Dear Wife...

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  • čas přidán 12. 09. 2024
  • If you are a wife or a future wife, then you need to watch this!
    Dear wife, do you find it hard to submit to your spouse because he doesn't meet your standard of spirituality or He doesn't seem as submitted to God as you want? In this video, I share about the office of your husband in your life and how you can be submitted to him no matter the situation. I invite you to listen, pray and reflect on the words I say.
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Komentáře • 56

  • @kb9360
    @kb9360 Před měsícem +22

    I cried watching this!! Coming out of fasting and prayer for this issue and coming to youtube to see this!! There is a God in heaven

  • @trini2dboneluv
    @trini2dboneluv Před měsícem +16

    This is so true. I used to kill my husband with my words. Surely, his blood was on my hands. I had to repent about it, but God is so good and merciful. He is teaching me how to a wife and warrior for him

  • @WomanWithHISPlan-un4rp
    @WomanWithHISPlan-un4rp Před měsícem +6

    Girl, I’m not even half way through but you getting us all the way together with this video! I literally just said last night that I don’t know why God keeps sending “unconventional” people my way (meaning people that love God but are still struggling with something, people that the “religious church” would throw away, etc) and while I was sitting here listening to your video, it literally came to me that what if God is using those people to prepare me for my husband. Meaning, what if by dealing with them, God is teaching me grace, patience, compassion, etc because I’m one of those people who “don’t want to know more than or be ahead of my husband spiritually” when I get married. God help ME!!! 😩😩❤️

  • @ReNuingRoots
    @ReNuingRoots Před měsícem +11

    Can’t honor your husband, can’t honor Heavenly Father. I had that same conviction and am still having trouble with it. Profound wisdom! Thank you so much God Bless You ❤.

  • @bjoneswhite306
    @bjoneswhite306 Před měsícem +12

    Right now I am preparing for marriage and this really help me a lot. I know that the Lord wanted me to watch and listen to this message. The title got to me because I low-key think I am holier than thou LOL! 😂compared to my man and it's only because I fully surrendered to Jesus before my spouse did. One thing I always pray for is this "Lord I pray that my husband is more close to you and love you more then me so that he can lead and be that godly husband you called him to be."
    You said so much that open eyes. I can't compare my relationship to our Lord to his relationship. I also have to learn to have grace when he does mess up because at the end of the day we are all humans.
    Also I have to realize God bought us together, this is a supernatural thing which means I should know that wouldn't bring me a man who will never be committed to Him.
    Thank you so much.

  • @inkonparabl3l
    @inkonparabl3l Před měsícem +8

    I’m loving your videos!!! Thank you. I’m not married yet but God has been working on my heart and preparing me for marriage. I don’t listen to lies and the narrative the enemy have people talking about online. Marriage is a blessing!! Stop choosing out of your flesh, let God choose so you can enjoy his blessings abundantly 🙌🏾

  • @laurayudo2005
    @laurayudo2005 Před 23 dny

    Christian women need to see this! God bless you for your boldness and obedience.

  • @vgreene77
    @vgreene77 Před měsícem +1

    God is good and so is this message, thanks

  • @enobongwilson6563
    @enobongwilson6563 Před měsícem +6

    Wow! You're so on point Lady!.....we relate with God differently....He knows us and sees us.He knows our different personalities( He beautifully crafted us).
    "community, consistency and counsel".
    God bless you Tee
    Love these points, they are to me a guide like checks and balances in our faith walk...

  • @blessingadwoa
    @blessingadwoa Před měsícem +1

    This is the best advice I’ve heard about marriage. God bless you for sharing your experience and knowledge with us ❤️

  • @atariandah1356
    @atariandah1356 Před měsícem +5

    Hello, Thank you so much for this video. I really love when you mentioned how sometimes we expect our husband's or friend's relationship with God to be like ours. I'm currently a bride in waiting 🤭 but I truly resonate with this video. As Abba prepares me to be an amazing wife I pray that I honour my husband and be the wife God wants me to be. Thank you so much for all your videos really God bless you abundantly. Thank you for truly obeying God because your videos have truly been a blessing and it's a ministry. I'll stop now but THANK YOU !!!

    • @Kilali_
      @Kilali_  Před měsícem

      Yayyyyy! God bless you, excited for this next precious season of life for you!😍

  • @veraobafemi1235
    @veraobafemi1235 Před měsícem +1

    Thank you so much Kilali for sharing this!
    It is so timely.
    Gob bless you.

  • @Momo_carol
    @Momo_carol Před měsícem +1

    Wisdom, wisdom, wisdom❤️

  • @IfeoluwaJ
    @IfeoluwaJ Před měsícem +2

    This is soo good! Soo powerful! And so beautiful! Not even married or in a relationship yet but I had so much journal notes from this video…I’m praying for Him and my heart is getting ready to do it God’s way! I will also choose right in Jesus name! Saving this video to listen to again and again
    Thank youuu for sharing ♥️

  • @shesalllthatt
    @shesalllthatt Před 14 dny

    This video was made a month ago, when i seen it pop up on my feed I immediately saved it to watch later. Now in this very moment early in the morning im watching this and it’s striking a lot of cords in me. This is really really ministering to me in the most beautiful and peaceful self aware way. I was wrong about a lot of things… BUT THANK YOU LORD GOD FOR CLARIFICATION AND ANSWERS❤🥹.

