[FULL STORY] My family is extremely toxic and abusive, and I’m planning to run away for GOOD...

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  • čas přidán 9. 06. 2024

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  • @ChihuahuaPlane
    @ChihuahuaPlane Před 21 dnem +168

    Can’t the dad be charged for the theft of his son’s money?

    • @thegdog368
      @thegdog368 Před 21 dnem +16

      Not really statue of limitations, evidence, ect. Plus the kid is kinda just giving his dad the money without much a fight. So it could be said that thought he was allowed to take it for rent, ect.

    • @thenoob331
      @thenoob331 Před 20 dny +2

      ​@@thegdog368 that sucks, i don't think rent or utilities couldn't be given as a reason because there isn't a formal lease and could argue there was no rent payment agreement(but im not a lawyer so i might be wrong). Also OP, create hidden accounts and move all ur money out of the account ur parents have access to. I think if op keeps documentation in any for declining the parents permission to his funds and reporting further thefts to ur bank and police, then you can probably get the parents charged for future theft but im not sure they can be charged for past thefts. Good luck op, whatever you do never go back to ur parents.

    • @zennete
      @zennete Před 20 dny +2

      also its a daughter

    • @The-Beyonder
      @The-Beyonder Před 20 dny +1

      ​@@zennete he called himself son.

    • @zennete
      @zennete Před 20 dny +2

      @@The-Beyonder fair enough, i heard boyfriend so. haha ig hes gay

  • @benkelley9927
    @benkelley9927 Před 20 dny +97

    Ran into an old friend I knew from the rough days growing up who had DID. She grew up and eventually left her parents house who had mentally abused her her whole life. When she dot her diagnosis she brought her family with her to her counseling appt and had the doctor explain that the different “identity or identities” that’s she had most likely were split off to protect her from extremely harmful experiences or trauma. Absolutely broke her mom but that’s also when they got a therapy recommendation for her dad that lead to a diagnosis of psychopathy and some form of narcissistic personality disorder for her dad. He had been manipulating her mom into thinking that the way they raised her was okay. Now they are divorced and she is tentatively building a new relationship with her mom

    • @Ninjasnail1926
      @Ninjasnail1926 Před 20 dny

      What is DID?

    • @benkelley9927
      @benkelley9927 Před 20 dny +3

      @@Ninjasnail1926 it is Dissociative Identity Disorder also known as as multiple personality disorder

    • @osheridan
      @osheridan Před 20 dny

      ​@@Ninjasnail1926 DID used to be called Multiple Personality Disorder, although that's a misleading title. It's one of those disorders we still don't fully understand, but from what I know, it's a condition that is developed with people who suffer extreme childhood travma. Their brains aren't yet developed, and so their consciousness sort of fractures into multiple parts. Somebody with DID is still a single person, however their brain will function as if they are multiple people in one body.

    • @arynkoeings668
      @arynkoeings668 Před 20 dny

      ​@@Ninjasnail1926 good term for it is hell im autistic and ive been showing signs of DID but i never change personality i just go into an 'acting' mode where i behave like im expected but i mask instead (pretend to be an emotion i dont feel at the time) i feel very detached but its the thought :'this is how I stay safe": is why i continue DID is much worse then what i deal with as they create selves to protect themselves an make it look like their 'ok'

    • @thecraftycyborg9024
      @thecraftycyborg9024 Před 19 dny

      @@arynkoeings668- you’re disassociating. That doesn’t mean full blown DID.
      Also, DID is extremely rare. It’s bizarre that it’s being misdiagnosed so much lately. People who talk about having a “headspace” and who claim they can switch at will are lying or were lied to. They don’t have DID. It’s maladaptive daydreaming. And many are lying about having a diagnosis for internet points.

  • @Peppermynt.
    @Peppermynt. Před 20 dny +43

    The fact that this cannot be found on reddit (i tried a good bit) makes me think that either the creator of this video is an expert at hiding the origins of posts or this doesnt exist and was made up by the creator of this video
    Via google lens, i found multiple exact matches for the picture. That is a piece of art on sale which could have easily been ripped off of a shopping website.

