It's something a friend and mentor of mine once said: The reason black men and women have a hard time in relationships is this,they do not practice three simple words anymore. Us,Ours,and We! And you both have to use them! Instead of things degenerating into "Why can't you ever listen to me?!?!!!!" Instead say "How can WE get through this,to fix US??" That shows you and your mate are of like mind and are acting as a whole. This is what Blacks have to rediscover.
My son don’t know how lucky he is I made a huge mistake 18 years ago I used to not judge women I assumed I could change a woman mindset no you can’t I made sure I gave my son the tools as far as economics to contribute to this world unlike his mother didn’t give him anything but ask for money so everything you saying is absolutely correct
In this society, finding a good woman is like finding a needle in a haystack. There's absolutely no reason to rush. A man’s value, especially in his 20s and 30s, only appreciates over time as he continues to enrich himself, perfect his craft and secure himself financially. The quantity and quality of women will only increase exponentially as you continue elevate yourself. I agree with you Shawn. I rather be alone forever than to allocate a minute to toxic liberal woman.
The worst of this evolving contempt you describe comes when they divorce and keep the children. Then the male children are on the receiving end of this contempt as they take the place of the father who has been driven out of the household. And then this contempt transcends into abuse. And the worst of the abuse is not the physical, it's the constant mental abuse...
+mj toker You shouldn't deal with single moms. They're predators. If you can find a woman who does not have kids, and is looking to cooperate with you and will see you as a leader and authority figure then go for it. But since those women are really rare It's just best to stay single.
The single mothers put on fronts like they are spoken for, all the while their children and being made to feel they are the reason why mom can't get a date. It's a paradox and who seen this coming on society?
WOW! An early video make by Mr. James! This is excellent ! It’s a shame that Black men aren’t taught to VALUE themselves! These are some of the most disgusting disrespectful women in the world......and yet THEY are ALWAYS talking about how Black men have to R-E-S-P-E-C-T them and they don’t act in as respectable women and don’t know how to give it. When I was younger and stupider , i was in a dilemma. Between a black girl and a Latina girl both their twenties. I was their boss. They were my employees. I went out with both of them anyway . It was a DIFFERENT time then, pre-#metoo! Their families knew that I was dating them as approved , but their families didn’t know that I was two-timing! The black one had the TYPICAL black woman disrespectful attitude. Always contradicting me. Always with the SLICK remarks. I guess she thought that she was in a black Tyler Perry sit-com! Even on the first date! The Latina was polite and very feminine. Workshipped the ground I worked on. They found out about each other and forced me to make a choice. I chose the Latina. The black one was sooooo surprised and everyone that knew us were mad. We’d only gone out twice And this bitch was already nasty and disrespectful before we had a relationship. What would have happened if we really had one. By the way, the black one tried to break the printer in my office when she found out . I dodged a bullet. The Latina turned out to be the love of my life. Together five years.
ur premise is spot on. lack of respect is what is motivation thousands of black men 2 seek romance outside of the black community. but i'm curious, do u date non-black women?
I enjoy your perspective and enjoyed one of your books..... no offense but you should always wear a neck tie if your gonna button all the way up bro..... fully commit.
I have binge watch 15/20 videos. Nice to hear a male just tell his perspective. I must say …. You keep saying what a woman must add to your life or help you accomplish YOUR GOALS. I haven’t heard you once say I can add this & this to her life.
...NEXT TIME TELL THE YOUNG LADY, WELL, I FEEL SORRY FOR YOU ALSO, SO WHY NOT WE JUST GET TOGETHER AND FEEL SORRY FOR EACH OTHER, THEN LAUGH....AND SAY ,COME ON LETS GO....
Just understand this. MOST black women ( and white ) marry and date for conditional reasons above the reason of love . Black men( and white ) marry and date for unconditional love and companionship. Conditional and unconditional is like negative and positive magnets repealing each other. They can never come together. God created man and Jesus Christ in his image. Not women. Is it possible that only a man can truly express and feel love unconditionally because only he was created from the image of the highest form of love which is God and Jesus Christ ?
If I wanted to learn carpentry I wouldn't watch a video of a guy talking about carpentry but who himself never did any carpentry work. Nowhere in this video did you say "based off my experience in DATING black women." You've clearly dated none, I doubt you've developed any close report with any on social levels as an adult. No man will have any problem with a woman if she respects him. If she sees him as an alpha and being physically appealing doesn't hurt. A confident, accomplished man has no issues with women. None!
Air jordans? How old are these women? I've known some amazing black women and some terrible ones. I've been an amazing black man on occasions and a terrible one more than i wish to admit. I love black women and protect them (# no simp). No respect means no association.
A man's relationship with women in his life, is an extension of his relationship with his society.
It's something a friend and mentor of mine once said: The reason black men and women have a hard time in relationships is this,they do not practice three simple words anymore. Us,Ours,and We! And you both have to use them! Instead of things degenerating into "Why can't you ever listen to me?!?!!!!" Instead say "How can WE get through this,to fix US??" That shows you and your mate are of like mind and are acting as a whole. This is what Blacks have to rediscover.
Daniel Scott Good point.
That's a good one Mr Scott
While that may be true, men are the leaders and you can't lead someone that doesn't want to be lead. There must be respect.
Beautifully said
TASTE OF THE WASTE ! LMAOOO !!!...GOOD ONE !!
