GRWM: "Before you say 'yes', godly dating advice, I used to be a 'pick me'."

Hey friends! In this GRWM video, I'm discussing things to consider before you say "yes", godly dating advice, rejection in dating, and how I used to be a pick me girl. As always I hope you're encouraged and/or challenged. Thanks for watching!

[@Chaquita_T]

You spoke ALL facts sprinkled with boldness and compassion.

[@amberdmccann]

I tried lol Thank you my friend!

[@tillyjoy-zb2nz]

“I am not a slave”part got me🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@amberdmccann]

Giiirrrllll lol!!

[@barbhilt1170]

I agree with you Amber. 😊

[@amberdmccann]

Thanks my girl!!

[@IBUKUNOYINLOYE]

Yes, please doo. Talk about it. God bless

[@amberdmccann]

Will do!

[@anag4851]

Hi, dear. I just saw u on 700 Club. Your husband and u were sharing about your financial breakthrough. It was a really a blessing❣️

[@amberdmccann]

Awww thank you so much. Glad you enjoyed it!

[@barbhilt1170]

Barbara from Brandon

[@NikkitaChante]

Pre-martial counsel tips please!

[@amberdmccann]

For sure!

[@dianaberry8708]

I am not married, dating or engaged. I am a Christian, 50+ with adult children. Based on what was shared, that's a no. For the reasons shared and then some. From a biblical perspective; GOD created us to be relational (Matthew 22:36-40). Character is EVERYTHING even when we are wrong (2 Corinthians 3:18; Romans 8:29). So when GOD reveals something in a persons character that is not like CHRIST, whether it's our own character or someone else's, it would be wise to take heed. That's not love (GOD is love); nor was what they were requiring of her loving (1st Corinthians 13:4-8; Ephesians 5:25; Genesis 2:24). It sounds abusive (honestly speaking). It is written that love does not demand its own way, it's not self seeking, or prideful. I understand cultural differences within reason. But as Christians our culture is CHRIST (2 Corinthians 5:17). And our character/relationships should reflect that. Marriage is a ministry, just like everything else we do in life (Colossians 3:23-24; 1st Corinthians 16:14 ). And if her fiance allowed it, that's a big red flag concerning his character because as mentioned and written, LOVE ALWAYS PROTECTS. Husband or otherwise. ❤

[@amberdmccann]

Yes to all of that!!! I hope others who see this comment will take note!

[@KadieshaAnderson-mp2np]

Yess , Hallelu Yah . Greatly said !