How To Stop Being A Nice Guy & Get Girls

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    🙅🙅 Do Nice Guys Finish Last? - Ultimate Guide on How To Stop Being A Nice Guy 😏😏
    We always try to be nice guys because that’s what we have been told since childhood.
    Also, what’s wrong with that?
    I am sure we have encountered this scenario.
    When we were being really “nice” to a girl,
    We were buying her expensive gifts and doing her favors to try and impress her.
    But in the end, the girl chooses that “a*shole” guy over you.
    She starts dating him while you treat her like a princess.
    Why does that happen?
    What are the traits in a*shole guys that get all the girls over nice guys?
    Why do nice guys finish last?
    If you’re a nice guy, this video is for you.
    I am sharing a step-by-step guide on how to stop being a nice guy,
    And become a person that everyone loves and respects.
    First, let’s talk about some traits of nice guys and playboys.
    Nice Guys
    - Are the ones who go beyond their ways to help a girl.
    - They do her favors and buy her gifts.
    - They are always there for her and keep checking on her multiple times a day.
    - They fight with other guys who talk about their girl, like Will Smith.
    Playboys
    - They do not buy girls drinks in the beginning.
    - They’re not a girl’s puppet; they stand their ground and maintain their boundaries.
    - They do not offer undeserved favors.
    - They are clear about what they want.
    - They inform the girls they don’t want to be in a relationship.
    Playboys put their priorities over others.
    It is not about nice guys vs. bad guys.
    It comes down to strong man behavior vs. weak man behavior.
    Playboys are strong, and nice guys are pushovers.
    Nice guys are weak; they go out of their ways to help others,
    To try and impress them. They are people’s pleasers.
    Girls treat them as a shoulder and take advantage of them.
    You need to stop that. You must start standing up for yourself and not let others treat you as a doormat.
    In life, we want a win-win situation where both sides are happy.
    But nice guys feel shitty inside while making others happy.
    They let others take advantage of them and lose their sense of self.
    Even as kids, our parents showed us love, when we did things according to them.
    You need to stop this pattern and become a strong man.
    In the video, I talk about five steps you can take to become a stronger, grounded man.
    Watch the video to get a step-by-step guide on how to stop being a nice guy.
    Love,
    Kshitij 💖
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    The viewer is advised that any advice, content, or teaching of Kshitij Sehrawat / Iron Man Lifestyle shall be used at his own peril.
    Kshitij Sehrawat/ Iron Man Lifestyle does not teach any person to disobey any law of India.
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Komentáře • 514

  • @roshankhadka21
    @roshankhadka21 Před 25 dny +203

    Imagine we are in the world where being nice is a cheap💀

  • @souptikzzroy-7773
    @souptikzzroy-7773 Před měsícem +213

    There's nothing called one sided love ..it's simply called simping

  • @Ahmedabad-Single-Souls
    @Ahmedabad-Single-Souls Před měsícem +580

    Today's relationships are materialistic. Stay single stay happy. Love is a waste of time.

    • @Ahmedabad-Single-Souls
      @Ahmedabad-Single-Souls Před měsícem

      @@shortsofriju3516 👍

    • @talawar7236
      @talawar7236 Před měsícem

      Chuth chaiye tho kya kare?😆

    • @biswaruproychowdhury8820
      @biswaruproychowdhury8820 Před měsícem +26

      Bhai stay single by choice but there is no need to to prove a point by that definitely not for proving relationships or being in a relationship is a bad thing to happen

    • @IronManLifestyle
      @IronManLifestyle  Před měsícem +224

      Lol. Average victim guy looking for excuses for his own failure to meet someone that loves him.

