"I'm Gonna Cry" Devastated Zach and Tori on Losing Baby Number 3 | Little People Big World
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 20. 09. 2021
- Tori and Zach open up about the devastating day they found out they lost baby number 3 and how they have been trying to cope with such terrible news.
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I love that Zach is putting his energy and focus on Toriâs wellbeing. He is being strong for his wife and family though just as heartbroken as she is. Heâs a great husband. Sorry for their loss.
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I couldn't imagine losing a baby that I was growing, the attachment of growing them. It's tough
He is definitely making his parents proud right now for being there for his wife even though that he is hurting as well. Not only that but he is showing an example to his kids now on how you are there for your spouse and how you never walk away and how you always just stick by them through the worst of times. Their kids are being raised by the great parents that they could have
Well yeah what else is he gonna do thatâs what husbands are for!
@@kelseyjay3733 not every man has that empathy or strength to allow their partner to grieve in their own way. Not all Men know what to do or say or express themselves. The Comment is acknowledging and praising his support. We shouldn't assume all Men are this attentive. I am sorry fir their loss and praise their strength and love for each other.
I went thru a miscarriage with my first pregnancy and it was extremely hard because I wanted a baby so badly. I went on to have have 3 easy full term pregnancies by the grace of god. You will get thru this but my heart is with you both!
The look on Tori's face 6:02 just broke my heart. I am so sorry for your loss. I am going to pray for your healing.
Stop making deformed babies that your body is gonna reject
Another deformed baby with lots of medical problems is not what they need
Is caren drunk or high in this video whats with all the slurred words and quivering head? Is she sick?
@@deneedalton4151 What a cruel & thoughtless person you are! Do you have only hate in your heart that you feel the need to bully someone who lost a much wanted baby? Your comments are only going to hurt them but obviously make you feel like a big person.
If you feel the way you do, most TV's have that thing called a remote--use it to change the channel. No one is making you watch a TV show or a CZcams video!
To Yena & Kim Smith, Amen to that & I am glad I wasn't the only one Dannae made angry!! To say things so cruel to people who lost a much loved & innocent child is bullying!
I also reported him or her for bullying &/or harassing a couple who are going through one of the most painful things was appalling.
If he or she feels that way, that is his or her right to feel that way, but stay off their channel and you don't have to worry about what Tori & Zach do!!
Zach is a wonderful husband and father, he was raised well
I suffered 13 miscarriages and 2 stillbirths....you never get over the pain and guilt of not holding onto them....my prayers are with them I know what you are going through guys xx
Iam sorry maam
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I am so sorry, sending all my love to you
I had one miscarriage and i could not imagine going thought 13. Im so sorry.
I'm so sorry I also suffer the loss of 8 miscarriages it's so hard each one takes alil piece of your soul hang in there hun sending lots of love!
Zach is such a loving man. I've always liked him. So much grace and humanity in him. The world needs more "men" like him!!
I sooo agree! Zach is a wonderful loving husband and an amazing father!! Iâm so sorry for Tori!! I had 2 miscarriages and it took a good while to recover from the loss! But I was blessed with a beautiful baby girl who is grown now and we are best friends as well! In the end, never lose hope for me it was third time is a charm!! Sorry guys for your loss it it so very sad and so very hard to deal with!!
No words can explain how it feels to lose a baby like that especially when it was wanted so much. My heart goes out to Tori and Zach i know their pain and heartbreak only to well. đđđ
I'm hurting for them as well Becky. And you could really feel Tori and Zach wanted this baby. But I firmly believe all women should wait 2 to 3 years until having another baby. I know Zach will get through this cause he is such a strong individual but Tori is the one I'm worried about. She is such a strong women but when it comes to her kids you can tell she is going to take this hard.
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How are you doing today?
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My heart absolutely broke for Tori seeing the pictures from Amyâs wedding where both her sisters in law are pregnant. The excitement for them, but the heartbreak of not having her own pregnancy and growing baby. My heart really goes out to them. đ
My sympathy's to all of you, especially Tori as she was carrying that little soul.
