Sharing with you my point of view on why becoming financially independent is important for women after marriage #IndianVlogger #IndianCZcamsr #HindiVlog
So true shona ..thanks for raising out on this ...my comment might be a little long but sorry I was tempted to write ..coz any one reading it will understand this kind of couple coexistence also exists and make more sense ..half the women I see even young ones need self respect and filmy kind of life without putting in any efforts from there side ! There comment is ur lucky ur blessed with good husband..but respect is earnt by our deeds..we bought house at early stage of marraige and people think we are rich ..but no one knows how much I have struggled to double amounts by reading about investments , stock market ..my hubby taking classes along side his IT job..there is a lot of opportunity especially for women please use to earn self-respect and money ..rather than expecting it without efforts
Very nice shivaranjani. I and my husband both resembles with urs and Shona thoughts as well as the situation which u people went through. I with my hubby did the same forgetting about moving here and there and enjoying only the honeymoon period. We too are busy with are work and always wish to get the best from life by our hard work.
I always thought that if you are earning equal, and handle household work along with it, instead of keeping maid for cooking etx, we will save money as well as earn respect and love frm family But even after that my in-laws kept taunting mez despite living far away, they controlled my life . Me being able to handle things equally made my mother in law v insecure that people wid praise me or how m I being able to handle things, I saved money the same way u said as even my first agenda was house, but my mother in law wud not let my husband take it.. after 7 yrs of marriage, I got so frustrated that I left job and sitting idle at home, aur ghar ki responsibility bhi kam leti hu... It also depends on what type of family u live in they can either boost ur confidence or break u down, just because they want to control ur life. Mere case me ulta tha, meri saas ekdum naalayak thi aur roti rahi zindagi bhar victim ban ke, lekin mai aate hi karne lagi cheezein to wo imsecure ho gai।। Ye hoti hai kismat, aap kitna bhi daud bhaag loz agar aapke life me negative log hain to cheezein nahi ho paati.
Ye vlog dekh k thodi der me shocked reh gae. Totally speechless. Apne really bahut meaningful bate kahi he. Ar bahut struggle kia apni life me. God bless you
"God also help those who help themselves" i find myself in a similar situation as yours... i lost my dad in 2010💔 n its been a loooooooonnnnnggggg journey without him... but getting financially independent helps cope mentally n physically both...
Ap ki baaton sy ap ki mumy ka pata chalta ha wo really bohat achi sincere lady hongi..ap ki baat sy agr koi ak bi depression sy nikl ata ha to yahi ap ki success ha shona..Apny lye to sub hi jeety han iss jaha ma,,Ha zindgi ka muksad Ooron ky kaam ana,, God bless you Shona..
meri nanad ne apke bare me. batayaapki painting usko bahot pasand thi jo wo mujhse banwa rahi hai but i cudnt copy it so i m making another painting for her as i m not so pro in abstract painting..... well. apkipainting dekhne k liye apki video dekhna shuru kiya aur aj do teen video dkh dali... i found u very honest n simple genuine person. ur really inspiring....
Cant thank you enough for this video..❤❤ "jab tak aap zimmedari nahi loge..saamne wala aapki izzat nahi krega" has stuck with me.. so true! I watch this everytime i need a little push to work more harder!! 😊
Really must watch for every woman.. You are sooo damn true👌.. we should make ourselves so strong and independent that no one can disrespect us.. Being a Bihari I'm sooo proud of you..keep shining💖🤗
Good. Financial independence makes a woman very confident. I used to watch your videos randomly when I was terribly tired after taking online classes. But in due course realized that they indeed are very beneficial & started following you regularly. Maybe I connect to you in ma y ways. I work in an elite school & will be retiring in 5 years. God bless you.
Ur seriously very mature and the view and thoughts u have which u share with us is very important for everyone out here... thanks shona and God bless u dear..
