For me: COOKING is the most important skill. It is a survival skill. It's a financial skill. It's a health skill. It's a social skill. It's a family skill. A single skill. It is really important not matter where you are in life.
Definitely, and it’s something we need every day and multiple times daily. It saves money, can improve your health, and is wonderful human connector. I’ve alway enjoyed cooking and it’s a life lesson. My greatest lesson was cooking for large groups of people in a Buddhist community. It taught me to cook efficiently and cooking for my family after this experience has made it easier. It’s an art form and is continually recreated with the knowledge you’ve gained previously.
@@sobean9309 Prior to cooking for the community as ‘Tenzo’, I had always enjoyed cooking. Cooking for a large group is on another level and somewhat different. Large quantities cook differently. Slower to start and harder to halt when going. In my case, the meals were quite simple, soups, curries and salads. Every retreat we would cook a vegetarian lasagna for dinner at the end of day 3 of 7. This was the hardest day generally for the participants and would provide great comfort. My main tip is to keep it simple. When I was more ambitious, I would stress more and it would show in the food. Employing several ‘choppers’ also assisted well. There’s a book written by Dogen, Instructions for The Cook. It speaks about the state of mind when cooking. Funnily, as I became busier in the kitchen, and unable to sit in Zazen as much, I found that I was meditating just as much in this work. I recommend a few books which I drew recipes from: The Tassahara Recipe Book, The Zen Monastery Cookbook by Cheri Huber, and 3 Bowls. These also speak about community cooking practice. _()_
8 skills in video are as follows:- • Risk assessment and decision making • Self analysis • Public speaking • Time management is life management • Personal finances and accounting basics • Self-soothing toolkit • Meta learning • Basic legal skills -Rights as a consumer -Rights as a worker -Rights as tenant This is just summary of video. Kindly watch the whole video for explanation of each point. She explains it really well. Thank you so much Mariana for such an amazing video
Thanks for the notes! Makes it easier for the brain to process. Cheers PS. "Kindly" is incorrect English, do consider using "Please" or "Consider watching.."
I would also add cooking. Especially healthy cooking. I know it doesn't exactly fit in this list since it is more of a very practical skill. But knowing what's good for you and how to get it on the table for you and your family will absolutely improve your health and quality of life.
Hi I just wanted to say that at the begging of the year my teacher encouraged me to participate to a public speaking competition I didn’t know what it was and I’m an introvert after a lot of hard work I’ve done I won the first place 🥇🤩🥳
I had to run away from home at 17, I’m 22 and life still feels relentlessly confusing, extremely difficult and like I’ll always be drowning. I’m disabled so it feels extra hard, teaching myself everything I wasn’t taught growing up. I hope I can figure out a way to make this things possible for myself
Loved this video, lots of helpful content. Time stamps to help you get back to particular topics you are looking for. 1.06 - risk assessment & decision making 2.18 - self analysis 3.07 - public speaking 3.50 - time management 4.29 - personal finances & accounting 5.08 - self soothing 5.55 - meta learning 6.36 - basic legal skills
Learn how to learn is good, but there is still one skill what I struggle to master - how actually do things, even when you know how to do them there is some procedures what help to organize workflow and motivation - but I have not yet learn that.
I know it’s probably the least important thing about the video, but I love the little Elsa moment 😂 your doggo is the cutest! Very useful skills, we can all benefit from them, despite our different paths in life. Thank you 🙏🤍
hehe riight so adorable! hey btw, i recently started my own channel where i talk a lot about self growth, nutrition and all things life, if u wanna check it out☺️
Definitely not the skills typically shared in these types of videos-honestly these are all so critical. The ability to self-soothe will, by itself, change a person's life.
I was wondering where I knew that accent from until I saw you scold the dog in Portuguese 😂 Muito sucesso Mariana, também sou brasileira e é muito bom ver o pessoal daqui produzindo conteúdo de qualidade 🥰
yes thats so true! hey btw, i recently started my own channel where i talk a lot about self growth, nutrition and all things life, if u wanna check it out☺️
One that helped me a lot from my teen years moving forward was typing "the correct way". Ever since I learned it, like 15 years ago, I've had a 70-80 words per minute average when typing. So helpful when taking notes and just writing in general.