In May of 1997, I lost my baby. While it was too soon to know if it was a girl or a boy, I immediately got the feeling it was a girl. The due date would have been Christmas Eve 1997. It is always a bittersweet moment at Christmas as not only am I missing a person who would turn 24 this year, my parents are now gone too.
I pray for healing and know that God holds these little babies close to him!
Tori and Zack you guys need to thank God for the 2 children you have now you guys have been blessed
Blessed Be â„ïžâ„ïžâ€ïž
I'm so sorry for your hurt. xx
@@lynnedge9755 they donât need to do anything. Let them grieve.
@@Broadwaybutterfly21 Who are you?? I didnât say anything thatâs not true,BooHoo get over yourself put your thumb and your index finger together rub them Now you have a minny violin
@lynn literally this the worst thing you can say to someone. You are not validating their grief
I had a friend who had a miscarriage. I felt so bad seeing the hurt in her eyes and I was the only one she wanted to talk to. seeing the hurt in their eyes. condolences to the whole family. wishing nothing but the best for them.
Ugh, my heart breaks for them. Especially since Zach and Tori are two of the kindest human beings.
You don't have to wait 12 weeks to talk about pregnancy, you can do it whenever you want. I'm sorry for your loss guys :(
Some people prefer to wait because the risk for miscarriage goes down after 12 weeks.
I made the mistake of telling friends and family that I was pregnant right away. People started buying me baby things right away and then on Christmas day I started heavily bleeding.
I was in denial despite deep down knowing something was very wrong.
I ended up finding out I did indeed miscarry. I was so devastated. When I found out I was pregnant again I decided to not tell a soul until I was at least 12 weeks or more.
But that's me and of course anyone can their loved ones when they're ready to.
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I agree, no need to wait to share your news. In this case, where the worst has happened, at least they have the love of family and friends to support them. Miscarriage is not a secret that needs to be kept. These couples need support during that awful time. May God heal their broken hearts.
@@roses2385 people prefer it because society has made the topic of miscarriage/infant loss taboo. Itâs a loss of a child regardless of them being born or not. Society makes it seem like it should only be kept to the mother and that no one else needs to deal with it.
@@roses2385 if the worst that can happen happens, it leaves countless parents grieving with no help because âwell if something happens it shouldnât be a bother to anyone but who it happened toâ. If your family member dies Iâm sure its not treated the same.
@@pillowtalk1925 It's not about taboo.. it's just simple fact that the first 12 weeks aren't a certainty and until you have had a viability scan... It's completely fine and "normal" to wait before you broadcast a pregnancy.
I'm so sorry for Tori and Zachs loss. My heart goes out to them both. I know to well the pain they are going through. My heart goes out to anyone who has went through a miscarriage.
My heart -felt sympathies go out to my favourites on the show - Tori and Zach. So sorry to hear of the loss of their little angel.
So sorry for your loss. The dad is so sweet. Hugs for all of you
I lost my baby at 38 weeks pregnant. It litterally rips your very heart out. My heart breaks for the whole family.
My worst nightmare. I donât know how you live thru this.
It gives me comfort to know our unborn babies are safe with our Lord awaiting our reunion.
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Only if one is born again/ biblically- people make God out of their own self image including religions- God is personal not what we think to believe He should be - opinions- He is about having a relationship therefore itâs a requirement to actually meet Him
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@@370.y I get ur trying to be funny but this rlly isnât the topic to do that on
My heart definitely goes out to both Zach & Tori. They were both very excited about welcoming that baby into the world, & then to be told that the baby's gone.....that leaves a painful hole in your heart.
My deepest sympathy. I wanted to wait until my second trimester to tell people as I was older when I started a family. These things happen more often than people realize. đ
I've never had a miscarriage but i lost my 22 year old son 6 months ago to an unknown brain aneurysm. It's so hard. I hope they find peace.
