I also face this 60% and I am not take any Single dowry Its haram .. But I Support my Ife or tmhn hi Step lyna ha bhai Bivi ha support krO Yhi rishta Long Tream chalyga MAA Baap apni jaga unki Izat apni jaga .. Balance ka m n AB Alhamdulillah sb Aman hai

  • @yograjkasar3222
    @yograjkasar3222 Před 6 měsíci

    Isliye me ye nhii karra par thumbnail bhii lagaliya😅

  • @akilmerji8209
    @akilmerji8209 Před 5 měsíci

    00:24:00

  • @osama_facts
    @osama_facts Před 6 měsíci

    First case sounds like Mannat Murad drama.

  • @jahanzebali589
    @jahanzebali589 Před 6 měsíci +1

    PLEASE VERY IMPORTANT! ASK NUMBER 136 MOST FRAGRANT SEGMENT, ASK LADY WHO EMAILED TO GIVE MORE INFO ON MEN DRESSING PLEASE!!!

  • @batsy941
    @batsy941 Před měsícem

    1:06:45 wrong. I am lahori and left long time back due to same problems you mentioned. Threat to life

  • @sukhan85
    @sukhan85 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Let's dive into the conversation about leaving Pakistan for a better life. If you're seeking a brighter future, go ahead and pursue it. But before you make that decision, take a moment to reflect on the ongoing struggles between Palestine and the Zionist movement. They're fighting fiercely for a land to preserve their identity. Imagine if Pakistan were no more tomorrow, and you found yourself living a comfortable life in the West. What you'd lose isn't just a geographical location, but your identity and a voice in any society about your beliefs. You'd have to conform to the norms of your new home.
    Yes, we acknowledge that politicians, the army, and bureaucrats have their flaws. However, the real root of Pakistan's challenges lies within the general public. It's time for us to take small steps and work collectively to fix our own house. Avoid earning money through unethical means, look out for your neighbors and society, refrain from stealing electricity or using unauthorized gas compressors. Spread positivity and actively prevent negativity around you. By doing this, you alone can contribute to the positive transformation of Pakistan.
    This is a remarkable nation, and all it needs is for each of us to play our part. Instead of solely blaming politicians, the army, or bureaucrats, let's take responsibility and work towards a solution. I've listened to countless podcasts highlighting our problems, but it's rare to find someone stepping up with a solution. Let's embark on a journey to restart our country with a fresh mindset. Together, InShaAllah, we can make a difference.

  • @batsy941
    @batsy941 Před měsícem

    17:30 true

  • @humaira917
    @humaira917 Před 6 měsíci +1

    The self development guy sounds like a male version of me-and yes I am pakistani.

  • @solidworkslady
    @solidworkslady Před 6 měsíci

    I'm 28 years old, even I have watched this play featuring the billboard. I was sharing the story with my siblings a few weeks ago.
    Crazy storyline!
    My whole life, I couldn't look at portions/people living above commercial shops without thinking of this play.

  • @Asad_.
    @Asad_. Před 3 měsíci +1

    Everyone who sees this: You’re beautiful, and never give up your dreams, you are on this world for a reason!💝

  • @cricketanalytics1863
    @cricketanalytics1863 Před 6 měsíci

    @Junaid Bhai, I want you to have a podcast with Julie. I hope you recognize her

  • @zoyasaad0
    @zoyasaad0 Před 6 měsíci

    👑

  • @bilal59446
    @bilal59446 Před 6 měsíci +2

    I would rather live as a 3rd tier resident in a well built infrastructural environment, good domestic policies and life full of social practices than live in Pakistan.
    I can't seem to wrap my head around that "my country" "apna mulk to apna hota hay", Allah didn't stamp your ass with a NADRA stamp. This whole world is for humans.

    • @hannan_zaid
      @hannan_zaid Před 6 měsíci

      The statement expresses a preference for living in a place with strong infrastructure, good domestic policies, and a rich social life, even if it means being a lower-class resident there. The speaker suggests that they struggle to understand the sentiment of blindly loving one's country, as they believe that people are not inherently tied to a specific place by divine or governmental decree, and that the entire world is meant for all humans. Additionally, the speaker seems to express dissatisfaction with the situation in Pakistan.