Thank you for this video. I especially loved that you talked about self soothing, in the context of people who do not necessarily have access to professional help. It is such an important skill to be able to manage your emotions in stressful situations and in daily life. Ps. I absolutely agree with basic legal skills being a necessity. That's why I took my law degree as a working adult.
that would be interesting! hey btw laurent, i recently started my own channel where i talk a lot about self growth, nutrition and all things life, if u wanna check it out☺️
it’s crazy how fast time passes by😅 hey btw francis, i recently started my own channel where i talk a lot about self growth, nutrition and all things life, if u wanna check it out☺️
@@mariana-vieira I scroll down just to find the dog comment. 🤓👍🏾. (I absolutely love this channel thanks for all your help. Thanks for helping me with studying and bullet journaling.)
It took a bit of actually reading instructions 😅 but I figured out how to get Nebula and CuriosityStream yearly subs!! I'm always looking for new things to watch and I love learning new things so this was a deal to good to pass up 💕💕
me tooo! hey btw joyleen, i recently started my own channel where i talk a lot about self growth, nutrition and all things life, if u wanna check it out☺️
1. Risk assessment and decision making 2. Self analysis 3. Public speaking 4. Time management 5. Financial knowledge 6. Self soothing - positive psychology 7. meta learning 8. Basic legal skills ? Knowing ur rights
totally agree! hey btw victoria, i recently started my own channel where i talk a lot about self growth, nutrition and all things life, if u wanna check it out☺️
Omg És portuguesa!! Por um momento achei que estava a ouvir coisas quando falaste com o cachorro 🐶 lol Anyway, I loved your video, very informative. ☺️
... as a German Biologist - this is a Genetic Phenomenon of Conditioning PAIN - Reward patterns. The Image of Pain - and how to get the next BIG Reward. Paradoxxically - nobody becomes “RICH” - with the strong wish to become “rich” - it is the second by second action, inter action, the way we deal with LIFE each second. The pattern of action versus consume and no action. You can see that instantly when You meet a person. How active they are all the time. To the extent of being rude to You - when You steal their TIME - which is Action. The stream of constructive action and constructive regeneration creates the accumulation of events - that enhance further actions and reactions. This makes any successful person so difficult. When a person is relaxed and has plenty of time - even for YOU - he will ruin even your life... like all those Dope Pushers of Mind Opiates...
Thanks for the video. I love the information you provided. Could you please make a more in-depth video on each skill individually and what books you recommend to read and materials/apps/ and so on, so we can improve .Thanks so much
I didn’t know how hard it is to speak in front of an audience until I had to do a presentation at work in front of about 100 people. I got on stage and forgot every word I know. It’s nerve racking when a hundred faces are looking at you silently!
For me: COOKING is the most important skill. It is a survival skill. It's a financial skill. It's a health skill. It's a social skill. It's a family skill. A single skill. It is really important not matter where you are in life.
Definitely, and it’s something we need every day and multiple times daily. It saves money, can improve your health, and is wonderful human connector. I’ve alway enjoyed cooking and it’s a life lesson. My greatest lesson was cooking for large groups of people in a Buddhist community. It taught me to cook efficiently and cooking for my family after this experience has made it easier. It’s an art form and is continually recreated with the knowledge you’ve gained previously.
Push comes to shove the cook stays😁
@@kestrel09 could you share some tips you’ve learned from cooking for the Buddhist community?
@@sobean9309 Prior to cooking for the community as ‘Tenzo’, I had always enjoyed cooking. Cooking for a large group is on another level and somewhat different. Large quantities cook differently. Slower to start and harder to halt when going. In my case, the meals were quite simple, soups, curries and salads. Every retreat we would cook a vegetarian lasagna for dinner at the end of day 3 of 7. This was the hardest day generally for the participants and would provide great comfort. My main tip is to keep it simple. When I was more ambitious, I would stress more and it would show in the food. Employing several ‘choppers’ also assisted well. There’s a book written by Dogen, Instructions for The Cook. It speaks about the state of mind when cooking. Funnily, as I became busier in the kitchen, and unable to sit in Zazen as much, I found that I was meditating just as much in this work. I recommend a few books which I drew recipes from: The Tassahara Recipe Book, The Zen Monastery Cookbook by Cheri Huber, and 3 Bowls. These also speak about community cooking practice. _()_
@@kestrel09 thank you! really interesting to hear :)
8 skills in video are as follows:-
• Risk assessment and decision making
• Self analysis
• Public speaking
• Time management is life management
• Personal finances and accounting basics
• Self-soothing toolkit
• Meta learning
• Basic legal skills
-Rights as a consumer
-Rights as a worker
-Rights as tenant
This is just summary of video. Kindly watch the whole video for explanation of each point. She explains it really well. Thank you so much Mariana for such an amazing video
Thank u so much for taking time to explain this in a nutshell😊❤
Thank you 🙏🏽
thanks for the summary
Thank you so much for appreciation. It means a lot. People like you matter.