Iâm so sorry ... I canât even imagine that. Praying for your comfort.
RIP to your boy
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When Amy spoke I thought of my relationship with my oldest son, who is 13. PhewâŠ
Life begins at conception, we announced right away! I have two Angel babies and my heart is STILL with you, Tori!
My heart goes out to Tori and Zach I'm truly sorry this has happened to you guys
I'm so sorry for your loss! Zach has a way with words that definitely show how much he cares for Tori. He cares about her health and well being. Tori and Zach will never forget and need not to forget knowing that baby added a little more love within their little family. You've got this lil mamađ
Zach is such a loving and caring husband, heâs really been great thru the loss that theyâve both experienced. Iâm sure that took such great strength. What an inspiration. I hope God blesses their family and helps them thru this horrible tragedy.
I donât think Zachary realizes itâs not just about his wife he matters to. I know he wants to support her but what I didnât realize was how much our situation hurt my husband as wellâŠ
Damn seeing Matt choke up was tough. He does love those grandbabies.
Not as much as he loved drinking!
Of course he does
@@MoDavI-sl7iy He really loved the bottle!
Seeing strong men cry is beautiful to me, my heart goes out to him and the family
Itâs very hard Iâm sure to see your son upset about losing his baby. So youâre sad about your grand baby but also for your own child. đą
I'm so sorry for their loss. Much hugs, love, and prayers đ
Thank you for sharing your lives with us. So very brave to go on and air this episode. Hugs and prayers.
Best things you can do for Zach and Tori: don't avoid talking about their baby, calling by name. Men & women grieve differently. There's no deadline for grief.
âNo deadline for grief.â What a profound statement!
I lost my husband almost 3 years ago. Still Alone, LOST and sad Every single day! The pain doesn't go away. Grief doesn't go away. For sure NO DEADLINE
@@sharjerzyk7765 No, it does not ever go away, everđ°...I am so very sorry for your loss of your soulmate and life partner...staying busy when you are ready and grief support groups help the profound sadness during this very difficult journey in life and knowing that you will be together in God's Kingdom for eternity, when it is time...my heart goes out to youâ€ïž
@@brendafoster4712 Thank you Brenda
I know how they feel, I've lost 4 myself. I held 2 of those babies in my hands, it's absolutely devastating. Zack and Tori, I pray you have peace and understanding. Take time to really feel all those emotions and don't hesitate to ask other's for help, if you feel you need it. Don't bottle up any emotions, let them all out. That baby is with the Lord, safer than he or she would've ever been on this earth. Everything happens for a reason, even when we don't understand it.
Zack, you're a wonderful husband and person. It's so great to see you so in tune with Tori, letting her have her time needed and being there for her every step of the way. That's exactly what she needs and she's lucky to have you. You're both Blessed to have one another, it's not luck actually. You have a beautiful, gorgeous, strong family and I'm so happy for you all!! †God Bless you all!!
So sorry for your loss guys
Hi Pauline
How are you doing today?
I love Zach .. he is so there for Tory.. his love and commitment is so obvious! Love this family! I wish them a lifetime of love and happiness, and will cheer them on! xo
My heart goes to you all having gone through this same thing multiple times. Love Zach's positivity, both of yours. Mourn the loss of the life that was there, in your lives. LISTEN to the doctors when they tell you it wasn't "your fault". Have the strength to seek professional help if you need it! Hugs from Florida.
So sorry to hear about the loss of their child...my condolences. It isn't the natural order of things for parents to outlive their children.
The baby was a few weeks old.......
@@lucyjane103 doesnât matter
@@lucyjane103 still painful
@@alexandramoyer8785 I've been there. Overly dramatic for TV program .....
@@lucyjane103 that's unkind. Everyone's experience of loss is different.
I've watched this about 9times and everytime I cry too, idky I keep coming back to watch. Sending my love and virtual hugs Zach and Toriâ€
We are so, so and so sorry for their loss!!! God bless this child's soul and rest in peace to that baby and God bless the grieving family and friends with much love.
