You people missed the point. This is exactly how women treat men. This doesn't apply to all women by the way, just the huge majority.. Women: 1. expect men to pay for their meal 2. expect men to chaperone them around 3. never let a guy express his opinion and frequently talk over guys. 4. always rely on a man to make plans 5. refuse to let a guy cuddle or share their snacks at the movies 6. always get their preference of movie to watch while the guy has to grin and bear it The fact you people are calling the guy in the video an asshole is exactly the reaction the sketch hoped to receive. It also proves how narrow sighted and blinkered you all still are despite the fact times have changed. THAT is what this video is trying to explain, if you were with a friend it would be very different, but men have to deal with this every time they take a woman on a date. How is that equality?
Mark Jackson Women: 1. expect men to pay for their meal Not feminists 2. expect men to chaperone them around Not feminists 3. never let a guy express his opinion and frequently talk over guys. Bullshit. Again and again studies prove that MEN talk over WOMEN, in work and social situations. Women are now learning to say "Excuse me, please don't interrupt" or "I just said that" and are called bitches for it. 4. always rely on a man to make plans Read what YOU wrote for #6 5. refuse to let a guy cuddle or share their snacks at the movies Seriously? Who the hell do YOU date? Or maybe it's just your offputting attitude. I'm not feeling the urge to share my popcorn or cuddle with you myself. 6. always get their preference of movie to watch while the guy has to grin and bear it So, the man has to make plans, but women get to choose movies. Uh-huh. This explains why chick-flicks are ALWAYS #1 at the box office and action-packed blockbusters that hardly even have female characters do so badly. For example, last Friday's top movies were lead by the super girly Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles at #1, followed by Guardians of the Galaxy which has a WHOLE female lead in it, after which is Into the Storm, about that most feminine of activities, storm-chasing. Then there's the Hundred Foot Journey, which made it to #4 even though chicks HATE movies about romance and talking, followed by Lucy, which has a female lead character, so it's TOTES a chick-flick, even though pretty much everyone else in the movie is male and make all Lucy's decisions for her. Actually, seriously, movies with actual strong female characters, movies that pass the Bechdel test, have actually been doing well at the box office, but moviemakers are STILL refusing to make them, despite the fact that stuff like TMNT tanks after the first weekend. Lines like "The Fault in Our Stars" would have done badly if it weren't for teenaged girls doesn't take into account that girl money spends just like everyone else's!
***** WHO THE FUCK BUYS CLOTHES FOR A WOMAN HE'S NOT *REALLY* SERIOUSLY DATING (Guys I've LIVED WITH and the one I MARRIED bought me clothes, but I bought them clothes more often! Other boyfriends, if it wasn't a gifting occasion, maybe the occasional book a record album, but I'd also buy them that kind of thing. I'd think it was weird if a man bought me shoes if we weren't married or damn close)? Most women are still basically "still very sweet" even if they DO give a shit about feminism. The women you describe om the first paragraph, who expect to be taken care of, none of that has feminist principles behind it. That Veronica Lodge (from Archie comics) B.S. isn't cute and it sure isn't feminist.
Saphir43 At least you know that if you play videogames you are doing it right. being wrong only if you do something and being right if you don't do it... It's 1000 times easier than being always wrong whatever you do. You play videogames? No? Ok, excuse me for a second.... NEEEEEEXT CANDIDAAAAAATE!!! Ok... ehm, i'm afraid you have to leave that chair.
Saphir43 By "be a woman" you mean drama, complaining, anger, talking at him for hours about nothing, jealousy, nastiness, locking him away from his friends, forcing him to go shopping for sofa pillows and curtains every single Sunday for the rest of his life?
***** You would NEVER do any of those things. In fact, no girl would ever do any of those things. Nevertheless, somehow, every man in a relationship with one of those creatures goes through them every single day of his life.
Phil H - Been going on since 1920, when 19th Ammendment was passed, Stupidly giving Women the power of the Vote. This is why women VOTED all the Anti-men Divorce Rape (and other) laws, PUNISHING MEN! Feminism major reason the replacement birth rate near Zero in Feminist Westernized Countries now, including Japan, who has Herbrivore men!
women: immediately eligible to vote at age 18 men: cannot vote until registered with the draft, and if he so refuses to register gets five years in prison, a $250,000 fine, and locked out for student financial aid, federal job training, and any federal job.
I realized there was a problem when I opened a door for a girl I liked and she told me she was perfectly capable of opening it herself. Needless to say, I don't talk to her anymore!
Must be the girls where your at, I always leave and enter the classroom last, open the doors, give up my seat, get a seat if there is none available for any girl. Not for them, but because I like being the guy who's different and if they complain, which they don't, they say I shouldn't wait for them, but I don't, if you just let it slide and just do what you want, they will eventually accept it. That's how you get all girls sliding into your DM's lol, just be that guy who does whatever the fuck he wants, just make sure it's not stupid shit, hold that door open for everyone, it would make that girl feel less special, it just shows her and everyone that your a fkn gentleman.
+Daniel Engle similar thing happened to me, she was behind me and i opened the door and held it up for her, she complained for some reason and said she could open the door by herself and i was being a misogynist (she was right behind me so it was no effort on my behalf to hold the door open for half a sec longer so it didnt slam in her face), what i did next made her hate me so much she spread rumors all over school, i closed the door before she got in and locked it, then left, we were the only ones there so she didnt get in until she had called a friend to unlock the door for her. it was hilarious.
+Daniel Engle Haha I open the door for another buff guy at the gym, doesnt mean I think he is weak, but its nice. not to get the door shut in your face.
+aabbccddeeffgg1234 Obviously, the woman overreacted or already had a chip on her shoulder or is just immature or all three. Maybe she has a mother who taught her to be like this. My parents taught me common courtesy. I wouldn't dare let my mother see me not holding the door for anyone, man or woman. Another thing, there seems to be a bigger divide between women than between women and men. So, if feminism is such a great thing, why aren't all women jumping on the bandwagon as a forceful movement. Women outnumber men in this country and could easily legislate their destiny. Just my 2 cents.
Amber Hicks Is a Cum Burp I'm sorry but what you need to understand is that screaming about inequality on the Internet won't change much. Involve yourself with politics, if you truly do care.
+Thelittle Dane you mean 'all feminists'. I'm not a feminist, yet every date I've been on I've paid for myself and sometimes for the man too. Women aren't all bloodsucking bitches, just the feminists. :)
Blocky Orbits Thanks. All of her dumb feminist friends said that I am a typical male and that it´s because of people like me that they are oppressed. xD
Feminists aren't saying a guy shouldn't be chivalrous, we are saying he shouldn't have to unless he wants to, and a guy shouldn't be expected to be something he is not just to appease gender stereotypes.
+lois o He was *offering*, simply trying to be courteous. Hell, I still open doors for women, not because I have to, but because I want to. But I guess even courtesy is sexist now...
That's equality guys. If I take my friends out to lunch they pay for themselves. If I drive them anywhere they owe gas money vise versa. If a woman wants perfect equality that favors nobody this video is an exact representation of how it should work.
+Daniel Neo Typical white boy from US shit. We slavic people treat our friends like family. PAY FOR GAS MONEY, HAHAHHAHAH. What a fucking loser. Do you expect your friends to back you up in a fight when you can't even dish out a couple of dollars or whatever currency you have.
+Nick Skarvig Yep, I like Twilight, I'm admitting it. I like a lot of movies though. So it's not like an obsession like it is for 12 year old girls and shit, but hey, they were fairly entertaining. They are very feminine in nature as is 50 Shades of Gray and The Hunger Games. I think 50 Shades degrades women, really, as do many sex novels, but Twilight and the Hunger Games, I do like. I like the Hunger Games way more. I am a big fan. I'm a guy.
BW I think that 50 shades of grey is an expression of women wanting to feel like they can lose control in (ironically) an environment where they know they can't be hurt. Most dime store romance novels include a male character that is a little bit dangerous, very handsome, and has some fairly high status (duke, ceo, politician, etc... ok maybe not politician). They sell so well because they appeal to base instincts for mate selection fantasies. So in that sense, they don't degrade women, they instead indulge them. Not a big step up, but a distinction I think worth making. I like the hunger games movies, but I can't stand katness' (worst name ever) personality most of the time. Now that I think about it, I don't like most of the characters. I just like action movies, and it has some nice brutal moments.
MGTOW is here to stay ladies... we could never go back to how things were. I guess men should really thank feminists for making us realize just how great it is to not have all the responsibilities men used to be saddled with.