Hi shona I really appreciate main apke vlog bahut time se dekhti hoon ....bt aj ke topic ne to sach main mujhe comment karne par major hi kar diya u r so beutiful by heart it shows in ur eyes.....or each main apke vedios bahut kuch sikhne ko milta hai ........
very true itne ache tareqe se aj tak kisi ne guid nai kiya thank u so much isi tarah aur videos ka intezar rahega me daily vlog dekhti hoon I love u so much
Hi Shona you are much younger than me but i always admire your way of thinking & the way you lead your life... you are not only inspiration to young girls but also to older ladies..keep posting nice vlogs as usual
Hii Shona..Vlog was awesome. Really self respect is very important n every lady shud realize it. You are very sensible n true n kind hearted n try to create social awareness. God bless u. I eagerly wait fr yr videos.
Today's vlog is very inspiring,worth watching.Mere papa bhi kehte the ki saath mein money hona bahut jaruri, financially independent hona bahut jaruri hai.
Hats off to you Shona....for taking time and explaining in detail the necessary financial independence for a woman...I fully agree with you..it goes a long way in driving equality between a man and his wife....men are very practical by nature and when they see that their spouse is also contributing financially then automatically their behaviour towards their wife changes...Thanks for sharing your life experiences. I know for sure nothing would have come easier for you too. It would have definitely been your past struggles and experiences which has helped you to be who and what you are.....As usual lots of love to you...❤🧡💛💚💞💓💗💖
Shona...aap bahot samajdar ho..aapki bate Aapka point of view bahot clear Hota he.koe diplomatic bat aap nhi krte.koe mithi mithi bate nhi krte fake.u make people inspire by ur true words.
Very nice video You have poured out your heart 💖 It must have been difficult to have lost your mom at a young age Respect for you for having come out stronger from this God bless you always and keep you motivated and happy I wish more women think in your lines..... Indian women have great potential if only they learn to be more pro active and accountable for their own happiness ❤️
Hi.. Never comment on video alththough I watch each vlouge of your.. But whatver you said its 100% true.. Without independent we never survive.. Bz financial stability give you difference confidant..
One point , many wives think that earning money is only for personal things like clothes and makeup etc. They don't think that earning is for self respect
I was just 21 when I got married after my graduation but after marriage I got a job and worked now I got a daughter so had to take a break ... but will work again in future for sure ....so proud of you and your hardship kudos!!!!!
Hi Shona aapke video se maine yeh jaana ki apne past se bahar nikal ke future ko savarna chahiye...main bhi koshish kar rahi hoon par bahut difficult hai....stay blessed both of you
Very, very well said Shona...you have a very progressive n firm outlook....a lot to learn from you, although you are much junior to me....god bless you my dear🥰🥰
Yes you are right. Presently I am home maker for last 3 yrs as we had to shift to new place. Me and my husband was working in the same company. When we shifted to Hyderabad I had to leave the job to look after my kids. Standing on your own feet actually boost up your confidence. My husband always supports me and we take joint decisions.
felt very sorry for ur mom..... and i literally cried while watching u cry..... apkaghar bahot sundar hai aur apka n apke husband ka couple b bahot cute hai ..... uguys make a lively couple
Points are soo correct and true..just one thing the circumstances are different for joint family.. if possible share something if you have faced or heard or just your view
People do work in joint families as well. Either their family business or their own independent job/business. One need to show eagerness to work eventually they do get chances.
So true shona ..thanks for raising out on this ...my comment might be a little long but sorry I was tempted to write ..coz any one reading it will understand this kind of couple coexistence also exists and make more sense ..half the women I see even young ones need self respect and filmy kind of life without putting in any efforts from there side ! There comment is ur lucky ur blessed with good husband..but respect is earnt by our deeds..we bought house at early stage of marraige and people think we are rich ..but no one knows how much I have struggled to double amounts by reading about investments , stock market ..my hubby taking classes along side his IT job..there is a lot of opportunity especially for women please use to earn self-respect and money ..rather than expecting it without efforts
You both are truly an inspiration for every couple. Hope others reads your comment and learn. Thanks for sharing 😘
Very nice shivaranjani. I and my husband both resembles with urs and Shona thoughts as well as the situation which u people went through. I with my hubby did the same forgetting about moving here and there and enjoying only the honeymoon period. We too are busy with are work and always wish to get the best from life by our hard work.
