I briefly dated a narcissist and thank God I figured him out very early on. I don’t want to date an emotionally unavailable and indifferent man and that’s why I ended it. Any woman that wants that needs to do the psychological work on herself and heal from childhood trauma as wanting a man like that usually stems from parental abuse/neglect. If you’re a healthy woman you treat yourself with love, respect and kindness and that’s how we expect to be treated also, not jumping through hoops and mind games, no thank you I’ll pass.
It's very hard to do this when somebody is young and gets into a relationship with somebody who tells them that their standards are too high and constantly gas lights them about what reality is. The psychological manipulation that they do is very insidious. This is why we need education for young people on how to have healthy relationships.
Great podcast! I had to take voicemails to my therapist because i couldn't say anything "bad" about my ex (who also was a therapist) because he had me trained so well. When she listened to his long, angry and rambling voicemails where he degraded me and lifted himself up she told me he was a perfectionist, narcissist and likely sociopath (then she told me not to share that with him as she was afraid of repercussions since they moved in the same circles)
You waste time trying to fix someone else over fixing yourself, which is you dodging your problems. Work on respecting yourself and being an adult and holding yourself accountable. You are responsible for how you are treated and how you treat other's. One thing I don't agree with is the narcisisst is stronger or more interesting because it is fake and you definitely won't end up with a warrior, or on the other hand an amazing mother for your children.
I totally agree it all starts with healing ourselves and becoming better versions. If you want mind games, emotional abuse and indifference then dating a narcissist is an ideal partner. Definitely the narcissist is not stronger or more interesting, they are very insecure and boring once the love bombing wears off. Being with someone who has done the work and still learning, someone authentic is so much better and more rewarding.
Yeah, I am attracted by narcissist traits and in fact I felt heavily for a man Who I discovered It Is. BUT He Is handsome from my perspective and I noticed ( I know It could sounds crazy ) that when he Is in social environment, especially his one ( he Is a musician ), he looks way more attractive. So It seemed a fake attractivness because when I looked at some selfie he send me, he's not particularly good looking. Even if I like him a lot. He has strong jaw line, so maybe Is one factor of attraction. He's also healthy, has a delicious smell, even when he sweat... maybe I sensed his good genes 😅 As a person he's kind a child man, he makes a lot of funny faces and jokes. He loves babies. So I felt for that. But on a daily basis is quite boring and has low creativity...and It Is very strange for a person who live surrounded by artists. I love him 😅 and I can't help but I sould have know that a man like this can't commit, even for a season.
🎯 Key points for quick navigation: 00:00 *🧬 Richard Grannon suggests that biological and genetic factors make certain narcissistic traits in men attractive to women, as these traits signal the survivability and strength desirable for offspring.* 00:58 *🌍 Grannon shares his travel experiences and his preference for minimal visits to London, emphasizing his connection to other locations like Liverpool and Spain.* 02:49 *📘 Grannon discusses his work focused on helping clients overcome the effects of complex post-traumatic stress disorder (CPTSD) and abuse from narcissistic, psychopathic, and borderline personality disorders.* 03:31 *🌟 He finds positivity in his challenging work, exploring the darker aspectsof human behavior and the benefits that arise from addressing them.* 04:28 *🧠 Grannon explains his background in self-defense and psychology, leading him to specialize in addressing psychological issues through his training programs.* 05:24 *💬 He reflects on the unexpected shift in his audience demographics over time, from predominantly male to female, and the viral success of his video on being the daughter of a narcissistic mother.* 07:03 *🔗 Discusses the psychological tendency to seek familiar patterns in relationships, even if abusive, as a way to resolve unresolved childhood issues.* 09:18 *🗣️ Grannon highlights the different vulnerabilities men and women have to narcissistic abuse, influenced by gender-specific psychological traits.* 12:34 *🧲 He theorizes on the biological attraction women have to men with psychopathic traits, perceived as high-value and capable of ensuring offspring survival.* 14:23 *🔄 Explores the complex interplay of attraction dynamics during different phases of a woman's menstrual cycle, affecting mate selection based on perceived genetic benefits.* 19:52 *📢 Grannon advocates for open discussion and debate on gender differences and psychological drives, challenging the suppression of such conversations in contemporary social movements.* 23:00 *🎭 Richard Grannon critiques the weaponization of ideologies across the political spectrum, noting that any group suppressing open debate is problematic, regardless of their political orientation.