Machiavelli’s Advice For Nice Guys
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- Nice guys too often finish last; they need to read the advice of one of the wisest and most realistic thinkers in the history of philosophy: Niccolo Machiavelli. For books from The School of Life, visit our online shop: goo.gl/4wNfTn
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"If you're harmless, you're not virtuous you're just harmless. If you on the other hand have the capacity to be a monster, but you choose not to be - then you're virtuous."
- Kermit the frog
Thanks JP
Lobster King has spoken
@@jorgefigueroa2231 miss him
If ones values were so great, they’d never need harm or kill others for them to begin with...
Note *Kermit the frog is an abstract. Who is the actual person who sourced that quote?
@@72marshflower15 Jordan Petersen
Being nice or having principles does not make you weak. Not knowing what to do when people take advantage of your principles does.
Principles*
Ricky Austin thanks
True strength is looking the person in the eye who's wronged you and wishing them all the best. It's having the capacity to harm, but *intentionally avoiding* inflicting harm.
@B Roli I'm a woman. Try not to be a sheeple your entire life.
People are not stupid and will notice sooner or later that you are lying at them and manipulating them. So at the long term you always lose.
“If you cannot be both, it is better to be feared than loved but avoid being despised.”
- Machiavelli
A much loved monarch enjoys the obedience of his subjects, but their views can change on a whim and without fear of reprisal they could easily turn on him. A much feared monarch will not readily be challenged, especially if he is not despised.
"I want people to be afraid of how much they love me. " - Michael Scott
It was adress to the prince(s), not ordinary people. To translate it as a general view of Machiavelli is to twist his philosophy.
That was sonny from A Bronx Tale too
@@AntonioBolognio-bs5gcdidn't work out to well for sonny
Everyone quote the "it's better to be feared than loved" without quoting the complete sentence wich is: "It is better to be feared than to be loved, if one cannot be both, but avoid being hated at all costs".
Being respected is better than being liked.
Just like Nietzsche, Machiavel is terribly misunderstood by normies
@@patienceobongo And a bully will never be respected by a good man but a bunch of cowards that will kiss his ass. A good man that doesn't kiss the ass of a bully that wants to be respected is a real man from my view. Jesus calls those bullies hippocrites if they claim to hear from God but treat their own sons like shit.
@@smtandearthboundsuck8400Even worse, he is abused.
Lots of people posing as good guys and promoting the most horrible agendas in the name of the greater good™.
@@patienceobongoYou get shoved into and have ‘jokes’ played upon you if your Liked.
Everyone is on high alert, nervous and know not to be a ‘Hero’ with you if you are Respected.
“Don't mistake my kindness for weakness. I am kind to everyone, but when someone is unkind to me, weak is not what you are going to remember about me.” -Al Capone
Nice quote. That mean they who had hurt him will die soon
@@stonecold007 Big Al was a wise man!
nice one, thanks
Yes,- JBPeterson: Integrate your shadow and true self and Don't be harmless.
600hunndy
"Don't be a simp" - Niccolo Machiavelli
Pokimane: delet this
@@horsenuggets1018 no
@@IRussian007 what
@@horsenuggets1018 What you mean "what"? I said "no" to whoever said "delete" the comment.
@@IRussian007 you don't know who Pokimane is?
I envy you
There's nothing wrong with being a nice person. Not being able to stand up for yourself and not setting boundaries when someone treats you badly is wrong.
F the world and those middle fingers we see on the side of the road painted is a Machiavellian perception rising in people's mind for the distaste of anything. 😅
I agree! I stood up for my series when ideologues tried to subvert what I was trying to say in my series, The Pensuke Files!
i think what machiavelli meant is mostly people pleaser type of nice, not decent human type of nice
"we are all ultimately the sum of what we achieve not what we intend "............. this hits me like a blow
It’s only a nice way to justify that at some point for some material advantage, you are right to betray what you believe in. It. Just a way of sweetening the reality that was corrupted at some point. This whole video presents Machiavelli as if he held some absolute truth. He knew this, he knew that, is repeatedly stated.
That statement is truly shallow and misplaced. I am NOT the sum of what I have achieved.
That implies that material gain is the only success in life, you are here for a short time, then you die. You can’t take anything with you, nothing, not even your name or memories. Sounds to me that Machiavelli was just a self serving asshole.
@@Neil1957-Spoken like someone who will amount to nothing
Interviewer: You practice violence but preach peace. How do you reconcile the two ?
Bruce Lee: I’d rather be a warrior in a garden, than a gardener in a war.
Was that before or after Lee was body slammed by Gene LaBell?
@@harrisonwintergreen1147 Pack up your confrontational divisiveness and take a hike. When shtf no one will want to be around you.
Lovely quote :) Thanks for sharing
@wmfivethree i think you dropped something on the groung ma nigga
I'm a bit stonned , did bruce lee like chinning people in gardens ?
"Just smile and wave boys, smile and wave"
-Skipper
This Barry Soetoro documentary is revealing
You reminded me of the greatness that is skipper
Wow just wow
Analysis Kowalski
@@m.draven477 were fucked
“Beware that, when fighting monsters, you yourself do not become a monster... for when you gaze long into the abyss. The abyss gazes also into you.”
― Friedrich W. Nietzsche
Yep, "The End justifies the Means" is a slippery slope indeed.
then die for your principles?
Amen. Thank you.
@@klowen7778 True its just a tempting path to take.
I'm not sure if this applies to everyone but I assure you good people get joy/pleasure/happiness from being good.However good people also have a need to hold themselves to high standards.
So if a good person is kind,virtuous ,merciful etc but no one is helped from them in the thoughts of good people its normal to question how is such a person any different from a selfish one in the eyes of a good person.
