I remember my friend telling me that the "only sketchy thing" about his girlfriend was that she had cheated on all her previous boyfriends but that he "knew" that she wouldn't cheat on him. Unsurprisingly enough, she ended up cheating on him.
@@walmart_version_of_pinocch1879 the video maker chose a term that doesn't fit indeed. "Good" relationship doesn't apply in your case, or any case of actual mistreatment. "Appropriate" relationship should be written instead. No contact with abusers would be an appropriate relationship. I would go as far as saying that codependant relationships between parents and adult kids would be described as good (since they're getting along swimmingly) and still would be inappropriate and a red flag. I hope the video maker fixes this oversight or pins a comment about it.
This sounds maybe sad, but if I'm not suitable for the long term relationships I long for more than anything...then how does one keep on living a happy life when destined to loneliness and without romantic love...
lol, your grandfather wouldn't have gotten together with a woman who had 2 partners, let alone 10. Don't stoop to that level because that is where a 5 is on the stats.
Low partner count, never cheated, no illicit substances, not lazy, not entitled, no children, no sm vanity, no risquè sm posts, financially indipendent , good relationship with parents. This basically means excluding over 90% of the female population already
Absolutely. And of the remaining (at best) 10% the vast majority will realistically be sub-5 in looks. An attractive, or even hot, yet highly valuable and quite pure young woman is long since like the proverbial unicorn. Worse still, if a young man ever finds one there's a 99.9% chance that's she's already taken. The poor guys are in for a hefty dose of frustration, that's for sure.
One suggestion- When displaying examples of "attractive" women, don't use women with make-up. I can't see their face and I don't see a 5 vs a 7, I see authenticity vs a mask.
But.. but "unattractive" women can use make up too. It is often used to accentuate your best facial features and make them more prominent so saying that wearing make up is like wearing a mask doesn't really make sense. I am not saying that as a man you should like women with make up, I personally think that a certain amount of well done make up can make a woman look more attractive but that is just me. The point is, make up is not used to deceive the stupid men but to feel better and look better primarily for yourself therefore should not be recognised as a "mask"
Well i guess i got lucky, my girl got a body count of 0 although she ain't that high on the looks scale she is like near 7 and has a pretty forward personality but at the same time being shy in some stuff.
It's even getting rough out there for the Chads. I'm pulling elite game out in Dallas right now and still not slamming a chick worth breeding a small army of super athletes.
i think the entire point of this channel is to show how busted the current dating marked actually is and how we should avoid spending too much time with it
@@tristiandavis6852 for what in? Having good genetics and spending lot of time at the gym/diet for average at the best woman, who are nowhere near your worth?
@@xmangle5382 I’m saying it’s not hard to get attractive women if you’re a 7+ overall. Finding a pure and attractive women IS harder I’ll say that. But dude there’s plenty of promiscuous women out there you just have to put yourself out there
i would highly recommend you to use the the term “appropriate relationship with parents” instead of “good relationship”. my mother was/is a a narcissistic sociopath and i broke down contact with her for this exact reason. if a girl has a good relationship with her parents even though they are highly toxic, i don’t consider this to be a good thing. just wanted to say this :)
Not really, as unfortunate as it is, a man wants a girl with a good relationship with their parents. This might be out of their control but so are looks. I get what you're saying but I feel that good means she has good parents who've treated her well and brought her up well.
@@jones848 i don’t really beat myself up for this because it’s out of my control. i get what you’re saying. but believe me, i would like to have a good mom much more than a potential partner would want his gf to have good mom.
0:44 - The woman you have at '8' on that chart is wearing a lot of makeup vs the women on the numbers below her who are wearing very little. This isn't fair, we actually have no idea where Mrs 8 should be on that scale
Makeup 💄 subtract not adds those 8 are 4-5s because makeup is fake being fake make you loose attractiveness as well not real looks so that tattoos fake nail lash all lower you look score 😂
Watching how you rate women always makes me laugh. Reminds me of when i was younger. You always put some attractive women in the 4-6 category while at the same time you put these plastic unattractive women in the 7-8s. You're to easily fooled by makeup. Give me a 4-5 that's in good shape over most of these "8s" any day of the week
I see that pattern as well. Even with the two girls at 8:32. The only reason he gave the girl on the left a 5 is because of her dark circles. If she used make-up like the one on the right, I'd say she's a 7 as well. Most guys wouldn't even realise it was make-up (the minimal or "natural" make-up look is a trend, and men who say "I like girls without make-up" usually mean the natural make-up look)
The point you made about purity becoming a rare trait among women today is very true. It almost has the characteristic of gold, such that as it becomes rarer it correspondingly becomes more valuable.
Given Wheat is black pilled, I fail to see why he believes in the ideal woman to date. That's oxymoronic. All black pill men know there is no such thing as an ideal woman. That's why they're black pilled.
@@bobsmithy9024 By definition, ideal things don't exist. In his examples, he never claimed that an ideal woman exists. He only listed various ideal traits that men look for in women and possible trade-offs they might encounter when seeking a set of ideal traits in a woman. The goal is to find the optimal woman, not the ideal woman. Also, the fact that you're blackpilled doesn't mean you have to date.
It's funny that we don't put makeup into the equation when rating attractiveness of women. Makeup has the potential to boost a woman's attractiveness by 2 to 3 points.
It's crazy how different some women look with some makeup. I always thought my ex looked better without it. She might have just had shit taste when it comes to makeup though. Too bad she was a nutcase.
To me not really unless it’s an excessive amount like popular models use but at the same time I tend not to think that highly of their face and I prefer girls who are naturally pretty I never think about make up when I fantasize about a hot girl. Generally I think it moves someone up 1 rank with a portion of girls getting worse or not moving up at all
@@KurokamiNajimi it depends on ones ability to apply makeup and women are getting better and better at doing it. As a minimum, it hides all the skin imperfections. It makes skin look more healthy and hides under eye bags. I'm surprised that more men don't use this "cheat mode"
Bruh these are too many factors. 1. Do we laugh together. 2. can we carry a conversations. 3. Can we accomplish goals together. I.E. Prepping meals, putting together furniture, packing the car for trips.
you've got the right priorities. whilst this blackpill stuff is interesting and has some truth, it completely forgets that people can learn and change from their behaviour 🤦🏻♀🤦🏻♀ the youth is exposed to so much hypersexualised imagery nowadays, how can you expect teenagers and young adults to not sexually experiment?
@@tillycomedy2194it’s just a preference at the end of the day whether you like it or not. A man with morals and no promiscuous past will likely not want a woman with these red flags even if she has “changed”
Gonna be honest, classifying a woman being financially independent as “unpure” is hilarious. That being said I think that one is pretty unreasonable. I mean I don’t even understand how that could by itself be a negative character trait. Having a job and taking care of yourself is fine.
he's saying it's a good trait bro, I think you may have just misread it. either way I do agree, i'd 100% choose a 7/10 that has a stable job with good income than a 10/10 that's gonna drain my wallet by the end of each month, not really about the money itself, but more of the entitlement associated with those types of women.
I also like to think about their "purity" when it comes to the way they see you. I had a relationship with a woman with one of those red flags. But she treated me like a king and that makes a huge difference. Rather date a 6 who views me as a god than an 8 who thinks she can do better.
The way they see you AND themselves. I had a traumatic past and engaged in red flag behaviors because I was depressed and didn't have confidence/respect myself. The guy I am with now (along with lots of people like Jordan Peterson and red pill community) completely changed me. For this I think you can change your purity rank, I now engage in many more healthy behaviors and am very loyal because I've been taught these things. I've always been a good person, but for years I was around bad people and didn't know how to engage in these "desirable traits" :)
My disagreement is with the femcel zone. Some dudes will smash an XX who's 600lb, disabled, amputee, or even down syndrome. There's always some dude ready to do it.
Like so, there'll always be some girls who'd sleep with ugly dudes. WW doesn't talk about exceptions, and we know that exceptions are in almost every rule.
He said they are unable to get a relationship, not unnable to get some man to have sex. Just wanting to have sex and not relationship is not a healthy strategy in life anyway.
Im friends with a woman who - has tattoos - drug use - Cheating past - Negative history with friends - Flirtatious towards me despite having a bf I instantly knew she was a red flag. We're a looks match but its too risky and im not looking for a short term relationship as she is a conflict/risk prone person and knows my other friends. I've had better experiences with pure women so ya, this video is spot on.
@@LisaKay87 Partner count? Why's that matter? Obese and purple hair? What's wrong with that? Tattoos are big signs of being a degenerate, lemme guess also a Commie and different color hair with multiple piercings
@@redpillsatori3020 I don’t notice the issue becuase I got my last tattoo 10 years ago when I was immature and in a rebellious phase and I don’t really know if I ever want to get one again.
@@emreeryurt9758 I am way past that phase. 😃 Currently doing my own thing, with occassional escort to satisfy carnal needs. Peace of mind gauranteed. 🤝
Hey young lady, just don't listen to your female friends and you'll be ok I promise, put getting a good respectful men on your highest priority and you'll be proud after...
I would argue that "purity" and "looks" don't follow a linear trend from a cost-benefit analysis. There is a drop-off point after around 7/10 for both. A 10/10 pure girl means she's a virgin straight out of Sunday School who's never been on Instagram and probably only has sex after marriage. Do you really want to date such a girl...? Not to mention that people who have repressed desires for a long time, tend to have an outburst at some point (i.e. slut phase). Also there is little benefit to dating a girl above 7-7.5/10 (even if you can), because the relationship gets exponentially high maintenance.
Problem is ‘these girls’ are like trying to find a needle in a hay stack in these modern times. Personally, I just can’t be bothered. If that makes me MGTOW or MSTOW I don’t know or care, I’ve humbly bowed out of the game.
@@chadstrats2431 there may be some credence to that, I remember as a young man I got more fem attention in the country than I did in city. I will say that those "bumpkin" wmn are just as promiscuous and out there as city wmn.
I’m a girl who’s in her early 20s and I love watching wheat videos, I’ve actually showed a few to my bf cos I find them to be true but also funny. I will say that makeup and clothing choices can make a huge difference to how we look- I can go from a 6 to an 8 depending on how I’m feeling on the day, wearing tight clothes, washing my hair, makeup etc. I’ve always felt like I missed out on having “fun” in my late teens as I didn’t drink, mess with guys or go to clubs and such but looking back on it I am glad I didn’t. I have been dating a guy I plan to marry for 4 years and I am the happiest I have ever been, even though people often tell me that I’m settling or dating down (in terms of looks only).
Misery loves company. Don't depend on other women to tell you if you're dating down in looks. You're probably good looking, but many women tend to overrate themselves and other women because they put a lot of dumb faith in words, not considering the consequences of not choosing them wisely.
I find that most women like a good mix of feminine and masculine facial features in men....nothing extreme. I also think the eye area (eyes + eyebrows) is the key feature that women look for when selecting mates. Womem seem to love facial hair nowadays. I guess most people like following trends
Don’t listen to the people who say you’re dating down - so long as you’re happy that’s all that matters. More time, they’re just jealous of your relationship (especially if they’re girls) and want to ruin the good thing you’ve got going on. This nearly happened to me and my girlfriend. I’d strongly suggest cutting off those negative friends if I were you
"Slut shaming" is an extremely interesting term to me. As a form of emotional manipulation it's brilliant --- probably coined by an evil genius. If you're male and have any standards at all, even related to behavioral choices rather than immutable traits, that's something you're supposed need to feel guilty about and seek to change because muh "double standard" since exactly the same preferences aren't exhibited by women. Men should try doing that to women and say things like, "sure you don't like men with gynecomastia, but oh woooomen can have breasts and it's fine." No joke, a f**in*st woman I knew posted about a girl with a beard not being found attractive and complained it was a "double standard," though we all know for a fact that if a man with breasts complained in an identical way she would call it entitlement. We live in stupid times. It seems to be in part a side effect of comfort. Our ancestors could never have afforded the luxury of entertaining such bizarre delusions, if only because reality would smack them in the face.