  • @selfspider7644
    @selfspider7644 Před 6 měsíci

    I have the same situation... beter to keep your mom separate..
    You should keep your wife..ignore your mom if she is wrong...

  • @tasduqali4624
    @tasduqali4624 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Ganji bhaiya kin kamo mai time waste kr rhy hain Nibba nibiyon ko bata rhy hain dono mai se kis ko choose krna hai. You are the person who reminds us that we have bigger purpose in Real life than all this bullshit

  • @AmirShaikh-qz9pt
    @AmirShaikh-qz9pt Před 6 měsíci +4

    1. Rizwan kee tabligh se kia masala hai patah nahin. It should only be a problem if he was not doing his cricket properly.
    2. Molvi na ghoomein? ya kerlia bayan toh may be Japanese Muslims want him to do it. What is the problem in that.
    Sometimes it seems you have a clear bias against religious personalities. I recommend you sitting down and talking with them if you haven't done that already.

    • @anees419
      @anees419 Před 6 měsíci +1

      U should listen to engineer Muhammad Ali mirza ❤

    • @shaheeralikhan9561
      @shaheeralikhan9561 Před 6 měsíci +1

      He's talking about Asif Munir

    • @AmirShaikh-qz9pt
      @AmirShaikh-qz9pt Před 6 měsíci

      @@anees419 Allah maaf keray. Woh aadmi fitna hai who denies tradition and current authority and academia on Islam. Kind of flat earther but for religion.

    • @meanmachinejimiofficial
      @meanmachinejimiofficial Před 6 měsíci +1

      ​@@anees419fitna bro don't watch his video

    • @anees419
      @anees419 Před 6 měsíci

      @@meanmachinejimiofficial that's what they tell you

  • @zabashhd459
    @zabashhd459 Před 6 měsíci

    Mannat Murad starting from 10 minutes lol

  • @jazaabbyjia
    @jazaabbyjia Před 6 měsíci

    Commenting for episode 151
    Listening to you junaid i seriously determine k ab sy time ki pabandi laazmi krni hai
    Today i hold a small business on which i try to organize everything including my time
    But back in university i remember i was the almost most late student but why ?
    This is imp junaida bhai
    Why ?
    Because hmari class hoti th consecutive 9-2 jismy sy 9-12 teacher had to be with us and then assignment alot kr k she'll do some other stuff like paper checking n all.
    But there teachers only came at 9 took attendence and move at 10:30 .to pickup their children or get some coffee or hangout with coullegues .
    And they only shared assignment related youtub tutorial nd we had to follow this just .
    Now being the person who hate sirf attendence k lie ana . I wanted to gain some spark lekin wahan hota nhi th kuch . I also hate being teacher her only responsibility was sharing yiutube tutprial for relevant assignment and so after an year i choose to wake up at 9 go uni at 11 , get some lunch and do my assignment formally ans submit it with an excuse of traffic because it was purposeless to get up for that teacher i felt.
    And i spend my night timming to rn my daraz store wich has turned now into a tote bag brand (small business ) but alhamdulillah am glad it my own thing . But in terms of time value i did not learnt anything and sometimes i hve to suffer with this .
    Because in business its all about right timmings.
    Please share youropinion in any ask episode. I'll follow for sure .

  • @shanzaybutt4334
    @shanzaybutt4334 Před 6 měsíci

    It's not safe in Europe either now a days. In London we can't walk outside because of stabbing and robbery. It's more danger here in Uk then Pakistan.

  • @digvijaysinghtgh
    @digvijaysinghtgh Před 6 měsíci

    As an educated Indian bro u love your country I know but India sab ke range ke bahar hay.