After all in the end both people ignore the suffering of others for their own happiness.
Therefore since good people have self sacrifice tendencies they'd rather sacrifice their own morality and bear the guilt to help others.Then since they think that the guilt is reducing the efficiency at which they help others they choose to justify their actions and try not to feel guilt to increase the efficiency of helping others.
People might think that people that choose to commit atrocities in the name of the greater good think of themselves higher than others when in truth it comes from one putting oneselves below others.
@@farhanishraqifti1489 Oh yeah, or as the great Richard Feynman used to say, "The first principle is that you must not fool yourself, and you are the easiest person to fool."
"Its better to be feared than loved but avoid being hated at all cost." this is the best advice I heard in my life..
you can be feared loved and hated all at the same time
nah
"If people throw stones at you, throw bread instead - with a grenade inside, of course."
- Fidel Gandhi
Don’t forget to pull the Pin.
This is like something out of Tropico
But they're just kids
"Make use of bread in war"
-Sun Tzu The Art of War.
@@dardoura "Oor people demand to wear waffles."
“While it is pleasant to meet girl in park, it may be more pleasurable to park meat in girl.”
-Confucius
That can’t be a real quote
AMEN
Aka Redd Foxx
Another great Confucius quote
@@popcat2875 see my reply
" Act nice, make your enemies think you are weak and then strike like a lightning bolt" - Sun Tzu, The Art of War
The main issue being, kindness is a luxury only the strong can afford. If you are not strong, you are also not being kind, because you have no other option.
Stop making excuses to justify your bad behaviour, when the real problem is that you lack self-confidence in my opinion.
But no one is born strong. You become strong by being ruthless and really wanting it.At least thats the most effective way.
we should embrace nice guys and rejected bad boys as we don't play their toxic society
It’s takes internally strength to turn all negatives into positives
There has been an experiment with IA playing games (source: Bernard Werber, Encyclopédie du savoir relatif et absolu). It has been shown that the most effective strategy is cooperation (I play nice), reciprocity (if you are bad to me, I will fight back) and forgiveness (if you start playing nice, I will cautiously do it too).
"Being nice to people who are bad to you doesn't change them into becoming nicer, you are rewarding them for their behaviour." - someone
That’s my quote!
"YES"
I do it for guiltrip. I genuinely find it funny when i play nice to people who's bad to me, i give them a sense of guilt and if they don't they're people who'll judge that person for me. I find it entertaining to see others judge them for they're behavior. And well I'm just the victim. It's not rewarding them, it's a subtle way of revenge
@@jim4736 me too
@@imyoubutbetter2807 luckily you'll won't end up doing this with a psychopath, as they literally are unable to be guilt-tripped.
"appear weak when you are strong, and strong when you are weak"
Sun Tzu
I always laugh when people think being nice is weak! It’s the most effective method of all time. Don’t draw too much attention to yourself until it’s time to strike
@@thegeneral1297 I mean, deception is what certain armies won their wars
@@exudeku "the way of war is deception"
-Also Sun Tzu
@@horsenuggets1018
" when in doubt, whip it out; always flank em, then spank em' "
-Sun tzu
@@exudeku "pineapple belongs on pizza"
-Sun Tzu
I remember this scene from the Castlevania netflix series, where Lenore, a vampire diplomat visits Hector, a human captive in his cell and tries to establish a connection with him by being kind and generous. At some point he manages to get a hold of her throat and threatens her, to which she invades his cell and beats the shit out of him. And then she says,
"I am a diplomat Hector, i make peace. I make peace, and because of that people think i am soft, people think i am weak. You won't make that mistake again, will you?"
She is genuinely interested in helping him, she is light hearted and kind but won't hesitate to use violence or anything else when necessary. Always good to see these sorts of depictions in media considering that's what most people expose themselves to, hopefully we can all pick up on those underlying principles that permeate characters like this.
You noticed. What an enriching gift, the ability of observation to grab valuable life lessons from free sources.
@@AppleSlicesUnite Exactly, i can't imagine a better way of putting it.
I love Dave Chappelle's mom's advice to him, "Son, sometimes you have to be LION just to be the LAMB that you really are".
That's not the point in being a lion. You be a lion....to be a lion
@MishTheMash you seemed to have missed the point. It means that even if you want to have a humble and mild manner, you need to occasionally muster the courage to venture outside of your comfort zone to deal with uncomfortable situations in order to grow and show that your gentle nature is not a weakness. We ascribe a lot of high qualities to lions and I don't think it's a healthy ideal to strive for every day. No matter how amazing the view is, it's lonely at the top. No shame in being a lamb if you know when to be a lion.
@@joshi897 ...If being a lamb is so good, then why strive to be a lion at all? Surely living by example is the litmos test to what is of real value?
My point was that: lambs are lambs, they spent so long 'being lambs' that even if they tried they could never 'become a lion'. That's kinda the point of the video; it's better to be feared than loved, but if you can be both; and that we often use virtue as an excuse for weakness.
I suppose I would rephrase Chappelle's words to be: You don't always have to be the Lion that you are, sometimes you can lie down with the lambs.
"i can't think of any quotes, sorry"
-me
deep
"i will think one for you"
-me
Man, thats deep
LOL! Made me smile.
"Hey, -great- lesser minds think a like, I can't think of any quotes either." - Me
"All we had to do was to follow the damn train, CJ"
-Confucius
Kkkkkk
@@skitxez8912
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@@FoxyBoxery ahahah
ROFL
Horribly accurate
_"The best revenge is not to be like your enemy."_
- *Marcus Aurelius*
It is too philosophical
there is need to get clarity on what it means by " not to be like your enemy "
Is it though?
