Revelations after shopping less for 1 month

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Komentáře • 304

  • @amydement.
    @amydement. Před 5 měsíci +316

    Thank you for the update. Casey calls this phenomenon "death by a thousand paper cuts." Even when it doesn't throw you out of budget to spend 5, 10, 20, even 100 dollars here and there - you get to the end of the month and there's NOTHING left and little to actually show for it. I love your approach and need to work to change my 'instant gratification' mode. Thanks for the inspiration.

  • @KatieStAmand
    @KatieStAmand Před 5 měsíci +77

    Important lesson to learn: many small purchases really add up! Spending just $14 a day adds up to over $5,000 a year (and just $27/day is almost $10k/year!)

    • @Alexas.nobuyyear
      @Alexas.nobuyyear Před 5 měsíci +6

      Oh man when you put it like that, I wonder if I could SAVE $14 a day ...because I feel like I definitely used to spend that!!

    • @catdancerskaleidoscopeofbo8496
      @catdancerskaleidoscopeofbo8496 Před 5 měsíci +2

      Yes!!! 🎉🎉. This comment needs to be pinned!!! 🎉🎉.

    • @Trenchant468
      @Trenchant468 Před 2 měsíci +1

      This-speaking as someone who never signed up for cable, and saved perhaps $50,000 over the years. Same with making my own hot beverages, packing lunch, and so forth. Even a dollar a day is $365-. My issue was more so self deprivation, not spending. Now the money is there. The issues I do still deal with are bringing the not-quite-what-I- want things into my home, letting go of clutter, and spending too much time browsing. The clutter became a problem after I had to leave my home and let go all my belongings due to a mold issue.

  • @AmberOrtolano
    @AmberOrtolano Před 5 měsíci +129

    Yesss this is always my shopping tactic! I’ll randomly add things to my wishlist, but when it comes time to actually spend the money I’m like “oop nope I don’t actually want to spend that money” lolol

  • @wende.with.an.e
    @wende.with.an.e Před 5 měsíci +109

    Whoa. This is big. Reminds me of that saying, "How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time." Still an elephant...just now you are tackling it in one bite!

  • @Impassion
    @Impassion Před 5 měsíci +93

    I think you exchanging Friday night for Sunday night sounds smart and reasonable. Friday night has an excitement to it, that the weekend has begun. Sunday night has the distinct feeling that the weekend is basically over. You're totally right.

    • @amydevol8224
      @amydevol8224 Před 5 měsíci +10

      Yes, This! Starting Friday evening (which I really do consider part of the weekend) makes the treat of shopping indulgence part of the joy of the weekend break. And stopping after Sunday afternoon allows for an unhurried, but responsible turning in early for a good night's sleep to start the week on a positive note.

    • @sarahruns262
      @sarahruns262 Před 5 měsíci +6

      I came here to say the same thing! Sunday night feels like a sacred time to wind down and prepare for the week ahead. Whereas Friday feels like go time!

    • @devonasselin4328
      @devonasselin4328 Před 5 měsíci +3

      Yes 100%. For me, Friday night is an exciting time and most Fridays after a full day of work it's really relaxing to decompress with some research.

    • @silliepixie
      @silliepixie Před 4 měsíci +1

      I agree that this makes a lot of logistical sense and stays true to the project.

  • @angrytriangles
    @angrytriangles Před 5 měsíci +86

    I run into this when I buy stuff on Amazon a lot! I try to limit myself to one or two Amazon orders per year so I just add stuff to cart over a span of months, then when it's finally time to make the purchase I look at the total cost and I'm suddenly like oh it turns out I don't need any of it

    • @HannahLouisePoston
      @HannahLouisePoston  Před 5 měsíci +31

      "oh it turns out I don't need any of it" INCREDIBLE

    • @sindhusanthanakrishnan5465
      @sindhusanthanakrishnan5465 Před 5 měsíci

      I do the same! A website like Amazon that has multiple categories allows you to build a cart across different needs, and by the end you can truly reckon and pick the ones you truly need and desire, staggered against each other.

  • @TeacupTSauceror
    @TeacupTSauceror Před 5 měsíci +56

    this is kind of fascinating as someone who lives almost paycheck to paycheck - at first I was like "ohohoho imagine having so much money that you can spend it in dribs and drabs instead of all at the start of the month to replace the thing with the most holes", but then I remembered that my 1st of the month shopping spree serves the exact same purpose. I used to spend a little bit every day and then by the 15th i'd be completely broke and surprised as to how it happened again 😬

  • @christinekellyrose9435
    @christinekellyrose9435 Před 5 měsíci +75

    I enter a no-buy March April May and June. Many prayers (seriously) needed. 🙏

    • @Alexas.nobuyyear
      @Alexas.nobuyyear Před 5 měsíci +10

      You can do it!!! ❤

    • @shinstantramen5169
      @shinstantramen5169 Před 5 měsíci +4

      You got this!

