The Power of Good Questions {6 Powerful Types to Employ}

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  • čas přidán 21. 07. 2024
  • ▸▸ In this episode: Questions can be much more important than answers. We take an in-depth look at what kind of questions are important and how they can be used to your benefit.
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    Content of this Video:
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    In this video, I emphasize the importance of asking great questions in order to be more valuable and helpful in relationships, work, and life. I discuss how some of the most brilliant minds, such as Einstein and Socrates, believed that the key to success is asking questions and how asking the right questions can bring value to a situation.
    In order to help you understand and bring value in their own situations, I provide six specific types of questions to ask:
    Situational questions: These are questions that help you understand the current situation, such as "What's going on?" and "What's happening?"
    Clarifying questions: These are questions that help you better understand something that has been said or presented, such as "Why did you say that?" and "Where did that come from?"
    Assumption-probing questions: These are questions that challenge assumptions and help you consider alternative viewpoints, such as "What could we assume instead?"
    Reason and evidence-seeking questions: These are questions that help you understand the reasoning behind a statement or decision and ask for supporting evidence, such as "What led you to that conclusion?" and "Can you provide examples to support your point?"
    Implication and consequence-exploring questions: These are questions that help you consider the potential outcomes or effects of a situation, such as "What are the potential consequences of this decision?" and "How might this affect other areas?"
    Goal and objective-focused questions: These are questions that help you understand the goals and objectives of a situation, such as "What is the desired outcome?" and "What do you hope to achieve?"
    I also emphasize the importance of listening and being present in the moment while asking these questions in order to truly understand and bring value to a situation.
    EDIT: In the video I mistakenly credit the original quote "'It is easier to judge the mind of a man by his questions rather than his answers)." to Voltaire. Sam Sawmy (in the comments) correctly pointed out that it actually comes from Pierre-Marc-Gaston de Lévis writings.
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    Timestamps:
    00:00 Intro
    00:24 The Power of Great Questions
    02:56 Six Types of Questions
    06:00 Conclusion
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Komentáře • 70

  • @TomAdamsCoach
    @TomAdamsCoach  Před rokem +3

    EDIT: In the video I mistakenly credit the original quote "'It is easier to judge the mind of a man by his questions rather than his answers)." to Voltaire. Sam Sawmy (in the comments) correctly pointed out that it actually comes from Pierre-Marc-Gaston de Lévis writings.

  • @treflatface
    @treflatface Před rokem +4

    Situation
    What's happening?
    Clarification
    Why did you say that?
    Probing assumptions
    What could we assume instead?
    Probing reasons and evidence
    What would be an example?
    Viewpoints and perspectives
    What's another way of looking at it?
    Implications and consequences
    How does .... impact.....
    Thank you, great breakdown. I find this useful in outlining essays as well. Making sure I covered all the points the reader might be interested in.

    • @TomAdamsCoach
      @TomAdamsCoach  Před 11 měsíci +1

      Thanks for your comment @treflatface. Glad you found it useful, especially for essays.

  • @nhtdmr
    @nhtdmr Před rokem +4

    Today people start realising questions are always been more important. After Ai, our education system will be changed. We will need to learn how to ask better questions to thrive as civilizations. thank yo for your video which was 8 years ago. Amazing.

    • @TomAdamsCoach
      @TomAdamsCoach  Před rokem

      Agreed @nihatdemir9641. Questions matter in a big way. Really appreciate you watching and commenting. Yes, 8 years ago but I'm still asking and I hope you do too.

  • @shohagmia3130
    @shohagmia3130 Před rokem +2

    It's helpful. A perfect question is half answer.

    • @TomAdamsCoach
      @TomAdamsCoach  Před rokem

      Thanks Shohag! Working on the question certainly makes a difference.

  • @samsawmy2850
    @samsawmy2850 Před rokem +2

    The quote attributed to Voltaire , is in fact a version from Pierre Marc Gaston de Lévis, Duke of Lévis, 'Il est encore plus facile de juger de l'esprit d'un homme par ses questions que par ses réponses. (It is easier to judge the mind of a man by his questions rather than his answers)

    • @TomAdamsCoach
      @TomAdamsCoach  Před rokem

      Hey Sam! Thanks for the clarification on the question from Pierre Marc Gaston de Lévis. After your post, I did some simple research to confirm. I'll note in my description. Much appreciated.