***** Honestly, I personally believe that if you are truly in love with a woman, you don't care about these responsibilities, but rather that you want to do them for her because you love her. Again, my stance
Eric Nelson "....if you are truly in love with a woman..."...One slight little problem here ...And at long last men are clicking on to this ...Woman are incapable of Love...All what a real woman can see in a man as a potential partner is this ".....What can he do for me .... "
john neemstra You may think this because you may have had a bad experience with a woman, and I get that, I've had it too, but it clicks when you find the right one
Eric Nelson Of course there are good women out there.. the whole point is that they are now so few and far between in modern Western society that the chase/search for a relationship is no longer worthwhile. I still enjoy a little chase but only low-stakes chases to keep my dick wet now and then. Long-term relationships? MARRIAGE??? HELLLLLLLLLL NO, i'd rather not learn from my mistakes. I learn from the mistakes of men blinded by your fairy tale!!!
No, the difference is that the prostitue is honest of what she's about. Dating is gold digging for females. This is their way to find a guy with money, or has a reasonable income to accommodate her buying useless stuff. This is why females seek out guys with flashy stuff and cars. It's always about what the man can do for her. Which is why most western females aren't worth having a relationship with anymore.
Judging from these comments, it seems many aren't understanding the point of this video. This video isn't to show that feminists want a date like this, nor to show what an "A" this guy is. No, the point of this video is to show what the world will be like once women have absolute equality. Personally, I don't mind it. I support absolute equality between the sexes, 100%. No, if you want me to pay for everything, but then want to be treated equally afterwards, it's not going to work out. I don't like double-standards. One word in my book describes people who use it: hypocrites. Lastly, what's so "A" about the way the guy is treating the woman? Isn't that what equality is? being able to pay for ones own things, not relying on the other, taking responsibility for out own things/actions?
Indeed. And by the way, treating another person for a meal/coffee/movie/concert does not mean that both aren't equal. I happily treat my friends and even people I do not know.
it's funny that most of the comments show that they did not understand that the video was a play on role reversal. that asshole dude was acting like most women on dates. and yes it was over the top, that would be the comedy parts.......... laugh now
Kevin Klika his is what a date would be like if men treated women with absolute equality....???????wtf how could you not get that it means if men treated women the way they treated men this is how it would be.. have you ever dated a women son?
if it was role reversal , wouldnt it have been her choosing a venue , paying for the evening and picking the man up , but first having to wait for a really long time and worry about missing reservations as the man got ready.
Dan Ratte I think we're talking about the reversal of his own role as a man on a traditional date. Where the man is expected to pick her up, pay for the date, drop her off home... etc.
I want women to able to experience what it's like to be shut down after asking someone out. Women never experience that shit, they're always the ones that get to decide.
***** I think I do, moron. Hahaha, great point by the other person. You weren't rejected because you're female you were rejected because you're a moron.
I wouldn't title this "A feminist's dream date". And this is why, feminism's goal is to acquire priviliges and entitlements to women without getting rid of all the double standards i.e. keeping the age old institutions of "chivalry". So in this video here, a standard feminist would expect the guy to do everything even though the woman has every means to pull her own weight in this society.
Feminists say they want equality but when they watch this video they realise that they really dont want that. Thats why it's called a feminists dream date. It's supposed to make them realise thats not really what they want.
I see. Well I happen to think that many feminists know of their illogical demands and simply cherry pick which parts of "equality" they'll fight for and which parts they'll simply ignore such as you see in this video. I think they're very conscious of the egregious double standards they demand but they just don't care, they want female privilege and supremacy in this society so that's where my frMe of mind was. Now maybe a more brainwashed victim of the feminist rhetoric might see this and change his or her mind a bit, so I can see the point of view that you mean and the uploaded of this title.
Absolutely 100% untrue of every feminist I've ever met, which is a lot. I think maybe you should try meeting a few more feminists. Maybe have a conversation with them.
The disturbing thing about this whole video is lesson that women are unable to take care of themselves, and still need a man to care for them all while still demanding to be given the same things as men. The real Feminist fantasy date is "Hey, I'll meet you there! Ok!" They bond, have fun, enjoy the movie, pay for their own food and drive themselves home, without the woman expecting the man to do all of that for her. If they want to go in the same car, why doesn't she drive in her car? Maybe even a "Hey I'll get dinner, if you get the tickets?" Or "Hey it's cool, I got this." And she pays for it all. Why can't she be the high earner in the fictional scenario?
+Neala Ernswa I think it's more the idea that women EXPECT to be taken care of. Not that they are incapable of taking care of themselves. Women are more than capable of looking after themselves, no one really thinks they aren't
+MichaelLeroi I didn't drive for a long time and I never assumed I had a ride so I'd agree to meet my date at the location or invite him over for dinner and a movie or something. I always paid for myself, and so do most of the women I'm friends with. this is a mockery of what the feminist dream date is. A woman and a man meet up for a meal, the woman pays for herself, the man himself, and they enjoy one another's company without either person thinking the other owes them anything. (rides, paying for dinner, sex, ect.)
+Neala Ernswa well that doesnt normally happen in the dato-sphere This is a Monkey's Paw style jab at what generally female in our society expect on a date versus if men acted in a manner consistent with what feminists say.
Well I have met feminists that actually did want dates like this where they pay for themselves etc. It didn't work out though because I was feeling like I couldn't touch them or get close to them until they write me a permission.
You know... This is actually a good idea. How about once a year, men treat women exactly like this! Remind them that us men... we aren't that bad. And that if our girlfriends/ wives were treated like this, they wouldn't like it! Personally, I've never left a date go home alone. Most of the times I pick her up and I always drive her home, or at the least escort her. And what I do won't change.
well if all guys are nice it would ruin the market my friends sometimes girls need to know that they should act like a lady in a certain way to warrant a gentleman you cant have gentleman going with a whore its tag team thing
+ArtemisJami3 Seriously. She somehow also rode the bus for free, doesn't have a car yet was surprised by the bus schedules. Also, egt WOULDN'T you ride together, even if you both have cars? Isn't the point of a date to spend tone together? Also, the "do dishes for supper"trope is not something that really happens: it's a legal issue and why would you want someone reluctant doing your dishes? Feminists EXPECT to pay their own way, or a deal like "I'll buy dinner if you pay for the movie and popcorn." Plus, the Ferraro quote at the end came true. It was regarding how a second Reagan terms would affect the gains for women's rights. We still have two SCOTUS Justices from that, one nominated by Reagan and one by his VP.
Kevin Klein I guess I just don't date this way. I never assume I'll be paid for --I do know men who are uncomfortable with women paying, and a fair number who will fight to take the check when out to dinner in a group, whereas most of the women I know split it fairly evenly). I've never been with anyone who forgot their wallet, but I have been with someone who didn't realize a place only takes cash, or doesn't take Discover or whatever, and I'm willing to cover. As for me being "triggered," how so? It means having a bad reaction from a past memory, or reacting to something in an old way . Saying hear "This seems unrealistic" or "here's what I've experienced in the real world" hardly seems like a freakout reaction. Re: feminism vs. egalitarianism: Feminism does focus on women's issues, because historically and systemically, in most cases, men are considered the default. However, feminism also helps men overcome toxic stereotypes that are harmful; men can't show feelings except anger,, men are incompetent at taking care of themselves and others, men must be the breadwinners. On this very thread video is a commenter swearing that men never want relationships and that feminists are keeping prostitution illegal. That's an extreme case, but it's been fed by some very toxic and very common ideas.
Haha. If people don't see why this would be a feminist's dream date then they clearly aren't living in this reality. Especially, if you compile what popular online feminists are saying that they want.
ah poor feminists thinking this is misogyny or not a feminist dream date, if you truly believed in equality this is what it would look like, doing everything for urself just like guys do= equality!
how am I an idiot? Are the things he's doing selfish? Most likely, does that mean what he is doing is misogynistic though? Fuck no! Lets say the roles are reversed, would we be saying that the girl hates guys? No? Selfish? maybe maybe not, depending on who you asked, then how the hell can you say its misogyny when it isn't reversed? Again this is showing the true equality, not some feminist equality, true equality of the sex's
1) Not all feminists are women 2) Feminist does not equal gay/lesbian/any sexuality 3) There's nothing wrong with being lesbian 4) You should probably find out what feminism is before you start to say rude things about them. Quick way of explaining it: it means a lot of things for different people (as with every movement), but feminists want gender equality.
No woman should ever treat a man the way that man treated the woman in the video, and no man should ever treat a woman the way the guy in this video did. That has nothing to do with feminism, or 'equality'. It's just courtesy. However, I agree with the video that men should not have to pay for a woman's meal or transport. Women who think this are entitled, but often they aren't even feminists.
