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  • čas přidán 30. 05. 2024
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Komentáře • 114

  • @AshleyNichole
    @AshleyNichole  Před rokem +94

    Thanks to everyone who asked me questions! You guys asked some good ones!

  • @aulbrielondon4135
    @aulbrielondon4135 Před rokem +215

    Wondering why other influencers aren't talking about being hit by the recession so openly?! Appreciate your honesty and wondering if others in your career are going through the same thing!

    • @annajoie700
      @annajoie700 Před rokem +15

      Niki DeMar did and got hella backlash for it..

    • @SaraAlghamdi
      @SaraAlghamdi Před rokem +5

      What I think that it is bad for them as a reputation. So if I am a company and I know that influencers are not getting as much Ads and collaboration as they used to, the prices will def go down so bad. And maybe some of them rather not talk about negative things on their media.

    • @Hiitskatie
      @Hiitskatie Před rokem +16

      @@annajoie700 there’s a difference from how niki explained and how how Ashley has .. you don’t say your broke no shopping sprees but go back fourth to La and New York fashion week and and doesn’t cut down her spending ..

    • @annajoie700
      @annajoie700 Před rokem +4

      @@Hiitskatie I agree. The way that Ashley has handed it has been much better!

    • @Hiitskatie
      @Hiitskatie Před rokem +2

      @@annajoie700 it’s more relatable and seeing her paint her own nails and cut down on certain spending which we can all do as well ..

  • @Nesmont264
    @Nesmont264 Před rokem +104

    I respect how you keep your relationship private. I also couldn’t imagine having thousands of people comment on a relationship. Loved this video!

    • @Joyfilledlife123
      @Joyfilledlife123 Před rokem

      When did she get in a relationship? I wonder if he is a Goldy man like she wanted, i hope so

  • @soniamonaghan7007
    @soniamonaghan7007 Před rokem +23

    Word of advice from an older subscriber . I wouldn’t move back in . As you made the break and it was hard but you did it . I think independence allows growth and pushes us to find our own routine and even though hard the alone time we self reflect . Self reflection is so needed for growth . Just a bit of advice . ❤you’ll know the right move ❤

  • @never_too_many_books8114
    @never_too_many_books8114 Před rokem +48

    i just love when ashley posts. it makes me feel motivated and happy

  • @Chris-pt1bl
    @Chris-pt1bl Před rokem +27

    I respect how open you are and know your boundaries with personal life as well And maybe for you’d like extra cash you should do freelance photography or something you’d do great at that 😊 you got this ash

  • @_MrsSlav
    @_MrsSlav Před rokem +19

    I love how open and honest you are about everything in this Q&A.

  • @flohs51
    @flohs51 Před rokem +7

    i missed chill little update videos like these

  • @amyleighhoffine1981
    @amyleighhoffine1981 Před rokem +11

    Love this Q&As. Feels like a nice catch up and is so relaxed. And I find it refreshing to hear where other people are at and that that’s okay and is really positive. ❤️

  • @abbiegilmour398
    @abbiegilmour398 Před rokem +3

    Thank for being so open and transparent with everything! Definitely makes me feel a lot less alone and comforted knowing others are going through the same things!

  • @kaelynbishop1058
    @kaelynbishop1058 Před rokem +10

    Thank you for sharing about your finances! It makes you feel so much more relatable and real!

  • @rebeccamcauley4549
    @rebeccamcauley4549 Před rokem +58

    This was the vlog that I needed chilled, relaxed and positive. Completely agree with you in relationships space is needed to keep your individuality. My ex boyfriend and I spike over the phone then saw each other twice a week sometimes once. Delighted you are okay and feel settled in your home. ❤🎉

  • @billiejopierson371
    @billiejopierson371 Před rokem +23

    I agree with you other peoples opinions don’t matter on a relationship that is between you too and that’s the way it should stay and I’m happy for you

  • @mariamartinez2586
    @mariamartinez2586 Před rokem +3

    Ashley, you've totally got this in the bag! You're gonna be okay, no matter what happens in the future and I hope that regardless of whether or not you keep doing CZcams as a full time job, you keep posting because your content brings joy and peace to so many people❤

  • @xokelseyxo9238
    @xokelseyxo9238 Před rokem +1

    Ashley, you seem so happy and at peace and that makes me so happy!!! ❤

  • @cristinagiammattei
    @cristinagiammattei Před rokem +5

    Thanks for sharing your situation - work and financially -
    I’ve been loving your content so much lately!

  • @ashleynoblet
    @ashleynoblet Před rokem +4

    I love you being open with your finances!❤️ much love for you ash!

