Divorce Court - Jerome vs. Queenesha: Church Friends - Season 14 Episode 108
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 13. 09. 2024
- Jerome and Queenesha met in church when she was 9 and he was 16. They were friendly through the years until they reconnected and tied the knot.
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This dude married an 18 year old high school student and is mad that sheâs not an expert on cooking, cleaning and raising a child⊠heâs just barking at her.. dude should have gotten a house keeper instead of marrying
She was 17 when they got married
She said she was 18 when she married.
When I seen this episode it is so sad that he married a young girl and he was a grown man at that time so he should have known he wasnât going to get what he expected she young. He has deeper problems than this marriage
You have said the truth!
Poor girl was groomed from childhood. Those adults in that congregation sit there allowing adults to groom and marry children. Smh
And THIS is why you should never assume that church makes a good man.
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It is the same with either Gender. I have seen with my own two eyes how their are woman who will go threw a whole congregation of men in the Church (the pastors Daughter, or woman in the Church in general) I am not saying all but some. Then in reverse Pastors ( or men in general) who are sleeping with half the woman in the congregation. With that, this is why some people take Church going people as a joke because they call theirselves church going people but they don't act like it. What a world we live in. #GoodDay
I feel sorry for her. She needed a chance to explore her individuality, not be instantly molded before she even completed high school and he married a child and expected her to be an instant housewife.
Well she should have stayed in a child place! And not playing a woman role.
@elizabeth Taylor Amd what place should he have stayed in? She was preyed upon.
â@@elizabethtaylor6903make sense PLEASE
He's lucky she still wants him, I hope he works on himself. She's a sweetheart and seems like a lot of fun.
Sis at 5:08 almost took me out when she looked around like do you hear this fool đđđ
It was the fact she looked around and then said wow for me!!!
If they both work, he needs to help cook n clean as wellđĄ
He talks too much and says nothing
Lol
Lol đ đ€Ł đ mouth just running like a faucet
Yes Lord
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Why do I like her so much! Oh my gosh! She seems so sweet and innocent! He was drawn to her innocence but beat her down psychologically for the very innocence that he liked.
đŁđHe basically married đ a child đ§đœ, yet heâs so bitter & angered by her lack of maturity. He seems like he doesnât even like her
much less love â€ïž her. đą
This relationship is
extremely toxic. đ đœââïž
Girl⊠RUNâđđŸââïž
He probably wanted a virgin that he could groom. But...baby girl is not following his rules.
All of the above, you are right including if you check it out he has found someone else. His face tells the whole story. He seems bitter and mean.
@@evonjohnson4078 Wow...thanks for the update
Hey Jordan you it on the nail man!!!
This man is A MEAN S O.B!!!
Something about his demeanor disturbs my spirit. He isnât putting her on the proper path without negativity. He seems to be picking at her character. A man like that needs to be SINGLE.
Bullseye
You got that right !!
Seems like he may be a mean rascal but I don't know. I think she needs to RUN just as fast as she can.
The 1st issue is, he was already damn near 30 when he pursued her at the tender age of 18. Like.. that needs to be addressed. Im willing to bet he was one of those men who speak against dating women closer to their age bc young girls are easier to control and manipulate. This whole case felt like an attempt at "grooming" not going how he'd hoped it would when he locked down this teenager (basically).
đŻđŻđŻđŻđŻđŻđŻđŻđŻ he was a sexual active man that wanted to keep having sex. Older Men do have the perception that younger women are easier to mold smh.
He was 25. What are u talking about
he seems under cover to me look at his wife she has a figure like a teenage boy
@@FalaqX out of 18 and 25 which would be rounded up to 30? What kinda question was that đ I hope future you makes better decisions
Your math ain't mathing
Am I the only one who thinks he rushed and coerced her into marriage quickly because she was a virgin and he didn't want to wait? I feel like that's the main reason he married her.
On pointđđđ
Yes I agree and now that he believes he has more experience he wants to get back out there and test the waters. He was a sexual active man when. She met him. 7 years in a relationship, he was having some form of sex!!