    • @Vxbhav
      @Vxbhav Před měsícem +6

      @@IronManLifestyle lmaooo

  • @Calgxyox
    @Calgxyox Před měsícem +20

    Kshitij,ur doing a great job.These kind of videos is very rare on the net & very informative.Great goin bro 👍

  • @gtxgonnacry4201
    @gtxgonnacry4201 Před 29 dny +46

    Excellent!! Earlier I was single ...after following this I am single and without friends😢😢

    • @joshbrandon1750
      @joshbrandon1750 Před 27 dny +3

      bro anyways you have to have boundaries for yourself else you will be cheap. You will have few friends but the real ones

    • @narendra7338
      @narendra7338 Před 27 dny +7

      Being single is way better than being in the wrong Circle

    • @jyotiradityaroy5109
      @jyotiradityaroy5109 Před 27 dny +5

      Make friends brother ladki chorke chali jayegi par bhailog kbhi sath nhi chorenge 👍

    • @ShivamKumar-ch7tk
      @ShivamKumar-ch7tk Před 27 dny +1

      Ekdm

    • @joshbrandon1750
      @joshbrandon1750 Před 20 dny

      @@jyotiradityaroy5109 kdum sahi baat

  • @gyoubuoniwa4662
    @gyoubuoniwa4662 Před 29 dny +14

    quality content bro appreciate your work helping out the boys

  • @Shivam07u
    @Shivam07u Před měsícem +92

    6:22 thanks for clarity bro 😂😂

    • @ZoldicsDiaries
      @ZoldicsDiaries Před měsícem

      Dushmaan mile hazaar- par Biwi na mile Chinaar!!!😉

  • @DIGIGURU-gi3kk
    @DIGIGURU-gi3kk Před měsícem +101

    Today you will only survive if you have kshitij mentality❤

  • @user-my3ec6ff3c
    @user-my3ec6ff3c Před měsícem +256

    Bro make a video on how to manage 2 girlfriends

  • @raiyanrahman5813
    @raiyanrahman5813 Před měsícem +8

    This type of video format is very helpful and relatable👌 kepp it up bro❤️

  • @_0sahab847
    @_0sahab847 Před měsícem +48

    Stay strong king's 🔥💪

    • @ZoldicsDiaries
      @ZoldicsDiaries Před měsícem

      Dushmaan mile hazaar- par Biwi na mile Chinaar!!!😉

  • @YourAashique
    @YourAashique Před 26 dny

    Thanks for highlighting these topics.

  • @LuckyVerma-rr7ez
    @LuckyVerma-rr7ez Před měsícem +5

    thank you so much bhaiya please make more videos like this and aware our youth boys because your content is too much relatable with our situations .... waiting for your next video

  • @himanshuregar5478
    @himanshuregar5478 Před měsícem +2

    Thank you big brother its really helpful ❤

  • @rishabhchawla8024
    @rishabhchawla8024 Před měsícem +3

    Your videos are very helpful

  • @Mr-Atheist
    @Mr-Atheist Před 20 dny +2

    Great work sir

  • @MyChannel-ez6hl
    @MyChannel-ez6hl Před měsícem +6

    Thank you for information

  • @AdityaSingh-zz2rc
    @AdityaSingh-zz2rc Před měsícem +6

    Very greatfull to see the ..video ... Kshitiz bhai .. ...

  • @anirudhkulkarni7249
    @anirudhkulkarni7249 Před měsícem +6

    3:22 Kshitij bhai ne bol diya circle chodne ka matlab chodne ka ❤🔥........Was stuck in this from long time

  • @ketanthekahanikaar
    @ketanthekahanikaar Před 28 dny

    Your videos have really something valuable.

  • @dhruv_15_jain
    @dhruv_15_jain Před měsícem +3

    Content getting best day upon day go on kshitij bhai ❤

  • @SanTVMUSIC
    @SanTVMUSIC Před měsícem +17

    Bro 💣❤️ keep making men confident ❤❤

  • @anandbhalerao9531
    @anandbhalerao9531 Před měsícem +2

    Bro is making extraordinary content i want him to make more and post daily ❤

  • @swastiksoni1728
    @swastiksoni1728 Před měsícem +1

    Sir, you are the reason I am in relationship .