  • @tabithathewholistic
    @tabithathewholistic Před rokem +6

    As a Christian, it is not Biblically optional to be lax about whether your potential suitor is a Christian or not. Its best to find out if your faiths align EARLY so that you wont be unequally yoked, or waste time dating someone you're not aligned with. Not to say we should bombard a potential partner like an interrogation, but there's nothing wrong with asking questions early on from a place of discernment. Take care!

    • @Joyfilledlife123
      @Joyfilledlife123 Před rokem +2

      sooo true I couldn't have said it better! You want to be equally yoked with who you spend the rest of your life with!

    • @tabithathewholistic
      @tabithathewholistic Před rokem

      @@Joyfilledlife123 Yes indeed friend!🤎🙏🏽

  • @tiffanypacheco_
    @tiffanypacheco_ Před rokem +3

    Loved this q&a. Thanks you for sharing how you’re feeling and all the updates. ❤

  • @jessica_chanel
    @jessica_chanel Před rokem +3

    Thanks for being so transparent ❤

  • @brenda1
    @brenda1 Před rokem +4

    love when Ashley uploads your videos make my Day🤍🤍🥰

  • @bebechoo19
    @bebechoo19 Před rokem +11

    In general living by yourself is very expensive since you have no one to split your bills like rent, utlities and wifi. I think getting a part-time job would be beneficial since you will have a schedule again and on days where you don't work you will have more time to work on your content

  • @leilaniorozco2753
    @leilaniorozco2753 Před rokem +1

    Youre so awesome! Thank you for being so real and transparent with us!

  • @paigeeastman8544
    @paigeeastman8544 Před rokem +2

    I love that you are saying you’re just getting in the groove. I just bought a house and moved in for about 8 months before I felt like I was ready to get my house together and finding a routine.

  • @emilyloh
    @emilyloh Před rokem +2

    the best video ahhh i love it ash! rooting for u always, hope u feel happier soon , love u so much ❤️

  • @juliap2448
    @juliap2448 Před rokem +4

    I really see the change in content and more realism since you have moved out. Really been loving the new content!

  • @morenomijangos1
    @morenomijangos1 Před rokem +5

    Loved your answers and how genuine they sounded. ❤

  • @spiritualsundaze
    @spiritualsundaze Před rokem +9

    I love this! Thank you for sharing 💘

  • @eni9214
    @eni9214 Před rokem +20

    this type of video is amazing! i really enjoyed hearing you answer these questions.

  • @FruitBrute
    @FruitBrute Před rokem +8

    I know you’re not in a rush to move, but most times breaking your lease is an option. I’ve done it, it seems like a lot of money upfront but in the long run it can be cheaper than paying 6 more months of rent. I’m not saying you should absolutely do that, but it’s out there if you want to get into a cheaper place sooner.

  • @marisan5557
    @marisan5557 Před rokem +2

    A vid upload the same day as a unsolicited advice episode! We are being blessed. 💞

  • @taylorannh24
    @taylorannh24 Před rokem

    Your answer to individuality in a relationship is exactly what I’m looking for.

  • @rachp8660
    @rachp8660 Před rokem +5

    Thanks for always being so candid in your videos!! You are doing great! I think you would feel a lot more comfortable if you maybe did get a part time job. Maybe work at your favorite coffee shop. Just a few days a week will give you extra spending money to continue doing what you like. ❤

  • @MissMarissa916
    @MissMarissa916 Před rokem +1

    Love the Q&A ! Hope you have a great day ❤

  • @shaileyd4846
    @shaileyd4846 Před rokem +1

    I loved the Q&A!

  • @veronicasandiford0304
    @veronicasandiford0304 Před rokem +3

    Yay I love Q&A’s ❤

  • @oliviacampbell4246
    @oliviacampbell4246 Před rokem +3

    I rarely comment on anyone’s videos but Ash this intro is amazing!!!!😍😍😍

  • @xochiltlagunas
    @xochiltlagunas Před rokem +2

    Loved this video!! ❤

  • @mickie_ann18
    @mickie_ann18 Před rokem +2

    I love your content mops- you are my happy place 🌻💕

  • @julianneh.wathne
    @julianneh.wathne Před rokem +1

    Always been loving the Q’n’A’s! Also wondered if anyone from her and Taryne’s podcast that have been on it is watching!!

  • @megan.rose.
    @megan.rose. Před rokem +8

    love this video and everything else you create 🧡 when are you going to Italy??

  • @sophiamorales6290
    @sophiamorales6290 Před rokem +1

    ah so happy u read daisy jones and loved it! its my fav too!!!

  • @chloedeyoung
    @chloedeyoung Před rokem +1

    That flannel really brings out the color of your eyes!