  • @keepitsimple9595
    @keepitsimple9595 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Be A Questioner Before You Are A Answer Just skeptic as F**** because everything and everyone is Sus ..😂 love it ❤

  • @Salort96
    @Salort96 Před rokem +4

    Great video, very pedagogic and connected to experience. I loved the mentions to Einstein and Socrates, the six questions methodology-structure applies to humankind and education. What matters is being empathetic and be polite. Thank you Mr Adams.

    • @TomAdamsCoach
      @TomAdamsCoach  Před rokem +2

      Thanks for your kind words @salort96! I'm grateful that you watched the video and commented.

  • @martinnogales2259
    @martinnogales2259 Před 3 lety +5

    Those kind of questions , we need for improve our knowledge , expanding thoughts and clarified point of views !! Those examples , patterns are gold , I apreciate your support and help , thanks from Bolivia

    • @TomAdamsCoach
      @TomAdamsCoach  Před 2 lety +1

      Hi Martin! Hope all is well in Bolivia. Thanks for watching and commenting.

  • @this-is-bioman
    @this-is-bioman Před rokem +1

    These are some concrete techniques that one can immediately apply not that standard internet trash eat healthy and sleep well

  • @24CarrotCake
    @24CarrotCake Před 2 lety +6

    I have been struggling with being a better questioner and your structure is a fabulous leap forward for me. Thank you for your insight and sharing! I have add 2 more important reminders for me, Incentives and Who benefits, although these could be considered a sub set of consequences. Much thanks!

    • @TomAdamsCoach
      @TomAdamsCoach  Před 2 lety

      Really glad you have some extra questioning tools 24CarrotCake. I agree with your categorizations of Incentives and Who benefits. Thanks for commenting.

  • @jeroenboogaard5820
    @jeroenboogaard5820 Před 2 lety +1

    These questions will also effectively guide Software Engineers to find bugs! Thank you for sharing.

    • @TomAdamsCoach
      @TomAdamsCoach  Před 2 lety

      You are most welcome Jeroen. Thanks for watching.

  • @veerashettar9008
    @veerashettar9008 Před 2 lety +5

    I admire this work, Questions, Lead to a better work Culture & Better way of Life.... Thank you... I would Love to hear more from you Sir....

    • @TomAdamsCoach
      @TomAdamsCoach  Před 2 lety

      Thanks Veera for taking the time to watch. I hope you can implement better questions into your work and life. I appreciate you commenting.

  • @benjasoarratia6159
    @benjasoarratia6159 Před 3 lety +9

    Hola miss Angelica

  • @manmohandhawan5779
    @manmohandhawan5779 Před 3 lety +1

    Wow! Great explanation!

  • @chiquita683
    @chiquita683 Před 2 lety +2

    Still powerful 7 years later

    • @TomAdamsCoach
      @TomAdamsCoach  Před 2 lety

      Thanks for watching. Glad it was powerful for you.

  • @royston1433
    @royston1433 Před 4 lety +2

    Great content loved it !

  • @tubemate4899
    @tubemate4899 Před 2 lety +1

    Very insightful!

    • @TomAdamsCoach
      @TomAdamsCoach  Před 2 lety

      Thanks TubeMate! Appreciate you watching and responding.

  • @PaigeOutLoud
    @PaigeOutLoud Před 3 lety +6

    From your experience, how have you maintained a tone that doesn’t offend or challenge people when asking these questions?

    • @TomAdamsCoach
      @TomAdamsCoach  Před 3 lety +3

      Hey Paige. Thanks for asking. I think the key is not to be clinical about asking questions. They are part of a conversation driven by your own curiosity, not trying to get through this list. Hope that helps.

  • @mesunekonyan
    @mesunekonyan Před rokem +1

    Ive been applying these videos about how to improve conversation and ask good questions but i always get dry or one liner replies from my friends. It feels like it always one sided and im the only one interested to keep the conversation going. After multiple attempts i believe the problem is not me but them. Anyway, thank you for this one! 🌸

    • @TomAdamsCoach
      @TomAdamsCoach  Před rokem +3

      Sometimes you have to try small experiments with others not your current friends. They have developed a lot of historical patterns with you. Keep trying.