I'm so sorry for the loss of this precious one. May they rejoice in paradise.
Iâm sorry for your loss.I had a miscarriage at 5 months after having 2 full term babies too! That was 22 years ago and I still think about it every day God bless you and Zack Iâll pray that the pain lifts a bit for you.God bless.I learned the same way a routine ultrasound technician didnât know what to say or do and left the room to get the doctor I remember it like.I remember it like it was yesterday
Tori. I am so sorry for your loss. I lost a baby at full term. It was devastating. God has gained another angel!
I'm so sorry for your loss of your baby, Zach and Tori đ My heart aches for you both, knowing the pain of losing a childđȘ Zach, you are an amazing husband and it's beautiful how much empathy and understanding you have for Tori. You're also an amazing Dad! Tori, sending love and healing hugs!!!
This is so sad sorry for your loss Zach is such a good husband you can see that I hope in time things get better
Sorry to your family and to you for your loss! Your hearts will always have a place for this baby. May your hearts also find peace.
So sorry about your loss. Sending prayers and hugs for all of you. Your family is so awesome and this baby will always be in your heart. Just know we feel your pain. â„ïž
I'm so so sorry. May God wrap his arms around each and everyone of you at this time of loss. Prayersđ
So sad for Zach and Tori they are wonderful parents đą đ
I was watching them since I was 8 years old. My heart goes out to them completely đ„șâ€ïžâđ©č
I had two miscarriagesâŠone before our first born and one before our youngest! Itâs bittersweetâŠitâs absolutely heartbreaking, but I would look at my two sons when they were young and evenly today and canât imagine life without them! I wouldnât have them without my two that didnât make it here!
Zach is a wonderful, strong husband and father.
You can see the pain đ in their eyes. God bless that little angel đ
Prayers to them. Its a very difficult event to experience. I've had 2 myself and you never forget those babies.
I had 2 as well. The 2nd was especially tough because the person who had been the most helpful after the 1st had been found dead in her home a month before
Aww Iâm sorry to hear this. I was pregnant with mine and I was 5 weeks when I lost mine. I know how hard it is to lose a baby. I am glad that Zack was there to be with you all the way. Hugs to you, Zack and the kids.
Prayers for Zack and Tori and family. I have been through this and know how you are feeling it will get better.
Iâm going through a miscarriage right now. Itâs hard to see how many others have gone through it but itâs comforting at the same time...
I had multiple miscarriages between the years of 2017 and 2020. Turns out I had a huge ovarian cyst AND a fibroid (which was growing another fibroid on top of it) that was smack dab in the middle of my uterus. My body thought I was pregnant so I felt sick a lot, was experiencing a LOT of fatigue, lower back aches, hip issues, horrible (more painful than usual) periods and just felt overall worn down. I thought it was the grief I was experiencing from multiple deaths in the family and working 50 to 60 hours a week. During this time, I had been seeing a gynocologist that didn't use the sonogram to investigate my inner organs so she never saw any of it. She just felt around. I thought this was strange because my first and only gynecologist that I started going to when I was 17 years old always used a sonogram to make sure that everything was okay during my annual pap smears. In January of 2020, I finally went back to my very first gyno, who is AMAZING, and he used his usual sonogram. He was able to diagnose my "infertility" in less than 5 minutes. Within two weeks, I had a myomectomy to remove the cyst, fibroids AS WELL AS some endometriosis that I had no idea I even had. I was pregnant within the year. I had my first (and only, so far) baby girl in July of 2021. Please, please, PLEASE don't give up. God put the desire in your heart to have children and however that comes about, I truly believe that you will be blessed when the time is right. When God/the universe puts a desire for children so deep in your heart, that you *will* have/adopt/foster a child into becoming someone who will make a difference in the world. I wish the best of luck/blessings in your journey. âïžâ€ïžâ
It's so sad to hear, they will never heal but it will take time. Praying for both Zack and Tori.