  • @JroqFord
    @JroqFord Před 8 měsíci

    I’m learning that I it’s okay to need people too ❤

  • @jessicawise7486
    @jessicawise7486 Před rokem

    Do what ever feels right Ashley.

  • @mordybarnett5043
    @mordybarnett5043 Před rokem +1

    such a beautiful soul

  • @kecjones
    @kecjones Před rokem +2

    Ok, this intro was really cute!

  • @madisondunckhurst3284
    @madisondunckhurst3284 Před rokem +2

    This is so so so good

  • @AstridPizarro
    @AstridPizarro Před rokem +2

    I loved Daisy Jones & The Six too, what other books are you hoping to read soon?

  • @ErinWotton
    @ErinWotton Před 9 měsíci +1

    Amazing vlog Ashley

  • @oliviaarchey
    @oliviaarchey Před rokem +4

    Loved this! Was thinking would you ever consider getting a roommate to balance out the cost?

  • @nicolestreuli3503
    @nicolestreuli3503 Před rokem +5

    you are my favorite youtuber and i love your podcast, i listen to it every monday :) (im from Perú)

  • @cnew1592
    @cnew1592 Před rokem +3

    I enjoy your content so much I can listen to you talk about random things….watch you clean or run to the store as many times as you post it lol that’s it that’s the comment

  • @katikuusik4310
    @katikuusik4310 Před rokem +9

    What about your clothing brand as a income? I notice you didnt mention it as a income

    • @luiza5211
      @luiza5211 Před rokem

      Good point!

    • @Rosie-rq2kx
      @Rosie-rq2kx Před rokem

      I think she only gets a cut I think it’s Alicia’s

  • @kj3735
    @kj3735 Před rokem +11

    I don’t feel that it’s necessarily a societal pressure to have kids at 33. As much as medical pressure. Your eggs are dying as you get older. You lose an egg every month. And if you haven’t been proactive to check to find out what your count really is, you may be surprised in a year or two when you’re ready and your body may not cooperate with your plan. I got mine checked out when I was 26. Definitely look into it.
    You only mentioned the podcast as your second side hustle. What about your clothing line with your sister? Is parallel apparel suffering because of the economy as well? I really don’t ever see either of you mention it anymore.

    • @Glambutfirstcoffee
      @Glambutfirstcoffee Před rokem

      A small brand with capsule wardrobe is only spendings more than income. It does not generate income

  • @randitochervlogs
    @randitochervlogs Před rokem

    I love the girl chat from you Ashley

  • @michellevanderzon3735
    @michellevanderzon3735 Před rokem +2

    Would you consider getting a roommate for your townhouse?

  • @juliefortin5480
    @juliefortin5480 Před rokem +20

    Why aren’t you making more videos since income is tight?

    • @Hellohallo2
      @Hellohallo2 Před rokem +3

      I agree with you on that, but who’s to say the views and the likes will be there. I’m sure in order for you to get paid you’d have to have a great amount of audience. That’s my guess but I completely agree!

    • @irenehernandez7035
      @irenehernandez7035 Před rokem +1

      @@Hellohallo2 she’s been doing this for years and people are still watching. So we can predict people will watch

  • @sapanapatel5612
    @sapanapatel5612 Před rokem +1

    Omg where is your flannel from!? 😍

  • @tiffany8815
    @tiffany8815 Před rokem +1

    I'm so thankful that my now husband asked the hard question on our first two dates because now we've been married for 2 years. Dating should be taken seriously. Why date if you're not aiming for marriage? You're just wasting each other's time.

  • @JuliaRoseThorn
    @JuliaRoseThorn Před 11 měsíci +1

    In my opinion I think you should move back in with Losh and maybe schedule a time period where she doesn’t have anyone come over so you have that alone time you need and it’ll save you money during the recession

  • @p3836
    @p3836 Před rokem +9

    Where is your phone case from? Its very cute

  • @taylornicole8131
    @taylornicole8131 Před rokem +7

    Love ya beautiful 🤍

  • @honesttogod_
    @honesttogod_ Před rokem +1

    You look very pretty

  • @barbiehouse6437
    @barbiehouse6437 Před rokem +5

    This is literally just conversation, or curiosity because I'm not major on social media. But with your relationship why does it have to be something you already assume people will judge negatively? It's just relationships like Remi/Cal, Lauren/Jeremy don't get hate or judged. It seems supportive from fans.
    It's just a question. I've just been curious

    • @Hellohallo2
      @Hellohallo2 Před rokem +4

      You may be right, but some people don’t reciprocate that same energy and happiness for others. Two, this is her first SERIOUS relationship that I know of and Shared with social media. I see why she doesn’t want to share him or her relationship online because people can be weird. To each it’s own. I just hope she’s happy 😃

    • @barbiehouse6437
      @barbiehouse6437 Před rokem +2

      @Thatgirlchelle I respect any choice she makes ❤️ I just was curious because I felt from what she mentioned her mind went straight to negativity. But it's like you mentioned it is her first serious "public" relationship she just wants to take the right steps.