@@KolchaksGhost No. The best revenge is living well
And don't make your enemy successful enough to be envied by others (so others learn your enemy's methods)
And if you hate your enemie because the way your enemie doing things, letting your enemie too successful may create more potential enemies because of others start to think learn from your enemie is a good way to be successful.
You nailed it bro. This video has been like grasping at straws for me,otherwise being a nice guy ,i was stuck and could end up suffocating being victim of these bastards.
Never put others as a priority when you are only an option to them
You are misquoting Mark Twain,
“Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.”
Anthony Starfield
Pedantic or what ‼️
Lynda Dale ... Today I learned a new word, “pedantic.” Thank you Lynda. 😜
scott williams
Ha ha ha
You are welcome Scott
Any time, keeps me
On my toes thinking
Them up. 😍
By the way thank you
I'm not familiar with Mark Twain
I shall look him up. 🇬🇧
I like this; good advice.
"Do not expect respect, and you'll know no pain"
Marcus Aurelius.
@José Flores Marcus Aurelius hammers on about that you should only focus on what you control which are your thoughts and actions. It means that you should only care about that you are behaving in a way that earns you your own respect.
"If you learn that someone is speaking ill of you, don't try to defend yourself against the rumours; respond instead with, 'Yes, and he doesn't know the half of it, because he could have said more'."
"When another blames you or hates you, or people voice similar criticisms, go to their souls, penetrate inside and see what sort of people they are. You will realize that there is no need to be racked with anxiety that they should hold any particular opinion about you."
"Say to yourself in the early morning: I shall meet today ungrateful, violent, treacherous, envious, uncharitable men. All of these things have come upon them through ignorance of real good and ill... I can neither be harmed by any of them, for no man will involve me in wrong, nor can I be angry with my kinsman or hate him; for we have come into the world to work together..."
So basically, you shouldn't care about whether someone respects you or not, that's their thing to decide. You have only care about how you behave and what you think.
Which he says with these quotes
"The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts."
"When you arise in the morning, think of what a precious privilege it is to be alive - to breathe, to think, to enjoy, to love."
"You have power over your mind - not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength."
"Dwell on the beauty of life. Watch the stars, and see yourself running with them."
"If it is not right do not do it; if it is not true do not say it."
"Waste no more time arguing about what a good man should be. Be one."
@@BboyKeny I enjoyed this post. Well done.
"Bars"
Marcus Methodmanus
@@BboyKeny
If everyone practice what you said most of the violence, Harrassment, abuse, anger for nothing, back stabbing, retaliation, divorce, etc would stop.
This is my philosophy also for decades. I am not religious, but I follow God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit. Yep, I don't expect to be treated nicely or respectfully by anyone, because you never will know what's in the mind of humans. I treat a human according to how I want to be treated and all humans know good treatment from bad, good people from bad, good workers from bad, it up to them how long I stick around.
Tell it to a commander leading his troops into battle - see what he says - or does.
The world is lucky that I am quite content with my life 😊
I'm nice, but not stupid. You will struggle to take advantage of me!
I'm proud to be calm, honest and with integrity.
Bless ur hearts Friends
Point of the story, don't let your kindness be taken for weakness and don't let anyone step on you.
BRO CODE...... UHHHH YEAHHHH
Sounds like the principles for the satanists of Anton lavey
You guys should read 'The Prince' by Machiavelli its a really good short read.
If you want to be kind, be strong first. Without power, your kindness don't mean squat. Without power, you can do nothing.
Then how do you avoid your kindness to be corrupted by this power?
Do not set yourself on fire to keep other warm
I set myself on fire to keep me warm
👏
@@juanreza6308 interesting
That's new
Juan Reza witty
I have read the book in Greek. The translation was of high quality with comments and footnotes, so the reader can gain a deeper understanding of the text. Translators don't get the credit they deserve. It's an activity that demands knowledge, research and great creativity.
I have always thought that The Prince is one of the most misunderstood books of all time. It’s a fascinating little book with dozens of practical advices
'You're just not the person I hoped you'd be."
- my wife.
“Take a wife for yourself. If you marry well, you will be happy. If you don’t, you will become a philosopher like me”
~ Ronald McDonald 🤡 😂
"A goodwife brings happiness. A bad one gives philosophy"
And right there is the problem
Maybe
In the beginning
If she had made her expectations clearer
Maybe he could have realised
His expectations would Never be met
Yeah, well, that's just, like, your opinion, man."
Probably you
@@davidinman3584 Well said David.
BEST ADVICE EVER:
"Be as NICE as one wishes but NOT overly devoted to acting nicely". takes few readings to REALLY grasp that wisdom.
1 Bad Jesus the problem arises when people identify as nice.
lol I've had a saying for a few years, "it's not nice to be not nice"
1 Bad Jesus I think I only need to read it once ty
1 Bad Jesus tank you for that man will keep that in mind
i didn't really gain anything from reading it again, can you share your experience please?
I've always been interested in politics and this video explained the concept of power in such an interesting way. Now I understand why some people act the way they do
Ive kept coming back to this video every once in a while since May 2018.
In short - reserve honor for the honorable, kindness for the kind, and respect for the respectful
...and fucks for the...well...fucks...
David Arnott well said
This is not a summary of Machiavelly but a simple demonstration that you have failed to understand anything. The point is that Machiavelly was not advising anyone to be evil when not needed but he was advising to do bad thing when neccesary so even to harm innocent people if you need to do so to win a war. So reserve honor not for the honorable but for when you can afford to do so.