Same with basic cosmetic procedures. If a man gets plastic surgery, it's commonly seen as "weak and pathetic" but when women do it, its perfectly fine.
Coming from a man, looks aren’t the only thing I’m looking for! She has to have good qualities too because what does it matter to have an attractive woman that’s not to treat you right or respect you or even worse cheat on you! At that point it’s better to remain as I am and find the right woman….
He explained this in the video, if you had the choice between a 5 or a 7 and both of them have the same level of purity, every men would pick the more attractive woman.
These points are so true. I've actually seen 7s or 8s being turned down for a relationship because of their red flag behavior (i assume - it's the only explanation that makes sense to me). But it's also a good checklist to live by - could you maybe do a more in depts video on these purity traits, like how much weight does each one hold (also in regards to age)? If i should take a wild guess, i'd say it's worse to have a child (single mom), than being a bit lazy, but im more interested to hear your point of view :)
Depends on how they got the child. If it was from irresponsibly having casual flings, that’s bad. If, bearing age in mind, she was in a long term relationship with a guy, both were planning to have a family, and something happened that wasn’t so much in her control (guy cheated on her, guy died, guy just left for no good reason) and she was left with the child, that’s not nearly as bad. My aunt actually was a single mother of two, one of which is special needs, and she has frankly been a better mother to me than my own mom, due to the fact that she possesses a lot of great qualities in purity (not lazy, etc.) and just had some very unfortunate luck with her husband. Context matters a lot.
@@justsomebird4285 That's actually a bit surprising to me. I thought the concept of taking care of another mans child was the absolute prime example of simping from a blackpill POV. But maybe i'm projecting, because i would never as a women date a single dad.
@@guiltymorty4117 you’re not wrong. Most of the time men would agree you shouldn’t date a single mom. Especially in this era when most are single moms due to their own actions and consequences. And it is quite a prominent theme within the black pill community. But that was just my own personal opinion. My experience with my aunt has just made me a little more open minded to it, that some are just quite unfortunate, but personally I’m also still very hesitant about getting involved with single mothers. Especially single mothers at a younger age, who had their kids as teens, or have several children with no father present. Even worse if those children have different fathers.
As well as varying a lot with factors others mentioned, the criteria for purity will vary largely with who's judging. For instance, if a guy smokes, he would be unlikely to count off of a women's purity rating for smoking.
Agreed. When I was young and desperate my ex was a 4. Overweight. Nicest person ever. But completely impure. Found out she had a body count of 40. And she had accumulated 30 of them in less than 6months...... Dysfunctional relationship with her parents too. I had never seen so many red flags in my life and had to completely leave. So I agree with this video wholeheartedly.
Not single anymore but I could still ace the purity test. Crazy that this is so rare. Hopefully more women wake up and start respecting themselves and others.
I never made it that far. I went on a date with a chick who was a 5/10 in the face but overweight.. I couldn't imagine laying up with her lol. I dont see how some men do it...
4/10 ? Was she fat? I mean ... 4/10 is not something that would disgust me, I am an around 5/10 man, so women 4-5-6/10 are my options. If she was a not fat 4/10, it is OK.
@@georgiosdoumas2446 she is 6’0(I’m 6’1) she was kinda fat cuz she had rolls , she has 4/10 face when I saw her topless, I just received hand jobs and got some head, but I couldn’t bring myself to do it with her even tho according to this video she has a purity score of 8
He's never said that females shouldn't do what they do. In fact in his black pill/red pill/blue pill presentation, he says it only makes sense what they do. And as othets have said, if you are below 5 in looks, it's over for you anyway.
Great video. That distinguish between what is relationship material and what isn't is so crucial. I sometimes hear my male friends forgiving women for the most fucked up reasons in the pursuit of sex, and it's a sign of his inability to learn from his mistakes rather than her issues being a problem.
I think there is something to be said specifically about fat/obese women, who are so common these days. I might agree to be seen in public with a woman who has an average face but a great body and who is in great shape, but I will never ever be able to do that with an obese/very fat women, regardless of how "cute" her face may be.
For obese women how the weight distributes is big. Big and bold describes the women men who like big girls want but then there's fat and ugly. Basically the bigger the boobs, the bigger the rest of her body can be. But also some women are obese on the scale but in extreme, college sports level, good health.
One complicating factor is men are much more varied about what is considered an attractive woman. Consider body type. Some men find size 0 women attractive while other men prefer a more voluptuous woman. Women appear to be have a much more narrower range of men they consider handsome. I noticed Chads tend to look very similar, cookie cutter like.
I dont like slim women. I had before one and I didnt enjoyed sex so much. I like girls with big ass and legs, and thats me. My other friend like full slim womens. So thats good. Because we dont chase the same type girls, for each of us we can get our flavour.
@@Baka578 same. I always thought I was weird though cause all my friends were always attracted to more thin, model like or average body weight type of girls, but I've always been more turned on by girls society would consider clearly overweight and probably bordering on level 1 obesity, but as you said its a specific type where the fat is distributed in her chest, butt and thighs making them look busty etc.
This is interesting and so very accurate. In our broken world it takes a high level of discipline, work ethic, empathy, and healthy parenting skills to create kids who keep long term purity. There’s too many traumas that affect both parents and children alike, it almost seems like it’s luck to come out not traumatized by anything or somehow the way a child is born to have more emotional toughness than another child, thus giving them greater strength to not give into addiction or bad habits. So it seems like both purity and looks are out of our control. We can try our best with counseling, therapy, and medication to free ourselves from addictions but it takes hard work and life has major challenges. Whether you’re a girl or guy, give yourself grace wherever you fall on this purity or looks scale. Just fight to do the next right thing everyday and it’s ok to make mistakes if you choose to bounce back and not stay in the pit of stress. Choose progression. You are worthy, valued, and enough.
@@rg8071 I just have issue with the clickbaiting title. People always choose their best option pretty much. It's just that most don't have many options.
The reason I don’t take this specific channel’s videos seriously is because his “average looking people” photos are completely random. The “average” girl he picked for this video is actually very attractive. The “attractive” girl he picked is the same level as the average girl but has bleached blonde hair and is wearing makeup. I think he needs to take lessons from a plastic surgeon or someone who practices aesthetics for a living. The only negative feature of the average girl is her huge forehead, but that can work in girls’ favor because some people prefer neotenous women. This has been consistent with all his videos. I scratch my head at his examples.
It's at the point where you either choose: Attractive girl with low purity or unattractive girl with high purity. (However, I suspect that the only reason unattractive girls have perceived high purity is because they don't have the option to be a basic, mess around, social media soliciting girl. - therefore, how pure are they really?) Like the old saying goes - A man is only as loyal as his opportunities. The same is true for women as well.
You know, used to be you could meet a chad whose GF was 5ish looking woman. She was "saner" to be with - meaning less entitled, egotistical, interchangeable attitude. The way apps are those women, that era is over too.
Man this video popped into my feed and I am impressed on how well the algorithm did. Your video nails it on how I intuitively approach to girls, only that you conceptualized everything in a compact lesson. Great job Ps: I would add that the "looks" parameter is kind of subjective for each guy, but the logic stills maintains solid regardless of personal preferences. Also about "purity" I think the amount of sexual experience is not necessarily a bad thing, as I would rather have some freak gf rather than some girl that doesnt like giving bjs.
The hotter the girl is, the harder for her to remain pure. The less hotter the girl is, the easier for her to remain pure. You could maybe never have both hot and pure, but only something in the middle. It's sad but true.
That's true, that's why ugly women who are pure don't get credit for it. What men want are women who could have slept with many men but didn't. No one deserves a reward for not doing something they can't do.
Agreed. When guys are not that interested, or there's no options, then it doesn't matter. I waited for years, and I realize that by doing that I just kept myself marketable, because my face wasn't doing me any favors, and my apathy towards makeup lol
This is what I thought. I'm not going anywhere near a girl who's had 15 partners by 25. This does seem to be the norm these days though. What I want is a girl who's pretty enough to have had 15 partners by 25 but chose not to. The trick is finding a girl who's been in committed long-term relationships consistently.
You are here completely true. In my experience, I am 33 now, the purity now is like some sort of rare pokemon card. My previousl relationship have been like this: 1.when i was young amateur: looks 4, purity 4. ( she taught me a lot of stuff about relationships) 2. When I was mid 20s: looks 7.5, purity 2. (great sex, bad life) 3. Around 27 years old: looks 10, purity 3. (to much for me, hard to handle, and not worth it) And now I have fiance, she is 6.5 looks and purity 10. I am happiest man now. I had to find her 100km from my place. That hard is to find now women with good purity level.
Hey Wheat, i've been introduced these "...-pilled" concepts not too long ago but within this short time i tend to get the impression that most of these approaches to dating are only for the actual first attraction and rarely go beyond the first few dates/months. Im genuenly curious if you believe that looks (or the most relevant factors in any concept) only are enough to drive a romantic relationship to success (a lifelong committed relationship - in my view). I believe the blackpill is the best description for the tendencies of initial attraction, but on the long term im not sure how looks could keep a relationship going.
In my grandparents' time, days gone by, purity was never something you had to bargain for. If you were fairly good-looking and came from a good family and lived within a stone's throw from a pretty girl, you were in, and her purity was guaranteed.
remember that they are very good at hiding their true face, women in general I mean, I have met women who are 2 or 3 and appeared to be very "pure", once you get to know them, you can get surprised how manipulative and liars they can to become, I have met three women like that, and who were actually very promiscuous, hiding from their family and acquaintances, over time things are uncovered, the problem is that the truth can explode very strongly in your face. Be intelligent, attentive with all the information they give you and above all, do not be naive, that trust is earned and shown over time.
I would say that a 10 purity woman also has the trait of discernment. She is gonna date someone just as pure as herself. So you going clubbing, sleeping around and living the high life ain’t gonna cut it. Real talk, If you want to be in the competitive sphere you gotta be competitive
Men, do not hesitate to put a restraining order against your narcissistic female partner! Men, the system is biased against you get ahead of the madness and protect yourself at all costs! Men, be safe!
I thought that too. But i actually think that all of the photos of women should have been full body pics. The entire female figure in addition to the face is the only way to determine true attractiveness on a 1-10 scale. But we all get the point of wheat's video. Another gem of true in depth analysis.
I want to redefine "good relationship with parents". I have a very toxic and abusive mother. To protect myself from being further hurt by her, I stopped contacting her 3 years ago. Also, I don't like the way she talked about my boyfriend. So I also protect my boyfriend from being judged by her. I save my boyfriend a ton of time and efforts trying to please my mom. He could just be himself without having to worry that it will bug my mom. I told him he never have to do anything for his "in-laws". So I think the girl not having a "good relationship" with their parents could be helpful in a romantic relationship.
I like where you're taking this. Keep up progressing your content and you will be rewarded with lots of loyal viewers. I like how you admitted simping is human nature and impossible to stop yourself from to some extent (as a man). That's an important point and a humble perspective.