    • @noshititskrae
      @noshititskrae Před 4 měsíci

      This is always wild to me... I buy non-essentials maybe twice a year. Idk. I live in a super crazy high rent city (Vancouver, BC) so maybe it's just different up here... But the American shopping patterns, where people buy things regularly, has always boggled my mind.

    • @kielimepie441
      @kielimepie441 Před 4 měsíci +1

      You got this! I might try and do the same!

    • @phyllisjen6578
      @phyllisjen6578 Před 3 měsíci +1

      You got this

  • @snailscourge9873
    @snailscourge9873 Před 5 měsíci +46

    Multiple thoughts.
    It's so, so helpful to see you model a self-knowing and self-caring method to change one's behavior. Kindness balanced with truthfulness and accountability - yes!
    Second, concentrating/reducing your shopping and research time is reducing your sunk cost into putative purchases making it easier to see their true financial cost clearly. This is the same dynamic that drives car salesmen to drag out your time at the dealership. Each minute you spend contemplating a purchase increases the probability you'll spend the money.
    The high pony? Love it!

    • @kagitsune
      @kagitsune Před 4 měsíci +1

      omg the sunk time cost and car salesmen!!!!

  • @shannonharris3982
    @shannonharris3982 Před 5 měsíci +92

    Can’t wait, this feels like old school check-ins which were always a favourite 😍

  • @AzDesertFoxx
    @AzDesertFoxx Před 5 měsíci +32

    I believe I mentioned I was doing a "no buy" year except for necessities ( food, meds for my cat(!), going out to eat once in a while, things I run out of), and I've ended up saving about $300 per month the past two months. When I get the urge to buy, go and look at what I actually own, and talk myself out of it. Knowing I have extra money in the bank is the biggest incentive. You are doing great!

  • @AlexisBii
    @AlexisBii Před 5 měsíci +134

    I hate how relatable and accurate to my experience this video is 😭😂 I followed this exact methodology along with you and realized the same thing. The 2nd week, my spending cut in HALF! Even more than that, I realized I actually don’t even enjoy the research process *that* much when I previously thought that was the core of what brought me joy in shopping.
    Worse yet, the doorman and concierge at my building commented “miss, you aren’t getting as many packages recently, we miss seeing you!” Lol 😭
    To growth! 🥂

    • @HannahLouisePoston
      @HannahLouisePoston  Před 5 měsíci +61

      omg not the concierge NOTICING!! ☠️

    • @AlexisBii
      @AlexisBii Před 5 měsíci +15

      @@HannahLouisePoston Perhaps I had a teensy tiny online shopping problem 😅😅😅😅😅

    • @amydevol8224
      @amydevol8224 Před 5 měsíci +3

      ​@AlexisBii , I take delivery at my UPS Store box for the security from porch pirates and shelter from weather. Similar noticing of buying patterns.

    • @laurenstylish
      @laurenstylish Před 5 měsíci

      @@amydevol8224same same here

    • @cassstephens9910
      @cassstephens9910 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Anyone else curious about *which* buckwheat heating pad pillow she bought? Or have recommendations!??

  • @finntastic2896
    @finntastic2896 Před 5 měsíci +25

    Same same same! When it’s time to shop I don’t even want to. Only doing the online shopping on the weekends helped so much! I also cut down on Social Media time and unfollowed lots of people on yt and Instagram. I actually get kinda annoyed now when anybody is doing consumption based content.

  • @meaganpeterson2798
    @meaganpeterson2798 Před 5 měsíci +74

    Unrelated to this topic (which I always appreciate your perspectives on!) but seeing this video reminded me to check the status of your poetry book that I requested my local library purchase. I was happy to see that it has been ordered and will be available in the library in Edinburgh, Scotland soon!

    • @annikivi
      @annikivi Před 5 měsíci +4

      This made me check and I'm happy to say that it's also available in libraries in Helsinki, Finland. They've ordered three copies.

  • @erinodonnell386
    @erinodonnell386 Před 5 měsíci +27

    Following this channel has been really good for me because it’s just the reminder that you don’t have to buy everything that strikes your fancy right now. Or at all. Like my current stuff, some of which is ideal and some of which isn’t for one reason or another, works. And replacing it isn’t an emergency. And the replacements may or may not even be that much better.

  • @TyrHannahSaurus217
    @TyrHannahSaurus217 Před 5 měsíci +38

    I started a no buy at the beginning of the year, and I found February to be really difficult! It's my birthday month and I did spend some of the money that was gifted to me by a family member on a lipstick. I justified it in the moment by saying that because the money was a gift it "didn't count" or that I would have accepted the gift had they purchased the lipstick for me instead of giving me cash, etc. etc. But I absolutely experienced the tummy ache after the sweet treat, and it's strengthened my resolve for the months ahead.

  • @alyssabrown9256
    @alyssabrown9256 Před 5 měsíci +51

    Here's my revelation that I came to over the last few years. I love scrolling online and spending hours creating wishlists, but I never buy anything. I will find every reason to not checkout. However, the moment I walk into a store and see/hold an item, it comes with me. I spent $150 at a Walmart (and I do NOT like walmart) this past weekend because I found myself bored in between appointments. Now I'm stuck with subpar quality and items I have no need for...