Light Layagajoie - ill reserve being a fanny for fannies like you :)
David Arnott your explanation may be in good will and somewhat in line with ideas in the video, but it is definitely not an accurate summary of the ideology. The point is fulfill your duty as a force of goodness, by whatever means is clearly necessary - including forgoing what one's reservation for goodness is entirely, but while still maintaining one's willful sense of good in any situation. Easier said than done for many people. Being good is easy; one needs true cunning to do the right "morally-wrong" things in the name of good without mucking it up. The extra effort is absolutely worth it though
"You're a disappointment"
-dad
"Because you made me"
-son
@@giampaolomannucci8281
Oop~
Lmao
At last! A true quote 🤣
Can't agree more
You aren't a disappointment.
"Behold, I give unto you power to tread on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy: and nothing shall by any means hurt you." -The Light, The Truth
Amen.
“He who fights with monsters should be careful lest he thereby become a monster.
And if thou gaze long into an abyss, the abyss will also gaze into thee.”
-Friedrich Nietzsche
I think another challenge arises in not becoming everything you despise about your enemy.
my friend if you go to war with that mindset, you will never win. During world war two the Allies committed many untold atrocities to free Europe from the Nazi's. Really in the end its the outcome everybody focused on, nobody discussed the utter annihilation of the city of Dresden in Germany.
Tuko just because nobody discussed them or nobody remembers them, that doesn't mean that it didn't happen, or that it wasn't horrible in it's own right.
agreed
The main purpous was to be effective.
Christianity wasn't known throughout the world by only dreaming, but taking initiative into what had to be done for the greater good.
***** They did what had to be done, however people's faith has gotten weaker and we have become spoiled even with our blessings we continue to polute our planet.
"Everyone has a plan until they get hit in the face."
-Mike Tyson
@Huginn Bodgaedir that historically, violence has been a useful tool?
Huginn Bodgaedir
The meaning of the quote is that everyone has a course of action planned out until violence breaks out and then fight or flight kicks in. You don’t learn what you’re made of until you face adversity. Like getting punched in the face.
It means that you may have a plan but when you face reality, that plan might not be useful.
Yup, No plan survives contact with the enemy
@James Smith Make sure ya use in on the Enemy !
This is the Truth, the whole Truth and nothing but the Truth. I'll also go further to add, Truth in its truest form. I've learned a very valuable lesson from this teaching of divine experience, commonsense and wisdom.
May God bless me with divine grace, wisdom, will and courage to practicalize and implement it for my own good, family,loved ones and humanity in general. So shall it be till the end of time. Amen and Amen. Shalom !!!
I think that both Jesus and Machiavelli teach us something very interesting. Jesus thought us how to use goodness, Machiavelli thought us how to use wickedness. A balance is critical, especially for kings. As Jesus said "be as wise as a serpent, and as gentle as a dove".
This is why the devil will always exist and in a way is also part of god. Made in image and likeness.
@@rusalkinyou did not just say that the devil is god, God is a wrath a fire not just love
being wise is not evil
balance between good and evil is critically the worst thing
I hate evil btw
I'm paraphrasing Jordan Peterson: Let's not confuse being harmless with being virtuous. If you're too weak/scared to do damage, you are not virtuous, you're just harmless. If you're capable of doing serious damage and you're a force to be reconned with, then you can be virtuous by not doing damage when not necessary. If you are harmless, that's the problem you should be solving. You need to grow teeth, otherwise you're just going to grow resentful as the world runs you over.
Thank you, love that quote
I also think being nice is not to be confused with being run over. Principles are great but you need to be able to have exceptions within reason. Only go as far as necessary to protect yourself and your community and exhaust all other options first, but don't let yourself be beaten.
Real talk. People often confuse weakness with kindness. And kindness as weakness.
This. This is the truth
Incredible quote by Peterson there. I wish someone had told me this when I was a teenager.
"why are people quoting random quotes with no correlation to this video?"
-some guy on the internet
"Who cares?"
- some other guy on the internet
It was said like by brain in a vat
“ Ay caramba!!” -Bart Simpson-
Because they didn't comprehend the video, and they lack the intelligence to realize that their quotes have nothing to do with the message from Machiavelli. Same goes for all those who upvoted the irrelevant quotes.
they want to feel smart
"A gentleman will not offend me and no man not a gentleman can offend me." - Frederick Douglass
That book is named "Il Principe" which is better translated in Engish as The Ruler. The book is a compendium of advice for the ruler, no matter what kind of ruler. It is written in the style known as "mirrors for princes (specula principum)" but it is different from many such books, it is better, much better written, and, arguably, much "better" pieces of advice.
"You pick the wrong house, fool!"
-Sokrates
Big smoke. Lol
"Hey Sokrates it's me Plato! Chill! Chill!"
@@mastermitser5693 "Plato? AAWWW MAH DAAAWWG!"
-Sokrates
All you had to was follow the damn τρένο, Plato.
-Sokrates
“Do not disturb my Circles.”~ Archimedes
I certainly agree that there is a lot to learn from evil people. Yet we should never overlook Nietzsche’s warning:
“Whoever fights monsters should see to it that in the process he does not become a monster. And if you gaze long enough into an abyss, the abyss will gaze back into you.”
Thanks for the videos 🖖
That was Nietzsche
Wafflepudding It is never a good idea to have only “one” guide; as it is proven by countless destructions conducted by the people who think they have the “one final answer for all”!🖖
Yes! This needs to be seriously upbumped. Machiavelli is indeed self-liberating in a sense, but this line of thinking, if solitary pursued, is most definitely a path to an unempathic self-righteousness. All things worth pursuit are only so when in balance with those that are likewise.
Great quote.
That is a good quote to counter Machiavelli.