Dating is too complicated. Finding Love is the whole idea of playing the game yet women these days seem to think about high value, successful husbands and money. That’s all they want. And when they wait a long time to find that person while dumping every nice guy under the sun and can’t find that person, they finally realise they shouldn’t have done that when they end up older and alone.
Love has never been the objective. Never once in human history lmao. Marriage and relationships always were for the sake of strengthening numbers, the tribe, clan, resources, etc, etc. There was love in relationships, yes but that wasn't the objective at all. Marriage being primarily about love is only a recent development in human history.
Love in the romantic sense isn't real. Things have become so corrupted now-a-days that true happiness or what you would call "love" is a rarity and more than likely can't be found in modern women. Women may lust for you, your money, or your lifestyle. But they do not love you. As soon as you lose whatever it is that caught their attention in the first place, they're out. Dating is pointless and a waste of time. Just live your life, do what's right, and take care of yourself.
@@ozone8259 Trust me I gave up dating a long time ago. Definitely agree it’s pointless and a waste of time. Maybe I worded it wrong. All I know is who you are as a person is less important than materialistic possessions or what you bring to the table. First question they will ask on a date is where do you work, do you have your own house etc. All the time they are ticking off the boxes in their head. What happened to are you kind? Are you caring? Are you honest? It’s laughable.
About 5% of ever lived women fall under top purity scale. 7-10 on looks scale out of this 5% makes it way less 1% chance to find a good-looking and pure girl regarding to that graph
I would add health to purity factors, for example: weight or diseases. Also for red flags how much does the individual factors effect the purity ranking, for example how you mentioned just 2 of some particular factors could mean a ranking 5 or below. Thanks for the content!
What do you mean by diseases? That could be anything from an STD to a condition they were born with like diabetes. Also weight would be more correlated with looks than purity no?
Wow this video could not have come at a better time because just yesterday I spent the day hiking with a girl that I now comfortably know is in the relationship material zone. Sad part is that I probably wouldn’t have even gotten the chance to meet her if it weren’t for my genes.
You think most women are a 6 or 7?? Where do you live the French Riviera?? You can't honestly tell me walking down any high street in England that most women are above average, you are way off the mark 🤣🤣
There is a formula called the Drake Equation. It is a calculation of how many civilizations are out there in the universe. Now we have the Mr. Waffles Equation. I see the proportion of women falling perceptiously with each factor.
Since the beginning of time, oft has man cast his gaze up into the heavens, pondered the stars and wondered, "could there be marriage material out there?"
@@leonardomellado1949 Well, if you only count the women in your college campus than maybe. But if you consider the whole country probably 50% of them is older than 45years, which means that almost all of them are ugly.
One of the sadder truths is that many credentialed "experts" will deny or dismiss the role such realities play in the formation and dynamics of relationships.
Hm, is a good idea for the future videos, to do videos from woman's(all categories) perspective for man's... A lot of man's(boys) here don't know how woman's think about anything and they fantasy, like I did about "what woman's want from us"...
I know a woman from school times, who is a 10/10 in purity (religious/christian), small, very cute face, curly blonde hair. She also liked me. I was in love with her but she moved away. I'm still thinking much about her and wish I could have a longterm relationship with her. She would be a perfect wife and mother of our children.
*Sigh* This video explains the sinking feeling and remorse I have regarding my last relationship. That woman had the highest “Purity’ of anyone I’ve ever met. The only strike she had was that she had a child. Yes, that’s a big deal but here me out. He’s a great kid, we got along fantastically, and she didn’t expect me to take over/be responsible as most guys fear dating single moms. Everything I did for that kid I wanted too because of the bond me and him developed. There was no pressure from her. Regarding her other purity points: 1.) Super low partner count. I probably had more partners in a year than she’s ever had. She lost her virginity to her ex husband, who is the father of her child. She then had a few more partners before me. I was her 4th or 5th sexual partner at 27/28 years old mind you. 2.) Never cheated. Ever. I won’t get into it here, but she’s literally the most loyal person I know. When she’s into her man she doesn’t even look at other guys. 3.) She’s never done anything. Not so much as a cigarette or a single joint. Hell when we were together she never so much as had a sip of alcohol. She finally had a sip of her first drink after we split, a Stella Rose wine I believe. 4.) Not at all. In all honestly she’s much, much more motivated than I am. I’m the lazy one of the two of us. 5.) Not at all. As I said about her loyalty, she’s probably the least entitled person I’ve ever met. I’m much more selfish and entitled than she would ever be. 6.) Here’s her one strike. Like I said previously however, he’s a great kid, we loved each other, and he wanted younger siblings so much he’d be a great brother. 7.) Again, her purity is excellent. She literally only has a single social media account, Facebook, that she uses to keep in touch with friends and family. Thats all, no tik tok, no IG, no snap, etc. 8.) Ha! As if. That’s not her at all. 9.) Very much so. She never asked me for anything. Everything I did I wanted to do, and she would have been an equal, if not superior, financial partner had we gotten married. 10.) Her parents are both dead, R.I.P. so this doesn’t count. All in all this video really confirms why I feel like I screwed up so badly with her in particular. She loved me so so much. I cared about her quite a lot as well, but I always had one foot out the door simply because I was so focused in the fact she had a son. It didn’t matter that he was a great kid, we got along super well, and she didn’t ask anything of me. No she had a son and therefore it was bad and I’m a SIMP as per the internet. Ok sure, ideally we would have built a life and had our first child together. In hindsight though I’d take her and her son over these, always smoking, getting drunk, shaking ass on instagram, cheating ass hoes with no kids. After we broke up on New Years (2022) somebody else scooped her up real quick because of her super high purity. I was fine with her moving on because I thought that’s what I wanted. I was the reason we broke up after all. As time passed however, I realized I fucked up. My feelings became more apparent and I realized I really did love her, and than I didn’t care about SIMPING or being a cuck since she has a kid. I realized that too late to save us though. Hell it gets even worse if you go back to last year. As I said she wanted to marry me, and we had actually gotten pregnant. I basically said fuck that noise, and she got the abortion. This is a woman who had a total of three pregnancies. The first was a miscarriage that she mourned for a long time… The second was her son. Those were both with her husband. The third was with me. She was 5 weeks along when I took her to get the abortion on Sept 30th 2021. If we kept it and stayed together she was be about 34 weeks along now. My first child would nearly be here and her son would be overjoyed to have a sibling. Especially with me. Many times he said he wanted me and mommy to have a baby and for us to all be together. So now here I sit, teary eyed as I think about the life full of love and happiness I could have had. A wonderful adopted son, a beautiful baby on the way, and a woman who is peerless in terms of purity at nearly 30. I haven’t even mentioned looks. Of course in my love I think she’s the most beautiful woman I’ve met. Objectively however she’s a 7, if not higher. Her body on its own is objectively a 9 or 10. I don’t think I could find a fault with her body if I was paid to. And that’s after having a child. As for my looks, I’m probably a 6 currently with no looks maxing at all. If I addressed my issues (the biggest being my teeth are spaced as I never had braces) I could be a 7 or 8 easily. Even just getting fit could make me a 7. So we are pretty matched looks wise, with her currently having the upper hand appearance wise. Even at what I would call a 6 now, I don’t have problems getting women with minimal effort. I’m literally out of town and typing this in a girls bed now. However, most of these girls have purity faults that make them FWB at best. It’s so disheartening, especially since I have never loved someone before. Even outside of her purity, she was just so affectionate, so good in bed, she’s bilingual, from another interesting culture, and was just fun to be around. She really was my favorite person and I fucked it up because I thought I should based on her son. Don’t be like me kids. Love and happiness are the most important things in life. Screw everyone else and their opinions.
All the best to you man. The type of purity you described is rare....I myself would rather stay single than be with someone with a purity level below the range I require. I have turned down some amazing women similar to the woman you have described, based solely on the fact that they had a child/children......I'm a bit 2 minded about that because of all the warnings about dating single moms - but at this point I may reconsider. I'm 33 and not getting any younger.
@@scooby8859 Exactly my point mate. I’ll be 29 this year so I have a few years of youth over you but I’m not getting younger either. If she had multiple children, or an older child who was difficult, or any other number of issues I would feel justified. However the kid is young, he was only 3 when I met him, and loved me immensely. The dad/ex husband was basically useless and out of the picture. She has full custody of her son with no geographic restrictions. She even wanted to change his last name to be mines when we marry and have me adopt him. It’s literally the best case scenario for someone who has a child and I fucked it up because I could only see the situation in black and white. Real life though is full of grays…
@@heybro7971 Time can be an advatage for you. The older you get, the more valuable a man becomes. If her current partner fails maybe you could return. At that point the kid will be older so it will be even less problematic and eventually the kid will get out of the nest so the mother could focus better on getting back with the old ties she had with you. The difficulty will be higher, depending on how you disconnected from her and how easy is to maintaing communication with her over the time. Maybe a deep research on other women with her traits could be a great alternative, in case you feel hopeless on returning with her.
I read that whole thing. I think so many of us have struggled with this situation. The single mom Apocalypse is upon us. We get attached to these MILFs. Their only play is for them to get us addicted to their box. It's crazy you were typing that from a chicks bed. This world has turned us into savages.
would highly recommend you to use the the term “appropriate relationship with parents” instead of “good relationship”. my mother was/is a a narcissistic sociopath broke down contact with her for this exact reason. if a girl has a good relationship with her parents even though they are highly toxic don’t consider this to be a good thing. just wanted to say this :)
I’d say I’m a Tyrone or Tyrone light, I’m over 6’6 an athlete and I’d say my face is between a 7-8 based of womens response. I realized that beautiful women are everywhere, you can pretty much get anything u want in a girl easily besides purity. I’ve met 3 girls with the level of purity I want, one is Sub 3 (I’m fine with anything 6+ maybe even a high level 5 if the purity level is very high) The other 2 are already in long term relationships of over 3 years.
This is the problem I keep having. All of the high-quality girls are in relationships. I'm not really into wasting my time on girls who have been in a lot of relationships, even if they're good looking. I don't have time for that shite.
@@dominusbalial835 ...unless they're strongly religious, since they're only willing to date other religious people, thus dropping the amount of possible partners they could have.
Thank God I'm a Christian conservative, you should be too. Not only are the women high quality/purity, but you'll also be blessed with a good physical life, and more importantly, eternal life. God bless!
It is scary how much this Video explained various life-choices I've made and precisely described what I actually did after making said decision. Great Work man!
I use this scale instinctively since ever! I've lost track how many 7's and 8's I've date and have FWB for a period and then get family, colleagues asking why I didn't commit. It looks like I'm picky, but I'm being rational.
You answered your question Men don’t commit anymore and women want sex too. You can’t sleep with a lot of women then complain you can’t find a virgin bride
@DNA hahaha bro I'm from Brazil, u Don't need to be in a serious relationship in order to some relative's know the person, give me a break. My comment was just to acknowledge the reality presentend in the video. Sorry if you've never had the same experience.
@@vinmjj2365 I hate this about Brazil, I bring a girl home once, my sister sees it and now even your 5th cousin who lives in another state knows about it and asks if you are dating.
I really like your graphics and the way you structure your videos, it really shows a structured and analytical mind, that's not something you see often in the blackpill community. I think this kinds of videos are great when they follow up other videos that treat something related. This way we get to have some form of conclusion/result of what you previously treated. Keep up the good work, I watch all your videos as soon as they come out.