I always thought that if you are earning equal, and handle household work along with it, instead of keeping maid for cooking etx, we will save money as well as earn respect and love frm family
But even after that my in-laws kept taunting mez despite living far away, they controlled my life . Me being able to handle things equally made my mother in law v insecure that people wid praise me or how m I being able to handle things, I saved money the same way u said as even my first agenda was house, but my mother in law wud not let my husband take it.. after 7 yrs of marriage, I got so frustrated that I left job and sitting idle at home, aur ghar ki responsibility bhi kam leti hu... It also depends on what type of family u live in they can either boost ur confidence or break u down, just because they want to control ur life. Mere case me ulta tha, meri saas ekdum naalayak thi aur roti rahi zindagi bhar victim ban ke, lekin mai aate hi karne lagi cheezein to wo imsecure ho gai।। Ye hoti hai kismat, aap kitna bhi daud bhaag loz agar aapke life me negative log hain to cheezein nahi ho paati.
Ye vlog dekh k thodi der me shocked reh gae. Totally speechless. Apne really bahut meaningful bate kahi he. Ar bahut struggle kia apni life me. God bless you
You're truly a sensible, progressive, enterprising, focused and determined woman! M proud of you!🤩🤩 Well said, my dear 👍👍
"God also help those who help themselves" i find myself in a similar situation as yours... i lost my dad in 2010💔 n its been a loooooooonnnnnggggg journey without him... but getting financially independent helps cope mentally n physically both...
One of the best motivational video I have seen ..The valuable information n the maturity u have shown is truly commendable 🙏🏻👌
I seriously love when you talk like that! More power to girls! ❤️
Ap ki baaton sy ap ki mumy ka pata chalta ha wo really bohat achi sincere lady hongi..ap ki baat sy agr koi ak bi depression sy nikl ata ha to yahi ap ki success ha shona..Apny lye to sub hi jeety han iss jaha ma,,Ha zindgi ka muksad Ooron ky kaam ana,, God bless you Shona..
You r so right, 😊You r a strong girl👍God bless you both 🙏🙏
U r soul with pure heart.said so true n very inspiring
meri nanad ne apke bare me. batayaapki painting usko bahot pasand thi jo wo mujhse banwa rahi hai but i cudnt copy it so i m making another painting for her as i m not so pro in abstract painting..... well. apkipainting dekhne k liye apki video dekhna shuru kiya aur aj do teen video dkh dali... i found u very honest n simple genuine person. ur really inspiring....
aapki respect badh gyi is vedio k baad, aap logo k wajh s bihar k log bht pasand h mujhe. lots of love
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You touched my heart ❤! Very inspiring... you brought tears in my eyes...
Shona bahut hi samajhdaar ladki hai...I really appreciate that in you. Also, you are very caring...
Well said dear... Proud of u
Cant thank you enough for this video..❤❤ "jab tak aap zimmedari nahi loge..saamne wala aapki izzat nahi krega" has stuck with me.. so true! I watch this everytime i need a little push to work more harder!! 😊
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Really must watch for every woman.. You are sooo damn true👌.. we should make ourselves so strong and independent that no one can disrespect us.. Being a Bihari I'm sooo proud of you..keep shining💖🤗
At such young age u r soo mature and so wise.l absolutely love ur these kind of videos where u talk about women welfare. Keep doing such great work.
Thank you for encouraging 😘😘
Well said Shona. Proud of you and truly believe what you said. God bless you.
Good. Financial independence makes a woman very confident. I used to watch your videos randomly when I was terribly tired after taking online classes. But in due course realized that they indeed are very beneficial & started following you regularly. Maybe I connect to you in ma y ways. I work in an elite school & will be retiring in 5 years. God bless you.