The problem with Machiavelli's principle is the underlying assumption that being successful in a temporary world is meaningful. Arnold Schwarzenegger's muscles were finely tuned when he was young to only have them wither. Building a statue to our hero's, only to have the Sun eventually destroy it. The work done on Earth ends up being in vein. The choice then becomes, in a vein world, is it better for all living things to live peacefully, dignified, and kind, or unleash the Hitler.
This is exactly what I've determined at work. More than one job supervisor told me I need to be more of an a-hole. I've had a business partner that was only proud of me when I cheated a customer. An older co-worker said that if he had to change fundamentally who he is to keep a job, he'll find another one. I've embraced that and it has served me better than having short-term success and thinking only of myself.
Look, watch the video again, and again. Then, you will get the point that is being made. The world will at some point make the nice guy confront a Hitler-like person. Only then, will the overtly nice guy realize that in order to stop this force of evil from conquering the world (which is also "vein"), he needs to become either as or more malicious than the evil force in order to preserve peace in a "vein" world. Vanity is the banalest of reasons not to do something. That means we should still be living in the stone age because every progress made to date is all futile.
@@bernardwongibe5118 I don't have to watch the video again, I learned about Machiavelli's principle in High School.
Essentially there are no morals in war, the Machiavelli principle doesn't apply, and it wouldn't matter even if you did apply it, since it boils down to utter survival, where the ends is death.
Machiavelli was addressing political, business and personal lives, in how better to succeed rather than fail. He reasoned the end results justifies the means, he never mentioned war nor did he even imply to use it during war.
You guys need to stop spelling the word vain wrong.
@@Dragonaut111 Why? Does it hurt you?
A lot of people just want to become balanced. Adopt a philosophy of charity if naturally too selfish or enlightened self interest if too caring. The fact that there are other reasons to adopt these types of philosophies adds enough noise to hide your true intentions (even from yourself).
"How can I help you"
- Google Assistant
Tell me how to access Siri
@@KageNoTenshi “fuck you”
- Google Assistant
@@digdogg_ "You don't have the balls"
-me
🤣😂
He never learned that good man has no enemies. That’s the real benefit of being good and kind, it comes with the downsides ofc but the main benefit is that you have no enemies, it is a great advantage for calm and healthy life, it takes away a lot of unnecessary stress trough life.
@@josephr7529 Other people who also think that they're good people. Humans do not understand humans. I don't understand why that's possible except that the capacity for self-delusion is infinite.
If you have no enemies you have nothing of value
@@bruhbruh-us6gl everything holds some type of value. IF you have enemies they Are by default interested and fight with you for some sort of social value. A Man with no enemies Is Never interested in social value and never use it as coping mechanism to life's suffering. Good Man finds coping in individual values like virtues and gains peace trough understanding of his environment, not trough conquest of it.
@@karakondzula1388
Nonsense. Whether or not one has enemies has little to do with him personally and more to do with what he has and what he is. If you are rich, someone will want your wealth. If you are free, someone will want to take your freedom. If you are happy, someone will try to take your happiness. We do not know the names of most of our enemies, yet people think that one’s enemies are limited to the people in their immediate social circle. In reality you have never, and likely will never, personally interact with the people that bear the most ill-will towards you.
@@bruhbruh-us6gl while i do not dispute the fact that there will be people who will consider you an enemy for whatever you may have socially, despite that, your own considering of them as enemies Is completely your own choice, what i wrote follows From this this.
Having been a nice person for most of my life i learnt it the hard way that there will be wicked people who will have their justification for their evil ways. Now, I spot the wicked people early on, i counteract their evil ways and ensure that I'm not at the receiving end. Not the best of ways to live but certainly better than being fooled all the time
"you only get HIV positive if you do the tests"
- Jackie Chan
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No mames! 🤣🤣
Correction....-Donald J Trump
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What I learned: "You can only be truly nice if you know how to be evil."
Just like how you can only truly be kind if you've been through pain
Thus proved by the protagonist of "YOU"
We'll file that one under, "know your enemy".
i mean yeah i understand the quote but i could technically pick up a knife and murder my family but i choose not to do that. does that make me nice?
makes sense.. you are truly nice if you know on how to be truly evil because you are aware and would choose on being nice
I always thought of Machiavelli being a sociopath (perhaps because I did not read his books first hand) perhaps he was a direct victim of sociopaths as some of us are!
read the books then judge maybe?
@@rebinu you are right!
He wasn't actually as cunning as his reputation claims. He was simply an effective diplomat who in his writing did shy away from expedient but questionable methods which infact were used multiple times in history.
He also was tortured due to the medici family and was a victim of power abuse so he was well aware of the extent people go to for the sake of securing power.
Did not shy away*
"I don't know any quotes but I want to fit in" - me
I only stopped being a victim when I learned five things very late in life:
1) People will instantly manipulate you without conscience if they think you're a "nice guy". And women will subconsciously test you to see if you're a "nice guy" (i.e., a rejected prospect who can't protect them) or a good man, who is capable of protecting them, by trying to bully or manipulate you. Even the "nice" girls will do that. How do you pass this test? By being willing to stand up to them, and saying "No", and being willing to walk away, without being an asshole about it and without looking back. Eventually, if you Ever had a chance with them, they will come back to you, as you have proven you are capable of standing up for yourself (and thus capable of standing up for them). Women may be completely unconscious they are even doing this.
2) Learning how to be instantly willing to give someone a bloody nose without guilt, if I need to. After I learned how to do this, I stopped needing to actually do it, as potential bullies sense you are willing and capable of doing it.
3) Everyone is a potential bully. Including you. It's just a human fact of survival. Always be aware of that fact, and be willing to check it in yourself and others, even if they're someone you love.
