Abused by multiple men for a decade and my Mum knew: with Michelle Duffy

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  • čas přidán 17. 02. 2024
  • In tomorrow’s episode we are joined with Michelle Duffy. Michelle takes us through her heartbreaking childhood and what she went through from she was 4 to 16. Being abused by multiple men throughout her childhood and how she fought for justice.
    Please note: The content of this episode may be graphic and sensitive to some viewers.
    For more information and resources on supporting survivors of domestic abuse in the UK, please visit:
    Women's Aid: A leading organization working to end domestic abuse against women and children. Helpline: 0808 2000 247
    National Domestic Abuse Helpline: Helpline: 0808 2000 247
    Refuge: Providing support and information for women and children experiencing domestic violence. Helpline: 0808 2000 247
    Remember, you're not alone, and there are resources available to help you or someone you know navigate through difficult situations.
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Komentáře • 45

  • @laurenmccotter
    @laurenmccotter Před 4 měsíci +117

    This is my mum and she really is a true inspiration to me growing up knowing what she went through but she still got on with her everyday life and where she is today I’m so proud to call her my mum

    • @joanmcnulty2221
      @joanmcnulty2221 Před 4 měsíci +1

      She truly is an inspiration and you must be so proud of her, I am. Totally failed by the system in many different ways. They should hang their heads in shame. We all have to stand before our maker some day, but hell isn't enough for these monsters. Michelle is so brave and to go on to choose a career to help kids in the same place she was as a child. Truly amazing. Great podcast guys and how much empathy you have is what makes this a fantastic show. God bless you Michelle and take care xox 💔🙏🏻

    • @CarlyMckay
      @CarlyMckay Před 4 měsíci +2

      I'm sure u are so proud of her, amazing lady

    • @lynsaysmith903
      @lynsaysmith903 Před 4 měsíci +3

      Your mum is amazing l❤️ so inspirational this Will help others !! My mother was a victim as a child too but she just wasn’t strong enough to go through life without alcohol to escape her trauma so hearing your mothers story made me so happy for yous all ❤️

    • @jackiecarson7154
      @jackiecarson7154 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Such a sad story, how amazing is she that is now helping other victims 🥰

    • @Grace25633
      @Grace25633 Před 4 měsíci +1

      What a beautiful lady. ❤

  • @claireanderson8268
    @claireanderson8268 Před 4 měsíci +14

    Well done big sis helping others going forward through talking about it. I know how hard it is going through it all again, I'm so proud of you x❤❤❤❤

  • @paulamctoal7388
    @paulamctoal7388 Před 2 dny

    Incredible lady. You are inspiration to women and children this has happened to ❤❤❤

  • @andreacaughey6761
    @andreacaughey6761 Před 4 měsíci +3

    So much respect for Michelle to be able to speak about this trauma ,it sickens my heart to know that these perpetrators were never convicted and are still in positions of trust with other children ,makes me sick

  • @joannemckevitt6626
    @joannemckevitt6626 Před dnem

    😢 this story is absolutely heartbreaking 💔 wat a remarkable woman ❤

  • @holliejane3605
    @holliejane3605 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Bless her heart. You can see she’s wrote on her hand to make sure she doesn’t miss anything. When so much has happened to you, it can feel so overwhelming trying to get it all out and not forget anything.
    Admirable woman. I hope she’s truly happy now

  • @donnamakhsous1
    @donnamakhsous1 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Michelle you are a true survivor. You are an inspiration for so many giving them a voice and hope for the future. You are amazing 👏 ❤️

  • @serenacarberry591
    @serenacarberry591 Před měsícem +1

    This is just heartbreaking 💔💔 what a brave lady ❤

  • @dominiquetoland5222
    @dominiquetoland5222 Před 4 měsíci +2

    This just broke my heart...poor poor children 😢so brave for telling ur truth...use where severely let down by everyone

  • @user-gc2wz7uj4f
    @user-gc2wz7uj4f Před 4 měsíci +1

    Amazing young woman her strength is outstanding to survive what she has and go on to help others in the same situation what an earth Angel she is ❤

  • @theresahill7386
    @theresahill7386 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Such an Inspirational gentle woman & survivor, now using her traumatic experiences & the help she didn't get, to provide that to others in the same need is beyond amazing!.

  • @marieobrien889
    @marieobrien889 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Michelle you are absolutely amazing. You have turn your life around and now using your terrible experience to help others xx

  • @lynnejones7206
    @lynnejones7206 Před 4 měsíci

    Thank God Michelle has turned her life around .. she will really help victims of abuse , cos she knows what they are going through .. 🙏🤗

  • @doggogamer330
    @doggogamer330 Před 3 měsíci

    Michelle you are with out a doubt one of the strongest person I’ve heard sharing, you are an inspiration to so many and the health trust is a better place having you there supporting our young and most vulnerable.