    • @Pyro_Papillo
      @Pyro_Papillo Před 19 dny +4

      Pretty sure it’s AI generated or something along those lines considering how many times there were just random things that didn’t lineup or pieces of information randomly brought up with zero context and connect to basically nothing

    • @Peppermynt.
      @Peppermynt. Před 19 dny

      @@Pyro_Papillo yea, thats what im thinking too

    • @greyscalesx
      @greyscalesx Před 19 dny

      I've read multiple reddit post this channel has uploaded. So its definitely reddit. However some paragraphs are directly quoted, other parts are reworded.
      Sometimes to be more clear, some redditors are emotional or not native English speakers or ramble & things become uncomprehensible or unclear.
      Now if the channel owner rewrites these specific parts themselves or shoves it into an AI program that's another story.
      But if the story is fake that would be bc the reddit post is fake, not bc the channel asked for a reddit story prompt from an ai.
      Bc i know alot of these stories having read them from reddit myself, not this one, a lot of them are years old.
      So they 100% are from there.

    • @Peppermynt.
      @Peppermynt. Před 19 dny

      @@greyscalesx probably reworded it cause of the butthole part, didnt want people searching up the story and seeing those pics

    • @greyscalesx
      @greyscalesx Před 19 dny

      @@Peppermynt. lfmao yes. But i meant sometimes in stories i have already read on reddit there are paragraphs rewritten by this channel not just censoring words.
      Mostly word jumbles like my "brother's gf ex-husbands aunt" & op keeps trying to explain for a paragraph & this channel will just replace the confusing explanation with simply something like " So the former in laws of my brother's girl" so you understand wtf is going on lol

  • @Austint-101
    @Austint-101 Před 21 dnem +108

    The butthole part at the end threw me off 😂😂

  • @samrogers9465
    @samrogers9465 Před 20 dny +68

    knew it was fake as soon as he said he landed in LA and the air was great

    • @lunazhere
      @lunazhere Před 20 dny +13

      I knew it was fake as soon as they chose to go to LA
      Who the fuck unironically wants to go to LA

    • @NoName-sy3di
      @NoName-sy3di Před 20 dny +3

      ​@@lunazhereyea. Moved to LA and said it was beautiful.....and went for a walk...yea ok bud

    • @greyscalesx
      @greyscalesx Před 19 dny +3

      ​@@lunazhereliterally anyone who goes to L.A. bc they think they can become an actor, singer, became a sugarbaby etc this happens constantly lfmao.
      I'm pretty sure this one & L.A. & Nashville are the places where half the ppl who live there weren't there 5y ago

    • @mikeycarrero6501
      @mikeycarrero6501 Před 10 dny

      ​@greyscalesx I'm worried about Tennessee. Hoping the voting around here doesn't change.

  • @user-zz6ob3qq1n
    @user-zz6ob3qq1n Před 20 dny +34

    At 23 years old you arent running away, ur moving out

  • @Rasheens-Story
    @Rasheens-Story Před 20 dny +13

    Good for you that you left you should move away again soon when you are situated and done with school and financially stable. Staying too close to people like that is never good.

  • @victoriawilliams6156
    @victoriawilliams6156 Před 18 dny +1

    Thank God, you survived LA and realized that you can live closer to your family and still have boundaries and space between you and them. Congratulations on getting off drugs and congratulations on getting an education that will help you have a better life and be self-sufficient
    good for you!

  • @Dot-hack
    @Dot-hack Před 20 dny +4

    23 and you allow him to take your money? Sounds like a lot of your problems could be solved if you just stop being afraid to stand up for yourself.