    • @sarahruns262
      @sarahruns262 Před 5 měsíci +11

      Ha I’m the opposite. Shopping online almost doesn’t feel real to me so I’m way more inclined to overspend on a pair of athletic pants or a beautiful blouse, but if in person I saw a $120 blouse, I wouldn’t even consider it. And I think this is largely due to the power of styling/photography! It makes it so much easier to visualize myself/my ideal life when a model is wearing that same garment.

    • @amydevol8224
      @amydevol8224 Před 5 měsíci +3

      ​@sarahruns262 I agree. Somehow, writing a check or plopping down the credit/debit card in person makes the purchase more real and immediate. Shopping online is by comparison painless and bloodless until the item and later the cc bill or the shipping invoice/receipt.

    • @sindhusanthanakrishnan5465
      @sindhusanthanakrishnan5465 Před 5 měsíci +4

      I'm a mix of both 😂
      Online, I whittle down carts ruthlessly in order to spend "less", but I suffer from some type of "seeing" bias, cuz I would've save a $100 in one cart, but after that cart has gone to checkout, I may end up spending the saved $100 elsewhere or on the same site too,within the month! 😂
      In person, I find it easy to just buy the first things that catch my eye + the shop assistant pressure, but once I've already spent in one shop, I am reluctant to open my wallet again 😅

    • @lindaraj3643
      @lindaraj3643 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Return them!

  • @whosvoice
    @whosvoice Před 5 měsíci +11

    I use Trello to organize pretty much everything, so I created a board on there just for makeup, and if I am considering an item of makeup it goes on that board. But since I rarely look at this board It’s amazing how rarely I buy anything on that list! Just knowing I have put it somewhere calms me, and it also helps me when I review the list and see how many things SEEMED important at the time but I no longer care about.

  • @spoonfulofmakeup3007
    @spoonfulofmakeup3007 Před 5 měsíci +22

    Sounds like you could benefit from using Jewish days for your project, where instead of the transition between days being at midnight, it's at sundown. So the weekend is effectively from sundown on Friday night to sundown on Sunday night. I love this concept because it keeps me in practice of spending my evenings setting up morning me for success and staying connected to the environment's energy signals. Wonderful learnings from this project so far!

    • @amydevol8224
      @amydevol8224 Před 5 měsíci +4

      This is also a traditional Celtic thing. It is why Samhain/Halloween was considered the Celtic New Year, starting at the dark of the year rather than the dawning of Spring or midwinter.

    • @spoonfulofmakeup3007
      @spoonfulofmakeup3007 Před 5 měsíci

      @@amydevol8224 Very cool!

  • @Robin-no8cu
    @Robin-no8cu Před 5 měsíci +20

    “False isolation”…insightful. You’re a good influence, HLP. 😊🥂

  • @kristinakaymcgowan
    @kristinakaymcgowan Před 5 měsíci +30

    Just now finishing month 4 of the no-buy. I wrote very detailed rules for myself before it started (thanks to your advice) and I’m glad I did because my little monkey brain definitely likes to look for loopholes. It’s crazy to watch brain try to rationalize a purchase. It’s almost comical at this point. I’ve had to add a few more rules because of this. I also finally decluttered my clothes and it is WILD to open my drawers and closet and just see the things I love without having to dig through a bunch of BS. It’s brought my a little joy every day ❤. One thing I didn’t anticipate is the amount of money you spend just on replacements! I’m not trying to spend as little as possible, but I didn’t think I would be spending this much on things within my rules. So interesting. I know you started a budget for yourself after your no-buy and I’m tentatively planning on doing something similar, but I could see that budget being blown to pieces in replacements alone as it stands.

    • @aoifecalderon383
      @aoifecalderon383 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Urg...feel you on the replacements

    • @kristinakaymcgowan
      @kristinakaymcgowan Před 5 měsíci

      @@aoifecalderon383 Yes! I have also found myself looking for more high end replacements as well. My brain is like, well, if I can't get the dopamine by buying a large amount of stuff, I'm going to get dopamine by buying the fanciest stuff. Ugh

  • @Faithfulsophie
    @Faithfulsophie Před 5 měsíci +21

    I have a heating pad recommendation! My mom made a small pillow filled with rice (maybe 9 by 4 inches?) and she made a fleece cover for it. I put it in the microwave for a few minutes and it is amazing for neck pain!
    Also, I want you to know that you inspired my first no buy two years ago and it was life changing! Thank you for sharing your insights and musings! 💕

  • @TheyMightBeJenny
    @TheyMightBeJenny Před 5 měsíci +7

    Belts are one of the easiest and cheapest things to thrift! Stores around here just price them all couple bucks each without considering quality or brand. Men's section also slaps for belts.

  • @kinglm1
    @kinglm1 Před 5 měsíci +11

    I’d love a nitty gritty video on what you did buy, or examples, to see the thought process behind what made it through. I think that would be helpful as a guide to making better shopping choices.
    We didn’t identify these purchases in the past as "impulse purchases", bc we spent the time researching the item - but in a way they could still be an impulse (or something we didn't get as much use out of, a.k.a. the blue sweater from your recent fashion video). So I’d love to know more!
    It’s been the most effective way to spend less, even though I too started it to save time/stop procrastinating.