    • @Glambutfirstcoffee
      @Glambutfirstcoffee Před rokem

      It does not matter. Beat relationships are private relationships. It is also never rainbows and flowers. And Ashley is honest so she would prob be honest not fake it lile others do. Because trust me all of them have had fights maybe even close to breaking up. I seriously hate famous couples.. sometetimes they are not even together anymore- they just act. And people are so noisy..asking of weddings and kids etc. Nope. It is stupid and best relationships are private relationships. I am 6 years in and I do not share anything with friends or family even

  • @irenehernandez7035
    @irenehernandez7035 Před rokem +1

    I think moving back in with Alisha is a great idea.

  • @Glambutfirstcoffee
    @Glambutfirstcoffee Před rokem +5

    That pressure is because your 50% eggs die when you are 35! And many women are late and they are so depressed later on and sad! And I am 32 and I know it

  • @Multi2794
    @Multi2794 Před 7 měsíci

    😊

  • @theresag.4188
    @theresag.4188 Před rokem +1

    Doesnt she make alot of money with paralell apparal ? It seems to be doing so good!

  • @sashaayres3635
    @sashaayres3635 Před rokem +1

    Has the recession and having to cut back affected your mental health? I worry constantly about money, maybe moving back with Alisha would be good for you so you both contribute until your back on your feet, is this the reason you diddnt go coachella?

  • @Loveroflife88
    @Loveroflife88 Před rokem +6

    🤍🤍🤍🤍

  • @jbbrown4472
    @jbbrown4472 Před rokem

    Can you do bubblegum bubble blowing videos

  • @dennettmolly
    @dennettmolly Před rokem +3

    Is it just me or did it seem like she was going to cry when she was awnsering the how are you question.

  • @migueljose4729
    @migueljose4729 Před rokem +7

    Are you hyped for the Super Mario Bros movie?

  • @alwaystorqq
    @alwaystorqq Před rokem +4

    Love your videos but don't just post sponsored videos

  • @Glambutfirstcoffee
    @Glambutfirstcoffee Před rokem +5

    Good job not showing your bf! And I expect the same with your future children

  • @K-wx6ki
    @K-wx6ki Před rokem +4

    i think its weird ppl ask when you will show your bf on camera

  • @hannahs.7222
    @hannahs.7222 Před rokem +4

    Ashley, I understand what u are saying about not taking dating too seriously. However, if u are a Christian and u believe the gospel. I think it’s important that the guy u are dating is also a Christian as well. If you’re a Christian, it just makes sense that u would want to date another Christian. As Christian’s u guys can spur each other on in your relationship w/ God. Maybe u might think something a little bit different but that’s my opinion or my view of it.🥰

  • @LEXPOSvlogs
    @LEXPOSvlogs Před rokem +7

    Totally just my opinion but I think you should move back in with Alisha! Not everyone is fortunate to have such a great bond with their sibling but you do! Plus it wont be for forever it's just for the mean time :) best of luck. You got this!

    • @Glambutfirstcoffee
      @Glambutfirstcoffee Před rokem +1

      Nope. She is over 30. It is time to grow up- either alone or with bf. I am kinda shocked in 6 months she does not want to move in with bf- whay is she waiting. Either he is the right one or next. Not that she is virgin lol. I moved in with my bf after one year

    • @JulianaJu07
      @JulianaJu07 Před rokem +2

      ​@@Glambutfirstcoffee ok...YOU 💁🏻‍♀️

  • @Glambutfirstcoffee
    @Glambutfirstcoffee Před rokem +9

    ouhh So you are there gaining money for 7 years, buying coffee each day, ordering expensive food but you did not use that money to open your business that brings income or invest? That is crazy!

  • @abigailburleson8251
    @abigailburleson8251 Před rokem +1

    Waittttt your moms adopted someone!? Who???

  • @Glambutfirstcoffee
    @Glambutfirstcoffee Před rokem +1

    Relationships are relationships and if a couple will want to get married and have kids, you will be US, WE etc and not some hunting individuals. If you will hunt being independent nonstop, then need to expect your man to do it at bars still with other chicks... but we do not want that right? :)

  • @livingingratitude7377
    @livingingratitude7377 Před rokem +3

    dang Ashleyy, you should really focus more on working out for the health and not "burning more calories". its a very unhealthy mindset to have

  • @Loveroflife88
    @Loveroflife88 Před rokem +11

    Hey girl, I feel you on the income part. It’s ok sis 🤍 we just going with the motionsss