  • @rafaelvenzmirabel404
    @rafaelvenzmirabel404 Před 18 dny +1

    This post just kidnapped my curiosity for 11 minutes

  • @Forest_Clay-autumn
    @Forest_Clay-autumn Před 20 dny +6

    For the people who came from the shorts 0:59

  • @vault_tec_404_4
    @vault_tec_404_4 Před 19 dny +2

    As soon as they said LA I knew they wouldn’t last there. It a dream on the outside but a nightmare on the inside from all I’ve heard.

  • @user-qe8kl9uv6s
    @user-qe8kl9uv6s Před 21 dnem +7

    LA is the worse place to live. I’m sorry you had to love to CA

  • @claytonthomas1980
    @claytonthomas1980 Před 15 dny

    You made the right decision to leave your parents but you shouldn't have any regrets about it because they made your life miserable and difficult as well, but at least you can live your life without looking back, good to go for you.

  • @mimiSMj
    @mimiSMj Před 20 dny +6

    Is it a he/she I'm confused plus the bedt friend died right?! How is op gonna live with best friend?! Or did I get something wrong?! Op was married for 2 years then divorced and also met ex bf before leaving?! So is like same sex marriage legal where op's from or is he a she omg I'm so confused 😭😭😭😭😭

    • @Lalo_gamex
      @Lalo_gamex Před 20 dny

      Me too

    • @Pyro_Papillo
      @Pyro_Papillo Před 19 dny +3

      Yeah, and what was that part at the end where they said their brother “did it and no one believed them” with like no context?? Like that was super random and didn’t make any sense

    • @beaby1977
      @beaby1977 Před 19 dny +3

      It’s a he who is gay I’d assume it’s the same ex he was married too

  • @Lobsingt1
    @Lobsingt1 Před 20 dny +4

    Knew it was fake when he said he was in tears and whatnot it just seemed out of place
    And WAY to many edits and the fact he says he’s humble and he’s empathetic like he’s the main character

  • @66satanic_panic66
    @66satanic_panic66 Před 11 dny

    “Sometimes goodbye is a second chance,” - Second chance, shinedown.

  • @jesusispacking
    @jesusispacking Před 20 dny +1

    Bipolar is such a sad mental illness to have😔

  • @jjnix9517
    @jjnix9517 Před 4 dny

    Sounds like the father is the problem and the mother needs medication.

  • @SeahawkProdz
    @SeahawkProdz Před 20 dny +1

    La? Let alone the entire state of California? Worst place to move to. Especially under Gavin newsome

  • @carlinasolvie4325
    @carlinasolvie4325 Před 20 dny +5

    It’s called diamond art

    • @hyperhannah5741
      @hyperhannah5741 Před 18 dny

      I’ve seen several comments thinking that it was a fake story because it was a ripped off picture, and I couldn’t identify the style itself, so this makes a lot of sense since diamond art often comes in kits

  • @sammygreen066
    @sammygreen066 Před 14 dny

    I enjoyed the pop when the photo was shown

  • @unclefranky8503
    @unclefranky8503 Před 21 dnem +16

    She went from there dad yaking there money to the Californian government

    • @orchid4356
      @orchid4356 Před 20 dny

      He op is a guy and it their not there

    • @VeljkoJevtic
      @VeljkoJevtic Před 20 dny +2

      ​@@orchid4356is he gay? Cause it said boyfriend at one point i think

    • @artsonist101
      @artsonist101 Před 20 dny

      @@VeljkoJevticyes

  • @treco2583
    @treco2583 Před 12 dny

    The air in LA is awful!