  • @cwalsh4992
    @cwalsh4992 Před 5 měsíci +21

    Oooh this such a good tactic. I think the move to Friday night from Sunday night is a good idea.

  • @SarahMcAshan
    @SarahMcAshan Před 5 měsíci +11

    I'd say do whatever you have to do to guard your sleep. Six PM Friday to 6PM Sunday as "the weekend" makes sense, especially since screens are involved. I have a no screens after 8 rule every night of the week, and try to move that back to an earlier time on week nights. Some of my friends do no screens after 6, and when I do that I admit my sleep scores are higher per my Fitbit. If sleep deprivation leads to feeling sorry for oneself, which leads to breaking one's contract with oneself, well, we see where to begin. As for low-buys, I'm cutting myself off from new audiobooks until I've finished a lot more of the ones in my TBR pile. If you don't use screens after 6 or 8, that means switching to audio if you're a big reader.

  • @tcwaxwing
    @tcwaxwing Před 5 měsíci +19

    Opened YT and there you were -- oh, that instaclick! lol. We

    • @kathydodge8028
      @kathydodge8028 Před 5 měsíci +3

      "consumerism-as-productivity" really hit me 😭
      I wonder why your friends didn't think that the time you spent researching counted as busy. It's still time spent, after all 🤷

    • @tcwaxwing
      @tcwaxwing Před 5 měsíci

      Right? I figured it was mostly as simple as not leaving the house for "a purpose" that inevitably meant spending money, and thus having something to show for it held more weight than getting things done around the house. Like one is Important Busyness and the other busywork, you know?@@kathydodge8028

  • @renemurphy4244
    @renemurphy4244 Před 5 měsíci +2

    You may not remember this during your year of "less stuff" but I do because it changed my brain chemistry 😮 You said if you really want something, wait a few days or even a week. The desire for that thing will very often decline over time. And after a week, you will have 1) saved money 2) not have something that will languish in a drawer or closet and eventually be decluttered and 3) you will feel strong, proud, and accomplished. That's essentially what you are doing by delaying the buying to the weekend. It amazes me how we have to learn some lessons more than once, in new ways, as we grow. Good job, Hannah!

  • @padminimayur4049
    @padminimayur4049 Před 5 měsíci +30

    Shopping with a list is absolutely essential for the recovering shopaholic, I find

  • @AWanderingEye
    @AWanderingEye Před 5 měsíci +8

    On recommendation I have: Go to your online banking statement and categorize your purchases! After starting this, I now have data that I can reference to see how much of the pie is going to housing, shopping, auto expenses, etc. Very eye opening!

  • @nolita505
    @nolita505 Před 5 měsíci +7

    It reminds me of when you talked about shopping a Sephora sale for example, and only spending $200 online, then going into the store and only spending $200 and feeling good about it - two different experiences and transactions- while reflecting that you certainly would have balked at spending the $400 at once. A very insightful lesson indeed 🙏🏼

  • @catporter8417
    @catporter8417 Před 5 měsíci +10

    I too had the distraction issue and spent time flowing from one deep dive internet search to another....mine being perfume and makeup....Since your first video, I too have been doing this research and wishlisting only on the weekends. And more importantly, watching CZcams vids about perfume and makeup ONLY on the weekends..if a new vid pops up that I want to see i add it to my "Watch Later" playlist for Friday night. I have to say, by the time Sunday afternoon rolls around, I feel like I've overeaten and actually stop watching, so I agree with you, Sunday night I'm back on the wagon. It's been great. And when I look at my wishlist and all the Shopping Carts I feel I'm better able to judge what I really want right now, which is worth the price, what I really need etc. And I feel so much more in control of my brain ease, my precious work time, etc. It's been great. And you're so right, when you see all the "Carts" all together boy oh boy does that $$$ add up, rather than "I'll just buy this today" and then the next day "Oh, it's just this.." and then at the end of the month....sigh. Love these check ins! Thank you, Hannah

  • @user-lu9vb1fl5d
    @user-lu9vb1fl5d Před 5 měsíci +8

    Thnx for your update! Shopping was becoming a full time job for me. Researching, tracking, returning items, etc. There are 2 ways that I curb my spending: #1 is looking back on how much I’ve spent in the past couple years on clothes, bags, skincare and makeup. OMG way too much! I keep that $ total on my calendar with a reminder to STM! (stop the madness!). And #2 I keep a running wish list. I can pick an item or 2 a month to buy and postpone the rest. That way I’m really more conscious of my choices instead of impulsively shopping.

  • @clairekurdelak2913
    @clairekurdelak2913 Před 5 měsíci +8

    You’re so self aware and articulate about this. Very helpful to hear spelled out! My reasons for giving up my thrifting hobby during Lent this year are very similar. No shame, but keep this hobby in its place! And I plan to donate the money I save to a special charity.

