How we handle things as an Interracial couple and the "N" word.

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  • čas přidán 10. 09. 2024
  • A few situations that we have encountered as a couple. People are really funny and interesting when it comes to interracial relationships. #interracialcouple #interraciallove #interracial #interracialdating #interracialmarriage #interracialrelationship #bwwm #love #interracialcouples #swirl #swirllove #interracialromance #swirllife #swirldating #interracialfamily #interracialrelationships #mixedlove #interracialmatch #couplegoals #lovehasnocolor #swirlnation #wmbw #interracialdatingsite #mixedcouple #relationshipgoals #blackandwhite #interracialgoals #interracialsingles #blackwomendatingwhitemen #bhfyp

Komentáře • 564

  • @Beautifulglenda
    @Beautifulglenda Před 3 lety +140

    Yesssss when your husband said if someone calls u the N-word he laying them flat!!!!!!!!!! I don't put weight to that word either but i am totally for your husband Laying them ALL THE WAY FLAT!!!!! LOL

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 3 lety +19

      LOL...right!

    • @darleofgodintheruachelohim7552
      @darleofgodintheruachelohim7552 Před 3 lety +11

      Funny 😆

    • @susiebear3316
      @susiebear3316 Před 3 lety +12

      It will be more than likely bm trying to harass her before yt people

    • @CounselorMalcolm
      @CounselorMalcolm Před 2 lety

      @@susiebear3316 where do you come up that idiotic theory , huh ?
      Majority of so called bm do not care who a so called black woman dates/marries
      Get your head out of false narratives
      Please and thank you

    • @5050TM
      @5050TM Před rokem +1

      ​​@@susiebear3316That's usually the way it goes...but not here.

  • @keystonedaytrip238
    @keystonedaytrip238 Před 3 lety +71

    I admire successful interracial couples 👍🏼

  • @gwen3010
    @gwen3010 Před 2 lety +62

    Congrats to you both for finding love.

  • @wensimm6006
    @wensimm6006 Před 3 lety +79

    Prejudice still exists is 2021. It’s so sad that some people still look at skin color and not ones character. I’m happy that you two have a bond. In my eyes love is colorless. Thank you all for adult dialogue.❤️

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 3 lety +14

      Yes, it is hard to believe that racism still exists to the extent that it does. We as the human race should do better and we as a couple are happy to do are part to try an eradicate it. Thank you again and please keep watching, we hope you enjoy it!

    • @Valkonnen
      @Valkonnen Před rokem

      No, it actually doesn't, but a lot of people think it does. For instance, if you go to China, Japan, India , or Africa and tell them that they should have more "diversity", they might give the same answer. They might say, we have thousands of years of History and tradition, and would like our children to look as we do. Now, if you were to ask 100 various Americans, no one would see these nations as "hateful" , "Racist" or even "Prejudiced". But choose ANY white nation, no matter how different they are from each other, and ANY white nation, uttering those identical words would ALL be seen as "Hateful". Have you ever asked yourself why this is ? maybe what you have been told to see as "Prejudice" is actually "Preference" and you've been lied to. Just something to step back, look at, and consider...

  • @valoismickens1169
    @valoismickens1169 Před 3 lety +44

    What I have learned is that people have hidden hatreds and can be cordial to save face. I am always surprised, especially in the work place.

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 3 lety +8

      You are right valois. They laugh and grin in your face. John used to say his Mom may not be the one wearing the white sheet but she maybe the one that lights the cross on the lawn. That's some deep ish to recognize about your own parent. Considering what I have experienced, the work place never surprises me. Thanks for watching. 😊

    • @MsTeeFy27
      @MsTeeFy27 Před 2 lety

      Absolutely

  • @deborahlee125
    @deborahlee125 Před 3 lety +37

    BEAUTIFUL COUPLE!

  • @Amala.Aduola...
    @Amala.Aduola... Před 2 lety +8

    I’m a Black woman, married to a Black man. Your hubby is a REAL ONE! Just Subbed 💪🏾👍🏾💯🔥

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 2 lety +2

      Thank you so much. We appreciate your comment and you watching and subscribing. We love it!!🥰🥰🥰

  • @mazifimo8000
    @mazifimo8000 Před 3 lety +27

    John, man, your wife is enriched with wisdom!

  • @joygirl09
    @joygirl09 Před 3 lety +47

    I’m not in an interracial relationship but I clicked on this video because it was suggested and I’m glad I did! I’m in IT, and still in 2021, I’m the only black woman in my department. Please do a video on your career journey as a black woman ! Thanks

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 3 lety +13

      R Davis.....Guuuuuurrrll...thank you so much for this comment and topic suggestion. YES, I will do a video on my experiences working in the IT field. That video could go on and on for days, but I'll keep is short and to the point😄😄. Look for it in a couple of weeks and thank you so much for watching, we really appreciate it.🥰

  • @elizabethedwards5092
    @elizabethedwards5092 Před 3 lety +22

    I love your thought to the N word. I love the way your husband loves you cause you are his wife.

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 3 lety +2

      Thank you Elizabeth, we appreciate that🙂

    • @rockytoronto
      @rockytoronto Před 2 lety +2

      I do the same as she does I dont give power to the N word..I also laugh or tell the person using that name that they're the actual N word because they're ignorant..and I continue to laugh at them so they clearly know that word means nothing to me and is powerless to move me into confrontation

  • @yodi7778
    @yodi7778 Před 3 lety +95

    I dont know how I stumbled on this video but man yals relationship is so wholesome, too precious 💕

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 3 lety +4

      Thank you so much for watching, we appreciate it.