Super interesting video. Thanks for your analysis. I have a daughter I intend to speak frankly too and encourage to keep her life clean. I grew up in a church environment and "purity culture", so funny to see it applied in a different way here. I too struggled with "missing out" on the "fun" growing up, but in the end it was beneficial to live clean. I can say that in the circles I was in, looks mattered more than "purity" growing up, because there were more girls "saving" themselves than there was 7-10 girls (me being in the 5-6 range).
I do remember one girl who was an 8, and didn't last long in her quest for purity. Looking back, the lack of male attention was a blessing. I didn't know what I was missing lol.
I'm sorry but the girl on the left at 8:33 is not a "5". I know that attractiveness can be somewhat subjective so there will be some variance in people's opinions but Wheat you were way off here. At worst she is a 7 out of 10. Good video overall, I just kept seeing that face rated at a 5 and it just annoyed me.
I'd say she's a 4. A 5 at best. 7 is way too high. 5 is average. So most women should be around a 5. I'd think people are too used to school grading where 50% is completely failing.
@@chamcham123 well 50% is failing here as well. Every woman who is average ir slightly less atractive is for "only once" according to this. So 50% of woman must be single according to this
@@chamcham123 You only think that because she's not wearing any makeup, her facial structure is definitely 7 but she has dark under eyes which can easily be covered with some concealer.
Some very good points, especially on the purity thing be warned. I got rid of a nice girl who was about a 5 (fair looksmatch for me really), and had all those good purity characteristics a few years back, and went for a hotter 7 with tons of those red flags, dodgy SM etc. obviously relationship crashed and burned recently, never that stable. Wasted loads of time, serves me right really because I knew. Go for the good girl, not just the girl who looks nicer for you to show off and ego boost.
I still think that for a huge percent of us guys the girl being a nonsmoker is super important on the purity scale. I would rather have a girl who's never smoked and hates smoking but has slept with 10 guys in her life than a smoker who only slept with three. I think probably half the guys out there would agree with me on this.
@@Project1312 smoking is completely gross and totally repulsive. A girl turning her pretty mouth into a disgusting smoke hole while having that trashy smelly thing hanging out of her mouth stinking up the entire room while looking like Queen of the trailer park is about as unattractive as you can get. If a girl is not a virgin then honestly what difference does it make if she slept with three guys with 10 guys? Either way she's not a virgin and other guys have been inside her so it stands to reason that it would be preferable that he had she had slept with 10 guys in the past I'm not gross out her boyfriend by turning her mouth into a Smoke Hole as opposed to constantly grossing him out with smoking but only had three guys in our past.
For me an average face is ok,but it’s how she takes care of her body that matters more. She’s born with the face but through effort can keep her body slim and attractive. Shows strength of character.
Ok so I grew up in a very VERY strict household...I never had boyfriend's in highschool and I can remember feeling like I was 'abnormal' for still being a virgin when I was 19. 😞 Anyway I met my husband at 19 and well we are still together with two children and I am now 28 😌 💖. I'm so glad I didn't stay at University and get into the whole online dating app crap. Me and my husband are very happy and I am happy that I never have had to go through the pain of datingand sleeping with multiple people.
So what drew you to this side of the internet and this video in particular? If you are a happily married woman why are you watching black pill content?
@@gintoki2643 because It reminds me everyday to be thankful for what I have. The grass is not always greener on the other side. And that's something me and my husband are greatfull we stuck by each other. We are black pilled anyway in regards to all matters of the world. We hope to be wide awake so that we may bring our children up traditionally so that they do not make these mistakes when they become young adults.
Can't agree with you more, just one remark: "purity" traits also have different weights. Some more than others and depending on the guy even 1 bad trait with a high weight can be a dealbreaker even for a 10 when looking at a long term relationship. This goes both ways though, a 6 with 2 or 3 bad traits with a low weight might be able to be seen as relationship material.
Really great videos dude. I needed these videos when I was in my teens. Through our 20s most guys get a rough idea of this through trial and error, unfortunately.
Young lads, take note. WW nails this. My GF scores perfectly in the P axis; mainly due to nature, but also due to career choices, family circumstances, geographic location. All of my previous were in the danger zone. Everytime I see a smokeshow now, I'm reminded of what a headache they are. All of my ex's are either childless or loveless spinsters, it's sad. Anyway, don't give up, I met mine at 35, she's 8 years younger.
I remember my friend telling me that the "only sketchy thing" about his girlfriend was that she had cheated on all her previous boyfriends but that he "knew" that she wouldn't cheat on him. Unsurprisingly enough, she ended up cheating on him.
@Censored Censored Keep my wifes name outta ya fockin mouth! xD
@Censored Censored 😅
@Censored Censored lmao
@Censored Censored does that describe Darth Slapper’s situation?
stupiddity at its best
"No social media vanity" - You'd have to be living in a cave to find a girl above a 5/10 without this trait.
true
Sad but true
You can in Muslim countries ;)
Because they ARE caves :P
@@sh-zaidi thats a lie
"if a women is below a 5 in purity, you cannot go into a longterm relationship with her"
Important true statement in this video.
@@walmart_version_of_pinocch1879 the video maker chose a term that doesn't fit indeed. "Good" relationship doesn't apply in your case, or any case of actual mistreatment. "Appropriate" relationship should be written instead. No contact with abusers would be an appropriate relationship.
I would go as far as saying that codependant relationships between parents and adult kids would be described as good (since they're getting along swimmingly) and still would be inappropriate and a red flag.
I hope the video maker fixes this oversight or pins a comment about it.
But many still will
This sounds maybe sad, but if I'm not suitable for the long term relationships I long for more than anything...then how does one keep on living a happy life when destined to loneliness and without romantic love...
@@walmart_version_of_pinocch1879 no, that doesn’t address anything. You would have to argue why men should date you.
lol, your grandfather wouldn't have gotten together with a woman who had 2 partners, let alone 10. Don't stoop to that level because that is where a 5 is on the stats.
Low partner count, never cheated, no illicit substances, not lazy, not entitled, no children, no sm vanity, no risquè sm posts, financially indipendent , good relationship with parents. This basically means excluding over 90% of the female population already
And male aswell.
Absolutely. And of the remaining (at best) 10% the vast majority will realistically be sub-5 in looks. An attractive, or even hot, yet highly valuable and quite pure young woman is long since like the proverbial unicorn. Worse still, if a young man ever finds one there's a 99.9% chance that's she's already taken. The poor guys are in for a hefty dose of frustration, that's for sure.
Not true, the problem is when the guy is a 7 a most of this type of girls are a 5-6, they are not enough
@@lolololo-ck5pl yeah i am attracted to 7+women usually which makes finding a high purity one pretty much a unicorn safari endeavour
@@fmls8266 out of all those requirements men fit all of them besides the parents one and substances, and rarely entitled
One suggestion- When displaying examples of "attractive" women, don't use women with make-up. I can't see their face and I don't see a 5 vs a 7, I see authenticity vs a mask.
Makeup intensity is inversely proportional to purity
But.. but "unattractive" women can use make up too. It is often used to accentuate your best facial features and make them more prominent so saying that wearing make up is like wearing a mask doesn't really make sense. I am not saying that as a man you should like women with make up, I personally think that a certain amount of well done make up can make a woman look more attractive but that is just me. The point is, make up is not used to deceive the stupid men but to feel better and look better primarily for yourself therefore should not be recognised as a "mask"
Same
@@haldruin6621bullshit, they don't do it when they are at home, chilling alone. They do it when they go out, where others can see them.
Good luck finding images of pretty women online not wearing make up. Gotta put in a lot of man power to find that.
You eliminated every woman i know and have dated with the purity factors, Wheats is killing it again😂😂
exactly :), you would be better off not dating them
Dude!...you gotta choose better then my man. I know there is not many good women out there but they still exist.... Somewhere
@@redtom3022 No man has time for that. Just pump and dump or have some fwb's. It's worked extremely well for me.
I only ever got one woman high in purity and she's a Sub-5... Didn't stop me from marrying her. 😅
Well i guess i got lucky, my girl got a body count of 0 although she ain't that high on the looks scale she is like near 7 and has a pretty forward personality but at the same time being shy in some stuff.
The realism in this video is just outstanding. We need to get real instead of wasting our time pretending.
Standing ovation
this guys channel is hilarious
So what are all of you guys going to do to get these women besides whining on this channel? Lol
@@LisaKay87 keep improving in focusing on my goals....
@@eduguntzel06 bro you should not even give her the satisfaction of a well sounded answer but your still right.
If you're not a chad, you can just skip this video. You will never have the chance to apply this to your nonexistent or barely existent dating life.
I dont even know why it was recommended to me.
I get no attention from any women.
Hahahahahagag
@@TheUltimateFreezone7 is useful to know.
It's even getting rough out there for the Chads. I'm pulling elite game out in Dallas right now and still not slamming a chick worth breeding a small army of super athletes.
@@redpillbrian7534 chads dont need game
It is hard for man to find ANY woman who will accept him. Imagine how hard it would be to find a woman that is good in looks AND pure
i think the entire point of this channel is to show how busted the current dating marked actually is and how we should avoid spending too much time with it
Try overseas
Honestly not if your smv is a 7+
@@tristiandavis6852 for what in? Having good genetics and spending lot of time at the gym/diet for average at the best woman, who are nowhere near your worth?
@@xmangle5382 I’m saying it’s not hard to get attractive women if you’re a 7+ overall. Finding a pure and attractive women IS harder I’ll say that. But dude there’s plenty of promiscuous women out there you just have to put yourself out there
i would highly recommend you to use the the term “appropriate relationship with parents” instead of “good relationship”. my mother was/is a a narcissistic sociopath and i broke down contact with her for this exact reason. if a girl has a good relationship with her parents even though they are highly toxic, i don’t consider this to be a good thing. just wanted to say this :)
Not really, as unfortunate as it is, a man wants a girl with a good relationship with their parents. This might be out of their control but so are looks. I get what you're saying but I feel that good means she has good parents who've treated her well and brought her up well.
If she has a bad relationship with her parents, that's a *huge* red flag, sorry.
totally agree on this. 👍
@@jones848 i don’t really beat myself up for this because it’s out of my control. i get what you’re saying. but believe me, i would like to have a good mom much more than a potential partner would want his gf to have good mom.
@@Carlton_Banks ok lol
0:44 - The woman you have at '8' on that chart is wearing a lot of makeup vs the women on the numbers below her who are wearing very little. This isn't fair, we actually have no idea where Mrs 8 should be on that scale
Makeup 💄 subtract not adds those 8 are 4-5s because makeup is fake being fake make you loose attractiveness as well not real looks so that tattoos fake nail lash all lower you look score 😂
Watching how you rate women always makes me laugh. Reminds me of when i was younger. You always put some attractive women in the 4-6 category while at the same time you put these plastic unattractive women in the 7-8s. You're to easily fooled by makeup. Give me a 4-5 that's in good shape over most of these "8s" any day of the week
He’s definitely young & naive
I see that pattern as well. Even with the two girls at 8:32. The only reason he gave the girl on the left a 5 is because of her dark circles. If she used make-up like the one on the right, I'd say she's a 7 as well. Most guys wouldn't even realise it was make-up (the minimal or "natural" make-up look is a trend, and men who say "I like girls without make-up" usually mean the natural make-up look)
Thanks for keeping those 4-5's off us!
What people find attractive very so much that there's almost no point putting up the pictures.
@@stevenroshni1228 huh?