No LIES DETECTED đ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđđ
Yep. She needs to move on so she can grow. Poor girl was groomed and can't see life beyond him.
He doesn't love her, which is why he is so rigid. He might have someone else waiting in the wings.
Yep he believes because he has more experience he wants to get back out there and test the waters.
It is sad but in some cases that is what happened. Although she is much older I seen that happen to one of my Aunt's and that hurt me to see a significant woman in my life (my family) to get hurt so bad like that. Then a year or two or three later to lose her son, SMH!!! These are the things that people go through that make me just think to myself like, is it even worth being in a romantic relationship anymore??? #GoodDay
They knew each other for 15 years before marrying 5 years ago when she was a senior in high school. That means she was 8 when this creep laid eyes on her
I was thinking the same thing!
This dude to high-strung he need to mellow out and be patient with her and help her grow into the women she can and will be period đŻ
I So wish she had left this Guy, he was Screaming Narcissist to Me and they will change for a little while and Go Right back to their old Ways!! I hope at some point she removes herself from this Guy!!
I was surprised Judge didnât tell her to run đââïž đą
Sheâs very immature as she should be. She hasnât had time to figure herself out and what she actually likes. The way she dresses says that.
Whatâs wrong with her clothing? She looks very nice. Her jacket and shirt is stylish but older than her years.
Yea she looks like a grandma, idk if she dressed like this just for court, but if this is the norm for her then I know for sure he was just marrying her to take her virginity an to mold her into what type a woman he always wanted, MY OPINION, men are visual an from what I see of her here does not scream appeal, like I said, MY OPINION
@@gailsmith836 She dresses like sheâs a tomboy or something. It isnât feminine to me
There are women older and more mature than you and her, who dress masculine. If anything, the fact that she came dressed in proper court attire, versus some of the outfits we have seen on older episodes (even ones being posted in todayâs time) sets her apart from many in a posit e way.
But I don't think her "maturity" is defined by how "feminine" she looks đ«„... thats literally not how any of this works lol.
The judge nailed this one. He married a child and treated her like she was his child because she wasn't mature enough to be where he needed her to be. I was 19 when I got married the first time, so I've been in her shoes, figuratively speaking.
I can't stand when grown ass men get with a child and expect her to act 35 but look like a teenager. It's disgusting. I hope she moved on cos he ain't it.
After leaving him, the next thing she needs to do is change her name.
Yes, she does. How could her parents name her that? What's cute and cuddly about calling a baby Queenesha? It's weird!
If she shortened it to Queen, that would work.
@@Mrs-O There's a whole generation of black folks (born late 70s - 80s) whose parent(s) made up all these weird names for them. Some people thought these were African names. SMH.
Why don't you change your name đđđđđđđđđđđđđđđđđ
She needs to leave him. Heâs not kind and it is hard to live with constant belittling.
Leave him & do what? She has no skills. She doesn't have the body for OnlyFans
@@FalaqX she literally said she has a job like what you mean do what???
Someone give us updates on them because I need to know if she ended up leaving
boy, bye I'm sick of these dudes wanting slaves instead of wives(partners).
đ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł wut?
We're tired of these thots wanting us High Value Men
Amen! To LaRhonda Odom.
She still looks like a child. He wanted to mold her into what he wanted and to control her.
Sounds like what the manosphere content creators say high value men want đ€
@@eeee8479 what's wrong with molding a woman into the woman for you?
@@FalaqX
Nothing if he's being a LEADER and not a DICTATOR. Only reason he married her was to pop her CHERRY. đ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
This man IS NOT happy with this woman AT ALL
The fact he reported the update. I don't like that.
Also it didn't say what he changed. So I call BS
Right
..I was thinking exactly this
.liiike yet again..she can't talk!
_"Sister.. you've been on my mind.. oh.. sister.. we're two of a kind so.. sister.. I'm keeping my eye on you."_ --Shug Avery
STOP MARRYING CHILDREN!!!
Point blank.
the pregnancy surprised you? đ
Baby girl Runnnn
He had high expectations for his child bride.