My son don’t know how lucky he is I made a huge mistake 18 years ago I used to not judge women I assumed I could change a woman mindset no you can’t I made sure I gave my son the tools as far as economics to contribute to this world unlike his mother didn’t give him anything but ask for money so everything you saying is absolutely correct
In this society, finding a good woman is like finding a needle in a haystack. There's absolutely no reason to rush. A man’s value, especially in his 20s and 30s, only appreciates over time as he continues to enrich himself, perfect his craft and secure himself financially. The quantity and quality of women will only increase exponentially as you continue elevate yourself. I agree with you Shawn. I rather be alone forever than to allocate a minute to toxic liberal woman.
Good point. You hitting the proverbial nail on the head!
Dude is intelligent, makes many valid points!
....WHY ISN'T THIS MAN PRESIDENT ?
The worst of this evolving contempt you describe comes when they divorce and keep the children. Then the male children are on the receiving end of this contempt as they take the place of the father who has been driven out of the household. And then this contempt transcends into abuse. And the worst of the abuse is not the physical, it's the constant mental abuse...
what you said in this video is true.
Great video. You raised some very good points
Great video!!!
Mr Shawn James are MGTOW
bachelor for life why should I get into a relationship when about 50% of women are single moms.
+mj toker You shouldn't deal with single moms. They're predators.
If you can find a woman who does not have kids, and is looking to cooperate with you and will see you as a leader and authority figure then go for it. But since those women are really rare It's just best to stay single.
Exactly right now is best to stay single.
+Shawn James That's what I'm doing.
Exactly
What about the other 50%?
A classic video Brother
I learned this the hard way that’s why now I don’t give her no attention period
Great Video.
That's easy some of them look down on us.
This is eye opening.
😂😂 "nuclear waste facility between their legs"
...I THINK I'D RATHER TASE MYSELF IN THE EYE, THAN DEAL WITH THOSE WOMEN..."TWICE"....
The single mothers put on fronts like they are spoken for, all the while their children and being made to feel they are the reason why mom can't get a date. It's a paradox and who seen this coming on society?
WOW! An early video make by Mr. James! This is excellent ! It’s a shame that Black men aren’t taught to VALUE themselves! These are some of the most disgusting disrespectful women in the world......and yet THEY are ALWAYS talking about how Black men have to R-E-S-P-E-C-T them and they don’t act in as respectable women and don’t know how to give it.
When I was younger and stupider , i was in a dilemma. Between a black girl and a Latina girl both their twenties. I was their boss. They were my employees. I went out with both of them anyway . It was a DIFFERENT time then, pre-#metoo! Their families knew that I was dating them as approved , but their families didn’t know that I was two-timing!
The black one had the TYPICAL black woman disrespectful attitude. Always contradicting me. Always with the SLICK remarks. I guess she thought that she was in a black Tyler Perry sit-com! Even on the first date!
The Latina was polite and very feminine. Workshipped the ground I worked on.
They found out about each other and forced me to make a choice. I chose the Latina.
The black one was sooooo surprised and everyone that knew us were mad.
We’d only gone out twice And this bitch was already nasty and disrespectful before we had a relationship. What would have happened if we really had one.
By the way, the black one tried to break the printer in my office when she found out .
I dodged a bullet. The Latina turned out to be the love of my life. Together five years.
This is a great video l this is very educationtional
they hate their daddy
ur premise is spot on. lack of respect is what is motivation thousands of black men 2 seek romance outside of the black community. but i'm curious, do u date non-black women?
Nope.
Do you ever think about moving out of New York City and to another state?
Can't afford it. Don't have the money to move. I'd need money to pay for first and last month's rent and a full-time job. Not to mention a car.
@@ShawnSJames yeah I understand that's true, if you had a choice on what state to move to where would you move?
I enjoy your perspective and enjoyed one of your books..... no offense but you should always wear a neck tie if your gonna button all the way up bro..... fully commit.
Why would these women get with men they feel sorry for?
...NOW YOU CAN FEEL SORRY FOR HER.....
Mr. James, have you ever relocated to a Different Locale?
Can't afford it.
Nuculear wastee reactor...😂 😂 😂 😂
I have binge watch 15/20 videos. Nice to hear a male just tell his perspective. I must say …. You keep saying what a woman must add to your life or help you accomplish YOUR GOALS. I haven’t heard you once say I can add this & this to her life.
...NEXT TIME TELL THE YOUNG LADY, WELL, I FEEL SORRY FOR YOU ALSO, SO WHY NOT WE JUST GET TOGETHER AND FEEL SORRY FOR EACH OTHER, THEN LAUGH....AND SAY ,COME ON LETS GO....
Just understand this. MOST black women ( and white ) marry and date for conditional reasons above the reason of love . Black men( and white ) marry and date for unconditional love and companionship. Conditional and unconditional is like negative and positive magnets repealing each other. They can never come together. God created man and Jesus Christ in his image. Not women. Is it possible that only a man can truly express and feel love unconditionally because only he was created from the image of the highest form of love which is God and Jesus Christ ?
If I wanted to learn carpentry I wouldn't watch a video of a guy talking about carpentry but who himself never did any carpentry work. Nowhere in this video did you say "based off my experience in DATING black women." You've clearly dated none, I doubt you've developed any close report with any on social levels as an adult. No man will have any problem with a woman if she respects him. If she sees him as an alpha and being physically appealing doesn't hurt. A confident, accomplished man has no issues with women. None!
Air jordans? How old are these women? I've known some amazing black women and some terrible ones. I've been an amazing black man on occasions and a terrible one more than i wish to admit. I love black women and protect them (# no simp). No respect means no association.
Lies!!