Haha... I have a buddy whose wife always complained about how her life/ relationship wasn't fair (she worked and then had her duties at the home) and she was a borderline feminist. He got sick of it and created a program that split EVERYTHING down the middle 50/50. Her life became harder and when he could afford holiday vacations and she couldn't... she didn't get to go (wasn't his problem she didn't make a bigger paycheck), when she wanted help with her chores... he didn't help her, split the dinner bill, cooked and cleaned their own meals, laundry... so I mean everything. Half a year later, she begged him to go back to the old ways(been begging for a while actually) where her life was better... he never did because his life was better with a guilt free conscience (it was fair) (which I though was overboard and cruel... I though he just wanted to make a quick point). They got a divorce later (for a few more reasons than this obviously). Goes to show how some women have no fucking idea what true and fair equality is. Just be a woman and accept it ladies. P.S. She got the most in the divorce... he still leads a richer and happier life than she currently does... all because she wouldn't stop whining about shit she had a false perception about.
Well, I was opposed to feminism for many years, but I see the benefits of feminism now. As a newly converted extreme feminist male, I'm going to save a ton of money.
I'd rather nobody got drafted and there were no wars but, since this isn't a perfect world, yes. Yes, women should be drafted right along side men. Equal power. Equal responsibility. Are you worried we're going to run out of women or something?
bestpsychosean hasnolastname What planet are you talking about? Even the USA has a draft program that they will pull out in case of emergency. It's called the Select Service System.
Yep and yep and yep. This is my point when arguing with fems. We all agree abuse and rape is wrong. its the day to day everything's that prove this is a women ruled world.
At work I see these 60+ year old women doing dishes, cooking and moping the floors at these low paying jobs. I asked one "How's that feminism working out for you"? She looked at me disgusted "Don't talk to me about that shit".
All that's missing is he goes up to her room and has sex with her quite willingly, then the day after he decides it was a bad idea so he tells their college she raped him. She gets called a rapist, thrown out of school, and her life ruined.
I used to pay for a lot of the dates I went on with my gf. After she got a job, we started paying for our own things. It sets a foundation for respecting each other and ourselves. Of course she doesn't have her wallet on her sometimes; and vise verse. It's not like you have to be a complete dick in these situations to be equal. He could have covered her this time and asked her to pay for the next date. I will say that if she (the girl in the video) just assumed he would pay for everything on the first date without even asking; she's at fault.
Exactly, and even when friends drive each other it's considered normal to drop off or pick up your friend if you are the one with the car and the other person doesn't have a car (maybe they are poor). Most people don't expect others to chip in on gas unless they are hugely out of the way, and in the video the girl did not live out of the way. The video was funny but the problem came down to expectations; I got the impression the girl had a fun time and she wouldn't have minded the guy's requests if he had been more up front as to his expectations for who would pay.
Clara Bara Your right he should have payed. He didn't tell her right at the beginning of the date his expectations of said date. I just pay anyway, I mean I pay for my dogs food. How is this different?
JerkMcGurt You are being sarcastic, right? If yes, it was funny. If not, a dog isnt capable of earning money and a woman shouldnt be treated like a kid or a dog.
No, equality not take backseat to courtesy!!! If man must drive automobile, woman must drive automobile... If woman not drive automobile, woman walk!!!!
***** Lol no, I'm not saying they can't. But what about: ~if a woman drives & her man doesn't, is it ok to offer him a lift? ~if a man drives & his woman doesn't, is it ok to offer her a lift?
***** Well, it's okay to offer a free ride.... But if you're a feminist, it's just not okay to expect a free ride. Most males don't just offer to drive other males to places they want to go, they expect other males to handle their own business. If someone's a feminists, why should they expect to have it any better? Feminism isn't the belief that females deserve better than males, is it? No, feminism in it's purest definition isn't about being nice or courteous, it's a doctrine, a theory, a system, a practice, it's about believing in equality for males and females (females and males). If I were a true feminist, I would stop taking so many damn things for granted. Much would be lost, males would treat females as coarsely as they do other males, but it's all for equality. The male of today does not always have it easy, but I question how well feminists understand that. If females want equal treatment, they'll need to bloody their knuckles and walk down those dark alleyways alone every once in a while. That's not asking too much, it's just feminism.
wow iv been doing the dateing wrong for so long ,picking her up at her house treating her to dinner and a movie then dropping her home i feel like a loser.never again
I once went on a date with a girl and I told her before hand how I didn't have much money at the moment so I'd only be able to pay for myself, which she seemed okay with. When the bill came she got really quiet and when I pulled out the money for my meal she said, "Oh.. Did you want me to pay for mine?.." After sitting in an awkward silence for a minute or so I just shoveled the rest of my money out of my wallet to avoid anymore bullshit. This is kinda like the Rape Fraud thing. If men should be considered rapists for lying to get into your pants, then women should be charged as prostitutes for pulling shit like this.
+Jonathan Jones So, wait, what? :D You tell her that you're going to pay for yourself and then she's surprised that you're paying for yourself. :D You're a moron, you are a real moron. You should've just payed for yourself only and left her with her half. She obviously wouldn't and doesn't care if you are able to pay for her, why should you care if she can't pay for herself? Should've just left her there dude, pay your share and be done with it and her.
+Jonathan Jones So did it work out with that girlJonathan??? This is the trap we guys all face. Pay and get left eventually and feel ripped off. Or be a stingy jerk, keep your money and lose the girl. If a girl actually offered & paid the bill on our 1st date, I'd be so impressed that I'd probably keep paying for every date after that. Hasn't happened yet though....
Prince Davis Only in america I guess. :D In my country we just hang out with each other and that way get to know one n other. About 2weeks (give or take) of hanging out and getting to know each other's hopes, dreams and interests then we move on to dating. Even when you start dating the woman pays for her share, don't even have to ask or hint on it. It's just common sense. Later on when it's gotten more serious then we pay for each other when we feel like it or we know that our spouse has no money or not enough of it or barely enough to sustein themselves. I don't understand why in america it's customary to take a woman to dinner on your first date and pay for her. It just gives the woman a free meal if the woman decides that she's not really interested in the man. It has also started a group of women who just dine and dash. From the start they're not interested in the man and so they just go on 1 or 2 dates with a man and then look for their next mark. The majority of our relationships last either forever or for a very long time. Depending on what happens down the road.
This is ridiculous, im a feminist, happy to split a bill pay for myself and my friends and lovers. Being a feminist doesn't rob you of generosity, and generosity is something pleasureable to both give and receive.
Well it is an extremity of a date as the result of "equality" to show a point. Feminist seem to not want defined roles of the male and the female. Normally, etiquette says the man provides the transportation and pays for the first date. He essentially treats the woman as a princess, opens doors for her, takes his hat off in her presence, stands when she approaches, you know, all that respectful princess treatment. Feminist seemed to want full equalilty, but many wanted to keep the benefits of just being a woman in a man's presence and be made to feel special, traditional romance, which was ok with us men in general, but feminist wanted "equality." Now, they are complaining (again) because they got more than what they bargained for. By the way, you mentioned "generosity." So you shouldn't mind generously paying for the man in full on a date.
inquizative44 Jesus, what sort of dates do you go on? I can only assume you go out with upper-middle class bitches, who are basically gold diggers that expect men to pamper their privileged asses for the rest of their lives, like Daddy did. I've never seen a feminist argue that men should open the door for them. You seem to be confusing different types of women.
Bewildered Ape No, I am making a point of this clip. How the woman assumed that he was going to pick her up, and pay for the date. However, he exemplified equality and how women will not get the traditional princess treatment as a feminist. I don't date feminist but I also don't mind showing a woman a nice time. Again, I think you missed the point of the clip.
A feminist dream date would probably be a regular nice date, but they would split the bill, maybe she'd drive him home once and he'd do it the next time, etc.
+BearWindAppleyard Idk, she wholeheartedly accepted the responsibilities that were hers and never complained. I think shes pretty used to it, but thought "hey, whats the trouble with asking?"
Best video on feminism that I've ever seen. Just imagine the woman is a guy and its just two dudes going out. None of this would seem strange. Guys aren't expected to pick up the tab for their buddies, drive when they go out or make all the decisions. Perfect.
Can you imagine a feminist during a War. Women can do anything that a Man can do. Then when its time to fight on the front line. Oh no i cannot fight I am just a girl.
Love the way her eyes went wide at the 1:00 minute mark when he apprised her of the availability of public transportation. I remember when it was entirely expected of me to take a train, a subway, and a bus to pick up a prospective first date at her place in Brooklyn. Great vid.