Ur seriously very mature and the view and thoughts u have which u share with us is very important for everyone out here... thanks shona and God bless u dear..
Shona tumhari baaton se bahut motivation milta h tum bahut achi ho...❤️❤️❤️
U are in true sense an influencer......more power to you girl👍
Really appriciating.. Well said
Our self respect is in our hand.lots of love to you
itane kam umar me itani maturity I really appreciate Shona. your words make me emotional .God bless u dear
Hi shona I really appreciate main apke vlog bahut time se dekhti hoon ....bt aj ke topic ne to sach main mujhe comment karne par major hi kar diya u r so beutiful by heart it shows in ur eyes.....or each main apke vedios bahut kuch sikhne ko milta hai ........
Shonaji rula diya aapne. God bless you dear👍❤️❤️
Ur past experience has made u more and more stronger and confident..Best of luck for your future..
very true itne ache tareqe se aj tak kisi ne guid nai kiya thank u so much isi tarah aur videos ka intezar rahega me daily vlog dekhti hoon I love u so much
Well said... For a moment I felt the words are coming from my heart..
Shona at this age so much understanding.pehle kyun nahi mili tum. I want to meet u some day. God bless.
Hi...shona you are so matured in this age ...God bless you & you guide the girls so well
Salut off to you and your thoughts. This is a great message for everywomen....
Thanks i got some of my answers.. thanks a lot for this video aur apni zindagi ke examples dene ke liye.. much love.. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Wow... You alwys inspire.... Love to watch you always... It's always good to see like minded people
Hi Shona
you are much younger than me but i always admire your way of thinking & the way you lead your life... you are not only inspiration to young girls but also to older ladies..keep posting nice vlogs as usual
Hii Shona..Vlog was awesome. Really self respect is very important n every lady shud realize it. You are very sensible n true n kind hearted n try to create social awareness. God bless u. I eagerly wait fr yr videos.
Absolutely right n well explained 👍👍👍
Kudos to you for using your platform to inspire so many women! 💕
I just love you..love your thoughts.. especially those related to women ..their equality.. LOVE YOU..great respect for You.
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Today's vlog is very inspiring,worth watching.Mere papa bhi kehte the ki saath mein money hona bahut jaruri, financially independent hona bahut jaruri hai.
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Shona=full of positive energy,keep going 👍
Hi Shona, very true and i agree with you when we work men respect us.we have to be financially dependent for the family.
It must be with concent of all family members. Going against the family members will not lead to good life and success.
@@IndianVloggerShona ver true, i agree with you
Well said dear Sona.... God bless you.... Thank u for sharing this inspiration video.
Hats off to you Shona....for taking time and explaining in detail the necessary financial independence for a woman...I fully agree with you..it goes a long way in driving equality between a man and his wife....men are very practical by nature and when they see that their spouse is also contributing financially then automatically their behaviour towards their wife changes...Thanks for sharing your life experiences. I know for sure nothing would have come easier for you too. It would have definitely been your past struggles and experiences which has helped you to be who and what you are.....As usual lots of love to you...❤🧡💛💚💞💓💗💖
So happy to hear that people understand and relate with my feelings and my experience. Thank you. Stay connected 😊.
You are such a great lady... lots of love from the bottom of my heart... GBU dear. ❤️
You are so matured though you are young. Every girl should be confident like you
HI Shona my first comment very very inspiring speech got addicted to ur voice.....
Great Shona! You are really an inspiration for everyone.
well said Shona👍..really u are very emotional n sensitive person
Shona I learned many this from you,
I started to work after see your video
your emotions says alot then words.feel same for home after mother passing.love you
Shona...aap bahot samajdar ho..aapki bate Aapka point of view bahot clear Hota he.koe diplomatic bat aap nhi krte.koe mithi mithi bate nhi krte fake.u make people inspire by ur true words.
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@@IndianVloggerShona 😘❤️
U r right.Very well said.You are truely an inspiration 🙂👍🏻
Your thinking is very clear, you really motivate others..I can relate with you... totally. God bless you.