This is so sad. I hope Tori, Zach and their families ard alright.
Best wishes to you Tori and Zach, I hope time has helped heal some of the pain from your loss.
You have two beautiful babies and are a lovely family.
Sad to see people bringing hateful comments to s heartbroken video about loss. Truly showing their colors.
Oh my heart breaks for them , I recently lost my nephew , he was 4 months old and it broke my sister and all of us really , loosing a child at any stage of pregnancy and from birth is a pain that literally goes to your soul and takes away your breath and itâs a level of pain you never knew existed , itâs a pain I wouldnât wish on my worst enemy , a pain I wish no parent ever has to face đ„șđ„ș
So sorry for everyone's loss!! Sending condolences!! RIP little one!!
God be with you . Your story touched me my daughter went through same thing all i was able to do is say it was not ment to be but she saw your story it was a comfort that it was not just her and she was not alone thank you
I experienced a miscarriage Tori.... you are right, you go from feeling like you've been run over by a truck, to feeling "normal " in a blink of an eye. When things like this happen in life, there are just no words of wisdom. You both are loved and you're not alone.
I praise you for your willingness to share something so private and devastating. The biggest thing I learned was how lonely this process can be. I felt so alone and like no one knew what I was going through. My husband felt like his role was to be the rock for us, which is needed, but it left me feeling alone with these sad feelings. One day, I decided to look up a support group of women who had gone through this and I took comfort in that. That helped me out a lot. Knowing others where with me in this struggle. I want to thank you for sharing. This can help someone out there going through this. God Bless!
Mattâs wife is so sweet and caring and so generous and thoughtful. I donât watch this series but I did when I was a small child. I liked it, my family would watch together. Sorry I donât know her name but sheâs a bright woman.
Itâs actually Karen. The most unKaren Karen ever.
She's who split Matt and Amy. It's clear she was far more than just a secretary!!
@@wiseguysoutdoors2954 Matt and Amyâs relationship was over way before hand. You canât judge a situation you have no idea about. It was CLEAR their marriage was in trouble wayyy before Matt and Karen were together, or even a thought.
@@MamaBear_2629 screw you, believe what makes you feel good!!
@@wiseguysoutdoors2954 be fair .. Matt and Amy's relationship had turned to shit YEARS before Karen came on the scene. Amy was hating on Matt for a long time.
feeling so sorry for them all. Such a loss. praying for them.
What a wonderful family.Thank God Tori & Zack have ya all for the love and support they need!!! God Bless!!!!!!
I am so very sorry for your loss. Sending love and prayers for you all.
Iâm so sorry to hear the news about your new little baby â€ïžđđ». I know what youâre going through because it happened to me too more than 30 years ago now. Iâm praying for you both to feel comfort from the Lord, and hope for your future little ones. Jackson and Lilah are beautiful and I hope you can just focus on them for now â€ïžđđ»
I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
I've watched tori grow up over the years and I'm truly amazed at the women and mother shes become...she has shown strength through this...I pray you have your rainbow đ đ¶ soon
My heart breaks for them. I know this pain as I miscarried my first pregnancy at 10 weeks after an accident. We also told everyone and announced at about 6 weeks. Miscarriage/infant loss are so common and it's important to know you are not alone....and it's okay to hurt and grieve however you need to. Hug you babies extra tight and just cry! I am so incredibly thankful for my 3 year old son and baby girl.on the way. A painful and devastating loss. So sorry Tori and Zach
I understand what they are going through itâs not an easy thing or feeling to go through and no can tell you differently Iâm so sorry for your loss Zach and Tori đđ
My sister lost her twin. After a pregnancy of 31 weeks. So I know how you feel, I know how it hurts, I know the pain and Iâm sending all my hugs and love to you two â€ïž. Take your time to give it a place.