On the same level as Pharaoh, her face is genetically pleasing. She can obviously attribute to making a son with a chisled jawline (key physical characteristic that leads to a leadership attribute). Her ass is excellent, round but not to round, and the cheek seems to be the size where you can bite into. Her gape (in between her legs) has an excellent shaped diamond. Diamond gapes reflect the shape of a vagina. It basically relates to one of those vaginas without those loose bits hanging. IF they did, it would be noticeable in the shape of her gape. Prove me wrong
Well funny when you think about it but I don't think this is accurate... I mean I am pretty sure if you didn't have a car and the girl you were going out with had one they would pick you up. Also I am sure that the girl would pay for you just as much as men would pay for them. What I mean for example is that I have a friend who is a girl and I am certain if I didn't have enough money to pay for a meal that they would pay for it, its called sharing and caring and yes men show it to women quite a lot but women show it to men just as much in the same ways? Although there does seem to be rules in society about what men are expected to do there are also rules for women and if you care about the person in the first place then these rules shouldn't bother you...
The problem isnt paying if the partner forgot their money. Many women dont expect to have to pay since they think thats the mans job. So they, like in this case, dont even take money with them.
TheFrostsabre It's something I was raised with, so it might be. However, most(not all), of the women I dated, were willing to pay half. I also knew quite a few guys who made the woman pay for all of it. Typically, I try to pick up the bill, only because I feel I'm the one who invited them out, not the other way around. As of my girlfriend, I drive her a bit mad with how often I refused to let her pay, lol.
This girl was gonna go on a date with me. We set the date and time, But when I told her I didn't have a car she disappeared and stopped responding. And I offered to meet in her area so that she wouldn't have to pick me up.Then another girl did the same thing. So sometimes they do mind picking you up.
roman6602 Sounds to me like you were lucky they left you, cause they sounded like bitches dude you were better off without them. If they're snobby bitches about you not having a car they will probably be the same about a whole bunch of other stuff too
This is a perfect example of someone completely misunderstanding feminism. This woman is clearly not a feminist, she wasn't prepared to pay for her half of the meal or get herself there. As for the man in this sketch, he was just being rude. I would expect anyone, of any gender to offer to drive their date (again of any gender) home.
No. Feminists want "equality"(which they already have). Men have been shot down for all of the things the woman does in the video - so if they want to be treated "fairly", they have to do things the way men have to do them currently. It's only fair, right?
He does everything for her like paying the meal, treating her well, beginning the all the god damn conversations, transportating her, wtf more wants her from him!!!???? All of that shit just to kill a demon whom is inside his pants
Very funn! Ofcourse I don't agree with behaving such a manner. But then I don't believe in "gender equality" either. But if you insist on somethign then bear the consequences.
i took this chick on date. The bill came and i said im not paying yours. hers 86 dollars. mine 37....so i said you pay mine i pay yours. she refused and left....so i said she is not paying hers heres the money for mine. they called the cops. she ended up calling me an asshole. oh btw she asked me to go on the date that she had planned. ha
funny how feminist fight so passionately about equality and when you get to dinner of war or anything that is disadvantageous to be equal suddenly they aren't satisfied that how i treat my bros we met up pay for our shit and that all i don't expect to fuck them and stuff and i dont expect them to owe me anything that equal right there dont like it to late should have never fight for equal rights
The people commenting how ridiculous this is are probably the same ones guilty of treating their man like this. ;) After all, why have equality when you can use your stereotype as a crutch and manipulate everyone around you with it. :D
This was nicely done. From the initial "What! You haven't decided what we're going to do this evening?" through to the expectation for a free taxi service, free meal (she didn't even bother to take money) and presumably free cinema ticket. There was a little role-reversal in it, because she kept going. A real woman would have probably bailed when she discovered he wasn't going to taxi her round free for the night. She'd certainly have bailed when he didn't pay for her meal. Women are entitled to be treated with Equality+: All the rights a man has, plus chivalry to make life nicer for them.
You people missed the point. This is exactly how women treat men.
This doesn't apply to all women by the way, just the huge majority..
Women:
1. expect men to pay for their meal
2. expect men to chaperone them around
3. never let a guy express his opinion and frequently talk over guys.
4. always rely on a man to make plans
5. refuse to let a guy cuddle or share their snacks at the movies
6. always get their preference of movie to watch while the guy has to grin and bear it
The fact you people are calling the guy in the video an asshole is exactly the reaction the sketch hoped to receive.
It also proves how narrow sighted and blinkered you all still are despite the fact times have changed.
THAT is what this video is trying to explain, if you were with a friend it would be very different, but men have to deal with this every time they take a woman on a date. How is that equality?
Women expect men to do everything for them.
Mark Jackson
Women:
1. expect men to pay for their meal
Not feminists
2. expect men to chaperone them around
Not feminists
3. never let a guy express his opinion and frequently talk over guys.
Bullshit. Again and again studies prove that MEN talk over WOMEN, in work and social situations. Women are now learning to say "Excuse me, please don't interrupt" or "I just said that" and are called bitches for it.
4. always rely on a man to make plans
Read what YOU wrote for #6
5. refuse to let a guy cuddle or share their snacks at the movies
Seriously? Who the hell do YOU date? Or maybe it's just your offputting attitude. I'm not feeling the urge to share my popcorn or cuddle with you myself.
6. always get their preference of movie to watch while the guy has to grin and bear it
So, the man has to make plans, but women get to choose movies. Uh-huh.
This explains why chick-flicks are ALWAYS #1 at the box office and action-packed blockbusters that hardly even have female characters do so badly. For example, last Friday's top movies were lead by the super girly Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles at #1, followed by Guardians of the Galaxy which has a WHOLE female lead in it, after which is Into the Storm, about that most feminine of activities, storm-chasing. Then there's the Hundred Foot Journey, which made it to #4 even though chicks HATE movies about romance and talking, followed by Lucy, which has a female lead character, so it's TOTES a chick-flick, even though pretty much everyone else in the movie is male and make all Lucy's decisions for her.
Actually, seriously, movies with actual strong female characters, movies that pass the Bechdel test, have actually been doing well at the box office, but moviemakers are STILL refusing to make them, despite the fact that stuff like TMNT tanks after the first weekend. Lines like "The Fault in Our Stars" would have done badly if it weren't for teenaged girls doesn't take into account that girl money spends just like everyone else's!
*****
WHO THE FUCK BUYS CLOTHES FOR A WOMAN HE'S NOT *REALLY* SERIOUSLY DATING (Guys I've LIVED WITH and the one I MARRIED bought me clothes, but I bought them clothes more often! Other boyfriends, if it wasn't a gifting occasion, maybe the occasional book a record album, but I'd also buy them that kind of thing. I'd think it was weird if a man bought me shoes if we weren't married or damn close)?
Most women are still basically "still very sweet" even if they DO give a shit about feminism. The women you describe om the first paragraph, who expect to be taken care of, none of that has feminist principles behind it. That Veronica Lodge (from Archie comics) B.S. isn't cute and it sure isn't feminist.
good post i also love seeing lisabeth rage on every comment
You think that's rage? You must be quite the fragile little bit of sheltered Meathead.
How to make your gf mad:
1.Talk too much
2. Talk too little
3. Not being emotional
4. Being too emotional
5. Lying
6. Being honest
7. Breathing
How to make your bf mad
1. Don't play video games
2. Be a woman
Saphir43
Then your bf is gay, he wants a man
Saphir43
At least you know that if you play videogames you are doing it right.
being wrong only if you do something and being right if you don't do it... It's 1000 times easier than being always wrong whatever you do.
You play videogames?
No?
Ok, excuse me for a second.... NEEEEEEXT CANDIDAAAAAATE!!!
Ok... ehm, i'm afraid you have to leave that chair.
Saphir43 By "be a woman" you mean drama, complaining, anger, talking at him for hours about nothing, jealousy, nastiness, locking him away from his friends, forcing him to go shopping for sofa pillows and curtains every single Sunday for the rest of his life?
***** You would NEVER do any of those things. In fact, no girl would ever do any of those things.
Nevertheless, somehow, every man in a relationship with one of those creatures goes through them every single day of his life.
Feminism: Strong, capable, and independent...until things get a little tough.
She did not look too independent if she didn't even bring her wallet with her... not responsible.
Haha
Phil H - Been going on since 1920, when 19th Ammendment was passed, Stupidly giving Women the power of the Vote.
This is why women VOTED all the Anti-men Divorce Rape (and other) laws, PUNISHING MEN!
Feminism major reason the replacement birth rate near Zero in Feminist Westernized Countries now, including Japan, who has Herbrivore men!
Phil H - Rossie The Riveter was a fabricated myth, and Propaganda by our Government to (falsely) Tell Axis, women could do everything our men could!
Dave Chappelle "Ladies, you're right. Chivalry is dead, and women killed it."
women: immediately eligible to vote at age 18
men: cannot vote until registered with the draft, and if he so refuses to register gets five years in prison, a $250,000 fine, and locked out for student financial aid, federal job training, and any federal job.