4) Stop being a "nice guy". You're being a nice guy because you expect to be rewarded for being a nice guy, which is hypocrisy, and women hate that. A "nice guy" is actually a hypocrite, because he expects a reward for being "nice". Women know what you're doing, and will never reward your niceness, but are willing to take advantage of you in every way and feel they are justified because you're being "nice" for false reasons (i.e., in order to get something from them).
5) Stop needing approval from anyone. The people who have the most given to them are people that need other people the least. People sense a person in need, and it automatically repels them, because they think you have nothing to give. If they sense you have no need of them, they automatically are attracted to you, because they think you must have a lot in your life not to need them. This is why you see so many women devoted to real bastards that have nothing to give, because they at least don't seem needy.
You don't actually have to Be a bastard. You just have to be capable of being a bastard without guilt, when confronted with bastards. And you have to learn to recognize bastards, conmen, grifters, etc., so you can protect yourself without guilt.
I think that is the point that Machiavelli was making.
Thanks very well said
One of the best comments on youtube
MaskedMarvyl *NAILS IT!*
@Chang Noi
Understanding something is about being able to describe it in your own words 😝
@Chang Noi this cracked me up, lol.
Your voice is like warm gravy on fresh smooth mashed potatoes
Feirce Bannana WTF😂😂
+Michael Koech your emojis make you look childish. Please stop.
what's wrong with looking childish
Christine Kangaslampi a lot, if you are a grown adult.
Or the sweet smell of oyster sauce with sushi
And when everyone does this- we all destroy each other.
I read the Prince probably 50 times. C'est un livre pragmatique même si les exemples semblent parfois paradoxaux. Je recommande fortement de lire "Le Prince" pour ceux qui aiment l'Histoire.
A savoir aussi que beaucoup de nos dirigeants s'inspirent toujours de ce livre qui est souvent considéré comme leur livre de chevet...
Ce qui est encore plus intéressant pour comprendre la psychologie de nos hommes politiques ou militaires.
Il y a 3 livres impératifs à lire pour connaître nos dirigeants:
Sun Tzu: "L'art de la guerre" (de loin le plus intelligent et pertinent selon moi, simple et efficace au maximum)
Machiavel: "Le Prince" (Passionnant pour ceux qui aiment l'Histoire)
Clausewits: "De la guerre" (Le plus confus et le plus long selon moi mais c'est le livre de chevet de tout général qui se respecte)
English! How arrogant that you come to an english language video and leave a comment in french. Go find a french video loser.
@@shoutatthesky 9 nice people said I'm a good guy.
@@shoutatthesky ... And only you say I'm arrogant. Just think about it.
@@scoott2620 That's irrelevant. Everybody in the whole world could give you thumbs up but you're still arrogant.
@@shoutatthesky What is your advise?
“Don’t always believe what you see online” -Abraham Lincoln
@@adorablerepresentativem.co6036 You're kidding, right?
What is it with all these fake quotes? What Lincoln actually said was: 'Not every quote you find on the internet is true'. Do you your homework, Kermos!
@@adorablerepresentativem.co6036 that depends on which Abraham Lincoln you're talking about. There has been more than one in all of history.
@@njits789 of course he/she is 😂
@@adorablerepresentativem.co6036 The problem with internet is that you can't see if someone is being sarcastic lol 😂😂😂 for doing so you need to see facial expressions. Or the sarcasm is just obvious. But what is obvious for someone is not obvious for someone else
"I'm stuck"
-stepsister
Lmao
😈
We all know what happens next
@@Luca_86 well yes but no.
pornhub recommendations*
Being dangerous is the key, each being manifests an aura of impotence and dangerousness.. The first is pitied at best, the second is feared although not being inherently evil
The most important and unfailing truth that Machiavelli completely missed is Karma. Ruthlessness and cleverness for short term gain is inevitably and eventually followed by reaping what you sow and there are numerous examples of this throughout history.
Tell me how karma worked out for Hitler, Stalin or Mao pls
@@philipdrozd951
-Hitler watched his children and Eva Braun die from cyanide capsules, then shot himself in the head as the allies closed in on Berlin
-Stalin, notoriously abusive to his inner circle, died in a pool of his own urine after convulsing for up to 11 hours. His doormen were too scared to come in and check on him to save his life.
Mao im honest not well educated on him but im sure there's something.
Edit- i was wrong, they weren't hitlers children actually, they were the 5 goebbel children, one of them was 'like a daughter' to Hitler(Helga Goebbels)
@@philipdrozd951 Why don't you ask the Dalai Lama...
@@christopher5148Karma is the coping mechanism of losers.
Ghandi didn't just sit around waiting for some mystical force to right perceived misdeeds. He actively protested the political violence happening in his country and used his starvation as a method of emotional manipulation to create a cult of personality around him.
People will follow evil men if their lives are improved by it.
Mao, and Stalin made the lives of their people worse. Most Germans loved Hitler until they began to lose the war.
Being a force for change is not dependent on trite conceptions of morality.
“Thomas Edison wears women’s undergarments.”
- Nikola Tesla
He was just proving how not to dress like a man
Giampaolo Mannucci Shocking!
@@skepticynic5150 you know, when failing to make the lightbulb he said something like "I haven't failed, I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work" ;)
Wow, is THAT why Edison hated him so? Huh...who knew?
Thomas is a cheat, just hate him and I will always believe he wears women undergarments.
“When a man learns to feel love, he must also bear the risk of feeling hatred."
-Madara Uchiha
Booo shut up you otaku weeb
Maiquel Castro-Diaz it's just a form of animation calm down buddy
Naruto doesnt exist
@@palmaarma ok boomer
@matthe ai nah, he took the eyes from his brother who was dying due to injuries from tobirama
This is a great essay on the essence of Machiavelli perspicacity and depth of thought and analysis. Remember Reagan's famous line" "Trust but verify?" -- Machiavelli on a stroll in the park. 😌
You can discover what your enemy fears most by observing the means which they use to frighten you- Eric Hoffa.
