BANKS - Change (Prod. Tim Anderson)

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  • čas přidán 8. 09. 2013
  • Available Sep 10th on "LONDON" the new EP from BANKS.
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Komentáře • 372

  • @RosariaDF
    @RosariaDF Před 9 lety +660

    You couldn't write this unless you had this experience. It's so fucked up you couldn't make it up but everyone from an abusive relationship could tell the exact same story.
    People always ask why people don't just leave but this is why. They ruin your life, act like the victim and make you feel guilty. So much insight, i love her.

    • @scottroger5859
      @scottroger5859 Před 8 lety +2

      +Robird Well, don't be a cheater.

    • @EW-vz3ij
      @EW-vz3ij Před 8 lety +36

      +Mr. Roger's ... people don't only get abused because they cheated...

    • @bethjessup5527
      @bethjessup5527 Před 7 lety +1

      I tremendously agree!

    • @alrightythen6167
      @alrightythen6167 Před 6 lety +5

      Rosie yes. If u ever been thru this u can never know the pain

    • @claudettellontop5
      @claudettellontop5 Před 6 lety +2

      I'm guessing both sides could say the same thing. Both sides actually end up feeling abused.

  • @darkopacity
    @darkopacity Před 8 lety +177

    It hurts how relatable this is for myself and so many people.

  • @CheyBluexoxo
    @CheyBluexoxo Před 7 lety +264

    I was in an abusive relationship for 4 years both mental and physical and this song, brain, and explosions by Ellie Goulding literally got me out. I would listen to them over and over and cry and because I kept my relationship hidden as much as I could and not talked about it like I probably should have, these songs are like the shoulder I cried on that I needed. I will never fucking forget this song ever. Thank you Jillian ❤️

    • @Bexckers
      @Bexckers Před 6 lety +6

      I'm soooo truly, deeply, extremely proud and happy that you got out.

    • @bellyjar3020
      @bellyjar3020 Před 5 lety +3

      Same and it hurts still after 7 months, its like knife in my heart but its okey one Day i'm hoping it will go...

    • @TheGreenLick
      @TheGreenLick Před 4 lety +1

      @@bellyjar3020 💚💚💚

    • @taydriver5199
      @taydriver5199 Před 2 lety +1

      @@bellyjar3020 I'm hoping you're doing well now!! ❤❤❤

    • @bellyjar3020
      @bellyjar3020 Před 2 lety +3

      @@taydriver5199 thank you, unfortunatelly i discovered that i had panic attacks because of the trauma and tried to heal in the meantime. My life changed a lot and i am at a beautiful place but still unfortunatelly some nights i get triggered and my body shuts down or i feel dizzy. I'm recovering and thank God i confronted that monster and finally everything is over. I spent my time healing and loving my new life. Thank you so much for your kindness🤍

  • @rosecoloredlenses4863
    @rosecoloredlenses4863 Před 10 lety +316

    Because you like to tell me how you hate
    All the ways I'm not enough for you
    this part really got me

  • @StyleinCali
    @StyleinCali Před 10 lety +283

    anyone else on that banks high? listening to every song of hers.x

  • @morganforry5022
    @morganforry5022 Před 10 lety +65

    There are just not enough words in the English language to even begin to say how truly wonderful this song is.

  • @kaymcclx
    @kaymcclx Před 5 lety +38

    Always cold
    While you'd self-incriminate
    By avoiding all my questions
    And calling me an instigator
    Cut me down
    Always calling me unstable
    You so easily can make me cry
    Just 'cause you are in a mood
    And you'd say
    Call me out
    You would say I need attention
    Just because I put on makeup
    To ironically look good for you
    Cut me to pieces
    While you watched me disintegrate
    Because you like to tell me how you hate
    All the ways I'm not enough for you
    Then you'd say
    Baby don't go
    I didn't know
    I'll change I swear
    I'll change I swear
    Baby don't go
    I'll make you wait
    I promise I'll be better
    All of these things they will change
    Baby don't go
    I didn't know
    I'll change I swear
    I'll change I swear
    Baby don't go
    I'll make you wait
    I promise I'll be better
    All of these things they will change
    Never guilty
    Say it ain't your fault
    Because you had an emotionally abusive daddy
    And 'cause of this you don't know how to act
    Poor poor baby
    Say you can't help the fact that you're so crazy
    And you're so good at making me feel guilty
    For trying to walk away
    Because I'm tired of being mad
    Then you'd say
    Baby don't go
    I didn't know
    I'll change I swear
    I'll change I swear
    Baby don't go
    I'll make you wait
    I promise I'll be better
    All of these things they will change
    Baby don't go
    I didn't know
    I'll change I swear
    I'll change I swear
    Baby don't go
    I'll make you wait
    I promise I'll be better
    All of these things they will change

    • @suwybee
      @suwybee Před 2 lety +4

      Bless you for this.😘

  • @destinyishere
    @destinyishere Před 7 lety +112

    "Never guilty,
    say it ain't your fault because you had,
    an emotionally abusive daddy
    because of this you don't know how to act..."
    This part hit me 😔💓

    • @detrekmusic
      @detrekmusic Před 7 lety

      Same

    • @pcarebear1
      @pcarebear1 Před 5 lety +2

      This, Drowning, and Brain feel like therapy when I hear them. This line probably reminds everyone of a bad romantic relationship, to me it reminds me of the crazy emotional manipulative relationship I still deal w/my father. 🤦‍♀️💘

    • @literaltrashcan6743
      @literaltrashcan6743 Před 3 lety

      One of my favourite parts of the song, it describes my ex so perfectly

  • @DesignerDude88
    @DesignerDude88 Před 10 lety +59

    I love how melodic the hook is, very relaxing.