Don't forget, we will mostly die like the Titanic documented oh so well...what a horror film.
Fuck... I haven't registered yet.
***** No the selective service is in America... go to www.sss.gov and see for yourself
Wow, a smart one.
***** did you look at the website?? have you read the law??
She went to the restaurant without her wallet...
Lorenzo Benito on purpose, so she get the excuse to get paid for.
That's what they do !!!!
She got on the bus without it
@@lhoyt2886 they didn't think that through did they. Or does she have a prepaid bus pass?
@@Hambone3773 here, if you bring $5 you can ride for 24 hrs. so just bring a fiverr
I realized there was a problem when I opened a door for a girl I liked and she told me she was perfectly capable of opening it herself. Needless to say, I don't talk to her anymore!
Must be the girls where your at, I always leave and enter the classroom last, open the doors, give up my seat, get a seat if there is none available for any girl. Not for them, but because I like being the guy who's different and if they complain, which they don't, they say I shouldn't wait for them, but I don't, if you just let it slide and just do what you want, they will eventually accept it. That's how you get all girls sliding into your DM's lol, just be that guy who does whatever the fuck he wants, just make sure it's not stupid shit, hold that door open for everyone, it would make that girl feel less special, it just shows her and everyone that your a fkn gentleman.
+Daniel Engle similar thing happened to me, she was behind me and i opened the door and held it up for her, she complained for some reason and said she could open the door by herself and i was being a misogynist (she was right behind me so it was no effort on my behalf to hold the door open for half a sec longer so it didnt slam in her face), what i did next made her hate me so much she spread rumors all over school, i closed the door before she got in and locked it, then left, we were the only ones there so she didnt get in until she had called a friend to unlock the door for her. it was hilarious.
+Daniel Engle Haha I open the door for another buff guy at the gym, doesnt mean I think he is weak, but its nice. not to get the door shut in your face.
+aabbccddeeffgg1234 Obviously, the woman overreacted or already had a chip on her shoulder or is just immature or all three. Maybe she has a mother who taught her to be like this. My parents taught me common courtesy. I wouldn't dare let my mother see me not holding the door for anyone, man or woman. Another thing, there seems to be a bigger divide between women than between women and men. So, if feminism is such a great thing, why aren't all women jumping on the bandwagon as a forceful movement. Women outnumber men in this country and could easily legislate their destiny. Just my 2 cents.
Well, hell, I'm going to thank you for her. Thank you for being sweet and opening the door.
I fucking love this so much LOLOLOLOLOL so fucking true.
Women take for granted all the nice shit we do for them.
Amber Hicks Is a Cum Burp
How...?
MsKittyGoesMeowMeow two words: double standards
Chimpman11871 yes blame it on these double standards. What help you sleep at night.
Amber Hicks Is a Cum Burp I'm sorry but what you need to understand is that screaming about inequality on the Internet won't change much. Involve yourself with politics, if you truly do care.
yes cause im screaming about inequality .
What ? lol
1148 women want to have their cake and eat it too.
+kaikou1098 Fat bitches!
+kaikou1098 This video says to all women: Right back at ya bitch !!!!
+Thelittle Dane you mean 'all feminists'. I'm not a feminist, yet every date I've been on I've paid for myself and sometimes for the man too. Women aren't all bloodsucking bitches, just the feminists. :)
+bug k absolutely. you are the jem's.
+kaikou1098 *1190
I dated a Feminist once, I offered to pick her up to our date and she said "I could get there on my own." I cancelled the date and we broke up.
+Frost - CS:GO Great job!
Blocky Orbits Thanks. All of her dumb feminist friends said that I am a typical male and that it´s because of people like me that they are oppressed. xD
Feminists aren't saying a guy shouldn't be chivalrous, we are saying he shouldn't have to unless he wants to, and a guy shouldn't be expected to be something he is not just to appease gender stereotypes.
+lois o
He was *offering*, simply trying to be courteous. Hell, I still open doors for women, not because I have to, but because I want to. But I guess even courtesy is sexist now...
+lois o No, that's not what Feminists' are saying.
That's equality guys.
If I take my friends out to lunch they pay for themselves.
If I drive them anywhere they owe gas money vise versa.
If a woman wants perfect equality that favors nobody this video is an exact representation of how it should work.
+Daniel Neo Typical white boy from US shit. We slavic people treat our friends like family. PAY FOR GAS MONEY, HAHAHHAHAH. What a fucking loser. Do you expect your friends to back you up in a fight when you can't even dish out a couple of dollars or whatever currency you have.
dude what the fuck are you saying?
+Rollo Q So, your friends are mercenaries :D
Rollo Q
Well, I'm pretty poor so yeah I care about small money.
Agreed
Still a better love story than Twilight.
+Phaosphoros :) True.
+Phaosphoros
Those movies aren't so bad if you tune out the 2 main characters completely. Long story short, I'm a sucker for fantasy/action movies.
burn
+Nick Skarvig Yep, I like Twilight, I'm admitting it. I like a lot of movies though. So it's not like an obsession like it is for 12 year old girls and shit, but hey, they were fairly entertaining. They are very feminine in nature as is 50 Shades of Gray and The Hunger Games. I think 50 Shades degrades women, really, as do many sex novels, but Twilight and the Hunger Games, I do like. I like the Hunger Games way more. I am a big fan. I'm a guy.
BW
I think that 50 shades of grey is an expression of women wanting to feel like they can lose control in (ironically) an environment where they know they can't be hurt. Most dime store romance novels include a male character that is a little bit dangerous, very handsome, and has some fairly high status (duke, ceo, politician, etc... ok maybe not politician). They sell so well because they appeal to base instincts for mate selection fantasies. So in that sense, they don't degrade women, they instead indulge them. Not a big step up, but a distinction I think worth making.
I like the hunger games movies, but I can't stand katness' (worst name ever) personality most of the time. Now that I think about it, I don't like most of the characters. I just like action movies, and it has some nice brutal moments.
Well you wanna be treated like how we treat other guys...there it is
Welcome to the jungle, baby. Ironically, by adopting some of the things he did actually show a lot of confidence, and do chicks like that or what.
MGTOW is here to stay ladies... we could never go back to how things were. I guess men should really thank feminists for making us realize just how great it is to not have all the responsibilities men used to be saddled with.
***** Honestly, I personally believe that if you are truly in love with a woman, you don't care about these responsibilities, but rather that you want to do them for her because you love her. Again, my stance
Eric Nelson "....if you are truly in love with a woman..."...One slight little problem here ...And at long last men are clicking on to this ...Woman are incapable of Love...All what a real woman can see in a man as a potential partner is this ".....What can he do for me .... "
john neemstra You may think this because you may have had a bad experience with a woman, and I get that, I've had it too, but it clicks when you find the right one
Eric Nelson Of course there are good women out there.. the whole point is that they are now so few and far between in modern Western society that the chase/search for a relationship is no longer worthwhile. I still enjoy a little chase but only low-stakes chases to keep my dick wet now and then. Long-term relationships? MARRIAGE??? HELLLLLLLLLL NO, i'd rather not learn from my mistakes. I learn from the mistakes of men blinded by your fairy tale!!!
Eric Nelson The thing is if you are a MGTOW, then you understand that women are incapable of love.
Difference between dating and prostitution is that with prostitution there is no dating.
No, the difference is that the prostitue is honest of what she's about. Dating is gold digging for females. This is their way to find a guy with money, or has a reasonable income to accommodate her buying useless stuff. This is why females seek out guys with flashy stuff and cars. It's always about what the man can do for her. Which is why most western females aren't worth having a relationship with anymore.
+John Dohe right
+Gaming With Balance dating is socially acceptable prostitution
spot on
+Gaming With Balance And you know what you're getting.
Judging from these comments, it seems many aren't understanding the point of this video.
This video isn't to show that feminists want a date like this, nor to show what an "A" this guy is. No, the point of this video is to show what the world will be like once women have absolute equality.
Personally, I don't mind it. I support absolute equality between the sexes, 100%. No, if you want me to pay for everything, but then want to be treated equally afterwards, it's not going to work out. I don't like double-standards. One word in my book describes people who use it: hypocrites.
Lastly, what's so "A" about the way the guy is treating the woman? Isn't that what equality is? being able to pay for ones own things, not relying on the other, taking responsibility for out own things/actions?
Indeed. And by the way, treating another person for a meal/coffee/movie/concert does not mean that both aren't equal. I happily treat my friends and even people I do not know.
How does she pay for two bus rides and a movie ticket with 'no wallet' ? :O
Hahahaha bad acting I suppose
+Alistair Harris Bad writing. But very entertaining none the less.
vtshadow314 yeah
+vtshadow314 She sold her body for money.