    • @mr4533
      @mr4533 Před 3 lety +4

      Yes.

    • @timwiggins3795
      @timwiggins3795 Před 2 lety

      Sometimes it's better to date another race black woman don't care about black men like y'all really think 🤔💬 it's plenty of proof

  • @lizbethquintero545
    @lizbethquintero545 Před 3 lety +27

    What a beautiful relationship! I hope I find myself in a loving relationship like this.

  • @TMorales131
    @TMorales131 Před 3 lety +26

    Stay safe. Continue to protect your marriage and guard your spirits. 🙏🏽

  • @nikstechniks
    @nikstechniks Před 3 lety +44

    My husband thinks he's a brother too, I just shake my head but I love him

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 3 lety +4

      LOL...too funny!

    • @mr4533
      @mr4533 Před 3 lety +2

      He is, one blood of being a human being with another beautiful style of tent( human body body) created by God.
      human bein

    • @mr4533
      @mr4533 Před 3 lety +2

      Racism is created by evil spirits(divisions of superiority.

    • @exileduniverse
      @exileduniverse Před rokem

      ​@@mr4533nope

  • @elektracity205
    @elektracity205 Před 3 lety +26

    I get what you meant by how people look at John and would not expect him to be married to a black woman. I had a former co-worker who was a much older white woman and she's telling stories about her husband and her and I always thought the husband was white until one day he visited and he was a black man. Surprised the hell out me because I have never seen an older interracial couple before.

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 3 lety +2

      Right Elektracity, you don't expect to see things and when you do you are surprised. Thank you for watching.

  • @cjhforreal4738
    @cjhforreal4738 Před 3 lety +16

    Keep loving each other. Keep treating each other right.

  • @sylmarie6494
    @sylmarie6494 Před 3 lety +25

    Just found your channel and I so appreciate how real you both are.

  • @BlvckHouzWyf_Inc
    @BlvckHouzWyf_Inc Před 2 lety +11

    You two make a lovely couple!!!!!! ❤️

  • @WONDERFULLYMADE2009
    @WONDERFULLYMADE2009 Před 2 lety +22

    I love how open and honest you guys are. Yall are such a beautiful couple and it's so true you can't judge a book by its cover. Great video 🥰💞💞

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 2 lety +3

      Thank you Wonderfully...we really appreciate your kind comments. Thanks for watching 🙂

  • @sonyabrown7950
    @sonyabrown7950 Před 3 lety +34

    I stumbled on your channel and I love you two!

  • @tinterlight
    @tinterlight Před 2 lety +8

    Just from the thumbnail, I could tell that these two make sense as a couple - love and peace xx

  • @darleofgodintheruachelohim7552

    Yes it’s all about RESPECT. Everybody is somebody. RESPECT their life. Period. Exclamation point!

  • @auroraberkel3661
    @auroraberkel3661 Před 3 lety +12

    Love your calmness nice couple🙏🏽❤️❤️

  • @129diggsdrive
    @129diggsdrive Před 3 lety +9

    I happened upon your channel tonight! My mom's side of the family is extremely light and WOW, does John look like my mom's brother!!!! He could fit right in with that side of the family! On another note, Ronnie (I hope I spelled your name correctly).....your hands and nails are gorgeous!! Your hands look so elegant and lovely! And your smile is so beautiful and your hair, too! And your voice has such a smooth modulated tone! I'm married to a white man too (18 years now!) and we haven't experienced any ugliness. I'm very thankful for that but I know it does happen to interracial couples. Thanks for sharing so much of your story!

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 3 lety

      129diggsdrive thank you so much for your thoughtful comments. That is funny about the resemblance , John gets that all the time, I told him he has a doppelganger. Wow 18 years, we are coming up on 10 in May...time flies. Thank you for watching, we really appreciate it! 🥰🥰

  • @vyvyienewalser6798
    @vyvyienewalser6798 Před 2 lety +6

    Was married to my austrian husband for 30 happy years.Sadly he passed away from cancer in 2015. What a wonderful man.Miss him every day.I am of indian stock.I fully understand this couples love.It's not about colour....it's about how u make each other feel.It's just peaceful and caring.U guys are an absolute joy.

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 2 lety

      Vyvyiene, thanks for commenting, sorry for your loss. Love is love and if you're lucky enough to find it, cherish it, that's my motto. Thanks again for watching, we really appreciate it 🥰

  • @kckgirl78
    @kckgirl78 Před 2 lety +60

    Ok, I’ll confess: guilty as charged. I thought this video was going to be about how an avowed racist fell in love with a Black person who changed his heart and mind….. WAS WRONG! Instead, this is the story of two human beings coming together IN SPITE OF all preconceived notions of who they are. Thank you both for sharing your story and I wish you continued blessings. 😃❤️🙏🏽

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 2 lety +17

      LOL...kckgirl78, you fell into that trap too. John gets judged before he even opens his mouth, poor baby but the good thing is he doesn't care and we have so much fun with it. Thank you so much for your comment and watching. 🥰

    • @sharonhicks-jones5471
      @sharonhicks-jones5471 Před 2 lety +4

      Same.....subscribed

    • @bettiesally6486
      @bettiesally6486 Před 2 lety +4

      You're so. Welcome

    • @Mission-nb1il
      @Mission-nb1il Před 9 měsíci

      His . Mom was not raised in an environment that does not understand racial equity. She is a victim of her raising. Continue treating her with kindness. I promise love will win!!!l l person but was raised by

    • @Mission-nb1il
      @Mission-nb1il Před 9 měsíci

      P

  • @user-dc6bi9ii7b
    @user-dc6bi9ii7b Před 4 měsíci +1

    Definitely IT IS A RESPECT FACTOR. YOU ARE DARN RIGHT. YES JOHN, IT IS RESPECT.