  • @scheitahnberg
    @scheitahnberg Před 5 měsíci +12

    OK, pardon me this, but I couldn't help laughing when I realized you basically reinvented and reimagined sabbath :D

  • @BallroomJenni
    @BallroomJenni Před 5 měsíci +7

    I feel like the more I save the more I want to save. Love this project and the updates!

  • @knikki2u
    @knikki2u Před 5 měsíci +3

    I pretty much already fell off the wagon researching and buying vintage clothing off eBay. When I remembered that I’m joining you on this shopping behavior journey, I’d stop myself. But, I often find myself completely forgetting!. I have better things to do with my time and money, so I’m not giving up.

  • @sophianachtigall3598
    @sophianachtigall3598 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Edit: Julia Hungry just arrived to her new home in Germany. I am very excited to start reading
    ***
    This reminds me of my „Black Friday list”. I make a list throughout the year of big things that I would like to purchase on Black Friday. This is usually electronics, vacuum cleaner, steamer, iron, some new device like NU Face micro current…
    But on Black Friday, when I see how much that costs all together, I take a look and start prioritizing. This is why I still have my old vacuum cleaner and NU Face was kicked out of the list for the last 5 years.
    The truth is, I have money to buy it all but just seeing how much that costs together gives me a different perspective. Through that lens I see better what is absolutely necessary and what can wait until next November (or until is broken beyond repair).

  • @alinamaria3147
    @alinamaria3147 Před 5 měsíci +7

    I think this is the same principle/tip you gave during your no buy year about shopping a sale and placing a single order and facing that total dollar amount vs splitting it up across multiple orders. It's all connected. Maybe you should revise those tips and make a video about how many of those would apply to the current project as well :)

    • @sindhusanthanakrishnan5465
      @sindhusanthanakrishnan5465 Před 5 měsíci +1

      I wonder, reading your comment, how much taking these up as projects as opposed to a new way of acting means, any lessons learnt or tips identified are isolated to such self-contained projects instead of just being part of your life from that point.

  • @sea_g0at
    @sea_g0at Před 5 měsíci +5

    i’ve tried switching from shopping / browsing to pintrest (when i want to just idly scroll through my phone although that’s a separate issue i’m working on) because i think what i’m really after when i’m online shopping is inspiration or something to scratch that ~personal aesthetics~ itch.

  • @cbeghin0514
    @cbeghin0514 Před 5 měsíci +4

    Oh gosh the first observation is so spot on. I’ve said for years that I don’t shop that much compared to the volume of stuff I actually look at, and because of that attitude I always felt like I was managing myself well because I only bought a fraction of what I browsed. It makes total sense that even though I constantly felt constrained (in the sense that I felt the exertion of effort to keep myself from buying things all the time), caving even a tiiiiny bit of the time would keep from having any spare money for savings by the end of the month.

  • @leahmanderson298
    @leahmanderson298 Před 5 měsíci +10

    Very astute observations! It’s amazing the revelations we come to when we change our habits. You are awesome 👏

  • @emmy8526
    @emmy8526 Před 5 měsíci +1

    For the warmer, you can make a new case and reuse the buckwheat. I’ve done this several times. Buy an upholstery grade cotton (many pretty patterns available, even at the thrift store) and prewash/iron it to remove any coatings. It’s the simplest rectangle if you still have your sewing machine and you can customize the color/print/shape.

  • @lisag2648
    @lisag2648 Před 5 měsíci +6

    This year I started to track all my purchases (groceries etc included) in an excel sheet (1 sheet per month) - I also list the items I would like to buy that month, which gives me so much more mindfulness for what I buy. Also I save pictures of my "luxury" items (clothes & jewelry) to see at the end of the year what my consumption on that was and what really lasted me, since I tend to sell stuff after a while.

  • @kulaulpa
    @kulaulpa Před 5 měsíci +8

    This video totally convinced me to try this!
    It feels deeply related to something I have been thinking a lot in terms of the social media economy, particularly how it is entirely run on ads and personal data and how that is related to the maxim that something you actually *need* doesn't need to be advertised to you.
    This feels like a great way to continue to separate the proverbial need-wheat from the want-chaff, almost like a 301 version of your previous thinking on the topic. Love it.

  • @hreh2345
    @hreh2345 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I totally recommend getting a little cherry pit pillow or "snake" as a heating pad! They can be chilled or microwaved and you could even make it a fun project picking out fabrics and sewing one up.

  • @jenniferlink7520
    @jenniferlink7520 Před 5 měsíci +1

    This is genius! I am guilty of procrastination online browsing everyday. Totally going to implement this. It's almost like intermittent fasting but with shopping.

  • @Marsolan
    @Marsolan Před 5 měsíci +2

    This just inspired me to do once a month Amazon order. I have a major issue with me spending way too much on Amazon. It’s mostly household items but still a lot.
    Thank you very much !

  • @christinav.3661
    @christinav.3661 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Great insight, thank you.

  • @ashleyfoss4718
    @ashleyfoss4718 Před 5 měsíci +1

    This is so so helpful!!! Thank you!!