The point you made about purity becoming a rare trait among women today is very true. It almost has the characteristic of gold, such that as it becomes rarer it correspondingly becomes more valuable.
Given Wheat is black pilled, I fail to see why he believes in the ideal woman to date.
That's oxymoronic. All black pill men know there is no such thing as an ideal woman. That's why they're black pilled.
its only rare for irreligious people. 99% of Muslim women are virgins even the ones who don't get married usually die virgins.
Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
Proverbs 31:10
@@bobsmithy9024
By definition, ideal things don't exist. In his examples, he never claimed that an ideal woman exists. He only listed various ideal traits that men look for in women and possible trade-offs they might encounter when seeking a set of ideal traits in a woman. The goal is to find the optimal woman, not the ideal woman. Also, the fact that you're blackpilled doesn't mean you have to date.
@@rayner-hilles
Damn, King Solomon was spittin facts!
It's funny that we don't put makeup into the equation when rating attractiveness of women. Makeup has the potential to boost a woman's attractiveness by 2 to 3 points.
It's crazy how different some women look with some makeup. I always thought my ex looked better without it. She might have just had shit taste when it comes to makeup though. Too bad she was a nutcase.
To me not really unless it’s an excessive amount like popular models use but at the same time I tend not to think that highly of their face and I prefer girls who are naturally pretty I never think about make up when I fantasize about a hot girl. Generally I think it moves someone up 1 rank with a portion of girls getting worse or not moving up at all
@@KurokamiNajimi it depends on ones ability to apply makeup and women are getting better and better at doing it.
As a minimum, it hides all the skin imperfections. It makes skin look more healthy and hides under eye bags.
I'm surprised that more men don't use this "cheat mode"
@@Crazycorn2 Right but the main reason ppl have that stuff to begin with is life style. Too much sodium, added sugar, not enough water, bad nutrition
@@Crazycorn2 some men do like K-POP idols. Make up is not the norm for men.
Bruh these are too many factors.
1. Do we laugh together.
2. can we carry a conversations.
3. Can we accomplish goals together. I.E. Prepping meals, putting together furniture, packing the car for trips.
you've got the right priorities. whilst this blackpill stuff is interesting and has some truth, it completely forgets that people can learn and change from their behaviour 🤦🏻♀🤦🏻♀ the youth is exposed to so much hypersexualised imagery nowadays, how can you expect teenagers and young adults to not sexually experiment?
@@tillycomedy2194 This video is just a simplification with 2 major dimensions (looks and personality). But all is a bit relative for each person.
@@tillycomedy2194it’s just a preference at the end of the day whether you like it or not. A man with morals and no promiscuous past will likely not want a woman with these red flags even if she has “changed”
Common sense!! Thank you!!!!!
Gonna be honest, classifying a woman being financially independent as “unpure” is hilarious. That being said I think that one is pretty unreasonable. I mean I don’t even understand how that could by itself be a negative character trait. Having a job and taking care of yourself is fine.
he's saying it's a good trait bro, I think you may have just misread it. either way I do agree, i'd 100% choose a 7/10 that has a stable job with good income than a 10/10 that's gonna drain my wallet by the end of each month, not really about the money itself, but more of the entitlement associated with those types of women.
Having a good relationship with parents is also listed
Pretty sure we both read that wrong.
They can't make fool of this woman. That's why being financially independent is "unpure" hahahahahah
@@missfaztudo9312 he said the opposite in the video
@@missfaztudo9312your comprehension skills are lacking
I also like to think about their "purity" when it comes to the way they see you. I had a relationship with a woman with one of those red flags. But she treated me like a king and that makes a huge difference. Rather date a 6 who views me as a god than an 8 who thinks she can do better.
Agree
Royalty treatment only goes so far brother. Honeymoon phase ends (3-5 years at best), and you'll see how truthful she really is. Good luck. Cheers
The way they see you AND themselves. I had a traumatic past and engaged in red flag behaviors because I was depressed and didn't have confidence/respect myself. The guy I am with now (along with lots of people like Jordan Peterson and red pill community) completely changed me. For this I think you can change your purity rank, I now engage in many more healthy behaviors and am very loyal because I've been taught these things. I've always been a good person, but for years I was around bad people and didn't know how to engage in these "desirable traits" :)
@@NahuCommNS I know. That's why she's an ex 😆
@@NahuCommNS He needs to check back after the anchor 👶 cometh.
My disagreement is with the femcel zone. Some dudes will smash an XX who's 600lb, disabled, amputee, or even down syndrome. There's always some dude ready to do it.
Like so, there'll always be some girls who'd sleep with ugly dudes. WW doesn't talk about exceptions, and we know that exceptions are in almost every rule.
He said they are unable to get a relationship, not unnable to get some man to have sex. Just wanting to have sex and not relationship is not a healthy strategy in life anyway.
you got me laughing hard. but true
@@Perrirodan1 group 2 is "once in a lifetime and only once". So it clearly is about ons too.
Femcel=Ugly women can't get chadlite/chad
Not one girl ranked from 7-10 didn’t have makeup on. The whole premise of this video is so gross.
The hot crazy matrix is the best way to look at this. And Zones, from HM.
"Every girl is beautiful! Sometimes it takes the right amount of alcohol to see it." -Redd Foxx
Learned the hard way.gotta leave the gin alone.
Im friends with a woman who
- has tattoos
- drug use
- Cheating past
- Negative history with friends
- Flirtatious towards me despite having a bf
I instantly knew she was a red flag. We're a looks match but its too risky and im not looking for a short term relationship as she is a conflict/risk prone person and knows my other friends. I've had better experiences with pure women so ya, this video is spot on.
Has tattoos? What’s wrong with that?
@@LisaKay87 Partner count? Why's that matter? Obese and purple hair? What's wrong with that?
Tattoos are big signs of being a degenerate, lemme guess also a Commie and different color hair with multiple piercings
Some women are flirty because they like being playfull. They don't necessarily want to engage in a relationship.
@Allan Vega Most women nowadays have tattoos and are addicted to getting them, and women (like the one here) don't even notice the issue with it.
@@redpillsatori3020 I don’t notice the issue becuase I got my last tattoo 10 years ago when I was immature and in a rebellious phase and I don’t really know if I ever want to get one again.
There are maybe 5% of women in the population nowadays, who fall into the relationship material zone.
Then just stick with short-term relationships.
@@emreeryurt9758 I am way past that phase. 😃 Currently doing my own thing, with occassional escort to satisfy carnal needs. Peace of mind gauranteed. 🤝
@@siegfriedo That's also great. Create your own woman by a pen. 😅
You might as well say 0%.
Doesn’t matter cause most men can’t get anything
"She's not yours, it's just your turn!"
"Porn doesn't even effect me that much"
Also them:
So true
Beggars can't be choosers
As a woman about to enter her 20s, this is a super useful and realistic channel.
its good to see what actually seen as attractive in a female besides what you hear from feminism and social media
Hey young lady, just don't listen to your female friends and you'll be ok I promise, put getting a good respectful men on your highest priority and you'll be proud after...
haha. suuure.
@Odany Perez it will only work against women who act that way. If she knows what not to do she is set
That's good, men are selective in term of commitment which most woman struggle with.
This is some next level trolling
Even if I was a gigachad, a purity 10 girl with 5-6 looks (basically don't be fat or horribly misaligned in her face) would be absolutely perfect.
I would argue that "purity" and "looks" don't follow a linear trend from a cost-benefit analysis. There is a drop-off point after around 7/10 for both. A 10/10 pure girl means she's a virgin straight out of Sunday School who's never been on Instagram and probably only has sex after marriage. Do you really want to date such a girl...? Not to mention that people who have repressed desires for a long time, tend to have an outburst at some point (i.e. slut phase).
Also there is little benefit to dating a girl above 7-7.5/10 (even if you can), because the relationship gets exponentially high maintenance.
Not realy purity is more important if you are normie or especialy subfive .
Also for chads. I saw many chads having more child with pure 5 wifes
If you are a good looking guy .. do you know how friggin ugly 5-6 is ??
15 partners at 25 is still bad
@Andrei Georgescu idc what they were tbh
yeah she should be virgin
Problem is ‘these girls’ are like trying to find a needle in a hay stack in these modern times. Personally, I just can’t be bothered. If that makes me MGTOW or MSTOW I don’t know or care, I’ve humbly bowed out of the game.
LoL. Ye shits annoying and complicated af innit?
@Polygon good one!
rural is the way to go. Cities attract dysgenic men and women.
@@chadstrats2431 this is straight facts
@@chadstrats2431 there may be some credence to that, I remember as a young man I got more fem attention in the country than I did in city. I will say that those "bumpkin" wmn are just as promiscuous and out there as city wmn.
I’m a girl who’s in her early 20s and I love watching wheat videos, I’ve actually showed a few to my bf cos I find them to be true but also funny. I will say that makeup and clothing choices can make a huge difference to how we look- I can go from a 6 to an 8 depending on how I’m feeling on the day, wearing tight clothes, washing my hair, makeup etc. I’ve always felt like I missed out on having “fun” in my late teens as I didn’t drink, mess with guys or go to clubs and such but looking back on it I am glad I didn’t. I have been dating a guy I plan to marry for 4 years and I am the happiest I have ever been, even though people often tell me that I’m settling or dating down (in terms of looks only).
Misery loves company. Don't depend on other women to tell you if you're dating down in looks. You're probably good looking, but many women tend to overrate themselves and other women because they put a lot of dumb faith in words, not considering the consequences of not choosing them wisely.
I hope all the best for you and your boyfriend.
@@novuki aw thats so sweet. all the best to you as well!!
I find that most women like a good mix of feminine and masculine facial features in men....nothing extreme. I also think the eye area (eyes + eyebrows) is the key feature that women look for when selecting mates. Womem seem to love facial hair nowadays. I guess most people like following trends
Don’t listen to the people who say you’re dating down - so long as you’re happy that’s all that matters. More time, they’re just jealous of your relationship (especially if they’re girls) and want to ruin the good thing you’ve got going on. This nearly happened to me and my girlfriend.
I’d strongly suggest cutting off those negative friends if I were you
"Slut shaming" is an extremely interesting term to me. As a form of emotional manipulation it's brilliant --- probably coined by an evil genius. If you're male and have any standards at all, even related to behavioral choices rather than immutable traits, that's something you're supposed need to feel guilty about and seek to change because muh "double standard" since exactly the same preferences aren't exhibited by women. Men should try doing that to women and say things like, "sure you don't like men with gynecomastia, but oh woooomen can have breasts and it's fine." No joke, a f**in*st woman I knew posted about a girl with a beard not being found attractive and complained it was a "double standard," though we all know for a fact that if a man with breasts complained in an identical way she would call it entitlement.
We live in stupid times. It seems to be in part a side effect of comfort. Our ancestors could never have afforded the luxury of entertaining such bizarre delusions, if only because reality would smack them in the face.
Lol, our ancestors would weep at the f**kery that we allow today.
Same with basic cosmetic procedures. If a man gets plastic surgery, it's commonly seen as "weak and pathetic" but when women do it, its perfectly fine.
get off reddit
ik you can milk those utters of yours
@@kevohs8871 I actually don't use reddit at all.
Coming from a man, looks aren’t the only thing I’m looking for! She has to have good qualities too because what does it matter to have an attractive woman that’s not to treat you right or respect you or even worse cheat on you! At that point it’s better to remain as I am and find the right woman….
and over time she will become less and less attractive.