So sorry to hear this news about your loss we have followed your family for a long time we feel like we know you well from Manchester England
Zach and Tori we send you our love, it happened to me too...stay strong and pray, only time heal those thing that life teaches us. What it teaches us is that even if we didn't get to hold that baby, she or he will away be part of the family and we will always send out love...peace, love and light from far away in the mountains of Puerto Rico
I'm deeply sorry for your loss đđđđ I pray that you and your family recover from this â€â€
Amyâs so sweet, Iâd love a mom like her.
My heart goes out to you guys. It is hard to go through a miscarriage, especially after having those first babies normally. I know because I had two boys and then four miscarriages and THENâŠone beautiful, healthy little girl. Nothing I did wrong. The pregnancies were not viable was what I was told.
Poor sweet girl . No words an take the pain away. Heal mamma.
When she says that she feels so normal already at 8:23, that hit me...I get it. Like it never was...
I am so sorry for your loss . đ praying for your family . Sending a hug your way .
Praying for your family. I am so very sorry for your loss.
I am so sorry for your loss, I know how you fell, your babys need you ,they don't understand. prayers
I love Matt. Such a good dad. My prayers go out to Zack and Tori.
So sorry for your loss! I give God thank for your two beautiful blessings you both have
God bless you all Zach and Tori my heart and prayers are with you much luv and hugs đâïžđđ im so very sorry for your loss đą
Hi Tori and Zach I'm so sorry to hear about the lost of your baby, that little angel is in heaven resting. My prayers are with you and your family. I watch your show all the time and I love you guys!!
My heart is broken for you and Zack. I am so sorry .
After 28 years IT is still difficult to watch people go through the pain I felt.It is tough but IT Will get better.
So sad to hear of your loss be strong you have an angel over your family,will keep you strong for your others at home take one day forward you both are great parents Peace be with you both.prayers.
Iâm so sorry for your loss. I too lost my baby between 6-8 weeks along. đą
I love you Zack and Tori and babes.... You have a beautiful family.... May you find peace and healingâ€ïž
Praying for you Tori,I know what you're going through. My heart aches for you. Praying for both of you.
I am 47 and the big C took the chances of being a biological mom away from me many years ago. I never felt the pain of losing that heartbeat growing inside. My †and prayers go out to Tori and Zach. As well as the entire Roloff family & Tori's family as well.
I realize it's been six months, but this will be with them for a lifetime. I apologize if this sounds insensitive, but being they have 2 lil ones at this stage they might not really understand what happened. đ
Like I mentioned I'm 47 and have had a best friend since birth! She is 2 months older, but her mom took care of me after my mom had to return to work. Although the years put distance and strain, we always had each other in our hearts. Three years ago at age 43 she became pregnant. The fact that she never could have children was terrible (as I know too), but at 11 weeks she lost the baby. She was beside herself in grief knowing this was the only chance to biologically becoming a mom. Although I didn't know what to say and to this day I feel like I should have been there for her more. We still love each other like sisters, but I will never understand the pain.
Tori you are a wonderful mom and we can all see through the lens how amazing
Zach is, his strengths as a husband a more importantly a dad! đ
It's crazy to think when the Roloff family hopped on the TLC train, Zach was just a lil kid!
Prayers for Zac and Tory. So sorry for your loss.
I'm so sorry for your guys's loss, you both have eachother & your babies, glad you have a rainbow baby now âĄâĄâĄ stay strong n wonderful together
Wow so sorry for your loss Torri and Zach sometimes in life things happen that makes us hurt and cry but everything happens for a reason. Hope and faith is good but love is the best. God bless you and family even more.
So sorry for your loss my heart and prayers go out to you đ
Tori,Zach and family, May Angels hold you all tightly and give you comfort in these difficult days. Hugs...âŁđâŁ
Sorry to hear of your loss
I'm so sorry for your loss , I will keep you and your beautiful family in my prayers. I love you , maryann
I'm so sorry to hear about this please know we will be praying for you guys đđ and you guys stay strong