This is very true from my own experience.
So many people get Machiavelli wrong. Machiavelli is all about situational action, not about keeping a constant rulers personality. You should be nice when the situation calls for it, and you should be ruthless when the situation calls for that too. Machiavelli would never advise you to be "machiavellian" as the word means today all the time, he would say that in some cases that would make sense, others you should be as nice as Sanata. He simply was trying to introduce "relativity" into politics that older classical philosophers who believed you should always be good or riteous didn't understand.
"You should be nice when the situation calls for it, and you should be ruthless when the situation calls for that too."
Well said. Donald Trump did not win by being a Nice-Guy. You can clearly see this in the CZcams videos titled, "Trump's best insults". However, Donald Trump can be a nice-guy depending on the circumstances. He is a nice-guy whenever he associates with people who want what is good for America.
jak daniles by doing bad things and thinking in evil ways you adapt a new persona of your self that you didn't know it existed
There is good and evil in every one of us
If you start feeding your inner evil it will grow and get too big for you to know when to switch it on and off
yeah he was basically a historian if you read the Prince. He talked about how Rome and Alexander etc dealt with things, what worked, why. What didn't and why. This video is fucking garbage that probably sounds intelligent to people who have never read Machiavelli because this clown has an English accent.
Basically, Machiavelli argued that rulers need to be temporary sociopaths.
I agree with him.
Thank you.
This advice is misleading. It assumes someone who sees themself as 'nice' can act in contradicting ways while retaining their 'nice' label. If you act in a heinous manner you've acted heinous. You're not still a 'nice' guy. You're complex. Everybody is capable of acting in a Machiavellian way.
Solzhenitsyn wrote in The Gulag Archipelago:
"If only there were evil people somewhere insidiously committing evil deeds, and it were necessary only to separate them from the rest of us and destroy them. But the line dividing good and evil cuts through the heart of every human being. And who is willing to destroy a piece of his own heart?"
RJG how can you say everyone acts in Machiavellian way when the princes he was responding to were clearly not acting the way he wanted them to
Jester2415 but the problem with that is not all psychopaths commif crime and sometimes non psychopaths commit crimes
Lard Sack Apologies. I meant everyone is capable of acting in a Machiavellian way.
Presenting a video for 'Nice guys' to study Machiavellian thougt to further their interest would diminish their 'Nice guy' label. That's my point.
If the 'nice' Princes studied Machiavelli, then become successful by being manipulative, lying, murderers that kept dissenters in line through fear and punishment, are they still 'Nice guys'? They become more complex characters.
This advice is for people who have trouble acting practically out of principal.
Nice and bad, good and evil is just illusions created by the society and applied only to those that do not have enough power. So a person that thinks of himself as "nice" based on the social standards has just his mind enslaved.
All I ever was gotten from being the nice guy was bruises and broken hearted 🥺✌️❤️
I came here after BBM declared he's a Machiavelli. I got to know its meaning and its origin. I realized I devoted myself to the wrong candidate. Thank you for this video! Sara my VP 💚!!
So was being "Machiavellian" a good thing or a bad thing to you now that you have watched this?
@@SEGAGIGA just like he said it depends on the user but it is so dangerous if this knowledge was used by a corrupted person
You should have known this by how his father ran the country wtf 🤦♂️
"One who has a 'why' to live can endure almost any 'how'.- Nietzsche
That was Viktor Frankle..
@@robertmc7863 the first person to quote it was Nietzsche. Viktor later used it on his book, Man's search for meaning.
@@syedraidarsalan4685 interesting.. I did not know that.
"Ahhh, blow it out your ass, Howard!" - Olson Johnson
That's a damned lie.
“I'll never leave you"
Your ex GF
Damn..
I don't even have any gf
@@smirkdogeface looooser; or you may don't need any women?
bruh
@@ubersoldado yes bro😆
His methods are written for extremely hard times of uncertainty.
However the aspiration for a better world can't stop either.
It's a piece of cake , to rule over "believers" you spoon feed them rubbish on the TV/radio and tell them it will all be sorted out when they Die (or pass, they don't like using the D word ) by the invisible man and his talking snake.
People always overcorrect. Don't go to extremes, just be balanced. That way you don't deny yourself unless it is harmful. Do no harm, but don't be a pushover. Be willing to fight for honor but not for pride.
You make it sound as if it was so easy to do! Its NOT as easy as it sounds, friend! We have lots of blind spots and lots of harsh critics! These are the main reasons, i believe, we tend to veer towards the extremes. You are right, balance is key, but it takes a lifetime for most of us to learn to get it right.
"I want to meet the manager right now"
-Karen
😆 haha.. what the heck!!
Lmao
😂🤣😂
The only correct quote in this comment section
Underrated 😂😂
"friends are like potatoes, if you eat them, they will die"
- Mike Tyson
“I’m a semi-good husband.”
-Iron Mike
He's not wrong tho.
Actual quote: "Frienths are like potatoths. If you eat them, bathically they die"
He stole it from Hannibal Lecter
Just like Holifield's ear.....
Great presentation. You learn me something! Many Thanks!🎈
Thank you for sharing this. And it is entertaining with these animations sort of Terry Gilliam's style. Machiavelli already knew about psychopaths even before this word existed. By the way, I don't know if the word already existed at that time. Some people (included me) feel : there is nothing to do, no one to convince etc. So if we don't achieve anything, we don't see us as losers. I feel that those one who insist on such things, are sort of paternalistic , deciding how other people should think and act, instead of leaving them alone. I just don't collaborate with the enemy, trying to buy as less bastard products (those made by bastard companies that don't care about their employees or even slaves) as posible. Partly this is what Joe Strummer and Gandhi said and this is the way I feel I can do my best. . . . Oh! well, maybe not. Maybe psycopaths will keep on ruling the world even if everybody buy only fair productos. I am afraid Machiavelli was right.