  • @Ravenhairedt4
    @Ravenhairedt4 Před 3 lety +9

    Thank you for sharing your story. It helped to feel less alone with these experiences. 💕

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 3 lety +1

      You are so welcome Tash.

    • @Ravenhairedt4
      @Ravenhairedt4 Před 3 lety

      @@hayzaleyesandthehubs2337I’ve recently been struggling with going out with my husband Bc ppl assume we aren’t together too. It’s pretty hurtful. I don’t want to live in fear & let others ruin my happiness. But I’m just being honest.
      I can tell you and your husband love each other and if I can clearly see that, I know those ppl can that in our relationship as well. The interesting thing about racism & prejudice (especially when going out together) that gets me the most, is that you can’t always anticipate it. Ex:being in the grocery store shopping minding your business with your husband & having a good day & someone says “ are you together?” Like why? Why do you care? & then you’re the jerk if you call them out. I also don’t enjoy the unnecessary scrutiny (from both sides) for literally just loving another HUMAN who is lighter than me. They think we are the “ weirdos” for not allowing race to divide us, but really they ARE. My husband and I believe in the Lord, so we believe that we are created equally & in his image like he says. I am focusing on choosing joy & thankful fo your honesty and perspective. Please keep making videos.Sorry for the scroll 😊

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 3 lety +2

      @@Ravenhairedt4 Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts. I really appreciate that. How I deal with ignorant people is to ignore it, unless something is said to me directly. I would be in a fight every day if I allowed everything that I have overheard to affect me. I definitely pick and choose my battles, but life is too short to allow all that negativity to take me over. Please don't let others get to you and enjoy the life that you have made. Again , I really appreciate you commenting and we definitely will be making a lot of videos...so stay tuned. 😊

  • @beatricekarbaumer-jones6514

    So much of this story resonates with my own experiences, including the ones in the workplace. I was well aware of what people would say behind my back but I just went about my business. One colleague even called me passive-aggressive, probably because no one could get a rise out of me. But I knew my Rights and knew when to claim them when it was important enough.

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 2 lety +3

      Right...folks stay trying your patience in the work place. I've been called everything but a child of God 😂😂
      The one I always liked was "angry black woman" because they didn't like me speaking up for myself and knowing my rights.

  • @immunitycorrupts3641
    @immunitycorrupts3641 Před 3 lety +23

    as I've gotten older things like race just don't matter to me anymore. I remember when I was in school I was one of the dumb racist that used the N word a few times against a few boys. I grew up hearing it from my grandmother and grandfather. later in life I've realized we're all Humans and just want to make it through the day and find happiness in life. we're only here for a very short time enjoy it. I wish I could go back and apologies to the people I've hurt by using that word. when my Twin Sister first started to date a black man I wasn't happy about it. . once I got to take the time to know him he was just like me really.. different skin color but just wanted to make it through the day and be left alone for the most part. I've always wanted to start a youtube channel Get-To-Know-ME and just allow people to record short videos and just tell a little about themselves so we can see the vast differences in maybe skin color but life styles are similar and we all just want to be happy and find love in life. we all have dreams at some point. so why not share with the world you guys are awesome!. it starts with parents... I'm taking the time to explain to my 2 kids why it's important to not be a racist and treat everyone as a human being. things I was never told growing up. I want my kids to learn from my mistakes. so it starts with parents

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 3 lety +3

      Charles thank you for this comment. One of the reasons we decided to do a channel was to share our life experiences and to show the differences as well as the similarities. We think that if people would just realize that we are all human and are just trying to survive and find love and in this we can find a common ground to share even if we are of a different ethnicity. I always tell John, if you do not know something do not be afraid to ask, we can all learn from each other and if we do not understand we can at least empathize. I also say if you were raised a certain way with hatred, be strong enough to break the cycle. The first step is acknowledging that there is a problem and then move on from there. It takes a big person to realize what they did in the past was wrong and they are willing to make up for that in the future. Peace and Love to you and we appreciate you watching.

  • @rebahughes-orr5523
    @rebahughes-orr5523 Před 2 lety +6

    I’m glad y’all are together and happy! Both of y’all are so cool, I’m married to a black man and he is a good man, been together for 35 years. Be blessed

  • @Johanna-qf1yx
    @Johanna-qf1yx Před 2 lety +3

    When looking at y’all I seriously don’t see color. You’re both lovely 🥰

  • @SqueakyBarbarian
    @SqueakyBarbarian Před 2 lety +7

    Just found your channel. I was the bubble lady - living my life in a predominantly white world. When I met my now husband, I was so excited to find someone who got my Lord of the Ring non-sequiturs. Total geek/nerd - just like me☺️. I'm whiter than milk. He is a lovely mocha. I was raised in the South. He was raised in Germany until his family came back to the US. I'm learning all the things you talked about in this video. And I agree with John - I'll take you down if you go after my love.