  • @roslyncraig1609
    @roslyncraig1609 Před 4 měsíci

    Absolutely amazing lady 👏🏻

  • @erinconnery5799
    @erinconnery5799 Před 2 měsíci

    What a strong woman you are, this story brought tears to my eyes feel sick 💔 sending healing to you and your family, & to become a social worker after all this you really are amazing 🙏

  • @ciaranimhurchu5282
    @ciaranimhurchu5282 Před 4 měsíci

    What an incredible woman for sharing such a traumatic and sensitive story.

  • @sarahfenton5040
    @sarahfenton5040 Před 2 měsíci

    What a truly remarkable brave woman and thank god she can help other kids now! Just wish their had of been women like her when she was growing up god bless you Michelle 💖 xx

  • @user-km9cq6vq2u
    @user-km9cq6vq2u Před 4 měsíci

    This broke my heart 💔 fair play to you for speaking out about it.

  • @emsh3400
    @emsh3400 Před měsícem

    She was let down time and time again. I wish her the best as she deserves so much goodness ❤

  • @angelawright3293
    @angelawright3293 Před 4 měsíci +1

    This podcast absolutely broke me … Michele I am so sorry this happened to you … there isn’t even any words … my stomach churns thinking about what you and your siblings must have endured … I just hope you have found some peace because my god you deserve it 😢❤️ xxx

  • @lynnejones7206
    @lynnejones7206 Před 4 měsíci

    This is so heartbreaking to listen to ..Michelle you are so strong to have come through this ,and be the person you are ..keep strong and God bless you ..❤🙏

  • @BanksYoung
    @BanksYoung Před 4 měsíci

    What an incredible woman ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤absolutely in awe

  • @Michael-iq5sb
    @Michael-iq5sb Před 4 měsíci

    The most moving podcast yet. Inspiring how you have used your story to help others. You should be proud of yourself

  • @emmamcrankin1225
    @emmamcrankin1225 Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you!!! The whole not limiting ypur sessions - this! This is what is needed. I was in psychology for 7months and we still hadn't got into my trauma (which has been multiple different things in life) and then i was discharged because they said i was doing much better and that they thought i could handle everything even though i still hadnt opened up and tried to heal from everything that happened. Now im struggling again and had to go back onto medication to try and numb everything.

  • @david-sf3rl
    @david-sf3rl Před 4 měsíci +1

    One brave lady and an unsung hero for the fact your saving other kids you can see traits others won't pick up on total respect an admiration for you

  • @CarlyMckay
    @CarlyMckay Před 4 měsíci +1

    What a fantastic podcast, michelle you are an amazing human.....i hope some day i will be brave enough to do something like this too.....youve done so well for yourself. Shame on the individuals that were meant to protect u x

  • @niamh18
    @niamh18 Před 4 měsíci

    God saved you for a reason. How you have turned your pain to help other children now is amazing. Brilliant interview, thank you having good guests on the last while!

  • @lynsaysmith903
    @lynsaysmith903 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Michelle you should be so proud of yourself 😢for being so put together and to have went on and studied to help other is absolutely incredible. Because let face it you could have went down another path of destruction drugs / addiction etc your an absolute angel your kids family should be so proud of your achievements Ano nameing these ppl could get yourself into trouble with the law but really the system has failed you and your siblings were failed time and time again. Ano u said you wish you did have some convictions which is absolutely mind boggling to me that there wasn’t but maybe you should have a think about those kids that the abuser is living with just now if you name and shame these ppl 100 % you will find other victims will come forward then all the victims can get justice together making the case stronger and less likely to be dropped so pls pls think about why should you protect them no one protected you and by naming them your protecting the kids living with this animal xxxx

    • @joanmcnulty2221
      @joanmcnulty2221 Před 4 měsíci

      I agree with everything you say 💯💯!! It's hard to describe how wonderful this beautiful and gentle lady is...xox

  • @caitlinhorrox841
    @caitlinhorrox841 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Watching this as a mother too a two year old an it’s soul destorying my heart bleeds for this lady she shouldn’t have went through this once let alone all those times by several different predators she was totally failed by the system I was raped in medugorje at 15 an it was pushed under the carpet when the abuser was lifted he wasn’t even told what he was under arrest for but straight away before he was even told what he was under arrested for the age of consent in Bosnia an herzegovina was 13.. the fella was an Irish traveller we were both Irish! An he got off free with it still haunts me too this day

  • @Putchki
    @Putchki Před měsícem +4

    I do wonder why scully didn’t read up a bit on child rape before he interviews Michelle. I found his ignorance and constant shock statements to be quite alarming whilst interviewing a victim. Doesn’t he realise that not baby is safe from predators, I’ve read if newborn babies that have been raped and died. It’s a bit irresponsible imo of them to take this podcast with no idea. I do love the podcast but when dealing with a subject like this it would have been helpful if the interviewer was more experienced