  • @ElDuardo01
    @ElDuardo01 Před 3 lety +1

    Great videos! I Hope you are doing well, 6 years after this video.

    • @TomAdamsCoach
      @TomAdamsCoach  Před 3 lety +3

      Thanks. Still doing well. I appreciate you watching my video. I hope it was helpful.

  • @joaxzz7203
    @joaxzz7203 Před 3 lety +7

    wen do enstein born

    • @TomAdamsCoach
      @TomAdamsCoach  Před 3 lety +1

      hey Joaxx - if you are asking for Einstein's birthday , it's March 14, 1879.

    • @StreetN1ckel
      @StreetN1ckel Před 2 lety +1

      Wen do people google

  • @amos7682
    @amos7682 Před 2 lety +1

    3:30
    Ahí comienza

  • @happy-zeller
    @happy-zeller Před 3 lety +1

    I am researching this

  • @theschoolofbodylanguage

    Excellent

    • @TomAdamsCoach
      @TomAdamsCoach  Před rokem +1

      Thanks for watching and your compliment. Very much appreciated.

  • @manmohandhawan5779
    @manmohandhawan5779 Před 5 lety +1

    Can you please help me to tell, how to question, when some make you feel awkward to ask question?

    • @TomAdamsCoach
      @TomAdamsCoach  Před 5 lety +1

      Good question. Can you give me an example of a time when you felt awkward asking a good question?

    • @danielbikas3341
      @danielbikas3341 Před 4 lety

      @@TomAdamsCoach like when you got less negotiation power, like when someone trying to cheat you and etc.

    • @TomAdamsCoach
      @TomAdamsCoach  Před 4 lety +2

      @@danielbikas3341 that's a tough one. Negotation and someone trying to cheat you may be two different things. For negotiation, you are trying to understamd the position of the other party. If someone's cheating you, questions may be irrelevant as they might be lying to you and not answering your questions. if possible, get ou of that situation.

  • @MasumCanada
    @MasumCanada Před 6 lety +2

    agree

  • @hanimalihanim4439
    @hanimalihanim4439 Před 4 lety

    Actually very important for human evolution if there time.

    • @TomAdamsCoach
      @TomAdamsCoach  Před 3 lety

      Agreed. We need to ask great questions of each other.

  • @zedekiahemanuel9322
    @zedekiahemanuel9322 Před 2 lety +1

    Have you considered how many questions and the type of questions the lord Jesus asked?

    • @TomAdamsCoach
      @TomAdamsCoach  Před rokem

      It seemed to be a significant part of his method for teaching.

  • @bikashbehera5846
    @bikashbehera5846 Před rokem +1

    Hey Tom.. why questioning is important for us????

    • @TomAdamsCoach
      @TomAdamsCoach  Před rokem

      Hi Bikash. Can you clarify your question? I don't understand what you are asking.

    • @bikashbehera5846
      @bikashbehera5846 Před rokem +1

      @@TomAdamsCoach why questioning is important, why we should question to everything.....

    • @TomAdamsCoach
      @TomAdamsCoach  Před rokem +1

      @@bikashbehera5846 Thanks for clarifying. It seems that you have two distinct questions. For the first, in my life, questioning is important as it helps me to make sure I am not assuming anything, that I can make sense of what is happening, that I can understand at a deeper level. As for the second question, I'm not convinced I have to question everything. Just when I need to do what I mentioned above. There are times when a question is not appropriate. Hope that helps. And thanks for watching.

    • @bikashbehera5846
      @bikashbehera5846 Před rokem

      @@TomAdamsCoach thanks for reply.. i want to contact with you....

  • @marketingmanagement8876

    Why questions are the questions?

    • @TomAdamsCoach
      @TomAdamsCoach  Před rokem

      @marketingmanagement8876 I'm not sure I understand your question. Please clarify for me. Thanks.

  • @lilvichyenelbeat
    @lilvichyenelbeat Před 3 lety +6

    ola
    muñaño
    buenvidio

  • @tafara4854
    @tafara4854 Před 2 lety

    Ask these questions to people and become their enemy kkkkkkkkkk

    • @TomAdamsCoach
      @TomAdamsCoach  Před 2 lety +2

      hey Ex treme. Thanks for watching. These questions assume one is already in a trusting relationship and are in no way intended to be adversarial.