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 2 lety +1

      Tack Tack...happy you found our channel. Yes John can be a force to reckon with. Wishing you and your husband all the best. Thanks for your comment and for watching.🥰🥰

  • @Kris_Stiletto
    @Kris_Stiletto Před rokem +1

    What an awesome pair of People. This is the way you improve relations; you talk about each other's experiences. And, try to understand how the other person feels. This is a wonderful Couple. Right on!

  • @Yayayaya-rq5sw
    @Yayayaya-rq5sw Před 2 lety +3

    Love you guys honesty. Mixed dating is not for everyone but if you're happy run to the stars.

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 2 lety

      Exactly Yaya...if it's not for you then don't do, simple. Thanks for the comment and for watching, we really appreciate it 🥰

  • @rachaelwhite8614
    @rachaelwhite8614 Před 3 lety +13

    I literally could watch y'all all day... I'm in bed sick to my stomach and y'all got me laughing so hard.. love you guys to pieces.. stay blessed..

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 3 lety +2

      We thank you so much for watching Rachael and we are so happy that you are enjoying our videos. Feel better soon. Peace and Love🥰🥰

    • @mr4533
      @mr4533 Před 3 lety +1

      👍

    • @mr4533
      @mr4533 Před 3 lety +1

      Today, found your Channel. Yall do real talk, sounds without pretense & encourages others to speak out about these evil subjects & evil behaviors in a non revengful way !!! Keep the real down to earth talks going & much success for yo CZcams. Yall remind me of another channel, "He Said She Said." Check out their YT channel.

  • @joanneburrell8246
    @joanneburrell8246 Před 2 lety +2

    You Are Good For Each Other In Spite Of The Obstacles And The Haters, It Gives Me Hope, Take Care Be Blessed

  • @pamelamckenzie2685
    @pamelamckenzie2685 Před 2 lety +8

    A beautiful couple I had problems when I was with my Jamaican man me being white we were together 26 years my lovely husband got sick and passed. We have to forgive the narrow minds. love and hugs sent to you both be happy say positive as you both are. I from England

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 2 lety

      Hi Pamela, so sorry for your loss. Thank you for your thoughtful comment and thank you for watching.

  • @TheIntrovert83
    @TheIntrovert83 Před 2 lety +6

    You' guys compliment each other
    I love it! 😁❤

  • @godislove8871
    @godislove8871 Před 3 lety +17

    I am glad I got to your channel because I been struggling with race since the riot at the capital or since the Trump administration because I thought everyone that looked like your husband is racist- it’s nice to get a better understanding and education that looks don’t define people and I shouldn’t assume things about people

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 3 lety +3

      Ellen, thank you so much for your comment. This is exactly why we did it because some people naturally judge others by the way they look. I have always told john that and he thinks it is funny. We have a different outlook on life and tend to fine the humor in a lot of things. We are weird that way, but we are so happy that you watched this video and gained a different perspective because as I said that is why we did it. Again, thank you for you comment and for watching.

    • @BabyGirl-xo2vj
      @BabyGirl-xo2vj Před 2 lety

      Ellen, a couple of the men arrested at the capital riot are married to black women lol they showed it on the news

    • @sharonhicks-jones5471
      @sharonhicks-jones5471 Před 2 lety

      @@BabyGirl-xo2vj OH wow....I have to look into that. Thanks

  • @BlkQtie
    @BlkQtie Před 3 lety +7

    My first video watching you guys and I love your energy. Love is love and folks will speculate, assume whatever they want not realizing its your business. To be open up and speak on the situation at hand is educational and inspiring. John is a great man due to being a undercover protector when it comes to his wife. You guys compliment one another and that's a beautiful thing. Your stories were great and hilarious because I was weak laughing. I will continue to watch your videos with a like and subscribe...Be strong, safe and positive!

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 3 lety +2

      Paula we thank you so much for your kind words. My husband is one of a kind and I can't express enough how much I love him. We are so happy you enjoyed watching the video and we can't thank you enough for liking and subscribing 😍😍😍

  • @brendacarter4389
    @brendacarter4389 Před 2 lety +2

    I agree. As the old saying goes "sticks and stones will hurt my bones but words will never hurt me".

  • @msdillihayskitchen5164
    @msdillihayskitchen5164 Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you guys for keeping it real…. Congratulations on your life as a happily married couple! John you have a friend 😊 I absolutely hate ignorance.. may god continue to bless you both ❤

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 2 lety +1

      I love making new friends. Thank you very much for your comment and for watching, we really appreciate it .

  • @darleofgodintheruachelohim7552

    Newly subscribed to your channel. I think I am going to really like you two. God bless your marriage.

  • @maxineking5073
    @maxineking5073 Před 3 lety +12

    Hello lovely people, not interracial but different culture backgrounds. We are all one race the Human Race . Blessings, love and respect from London city.

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 3 lety

      Thank you so much for watching Maxine. That is what I always say we are all human. When the world starts to realize that, it will be a better place.