  • @trini2dboneluv
    @trini2dboneluv Před měsícem +3

    That's so good. I have been challenged in that area praying for my husband because I looked at when I pray I expected to see results and because I wasn't seeing the I would pray periodically or only when I saw something different in him I would pray but now I pray regardless I had renew my mind in that Holy Spirit wasn't having it lol

  • @DOMIREALTOR
    @DOMIREALTOR Před 27 dny +1

    We need men conferences and prayer meeting

  • @OnBendedKneesTv
    @OnBendedKneesTv Před měsícem

    This blessed me, haven’t thought about submission to my future husband this way but thank God I came across this.

  • @victoriamidetaiwo
    @victoriamidetaiwo Před měsícem +2

    Thanks so much for this.... Was really helpful

  • @davitatukura2520
    @davitatukura2520 Před měsícem +6

    As a single lady, how will you know who to marry? You said that I'm the one that gets to pick and honestly 😅 I'm not ready to stress myself in marriage coz he's not spiritual enough so it's better I get it right from the beginning, abi? I don't want to make a mistake by marrying the wrong person 😢

    • @marthaamanichrist
      @marthaamanichrist Před měsícem

      What does being “spiritual enough” means to you?

    • @davitatukura2520
      @davitatukura2520 Před měsícem +1

      @@marthaamanichrist someone that loves God and has a relationship with God. And... You know, has the fear of God. And it's not just in words only but in his lifestyle as well.

    • @sweetnessgyamboe4897
      @sweetnessgyamboe4897 Před měsícem

      Am sorry to say that what you run away from is what you might just end up getting.. Trust God.. Many married right but are facing difficulties in their marriages.. What is a “thing” that God cannot fix.. God restores broken marriages.. Many know Christ but are broken.. And God is going to work on that (even through our interactions with our spouses).. Infact marriage pushes you to become like Christ.. Either you become like Christ or you quit the marriage..

    • @davitatukura2520
      @davitatukura2520 Před měsícem

      @@sweetnessgyamboe4897 hmm 🤔 well I hear you. Thank you.

  • @blessingekong2854
    @blessingekong2854 Před měsícem

    This was such a beautiful video. I’m not married yet but i picked a thing or two from watching this. Thank you! And oh, you’re so beautiful 😻 definitely subscribing 🎉

  • @shalomtutu
    @shalomtutu Před měsícem +1

    Thank you for sharing this,this is so spot on and timely ,please don’t stop sharing these videos as the lord leads you ❤

  • @tsholom9042
    @tsholom9042 Před měsícem

    Thank you so much for this video. I believe this will help me a lot. I am going to start practicing this. Praise God 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @MoriahCreations
    @MoriahCreations Před měsícem

    ❤❤❤thank you ma'am.

  • @ntenewe3321
    @ntenewe3321 Před měsícem

    Thank you so much, this is so timely and could be applied to all areas of our lives and walk with God. God bless you!

  • @sithandinkosi1242
    @sithandinkosi1242 Před měsícem +3

    Lord thank you for speaking directly to me through this video 🥲❤️

  • @lifestylewithmommynelly
    @lifestylewithmommynelly Před měsícem +2

    7:45 wow 🙌🏾

  • @tunmise.adeoti
    @tunmise.adeoti Před měsícem

    This is so good, thank you so much
    Such an eye opener, deep insight
    God bless you

  • @vakashibise
    @vakashibise Před měsícem

    All I can say is THANK YOU!!! To God and you.❤

  • @shalomsvlog
    @shalomsvlog Před měsícem +2

    Hi please how do you constantly hear from the holyspirit ...can you please do a video and how did you start become conscious of the holyspirit

  • @walkinthewillofGod
    @walkinthewillofGod Před měsícem

    i needed this !!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @thelmabriggso
    @thelmabriggso Před měsícem

    Thanks so much for this video! God bless you💕💕💕💕💕

  • @Ebere6365
    @Ebere6365 Před měsícem

    Thank you soo much

  • @mofyamwelwa9837
    @mofyamwelwa9837 Před měsícem

    Wholesome and timely❤❤❤

  • @tosanfr
    @tosanfr Před měsícem

    This was so insightful! ❤

  • @Danaiginiyo
    @Danaiginiyo Před měsícem

    This is very sound ❤

  • @trini2dboneluv
    @trini2dboneluv Před měsícem +2

    Lol, leave a comment, family it helps with the algorithm

  • @sommyekeocha753
    @sommyekeocha753 Před měsícem +8

    I hope I can focus on the message because your beauty is distracting me! My friend, you’re fine!!! Ok let me go back to listening

  • @trini2dboneluv
    @trini2dboneluv Před měsícem

    Oh, God conviction overlaod here 😭

  • @Promisekeh
    @Promisekeh Před měsícem

    I love your make up

  • @tsoarelom5986
    @tsoarelom5986 Před měsícem

    Wow 🥹🥹👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @nkyotike-odibi7724
    @nkyotike-odibi7724 Před měsícem +1

    You didn't add the links to the description box.

    • @Kilali_
      @Kilali_  Před měsícem +1

      Yes I'm working on it!

  • @enesolana5585
    @enesolana5585 Před měsícem

    💡💡

  • @ludiefrancois
    @ludiefrancois Před měsícem

    What if someone is on an unequal yoked marriage?

    • @Kilali_
      @Kilali_  Před měsícem +5

      Please study 1 Peter 3:1(AMP)
      I pray that God gives you deeper understanding in Jesus name, Amen!