  • @NancyTiltonHand
    @NancyTiltonHand Před 5 měsíci

    This is great! Thank you!!

  • @ericaknutzen4787
    @ericaknutzen4787 Před 5 měsíci

    Please keep updating us this is a great series :)

  • @dreamer6943
    @dreamer6943 Před 5 měsíci

    Miraculously I've been purchasing much less and the last two times I noticed the buzz I used to get from shopping hasn't been there. I've enjoyed it but not had that purchasing high I always had before. I've also been able to let go of more things from my overcrowded home because tracking my spending has made me realise I can afford to replace small things later if I realise I've made a mistake in donating a particular thing. I never would have believed I could be in this situation a year ago. I'm so pleased with my progress. I'm glad you're having success too

  • @Whenlifegivesyoulemonscrochet
    @Whenlifegivesyoulemonscrochet Před 5 měsíci +1

    That was a great update! Love seeing you grow and you always inspire me to grow myself thank you!

  • @zitapuskas2772
    @zitapuskas2772 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Love you! ❤

  • @amyhutchinson9080
    @amyhutchinson9080 Před 4 měsíci

    Wow this is hitting home for me a lot! Love hearing your updates.

  • @ewinstead9709
    @ewinstead9709 Před 5 měsíci

    Ha! That part about the procrastination is so spot on! I do that allll the time I'm doing it right now.

  • @anu-hz4be
    @anu-hz4be Před 5 měsíci +1

    I love your reflections! it's always so intriguing doing these kind of experiments

  • @caitlinstark9321
    @caitlinstark9321 Před 5 měsíci

    I absolutely love these videos! They give shape to things that I think have been playing around on the edges of my mind as to why I do what I do. But they force me to look at them. And actually conceptualize what's going on and why I'm perpetuating the habits I am when I have other priorities.

  • @alieb1863
    @alieb1863 Před 5 měsíci +1

    When we spend weeks researching a potential purchase it doesn’t sell impulsive, it feels well considered which it habitual is a sunk cost fallacy

  • @BelleStreetBoyz
    @BelleStreetBoyz Před 5 měsíci +4

    For future reference, I'm super here for any and all heating pad content. 👀🖤✌🏻

  • @VBoo459
    @VBoo459 Před 5 měsíci

    Thanks for this update! I need to follow the weekday no browse rule. I recently realised the same thing. So many little things, unnecessary but technically reasonable. Cheap enough to buy without really thinking. They they all add up. I realised I want my money to go to things I REALLY want rather than “meh” items. I’ve had to start asking myself what do I really need that I don’t already “kinda” have. Little things don’t get me excited either so why spend couple of hundreds there? I deffo spent the LEAST I’ve ever spent in a month before when I tackled this.

  • @staceymolli1028
    @staceymolli1028 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Can you start sharing your monthly purchases? As an OG subscriber I appreciate the HLP greatest hits-- your monthly favorites was always one i looked forward to ❤️

  • @lorraine305
    @lorraine305 Před 5 měsíci

    Hannah this video and this project is BRILLIANT!! Putting time-related borders around shopping behavior like this is genius. Thank you for updating us!!

  • @alysonscholes3175
    @alysonscholes3175 Před 3 měsíci

    These updates and insights are SO helpful Hannah!

  • @haleyjarret8162
    @haleyjarret8162 Před 4 měsíci

    Thanks for sharing this Hannah! I am so inspired by this! I am going to the same and can't wait to see how it goes.

  • @jillianf8th
    @jillianf8th Před 5 měsíci

    This is gold!
    There’s something very satisfying about learning about our habits and to rectify them when if they’re even a slightly bit unhealthy without reading a book about it.
    Practicality in the golden ticket.

  • @melissamoeller9608
    @melissamoeller9608 Před 5 měsíci +3

    I can relate with you quite a bit. I employ similar tactics with my shopping. Even for the grocery store. I am so prone to crave the dopamine rush, and have needed to develop self discipline as well as certain checks and balances to stay on track.

  • @katebarnard9847
    @katebarnard9847 Před 5 měsíci

    Excellent! I soooo need to employ this for myself! Changing behaviours is really hard and I applaud and admire your efforts. Unfortunately I feel as though I am several paces behind, as I’m inly JUST figuring out my best colours, vs buying things in any colour I happen to like an item best in regardless of whether it truly works in me or not. But y’know, I’m on the path! X

  • @cucumberwhale
    @cucumberwhale Před 5 měsíci +1

    I use my carts as a kind of bookmark for items and it's overwhelming because I go add stuff when I'm stressed and need a break to procrastinate even if I don't end up buying most of the items in them. Started going thru them and deleting anything with a "nah" vibe the moment you mentioned your "buy all at once" tactic. They were super empty and boring by the time your video ended in the other tab haha, thanks! Also I noticed I tend to add items that go together, like, 3 makeup brushes that go well together, but when I knocked out one of them they didn't feel like a set anymore and it was easier to get rid of the others.