    • @maxineking5073
      @maxineking5073 Před 3 lety +1

      @@hayzaleyesandthehubs2337 . Good morning thank you for taking time out to read my comments and reply, so true in what you say, all we can do if hope and make the best of what we have 🌈

    • @nursetinalouise
      @nursetinalouise Před 2 lety

      Yes! Racism is so real but not race.

  • @sweets12345
    @sweets12345 Před 3 lety +6

    I love y'alls love for each other and your interactions! We are all the same! Our phenotypes look different, but we are all the same, as I am sure you all are both aware. 😊 As a southerner I love to listen to y'alls accents too, and especially your experiences . I'm a person of color (who would have been characterized as a quadroon during slavery) and my husband is Trinidadian. Basically we are two brown people. I love watching your videos! I pray the people that you encounter become kinder and nicer to you both. God bless you!

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 3 lety +1

      Jackie, thank you for your kind words. If more people realized the we are one race HUMAN...the world would be a better place. We thank you so much for watching we really appreciate it.🥰 PS...I love southern accents

  • @Barr.JoyO.
    @Barr.JoyO. Před 2 lety +2

    Your husband sounds so enlightened and educated.

  • @samuelgatling4635
    @samuelgatling4635 Před 3 lety +4

    I came across this today and said let me lesson! WOW you guys broke it down! I could tell from your accent that you were either from the 'Baltimore- Philly area! I grew up outside of outside of B'more (Aberdeen) and picked up on the accent -;) You guys kept it real and made it a bit funny as well. I have lived in Chi town for over 25 yrs. and see how things are getting better because of the younger generation! Thx for sharing!!

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 3 lety

      Hey Samuel thank you so much for watching and we're glad you enjoyed it. I laughed when you mentioned our accents. John always says "what accents" because he doesn't hear it, but I tell him all the time...there is a Philadelphia accent.Thanks fir your comment 🥰

  • @suzynorth4539
    @suzynorth4539 Před 2 lety +8

    I just have to say, “you are a very beautiful couple and i am so glad that you have such a healthy, strong belief in yourselves. You are beautiful, Ronnie. I wish i knew you!
    Stay Strong~~Don’t Ever Change!”

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 2 lety +1

      Suzy...thank you so much we really appreciate it 💕 and thanks for watching. Hey we can be cyber friends 😁😁 We hope we have a new subscriber.

  • @mikirose2598
    @mikirose2598 Před 2 lety +3

    Love is precious and life is short. People, It is not about color. It is waaaay deeper than color - and it goes back further than we can imagine. So, love each other because you won't be able to change these issues. Your story is interesting. You are both likeable.

  • @stephenjohnson3542
    @stephenjohnson3542 Před 2 lety +2

    AMAZING UNDERSTANDING. THUS HOLLY. GOD RICHLY BLESS YOU GUYS. AMEN.

  • @jackieclay4555
    @jackieclay4555 Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you, and thank for people like you. We need to re-access as people, I 've learned it's not too late to have change of heart concerning being prejudice. I would say to people love one another, pray to the Lord if are prejudice first ask for forgiveness. Ask the Holy Spirit for guidance to get over and work through such ugliness. You guys are great I appreciate your words. Cause I was like that at time in my life. It feels good knowing you can love every Race of people. And if you faulter get up brush yourself off. And love one another.

  • @tchdef
    @tchdef Před 2 lety +2

    I think it's wonderful that you both have defied the odds of all the fiery darts. Your husbands mother will now be schooled by your love and your culture. Keep loving her. She will soften through you and your love for each other!

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 2 lety

      She is a tough nut to crack and she will be left that way. Some may think that is harsh, but it does not bother me and I am not interested in have a relationship with her. Thank you for commenting Valerie and for watching.

  • @Mission-nb1il
    @Mission-nb1il Před 9 měsíci +1

    I love listening to you two,!!.you are having too much fun!!love yall

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 9 měsíci

      You are so right... we are having fun🥰🥰. Thank you so much... we appreciate it, and thanks for watching.

  • @kiahk1044
    @kiahk1044 Před 2 lety +1

    You two look beautiful together. Don't let this world come between you God has put you two together. I don't know you but I respect you both to the fullest. All my grandchildren are half black and half white and I love them truly.

  • @Joshlyn99
    @Joshlyn99 Před 3 lety +8

    My boyfriend calls himself light skinned. Too funny.

  • @twee91604
    @twee91604 Před 3 lety +6

    I also grew up in Philly and have had my fair share of racism. Thank you for sharing. It’s refreshing to see the genuine love you have for one another. You both make a beautiful couple.

  • @susiebear3316
    @susiebear3316 Před 3 lety +6

    These are the type of men that I am attracted to I just don't get out enough 🤣

  • @Alesana907
    @Alesana907 Před 3 lety +6

    New sub here. Just wanted to say the way john said "down the shore" I'm gonna assume u are from Jersey or Pa. But then while you were talking about the pizza story I'm gonna say south jersey or philly. My husband and I are from philly btw. We're interracial as well and I get the whole "you're with him for his $" comment. They're surprised to hear that were high school sweethearts and I'm actually a doctor.