Nice guys don't finish last, they don't even finish the race.
- recovering nice guy
They dont join the race
True... Can't finish if you get trampled by the stampede.
- a fellow recovering nice guy
Nice guys don't finish last, they finish alone in the shower.
True , mostly , only whilst you're on the Earth. In the Eternity of your Heavenly Home , the rules are very different.
It's ONLY because "Nice Guys" are NICE .... and that's all. Be NICE with WISDOM. Read up on words of Wisdom. The Book of Proverbs, etc. Also know that Oil & Water don't mix. YOU have the POWER. So if a woman wants oil, give em oil. Just DON'T stay in that too long. That's Right, HIT IT & QUIT IT ! But YOU find someone with interest simular to yours. QUIT being intimidated of beautiful women.There is a such thing as a good pimp. Confidence & Conservation ! Your appearance, your talkgame, the way you carry yourself. If it don't get women, THEN CHANGE IT !
Martyrs are loved, but they are dead. -Machiavelli
And so will you ;)
Cowards are alive, but Irrelevant.
@@EmperorThePro there is a fine line between admirable bravery and utter stupidity
@D'lish Donut he lived a full life, the goal is to live a full life
Immanuel T And everyone is going to die. So now what?
This is very correct. I read the book. I wish I had it in Hard Copy for reference
"What shall a man profit if he gains the whole world and loses his own soul?"
-Mark 8:36
Life on earth is just temporary, and the average lifespan is about 70 years , while life after here on earth is for eternity and you choose whether eternity in heaven or eternity in hell. Being kind, good, compassionate, hated, and persecuted christian is worth all it because your reward in heaven is eternal life. Machiavellian's ideas to achieve success and riches are only temporary(approximately 70 yrs. if you are lucky) because you can not carry your success or riches after you die.
A big part of this is knowing the tricks of your enemies. That doesn't mean you need to use them and become like them, but more so being able to identify when they are using those tricks.
^
"Be ye wise as serpents and as harmless as doves."
Hi Marc. A subtle put-down from a passive-aggressive person goes like this. "What kind of trouble have you been getting into lately?" Cheers, P.R.
I can't get past the thought that this is the ultimate slippery slope.
@@markpritchard4901 Hi Mark. I reckon. Cheers, P.R.
"Never piss against the wind"
- Jason Statham
Unless you got strong presure
whats up with these random quotes xD
CNN? Dont whizz on the electric fence
I need to get my hands on this book asap. I’m known as the nicest guy but I’m losing at life and love. I know what I need to do to get ahead I’m just to nice to actually do those things is which is pathetic.
The people who actually value you and your kindness as a nice guy are the ones that really matter. But have enough hardness to say "No" to the people who take advantage of you, be it co-workers, bosses, friends or families. The same goes for love. Don't be a simp, don't be a sacrificial lamb, don't be disrespected. There is a lot of good videos on the topic of women and nice guys (apparently we are the 2nd, 3rd, 4th choices or more after the girls failed to subdue their bad boys).
If you're acting good, that doesn't mean you're good. How you live your life and treat those around determines who you are.
Yup, even evil people know how to act good to each other.
"I have never seen a thin person drinking diet coke" - Donald Trump
😂😂 best comment
Loool ffs
Did he truly said that?
Me neither
#TRUMP2020 #AllLivesMatter
True as fuck even if he didn’t say it
"Our words are backed by nukes"
-Mahatma Ghandi
hah nuclear ghandi, best feature ever
C I V
LOL
Gandhi not ghandi
"War, We are not impress"- Queen Victoria
This will be useful for my project, thank you very much
I left my previous job working as a Waiter because my coworkers thought I was too innocent and they said I always work like a COW! This disturbed me very badly 💔 for a long time, felt inferior, and I left the job.
It''s be alright dude. My honest advice would be to learn to be numb. Let them think whatever they wanna think. Way of the world mate, wolf or be wolved.
Work like a cow ? I never heard that expression. Like a dog , yea. A horse, yeah... but a cow ? Cows don't work at all . Did they mean you were big , slow and easy to tip over ?
It was the best thing you ever did! Unfortunately, there are people who like to see others suffering. If you weren't feeling well there, find a better place.
"when you fall down from a horse, you get up and eat that horse"
- Son Goku (TFS)
Top 10 quotes
Hahahah best serie ever
@@alexanderpatrick1863 which series?
@@FullMetalChains dragon ball abridged, enjoy bro
@@alexanderpatrick1863 thanks bro
"I dont know whats going on with the comment section"
- Osama Bin Laden
They Bin Hijack
Osama, did you come for Hillary?
"Why doesn't this have 1.2k likes"
- Martin Luther King
Lol you asshole
I’m dead
Loved the explanation. I started reading The Prince today:)
i can't believe that this must be reminded of again and again;
There is a difference between nice guys and kind guys.
"The surest way to remain poor is to be an honest man" - Napoleon Bonaparte
@@ThoughtCrimeCriminal lol
@@ThoughtCrimeCriminal damn bro XD
@@hulleciiibowsz1214 and u do?
@@hulleciiibowsz1214 He never said what being a man is dude. He said an honest man. You can be a piece of crap coward that's honest, or a truthful knight warrior - what brings wealth is deception and callousness for others.
How do I need to explain this metaphor to you?
Wow this is the same as in my culture where we are told lavish wealth can never be accumulated without sin