💯
Lot of really attractive women go to seed early these days, due to poor diet, drugs or alcohol anyway. If you're thinking long term, it matters less.
@@cathrynm seed?
He explained this in the video, if you had the choice between a 5 or a 7 and both of them have the same level of purity, every men would pick the more attractive woman.
These points are so true. I've actually seen 7s or 8s being turned down for a relationship because of their red flag behavior (i assume - it's the only explanation that makes sense to me). But it's also a good checklist to live by - could you maybe do a more in depts video on these purity traits, like how much weight does each one hold (also in regards to age)? If i should take a wild guess, i'd say it's worse to have a child (single mom), than being a bit lazy, but im more interested to hear your point of view :)
Depends on how they got the child. If it was from irresponsibly having casual flings, that’s bad. If, bearing age in mind, she was in a long term relationship with a guy, both were planning to have a family, and something happened that wasn’t so much in her control (guy cheated on her, guy died, guy just left for no good reason) and she was left with the child, that’s not nearly as bad. My aunt actually was a single mother of two, one of which is special needs, and she has frankly been a better mother to me than my own mom, due to the fact that she possesses a lot of great qualities in purity (not lazy, etc.) and just had some very unfortunate luck with her husband. Context matters a lot.
Most ppl. don't appreciate a lazy spouse for 4 decades.
@@justsomebird4285 That's actually a bit surprising to me. I thought the concept of taking care of another mans child was the absolute prime example of simping from a blackpill POV. But maybe i'm projecting, because i would never as a women date a single dad.
@@guiltymorty4117 you’re not wrong. Most of the time men would agree you shouldn’t date a single mom. Especially in this era when most are single moms due to their own actions and consequences. And it is quite a prominent theme within the black pill community. But that was just my own personal opinion. My experience with my aunt has just made me a little more open minded to it, that some are just quite unfortunate, but personally I’m also still very hesitant about getting involved with single mothers. Especially single mothers at a younger age, who had their kids as teens, or have several children with no father present. Even worse if those children have different fathers.
As well as varying a lot with factors others mentioned, the criteria for purity will vary largely with who's judging. For instance, if a guy smokes, he would be unlikely to count off of a women's purity rating for smoking.
Agreed. When I was young and desperate my ex was a 4. Overweight. Nicest person ever. But completely impure. Found out she had a body count of 40. And she had accumulated 30 of them in less than 6months......
Dysfunctional relationship with her parents too. I had never seen so many red flags in my life and had to completely leave. So I agree with this video wholeheartedly.
She might just have been insecure, sleeping around was validation that she's desired & sexy, maybe
A new guy every week for months, I'd be exhausted.
Simp language:
1. I'd be nothing without her
2. happy wife happy life
3. I'll do anything to make you happy
4. She can do no wrong
Not single anymore but I could still ace the purity test. Crazy that this is so rare. Hopefully more women wake up and start respecting themselves and others.
I think men and women both need to work on themselves first anyway have a nice day
Are you real?
@@Michael_the_Drunkard Yep
Good luck to you and your partner.
@@KiteFlyingVespa which man do you love more your “first” or current boo
I was with a 4/10 girl and when it came down to getting it on, I couldn’t do it cuz I felt kind of disgusted
She must of been less then 4 lol
Man was doing charity work
I never made it that far. I went on a date with a chick who was a 5/10 in the face but overweight.. I couldn't imagine laying up with her lol. I dont see how some men do it...
4/10 ? Was she fat? I mean ... 4/10 is not something that would disgust me, I am an around 5/10 man, so women 4-5-6/10 are my options. If she was a not fat 4/10, it is OK.
@@georgiosdoumas2446 she is 6’0(I’m 6’1) she was kinda fat cuz she had rolls , she has 4/10 face when I saw her topless, I just received hand jobs and got some head, but I couldn’t bring myself to do it with her even tho according to this video she has a purity score of 8
This is exactly the male equivalent of the thing your advocating that females should not do to men
He's never said that females shouldn't do what they do. In fact in his black pill/red pill/blue pill presentation, he says it only makes sense what they do. And as othets have said, if you are below 5 in looks, it's over for you anyway.
He's creating a toxic dating environment based on his own opinions & ideas.
It's sad to see many young men believing him.
@@jomanasoa3948 The old shaming tactic .. 🤦♂️ Sounds like someone doesn't like the truth coming out
@@jomanasoa3948 not really. His video's are quite relatable to me atleast from my experience
@@jomanasoa3948 Ah yes, using the word toxic. Argument won by KO 1st round.
Great video. That distinguish between what is relationship material and what isn't is so crucial. I sometimes hear my male friends forgiving women for the most fucked up reasons in the pursuit of sex, and it's a sign of his inability to learn from his mistakes rather than her issues being a problem.
I think there is something to be said specifically about fat/obese women, who are so common these days. I might agree to be seen in public with a woman who has an average face but a great body and who is in great shape, but I will never ever be able to do that with an obese/very fat women, regardless of how "cute" her face may be.
Land Whale Sanctuary to say the least out there. So many pretty faced bloated girls.
For obese women how the weight distributes is big. Big and bold describes the women men who like big girls want but then there's fat and ugly. Basically the bigger the boobs, the bigger the rest of her body can be. But also some women are obese on the scale but in extreme, college sports level, good health.
Wish i woulda read this 3wks ago.damn
One complicating factor is men are much more varied about what is considered an attractive woman. Consider body type. Some men find size 0 women attractive while other men prefer a more voluptuous woman. Women appear to be have a much more narrower range of men they consider handsome. I noticed Chads tend to look very similar, cookie cutter like.
I dont like slim women. I had before one and I didnt enjoyed sex so much. I like girls with big ass and legs, and thats me. My other friend like full slim womens. So thats good. Because we dont chase the same type girls, for each of us we can get our flavour.
2 replies hidden by CZcams, cool...
@@colasfalon6470 not mine, 2 replies before I commented but couldn't see either
Yeah, men are more logical, independent, and rational when it comes to all things.
@@Baka578 same. I always thought I was weird though cause all my friends were always attracted to more thin, model like or average body weight type of girls, but I've always been more turned on by girls society would consider clearly overweight and probably bordering on level 1 obesity, but as you said its a specific type where the fat is distributed in her chest, butt and thighs making them look busty etc.
I love how cold he is throughout this video while i piss myself from laughing at times. Truly a dedicated and serious man.
The british accent completes it
This is interesting and so very accurate. In our broken world it takes a high level of discipline, work ethic, empathy, and healthy parenting skills to create kids who keep long term purity. There’s too many traumas that affect both parents and children alike, it almost seems like it’s luck to come out not traumatized by anything or somehow the way a child is born to have more emotional toughness than another child, thus giving them greater strength to not give into addiction or bad habits. So it seems like both purity and looks are out of our control. We can try our best with counseling, therapy, and medication to free ourselves from addictions but it takes hard work and life has major challenges. Whether you’re a girl or guy, give yourself grace wherever you fall on this purity or looks scale. Just fight to do the next right thing everyday and it’s ok to make mistakes if you choose to bounce back and not stay in the pit of stress. Choose progression. You are worthy, valued, and enough.
You date what you can get
@Adolfthejewbaka _ Not if you’re in the bottom 50 percentile of men
@@Bloomer0609 which is 85% of us
@@Mark-uk8wz lol if you’re above a sub 5 and hussle you can get a woman but it requires a lot of work
I think that's a given; but in any case, it ultimately is a choice, and you date at your own risk.
@@rg8071 I just have issue with the clickbaiting title. People always choose their best option pretty much. It's just that most don't have many options.
With all those factors you just ruled out 99% of them almost instantly in my opinion.
The reason I don’t take this specific channel’s videos seriously is because his “average looking people” photos are completely random. The “average” girl he picked for this video is actually very attractive. The “attractive” girl he picked is the same level as the average girl but has bleached blonde hair and is wearing makeup. I think he needs to take lessons from a plastic surgeon or someone who practices aesthetics for a living. The only negative feature of the average girl is her huge forehead, but that can work in girls’ favor because some people prefer neotenous women. This has been consistent with all his videos. I scratch my head at his examples.
It's at the point where you either choose:
Attractive girl with low purity or unattractive girl with high purity.
(However, I suspect that the only reason unattractive girls have perceived high purity is because they don't have the option to be a basic, mess around, social media soliciting girl. - therefore, how pure are they really?)
Like the old saying goes - A man is only as loyal as his opportunities.
The same is true for women as well.
You know, used to be you could meet a chad whose GF was 5ish looking woman. She was "saner" to be with - meaning less entitled, egotistical, interchangeable attitude.
The way apps are those women, that era is over too.
You forgot she prolly lets him have side betches
No it's not. Stop projecting your own experiences. There are women like that. Lots.
I think the question is are you the ideal guy a girl wants to date?
Girls will date anyone who look like their imaginary husband aka chad
The answer is no for sub 5 males
@@shrekdonkey9027Not everything is about looks. Men's purity level needs to be high to attract a higg purity level woman. Sorry
Man this video popped into my feed and I am impressed on how well the algorithm did. Your video nails it on how I intuitively approach to girls, only that you conceptualized everything in a compact lesson. Great job
Ps: I would add that the "looks" parameter is kind of subjective for each guy, but the logic stills maintains solid regardless of personal preferences. Also about "purity" I think the amount of sexual experience is not necessarily a bad thing, as I would rather have some freak gf rather than some girl that doesnt like giving bjs.
The hotter the girl is, the harder for her to remain pure. The less hotter the girl is, the easier for her to remain pure.
You could maybe never have both hot and pure, but only something in the middle. It's sad but true.
That's true, that's why ugly women who are pure don't get credit for it. What men want are women who could have slept with many men but didn't. No one deserves a reward for not doing something they can't do.
Agreed. When guys are not that interested, or there's no options, then it doesn't matter. I waited for years, and I realize that by doing that I just kept myself marketable, because my face wasn't doing me any favors, and my apathy towards makeup lol
And still having 15 partners with 25 is TOOO MUCH !!!!!
This is what I thought. I'm not going anywhere near a girl who's had 15 partners by 25. This does seem to be the norm these days though. What I want is a girl who's pretty enough to have had 15 partners by 25 but chose not to. The trick is finding a girl who's been in committed long-term relationships consistently.
Is it really? Lets say she started at 18. That's only 2 per year..
@@WheatWaffles of course ! She isn't able to handle with a man more than 1 year, so it's a sign she's promiscuous -> Trash Woman
@@WheatWaffles
@@rayner-hilles
Careful who you talk that way to. Sometimes a seemingly rational person can suddenly flip out on you and become violent.
You are here completely true. In my experience, I am 33 now, the purity now is like some sort of rare pokemon card. My previousl relationship have been like this: 1.when i was young amateur: looks 4, purity 4. ( she taught me a lot of stuff about relationships)
2. When I was mid 20s: looks 7.5, purity 2. (great sex, bad life)
3. Around 27 years old: looks 10, purity 3. (to much for me, hard to handle, and not worth it)
And now I have fiance, she is 6.5 looks and purity 10. I am happiest man now. I had to find her 100km from my place. That hard is to find now women with good purity level.
At least you have someone to enjoy once hyperinflation hits (its already hit Turkey)
@@penderyn8794 my country(croatia) always have shitty economy, so we are used to it 🤣
@@pruga20 Nice job man. 100km is very far away, how did you meet her?