+CyberKlown28
She's a pretty woman, use a little common sense :^)
it's funny that most of the comments show that they did not understand that the video was a play on role reversal. that asshole dude was acting like most women on dates. and yes it was over the top, that would be the comedy parts.......... laugh now
Kevin Klika his is what a date would be like if men treated women with absolute equality....???????wtf how could you not get that it means if men treated women the way they treated men this is how it would be.. have you ever dated a women son?
if it was role reversal , wouldnt it have been her choosing a venue , paying for the evening and picking the man up , but first having to wait for a really long time and worry about missing reservations as the man got ready.
Kevin Klika just did and your point is???
Dan Ratte
I think we're talking about the reversal of his own role as a man on a traditional date. Where the man is expected to pick her up, pay for the date, drop her off home... etc.
Steve Fenton
*Initiate sarcasm* How dare he not show her preferential treatment based on her gender/sex.
5 years old and still relevant!
7 years old now and more relevant.
It's chivalry when they like it and its sexism when they don't.
I want women to able to experience what it's like to be shut down after asking someone out. Women never experience that shit, they're always the ones that get to decide.
***** Was it before or after you fucked the guy?
Piriathy Are you going to make me, moron?
***** The shit was plain English, moron.
***** Well, you're a moron.
***** I think I do, moron. Hahaha, great point by the other person. You weren't rejected because you're female you were rejected because you're a moron.
I wouldn't title this "A feminist's dream date". And this is why, feminism's goal is to acquire priviliges and entitlements to women without getting rid of all the double standards i.e. keeping the age old institutions of "chivalry". So in this video here, a standard feminist would expect the guy to do everything even though the woman has every means to pull her own weight in this society.
Feminists say they want equality but when they watch this video they realise that they really dont want that. Thats why it's called a feminists dream date. It's supposed to make them realise thats not really what they want.
I see. Well I happen to think that many feminists know of their illogical demands and simply cherry pick which parts of "equality" they'll fight for and which parts they'll simply ignore such as you see in this video. I think they're very conscious of the egregious double standards they demand but they just don't care, they want female privilege and supremacy in this society so that's where my frMe of mind was.
Now maybe a more brainwashed victim of the feminist rhetoric might see this and change his or her mind a bit, so I can see the point of view that you mean and the uploaded of this title.
*frame
Michael Gomez No way. I hear women say all the time they want "equality".
Absolutely 100% untrue of every feminist I've ever met, which is a lot. I think maybe you should try meeting a few more feminists. Maybe have a conversation with them.
The disturbing thing about this whole video is lesson that women are unable to take care of themselves, and still need a man to care for them all while still demanding to be given the same things as men. The real Feminist fantasy date is "Hey, I'll meet you there! Ok!" They bond, have fun, enjoy the movie, pay for their own food and drive themselves home, without the woman expecting the man to do all of that for her. If they want to go in the same car, why doesn't she drive in her car? Maybe even a "Hey I'll get dinner, if you get the tickets?" Or "Hey it's cool, I got this." And she pays for it all. Why can't she be the high earner in the fictional scenario?
+Neala Ernswa I think it's more the idea that women EXPECT to be taken care of. Not that they are incapable of taking care of themselves. Women are more than capable of looking after themselves, no one really thinks they aren't
+MichaelLeroi this video clearly does. She has no car and no money when any normal adult would.
Not everyone drives. I don't. Am I not a normal adult? Women leave for dates without their wallets all the time
+MichaelLeroi I didn't drive for a long time and I never assumed I had a ride so I'd agree to meet my date at the location or invite him over for dinner and a movie or something. I always paid for myself, and so do most of the women I'm friends with. this is a mockery of what the feminist dream date is. A woman and a man meet up for a meal, the woman pays for herself, the man himself, and they enjoy one another's company without either person thinking the other owes them anything. (rides, paying for dinner, sex, ect.)
+Neala Ernswa well that doesnt normally happen in the dato-sphere
This is a Monkey's Paw style jab at what generally female in our society expect on a date versus if men acted in a manner consistent with what feminists say.
And women still think they're treated like second class citizens. Give me a break.
payz hayz MGTOW is changing all of that
Well I have met feminists that actually did want dates like this where they pay for themselves etc. It didn't work out though because I was feeling like I couldn't touch them or get close to them until they write me a permission.
i wouldn't risk it to a feminist yes means no and no means no.
Why waste your time. Women have NO IDEA what they want. Ask them, "What do you want?".
which works when you meet a good rational woman which you hopefully will
***** Rational women, rare breed.
I'd never date a feminist, oh hell no I'd rather turn gay.
You know... This is actually a good idea. How about once a year, men treat women exactly like this! Remind them that us men... we aren't that bad. And that if our girlfriends/ wives were treated like this, they wouldn't like it!
Personally, I've never left a date go home alone. Most of the times I pick her up and I always drive her home, or at the least escort her. And what I do won't change.
well if all guys are nice it would ruin the market my friends sometimes girls need to know that they should act like a lady in a certain way to warrant a gentleman you cant have gentleman going with a whore its tag team thing
If she forgot her wallet at the restaurant, how did she get into the movie theatre on her own?
She snuck in when that dude was talking on the phone with the door open
+Cash Back Because logic be damned, they have a message to send!
+ArtemisJami3
Seriously. She somehow also rode the bus for free, doesn't have a car yet was surprised by the bus schedules. Also, egt WOULDN'T you ride together, even if you both have cars? Isn't the point of a date to spend tone together?
Also, the "do dishes for supper"trope is not something that really happens: it's a legal issue and why would you want someone reluctant doing your dishes?
Feminists EXPECT to pay their own way, or a deal like "I'll buy dinner if you pay for the movie and popcorn."
Plus, the Ferraro quote at the end came true. It was regarding how a second Reagan terms would affect the gains for women's rights. We still have two SCOTUS Justices from that, one nominated by Reagan and one by his VP.
hector lopez Don't use words you don't understand, it makes you look stupid.
Kevin Klein I guess I just don't date this way. I never assume I'll be paid for --I do know men who are uncomfortable with women paying, and a fair number who will fight to take the check when out to dinner in a group, whereas most of the women I know split it fairly evenly). I've never been with anyone who forgot their wallet, but I have been with someone who didn't realize a place only takes cash, or doesn't take Discover or whatever, and I'm willing to cover.
As for me being "triggered," how so? It means having a bad reaction from a past memory, or reacting to something in an old way . Saying hear "This seems unrealistic" or "here's what I've experienced in the real world" hardly seems like a freakout reaction.
Re: feminism vs. egalitarianism: Feminism does focus on women's issues, because historically and systemically, in most cases, men are considered the default. However, feminism also helps men overcome toxic stereotypes that are harmful; men can't show feelings except anger,, men are incompetent at taking care of themselves and others, men must be the breadwinners. On this very thread video is a commenter swearing that men never want relationships and that feminists are keeping prostitution illegal. That's an extreme case, but it's been fed by some very toxic and very common ideas.
Haha. If people don't see why this would be a feminist's dream date then they clearly aren't living in this reality. Especially, if you compile what popular online feminists are saying that they want.
I wonder who are the 595 *people* who disliked this hilarious video.
A feminist dream date would end with the man being arrested for rape for giving her a goodnight kiss.
"They don't want a man. They want a fairy tale paid for by a man." A wise person once said.
ah poor feminists thinking this is misogyny or not a feminist dream date, if you truly believed in equality this is what it would look like, doing everything for urself just like guys do= equality!
1000 thumbs up to this comment. I think you've just said what many many people have been thinking.
Spot on my man!
you fucking idiot.
how am I an idiot? Are the things he's doing selfish? Most likely, does that mean what he is doing is misogynistic though? Fuck no! Lets say the roles are reversed, would we be saying that the girl hates guys? No? Selfish? maybe maybe not, depending on who you asked, then how the hell can you say its misogyny when it isn't reversed? Again this is showing the true equality, not some feminist equality, true equality of the sex's
The comments here just make this video that much more effective...
"Here's your guyses' check."
I always assumed a feminist's dream date would be another woman. Aren't they all lesbians?
Nothing against lesbians, I just don't get feminists.
1) Not all feminists are women
2) Feminist does not equal gay/lesbian/any sexuality
3) There's nothing wrong with being lesbian
4) You should probably find out what feminism is before you start to say rude things about them. Quick way of explaining it: it means a lot of things for different people (as with every movement), but feminists want gender equality.