  • @dorotawejdman113
    @dorotawejdman113 Před 5 měsíci +4

    Great film, I like listening to you on any topic, and I am very glad that there is more content like this that help people manage their buying behaviours. I think I might try this challenge too :)

  • @deborahsalazar5617
    @deborahsalazar5617 Před 5 měsíci +1

    This is a very good strategy ! I think im going to try it !

  • @Eviepossible
    @Eviepossible Před 5 měsíci

    So greatly appreciate you and your wisdom, Hannah!

  • @theprimordialoohs
    @theprimordialoohs Před 2 měsíci

    Omg those "undulating waves of time going down the drain" FELT. Let me just say I'm tasting those ashes, too. Thanks so much for this clear, well-articulated close look at your habits (time, money, dopamine). Something in my ADHD brain clicked watching this, and I can tell already that June is going to be a successful low-buy month for me using this method.

  • @sparkybish
    @sparkybish Před 5 měsíci

    This seems like it’s been a helpful exercise for you to clearly define what is a want and what is a need. There’s something about buying only things I need and no wants that feels like I know myself really well.

  • @rebeccakazdoy3198
    @rebeccakazdoy3198 Před 5 měsíci +2

    I think I’m going to try this method. Recently Ive been finding myself adding things to cart and checking out without thinking too often

  • @Jamie-jg1in
    @Jamie-jg1in Před 5 měsíci

    You are a genius -- this is the most elegant of solutions. Thank you oh goddess of sanity!

  • @everydayarty
    @everydayarty Před 5 měsíci +1

    Love this ❤

  • @melissaandreag
    @melissaandreag Před 5 měsíci

    This is brilliant! I’ve been doing an unofficial low spend the last few weeks and it’s amazing how much I’ve saved this way 😅 I love the idea of only shopping on the weekend. I may start implementing that as well. When I want to buy something and want to put off the impulse to spend until a later time, I add the thing that I want to buy to a note in my phone called “Things I Want to Buy” and revisit it here and there to see if those are items I still eventually want, or if I can remove anything. Sometimes, I end up asking for those things for Christmas/my birthday 😅

  • @debbullington632
    @debbullington632 Před 5 měsíci +4

    Thank you so much for sharing this project and revelations with us-this video has convinced me to start doing my own similar project. I don’t want to be spending as much money as I am and I certainly don’t want to be spending the amount of time browsing that I am. I’m excited to enact change in this way!

  • @nicoleeast3796
    @nicoleeast3796 Před 2 měsíci

    I love this series. I can very much relate. I feel like I’ve reached the same place in which you were at in the beginning of the year and can understand this challenge.

  • @kira5612
    @kira5612 Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you for sharing your update. I think it’s great how you were able to make these observations about yourself as you were going through the feelings and also being able to help find a different way of going about it by changing it to Friday Saturday instead of Sunday.
    Im currently doing a no buy and I’ve had two necessary, but painful realizations. One of the observations has been in me seeing how instinctually I turn to shopping and how my brain can take a fear ( I deal with chronic migraines and am usually afraid of something setting off an episode) and convince myself the only way to make myself safe is to buy a random snack etc. as well as using shopping as a distraction or balm for deeper emotional and mental health things. I noticed my love of books and my endurance to read has dramatically decreased to the point I started disliking books. and then I noticed that in buying books in large quantities and frequent times I started associating reading to the emotional turmoil I felt and there is an emotion I can’t completely place encompassing books and the other areas I shop in.
    The last and most important revelation I’ve had is in the people who previously were in my life who have vanished once I stopped buying them gifts and treats and in the no buy I’ve inadvertently weeded out a lot of people which is necessary but also painful and mildly embarrassing to see how I prioritized other peoples wants over my foundational needs.

  • @iluvzevon
    @iluvzevon Před 5 měsíci

    Hannah, your videos have such an impact on me!! This is so real. The research is half of the fun for me. The more I add rules, the less I really find that I need and want after a while. As a lover of beautiful things, it's interesting to both give myself permission to indulge while also going towards better and more conscious consumption at every turn.

  • @MMHay16
    @MMHay16 Před 5 měsíci

    Has been really nice to follow your journey. I have been considering doing a soft no buy myself and it's interesting to see what has come of it for others :)

  • @tentimes2660
    @tentimes2660 Před 5 měsíci

    I wish I saw this video before I checked out a few lip products online haha
    Been trying a no buy quarter to save up for a trip and I totally relate to this - browsing to distract myself. I'll try this starting March! Thanks for sharing this!

  • @maggles1982
    @maggles1982 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Wow. This is so fascinating, b/c I've definitely done what you've described. Here's one vote that you get into the nitty gritty!

  • @NoDecaf7
    @NoDecaf7 Před 5 měsíci +1

    In a recent desire to shop items going out of season, those last clearance bits, I encouraged my partner to clean out his side of the closet. I scored a sweet mens flannel button down shirt to bring me into spring ❤ He decluttered many items also!

  • @deirdrephinney
    @deirdrephinney Před 5 měsíci

    I have been loving these videos, and this project! I am pregnant and shopping really differently from normal right now (since all of my shirts suddenly became crop tops last month), and you’ve inspired me to set ground rules for myself that are already giving me so much time and mental space back in my week 🙌🏻
    Can you share your makeup from this video? I’m obsessed with the lip and eye colors!

  • @quenepacrossing4675
    @quenepacrossing4675 Před 2 měsíci

    This video is incredibly insightful. I need to implement this kind of thinking into my life. My purchases are only small in comparison to the insane amount of browsing i do. Wasting my time browsing and tricking myself. Wow

  • @gluten-freevegannutritious8522

    I really appreciate your description of the time lost! It’s so expensive to lose our time shopping distracting ourselves this way. Would love more thoughts on replacement activity ideas - library haul? Decluttering? Knitting? Tea? I appreciate what you’re saying re: It Has to be something that feels like a break or at least not like more work.

  • @katiescott8576
    @katiescott8576 Před 5 měsíci

    After my no-buy year in 2022, I made plans that the first Saturday in January 2023 I would wake up, have a leisurely morning with a coffee and very intentionally buy myself one beautiful thing (the babaa sweater you made that great video about). There was something that felt so good about the intentionality and careful consideration of the whole experience -- not just what I was buying, but when (during the sale) and how I was doing it (when I wasn't stressed or trying to make myself feel better through shopping). This video is reminding me of how good that felt. I think even one Saturday morning each month is all the shopping I need for beautiful things that aren't replacements.

  • @gemmaamclean
    @gemmaamclean Před měsícem

    I love this approach! Definitely adding this to my shopping habits 🙌 currently doing a no buy for fashion but for everything else I seem to spend money without even realizing how much I’m accumulating

  • @DR-bp1yu
    @DR-bp1yu Před 5 měsíci

    I have been on a crusade to simplify my life and your channel was a recent find that has really helped me crystallizing what that might look like for me.
    I don't wear much make up, the little I do wear, I make myself. Same with skin care and personal care products. So hadn't it been for somone mentioning your wardrobe experiments, I might have missed your awesome channel all together.
    I'm afraid that many people who might really enjoy your content,need it even, might be missing out because the "beauty and fashion" tags are not grabbing their attention.
    Perhaps it'd be good to add tabs that let people know that you also have excellent content on the process of simplifying life.
    Your breaking down the process, documenting your evolution and the thoughts and observations are incredibly valuable and helpful.
    Thank you again for everything you share.

  • @amandajaneh
    @amandajaneh Před 5 měsíci +1

    Love the updates! I’m on a low buy since December. The first two months were hard but manageable but I have been going back to my old habits recently, boo! Excessive stress plus caregiving and working lead me to want to “treat” myself with vintage clothing even though I don’t need anything. A low stakes struggle but a struggle nonetheless 🙃

  • @loidaholder2689
    @loidaholder2689 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Yeah, I get it. When I know I need something and I need to research and take pics or screenshots on my phone to do the research at a later time and I forget all about to find it at a later time and ask myself why I didn’t buy what I set aside to? It is part of the no thing too. No looking, no shopping and do I really need this. Love your consumer side of life videos. Helps me understand the relationship we all have with shopping the way our today’s society thinks and behaves.

  • @user-hf7kj6rf3x
    @user-hf7kj6rf3x Před 4 měsíci

    I've been doing the same thing 😂. I'm going to try your NEW method with the hope of curbing my spending, especially since I just retired 7 months ago. Thank you for sharing your wisdom ❤

  • @bethany9477
    @bethany9477 Před 5 měsíci +1

    This year I decided to spend half as much as I did last year on clothes. It wasn't a ridiculous amount, but adding up ALL my wardrobe purchases up really made me see how much money I could save by being even more intentional. I'm feeling so inspired by your challenge, like you say, for me it's just on the edge of what's possible for me to do. Molding new habbits definitely isn't a comfortable process, but it's worth it. Knowing I'm not bringing in tones of new items into my home (no matter how well researched or ethical they are!) gives me so much peace of mind. Thanks Hannah 💙👗

  • @SharrellKline
    @SharrellKline Před 5 měsíci

    This was huge for me to hear you say because it's exactly what I'm currently doing. I'm going to adopt your method plus add only allowing myself one buying day (it's on Amazon because I'm retired in Mexico) a month. If I can experience what you're feeling I have an inkling, I'll be saving a lot of money! Because I'm just making "little orders" several times a month and it need to face the total and then press "pay".

  • @victoriaf98
    @victoriaf98 Před 5 měsíci

    Are you me? Lol 😂 Thank you so much for sharing this! I think a lot of people, especially women, struggle with online shopping. It's so tempting because it's right at our fingertips. Setting boundaries is so important 🙏 I really like your weekend only rule and how it helps spread out your decision making and spending. I find that I do a very similar thing, procrastinate browse, but then I force myself to just put it in a tab window and save it for a later time to process.

  • @naomikessler3088
    @naomikessler3088 Před 5 měsíci

    Received your book today and now need to set aside “quiet” time to digest a few poems at a time❤ Really looking forward to reading poetry again, and in particular, your writing😘