Thanks for the notes! Makes it easier for the brain to process. Cheers
PS. "Kindly" is incorrect English, do consider using "Please" or "Consider watching.."
Public speaking is such an underrated skill and so important to help with networking and getting out of your comfort zone. Love this list 💛
I am really bad at this, my brain freezes everytime I talk to people. someday I'll get it right
Honestly you deserve an award for watching every self-improvement/development related video, i see you everywhere-
u everywhere
What even is your daily routine? Using yt 24/7 😭
@@yj2754 award for you too.... You've seen her everywhere cos you're always there too🤣🤣
God bless you
I would add negotiation, it's so important at work and in everyone's private life.
I would say risk assessment and public speaking is negotiation.
Hi, Daniel!
How are you doing?
Could you give us some book suggestions on negotiation, please?
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So true
I would also add cooking. Especially healthy cooking. I know it doesn't exactly fit in this list since it is more of a very practical skill.
But knowing what's good for you and how to get it on the table for you and your family will absolutely improve your health and quality of life.
I know it's so important and it's mostly neglected by USA at least
I wish my family ate healthier heh
Cooking healthy is important
It should be number one! 🇧🇷😌
I was going to post the exact same thing! It's one of the most valuable skill in life, anywhere anytime.
I would put this under personal finance. In my experience people don't know how to shop effectively for a good diet, without a lot of food waste.
Basic legal rights and personal finances should be part of every school curriculum definitely!!
Yeah but it's not because education is just another business that doesn't care!!!!
I am being pessimistic :]
1. Risk assessment & decision making 1:03
2. Self-analysis 2:15
3. public speaking 3:05
4. Time management 3:47
5. Personal finances & accounting basics 4:28
6. Self-soothing 5:06
7. Meta-learnig 5:53
8. Basic legal skills 6:34
thanks 😊
Thank you so much...
health knowladge
Nice Job
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Hi I just wanted to say that at the begging of the year my teacher encouraged me to participate to a public speaking competition I didn’t know what it was and I’m an introvert after a lot of hard work I’ve done I won the first place 🥇🤩🥳
I had to run away from home at 17, I’m 22 and life still feels relentlessly confusing, extremely difficult and like I’ll always be drowning. I’m disabled so it feels extra hard, teaching myself everything I wasn’t taught growing up. I hope I can figure out a way to make this things possible for myself
You can do it !! -a disabled 24yr old feeling the same way and showing support !!
You are strong
Hi just don't give up, try and try 💛✨
I'd give you a hug if i could. Don't give up. You can do it, i promise. Find a way out.
Juro que não tava esperando vc falar em pt hahahaha amei! Vídeo maravilhoso, obrigada
1- Risk assessment & decision making
2- Self-analysis
3- Public speaking
4- Time management
5- Personal finances and accounting basics
6- Self-soothing 😭
7- Meta-learning
8- Basic legal skills
Loved this video, lots of helpful content. Time stamps to help you get back to particular topics you are looking for.
1.06 - risk assessment & decision making
2.18 - self analysis
3.07 - public speaking
3.50 - time management
4.29 - personal finances & accounting
5.08 - self soothing
5.55 - meta learning
6.36 - basic legal skills
*Self Analysis is what helped me realize my needs for self improvement and Productivity start my CZcams channel all based on that*
Love how grounded this is. I feel like it's not often we find this kind of content on youtube 💯
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1:07 risk assessment & decision making
2:17 self-analysis
3:06 public speaking
3:51 time management
4:29 personal finances & accounting basics
5:08 self-soothing
5:55 meta-learning
6:36 basic legal skills
Learn how to learn is good, but there is still one skill what I struggle to master - how actually do things, even when you know how to do them there is some procedures what help to organize workflow and motivation - but I have not yet learn that.
Yes to all this!!❤️
I know it’s probably the least important thing about the video, but I love the little Elsa moment 😂 your doggo is the cutest! Very useful skills, we can all benefit from them, despite our different paths in life. Thank you 🙏🤍
hehe riight so adorable! hey btw, i recently started my own channel where i talk a lot about self growth, nutrition and all things life, if u wanna check it out☺️
I love how original your content always is! Another informative and well presented video! Thank you ❤️❤️
The best part is she talking in portuguese with the dog. kkkkkkkkk So swet! I'm brasilian and watch you for pratice. I love all the videos! Thanks!