* 24:09 *🎲 Grannon describes how narcissists may use therapy manipulatively, adopting therapeutic language to dominate others and mask their own issues.* 25:17 *✝️ He extends the discussion to religious manipulation, drawing parallels between how some individuals use religion and therapy for personal gain rather than genuine improvement.* 26:14 *🗣️ Grannon laments the misuse of psychological terms like "narcissist" and "gaslighting" in popular culture, which diminishes their clinical significance and transforms them into casual insults.* 27:11 *🚫 He criticizes the modern radical left's tendency to suppress natural human behaviors, suggesting that such actions are almost anti-human and likening them to a "death cult."* 28:31 *🔄 Discusses the hypocrisy observed in individuals who publicly advocate for certain ideologies or behaviors while privately acting contrary to those very beliefs.* 29:29 *⚖️ Grannon asserts that the misuse of power and ideological control reflects traits of narcissistic psychopathy, where individuals demand others conform to their ideological beliefs for personal power, often hypocritically.* 34:00 *🌍 He speculates on the persistence and possible decline of "woke" ideology, suggesting that natural societal corrections might eventually reduce its influence.* 35:21 *📚 Grannon differentiates between classic liberals and social liberals, emphasizing the importance of equality of opportunity over equality of outcome, which he views as detrimental.* 36:01 *🌐 He notes that "woke" culture is a luxury belief system that isn’t prevalent in less affluent or non-Western societies, suggesting its sustainability is tied to societal wealth and privilege.* 46:23 *🚩 Richard Grannon warns against partners who probe deeply into one's past traumas early in the relationship, as it could be a tactic to manipulate vulnerabilities later.* 48:06 *📚 Grannon explains narcissistic abuse as an attachment to a grandiose, delusional self-image, warning that individuals who resist any challenge to their self-view likely exhibit narcissistic traits.* 49:41 *🎭 He highlights the serious nature of true Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), describing it as a constant, severe detachment from reality.* 50:38 *🔄 Discusses how the response to challenges in relationships can indicate narcissistic tendencies; disproportionate anger or defensiveness is a red flag.* 52:42 *🌶️ Shares a personal anecdote to illustrate irrational narcissistic rage over trivial matters, like a disagreement over condiments, which escalates to personal attacks.* 54:32 *❓ Grannon debates whether a true disorder must involve personal suffering, suggesting that narcissists may not feel traditional distress but suffer when deprived of attention or admiration.* 56:08 *🤐 He notes that narcissists may apologize, but their apologies are often performative and not indicative of genuine remorse or intent to change behavior.* 58:09 *🔄 Observes that narcissism appears equally among men and women, challenging past beliefs that it was predominantly a male trait.* 01:01:35 *🌐 Grannon argues that modern culture's rejection of boundaries, impulse control, and shame promotes narcissistic behaviors, as it removes consequences for selfish or destructive actions.* 01:07:10 *✝️ Reflects on the role of religious belief in curbing narcissistic tendencies by fostering a cycle of recognition, confession, repentance, and continual moral vigilance.* 01:08:49 *🔄 Richard Grannon explains that religious narcissists may feign repentance for their actions but often lack genuine intent to change, continuing to judge others harshly.* 01:09:33 *🎭 He discusses how narcissists manage perceptions through simulations, constantly adjusting their behavior based on how they believe they are viewed by others.* 01:10:01 *👁️ Grannon notes that narcissists often dissociate during conversations, as they are overly preoccupied with managing external perceptions of themselves.* 01:10:26 *📱 He asserts that social media platforms, which encourage the display of a grandiose self-image, likely exacerbate narcissistic behaviors.* 01:11:08 *🎭 The conversation highlights the performative nature of vulnerability on social media, suggesting that even posts about personal trauma are often crafted for likes, rather than genuine sharing.* 01:12:12 *💰 Grannon criticizes the commodification of trauma, where influencers monetize their supposed vulnerability through partnerships with mental health services like BetterHelp.* 01:13:35 *📲 Discusses the detrimental effects of dating apps on self-perception, arguing that these platforms encourage users to commodify themselves, leading to a damaging self-view.* 01:15:11 *🔄 He reflects on the spectrum between the sacred and the profane, suggesting that spiritual fulfillment can lead to a healthier, more contented state of being compared to materialistic pursuits.* 01:17:28 *🎨 Grannon links suffering and artistic endeavor, discussing how personal hardships can drive creative expression.* 01:18:24 *🌟 Announces his focus on producing more optimistic and uplifting content on his CZcams channel to help viewers find a better balance in life.* Made with HARPA AI
Really enjoy the whole vibe of the production here. Can’t really beat the SM7B for a combination of looks and sound. And the walls with the lines of lights and the nice soft lighting on everyone’s faces. And the color scheme.