  • @hamzabhattix2
    @hamzabhattix2 Před 3 měsíci

    Second Caller - The Girl itself is a big RED FLAG 🚩

  • @100percentrealmadrid9
    @100percentrealmadrid9 Před 6 měsíci

    Special with Dr Solangi

  • @Ayesha-hh4xb
    @Ayesha-hh4xb Před 6 měsíci

    Question 1: Real life manat muraad drama

  • @shabbirmohammedy4429
    @shabbirmohammedy4429 Před 6 měsíci

    Junaid bhai Assalamu elaikum

  • @ajum89
    @ajum89 Před 6 měsíci +2

    In the intro, you mentioned the Pakistani guy ready for fake sham gay marriage just to move abroad. It is so sad. I get people are depressed in the country, but these fake asylum cases will mean that in the future, Pakistanis will face even more restrictions on travel.

    • @hannan_zaid
      @hannan_zaid Před 6 měsíci

      In the introduction, you mentioned a Pakistani man who is willing to enter into a fake same-sex marriage in order to move abroad. This is a very unfortunate situation. I understand that people in the country may be feeling depressed, but these fraudulent asylum cases will likely result in more travel restrictions for Pakistanis in the future.

  • @zaeemtalha3086
    @zaeemtalha3086 Před 6 měsíci

    Sorry for being late. To the Developer guy on 1st email. Please send me your CV. I'll help you find a job here in Dubai

  • @shahidaahmed6139
    @shahidaahmed6139 Před 6 měsíci

    Junaid I can sit there and from 150 episodes the amount you swear. I've never heard you say anything about drinking alcohol but swearing yes

  • @areeb486
    @areeb486 Před 6 měsíci

    Reality is gonna hit that 20yo girl hard when she realizes that if her demands go drastically against cultural and religious norms then the man that will be with her will also have a similar mindset. To say she enjoys the loyalty, security, and the religiousness of the person she's currently with WHILE she's cheating on him and straightening things up with her ex before leaving the current one so she doesnt have a 'non-relationship gap' period is outrageously insane. The boy isnt a fan of feminism because this skewed version of feminism that made it to Pakistan has rightfully earned the bad reputation through young girls like these who have platforms to televise THEIR idea of feminism, which they learnt from bits and pieces picked up from social media, lacking the understanding of what the whole package of this noble cause was about. Pakistan needs some intellectual professionals that go around in different universities holding sessions that educate people about what the actual idea of feminism is and how to gradually implement and integrate that idea into our society, and not something picked up from a 19yo girl on social media.

  • @a.bmin-ki3946
    @a.bmin-ki3946 Před 6 měsíci

    Its on couple what they want
    If she wants a job
    Then live with a job
    If husband cannot compromise he must left her for his mental peace
    And if she dont want to leave her job theb kindly leave her husband for her mental peace
    Period
    Chikh chikh has no room in persons life

  • @SheharyarBaloch309
    @SheharyarBaloch309 Před 6 měsíci

    so sad to hear your comment on mufti tariq masood vlogs in Japan.
    I think everyone has a right to live like they do whether it is mufti or a common person.

  • @DarvaishBandah
    @DarvaishBandah Před 6 měsíci +1

    No electricity, no fast internet, logu k gilay shikway, mazhabi fasadat, protests, roads ka band hona, mobile snatching, chori dakaiti, you feel unsafe when you go outside, dirty sorroundings, mulk ka koi Roshan mustaqbil nae, tow phr Kya jawaz banta hai Islami Jamhoriya Fojistan mai rehnay ka????

  • @bareebahmed
    @bareebahmed Před 6 měsíci

    Shadi k sawal anay do!

  • @raheelakhtar7
    @raheelakhtar7 Před 6 měsíci

    Big fan of Bill Burr and his style! Great shout out!

  • @sidxo3595
    @sidxo3595 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Khaaton ke red flags bhi unko bata den
    Sirf larke ki burayan

    • @hannan_zaid
      @hannan_zaid Před 6 měsíci

      "Also tell them the red flags of relationships
      Not just the flaws of the boy"

    • @Ali-wf6rh
      @Ali-wf6rh Před měsícem

      Classic male take, lol. Miss the point completely and attack the other gender.
      Yeah, that woman is a walking, talking red flag but that isn't the topic at hand.