@@TheBudDex thanks. same hobby, gym
100km is ok I found mine 1000km hahah
Imagine he take your photo and rate you 2😂
Hey Wheat, i've been introduced these "...-pilled" concepts not too long ago but within this short time i tend to get the impression that most of these approaches to dating are only for the actual first attraction and rarely go beyond the first few dates/months. Im genuenly curious if you believe that looks (or the most relevant factors in any concept) only are enough to drive a romantic relationship to success (a lifelong committed relationship - in my view). I believe the blackpill is the best description for the tendencies of initial attraction, but on the long term im not sure how looks could keep a relationship going.
If you are mid looking 70% of partners will insta leave you for a complete Chad
The way things are I’m willing to sacrifice quite a lot on the looks departement if the purity is high.
In my grandparents' time, days gone by, purity was never something you had to bargain for. If you were fairly good-looking and came from a good family and lived within a stone's throw from a pretty girl, you were in, and her purity was guaranteed.
Ngl, I’ve given up finding it in the west. In two years I’m expatriating
@@roninbushida1180 asia is fcked as well. Phillipines is the only country in my experience where ive noticed that they chase guys
@@xadion6866 no, just the "USA-affected" zone
@@djlinux64 most of world is US affected
I would continue the relationship material line into box 2. if she has one or 2 physically attractive qualities but is very pure. That’s good enough
For you really
Aw hell nah bro
remember that they are very good at hiding their true face, women in general I mean, I have met women who are 2 or 3 and appeared to be very "pure", once you get to know them, you can get surprised how manipulative and liars they can to become, I have met three women like that, and who were actually very promiscuous, hiding from their family and acquaintances, over time things are uncovered, the problem is that the truth can explode very strongly in your face. Be intelligent, attentive with all the information they give you and above all, do not be naive, that trust is earned and shown over time.
I would say that a 10 purity woman also has the trait of discernment. She is gonna date someone just as pure as herself. So you going clubbing, sleeping around and living the high life ain’t gonna cut it. Real talk, If you want to be in the competitive sphere you gotta be competitive
Your 7s are better looking than your top 2 girls.
Men, do not hesitate to put a restraining order against your narcissistic female partner! Men, the system is biased against you get ahead of the madness and protect yourself at all costs! Men, be safe!
This seems personal
@@tristiandavis6852 you took this personal 🤦♂️
@@AhmeddR6 you know nothing about my emotions about his comment so your opinion means nothing.
Men need to stop simping around. Cut that only fans bullsh!t and start to care about themselves.
@@tristiandavis6852 then stop assuming shit
I always find it funny when he says “you’d pick the 7 out of 10 every time” then the photo he displays on screen the 5/10 is hotter😂
Well ye cus he just picks random photos sometimes, is just for an example. But I get your joke 😂
I thought that too. But i actually think that all of the photos of women should have been full body pics. The entire female figure in addition to the face is the only way to determine true attractiveness on a 1-10 scale. But we all get the point of wheat's video. Another gem of true in depth analysis.
@@recapv7615 not a joke I think it just shows how some of this isn’t true due to subjectivity
@@redpug8236 Tinder data shows there is no subjectivity
@@terrancewood9322 in numbers but in terms of who you get a 6 can pull an 8 cuz of subjectivity
I want to redefine "good relationship with parents".
I have a very toxic and abusive mother. To protect myself from being further hurt by her, I stopped contacting her 3 years ago.
Also, I don't like the way she talked about my boyfriend. So I also protect my boyfriend from being judged by her. I save my boyfriend a ton of time and efforts trying to please my mom. He could just be himself without having to worry that it will bug my mom. I told him he never have to do anything for his "in-laws".
So I think the girl not having a "good relationship" with their parents could be helpful in a romantic relationship.
your situation is an exception
And as such, exceptions don't make the rule.
According to these dingbats you're now lower on the purity scale. Congratulations on listening to black-pill advice, now you have a new insecurity:)
So you want us to be financially independent but at the same time we shouldn’t be feminists with careers? I’m confused.
I like where you're taking this. Keep up progressing your content and you will be rewarded with lots of loyal viewers. I like how you admitted simping is human nature and impossible to stop yourself from to some extent (as a man). That's an important point and a humble perspective.
Dating is too complicated. Finding Love is the whole idea of playing the game yet women these days seem to think about high value, successful husbands and money. That’s all they want.
And when they wait a long time to find that person while dumping every nice guy under the sun and can’t find that person, they finally realise they shouldn’t have done that when they end up older and alone.
Love has never been the objective. Never once in human history lmao.
Marriage and relationships always were for the sake of strengthening numbers, the tribe, clan, resources, etc, etc.
There was love in relationships, yes but that wasn't the objective at all. Marriage being primarily about love is only a recent development in human history.
Such a true statements
@@n1rvana_ I don’t agree.
Love in the romantic sense isn't real. Things have become so corrupted now-a-days that true happiness or what you would call "love" is a rarity and more than likely can't be found in modern women. Women may lust for you, your money, or your lifestyle. But they do not love you. As soon as you lose whatever it is that caught their attention in the first place, they're out.
Dating is pointless and a waste of time. Just live your life, do what's right, and take care of yourself.
@@ozone8259 Trust me I gave up dating a long time ago. Definitely agree it’s pointless and a waste of time.
Maybe I worded it wrong. All I know is who you are as a person is less important than materialistic possessions or what you bring to the table.
First question they will ask on a date is where do you work, do you have your own house etc.
All the time they are ticking off the boxes in their head.
What happened to are you kind? Are you caring? Are you honest?
It’s laughable.
The best girls to date longterm i find are the ones living in the countryside with little or no influence of city life and internet.
About 5% of ever lived women fall under top purity scale. 7-10 on looks scale out of this 5% makes it way less 1% chance to find a good-looking and pure girl regarding to that graph
I would add health to purity factors, for example: weight or diseases. Also for red flags how much does the individual factors effect the purity ranking, for example how you mentioned just 2 of some particular factors could mean a ranking 5 or below. Thanks for the content!
What do you mean by diseases? That could be anything from an STD to a condition they were born with like diabetes. Also weight would be more correlated with looks than purity no?
Wow this video could not have come at a better time because just yesterday I spent the day hiking with a girl that I now comfortably know is in the relationship material zone. Sad part is that I probably wouldn’t have even gotten the chance to meet her if it weren’t for my genes.
Sad part is u probably wouldn't even notice her if she was fat /ugly
bro just smash and move on
@@kevohs8871 Why do that with a high quality women like her?
How fucking down bad are these people?
@@kevohs8871 just say you are low purity🤢 gross
You think most women are a 6 or 7?? Where do you live the French Riviera?? You can't honestly tell me walking down any high street in England that most women are above average, you are way off the mark 🤣🤣
Lol
Nah, white girls do be more pretty on average so it makes sense to me. if i compare it with my country most girls here are 5 bieng kind
I can’t think of a single female I know that would date someone this shallow. Even if he’s a “10” on his imaginary scale
There is a formula called the Drake Equation. It is a calculation of how many civilizations are out there in the universe. Now we have the Mr. Waffles Equation. I see the proportion of women falling perceptiously with each factor.
Since the beginning of time, oft has man cast his gaze up into the heavens, pondered the stars and wondered, "could there be marriage material out there?"
The percentages don't add up. Way more then 22% of women are a 5 or below.
Think it depends on ur location
@@leonardomellado1949 Unless you're in Iceland, it's way higher than 22% everywhere else. 42% of American women are obese. Not just overweight. Obese.
@@leonardomellado1949 Well, if you only count the women in your college campus than maybe. But if you consider the whole country probably 50% of them is older than 45years, which means that almost all of them are ugly.
One of the sadder truths is that many credentialed "experts" will deny or dismiss the role such realities play in the formation and dynamics of relationships.
Hm, is a good idea for the future videos, to do videos from woman's(all categories) perspective for man's... A lot of man's(boys) here don't know how woman's think about anything and they fantasy, like I did about "what woman's want from us"...
Out of the gate with shaming language and insults.
Shutup wahmen and make one yourself . We will watch it if it's good . Now go start making the video and stop being a lazy wahmen.
@Alex H woman moment?
@@NovaSage He isn't wrong lmao, yall some incels.
@@bluey1007 sure, that's what it is.
I know a woman from school times, who is a 10/10 in purity (religious/christian), small, very cute face, curly blonde hair. She also liked me. I was in love with her but she moved away. I'm still thinking much about her and wish I could have a longterm relationship with her. She would be a perfect wife and mother of our children.
Lol
*Sigh* This video explains the sinking feeling and remorse I have regarding my last relationship.
That woman had the highest “Purity’ of anyone I’ve ever met. The only strike she had was that she had a child. Yes, that’s a big deal but here me out. He’s a great kid, we got along fantastically, and she didn’t expect me to take over/be responsible as most guys fear dating single moms. Everything I did for that kid I wanted too because of the bond me and him developed. There was no pressure from her.
Regarding her other purity points:
1.) Super low partner count. I probably had more partners in a year than she’s ever had. She lost her virginity to her ex husband, who is the father of her child. She then had a few more partners before me. I was her 4th or 5th sexual partner at 27/28 years old mind you.
2.) Never cheated. Ever. I won’t get into it here, but she’s literally the most loyal person I know. When she’s into her man she doesn’t even look at other guys.
3.) She’s never done anything. Not so much as a cigarette or a single joint. Hell when we were together she never so much as had a sip of alcohol. She finally had a sip of her first drink after we split, a Stella Rose wine I believe.
4.) Not at all. In all honestly she’s much, much more motivated than I am. I’m the lazy one of the two of us.
5.) Not at all. As I said about her loyalty, she’s probably the least entitled person I’ve ever met. I’m much more selfish and entitled than she would ever be.
6.) Here’s her one strike. Like I said previously however, he’s a great kid, we loved each other, and he wanted younger siblings so much he’d be a great brother.
7.) Again, her purity is excellent. She literally only has a single social media account, Facebook, that she uses to keep in touch with friends and family. Thats all, no tik tok, no IG, no snap, etc.
8.) Ha! As if. That’s not her at all.
9.) Very much so. She never asked me for anything. Everything I did I wanted to do, and she would have been an equal, if not superior, financial partner had we gotten married.
10.) Her parents are both dead, R.I.P. so this doesn’t count.
All in all this video really confirms why I feel like I screwed up so badly with her in particular. She loved me so so much. I cared about her quite a lot as well, but I always had one foot out the door simply because I was so focused in the fact she had a son. It didn’t matter that he was a great kid, we got along super well, and she didn’t ask anything of me. No she had a son and therefore it was bad and I’m a SIMP as per the internet.
Ok sure, ideally we would have built a life and had our first child together. In hindsight though I’d take her and her son over these, always smoking, getting drunk, shaking ass on instagram, cheating ass hoes with no kids.
After we broke up on New Years (2022) somebody else scooped her up real quick because of her super high purity. I was fine with her moving on because I thought that’s what I wanted. I was the reason we broke up after all. As time passed however, I realized I fucked up. My feelings became more apparent and I realized I really did love her, and than I didn’t care about SIMPING or being a cuck since she has a kid. I realized that too late to save us though.
Hell it gets even worse if you go back to last year. As I said she wanted to marry me, and we had actually gotten pregnant. I basically said fuck that noise, and she got the abortion. This is a woman who had a total of three pregnancies. The first was a miscarriage that she mourned for a long time… The second was her son. Those were both with her husband. The third was with me. She was 5 weeks along when I took her to get the abortion on Sept 30th 2021. If we kept it and stayed together she was be about 34 weeks along now. My first child would nearly be here and her son would be overjoyed to have a sibling. Especially with me. Many times he said he wanted me and mommy to have a baby and for us to all be together.