DSM 5 needs to seek professional help. 🧐 This was excellent. 💣✨️ Love the part about the cycle of repentance!! It really is legit, even from a strictly psychological standpoint. Genuine and insightful perspectives. 🎯 Thank youuus. 🙏🏻 #EveryoneGetsDiarrhea 🤣
I’m attracted to strength. People that do not recognize the personal sovereignty of others (male or female) have a weak and fragile sense of self. Patriarchy, for example, is obsessed with authority and control over women, which is based on an unhealed inferiority complex. It is a grandiose delusional worldview. In contrast, feminism believes in sovereignty for all. A worldview where some are entitled to dominate others is not sustainable; hence, we as a species are evolving past this. Evolution rewards balance ☯️.
Yeah, I am attracted by narcissist traits and in fact I felt heavily for a man Who I discovered It Is. BUT He Is handsome from my perspective and I noticed ( I know It could sounds crazy ) that when he Is in social environment, especially his one ( he Is a musician ), he looks way more attractive. So It seemed a fake attractivness because when I looked at some selfie he send me, he's not particularly good looking. Even if I like him a lot. He has strong jaw line, so maybe Is one factor of attraction. He's also healthy, has a delicious smell, even when he sweat... maybe I sensed his good genes 😅 As a person he's kind a child man, he makes a lot of funny faces and jokes. He loves babies. So I felt for that. But on a daily basis is quite boring and has low creativity...and It Is very strange for a person who live surrounded by artists. I love him 😅 and I can't help but I sould have know that a man like this can't commit, even for a season.
No, Richard, your body isn't screaming that. Women are not after tough hard warriors. We just want decent men who treat us as if we're equal human beings.
YOU are. But the reality is that the worst of the worst - serial killers. Jeffrey Dahmer, gets an army of obsessive female fans. They get constant marriage proposals. The badder the bad boy, the more attention.
No we dont. No mentally healthy woman wants a fatty mcfat. Or shorty baldy. Maybe handsomeness may not play a role, BUT not being short or and fat is a must. Honestly though i think the more women settle for short fatties the more those genes will take over and well just no linger have a choice...well our descendants wont have a choice. Testosterone levels are already down in the last decade.
I think what gets left off a lot when people talk about their childhood trauma I always hear the parents blamed us being the narcissist but that's not always the case sometimes it's the younger children in the family being abused by older children and I would love to see that addressed more
What she said at minute 24 about the narcissist going to therapy and learning better how to basically manipulate is so true that is what happened with my last relationship and it was a covert narcissist and he had gone through therapy with ex-wife and he just learned exactly how to manipulate even better.