  • @jaud007
    @jaud007 Před 6 měsíci

    "idhar meri call agayi" 😂

  • @Sandman9811
    @Sandman9811 Před 6 měsíci

    Put an alarm on your phone and write a note to you in the app explaining what the alarm is for. 😊
    Secondly, dowry should not be demanded from the girl's parents.
    Follow the example of Hazrat Fatimah (AS), who was the daughter of our beloved prophet Mohammad (PBUH) !!!

  • @HasanRaza-fq7rl
    @HasanRaza-fq7rl Před 6 měsíci +2

    The girl is trying to settle down on her terms with a back up boyfriend, she is the wrong choice.

    • @human_hope
      @human_hope Před 6 měsíci

      But landay kay liberals will not see that

    • @hannan_zaid
      @hannan_zaid Před 6 měsíci

      The girl is attempting to establish a relationship on her own terms with a backup boyfriend, but she is not the right choice.

  • @DevKulkarni
    @DevKulkarni Před 6 měsíci +1

    More difficult times should lead to more evolved humour. Ye kya thoda time kharab hua to show ka agenda hi badal diya 🙃

  • @sidxo3595
    @sidxo3595 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Andrew Tate ke ilawa yahan ke maulvi he yehi bolte
    Sad

  • @ranahassan4931
    @ranahassan4931 Před 6 měsíci +1

    For the second question. Bro you yourself are a red flag not the guy😂

    • @human_hope
      @human_hope Před 6 měsíci

      Landay ka angrez won't see that though

    • @hannan_zaid
      @hannan_zaid Před 6 měsíci

      It seems like a comment made on social media. The user @ranahassan4931 is telling someone that they themselves are a red flag, not the other person being referred to in the conversation. This could imply that @ranahassan4931 sees the person they are addressing as a potential problem or warning sign in a certain situation.

  • @alltamashsiddiqui
    @alltamashsiddiqui Před 6 měsíci

    150th episode and it's all related to shadi/relationships.... sums up this channel perfectly doesn't it?

  • @digvijaysinghtgh
    @digvijaysinghtgh Před 6 měsíci +1

    I love you and Pakistanis based on you but Bhai sorry...

  • @cricketanalytics1863
    @cricketanalytics1863 Před 6 měsíci

    And then Pakistan banta hai =D literally nailed it

  • @adeelakhter4865
    @adeelakhter4865 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Kindly stop normalizing it by saying him Bechara! @Junaid Akram

  • @vedantbhagwat282
    @vedantbhagwat282 Před 6 měsíci +6

    Jai shri ram junaid bhai love from Bharat🇮🇳🙏🏼

  • @UnKnown-fw2mz
    @UnKnown-fw2mz Před 6 měsíci

    Guy having a heading of "Personal Development & Traditional Values". He is clearly an aimed guy. These types of guys are rare in Pakistan. I'm doing so great in my career, but not into a relationship due to the typical Pakistani guys. Man, I'm advising you from my perspective as I'm a Pakistani girl. Although, I myself is a Pakistani girl, but you're thinking right that you shouldn't marry a Pakistani girl. Because, I rarely see Pakistani girls with high aim. I advise you to look for someone in Europe.

    • @hannan_zaid
      @hannan_zaid Před 6 měsíci

      This passage appears to be discussing a man with the title of "Personal Development & Traditional Values" and how he stands out in Pakistan. The speaker mentions that while they are successful in their career, they are not interested in a relationship with the typical Pakistani men. They advise the man to continue thinking the way he does, as they believe it is the right mindset. The speaker also notes that they themselves are a Pakistani woman, but they agree with the man's perspective.

    • @UnKnown-fw2mz
      @UnKnown-fw2mz Před 6 měsíci

      @@hannan_zaid
      That mail was from a guy, not from a girl. You're mixing the things. Anyways, I just gave sincere advise to him, that whenever he want to be in a relationship, avoid traditional Pakistani girl. There is limit of typing, otherwise I will define here that why I'm saying this. For the guy who sent the email "Hey brother, if you're reading this. You're on a right track, my sincere advise to you as a younger sister who are always in a company of girls is that, don't marry a mismatched woman due to your parents' pressure, you will regret it later".