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 3 lety

      CoCoBunny you hit the nail on the head. Only S. Jersey and Philly folks say "down the shore" 🤣🤣🤣. We're from Philly too. Wow HS sweethearts, I LOVE that. People always want to assume they know what your relationship is about, but be DEAD wrong. Thanks so much for subscribing and watching, we appreciate it. 🥰

  • @shelly8965luv
    @shelly8965luv Před 3 lety +5

    Hi Ronni and John! (sp)
    I just found your channel and really enjoyed your blog. I just want to say that when it comes to John speaking on the story about the woman telling a racially insensitive joke, first of all, kudos to your him for speaking against her racially insensitive joke because I've heard stories where a black person who looks racially ambiguous who has been in situations where they have been around a group of white people at work or a social gathering and someone will make disparaging or derogatory comments about black people not realizing that there was one amongst them in the group and to know that john called that woman out on it was everything!!!!👍🏼 That speaks to his character! But I will say this, it seems that with most IR couples, IN SOME CASES, the white partner never fully realizes or see the prejudice in society that black people endure, it's not until they are involved with or in a relationship with a black person that they will begin to see the disparity and become more aware of it.🤷🏽‍♀️
    Loved watching you two and now a new subbie!😁❤
    PS. I commented before I heard the story with John and the plumber 🤣🤣🤣 LOVE IT!!!
    Like Ronni essentially said, when are people going to realize that not everyone has the same views when it comes to race.

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you Lady B!. One of the things I love about John is he speaks his mind and doesn't care who it is, I am like that too, I guess that why we meshed. I do agree with the point of not understanding the disparity until you are are part of the situation. John was a lot like that but as I said he speaks up for whatever he feels is unjust no matter what color you are. Thank you for your comment we really enjoyed hearing from you and THANK YOU so much for watching and subscribing.

  • @mendoo11
    @mendoo11 Před 2 lety +2

    We just have to see people as individuals and respect others as John stated. Thanks for sharing.

  • @leotag2298
    @leotag2298 Před 2 lety +1

    "Light skinned black dude". that made me crack up. I wish you both the best now and in the future.
    So, glad i clicked on this video, you're a lovely, beautiful couple, you've stayed strong, together as 'ONE' regardless of others negative opinions/ attitudes.
    Love is colour blind.
    I love the way Ronnie that you have exactly put my thoughts and actions into words. thought, that I own the 'N' word
    John... it's a good thing that you did't lay anyone out during/after that jike, you're a peace loving guy.
    Thank you, much love and appreciation to you both. Love from UK

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 2 lety

      Leota, we thank you for you kind comment and are happy you decided to watch us. We appreciate the support and WE LOVE THE UK 🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @lkBurgs
    @lkBurgs Před 2 lety +3

    Woooooow it's almost like looking through a Black persons eyes with your eyes. Good job John

  • @katherinebraxton5068
    @katherinebraxton5068 Před 3 lety +33

    Okay now John looks like a social chameleon. You do look like a cuddly biker. If John protects you from a racist person calling you the"N" word,I fully support his decision to protect his wife. Y'all are a beautiful IR couple in my age group❤️🖤.

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 3 lety +5

      Thank you Katherine, I told him he has that biker look 😎. We appreciate you watching.

    • @Keyee1
      @Keyee1 Před 2 lety +2

      Respect is important. Don't accept disrespect. Please.

  • @deew3426
    @deew3426 Před 2 lety +4

    Personally we are descendants of Noah so that is to say from the 3 sons all races came about,Shem,Ham,Japheth every race you see today came from these sons .We are a nation of people.Color should not matter. You 2 r a lovely couple

  • @n.bloomberg3028
    @n.bloomberg3028 Před 2 lety +2

    GIRL, YOUR HUSBAND IS SO COOL. KEEP THE LOVE GOING AND THANKS FOR SHARING.

  • @eloisesmith1768
    @eloisesmith1768 Před 2 lety +1

    I stumbled across your video...really enjoyed you both speaking on different topics.

  • @jazzminejackson9181
    @jazzminejackson9181 Před 3 lety +25

    I wish I could speak to you two a little more about this subject. I just started dating again and there are more white men coming my way. I started talking to one of them that I felt like would be more of a casual thing, but he kept insuating wanting more out of the relationship. The problem with this guy is that he is Trump supporter and he says things of a racial nature that he doesn't think twice about. I just think that he wouldn't be protective of me in public and that he's connected to people that has issues with race. He posts things on FB that are just not too correct in my view. He says he didnt grow up around black people, but some things just seem to be common sense to me. I ended up limiting my communication with him, because he just doesn't get it. I can see that your husband gets it.

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 3 lety +13

      Hi Jazzmine, please feel free to comment any time here or on our instagram at hayzaleyes_and_the_hubs. There seems to be a lot of warnings signs with the guy that you mentioned and I would be careful about that and I think you are doing the correct thing limiting your contact. Me and the Hubs don't see eye to eye anymore when it comes to politics but we do respect each others opinions and sometimes that is all you can ask for. I know he has my back and i have his. Thank you for watching we really appreciate it and look forward to hearing from you.

    • @estherellis6032
      @estherellis6032 Před 2 lety +8

      This guy is showing you who he truly is, by his speech, actions. And political affiliation...w a l k away!

    • @baileybutterfly320
      @baileybutterfly320 Před 2 lety +5

      Yes, stay away from him. That’s toxic.

    • @2015humblebeginningzb
      @2015humblebeginningzb Před 2 lety +4

      Keep it moving love

    • @blackrose8643
      @blackrose8643 Před 2 lety +3

      Keep walking sis. There are better men out there.