đ€Ą talking about she lacks maturity and he pursued an 18 year old. Sheâs still learning and growing!
I think he wants her to be a good dog and sit and stay like he wants and she was like that because his lil weird self groomed a child but as she grew up and came into clarity and he isnât liking that she has a opinion other than what he believes things should be. Then he had a baby with her and is looking at her like why arenât u on autopilot as far as what a women should be. Smh
Just because that's what he said does not mean that's what she said. We already see that he is controlling and overbearing
He married an 18 year old and expected her to be an instant woman. He wanted another damn mother, Iâd leave his ass. I felt the judge was being hard on her.
Edit: heâs controlling and thatâs why he married a young girl, he thought he could mold a virgin.
He's extra feminine in my opinion
And she seems non feminine
He was surprised they got pregnant after having sex?!đ. The audience was not having it at the 5:13 mark.đ§
This man talks to much. He is a trip. He will not let her talk. He is probably negative all the time. Dude she did not Get pregnant đ€° on her onđ€Šââïžđ€Šââïžđ€Šââïž
He got her young for a reason
I'm so tired of wives being treated like servants. It's funny how some men want this and want that yet don't have anything to offer.
This might sound CRAZY, but coming from a man I agree with you. in my opinion, if you want respect you give it, if you want support both people must support, if you want help in the house both people must do their part. It is not a one sided thing. If a man or woman are so bad to where they can't cook, clean, take care of the kids, transportation then why are they even a couple. Then what gets me is the person who is doing everything just stays and goes with the flow sometimes, SMH!!!!
He must be a August Virgođ
Audience needs to be quiet.
This man is absolutely ridiculous. She was too young to get married and just blooming.
He was 25 and wanted to be sexually active, now he wants to expand his own infidelity but their religion will permit divorce.
This sounds like Jehova WITNESSES or Hebrews or Israelite.
She needed to have gone to college .She was just too young and immature.
He wants her to stay submissive. but he is so immature and controlling.
He got older but not mature. Judge Tolver wasn't fair with her ,until she found out the wife was actually working full-time.
This young lady is still growing and he is just absolutely selfish.
Actually they may need to separate.
If their religion gives the man power and control they also expect the women to be đŻ submissive.
My heart goes out to this young lady. She has been under religious suppression.
He is obnoxious and egotistical. I have seen, so many couples who are under religious oppression.
It took a lot for her to express herself and he still only thinks about himself.
I figured he was sexually active before he married her.
It seems that the church forced them to marry while she was 18.
She needs to leave him.
The best thing she said was she did not want to spend her life,being mistreated.
They definitely need to get a divorce. It is sad that they have a child.
She needs to let this marriage go, because he will not change.
He will get worse, but she needs someone to help her deal with him.
Go now before he becomes physically abusive and he needs to Leave his mother out of their business.
Doesn't she have family?
My heart goes out to her. and their child.
I am sure her religious leader forced her to stay.
I don't advocate couples getting divorce too fast, but I have seen situations like this ,that destroyed the female and the man is considered in his right.
Too many teenage marriage do not last!!
Maybe there should be a law that prohibits marriage at least until age 21.
Many churches have chastity and pure vows for youth.sometimes it is good ,today's society allows for too much pre-marriatal sex,but many religions are strictly against and punish those who have sex before marriage and causes confused, young people.
The Bible prohibits sex outside of marriage, so youth are not expected to do so ,yet they are not taught about their body's development .
This young lady seems to be very intelligent, but got forced into an early marriage.
I pray she gets the right help and not from a domineering male counselor,but from a female, who will sincerely help her grow.
I don't think he will change, but I feel he will get worse until she has really had enough.
Judge Tolver was straight on,after she found out the wife had a full time job and a 3 year old son.
I wish she had advised her to go to college.
Long comment, but you are not well versed with the Bible. The behavior displayed on this show is not what God had in mind & you will find nothing in the Bible to support such treatment. I hope one day you learn what God truly intended for marriage.
You mentioned Hebrews in your comment, but not all Hebrews follow that kind of submissive/polygamous view and treatment of women. There are a lot of Hebrew cults out there, and you can tell the ones who hate women by what they teach - don't paint us all with a broad brush.