"But when she delivered her, she said, “My Lord, I have delivered a female.” And Allah was most knowing of what she delivered, 𝘼𝙣𝙙 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙢𝙖𝙡𝙚 𝙞𝙨 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙡𝙞𝙠𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙛𝙚𝙢𝙖𝙡𝙚. And I have named her Mary, and I seek refuge for her in You and [for] her descendants from Satan, the expelled [from the mercy of Allah].” Ali Imraan:36
I adore listening Richard, he saved my menthal health last few months but continued to watch his videos because there are very interesting. But...this time at 18.th minute comment about marines "I think I am in that phase right now" and "put your babies in me" ...hilarious 😂😂 I was in that phase for years (few wrong relationships 😅) and than one special forces guy literally put the baby inside me 😂 it was 13 years ago and I became wiser and stop searching.... I would like to find different type of man who would be wonderful father to my son.... I was single for 12 years and who tricked me and looked like this kind of man? NPD guy 😳 that was my biggest mistake and now I enjoy my single life again, thankfully healed ❤ it's not easy to find compatable partner and too many people stay in bad relationships because they are afraid to be alone 😔 I can understand them, especially if our "time for baby" clicking. When you have a child you feel fulfilled and it's easier to have strong boundaries because protecting the child is your priority ... At least I feel like that 🤔
I have to be honest, I came here to listen to the talk, but I stayed here because I couldn't stop staring at the gorgeous blonde bombshell that is Amy Shepherd, wow!
@@cavaleirosemlicenca3894 you're right. My previous comment got deleted by the toxic feminists of this channel. Western women are horrible. Delusional and far away from being a real women. They don't allow any critisicm.
Eeeewww…hot dogs are made of lips and assholes….chickens don’t have lips 😳🤢 AAAAAALLLLLways add mustard 🥴😂😂😂😂😋 Fun interview ….watching richard blush so hard was entertaining 😂😂🤟 been a while since we got to see him sweat like that 😂😂😂😂 CORNERED by TWO females ..😂nice!!! Brave man 💪🔥😂 Thanks for your time and thoughts ❤️💪🔥☯️🖖🦋
You shouldn’t be hitting your dog at all. No “tap on the nose.” You should never have to yell at your dog either if you train it properly like I trained my dog. How would you like it if I came and tapped you on the nose????? ✌🏼
I am not dating anyone. Why am I receiving this video. Going to get coffee a man offered to buy coffee platonic. Talking is platonic. No one has asked me out to date.
I do like Richard but when he starts on the differences between the sexes I have to turn off. Such BS. It’s where he has unprocessed trauma. It actually makes me sad to listen considering how amazing he is in other areas of this topic.
@@charlieweaver6322As far as I’m aware what I said is the established scientific perspective on the difference in male/female mating strategies. There are some folks who really don’t like hearing that men and women are intrinsically different. It’s an ideological “wrong think” of sorts I suppose.
@@RICHARDGRANNON healthy people got your back, Richard. Men and women - in this order and not the other way around - are not equal, we are different and we will always be. Thanks for speaking the truth. Hope you will find a sane woman to share your life with. But chances you'll find one in England/West Europe is very slim.
Don’t record conversations. It’s a felony in many states and countries. And it’s way too violating of others rights . If you feel like you need to do that with anyone. Leave.
I briefly dated a narcissist and thank God I figured him out very early on. I don’t want to date an emotionally unavailable and indifferent man and that’s why I ended it. Any woman that wants that needs to do the psychological work on herself and heal from childhood trauma as wanting a man like that usually stems from parental abuse/neglect. If you’re a healthy woman you treat yourself with love, respect and kindness and that’s how we expect to be treated also, not jumping through hoops and mind games, no thank you I’ll pass.
It's very hard to do this when somebody is young and gets into a relationship with somebody who tells them that their standards are too high and constantly gas lights them about what reality is.
The psychological manipulation that they do is very insidious.
This is why we need education for young people on how to have healthy relationships.
Great podcast!
I had to take voicemails to my therapist because i couldn't say anything "bad" about my ex (who also was a therapist) because he had me trained so well. When she listened to his long, angry and rambling voicemails where he degraded me and lifted himself up she told me he was a perfectionist, narcissist and likely sociopath (then she told me not to share that with him as she was afraid of repercussions since they moved in the same circles)
That's crazy :0 hopefully your in a better place now 😊
Wow, long, angry and rambling voice mails? How long did you put up with that shit?