  • @nikhilpatil6808
    @nikhilpatil6808 Před 12 dny +1

    Wohh..really Wonderful✨😍

  • @AstroHeadlines
    @AstroHeadlines Před měsícem +6

    Thanks for Uploading the Actual Thing love ur Content

  • @pritech8302
    @pritech8302 Před 13 dny +1

    Good job bro

  • @mohammadfaisalfaisal9634
    @mohammadfaisalfaisal9634 Před měsícem +2

    Good video 👍

  • @suryakantapradhan6935
    @suryakantapradhan6935 Před 10 dny

    Thank you kshitij sir for this video

  • @user-uh1sj4bg7f
    @user-uh1sj4bg7f Před 24 dny +1

    what we dont want to listen but NEED to listen.

  • @himanshugohil4609
    @himanshugohil4609 Před měsícem +2

    Thanks bro 😎 ham logo ko rah dikhane ke liye 😊

  • @yashkohad
    @yashkohad Před měsícem

    Video ka topic bohot hi sahi choose ka bcz its a today’s social truth topic , being nice is not bad but being used by someone is wrong

  • @kushalshukla444
    @kushalshukla444 Před 29 dny

    bro i have been following you from 50 K subs , love you brother

  • @Rg4gamer800
    @Rg4gamer800 Před 7 dny +1

    I can definitely say you explain things in a very good way you are not saying that being nice is bad you are just explaining that is good to be nice until you are not being used and i implemented this in my real life and drastic changes❤️❤️
    Earlier i use to think gym jakr body bana kr he baat banegi, but now i know how to flirt respectfully with a girl and build attraction, however i am still in learning phase only 40% skills developed till now

  • @satyachaitanya2431
    @satyachaitanya2431 Před 2 dny

    Thank you

  • @rkbehera2001
    @rkbehera2001 Před měsícem +5

    bhai aisi video honi chayeye yaar.... maje maje mein bohot kuch sikh gaya...

  • @rohitthapa1666
    @rohitthapa1666 Před 25 dny

    Thanksgiving bro your support

  • @akashgupta6793
    @akashgupta6793 Před měsícem

    You're the Superb🔥🔥Bro❤️💪🏻

  • @jayprakashkumar9518
    @jayprakashkumar9518 Před měsícem

    great bro....

  • @SSG__SUPREME
    @SSG__SUPREME Před měsícem +16

    This video is really helpful…..😊

  • @superiorarts..443
    @superiorarts..443 Před 17 dny

    Top level content no more Mr nice guy 👌🏻

  • @Lucknowkaeditor
    @Lucknowkaeditor Před 3 dny

    Thanks

  • @GangasagarAffiliatemarketing
    @GangasagarAffiliatemarketing Před měsícem +1

    Super video its useful like new teenage generation

  • @sigmaworld4955
    @sigmaworld4955 Před 27 dny +1

    Thanks for spreading anti-simp awareness.

  • @pradeepagnel2262
    @pradeepagnel2262 Před měsícem

    hi Kshitij,
    which course is better mentorship 2.0 or simp to stud

  • @rohan925
    @rohan925 Před 26 dny

    Sir can you make video on the difference between eve teasing and a good approach

  • @rktrishika1184
    @rktrishika1184 Před měsícem +1

    Best video

  • @animba5440
    @animba5440 Před 24 dny +2

    Netflix Recharge 😂😂😂
    It seems most didn't get this one.

  • @NikunjanChakraborty-gq4zp

    Fr . I also had similar experience the girl with whom I was nice ( like very nice ) ignored me . After that when I started being myself { it is different}

  • @astopgeming1.1m8
    @astopgeming1.1m8 Před měsícem +1

    Content me jaan dal di❤🔥

  • @acousticsid862
    @acousticsid862 Před měsícem

    Bro aap sahi batate ho ksam sy apne mai bhoot kuch change feel kiya hai maine personality to thik hai meri pr girls k maamle mai nhi to maine aapsy kaafi kuch seekh aur aage dates bi kiya karuga aur apne liye thik duduga thanks bro ❤❤love respect from Himachal mandi ❤❤

  • @anandbhalerao9531
    @anandbhalerao9531 Před měsícem

    Bro make an video about how to start converstion with unknow womens and what to talk to her ❤