Definitely not the skills typically shared in these types of videos-honestly these are all so critical. The ability to self-soothe will, by itself, change a person's life.
Thanks for the video. I love the information you provided. Could you please make a more in-depth video on each skill individually. Thanks again
I was wondering where I knew that accent from until I saw you scold the dog in Portuguese 😂 Muito sucesso Mariana, também sou brasileira e é muito bom ver o pessoal daqui produzindo conteúdo de qualidade 🥰
Really helpful video Mariana. Lots of skills here that are not taught @ school, but are critical for living life well 😀
yes thats so true! hey btw, i recently started my own channel where i talk a lot about self growth, nutrition and all things life, if u wanna check it out☺️
One that helped me a lot from my teen years moving forward was typing "the correct way". Ever since I learned it, like 15 years ago, I've had a 70-80 words per minute average when typing.
So helpful when taking notes and just writing in general.
Wow, amazing!
from my experience : drawing, cooking, driving, exercising, yoga, meditation, studying, writing, reading and time management
Knowing how to calm your dog so you can be productive is a very important skill. 👌🏽💛
It really is!
Self soothing is so important. Tough times in life are guaranteed, I wish I learned breath work earlier.
Chester was a risk you couldn't have planned for 😂 This is a lovely video, thank you 💕
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Self analysis no doubt that it is an amazing and highly important skill. Thanks 👍
I can definitely say public speaking is definitely a useful skill to learn and is used so often throughout our lifespan.
It really is!
Eu assistindo o vídeo pela primeira vez no canal aqui e de repente: chester já passou, dorme hahahaha adorei!
Né kkkkk
Ela fala ingles tão bem que eu fui pego desprevenido quando ela falou Português 😂😂😂
I'm so grateful because Public Speaking is my gift 🤗
Thank you for this video. I especially loved that you talked about self soothing, in the context of people who do not necessarily have access to professional help. It is such an important skill to be able to manage your emotions in stressful situations and in daily life. Ps. I absolutely agree with basic legal skills being a necessity. That's why I took my law degree as a working adult.
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Meta - learning & self- soothing is just great
This is so affirming because I literally have all these skills and use them daily
I subscribed within the first 5 seconds of this video. And it's my first time on this channel.
Phenomenal content. Glad this popped up in my feed.
Can you make a video on the basic rights we have as a consumer, worker, and homeowner?
that would be interesting! hey btw laurent, i recently started my own channel where i talk a lot about self growth, nutrition and all things life, if u wanna check it out☺️
Please make a follow up video on these skills on how to master them.maybe some books you would recommend.
I can’t believe I’ve been watching this channel for 6ish years now
it’s crazy how fast time passes by😅 hey btw francis, i recently started my own channel where i talk a lot about self growth, nutrition and all things life, if u wanna check it out☺️
o CHOQUE de descobrir que você é brasileira quando você falou com o cachorro haha
(primeiro vídeo que vejo)
Eu acho que ela é Portuguesa. O sotaque dela é de Português.
Sou portuguesa :)
Neeé kkkkkkkk do nada
@@mariana-vieira Aah sim , ainda sim perfeita ❤
_Wow, what an informative and well-made video! You must put so much effort in to your videos Mariana!😊_
Até me assustei quando começou a falar português, não havia notado nenhum sotaque!
Eu amei a lista! Muito obrigada 💜
I love the dog providing their input ❤️❤️
Thank you so much. This is all I need for now.
This channel is a blessing!!!! I love you!
Add cooking in this list along with Energy management(Food, Sleep, Exercise)
Listening (or pretending how to be a good listener) is a great skill to develop relationships.
Mariana! Love your content and I noticed the sound quality is superb in this video ❤️
Thank you so much 🤗
Just the video I needed. Thank you.
loved the one about meta-learning!
I would also add touch typing! Best skill i ever learnt!
Your voice is so soothing.
Wait, are you brazilian? Do you talk to your dog in portuguese? O choque de você mudar de língua e eu continuar entendo, adorei
Sou portuguesa!
Né hahahah mas deu pra perceber o sotaque!
@@mariana-vieira I scroll down just to find the dog comment. 🤓👍🏾.