UmmmmâŠthis is predatoryđ
That lady in the brown reaction at 18:21 is definitely how I felt lol.
I can't understand why women feel the need to have someone to serve. How does that make your life better? To come home to a clean house able to be comfortable, cook something you like to spend your time taking care of yourself why is that wrong. I might just be a selfish person. I don't want to live my life in service to another. I don't understand women crying over losing their job as a servant.
I agree. I think women have been conditioned to feel they need it, which is part of the reason why men today are so terrible. At this stage in my life, after two marriages, I can't imagine signing up for servitude again. I like being able to come and go as I please, cook or not cook, and when I do decide to cook, make what I like to eat. My days of catering to someone else's wants and needs are over. Good riddance.
Damn didnât even give her a chance to experience life before he jumped right in. You married a child who just left home but not willing to help her learn ( or help clean) how to take care of the house. He seems abusive to me but who knows. I also noticed he has an issue letting women speak. Heâs too young to act this old. Praying for better days bc whew this is a lot.
He is a complete creep.
This episode made me so sad. She was a baby. He is a very rigid and angry man.
Okay I see her now. And why she's hurt
Lady deserves better.relationship toxic .He didn't love you.contorling co-parenting move on.Just saying.
She can't fill the shoes of the guy that he wants.
This judge is the best for this show. This comes on Hulu with the new judge but I canât get into them . Lynn Toler has this on lock without even trying . So I have to come to You Tube for her now, but she gives such good advice and doesnât come off as dicty , you feel sheâs giving you good advice . I hope sheâs enjoying her retirement but if she wants to unretire her fans are here just like Tom Brady
Heâs a lot and disrespectful and seems like he has some special needs.
Meeting somebody through church is DEFINITELY NOT a reference for a successful marriage. People who thinks that are wishful thinking.
I love judge Toler, her funny side and her wisdom but I hate the intempestive clapping from the audience. It gives a «Jerry Springer» vibe. On judge Judyâs show, you donât see that, thereâs no need!
AGREEEEEEEEEEEEEEED!
He wanted young, he got it and still wasn't happy đ€Šđœââïž
Theyâre not a bad couple. With some patience and guidance, they can make it. They can make it if they want it.
No he's in the closet and he snagged her early to beat it away
cant believe i share dis dudes name. she was 9 dawg
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18yo date a 18yo guy
"We just mature faster"
18yo date older guy
" She still a baby" đ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
This is the second time ive seen you say something that makes it clear that you and this man share a brain
People donât talk enough about adults having inappropriate relationships and feelings toward children. Just because they are married now doesnât mean it was ok to do this
He wanted her to be submissive đ
Judge Toler was the best person for this job. She is an extraordinary woman. Very wise, understanding, and honest. She help so many couples save and restore their marriage. At least the ones that listen to her. She need to have a show for couples therapy to get them through relationships. Most people get married for the wrong reasons. Ladies often get married for the wedding, and donât understand what a marriage entails. The same for men as well. She and Steve Harvey would make a great show together helping couples and individuals seeking a relationship and marriage. Good for thought. The divorce rate is to high, and it is damaging the children caught up in the divorce.
I'm so happy I'm still single and stopping single
I most definitely agree!!!
He is a dictator and still want his beautiful wife to be intimate with his arrogant attitude. Love is the cure for everything. Treat people with love every single day and learn to communicate in a mature nature and stop talking down on people. You came from a woman so treat the wife with respect sir
This poor child đą..she looks so lost and unaware.
THE MATH AINT MATHING. They said they went to church as kids but he 7 years older than herâŠwhen she was 5 he was 12/13..
Would like to have an update on this couple!
I married young at 23 I can only imagine 18.
He may be gay.
I was about to say that but didnât want to get cussed out
The million dollar đ” question...
Why, and who allowed their 18 yr. old baby to wed!
This is ridiculous đ
He wants to leave. Let him go. God moving him for a reason. She fell asleep did he think she may have been tired.