A feminist dream's date=A traditional man's worst nightmare.
this is funny and sad at the same time
No woman should ever treat a man the way that man treated the woman in the video, and no man should ever treat a woman the way the guy in this video did. That has nothing to do with feminism, or 'equality'. It's just courtesy. However, I agree with the video that men should not have to pay for a woman's meal or transport. Women who think this are entitled, but often they aren't even feminists.
Haha... I have a buddy whose wife always complained about how her life/ relationship wasn't fair (she worked and then had her duties at the home) and she was a borderline feminist. He got sick of it and created a program that split EVERYTHING down the middle 50/50. Her life became harder and when he could afford holiday vacations and she couldn't... she didn't get to go (wasn't his problem she didn't make a bigger paycheck), when she wanted help with her chores... he didn't help her, split the dinner bill, cooked and cleaned their own meals, laundry... so I mean everything. Half a year later, she begged him to go back to the old ways(been begging for a while actually) where her life was better... he never did because his life was better with a guilt free conscience (it was fair) (which I though was overboard and cruel... I though he just wanted to make a quick point). They got a divorce later (for a few more reasons than this obviously). Goes to show how some women have no fucking idea what true and fair equality is. Just be a woman and accept it ladies. P.S. She got the most in the divorce... he still leads a richer and happier life than she currently does... all because she wouldn't stop whining about shit she had a false perception about.
"Here's your guyses check. . "
feminism does not mean that women are forced to wash dishes for their dinner and never get to have sex.
Whoever cooks, doesn't do the dishes...
***** Wrong
uh right. Split the chores. It is called being fair.
I mean we are human beings and we get tired too!
***** I don't agree with that. I like doing the dishes, even when I cook. She can vaccum the house.
Great video of EXACTLY how hypocritical woman really are they want equality but say a man is rude if would do any of this.
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It's good to let the little ladies experience some "male privilege" like this.
Why can't they just cook us food and tidy our mess like nature intended?
It's true. They act like they want to be treated like men but in the end they don't. Make up your minds
I LOVE when the guy says, "Why would I pay for you? That doesn't make any sense".
that ending tho. Savage
What is that music used from :55 to 1:05? AND FUCKING NO IT'S NOT DARUDE SADSTORM
Well I guess we can agree to disagree.
You are correct, sir. It is Darude - Sandstorm. But I will be sure to check out their song Sadstorm, it could be epic.
OmniscientWarrior I hear it's played in a minor key.
johndavies115
A minor? Sweet.
Adam Nash Darude - Sandstorm
Well, I was opposed to feminism for many years, but I see the benefits of feminism now. As a newly converted extreme feminist male, I'm going to save a ton of money.
being an extreme feminist male, is also much safer from a legal standpoint.
This video aged really well.
How did she get into the cinema if she didn't have any money?
good point =P
she snuck in while the guy was on the phone in the doorway
was thinking the same thing, feminists are criminals. hahaha
It's called 'Blowjob'
2:46
not only that, when ´men get draften for war so will women be! so the questions is DO YOU WOMEN WANT TO BE DRAFTED FOR WAR?
No one gets drafted for war
I'd rather nobody got drafted and there were no wars but, since this isn't a perfect world, yes. Yes, women should be drafted right along side men. Equal power. Equal responsibility.
Are you worried we're going to run out of women or something?
bestpsychosean hasnolastname
What planet are you talking about? Even the USA has a draft program that they will pull out in case of emergency. It's called the Select Service System.
I am in the Army and no one has been drafted since the 70s. Thats why I said no one gets drafted. Because they dont.
bestpsychosean hasnolastname that isn't the point sir the point is it can be reinstated at any time the govt. desires
Every feminist needs to see this
Yep and yep and yep. This is my point when arguing with fems. We all agree abuse and rape is wrong. its the day to day everything's that prove this is a women ruled world.
I like it. Equality as such means an end to chivalry, and therefore romance. Well done.
At work I see these 60+ year old women doing dishes, cooking and moping the floors at these low paying jobs. I asked one "How's that feminism working out for you"? She looked at me disgusted "Don't talk to me about that shit".
All that's missing is he goes up to her room and has sex with her quite willingly, then the day after he decides it was a bad idea so he tells their college she raped him. She gets called a rapist, thrown out of school, and her life ruined.
this is every date ive ever been on
That was fucking BEAUTIFUL lol
Even in an ideal feminist environment , the female still ends up washing the dishes
I used to pay for a lot of the dates I went on with my gf. After she got a job, we started paying for our own things. It sets a foundation for respecting each other and ourselves. Of course she doesn't have her wallet on her sometimes; and vise verse. It's not like you have to be a complete dick in these situations to be equal. He could have covered her this time and asked her to pay for the next date. I will say that if she (the girl in the video) just assumed he would pay for everything on the first date without even asking; she's at fault.
Exactly, and even when friends drive each other it's considered normal to drop off or pick up your friend if you are the one with the car and the other person doesn't have a car (maybe they are poor). Most people don't expect others to chip in on gas unless they are hugely out of the way, and in the video the girl did not live out of the way. The video was funny but the problem came down to expectations; I got the impression the girl had a fun time and she wouldn't have minded the guy's requests if he had been more up front as to his expectations for who would pay.
Clara Bara Your right he should have payed. He didn't tell her right at the beginning of the date his expectations of said date. I just pay anyway, I mean I pay for my dogs food. How is this different?
JerkMcGurt You are being sarcastic, right? If yes, it was funny. If not, a dog isnt capable of earning money and a woman shouldnt be treated like a kid or a dog.
I totally agree that the bill should be split, but if you have a car & the other person doesn't, it's only courtesy that you offer them a lift too xD
No, equality not take backseat to courtesy!!! If man must drive automobile, woman must drive automobile... If woman not drive automobile, woman walk!!!!
***** Sooo... if the man doesn't drive an automobile, the man should walk too?
Yes, men should. Are you saying men can't? If you are, that's sexist. Don't be sexist, you sexist!
***** Lol no, I'm not saying they can't. But what about:
~if a woman drives & her man doesn't, is it ok to offer him a lift?
~if a man drives & his woman doesn't, is it ok to offer her a lift?
***** Well, it's okay to offer a free ride....
But if you're a feminist, it's just not okay to expect a free ride.
Most males don't just offer to drive other males to places they want to go, they expect other males to handle their own business. If someone's a feminists, why should they expect to have it any better? Feminism isn't the belief that females deserve better than males, is it? No, feminism in it's purest definition isn't about being nice or courteous, it's a doctrine, a theory, a system, a practice, it's about believing in equality for males and females (females and males). If I were a true feminist, I would stop taking so many damn things for granted. Much would be lost, males would treat females as coarsely as they do other males, but it's all for equality. The male of today does not always have it easy, but I question how well feminists understand that. If females want equal treatment, they'll need to bloody their knuckles and walk down those dark alleyways alone every once in a while. That's not asking too much, it's just feminism.
Gentlemen this is what you DO NOT DO if you are going on a date with your gf.
wow iv been doing the dateing wrong for so long ,picking her up at her house treating her to dinner and a movie then dropping her home i feel like a loser.never again
I once went on a date with a girl and I told her before hand how I didn't have much money at the moment so I'd only be able to pay for myself, which she seemed okay with. When the bill came she got really quiet and when I pulled out the money for my meal she said, "Oh.. Did you want me to pay for mine?.." After sitting in an awkward silence for a minute or so I just shoveled the rest of my money out of my wallet to avoid anymore bullshit. This is kinda like the Rape Fraud thing. If men should be considered rapists for lying to get into your pants, then women should be charged as prostitutes for pulling shit like this.
+Jonathan Jones So, wait, what? :D
You tell her that you're going to pay for yourself and then she's surprised that you're paying for yourself. :D
You're a moron, you are a real moron. You should've just payed for yourself only and left her with her half. She obviously wouldn't and doesn't care if you are able to pay for her, why should you care if she can't pay for herself? Should've just left her there dude, pay your share and be done with it and her.
Jonathan Jones
Not the reason I called you a moron though. Are you still together? If not then how long after you split off?
+Jonathan Jones So did it work out with that girlJonathan??? This is the trap we guys all face. Pay and get left eventually and feel ripped off. Or be a stingy jerk, keep your money and lose the girl. If a girl actually offered & paid the bill on our 1st date, I'd be so impressed that I'd probably keep paying for every date after that. Hasn't happened yet though....
Prince Davis
Only in america I guess. :D In my country we just hang out with each other and that way get to know one n other. About 2weeks (give or take) of hanging out and getting to know each other's hopes, dreams and interests then we move on to dating. Even when you start dating the woman pays for her share, don't even have to ask or hint on it. It's just common sense. Later on when it's gotten more serious then we pay for each other when we feel like it or we know that our spouse has no money or not enough of it or barely enough to sustein themselves.