  • @ruthking6145
    @ruthking6145 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for sharing your love with us! We need more truth, like you have given, to help the ignorant! Blessings!

  • @aplusdiva7006
    @aplusdiva7006 Před 2 lety +3

    The most miserable of us are those who are disgruntled with their life choices. I would say to those people with so much hate. Do the work so you can finally be happy 😌 Shalom. To those who are doing the work 🌹 Good for you, keep going ✨ to those who are finally happy 🙏🥂☀️💐 I'm happy you never gave up, now make All your dreams a reality 👑

  • @TheLitChronicles
    @TheLitChronicles Před 2 lety +2

    I totally understand where you are coming from my ex's mother never liked me but would pretend to my face, its one of the reasons why we aren't together any more she was really ridiculous.

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 2 lety

      IKR...makes no sense at all, just hatred for the sake hatred. People need to devote that energy into something positive. Thanks for watching and commenting 🥰🥰

  • @dianecarter3211
    @dianecarter3211 Před 2 lety +5

    You are a beautiful couple. I hope that my son meets a young lady who loves him and makes him happy, I do not care what color or nationality she is, as long as she is good for him and to him. God Bless You. Many more happy wonderful years.

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 2 lety

      Thank you for your kind comment Diane! We hope your son finds his perfect mate as well. Never give up. Thank you for watching!🥰

    • @MsTeeFy27
      @MsTeeFy27 Před 2 lety +1

      Hi Diane. How old is your son? 😜😜

  • @rosestewart7073
    @rosestewart7073 Před 2 lety +3

    You guys are a reflection of God’s love 🙏🏽

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 2 lety

      Rose, thank you so much for your thoughtful comment and for watching, we really appreciate it 🥰🥰

  • @peterbrown3944
    @peterbrown3944 Před 2 lety +3

    As a black man , I really love to see Interacial couples!
    I wish you both all best and I am sure Dr king and Malcolm x - wound off been soo proud of you both .
    Love from Peter , from London .

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 2 lety +2

      Peter, we really appreciate your comment because to be quite honest that is usually not the response we get from Black men. Thank you so much for watching and getting it 🥰🥰

    • @nursetinalouise
      @nursetinalouise Před 2 lety

      Likewise I’m grateful to supportive Black ladies instead of otherwise to my marriage. It’s all nonsense to think divisively of the one hunan race.

  • @lazybones1978
    @lazybones1978 Před 3 lety +3

    13:14 that’s what i thought as well..
    thanks John for proving me wrong..
    i subscribed..

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 3 lety +2

      🤣🤣 lazybones 1978, we're glad you changed your mind and thank you so much for watching and subscribing.

  • @carlavransom
    @carlavransom Před 2 lety +2

    For 15 years I dated a Polish guy who people thought was a biker we had a great relationship and loved each other and are still friends now today he is my best friend for sure

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 2 lety

      Carla thank you for your comment. It's cool that you still maintain a friendship. Thanks for watching 🙂

  • @lindagilmore3694
    @lindagilmore3694 Před 2 lety +1

    Very insightful video, thank you for educating the world.

  • @juanitaoneal766
    @juanitaoneal766 Před 2 lety +2

    I just seen this video and I love you two. So I am a new subscriber to your channel. Thanks for this message to ALL people 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 2 lety +1

      We're so glad that you found us and subscribed 🥰🥰🥰 Thank you so much for watching and commenting. We appreciate it 😊😊😊

  • @darrellhall899
    @darrellhall899 Před 2 lety +3

    Love is Love😄

  • @lkBurgs
    @lkBurgs Před 2 lety +3

    She right alot of times its pure crab mentality

  • @daniellerichardson23
    @daniellerichardson23 Před 2 lety +1

    I'm new to.u guys channel but u guys are so amazing and love watching u too tell and share your experiences ❤ has no color keep doing what you are doing much success in life.

  • @EstelleCreativeDesigns
    @EstelleCreativeDesigns Před 2 lety +1

    I was so scared to click on this video for days because you remind me so much of my Christian sister whom I lost in 2019. Don't know if I'm really paying attention to the video, but more on you. Okay, I'm still here and it's 2022 and people are still color blind so SAD!

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 2 lety

      Estelle, sorry for your loss. Thank you so much for commenting and watching we appreciate it 😊 🥰🥰

  • @glenroseschuetz9143
    @glenroseschuetz9143 Před 2 lety +2

    Hi you wonderful couple, i am also in a mixed marriage living here in Germany. We ,thank God never had any bad experiences in our environmentKeep it up to be strong in your relationship.God be with you.

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 2 lety

      Glenmore, we hear that often that other countries are sometimes more accepting. We don't care people better get over their hatred because times are changing. We're invading the world🤣🤣🤣 but seriously we as humans must do better. Thanks for watching 🙂

  • @Eelybrecstendt
    @Eelybrecstendt Před 2 lety +2

    Just dont worry about the mom. "Love her for who she is but not what you want her to be." I think he looks like a great guy. All the best

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 2 lety

      Thanks Elizabeth, trust me it may be hard people to understand, but I have no feelings whatsoever for her and I don't care. She lives her life, we live ours. Thank you for watching and commenting 😊😊

  • @michelenix1562
    @michelenix1562 Před 2 lety +2

    I don't know how this video popped up, but I had to like & subscribe. I love the way they communicate with each other. We're all "souls" in bodies. God would want us to just LOVE one another and have healthy relationship's.