I believe that people should marry when your 30 or over. People who marry young always end In divorce.
Not always, but I hear you.
Who are her parents?
Hi judge I get married at 26 my wife was 20 and we still married after 41 years some time we men are looking for a second mother,
Thatâs the problem. Women donât want to be a second mother. They donât want a man who is going to behave like a child. If you were going to be the head of your family you need to lead
These men donât want a wife/woman nor gf just someone to do all the domestic things they donât want to. Plus he sound a lil off. He know damn well he canât get someone his age or older bc they gone see he off & a lil lame thatâs why he choose younger. Ainât nothing wrong with her, he need to be with hisself and she need to go enjoy life! I hope sheâs doing well, seeing as this is old
He better learn how to feed himself
18 years old...she is a child...married at 18 and should be against the law!
This is child abuse!
I sorry he talk to much and says nothing what he expect from 18 years old.
Old-Fashioned, Too Young, Controlling, or Sociopath ??
I think they are still together based on the limited info on FB
He was 25 and married an 18 year old ? But complains about her immaturity ?
I think that she is immature, as she should be, because she immediately went from a high school student to a housewife/mother shortly after. She hasnât had time to develop as an adult independent of being in school or burdened with a bunch of adult responsibilities. She needs time to find herself and discover who she is and blossom into an adult woman. I think that his demeanor and presentation in the quart room speaks to his character. He was a lot older than her, seemed to be pressuring her into marriage, and skipped a lot of the court ship aspects of the relationship just because they were both involved in the church. It doesnât sound like he took a lot of time to actually get to know her as an individual and that they didnât have much time to vet each other as potential partners/life mates.
boug la byen wont
Let me you somethingâŠshe is not going to be the same person in her next decade of life. I hope it got fixed before she realized the value she has as a woman outside of him
Most of these young girls can't cook or clean.I know,My sons got one.
Many people get married very young for different reasons and I will not challenge all of those reasons except one . Getting married quiet young because of love . No such thing as that marriage is work and it needs you to grow beyond how you are already regardless weather your married if your 30 or 40 years . The experience can break you, make you , tire you , make you give up , joyous alot of things . But at 18 , 20, 23 year olds I will never support that marriage if you tell me itâs because of love , you can wait you get a lil older where you can handle some things thrown to you and you have the option to wait and this applies both to male and female
And this is the problem with men seeking out young women. On the surface it seems like it would be the best option for some men because they feel like they can move this young woman to do what they want her to do however she's not developed enough and so while a younger woman might be attractive for a lot of different reasons she's not ready for what you're looking for in a fully formed woman. I really wish that men and women would start thinking it through before they married people who are fresh out of high school and then get mad when they're unable to perform basic adult tasks. There are some 18 year olds who are mature enough but most are not.
Good video
This dude sounds like a frustrated woman....lol
Today wolds 18 is to young to get married,he needs to give her time if he really love her.
Caucasians get married at that age ALL THE TIME
Forget to tell you judge we have 2 beautiful children a boy and girl both are successful,
I donât like him at all
Both divorce and both move on
To young to be married. Needed Premarital counseling, I don't know what pastor married them but you can't marry people just because they are trying to keep from having premarital sex. People need to practice restraint!!! If you are really living by God standards HE WILL KEEP YOU đŻ And give you the power to abstain from those things that violate the sanity of marriage. Maturity, compromise, understanding,respect empathy and consideration are requirements in order to have a long standing marriage. I think he may want to get back out there to test the water.He was a sexual active man before you met her. If he was in a 7 year relationship he was having sex of some kindđđđđ
He doesn't seem to be into women at all.
He doesn't seem mature why he's talking about her . She said he's always angry I believe he acts that why with her because he doesn't want to be with her are Married to her , He doesn't want her she needs to move on . I couldn't be around him at all.
Her name thođ€Šđœââïž
Such a beautiful couple, I hope they are doing well.
What did YOU watch???
Ain't NOTHING beautiful about this.
You must be looking at a different espoide
Please stop dating plp from church
Religion really can set people up for failure. They shouldnât have pressured them to get married so young!!