I don't understand why in america it's customary to take a woman to dinner on your first date and pay for her. It just gives the woman a free meal if the woman decides that she's not really interested in the man. It has also started a group of women who just dine and dash. From the start they're not interested in the man and so they just go on 1 or 2 dates with a man and then look for their next mark.
The majority of our relationships last either forever or for a very long time. Depending on what happens down the road.
How are there not more of these :( Great production man!
How did she pay for her movie ticket if she left her wallet at home?
its just move women use so they dont have to pay there share
She stuck in through the exit.
*bow chicka wow wow*
This is ridiculous, im a feminist, happy to split a bill pay for myself and my friends and lovers. Being a feminist doesn't rob you of generosity, and generosity is something pleasureable to both give and receive.
Shut and enjoy life instead of hating it
How does one 'shut' life? Oh you made a mistake, you must be embarrassed, I feel bad for you :)
Well it is an extremity of a date as the result of "equality" to show a point. Feminist seem to not want defined roles of the male and the female. Normally, etiquette says the man provides the transportation and pays for the first date. He essentially treats the woman as a princess, opens doors for her, takes his hat off in her presence, stands when she approaches, you know, all that respectful princess treatment. Feminist seemed to want full equalilty, but many wanted to keep the benefits of just being a woman in a man's presence and be made to feel special, traditional romance, which was ok with us men in general, but feminist wanted "equality."
Now, they are complaining (again) because they got more than what they bargained for.
By the way, you mentioned "generosity." So you shouldn't mind generously paying for the man in full on a date.
inquizative44 Jesus, what sort of dates do you go on? I can only assume you go out with upper-middle class bitches, who are basically gold diggers that expect men to pamper their privileged asses for the rest of their lives, like Daddy did.
I've never seen a feminist argue that men should open the door for them. You seem to be confusing different types of women.
Bewildered Ape No, I am making a point of this clip. How the woman assumed that he was going to pick her up, and pay for the date. However, he exemplified equality and how women will not get the traditional princess treatment as a feminist.
I don't date feminist but I also don't mind showing a woman a nice time. Again, I think you missed the point of the clip.
We should all learn from this guy.
lmao as soon as he stopped I knew he was gonna ask for gas money 😂😂💀💀
A feminist dream date would probably be a regular nice date, but they would split the bill, maybe she'd drive him home once and he'd do it the next time, etc.
Wow, so much butthurt in the comments section. Seems like everyone forgot this is a comedy channel.
Many a true word is spoken in jest~
She seems pretty surprised by how things supposedly work in their universe.
+BearWindAppleyard Idk, she wholeheartedly accepted the responsibilities that were hers and never complained. I think shes pretty used to it, but thought "hey, whats the trouble with asking?"
Best video on feminism that I've ever seen. Just imagine the woman is a guy and its just two dudes going out. None of this would seem strange. Guys aren't expected to pick up the tab for their buddies, drive when they go out or make all the decisions. Perfect.
"I forgot my wallet!" - Yes, I had one of those years ago ...
Girls in the US may be different, but here in Europe at least most girls will split the bill.
***** Haha, yes that is one person, and UK does not count, they're just an island ;)
best short film ever!!! 😂😂😂
Forgot her wallet but took the bus twice and paid for a movie ticket.
I love when they are in the movie theater, and she puts the armrest up, and he puts it back down. Awesome!
I'm a woman and I have watched this video several times LMAO! Funny $hit and true.
im a man but whenever i go online i pretend im a woman and i type that so everyone will make sure that I AM A WOMAN
lol!
Can you imagine a feminist during a War. Women can do anything that a Man can do. Then when its time to fight on the front line. Oh no i cannot fight I am just a girl.
They still even believe they should be the ones who ought to be protected first when endangered.
This is low key gold. Wish I could like it multiple times.
Love the way her eyes went wide at the 1:00 minute mark when he apprised her of the availability of public transportation. I remember when it was entirely expected of me to take a train, a subway, and a bus to pick up a prospective first date at her place in Brooklyn. Great vid.
Wow this chick is really attractive.
She's smokin' Pause on 2:12 and tell me she's not beautiful!
***** Ah there is.
No tits.
ass? What kind of ass? Big ass? You mean hips?
On the same level as Pharaoh, her face is genetically pleasing. She can obviously attribute to making a son with a chisled jawline (key physical characteristic that leads to a leadership attribute). Her ass is excellent, round but not to round, and the cheek seems to be the size where you can bite into.
Her gape (in between her legs) has an excellent shaped diamond. Diamond gapes reflect the shape of a vagina. It basically relates to one of those vaginas without those loose bits hanging. IF they did, it would be noticeable in the shape of her gape.
Prove me wrong
Awsome video!
This is dead brilliant. Should be required viewing for all feminists.
Career & Money > Dating
Well funny when you think about it but I don't think this is accurate... I mean I am pretty sure if you didn't have a car and the girl you were going out with had one they would pick you up. Also I am sure that the girl would pay for you just as much as men would pay for them. What I mean for example is that I have a friend who is a girl and I am certain if I didn't have enough money to pay for a meal that they would pay for it, its called sharing and caring and yes men show it to women quite a lot but women show it to men just as much in the same ways? Although there does seem to be rules in society about what men are expected to do there are also rules for women and if you care about the person in the first place then these rules shouldn't bother you...
The problem isnt paying if the partner forgot their money. Many women dont expect to have to pay since they think thats the mans job. So they, like in this case, dont even take money with them.
That's weird cause I have never met a girl that expects that? ...... huh maybe its an American thing do you think?
TheFrostsabre
It's something I was raised with, so it might be. However, most(not all), of the women I dated, were willing to pay half. I also knew quite a few guys who made the woman pay for all of it.
Typically, I try to pick up the bill, only because I feel I'm the one who invited them out, not the other way around.
As of my girlfriend, I drive her a bit mad with how often I refused to let her pay, lol.
This girl was gonna go on a date with me. We set the date and time, But when I told her I didn't have a car she disappeared and stopped responding. And I offered to meet in her area so that she wouldn't have to pick me up.Then another girl did the same thing. So sometimes they do mind picking you up.
roman6602 Sounds to me like you were lucky they left you, cause they sounded like bitches dude you were better off without them. If they're snobby bitches about you not having a car they will probably be the same about a whole bunch of other stuff too
Doing exactly THIS tonight, SUCK IT Gloria Steinem followers!
This is truly funny and brilliant video.
This is a perfect example of someone completely misunderstanding feminism. This woman is clearly not a feminist, she wasn't prepared to pay for her half of the meal or get herself there. As for the man in this sketch, he was just being rude. I would expect anyone, of any gender to offer to drive their date (again of any gender) home.
"What it's like to date an asshole"
No. Feminists want "equality"(which they already have). Men have been shot down for all of the things the woman does in the video - so if they want to be treated "fairly", they have to do things the way men have to do them currently. It's only fair, right?
He does everything for her like paying the meal, treating her well, beginning the all the god damn conversations, transportating her, wtf more wants her from him!!!????
All of that shit just to kill a demon whom is inside his pants
A quick fap would ultimately solve all of the problem in just a moment
Very funn!
Ofcourse I don't agree with behaving such a manner. But then I don't believe in "gender equality" either.
But if you insist on somethign then bear the consequences.
That guy needs to learn how to use a fork, and the one that played the waiter needs to take a remedial English class.
i took this chick on date. The bill came and i said im not paying yours. hers 86 dollars. mine 37....so i said you pay mine i pay yours. she refused and left....so i said she is not paying hers heres the money for mine. they called the cops. she ended up calling me an asshole. oh btw she asked me to go on the date that she had planned. ha
funny how feminist fight so passionately about equality and when you get to dinner of war or anything that is disadvantageous to be equal suddenly they aren't satisfied that how i treat my bros we met up pay for our shit and that all i don't expect to fuck them and stuff and i dont expect them to owe me anything that equal right there dont like it to late should have never fight for equal rights
The people commenting how ridiculous this is are probably the same ones guilty of treating their man like this. ;) After all, why have equality when you can use your stereotype as a crutch and manipulate everyone around you with it. :D
Like. That is exactly how the genders should treat each other in a civilized society !
TheBenoff Nah. In a civilized society men can act like men and women can act like women. They’re only ‘equal’ in the way two halves make a whole.
This was nicely done. From the initial "What! You haven't decided what we're going to do this evening?" through to the expectation for a free taxi service, free meal (she didn't even bother to take money) and presumably free cinema ticket.
There was a little role-reversal in it, because she kept going. A real woman would have probably bailed when she discovered he wasn't going to taxi her round free for the night. She'd certainly have bailed when he didn't pay for her meal. Women are entitled to be treated with Equality+: All the rights a man has, plus chivalry to make life nicer for them.