  • @gorgeousyou844
    @gorgeousyou844 Před 9 dny

    Iron man does you have any side effects till now after doing eye surgery pls answer

  • @spreading_comedy8
    @spreading_comedy8 Před 16 dny

    thankyou sir you are great sir loe u

  • @adityatiwari6998
    @adityatiwari6998 Před měsícem +1

    "Arman khade ho gye" was epic line

  • @rendoxbhai9916
    @rendoxbhai9916 Před měsícem

    i would love to see sakshi on your channel

  • @muhammadrehanulhaq3118

    I have gone through this situation and now I laugh at myself what I was doing 😂😂

  • @mayurgupta9994
    @mayurgupta9994 Před měsícem

    Kshitij bro 🤜 content is getting good day by day.... Boundaries wali kuch alag ho sakta tha .... Agar directly mna kr deta toh...... How does it matter....?

  • @th3r3x5
    @th3r3x5 Před 16 hodinami

    A similar thing has happened to me. 🙂 Taking the Ls but I learnt my lesson

  • @MyChannel-ez6hl
    @MyChannel-ez6hl Před měsícem

    Please make more videos

  • @ajeetyadav7908
    @ajeetyadav7908 Před měsícem

    What about people who are dark skinned or nor handsome, are girls ready to accept their proposals?

  • @TheSketchX
    @TheSketchX Před měsícem

    Where has your old music intro gone man...bring it back with a bang

  • @hossainabrar18
    @hossainabrar18 Před měsícem +3

    iPhone Kidney Bech Ke Aate Hai 😮.........It gives me goosebumps😮😮😮

  • @AshTheDuke
    @AshTheDuke Před 18 dny

    Thank god i have never been a victim

  • @souhardya1487
    @souhardya1487 Před 28 dny

    That guy actually deserves better and dodged the bullet.

  • @arunmeena4881
    @arunmeena4881 Před měsícem +4

    bro thank you for teaching indian youth nice communication skills bcoz your videos also works on workplaces and school tkank you bro😌😌😌😌😌😌

  • @Sigma7723
    @Sigma7723 Před měsícem +30

    Ye ldki acting mst krti h😌

    • @fk-StarBoy
      @fk-StarBoy Před měsícem +8

      Lagta he real life me practicals ker chuki hai 🌚🌚

    • @shibu3716
      @shibu3716 Před měsícem

      Ye uski gf hai

    • @samxdits_
      @samxdits_ Před měsícem

      Iski insta id pta h?

    • @fk-StarBoy
      @fk-StarBoy Před měsícem

      @@samxdits_ 🌚

    • @Sigma7723
      @Sigma7723 Před měsícem

      @@fk-StarBoy bahut 🤣

  • @SonuKumar-xz3wr
    @SonuKumar-xz3wr Před měsícem

    1:20. 3:32. boundaries Say no mani nice girl iv, 7:32. 5:36. Value add tease & flirt,

  • @sauravsardar6819
    @sauravsardar6819 Před měsícem +3

    i dont wanna live in the world where kindness is consider as weakness ------byKeanu Reeves

  • @siddharthjagwani
    @siddharthjagwani Před měsícem

    I am a victim of trauma bonding. Got bullied for 2 years😢

  • @mEvEeeee
    @mEvEeeee Před 24 dny

    bhai how to chat with a girl if we know each other and what to chat after some days?? on which topic? make video on this

  • @gopalkrusnajena7383
    @gopalkrusnajena7383 Před 18 dny +1

    Stay strong boys . Being alone is so happier than being binded in a relationship.
    Don't you see your parents fighting?
    Don't you see news ?
    Don't you feel the burden of relatives?
    Don't you lose your autonomy of staring great works when someone close interfere?
    Alone is always happier than getting close to anyone.
    When you allow someone into relationship with you.. you loose autonomy and give permission of asking questions to the person.
    Think again 👍

  • @EastsideTravelOFood
    @EastsideTravelOFood Před 18 dny

    I am also the same situation culprit

  • @ajaythomas2009
    @ajaythomas2009 Před 27 dny

    U r a coach n someone our generation neef

  • @harishrhr1412
    @harishrhr1412 Před 25 dny +1

    Could you give English subtitles for your videos because mujje Hindi only thoda thoda maalum,it would be useful for other language audiences

  • @himan_shu_tech
    @himan_shu_tech Před 29 dny +1

    How to escalate the things up if she shows intrest in me and also trying to flirt?