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 2 lety

      Well said Michelle, we are happy that you found our channel and subscribed. We appreciate the support and thanks for watching 🙂

  • @veteranbroad8802
    @veteranbroad8802 Před 2 lety +2

    I kept avoiding this feed but then, I said if it comes up again? I'm going to watch you two. Your experiences with his mother, had me closing my eyes, seeing myself grimacing through her ignorant comments. His father was cool with me but, we used to sit outside and drink (LoL). One of his uncles said: "welcome to the family" and walked away laughing. We are BOTH from the Northeast, he's from Massachusetts and I'm from Connecticut. We met while stationed in Georgia so, of course his folks ASSUMED I'm from the south?well, actually I am .....only it's Southern Connecticut 😂. We've been married for 37+yrs, 3 daughters, 4-soon-to-be-5 grandsons. Happy life you kooky kids 🙂

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 2 lety

      Thank you for sharing...we really appreciate that you decided to watch our channel 😁😁😁

  • @shaundalynn5613
    @shaundalynn5613 Před 3 lety +8

    Yaw so kool. Me and Jon get that stupid "are yaw together?" crap all the time! It's so stupid.

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 3 lety +1

      I know right...we're practically hugging and they ask that question. Gets on my nerves.

  • @sherry3465
    @sherry3465 Před 2 lety +2

    This was a pop up video....I watched it from beginning to end...you both are a sweet couple...many blessings to you both ❤❤❤❤

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 2 lety +1

      Sherry thank you so much for watching, we really appreciate your feedback 😊

    • @sherry3465
      @sherry3465 Před 2 lety +1

      @@hayzaleyesandthehubs2337 You're Very Welcome ❤

  • @lorenathorpe8909
    @lorenathorpe8909 Před 2 lety +1

    I really enjoyed this couple. My first time seeing them.

  • @heatherwhite2788
    @heatherwhite2788 Před 2 lety +2

    John reminds me of Texas Paul 😉 It’s truly hilarious that they think you would choose to share a cart but not be together. I love people whose thoughts don’t match the perception of their exterior 💕

  • @earleneedwards3153
    @earleneedwards3153 Před 3 lety +4

    Omg !!!!! I love how you handle the n word , I will embrace it and practice it if an when I’m confronting with it 😇

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 3 lety +2

      Hi Earlene, thank you...life is too short to let everything get under your skin. Thank you for watching we appreciate it🥰

  • @humanchildofgod3126
    @humanchildofgod3126 Před 2 lety +2

    LOVE YOU BOTH!! Shame on IGNORANCE!

  • @Christ_Is_Life10-10
    @Christ_Is_Life10-10 Před 2 lety +1

    Mom seemed to be very direct with you about how she felt. Nothing passive about it. Most wouldn’t even say those things in front of you.

  • @tonydanza6406
    @tonydanza6406 Před 2 lety +2

    A bubble boy ? LoL LoL that made me crack up that was funny ! LoL but what counts is that you two love each other and are happy and another thing you two are better people and are above others then others who have problems with race remember that

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 2 lety

      🤣🤣🤣 it's the truth though...thank you Tony we really appreciate this comment. You are our new best friend😁😁

  • @maximr6576
    @maximr6576 Před 3 lety +4

    It is better not use the n word, even around people who look like White Supremacists but you never know they might have a Black wife. Good lesson for that guy!

  • @carollhouston2380
    @carollhouston2380 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you, I agree with you Ronnie about the “N” word..

  • @Keyee1
    @Keyee1 Před 2 lety +2

    I'm sorry that you had your prom picture taken.
    I just found your channel. I enjoy it. Thanks for being here.

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 2 lety

      Thank you Keyee, we are so happy you found us! We appreciate you watching and commenting. 🥰🥰

  • @lauradelee231
    @lauradelee231 Před 2 lety +1

    I know and have known interracial couples. You are a very sweet couple.
    Laura

  • @maxineking5073
    @maxineking5073 Před 3 lety +4

    My 25 year old son thinks the same has you over here in London, we have the saying white van man ,who called him the N word whilst driving pass him , he lets it go straight over his head.

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 3 lety

      Exactly...sometimes you just have to ignore people. They'll get the message. I always tell John, you can't argue with yourself. Well you can, but then you're labeled crazy...🤣🤣🤣

    • @maxineking5073
      @maxineking5073 Před 3 lety +1

      @@hayzaleyesandthehubs2337 yes they have already move on ,whilst you are there getting really mad and upset, causing yourself stress, my saying tiny brains empty quickly and forget what happened a minute ago, whilst brains with the capacity to learn, understand and analyse should always come to the conclusion , let it go . It would be a different matter if it was physically, because they wouldn't be brave to go there. I hope that were you are the COVID situation is getting better alongside the vaccine roll out , take care and keep safe ❤🌈

    • @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337
      @hayzaleyesandthehubs2337  Před 3 lety

      Thanks so much Maxine...I hope you and yours are safe as well. I feel I have a friend across the pond...😁😁😁

  • @saraanderson2584
    @saraanderson2584 Před 2 lety +2

    Your a SWEET COUPLE .,stand strong !😘