(I absolutely love this channel thanks for all your help. Thanks for helping me with studying and bullet journaling.)
Chester! I loved that interruption!
I’d add writing and communication in general, probably #1 for me
Chester 😹took a risk and it paid off, thank you for sharing!
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Thank you, this was so interesting! I definitely want to learn more about Meta learning. I can’t ant wait to do some research. 🤓
Glad it was helpful!
It took a bit of actually reading instructions 😅 but I figured out how to get Nebula and CuriosityStream yearly subs!! I'm always looking for new things to watch and I love learning new things so this was a deal to good to pass up 💕💕
Love this
if you are not making money while sleep then you are in the bad situation, just you feel numb and don't feel it. a fellow creator
All the way from south africa
I love you ❤❤❤
Love from Portugal ❤️
this video contains so much inspiration
Muito bom! Estou um pouco longe de aperfeiçoar todas essas habilidades, mas um dia chego lá.
Hi Mariana's Corner, I like your content. I love watching your videos.
me tooo! hey btw joyleen, i recently started my own channel where i talk a lot about self growth, nutrition and all things life, if u wanna check it out☺️
YOU'RE BRAZILIAN?! For some reason i was really chocked, but happy about that
Chester is so cute!!!
Will you be making videos to address these skills in depth, particularly the legal items?
Thank you for this!
1. Risk assessment and decision making
2. Self analysis
3. Public speaking
4. Time management
5. Financial knowledge
6. Self soothing - positive psychology
7. meta learning
8. Basic legal skills ? Knowing ur rights
Being mechanically inclined has saved me thousands of dollars
Very helpful skills that impact a lot. Great video!
totally agree! hey btw victoria, i recently started my own channel where i talk a lot about self growth, nutrition and all things life, if u wanna check it out☺️
That intro got you a sub
Thanks for sharing
Love from India 🇮🇳
Wow very help full this video in my life 🙏🏾
i agree! hey btw, i recently started my own channel where i talk a lot about self growth, nutrition and all things life, if u wanna check it out
Wow, just wow!
Hello from California !
The dog was so funny 😆 really made sure I was focussing. Anyways thank you so much for these tips
your dog barking put a smile on my face
Omg És portuguesa!!
Por um momento achei que estava a ouvir coisas quando falaste com o cachorro 🐶 lol
Anyway, I loved your video, very informative. ☺️
... as a German Biologist - this is a Genetic Phenomenon of Conditioning PAIN - Reward patterns. The Image of Pain - and how to get the next BIG Reward. Paradoxxically - nobody becomes “RICH” - with the strong wish to become “rich” - it is the second by second action, inter action, the way we deal with LIFE each second. The pattern of action versus consume and no action. You can see that instantly when You meet a person. How active they are all the time. To the extent of being rude to You - when You steal their TIME - which is Action. The stream of constructive action and constructive regeneration creates the accumulation of events - that enhance further actions and reactions. This makes any successful person so difficult. When a person is relaxed and has plenty of time - even for YOU - he will ruin even your life... like all those Dope Pushers of Mind Opiates...
The first one itself a soft skill
very great content, so eyes opening that there are so many things you can improve on
Tomei um susto quando você começou a falar português. Muito bom video. Keep it up
Thanks for the video. I love the information you provided. Could you please make a more in-depth video on each skill individually and what books you recommend to read and materials/apps/ and so on, so we can improve .Thanks so much
Fan From Bangladesh 🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩
eu amo teu sotaque português!!!
If you are happy with where you are in life, nothing else will matter.
If you aren't, everything will seem to matter!
my favorite part was when you said dorme to the dog
my dog does the same 😂😂
video espetacular, vou tentar aplicar os teus conselhos
Thank you for sharing
Thankful to you making this video ❤❤
Glad it was helpful!
I didn’t know how hard it is to speak in front of an audience until I had to do a presentation at work in front of about 100 people. I got on stage and forgot every word I know. It’s nerve racking when a hundred faces are looking at you silently!
Mariana thank you for the video. Could you recommend some readings to do on the points you are speaking about in your video? Thank you!
Thank you for the time line.
Thank you for this video
The worst part of having self analysis skill is when you realised how much time you've successful wasted being a master procrastinator.
Recently somebody told me the best thing you can do is to understand law and boom this video pops up.
Gread video! Mariana could you share the BGM at the begining of the video, please? That was so peaceful.
Time Management and Energy Management
Amazing video! I wish I had started to think like this earlier in life.