  • @hajraanser9366
    @hajraanser9366 Před 20 dny

    I am in a similar situation rn and i feel guilty i feel like me leaving my parents i would regret this in the future i am 18 years of age a female all on my own i have two jobs and i miss them but ik its for the best but i am still so afraid for what the future hold for me will my parents forgive me

  • @maebell227
    @maebell227 Před 20 dny

    That's why you don't take off and try to live in one of the major cities if you pick a smaller more well-rounded place

  • @thefiretailedweasel6206

    I wonder what kind of dog Willow is. My dog is also 2 years old and was found in a cardboard box on tbe side of the road with his siblings

  • @Disneyqueen796
    @Disneyqueen796 Před 20 dny +1

    I wonder if he took the painting

  • @visenyatargeryen2704
    @visenyatargeryen2704 Před 20 dny +3

    What's DID

  • @melissafarooq5950
    @melissafarooq5950 Před 20 dny

    It DID make him a better person. All of his suffering had made him humble and caring and thoughtful and loving …….And Again…HUMBLE, BEFORE GOD. ☺️😌🥰 He evolved the way we are supposed to, it sounds to me like he has reached his Nirvana 😇in the main lesson we are tested to learn in our lifes journey. PRAISE GOD and GOD Bless him and his Willow 🥹😌❤❤❤❤

    • @Peppermynt.
      @Peppermynt. Před 20 dny

      what are you talking about

    • @MPG956
      @MPG956 Před 19 dny

      Last time I checked evolution went against the Bible

  • @willbankskids6508
    @willbankskids6508 Před 20 dny

    At least eight minutes he said he was going to Los Angeles in like five or 10 seconds later he said he’s in LA

  • @cliveplayz1
    @cliveplayz1 Před 19 dny

    idk theres this thing called 911 and moving out

  • @Cherry_blossom432
    @Cherry_blossom432 Před 19 dny +1

    For ppl from shorts: 0:59

  • @vladimirrete8540
    @vladimirrete8540 Před 20 dny +1

    I love la but yeah it one of the worst places in cali to live its cheaper then other areas the worst area to live is south Central

    • @gerreloTB1485
      @gerreloTB1485 Před 20 dny

      I love shortening of places Especially liver got to love the apple Don't forget the Bris

  • @Lioneltrainboy
    @Lioneltrainboy Před 21 dnem +1

    That’s sad

  • @user-ip9js5tr9l
    @user-ip9js5tr9l Před 20 dny

    0:57 For people from the short

  • @kilbilv99
    @kilbilv99 Před 20 dny +3

    Sounds fake af

    • @kronik9317
      @kronik9317 Před 20 dny

      yeah i doubt it, especially since there’s the picture of the artwork that was mentioned

    • @gerreloTB1485
      @gerreloTB1485 Před 20 dny

      Yep no fake

  • @CheeseyVR2
    @CheeseyVR2 Před 21 dnem

    Diamond dots

  • @Bread_Is_Great
    @Bread_Is_Great Před 21 dnem +2

    prob fake

    • @ChangesConstant
      @ChangesConstant Před 21 dnem +9

      Considering there’s even a picture
      I doubt its fake
      It also has a more realistic approach to trauma
      You don’t hate abusive parents
      You still love them
      Thus leaving is hard
      All you seek is their approval

    • @jadesterbaby
      @jadesterbaby Před 20 dny +6

      This sounded like one of the realest ones yet, actually. Lol

    • @annsans5163
      @annsans5163 Před 20 dny +3

      ​@@ChangesConstantExactly

    • @acompy
      @acompy Před 20 dny +1

      Nothing ever happens.

  • @Valentina_editzz
    @Valentina_editzz Před 21 dnem +1

    mid ashell

  • @Envy_lani
    @Envy_lani Před 20 dny +1

    I wanted too share this quote : “ sometimes having the biggest heart is your biggest downfall “ through this whole video you’ve been worrying about your parents health and how there going too feel when you leave but what about your health and what you want it’s good too think of others but not to the point where your putting yourself behind . Now say for instance if your friend was drowning would u hold them up and drown yourself ? See what happens is you only can hold them up until you drown , and then when they have no one too hold them up there going too drown too ! So what I’m saying is you can only keep striving for your parents love when you need too be striving for yourself it’s a lose if you keep worrying about your parents just like the drowning story it was a lose

  • @rohimayahara7270
    @rohimayahara7270 Před 19 dny +1

    7:20