So now here I sit, teary eyed as I think about the life full of love and happiness I could have had. A wonderful adopted son, a beautiful baby on the way, and a woman who is peerless in terms of purity at nearly 30. I haven’t even mentioned looks. Of course in my love I think she’s the most beautiful woman I’ve met. Objectively however she’s a 7, if not higher. Her body on its own is objectively a 9 or 10. I don’t think I could find a fault with her body if I was paid to. And that’s after having a child.
As for my looks, I’m probably a 6 currently with no looks maxing at all. If I addressed my issues (the biggest being my teeth are spaced as I never had braces) I could be a 7 or 8 easily. Even just getting fit could make me a 7. So we are pretty matched looks wise, with her currently having the upper hand appearance wise.
Even at what I would call a 6 now, I don’t have problems getting women with minimal effort. I’m literally out of town and typing this in a girls bed now. However, most of these girls have purity faults that make them FWB at best. It’s so disheartening, especially since I have never loved someone before. Even outside of her purity, she was just so affectionate, so good in bed, she’s bilingual, from another interesting culture, and was just fun to be around. She really was my favorite person and I fucked it up because I thought I should based on her son.
Don’t be like me kids. Love and happiness are the most important things in life. Screw everyone else and their opinions.
All the best to you man. The type of purity you described is rare....I myself would rather stay single than be with someone with a purity level below the range I require. I have turned down some amazing women similar to the woman you have described, based solely on the fact that they had a child/children......I'm a bit 2 minded about that because of all the warnings about dating single moms - but at this point I may reconsider. I'm 33 and not getting any younger.
@@scooby8859 Exactly my point mate. I’ll be 29 this year so I have a few years of youth over you but I’m not getting younger either. If she had multiple children, or an older child who was difficult, or any other number of issues I would feel justified. However the kid is young, he was only 3 when I met him, and loved me immensely. The dad/ex husband was basically useless and out of the picture. She has full custody of her son with no geographic restrictions. She even wanted to change his last name to be mines when we marry and have me adopt him. It’s literally the best case scenario for someone who has a child and I fucked it up because I could only see the situation in black and white. Real life though is full of grays…
@@heybro7971 Time can be an advatage for you. The older you get, the more valuable a man becomes. If her current partner fails maybe you could return. At that point the kid will be older so it will be even less problematic and eventually the kid will get out of the nest so the mother could focus better on getting back with the old ties she had with you. The difficulty will be higher, depending on how you disconnected from her and how easy is to maintaing communication with her over the time.
Maybe a deep research on other women with her traits could be a great alternative, in case you feel hopeless on returning with her.
You should start working on your own purity. If you had more of it, you wouldn’t be in this situation.
I read that whole thing. I think so many of us have struggled with this situation. The single mom Apocalypse is upon us. We get attached to these MILFs. Their only play is for them to get us addicted to their box. It's crazy you were typing that from a chicks bed. This world has turned us into savages.
would highly recommend
you to use the the term
“appropriate relationship with parents”
instead of “good relationship”.
my mother was/is a a narcissistic sociopath
broke down contact with her for this exact reason.
if a girl has a good relationship with her parents
even though they are highly toxic
don’t consider this to be a good thing.
just wanted to say this :)
Don't steal other people's comments.
Thank god I've never been with someone I consider an 'only once'. I almost did but I know I would have regreted it for a lifetime lol
Been there, done that. Never felt so disgusted in my life
I’d say I’m a Tyrone or Tyrone light, I’m over 6’6 an athlete and I’d say my face is between a 7-8 based of womens response.
I realized that beautiful women are everywhere, you can pretty much get anything u want in a girl easily besides purity.
I’ve met 3 girls with the level of purity I want, one is Sub 3 (I’m fine with anything 6+ maybe even a high level 5 if the purity level is very high)
The other 2 are already in long term relationships of over 3 years.
This is the problem I keep having. All of the high-quality girls are in relationships. I'm not really into wasting my time on girls who have been in a lot of relationships, even if they're good looking. I don't have time for that shite.
@@MakinItHappenn well said.
You are over 6'6 , so you are 6'7? lol No one is counting mm's
Yeah high quality women usually get taken up in the dating market
@@dominusbalial835 ...unless they're strongly religious, since they're only willing to date other religious people, thus dropping the amount of possible partners they could have.
As soon as you started to list the qualities, I think you wrote off every single woman I've ever met in my life
Thank God I'm a Christian conservative, you should be too. Not only are the women high quality/purity, but you'll also be blessed with a good physical life, and more importantly, eternal life. God bless!
@@bryant475 What the hell. This is wrong. I can't quite put my finger at what exactly is. But there is something wrong with that and you.
It is scary how much this Video explained various life-choices I've made and precisely described what I actually did after making said decision. Great Work man!
I use this scale instinctively since ever! I've lost track how many 7's and 8's I've date and have FWB for a period and then get family, colleagues asking why I didn't commit.
It looks like I'm picky, but I'm being rational.
What's a FWB?
@@valentinominosvugner9860 friends with benefits
You answered your question
Men don’t commit anymore and women want sex too. You can’t sleep with a lot of women then complain you can’t find a virgin bride
@DNA hahaha bro I'm from Brazil, u Don't need to be in a serious relationship in order to some relative's know the person, give me a break.
My comment was just to acknowledge the reality presentend in the video. Sorry if you've never had the same experience.
@@vinmjj2365 I hate this about Brazil, I bring a girl home once, my sister sees it and now even your 5th cousin who lives in another state knows about it and asks if you are dating.
Interesting video, I can see the sense in it all. Do you have a video on the looks distribution of women like your really useful video for men?
I mean, in more depth than the last section of the video and breaking it down by age etc like you did for men.
If she lives in West - RUN
Why?
I really like your graphics and the way you structure your videos, it really shows a structured and analytical mind, that's not something you see often in the blackpill community.
I think this kinds of videos are great when they follow up other videos that treat something related.
This way we get to have some form of conclusion/result of what you previously treated.
Keep up the good work, I watch all your videos as soon as they come out.
Good work on breaking it all down👏🏼
Super interesting video. Thanks for your analysis. I have a daughter I intend to speak frankly too and encourage to keep her life clean. I grew up in a church environment and "purity culture", so funny to see it applied in a different way here. I too struggled with "missing out" on the "fun" growing up, but in the end it was beneficial to live clean. I can say that in the circles I was in, looks mattered more than "purity" growing up, because there were more girls "saving" themselves than there was 7-10 girls (me being in the 5-6 range).
Youre not a girl quit larping lol
@@hanalala3164 ?? I am a girl...whatever.
I do remember one girl who was an 8, and didn't last long in her quest for purity. Looking back, the lack of male attention was a blessing. I didn't know what I was missing lol.
@@sarahg3156 a girl will never say ‘i know a girl who was an 8’ what a fkn joker you are. Lmaoooooo
I'm sorry but the girl on the left at 8:33 is not a "5". I know that attractiveness can be somewhat subjective so there will be some variance in people's opinions but Wheat you were way off here. At worst she is a 7 out of 10. Good video overall, I just kept seeing that face rated at a 5 and it just annoyed me.
I'd say she's a 4. A 5 at best. 7 is way too high. 5 is average. So most women should be around a 5. I'd think people are too used to school grading where 50% is completely failing.
@@chamcham123 well 50% is failing here as well. Every woman who is average ir slightly less atractive is for "only once" according to this. So 50% of woman must be single according to this
@@chamcham123 You only think that because she's not wearing any makeup, her facial structure is definitely 7 but she has dark under eyes which can easily be covered with some concealer.
It's completely subjective
Some very good points, especially on the purity thing be warned. I got rid of a nice girl who was about a 5 (fair looksmatch for me really), and had all those good purity characteristics a few years back, and went for a hotter 7 with tons of those red flags, dodgy SM etc. obviously relationship crashed and burned recently, never that stable. Wasted loads of time, serves me right really because I knew. Go for the good girl, not just the girl who looks nicer for you to show off and ego boost.
I still think that for a huge percent of us guys the girl being a nonsmoker is super important on the purity scale. I would rather have a girl who's never smoked and hates smoking but has slept with 10 guys in her life than a smoker who only slept with three. I think probably half the guys out there would agree with me on this.
That would be one of the biggest turn off right off the bat, I wouldn't stand the smoke and smell from a smoker even if she was hot
@@ricardos8307 absolutely! It's a total deal breaker for tens of millions of guys. Much worse than some of those other factors.
Nah I’d rather be with a smoking virgin
Are you kidding me?
@@Project1312 smoking is completely gross and totally repulsive. A girl turning her pretty mouth into a disgusting smoke hole while having that trashy smelly thing hanging out of her mouth stinking up the entire room while looking like Queen of the trailer park is about as unattractive as you can get.
If a girl is not a virgin then honestly what difference does it make if she slept with three guys with 10 guys? Either way she's not a virgin and other guys have been inside her so it stands to reason that it would be preferable that he had she had slept with 10 guys in the past I'm not gross out her boyfriend by turning her mouth into a Smoke Hole as opposed to constantly grossing him out with smoking but only had three guys in our past.
No tatoos , crazy hair color, neck chocks etc. Pretty much eliminates 70 % of women these days.
Bro no it doesn't 💀
“Good relationship with parents” most people don’t have that men and women
For me an average face is ok,but it’s how she takes care of her body that matters more. She’s born with the face but through effort can keep her body slim and attractive. Shows strength of character.
Ok so I grew up in a very VERY strict household...I never had boyfriend's in highschool and I can remember feeling like I was 'abnormal' for still being a virgin when I was 19. 😞 Anyway I met my husband at 19 and well we are still together with two children and I am now 28 😌 💖. I'm so glad I didn't stay at University and get into the whole online dating app crap. Me and my husband are very happy and I am happy that I never have had to go through the pain of datingand sleeping with multiple people.
facts
Outstanding 👏🏾👌🏾
So what drew you to this side of the internet and this video in particular? If you are a happily married woman why are you watching black pill content?
@@gintoki2643 because It reminds me everyday to be thankful for what I have. The grass is not always greener on the other side. And that's something me and my husband are greatfull we stuck by each other. We are black pilled anyway in regards to all matters of the world. We hope to be wide awake so that we may bring our children up traditionally so that they do not make these mistakes when they become young adults.
@@Toledo_Doodee that's awesome! I'm curious what do you mean when you say all of us are black pill?
Can't agree with you more, just one remark:
"purity" traits also have different weights. Some more than others and depending on the guy even 1 bad trait with a high weight can be a dealbreaker even for a 10 when looking at a long term relationship. This goes both ways though, a 6 with 2 or 3 bad traits with a low weight might be able to be seen as relationship material.
Really great videos dude. I needed these videos when I was in my teens. Through our 20s most guys get a rough idea of this through trial and error, unfortunately.
Im starting to work on myself to max out my looks after watching a few of your videos, thanks for the motivation bro!
Young lads, take note. WW nails this. My GF scores perfectly in the P axis; mainly due to nature, but also due to career choices, family circumstances, geographic location. All of my previous were in the danger zone. Everytime I see a smokeshow now, I'm reminded of what a headache they are. All of my ex's are either childless or loveless spinsters, it's sad. Anyway, don't give up, I met mine at 35, she's 8 years younger.
Lmao nerd