WOW !
You very strong person with clear thoughts ♥️😘
Well said Shona ....you truly inspire me.... lots of love ❤️❤️
Very nice video You have poured out your heart 💖
It must have been difficult to have lost your mom at a young age Respect for you for having come out stronger from this
God bless you always and keep you motivated and happy
I wish more women think in your lines..... Indian women have great potential if only they learn to be more pro active and accountable for their own happiness ❤️
Pls share such type of thoughts .I just love to hear ....
Well said dear thanks for sharing your beautiful thoughts with us God blessed you 👍👍👍😘😘😘
Very inspiring vlog shona. . . You are very inspiring and true person. . . Lot's of Love ❤️
Hi.. Never comment on video alththough I watch each vlouge of your.. But whatver you said its 100% true.. Without independent we never survive.. Bz financial stability give you difference confidant..
I truly loved ur today's genuine video on life..keep going!! Cheers
Good Shona you will motivate many youngsters.
Very well said.. you are a strong woman..!! Get strength from you ..!! Glad to have connected with you ❤️🙏🏻
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Beautiful thoughts. Very inspiring for all the girls. Nothing is impossible.
Hi Shona u r truly inspiring and love the way u express your thoughts
Sona di..aap bilkul bdi bhn ki trf baato ko samjhate ho or mujhe to bhut hi sikhne ko mila he aapse...mahi
Thank you so much 🙏
Awesome Damini ,great way to address the challenge !!keep up the good work
Rightly Said. Though am not married but, have gone through and then Stoop Up by Myself Only
You are an inspiration for many of us❤️
So young so inspirational! Hats off..
Your right thanks
Proud of you Girl! More power! 🤗
Very inspiring speech 🎤 ❤️ thanks for sharing dear ❤️🥰
Awesome to the point Shona..loved every bit of it...woman needs to change their victim mindset too..
Very well said..got motivation by these lines ..❤️❤️
One point , many wives think that earning money is only for personal things like clothes and makeup etc. They don't think that earning is for self respect
I completely agree with you shona !
God Bless You Shona
I was just 21 when I got married after my graduation but after marriage I got a job and worked now I got a daughter so had to take a break ... but will work again in future for sure ....so proud of you and your hardship kudos!!!!!
Bhut achha dear tq sister ❤🤗
Well explained ...can really see that you meant to help 👏
Hi Shona aapke video se maine yeh jaana ki apne past se bahar nikal ke future ko savarna chahiye...main bhi koshish kar rahi hoon par bahut difficult hai....stay blessed both of you
Very very inspirational speech 👌👌 proud of you 👍👍
I really appreciate your beautiful thoughts!!!👏👏💐💐
Yes shona u are absolutely right, I'm also blessed with a great life partner
Yes...u r absolutely right
Very inspiring speech 👍 thanks for sharing
I love your thoughts and views very much. It motivates to better myself.
Very, very well said Shona...you have a very progressive n firm outlook....a lot to learn from you, although you are much junior to me....god bless you my dear🥰🥰
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Best motivational videos for girls... Loved it... Shona di 😍
Well said may God bless u n always keep u happy n healthy ❤️😊
Bahut achha proud of you
So so true and absolutely correct 👍
Yes you are right. Presently I am home maker for last 3 yrs as we had to shift to new place. Me and my husband was working in the same company. When we shifted to Hyderabad I had to leave the job to look after my kids. Standing on your own feet actually boost up your confidence. My husband always supports me and we take joint decisions.
Thanks for motivating us so much ❤️
felt very sorry for ur mom.....
and i literally cried while watching u cry..... apkaghar bahot sundar hai aur apka n apke husband ka couple b bahot cute hai ..... uguys make a lively couple
U r right sona... Hamesha frnd hoke rehna chahiye
Points are soo correct and true..just one thing the circumstances are different for joint family.. if possible share something if you have faced or heard or just your view
People do work in joint families as well. Either their family business or their own independent job/business. One need to show eagerness to work eventually they do get chances.