Thats a bad nightmare
You waste time trying to fix someone else over fixing yourself, which is you dodging your problems. Work on respecting yourself and being an adult and holding yourself accountable. You are responsible for how you are treated and how you treat other's. One thing I don't agree with is the narcisisst is stronger or more interesting because it is fake and you definitely won't end up with a warrior, or on the other hand an amazing mother for your children.
I totally agree it all starts with healing ourselves and becoming better versions. If you want mind games, emotional abuse and indifference then dating a narcissist is an ideal partner. Definitely the narcissist is not stronger or more interesting, they are very insecure and boring once the love bombing wears off. Being with someone who has done the work and still learning, someone authentic is so much better and more rewarding.
Yeah, I am attracted by narcissist traits and in fact I felt heavily for a man Who I discovered It Is.
BUT
He Is handsome from my perspective and I noticed ( I know It could sounds crazy ) that when he Is in social environment, especially his one ( he Is a musician ), he looks way more attractive.
So It seemed a fake attractivness because when I looked at some selfie he send me, he's not particularly good looking. Even if I like him a lot.
He has strong jaw line, so maybe Is one factor of attraction.
He's also healthy, has a delicious smell, even when he sweat... maybe I sensed his good genes 😅
As a person he's kind a child man, he makes a lot of funny faces and jokes. He loves babies. So I felt for that.
But on a daily basis is quite boring and has low creativity...and It Is very strange for a person who live surrounded by artists.
I love him 😅 and I can't help but I sould have know that a man like this can't commit, even for a season.
“I think I’m at that stage right now.” 😂😂😂😂
The girls faces watching their minds ticking 😂😂😂
🎯 Key points for quick navigation:
00:00 *🧬 Richard Grannon suggests that biological and genetic factors make certain narcissistic traits in men attractive to women, as these traits signal the survivability and strength desirable for offspring.*
00:58 *🌍 Grannon shares his travel experiences and his preference for minimal visits to London, emphasizing his connection to other locations like Liverpool and Spain.*
02:49 *📘 Grannon discusses his work focused on helping clients overcome the effects of complex post-traumatic stress disorder (CPTSD) and abuse from narcissistic, psychopathic, and borderline personality disorders.*
03:31 *🌟 He finds positivity in his challenging work, exploring the darker aspectsof human behavior and the benefits that arise from addressing them.*
04:28 *🧠 Grannon explains his background in self-defense and psychology, leading him to specialize in addressing psychological issues through his training programs.*
05:24 *💬 He reflects on the unexpected shift in his audience demographics over time, from predominantly male to female, and the viral success of his video on being the daughter of a narcissistic mother.*
07:03 *🔗 Discusses the psychological tendency to seek familiar patterns in relationships, even if abusive, as a way to resolve unresolved childhood issues.*
09:18 *🗣️ Grannon highlights the different vulnerabilities men and women have to narcissistic abuse, influenced by gender-specific psychological traits.*
12:34 *🧲 He theorizes on the biological attraction women have to men with psychopathic traits, perceived as high-value and capable of ensuring offspring survival.*
14:23 *🔄 Explores the complex interplay of attraction dynamics during different phases of a woman's menstrual cycle, affecting mate selection based on perceived genetic benefits.*
19:52 *📢 Grannon advocates for open discussion and debate on gender differences and psychological drives, challenging the suppression of such conversations in contemporary social movements.*
23:00 *🎭 Richard Grannon critiques the weaponization of ideologies across the political spectrum, noting that any group suppressing open debate is problematic, regardless of their political orientation.*
24:09 *🎲 Grannon describes how narcissists may use therapy manipulatively, adopting therapeutic language to dominate others and mask their own issues.*
25:17 *✝️ He extends the discussion to religious manipulation, drawing parallels between how some individuals use religion and therapy for personal gain rather than genuine improvement.*
26:14 *🗣️ Grannon laments the misuse of psychological terms like "narcissist" and "gaslighting" in popular culture, which diminishes their clinical significance and transforms them into casual insults.*
27:11 *🚫 He criticizes the modern radical left's tendency to suppress natural human behaviors, suggesting that such actions are almost anti-human and likening them to a "death cult."*
28:31 *🔄 Discusses the hypocrisy observed in individuals who publicly advocate for certain ideologies or behaviors while privately acting contrary to those very beliefs.*
29:29 *⚖️ Grannon asserts that the misuse of power and ideological control reflects traits of narcissistic psychopathy, where individuals demand others conform to their ideological beliefs for personal power, often hypocritically.*
34:00 *🌍 He speculates on the persistence and possible decline of "woke" ideology, suggesting that natural societal corrections might eventually reduce its influence.*
35:21 *📚 Grannon differentiates between classic liberals and social liberals, emphasizing the importance of equality of opportunity over equality of outcome, which he views as detrimental.*
36:01 *🌐 He notes that "woke" culture is a luxury belief system that isn’t prevalent in less affluent or non-Western societies, suggesting its sustainability is tied to societal wealth and privilege.*
46:23 *🚩 Richard Grannon warns against partners who probe deeply into one's past traumas early in the relationship, as it could be a tactic to manipulate vulnerabilities later.*
48:06 *📚 Grannon explains narcissistic abuse as an attachment to a grandiose, delusional self-image, warning that individuals who resist any challenge to their self-view likely exhibit narcissistic traits.*
49:41 *🎭 He highlights the serious nature of true Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), describing it as a constant, severe detachment from reality.*
50:38 *🔄 Discusses how the response to challenges in relationships can indicate narcissistic tendencies; disproportionate anger or defensiveness is a red flag.*
52:42 *🌶️ Shares a personal anecdote to illustrate irrational narcissistic rage over trivial matters, like a disagreement over condiments, which escalates to personal attacks.*
54:32 *❓ Grannon debates whether a true disorder must involve personal suffering, suggesting that narcissists may not feel traditional distress but suffer when deprived of attention or admiration.*
56:08 *🤐 He notes that narcissists may apologize, but their apologies are often performative and not indicative of genuine remorse or intent to change behavior.*
58:09 *🔄 Observes that narcissism appears equally among men and women, challenging past beliefs that it was predominantly a male trait.*
01:01:35 *🌐 Grannon argues that modern culture's rejection of boundaries, impulse control, and shame promotes narcissistic behaviors, as it removes consequences for selfish or destructive actions.*
01:07:10 *✝️ Reflects on the role of religious belief in curbing narcissistic tendencies by fostering a cycle of recognition, confession, repentance, and continual moral vigilance.*
01:08:49 *🔄 Richard Grannon explains that religious narcissists may feign repentance for their actions but often lack genuine intent to change, continuing to judge others harshly.*
01:09:33 *🎭 He discusses how narcissists manage perceptions through simulations, constantly adjusting their behavior based on how they believe they are viewed by others.*
01:10:01 *👁️ Grannon notes that narcissists often dissociate during conversations, as they are overly preoccupied with managing external perceptions of themselves.*
01:10:26 *📱 He asserts that social media platforms, which encourage the display of a grandiose self-image, likely exacerbate narcissistic behaviors.*
01:11:08 *🎭 The conversation highlights the performative nature of vulnerability on social media, suggesting that even posts about personal trauma are often crafted for likes, rather than genuine sharing.*
01:12:12 *💰 Grannon criticizes the commodification of trauma, where influencers monetize their supposed vulnerability through partnerships with mental health services like BetterHelp.*
01:13:35 *📲 Discusses the detrimental effects of dating apps on self-perception, arguing that these platforms encourage users to commodify themselves, leading to a damaging self-view.*
01:15:11 *🔄 He reflects on the spectrum between the sacred and the profane, suggesting that spiritual fulfillment can lead to a healthier, more contented state of being compared to materialistic pursuits.*
01:17:28 *🎨 Grannon links suffering and artistic endeavor, discussing how personal hardships can drive creative expression.*
01:18:24 *🌟 Announces his focus on producing more optimistic and uplifting content on his CZcams channel to help viewers find a better balance in life.*
Made with HARPA AI
Generally agree
59 yr old woman first time watching Bombshells! Millionth time toc richard 😂
Really enjoy the whole vibe of the production here. Can’t really beat the SM7B for a combination of looks and sound. And the walls with the lines of lights and the nice soft lighting on everyone’s faces. And the color scheme.
Love Richard. He is wonderful
I learned a lot from this. Thank you. Mr. Grannon has a new fan.
DSM 5 needs to seek professional help. 🧐 This was excellent. 💣✨️ Love the part about the cycle of repentance!! It really is legit, even from a strictly psychological standpoint. Genuine and insightful perspectives. 🎯 Thank youuus. 🙏🏻 #EveryoneGetsDiarrhea 🤣
~Hi. Great! Thanks for this.
To one who knows, the explanations are understandable. To one who does not, no explanation is energetically understood.
I’m attracted to strength. People that do not recognize the personal sovereignty of others (male or female) have a weak and fragile sense of self. Patriarchy, for example, is obsessed with authority and control over women, which is based on an unhealed inferiority complex. It is a grandiose delusional worldview. In contrast, feminism believes in sovereignty for all. A worldview where some are entitled to dominate others is not sustainable; hence, we as a species are evolving past this. Evolution rewards balance ☯️.
The feminism politicians are pushing is the opposite of what you're calling patriarchy which has pitted the sexes each other aka divide and conquer
Yeah, I am attracted by narcissist traits and in fact I felt heavily for a man Who I discovered It Is.
BUT
He Is handsome from my perspective and I noticed ( I know It could sounds crazy ) that when he Is in social environment, especially his one ( he Is a musician ), he looks way more attractive.
So It seemed a fake attractivness because when I looked at some selfie he send me, he's not particularly good looking. Even if I like him a lot.
He has strong jaw line, so maybe Is one factor of attraction.
He's also healthy, has a delicious smell, even when he sweat... maybe I sensed his good genes 😅
As a person he's kind a child man, he makes a lot of funny faces and jokes. He loves babies. So I felt for that.
But on a daily basis is quite boring and has low creativity...and It Is very strange for a person who live surrounded by artists.
I love him 😅 and I can't help but I sould have know that a man like this can't commit, even for a season.
No, Richard, your body isn't screaming that. Women are not after tough hard warriors. We just want decent men who treat us as if we're equal human beings.
YOU are. But the reality is that the worst of the worst - serial killers. Jeffrey Dahmer, gets an army of obsessive female fans. They get constant marriage proposals. The badder the bad boy, the more attention.
@@MrDanielvass I think you've misunderstood the difference between some women, and women in general.
@@MrDanielvass What if a killer is part of your family? ✌🏼💯
Bullshit
No we dont. No mentally healthy woman wants a fatty mcfat. Or shorty baldy. Maybe handsomeness may not play a role, BUT not being short or and fat is a must. Honestly though i think the more women settle for short fatties the more those genes will take over and well just no linger have a choice...well our descendants wont have a choice. Testosterone levels are already down in the last decade.
wonderful
I think what gets left off a lot when people talk about their childhood trauma I always hear the parents blamed us being the narcissist but that's not always the case sometimes it's the younger children in the family being abused by older children and I would love to see that addressed more
What she said at minute 24 about the narcissist going to therapy and learning better how to basically manipulate is so true that is what happened with my last relationship and it was a covert narcissist and he had gone through therapy with ex-wife and he just learned exactly how to manipulate even better.
Richard ❤
"But when she delivered her, she said, “My Lord, I have delivered a female.” And Allah was most knowing of what she delivered, 𝘼𝙣𝙙 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙢𝙖𝙡𝙚 𝙞𝙨 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙡𝙞𝙠𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙛𝙚𝙢𝙖𝙡𝙚. And I have named her Mary, and I seek refuge for her in You and [for] her descendants from Satan, the expelled [from the mercy of Allah].” Ali Imraan:36
17:37 the funniest 40 seconds i've esperienced on youtube
I adore listening Richard, he saved my menthal health last few months but continued to watch his videos because there are very interesting. But...this time at 18.th minute comment about marines "I think I am in that phase right now" and "put your babies in me" ...hilarious 😂😂
I was in that phase for years (few wrong relationships 😅) and than one special forces guy literally put the baby inside me 😂 it was 13 years ago and I became wiser and stop searching.... I would like to find different type of man who would be wonderful father to my son.... I was single for 12 years and who tricked me and looked like this kind of man? NPD guy 😳 that was my biggest mistake and now I enjoy my single life again, thankfully healed ❤ it's not easy to find compatable partner and too many people stay in bad relationships because they are afraid to be alone 😔 I can understand them, especially if our "time for baby" clicking. When you have a child you feel fulfilled and it's easier to have strong boundaries because protecting the child is your priority ... At least I feel like that 🤔
Learn the game and you won’t get played like a sucker. THAT’S IT. 💯✌🏼
I have to be honest, I came here to listen to the talk, but I stayed here because I couldn't stop staring at the gorgeous blonde bombshell that is Amy Shepherd, wow!
When are you guys gonna have Penny & Liz on your show?
There are a number of these videos. It's a big topic lately, and isn't it just more than a little obvious that the videos are made in glass houses?
Grannon/Hot host tension palpable all episode. She doesn't even want to look at him too long otherwise she'd blush.
It seems narcissist is a word fir not getting what we want from others .
These women have absolutely no knowledge of the subject obviously They could have watched his videos some before he came on 🙄
43:00 core of narcissistic relationship. Dual, shared fantasy, covert contract.
Main takeaway from the podcast.
You’re late bud
Hell, no! My body is not screaming for a baby! NOOOO!
Because you never learned how to be a natural woman.
Bullshit
@@cavaleirosemlicenca3894 you're right. My previous comment got deleted by the toxic feminists of this channel. Western women are horrible. Delusional and far away from being a real women. They don't allow any critisicm.
Eeeewww…hot dogs are made of lips and assholes….chickens don’t have lips 😳🤢
AAAAAALLLLLways add mustard 🥴😂😂😂😂😋
Fun interview ….watching richard blush so hard was entertaining 😂😂🤟 been a while since we got to see him sweat like that 😂😂😂😂 CORNERED by TWO females ..😂nice!!! Brave man 💪🔥😂
Thanks for your time and thoughts
❤️💪🔥☯️🖖🦋
“Mustard eating fuck” 🤣🤣🤣💀
Richard does ok on the CZcams's , but he fails at life.
That must actually be really frustrating for him .
Because he is surrounded by idiotic women like most men in the West. No chance for succes in a toxic environment like that.
You shouldn’t be hitting your dog at all. No “tap on the nose.” You should never have to yell at your dog either if you train it properly like I trained my dog. How would you like it if I came and tapped you on the nose????? ✌🏼
It's an animal not a person
this is very tedious
Increase playback speed perhaps
I am not dating anyone. Why am I receiving this video. Going to get coffee a man offered to buy coffee platonic. Talking is platonic. No one has asked me out to date.
I do like Richard but when he starts on the differences between the sexes I have to turn off. Such BS. It’s where he has unprocessed trauma. It actually makes me sad to listen considering how amazing he is in other areas of this topic.
What differences do you disagree with?
@@charlieweaver6322As far as I’m aware what I said is the established scientific perspective on the difference in male/female mating strategies. There are some folks who really don’t like hearing that men and women are intrinsically different. It’s an ideological “wrong think” of sorts I suppose.
@@RICHARDGRANNON healthy people got your back, Richard. Men and women - in this order and not the other way around - are not equal, we are different and we will always be. Thanks for speaking the truth. Hope you will find a sane woman to share your life with. But chances you'll find one in England/West Europe is very slim.
Don’t record conversations. It’s a felony in many states and countries. And it’s way too violating of others rights . If you feel like you need to do that with anyone. Leave.
Which country or state is it a felony to record a conversation?
@@RICHARDGRANNONNot here in Canada. Essential move.
Not in Texas 😂
@@RICHARDGRANNON Fully allowed where I live.
Fully allowed here in Virginia. Single party consent.