  • @sahilahmed_7
    @sahilahmed_7 Před 26 dny +1

    100% right 🔥❤️

  • @mudassaranjum4649
    @mudassaranjum4649 Před 28 dny

    👍 good

  • @gayakwadusha5118
    @gayakwadusha5118 Před 26 dny

    Heartbreaking 💔

  • @svmjyoti7942
    @svmjyoti7942 Před 27 dny

    6:40 ha but some times we want to help the other person in that situation it might not fit as simping

  • @Devil-bc1yv
    @Devil-bc1yv Před 17 dny

    In such kind of relation but unable to get out as I really need emotional support😢

  • @user-ow6tb3mk6t
    @user-ow6tb3mk6t Před měsícem

    Bhai content ❤

  • @Dweepkumarsarkar2004
    @Dweepkumarsarkar2004 Před 29 dny +1

    Thanks for 3 subscribe

  • @egcode2100
    @egcode2100 Před měsícem +1

    hoooooo bahut badi baat bta di

  • @Akgaming_004
    @Akgaming_004 Před měsícem

    Bro make a video on how to manage 3 to 4 girls

  • @PurvaShukla-gf3rf
    @PurvaShukla-gf3rf Před 25 dny

    bhai when will todays video be released on channel

  • @Jackofficial488
    @Jackofficial488 Před měsícem +1

    Bro jab koi ladki app sey sidha puche ki kya tum mujhe like karte ho .. then kya karein uss moment pe .. plzz answer

  • @metalheadtaz
    @metalheadtaz Před 29 dny

    Mark Manson calls this non-neediness

  • @mohdshariqansari2233
    @mohdshariqansari2233 Před 28 dny +1

    Kshitij bhai boht sahi bate btata h agr har banda ya majority guys iski bate mane to aj ke time par ladkiyo ki jitna bhai badhe huye h or vo asman me udh rhi h zamin pr ajyngi fir in londo ko itna pgl nhi hona pdega ldkio ke piche or in ldkio ka attitude bhi khtm ho jyega

  • @realhxrry
    @realhxrry Před 19 dny

    *"High value men."* This sole phrase is enough to conclude almost everything that a man should be.

  • @adityaaman2978
    @adityaaman2978 Před 13 dny +1

    💯💯💯

  • @shridhar786
    @shridhar786 Před 26 dny

    Kshitij looking more Slimmer 🔥

  • @Rohaan_Jahanzaib
    @Rohaan_Jahanzaib Před měsícem

    What if a girl you like don't like you and give you some bad names so what we have to do to impress her

  • @calisthenics69guy
    @calisthenics69guy Před měsícem +3

    Ye Pyaar nhi ye to Dhanda hai Kalyug me kaha pyaar milega yaar Srip Single raho or Success ke pichhe bhago Or Money 💰 kamao Apne ap Sare ladki Pichhe aajayn ge

  • @DigitalFaizal
    @DigitalFaizal Před 15 dny

    thank you bhai 🙂 aankh khol diye

  • @K.S_20087
    @K.S_20087 Před měsícem +2

    Part 2 chahiye 👍

  • @nikhilbhardwaj4514
    @nikhilbhardwaj4514 Před měsícem +1

    kshitizz bhai 🥰🥰🥰 bndi to pyaari hai

  • @Yours_truly_Shubham
    @Yours_truly_Shubham Před měsícem +1

    Missing old outro 😢

  • @AlphaAbhishek
    @AlphaAbhishek Před 21 dnem +1

    Bro make video on multiple relationship management

  • @safe1123
    @safe1123 Před 28 dny

    Conclusion of story
    Invest your time, energy, money and love
    On that girl who also invest you on those things truly .
    *Loyality*