It Gets Better: Kristel from Honolulu, Hawaii

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  • čas přidán 16. 10. 2010
  • My contribution to Dan Savage's "It Gets Better" Project. I promise you all, it gets better. Please hang in there.
    If you need someone to talk to, email me at kristel[at]slowdancingwithstrangers.com
    UPDATE I just found out that my story will be included in the book version of It Gets Better due out some time early 2011.
    For more backstory on my video (and me), check out my blog here: bit.ly/9vcLN6

Komentáře • 20

  • @immom2you
    @immom2you Před 13 lety

    Read your story in the Honolulu Star-Advertiser this morning and checked out your video. Thanks for representing Hawaii and Asians -- good job! I hope your school counselor has been counseled by now. Unbelievable! I can so understand how devastated you were after that "counseling" session.
    I know that folks like you making these It Gets Better videos are helping all kids who feel different to hang on. Mahalo!

  • @Monchalee
    @Monchalee Před 13 lety

    I met you online when you were a senior in high school, I think... and I don't remember you ever telling me about your experience with your counselor. Maybe you did and age is getting to me. All I remember was chatting with you often and sharing pictures and music and thinking what an amazing person you are. I am so glad you were strong enough to keep going. Further proof of how amazing you are.

  • @weedbee88
    @weedbee88 Před 13 lety

    thank you for sharing!!! :)

  • @thelongsummerdrive
    @thelongsummerdrive  Před 13 lety

    @amylNRG thank you for watching! When I think about what happened to me back in high school, I almost don't believe it. I'm so glad it's over. Things are much better now!

  • @thelongsummerdrive
    @thelongsummerdrive  Před 13 lety

    @808memahu Kim Coco! Thank you for watching my video. There is no need to apologize for the experience. I was able to turn it into a positive experience, turning me into a strong individual. Thank you for all that you do to protect our youth. You really are a role model for kids and adults alike.

  • @thelongsummerdrive
    @thelongsummerdrive  Před 13 lety

    @nedetsontryton thank you for taking the time to watch my video! :)

  • @thelongsummerdrive
    @thelongsummerdrive  Před 13 lety

    @MsDancehallqueen thank you for taking the time to watch my little video confession. I'm glad to hear that you would be accepting of others, even if their lifestyle did not match your own. Love is love! :)

  • @thelongsummerdrive
    @thelongsummerdrive  Před 13 lety

    @0v0haha thank you for watching!! :D

  • @thelongsummerdrive
    @thelongsummerdrive  Před 13 lety

    @weedbee88 thank you for watching!! :)

  • @thelongsummerdrive
    @thelongsummerdrive  Před 13 lety

    @luevanor83 thank you for watching. It took me a long time to find the strength to share my store and I hope you'll hang in there and share your story (one day) too! :)

  • @rororororouser
    @rororororouser Před 13 lety

    thanks for dong it! =)

  • @nedetsontryton
    @nedetsontryton Před 13 lety

    you seem so very sweet,
    that was an awesome video,
    I'm sure it will help
    thanks for doin it

  • @thelongsummerdrive
    @thelongsummerdrive  Před 13 lety

    @lookitsnatash Thank you for watching :) I hope my video really makes a difference!

  • @thelongsummerdrive
    @thelongsummerdrive  Před 13 lety

    @chibiphoenix Thank you so much for your kind words. I'm sending you a message now :)

  • @thelongsummerdrive
    @thelongsummerdrive  Před 13 lety

    @kflan350 thank you for watching

  • @amylNRG
    @amylNRG Před 13 lety

    Excellent video. I honestly can't believe the utterly wicked behavior of your guidance counsellor. My jaw literally dropped open! If you can still remember her name, you should go back and sue her for harrassment and mental anguish!

  • @thelongsummerdrive
    @thelongsummerdrive  Před 13 lety

    @Karatefreako Doesn't matter if you're gay, straight, blue! Thank you for watching :)

  • @thelongsummerdrive
    @thelongsummerdrive  Před 13 lety

    @immom2you Thank you for reading i! I certainly hope that my counselor has seen the error of her ways by now too. I had actually talked to a few of my friends from high school and they all had similarly inappropriate sessions with the counselor (not about being gay, but other stuff). So I sincerely hope that a lot has changed since then. And if not, I hope my article shows her that I was able to rise above it anyway! :)

  • @MsDancehallqueen
    @MsDancehallqueen Před 13 lety

    We had gay parade recently in Serbia and it didn't went well,not to mention 2 years ago.I think that people are still not ready to except that some people are different.I don't know how to call it.. I feel you and I know that is hard to be different than others.I still believe in man-woman relations but if I have a friend and if she told me she likes girls I would probably say....ok no problem.Everyone has right to make it own choice.I made it ,your friends did so why couldn't you too.

  • @JulieVeganEats
    @JulieVeganEats Před 13 lety

    Awesome! Thanks... even though I'm not gay (: