I CAN'T BELIEVE **TED LASSO** IS OVER!!! | 3x12 Reaction
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First Time Watching Ted Lasso Reaction
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Season 3 Episode 12 - So Long, Farewell - Zábava
I think the purpose of Zava, story-wise, is to put Richmond in a position where they realistically could win the league, and still allow for a rough patch that is solved by Ted’s Total Football plan in Amsterdam. If Zava wasn’t there winning games at the start then disappearing, then there would be no way the club could be challenging for the title at the end
Spot on
Furthermore he was the catalyst for Jamie's final step(s) in his arc. Jamie was the only one on the team that didn't buy into Zava and was annoyed so much by him that he willingly set his ego aside and started training directly Roy outside of their normal "work hours". While he was certainly already on the way to being a better team player/etc., it really crystallizes for him after he's (indirectly) challenged by Zava.
Zava was also included as a call out to the crossover fans of both the show and the game in that Zlatan is one of the great football characters.
This is it, 100%, along with triggering Jamie's final growth.
He also serves as a motivator for Jamie. He wants to become Zava levels of good, and then when Zava leaves there a talent vacuum of sorts that allows Jamie to step up and become an amazing football player while implementing all he's learned the past three seasons.
I love how this episode is a mirror, showing our own images pleading Ted to not go, but he just made up his mind and all he have left to do is say goodbye and be happy that we met him at all...
Lovely comment.
For all the misogyny and stupidity George Cartrick displayed in episode 1 and as a pundit, he showed some class by refusing to injure Jamie. He's still a jerk, but her respects the game. Jacqui, thank you for your reactions - they did something I never though possible: they made me enjoy this incredible TV series even more!
George was Jamie’s coach before Ted. They probably got along at the time. We got the “Vader throws Palpatine down the well” moment went to Rupert’s first apprentice
Not sure if you caught this, but Mae straightening the picture of Geronimo was an homage to the final episode of "Cheers". In the last scene of the last episode, Sam straightened the same picture, which was a tribute to the character of "Coach". (The picture had originally been in the actor's trailer and was added to the set after he died in the third season).
Also, Jason Sudeikis in the nephew of George Wendt, who played Norm on "Cheers".
Zava and Shandy really don't feel like fluff or filler to me; this season has had a running theme of "getting what you think you wanted, but realizing that it makes you miserable", and they fit right into that. Shandy harkens back to Rebecca's advice to Keeley at the end of last season ("Hire your best friend"), which, as it turns out, can be a terrible move. And Zava? Well...they knew in advance that he was as mercurial as he was talented, and that he would never fit into the Las- excuse me, Richmond Way, but he did put them in striking distance of the Champions League, so they were willing to risk it. If it weren't for Ted and "his" total football, though, the rest of the season would have been doomed.
The actor who plays Beard recently did a Reddit AMA. Apparently Ted not going to Beard’s wedding was a reference to their real life friendship. The show was created by the two of them and their best friend. One day Beard gets a call from the other guy one night saying “hey I’m getting married tomorrow! I know it’s last minute so it’s totally fine if you can’t make it.” Beard was filming something at the time so he couldn’t make it. It’s like an Easter egg but instead of a callback to another episode it’s a call back to their real lives.
I think the thing about seeing Ted do that dance that we first saw him doing with a previous team in a video when we were being introduced to him, is that it reminds us that he's had teams that he's meant a lot to before. If we'd watched him and Beard coach that last team and form friendships and relationships with those players and colleagues, we'd have probably wanted him to stay with them. He's a bit like Mary Poppins in that way, coming into people's lives and leaving them as better people and moving on to a new adventure. Except unlike Mary, Ted gets to have a child of his own as his home base.
That's why Mary Poppins is his favourite Julie Andrews character :)
The definition of "Don't cry because it ended, smile because it happened"
A thing about Rupert's ending: In season 1, part of Rebecca's anger was that she felt she was the only one who saw Rupert for the monster that he was. Here, we see the entire stadium, and later the entire sports-reading world, seeing exactly who he is, and calling him out for being an absolute wanker.
I loved Ted's foreshadowing during his locker room speech saying "I know at least 1 thing about football" and then he reveals he finally figured out what the offside rule is
Yes! I had that thought while I was editing. Such a great little moment of foreshadowing 😄
no, the joke is about the controversy about how it's called the sport: in America is soccer, in Europe is football. So he is saiyng that he finally learnt to call it with his proper name.
@@oldbacde7957 Personally, I think it can be both. Sort of like a double entendre--the joke in the moment, and the delayed punchline of him knowing something he didn't know before.
This 100%
@@oldbacde7957 Exactly.
I think Rebecca knew that her and Sam were at two different points in their life that were too incompatible and complicated and and when she found a connection with someone closer to her age who had also been cheated on and has a young daughter who could do with a strong female role model then it does fit well
Agreed. Sam and Rebecca have that thing where they were very attracted to each other, genuinely loved each other, but are just at such incompatible points in their lives. He's way too young, he's got so much growing and experience yet to have, she's so much older, it just would never have worked out long term. I think the nods we got this season was to both of them being like "damn I still really like this person, what a shame it'll never work out" but they genuinely wish the best for one another.
@@joeypotter6051 Exactly this...Sam and Rebecca are incredibly sweet and they definitely care about each other but the Dutchman and Rebecca have a similar connection and are also at the same point in their lives.
When Rebecca and the Dutch pilot asked “Did we…?” And he said “We did.”
I think they’re referring to them falling in love. No sex.
I agree. I'm still not 100% on board with them ending up together, but I still think it was sweet, and I'm glad she's happy 😊
@movienightatjacquis But love is love, right? I thought that's what you nuts are always ranting about. If she loves him, then dont hate them
@@Skrimshady coming in a little strong there, buddy. Civility costs nothing
Besides, things like this aren't a black and white 'You love it or you hate it' thing. Beauty of opinion is that everyone can have one and, aside from those actively trying to antagonize others, they're all equally valid. Personally, I like Rebecca and Boatman but there is a little part of me that feels it's a little rushed, but others may not agree and that's perfectly fine.
I think Nates final straw was that even though Rupert knew he had a GF. He still invited him to that club and tried to get him to cheat.
That’s it.
Yeah I didn't think we needed any more explanation than that. Not everything has to be spelled out to us explicitly. I think the writing is better for not delving into the minutae of that.
I think seeing Nate with his pure, sweet relationship with a good woman made Rupert feel guilty about his cheating, so he tried to seduce Nate into cheating as well so he wouldn’t be alone in his sin. But Nate’s true character was just too kind for that. Rupert’s ultimate fear was being alone, same as Rebecca’s, and in the end, that’s exactly what happened to him.
Let’s not forget Rupert does not like being told no…I could totally see him (even though we didn’t see it) going off on Nate…whether it was that night or the next day….
I JUST caught a DEEP CUT joke. The Dutchman is a pilot. And he has his own boat. He’s the Flying Dutchman, like the famous pirate ship.
Brilliant.
One of the little moments of this episode that I loved was the callback to when Isaac tried to make the shot during practice, and instead the ball hits the window and breaks it right behind Higgins. When Isaac gets the ball to take the PK in this episode, Higgins throws his arm out in front of Mrs. Higgins, protecting her from a potential errant shot from Isaac. I don’t know why, but I loved that so much.
Low-key hoped you'd catch Jamie's ICON hat becoming I,COG in the scene where he's giving Nate money.
Still iconic, but finally one of the eleven.
Season 3 has been up and down but when it flew it truly soared. And while the ending leaves a hole, I think the show filled a bigger hole we didn’t know we had. Can’t wait to see you and Sam watch this together
Just my personal opinion: the Amsterdam episode was the single best episode of the entire series.
To be season 3 was my favorite. The development of Jamie and Roy are the best things they have on this show
Agreed. I thought I knew all of my holes but Dang It I missed one.
I was fine with the Keeley/Roy/Jamie ending tbh. The easiest solution would've been "Oh, just have her be with Roy again" but honestly, it's about Keeley not really needing either of them, and can just be cihll/casual with it! Maybe in the future something happens, though!
Yeah, I think Keeley ending up not being in a relationship is honestly good for her character. She’s kinda bounced around a lot, seeing her decide that she’s better than simply going for the opportunity with a sexy person is nice. And Roy needed a rejection to understand he still needs to improve. And Jamie is just forever a prick.
I actually really liked that they didn't resolve everything because it lets us imagine what's next for some of these characters. For example, in the span of 3 years, Keeley has gone from dating Jamie to dating Roy to dating Jack and now maybe she'll get some time to focus entirely on herself because she deserves that. And Roy has self-worth issues which hopefully he's working on with Dr. Sharon. (But you can't bring that kind of stuff into a relationship, and we shouldn't want him to.)
Exactly! He needed to work on himself, he's giving Keeley space while he sorts out his issues, and is able to be more independent of her. I think she's someone who has defined herself by her relationships for most of her adult life. And he's someone who obviously gets a bit clingy and smothering (see season 2) and is easily threatened in his relationships. I know a few people have complained about the bar fight but I think that showed us that while both Roy and Jamie have made huge progress, the path is never linear, and everyone is going to backslide and default to old habits when they feel threatened. Also, Roy was the one who wound Jamie up by smugly saying "It was a month ago, mate". Jamie's a 25yo guy, he's going to retaliate with something he knows can hurt Roy. I loved that they ended by going for kebabs, aka to Roy's "church". So they're still besties, and I think if Roy had immediately restarted something with Keeley, that could have been jeopardised, regardless of their intentions. So I'm glad everyone has space to grow up for a while :)
All I have to say is that Tom Hanks lives on a houseboat in Sleepless in Seattle. The Dutchman's arrival completes the Ephron parallel.
Oh I'd forgotten that! Someone in another comment said this: "I love they chose a big shot dutch musical singer to play it, he's even famous in the Netherlands for a 2008 movie that heavily happens around a house-boat." Amazing.
Not only is "Father & Son" as the closing song an apt metaphor for one of the main themes of the show, the lyrics of the last chorus make me understand better why they wanted to end the show - they have done their best to try and teach us the important things, and now they need to let us go off on our own to live our lives, because if fathers keep talking at their sons for too long they eventually turn away and stop listening. If the show stayed too long it would eventually feel preachy and its message would be diminished.
"All the times that I've cried
Keeping all the things I knew inside
It's hard, but it's harder to ignore it
If they were right I'd agree
But it's them they know, not me
Now there's a way
And I know that I have to go away
I know I have to go"
!!!
This episode made me hopeful that they can do a spin off called “AFC Richmond” or “The Richmond Way”. Ted lasso said it was never about him, so it could be an indicator that even tho jason sudeikis is stepping away, if everyone else wants to come back, they can with a spin-off show
I agree that Shandy's inclusion was just fluff that went nowhere but I felt Zava was the catalyst for Jaime and Roy to become closer from all their workouts together. I also felt that Zava leaving the team so abruptly helped the team to embrace Ted's Total Football philosophy to not become so reliant on one player to score.
I think Roy promoted Nate back to assistant coach because they're all wearing the same jackets at the end just like all the coaches did under Ted.
I've really enjoyed watching your season 3 reviews.😊
Touché! You're definitely right that Zava had more value than I'd initially realized. And someone pointed out that because of Nate's contract with West Ham, he couldn't technically take another coaching job during the season. I don't know if that's true, but it would explain why he didn't become coach until the end. Thank you for watching, and I'm glad you enjoyed!
I hope you get Sam to watch this soon! It was fun watching these with you.
Agree hard
Brendan Hunt did an AMA; the reason Ted isn’t at Beard’s wedding is, mostly, it didn’t make narrative sense to show Ted back in England before we even see his plane land in Kansas
My favorite Kansas reference in this episode is Ted's ruby red shoes. We didn't see him click his heels together, but we already knew he was headed home :)
Amazing reactions all the way. I just binged all your S3 videos like a freak. This is one of the best shows I've seen.
"Assistant to the kit man", an Office reference
Exactly
The Stewardess is the same one from S3E1 putting Henry on the plane . Go back and slowly pan over all the magazines in the Airport stand , headlines about Zava , Higgins , Miss Cakes and even Shandy
And Jack!
Loved this show. I’m going to miss it so much. One missed opportunity this show could have done is had an interaction between Henry and Phoebe. They’re around the same age and have similar personalities and circumstances (both being children of divorce), I feel like they’d be great friends.
If you’re looking for something similar to Ted Lasso, I highly recommend Shrinking. It’s got most of the same writing staff and definitely feels like a spiritual successor. And it’s got Harrison Ford as a grouchy old therapist.
I'm dying to watch Shrinking! Since I have Apple TV for the moment, I may watch it soon, even just as a Patreon exclusive while I get through a bunch of stuff I need to watch for CZcams, but I've heard it's fantastic!
@@movienightwithjacqui the dialogue is even better than Ted Lasso, I'm still not sure how they managed it
as it does for all of us... 'Ted Lasso' meant a lot to her... more than just a show... a lot!
and because of this she means a lot to us.
I really hope that Ted and Michelle *don't* get back together. They've already divorced and moved on; let them just be friends. (And speaking of friends, I can easily see Ted wanting to attend Beard's wedding but being unable to on account of some scheduling conflict and Beard being like "don't worry, it's perfectly fine" and _meaning_ it, because they've got the kind of friendship where they really could go years and years without seeing each other without their relationship suffering in the slightest.)
That's pretty much what Brendan Hunt said in his AMA. Something about Henry having a football final match that same day and Ted not being able to get to the wedding because of it. I saw someone in another comments section being like "pfft it's a kids football game, who cares" but Ted cares, and Henry cares, and Ted is done putting Henry second.
As a child of recently divorced parents, I also hope Ted and Michelle don’t get back together. The separation is hard, it’s a massive change. Changing back after it becomes the standard would be even harder. To the kid it’d just feel like they put you through intense stress and sadness over absolutely nothing.
i think the reason that jamie so quickly went to fight roy over keeley was not so much that he wanted to be back with her but more about him going immediately into offence as a defence, roys invited him out for a drink, said hes proud and then it turns out he had an motive in warning jamie off which couldve made jamie feel like undervalued and question how much of what roy was saying was true
Loved this season. I know that others have problems with it, but I 100% enjoyed it even more than the second.
I'm glad! Even through my nitpicks, I genuinely believe there was more to love than hate, and I thoroughly enjoyed watching this season. Ted Lasso is so unique, and I'm heartbroken that it's over!
Me too. Rewatching from episode 1
I am manifesting suppositions here. There will be a continuation of this show sans Jason S.; it will be called 'The Richmond Way.' Keeley will become Dir. of Operations for AFC Richmond women's team. Trent will take Keeley's place at the PR firm. Parminder Nagra from 'Bend It Like Beckham' will coach the women. Jamie will romance the star player on that team, and Danny Rojas will romance the rest of the team. Refusing to let go!
At first I thought it was so odd for Ted to be quiet this finale, but the more I thought about it. Ted uses his wit and banter to overcome his anxiety in a way. Now he has found his peace and he can sit back and witness the fruits of his labor.
Nate leaving West Ham to me was because he chose love over fame, Jade representing love and Rupert representing fame. Plus at the end I think Roy made him a part of his coaching staff, as Roy said "Nate's good at what he was s**t at."
Sam and Rebecca's relationship most likely concluded when Rebecca saw the way Sam interacted with the head chef at his restaurant. Plus the Flying Dutchman's daughter was played by the same girl that played young Rebecca.
I am new to the channel and I’ve just finished all of your Season 3 walkthroughs. I’ve become a much happier person watching them with you! Your insight and infectious laugh have truly won me over. You convey a beautiful attitude towards life by trying to emulate as best you can the Lasso Way. Thank you for shining a glorious light out into the universe. You make my day each time I watch you 🥰. Fan for life 🤗
Bad news, this is the last Jacqui reaction for Ted Lasso. Good news, we still have all of season 3 to watch Jacqui and Sam react.
Trust me, I'm drawing out Ted Lasso as long as I can. I'm not ready to be without it 😭
@@movienightwithjacqui I went back and rewatched the entire show so I could catch the nuances I missed the first time! This was such a lovely 3 season story. I'm sorry it has to end, but it was beautiful to watch!
One subtle throwback to season one, Episode 4 'For the Children' Rebeccas knows what Rupert really is, but few outside Sassy and Ted see him for him. Most others see the money and glamour and think what a great guy.
Today, everyone knows the man Rupert really is, and to be serenaded off the pitch, by the crowd of his one true love, now he knows everyone knows and they will always know.
The true downfall of Rupert.
I think Shandy was really important for Keeley’s development. Not because she learned when not to employ your best friends, but because she showed that Keeley’s success wasn’t just that she had a friend in Rebecca who offered her a job, but because she’s smart and capable.
She built on the opportunities she was given, she created opportunities for herself, and she worked really hard and became a success because of it.
Jacqui, thank you so much for all these. I would open CZcams every single day after an episode came out and immediately look for your videos. To repay all you’ve done for us, I’d like to give you the gift of letting you know the fulll cast recorded that song they sang for Ted and it’s currently on Spotify and I’d assume Apple Music as well (duh).
Footnote: Cristo, Toheeb and Kola are all genuinely good singers and it makes the song actually fun to listen to
I've been waiting for this reaction for DAYS!!!!!
Most shows end with the solution to the love triangle, but I think what they were trying to show is Keely to growing without being in a relationship.
As for Rebecca and the Flying Dutchman, I really wish they hadn't brought him back, because a good part of what made their night together so special was that it was this random encounter that would happen once and never again; fixing them up together at the end of the show just takes that away. (But I have to disagree about the Sam/Rebecca ship - it was doomed from the start. Yes, they made each other happy as people, but she owns and runs the team he plays for. Continuing their relationship would be Rupert levels of unethical, unless and until _Sam himself_ insisted on playing for another team.) On the other hand, I think the Roy-Jamie-Keeley thing was kind of heavy-handed, but it needed to happen to establish that Keeley had moved on from both of them. So I'll give them that.
Not to mention the age gap between Sam and Rebecca. Not that it's necessarily a deal breaker (my parents have an 18 year age gap, but my dad is older) but it could cause conflict down the line. A friend of mine is currently engaged to a guy who, when they met, was dating a much older woman (like, he was in his very early 20s and she was literally his mother's age). But he always wanted to have a family and kids of his own, and that wasn't going to be on the cards. So now he's with my friend, who is the same age as him, and they have a gorgeous nearly 2yo daughter. I like to imagine Sam ending up with someone who is a better fit for him, personally. But I think Rebecca and Sam will always have a mutual admiration society and always feel deeply for one another.
What made the night together so special was how well they connected, not that it was random. And hell, if I randomly had an encounter with a person I previously had a random magical night with, that’s just goddamn fate at that point.
The Keeley triangle was also for Roy. He needed a rejection as a final push to ask for help.
YES! you caught the number 9! so many reactors either missed it or didn't comment on it so I was hoping that you would!
I didn't catch it on my first watch, but with you calling him a dutchman, plus the pilot's outfit, I realized he's THE FLYING DUTCHMAN!
I like how the season came full circle, starting with Ted dropping off his son at the airport and ending with him at the airport going to be with his son
Thanks for reviewing this episode. I finally got around to watching the whole series and LOVED IT!!!
Ur way of analyzing the show and interpreting through words is actually amazing. It shows how much you just love film in general.
Thank you! 😄
My first time seeing your content came as a result of you and Sam watching Ted Lasso. I owe this series for plenty of entertainment but it also led me to your content and ultimately your channel and I will be grateful for that.
Ted Lasso is the only show you can laugh and cry at the same time. I dont want it to end♥. Thanks for yours reaction to it Jacquie. Love them ♥.
Ted Lasso truly is one of a kind, and I can't imagine my life without it 😭 Thank you for joining this wonderful ride!
Its been a lot of fun watching season 3 with you. Thabk you!
'Drink, sleep fock' - 😃 Actually kinda thought/hoped that they might have Ted realize that he was home & that his ex & son could just move to ENgland
Especially when Dr Jacob was dissing soccer. I thought that was a bit of a sign Then Rebecca actually says that they could liver in England.
I got excited for a hoot min, but I guess that was all a red herring 😳 'I ♥ you Sassy' - me too! 🥰
That Rudy reference/scene at half time! ♥ Love the 'wanker' full circle call back! ♥
Did bug me a bit about Ted not being at Beard's wedding, tho. Hunt defended the absence due to narrative reasons.
Overall a good send off to what has been a great series! Kudos to the cast & crew! ♥
The Beardisode had 2 major impacts on the bigger story. It introduced us to Renee, which becomes a big deal when both Rupert and (more importantly) Nate are able to sneak into the stadium because of him. It also, in my opinion, was the catalyst to Jamie's dad going to rehab. When we see him in S3E11, he's clearly been there for a little bit. I think him getting beaten up was a first - he and his buddies are used to doing the beating - and getting, as Roy might put it, battered properly (especially after getting hit by Jamie as well) was the wakeup call he needed to get sober. It's the last time we see him before S3E11, so we don't have any other explicit turning point for him - I'm assuming the Beardisode was meant to serve as that turning point.
I think Shandi and Zava served the story well. Keeley was having trouble acclimating to her business because she didn’t have the camaraderie that she did at Richmond. She brought Shandi in to have a friend and she learned that she needed to grow by herself. Zava is the opposite of the Richmond way. He is all for one and while it works, the team started falling apart. Once he left, the one for all with Jamie became apparent and the team was able to transcend their talent because they believed in each other.
Exactly! Well said :)
That is Hannah Waddingham crying 😭😭😭 she said that as much as it was Ted and Rebecca saying “Thank You” to each other it was also Jason and Hannah 🥹
I understand you might not like Rebecca ending up with the Dutchman, if for anything just because you want her and Sam together. I think this is better though because Sam was never meant to be her endgame, but someone who helped her to heal after Rupert. That's why last episode she was holding not only the green matchbook but also the plastic army man. Both Sam and Ted helped her heal in their own ways and prepare her to find and be open for this new man. I think it's also why they subtly hinted that Sam was getting close to his friend at the restaurant. Things like his dad telling them both about how much Sam talks about them. Their smiling glance while watching You've Got Mail was more them acknowledging that they lived that situation and appreciate it for how it helped them grow. Rebecca is now building a family with a good man that she wouldn't have had if she got back with Sam, but he is most likely on his way to building a family of his own as well.
Fun fact about the last ted and rebecca shot: Hannah mentioned that in the wide shot she cried even harder, and that even tho that it was Ted and Rebecca, it was also Hannah and Jason(that absolutely killed me)
Your memory is scary impressive to catch so many of the callbacks let alone details like player numbers or insanely specific details like what people are wearing two seasons before. I don't even pay enough attention to the fine details to have noticed that the KJPR sign changed. Just see a pink sign that comes on to show that she is back in business is all my brain registered.
One of the things you didn't catch (nor did I) is that the Pilot's daughter is the same girl who played little Rebecca in the mirror.
Each season... has been a step down, but like a single step...it went from flawless to outstanding to excellent' - agreed! 👍👍
Thanks for letting me (us) be part of all your emotions and joy… you brought some really nice and brightening moments to my days 🌹
Wow! Thank you! I love that I was able to share this experience with you, and I can't tell you how much it means to me that it brought you joy. I can't think of any higher compliment that making someone happy 😊
I'm quite new to your channel. I've been enjoying your Ted Lasso videos, I like your insight and take that you have. Before I watch this, I want you to know that I've been looking forward to this reaction from you since I watched the finale.
its pretty fun, on the whiteboard behind beard theres a drawing (heart and mind and passion) which comes from arsenal who coincidentally also came second to city this year 😪😪
According to some of my friends who watched the series, Ted should have stayed in Richmond, and I also thought about it, but the last episode made me change my mind.
What really pushed Ted to leave for England? He wanted to give more space to his wife, who was tired of his excessive cheerfulness and omnipresent positivity, behind which the real Ted was hiding. Not all of it, of course, but a significant part of it. Try to imagine a person like Ted 24/7 next to you, it could even be exhausting.
And take a look at Ted now, in season three. This is a person with wisdom, looking more with a smile from the side than speaking. And this is a true Ted, a wise teacher who never wanted to be the main character of anyone's story. All he wanted to do was do the best he could for the people around him and he did it. And now he can go home.
And the rest of the characters... Nate has overcome his complexes and is no longer trying to project self-confidence through toxic masculinity in the style of Rupert (a much more adult move than just making him the antagonist of the season). Roy realized that he had to accept the true sensual self. Jamie closed the full circle, combining self-confidence with respect and understanding for others. Rebekah literally outgrew the oldest and losing power over herself and others Rupert and began to form a new happiness. Isnt't it the best way to end this?
I agree! Perfect way to end it. And Ted wanted to go home to his son. It was a happy ending for him.
I will not be a goldfish. I will remember this series forever.
Man I really want phil dunster to win an Emmy for this season!!! And maybe a season 4?? Please Apple??
If he doesn't at least get a nomination, there is no justice in the world! I hope they eventually do some kind of spinoff, but alas, I don't think it will technically be "Ted Lasso." Maybe "The Richmond Way?" "Trent Crimm's Independent Adventures?" "Keeley's PR Nightmares?" I'd watch it all!
@@movienightwithjacqui me too anything to do with this show I will definitely watch and your reactions too!!
yep but at least we still get to see him and the rest of the cast doing interviews and fun stuff off the series. All of them are great and enjoyable.
Love that Meena the cleaner gave an exclusive to a tabloid. God knows what that woman’s seen.
I just got a pun, but not sure if it was intended or not. The Dutch pilot is literally The Flying Dutchman
I hadn't even thought about that! 😱 That's hilarious!
Hi :) i've watched all your (and with sam) reactions to ted lasso recently and loved them but never commented. I love the enthusiasm and since I don't have any buddies watching it with me, you help me feel that my love and wonder for this isn't unfounded. The only thing I wanted to disagree with today is that I really love the Rebecca+Dutchman thing. I love they chose a big shot dutch musical singer to play it, he's even famous in the Netherlands for a 2008 movie that heavily happens around a house-boat. Plus, Hannah Waddingham has said that the best she could wish for Rebecca was for her to love her team and not be defined by a man.
We don't know if this guy is rich, he's not connected to the team or the famous-y people she usually hangs with. Plus they understand each other's pain of divorce and betrayal and are both in a better place it their lives.
I loved her with Sam and I love that it woke her up to solving a couple things within herself, but we know with time, the age difference could have brought problems. Plus, they were together only a couple weeks and I found the end realistic, because many such relationships don't really end with a big break up.
And with the dutchman, it doesn't mean it's forever either. She's enjoying herself and accepting goodness into her life, it's a big deal! GROWWWTH!! And the only 2 times we've seen her dressed very relaxed were with him in the boat and in the garden party shot in the end. He brings up something else in her life and she clearly connected his daughter immediately. She immediately noticed her running, even before she fell, and I melted when she said "little love, are you all right?". And what about her last word of the season being "Rebecca", after having started season one with "Rupert"? :D I think we can be happy!! Hope I changed your mind a bit.
I love all of this! I was sold on the Dutchman from 3x06 so I was delighted to see him back. As a woman who will not be able to have biological children, I really felt her desire for a child of her own. And while I know being a stepmother isn't quite the same thing, it's also vastly different than being the metaphorical "mother" of a football team and its legion of fans. I was so happy that it appears that Rebecca got to fulfil that dream of hers, and I loved the way that she introduced herself to the little girl rather than throwing herself into the Dutchman's arms, which would've been the more traditional rom-com style ending. I loved the chemistry between them in "Sunflowers" and I didn't know he was a musical singer, that's perfect! We don't know how much money he has, he lives on a houseboat but he's also an airline pilot. Then again, we don't know how long ago he split with his ex-wife, so he may have been in a transit period. I have no idea how that relationship will pan out but I loved the potential.
As for Sam, that relationship never even really saw the light of day. It was a fling, really -- they never went public with it, and you can imagine that if they did, it would stir up a whole hornet's nest of drama in the newspapers, and everyone would have an opinion about it, and they'd have to deal with paparazzi most likely... no thanks. And I agree that the age difference would've been killer down the line.
It only occurred to me watching this reaction...Rebecca's guy is a Flying Dutchman :)
I've been looking for this reaction all week! 😁
Had to hop on your Patreon to watch this asap, also the last episode deserved a full reaction! Excited to see what you go with next -- and for Sam to finish Ted Lasso!
I’ve watched a lot of the Ted Lasso reaction videos. Yours were my favorite. 👍
The decoy play is not just a call-back, but a meta joke because it requires Phil Dunster to give yet another award-winning performance
I disagree that Roy and Jamie's fight was out of character for them or didn't make sense. I think it can seem like that because we've seen so much Growth (TM) from them this season that we forget they are both still who they are, still imperfect, and for all that they can bring out the best in each other, they also have a long history of bringing out the worst in each other. They're also both very Competitive men who have been successful in their chosen profession because of that Competitiveness. And the next scene with the Diamond Dogs gets It this idea that just because you have a bad moment, just because you backside, doesn't mean that all your Growth didn't happen. Growth is not linear. It's often two steps forward and one step back, but you have to give yourself grace to mess up.
Just the episode before this, we see Jamie learn to embrace being the "Prince Prick of all Pricks" and show that being Confident and Competitive and even a little (a lot) Cocky is part of who he is and that's OK.
Roy has come a long way with his insecurities, but they still exist. He hasn't gotten over them, ESPECIALLY as they relate to Keely, and he's still Angry and often leans towards physical violence. (Remember his little speech about how to deal with bullies earlier this very season?)
Roy tells Jamie to back off, and Jamie very predictably digs in and refuses to surrender- he's not going to the in to Roy Kent of all people. Roy tries to knock Jamie down and Jamie, just like on the pitch, goes for his opponent's weakness.
It would have been far less realistic for Jamie and Roy to magically settle their differences in a mature manner. The fact that they only got into a brief fight before realizing how stupid they were being I think makes a lot more sense than them not fighting at all.
I agree that it was in character for them to argue, but I'm a little disappointed that it's how they ended the Roy/Jamie/Keeley trio. For however wholesome the rest of their endings are, it felt a little incomplete for me. It feels like they played it a little bit too much for laughs/superficiality. I understand that growth is not linear, but I wasn't sold.
Beard gets married in the trousers from the Beardisode.
The Dutch girl is the girl Rebecca saw when she looked in the mirror.
I thought that too.
I loved that the girl she ends up becoming a mother to is an image of her as a child.
In hindsight, I don’t think the temporary characters didn’t add any value to the story, much more to the characters’ development.
Zava existed to show that culture wins over talent. While that seems a slight to what happens to sports nowadays (i.e. bringing in as much superstars to a team as possible), but it is also needed to tell the story that AFC Richmond do not need a superstar to achieve their goals. That they just need to believe in each other, and trust that everything will work out in the end (the same way Ted talked about these all throughout the series).
Shandy was necessary to show how Keeley evolved as a businesswoman. Keeley hired Shandy to a role that she doesn’t have any experience doing. Shandy got there because she was Keeley’s friend, and Keeley brought her in because the former saw potential on the latter. While the potential was there, she was unable to manage it properly because of their personal relationship (a mistake that is not uncommon to anyone starting a business, or a newly-minted leader/manager).
Finally, Jack’s existence in the story showed or proved Keeley’s need to be in a relationship as soon as her previous one ended. After breaking up with Jamie, she immediately dated Roy. While Roy was good to Keeley during their run, how Roy handled their breakup have obviously affected Keeley’s ability to make smart decisions. In fact, she explicitly said moments before she kisses Jack that is tired of feeling sad and lonely. After she broke it up with Jack, I personally think it made her realize that immediately jumping from one relationship do not define her, especially if it can take away her dreams from her. This is also I think why she did not take Roy immediately after he issued a heartfelt apology. While something physical happened between them immediately after that apology, it appears it is just a “bonus night” so she can move on from what appears as an abrupt end to her relationship with Roy. She did that to Jamie, and soon after it happened, she has moved on.
Agreed with all of this! And they needed Zava to drive them up the team rankings so that they'd believably be able to reach the top of the premier league, despite a slump in form that led to Ted "inventing" Total Football.
The Dutchman scene (she literally has a Flying Dutchman now) was very much Sleepless in Seattle, mirroring that ending/final meeting in that movie, if you ever get around to watch it.
Exactly right ! Ephron on 3
Jacqui, your reactions have been entertaining and whip-smart. Thanks for sharing them with us and putting in all the editing work people think just happens magically 😉
A lot of things were left open ended and I think that's really the point. It's been pointed out the entire series that a perfect ending isn't guaranteed, but it will work out. Specifically in the season 2 episode Rainbow, talking about romcoms. Higgins said this episode that people will never be perfect but working towards better, and that is how it all ended. That's also why I believe it should end with this and no season 4 or spinoffs.
I think Zava intensified Jamie’s growth. A key moment was when he saw the tattoo on Zava’s back. That seemed to be an a-ha moment for Jamie. Zava pushed Jamie to be greater and then he moved out of the way and Jamie stepped up in a way I don’t think he would have otherwise.
Regarding Ted not being at Beard’s wedding-Brendan Hunt said it would’ve been jarring to see Ted at the wedding in one shot and then on the plane landing home in the next. He said some friends aren’t always there for each other, even in crucial moments like a wedding, but that doesn’t make their friendship mean any less.
I was disappointed with this choice too, but the more I thought about it the more I thought it was interesting that they chose to write it this way, because sometimes that does happen. I missed out on my high school best friend’s wedding a couple of years ago, and I felt sad about it because I wasn’t invited and I felt like it was an indication that we’d drifted too far apart. But I got the chance to see her a few months ago, and my worries were put to rest when she said she ended up eloping because the pandemic was ongoing and she wanted to play it safe. Even though we don’t talk much anymore, we still care very deeply about each other and I know we’ll always be friends. And it’s the same with Ted and Beard.
I agreed with Brendan too. I did make it to my best friend's wedding (and I had to fly halfway across the world for it) but I haven't seen her since 2015 now, and I've never met her son. That doesn't mean I love her any less, it means I can't afford to fly back to the US just now. (Admittedly that's unlikely to be Ted's problem.) But ultimately I think Brendan saying that Beard wouldn't have minded, he would've understood that Ted couldn't make it, and it didn't diminish their friendship at all, made complete sense to me. Another of my best friends is getting married this year and I'm not invited to that one -- because she's also eloping. She's never wanted a big wedding so this is perfect for her and I don't mind in the slightest.
the best part of the season was JAIMIE for sure. I hated that he mentioned the leaked video to brag ugh I’ll ignore this. too bad roy didn’t develop much, glad he went to therapy (at the very end)
Been waiting for your reaction!!❤
Excellent recap, as always! Two thoughts on my part:
1. I also think the Dutchman ending for Rebecca was maybe a bit forced. BUT, it did provide closure to Rebecca's arc:
Rebecca's first word in the series: Rupert. Her last word: Rebecca.
2. Am I the only one that thinks that maybe Keeley's marketing plan for a women's team is foreshadowing to a new series?
I watched through all the Ted Lasso reactions on the Shame List, then came here for season 3 - lo and behold, a fellow USC grad! I'm from the school of social work, so I'm working as a therapist, and I only watched Ted Lasso because a fellow therapist recommended it to me - and I think I've seen the series like 5 times since I first watched it last summer. It's just so well-written, and so amazingly psychologically healthy; if I didn't mostly work with kids, I'd recommend the show to every one of my clients. I think that in the end, Rupert is the only character the show really follows who sees essentially no growth; not everyone makes the type of change Jamie does from season 1 to season 3, but everyone else grows and changes, usually for the better. Thank you for taking the time to react to this show, and I look forward to seeing more of your channel!
Immediately dropped all my plans to watch this reaction!
SAME!
yo tambien!
I do love how Kaley's new company is KBPR.
Her and Barbara! I like that because Keeley likes Barbara because she’s straight as a dye.
I dont understand how you dont like the dutch ending. He was clearly the only man she actually fell in love with post Rupert. Not judging by any means, but I personally thought it was perfect😊
if you haven't already been pointed toward it, take a look at the headlines for the magazines when Ted is leaving from the airport. There is a final beat for Zava and Shandy, as well as, a possible hint Ted might move back. The paper he buys has a Rebecca headline but it also has a piece on getting property in England. Perhaps Ted is looking into moving over more permenantly?
Also, I saw another review about Keely not picking Roy or Jamie is actually her picking herself instead. Remember the line in episode 1x2 where Ted says a better headline would be something, something.. "whose relationship does not define her." Maybe Keely's growth was to become even more independent and self-sufficient?
I also didn't like that the dutchman came back and they just "ran" into each other it wasn't necessary for the story. I personally didn't like her relationship with Sam, to me they just didn't click in my eyes so i'm glad it was a fling and wasn't a season long thing.
Thank you for the reactions. Ted made me super sad, but in a good way.
Two other Apple+ suggestions:
Shrinking (Ted Lasso writers)
Severance (forking masterpiece that I would LOVE to see you analyze and break down)
Shrinking was fantastic 😊
I think I look at endings in a different way from most people. The Keeley/Roy/Jamie for example. I don't think it needed to be tied in a pretty little bow. Why? Because their lives keep going after the show is done, and Roy still had some issues to sort out, hence Sharon.
To me, it seems like people tend to look at finales like that world is deleted from existence afterwards or something, therefore it all needs to be tied up and resolved. I think Ted's note on Trent's book says it quite well. The show might be named Ted Lasso, but it wasn't really just about Ted's journey, and their stories don't end just because he left.
I'll agree on the Rebecca/Sam/Dutchman thing. I'd prefer if she just left the airport and that was it. Again, no need to show her with Sam.
Jaqui, I so loved your takes on all the eps. You added a lot to my experience of the show. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. My husband loved the show too, but not quite the way you & I did tbh 🤗
The only thing I disagree about was “the Dutch guy”. He absolutely had to come back! Would’ve been very weird if he hadn’t. And it was absolutely perfect. Def gonna follow that actor, he was something else.
Oh wait, also clear to me Nate left West Ham bc Rupert disrespected Jade and their relationship. Far more than enough to convince Nate he was in the wrong place. Well done Nate, the last line he absolutely could not cross.
The final scene answered 99% of my loose ends, just wish it were longer. Only thing I missed was Nora, but if the actress couldn’t be there, it’s ok. Glad Sassy made it back for the game and the final wanker callout, that was lovely.
Agree about the three seasons. Well done, and so well done.
Thanks again for all your work, it was phenomenal.
Sassy's unadulterated glee when she stood up and yelled "WANKER!" at Rupert along with the stadium crowd was perfection. I also thought Nate's reasons for leaving West Ham were clear, and I didn't need any further explanation of this. And the Dutch guy was an absolute delight. I was a little suspicious of him at first, but he won me over quickly and by the end of 3x06 I was gutted that they didn't swap numbers (or even names!) So happy he came back and Rebecca's deep desire to be a mother was able to be fulfilled.
@@joeypotter6051 yes!
@K Cheng lol, so many bits still to mine ;)
Been waiting for this. :)
This was a tough one to edit. I still can't believe it's over 😭
I fel tbad this episode because everyone was happy when Ted was there at the club from Rebecca to Coach Beard to the players except for Ted Lasso himself and it took me until the last moment to realize that...that we were being selfish for rooting Ted to be away from his family and be with the club..i think even though the ending was bittersweet, it taught us to let go and let Ted be happy finally
I was also put off by Ted not being at Beard's wedding. To the point that, especially with the cinematography of that scene, I was convinced that Ted waking up on the plane immediately after the wedding meant that at least that, if not everything that happened during Father & Son was Ted's dream of happy endings for his friend. However, Brendan Hunt did an AMA last week and and confirmed that the wedding at least was real. When asked about Ted not being at the wedding, he had this to say:
"There are a few reasons. The first is narrative: Ted just got on a plane and left the UK, it would be anticlimactic and deflating if we suddenly see him back there before we even see his plane lands. The other is that that’s just the kind of friendship Ted and Beard have. Case in point is me and Joe Kelly, co-creator of Ted Lasso and one of the best friends I’ll ever know. A few years ago I get an email from him and his fantastic girlfriend that they are getting married in LESS THAN A MONTH. The email clearly stated “no worries if it’s too short of notice” which was awfully nice of them; I desperately wanted to be there but I couldn’t. They had scheduled to wedding the same day as a show I was doing in another city, if I recall correctly. So I missed the wedding, and guess what: no one cares! Our relationship is the exact same, our families live down the street from each other and we see each other all the time. So personally I think Beard called Ted and told him he could sit this one out, and Ted said thanks, because the ceremony conflicted with a big game for Henry’s soccer team. The history of their relationship IMO is long periods of seeing each other and long periods not. We have entered one of the latter, but the former will come around again at some point. They love each other, they will see each other again. They love each other, they will see each other again."
As far as Dr. Jacob goes, he pretty much confirmed he and Michelle aren't together, but it's intentionally ambiguous if Michelle and Ted are together
Can I say the word? Growth?? Loved every minute!! And I was so looking forward to your reaction! Thanks for the amazing ride!!
Thank you for joining me! While I admittedly had my issues with this episode/season, it was a delight to watch, there was so much to love. The callbacks, and absolutely...THE GROWTH 😄 Beautiful!
I just realized that it was important that we end on "Be a goldfish" because we all have to be a gold fish knowing how much we will miss this show. We are all sad together and have to go back to life by setting that sadness aside just as Ted did. Really great! I imagine Ted was at that dream wedding somewhere, we just didn't see him! Great reaction but the Dutchman is a rom com ending and fans kind of deserved it!
Some have suggested the final wedding scene was a dream or in Ted’s head, due to the haziness of the scene
Brendan Hunt (coach Beard) confirmed it's not a dream in a Reddit ama