  • @sophieburness89
    @sophieburness89 Před 9 lety +63

    This song is beautiful. It encapsulates the relationship I just found the strength to leave. I listen to it every day to remind me why I never want to go back there.

    • @Sticeyyy
      @Sticeyyy Před 6 lety +5

      Same! I moved to a different state to be with the man I love and he turned out to be just like this. Verbally and mentally abusive and emotionally vacant all while I did everything for us. And now he is singing me the chorus. I play this to remind me that I DONT WANT THIS. I still love him and I don't know why. He never did anything for me. Guess it's the manipulation of an abusive relationship. I will heal!

  • @spc4818
    @spc4818 Před 9 lety +78

    deep. pleading. ironically self-destructive. one-sided love.

  • @LoveSimsYT
    @LoveSimsYT Před 2 lety +13

    It's been years since I first heard this song and I STILL end up crying every time I hear it. It's a cry that heals though. 🖤❤

  • @justineperez2250
    @justineperez2250 Před 3 lety +10

    I instantly cried when I heard this song because at that time because I was with that kind of person and she sang the words from my hurting soul. If you're still in that same story, sign it, close it, and create a new one. ❤Banks

  • @wavyvibes
    @wavyvibes Před 9 lety +65

    I heard "drowning" first, then "Brain" and got instantly obsessed with both songs..now THIS. wow i love this girl. :o

  • @ebonychante2184
    @ebonychante2184 Před 9 lety +40

    Many people can relate to this song!! Well done BANKS!!

  • @taliannerosario
    @taliannerosario Před 10 lety +6

    she is so much better in person its crazy. her performance last night nearly topped the weeknd. very grateful of last night. i love this artist

  • @mb-jk9lp
    @mb-jk9lp Před 10 lety +98

    i actually cried the first few times i heard this song lol

  • @Tszandi98
    @Tszandi98 Před 5 lety +9

    I thank the universe everyday that I got out of that hell... I'm sorry to anyone who has to live through similar experiences... It will get better! Stay strong people! ❤

  • @belensoto6229
    @belensoto6229 Před 5 lety +7

    Damn this is one of the only songs that can bring u sorrow n happiness at the same time, suffering in a emotional abusive relationship n then moving foward in a stronger state of mind

  • @derekcollins5571
    @derekcollins5571 Před 8 lety +16

    "Baby don't go
    I didn't know
    I'll change I swear
    I'll change I swear
    Baby don't go
    I'll make you wait
    I promise I'll be better
    All of these things they will change"

  • @estefaniaromero7883
    @estefaniaromero7883 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Banks saved me with all her music 😢 such a beautiful voice 🩵

  • @miltoncoburn4807
    @miltoncoburn4807 Před 9 lety +24

    Banks is awesome she brought me here herself. Love her music omg

  • @MrJaayOriginal
    @MrJaayOriginal Před 10 lety +44

    Her Voice is Amazing. Her London Ep is Amazing, if She sound this Amazing on her Ep , imagine Her ALBUM.

    • @mikser1410
      @mikser1410 Před 10 lety +31

      Or imagine Her live performance.. ;)

    • @Choocolatexoxo
      @Choocolatexoxo Před 9 lety +2

      Rafał Miksa id be high and waving my hands and sing along and dance with my friends ;)

  • @Sticeyyy
    @Sticeyyy Před 6 lety +4

    If you are reading this and you feel like you relate to this song... know that you are not alone. But remain strong and play this as much as you need to to keep away from that abusive relationship that you do not deserve. You have been giving your heart and soul to this man who does not appreciate you. He only does when you're gone because he knows he will never find someone like you. Someone so loving and giving and forgiving. But that's the fun part... You get to move on and find somebody that respects you and appreciates everything that you are willing to do for the man that you love. He will notice all of the other things this cunt never saw. Xoxo

  • @juliabarrera12
    @juliabarrera12 Před 8 lety +7

    The emotions.. The chills I get when this song plays... I forget how powerful it is

  • @zhinjizz
    @zhinjizz Před 8 lety +11

    this is her best song tbh the lyrics speaks to my soul :(

  • @caylinjade7979
    @caylinjade7979 Před 9 lety +5

    I really hope that we as people for being such big fans of hers can spread the word and get her music more noticed because she's touched so many hearts with all of her songs. I really hope that she will get more recognized for her work and appriciated for being able to relate with all age groups on such a personal level.

  • @lana.bby-6654
    @lana.bby-6654 Před 7 lety +25

    I always come back to this song love it ❤️

  • @Musicfreaklolduh
    @Musicfreaklolduh Před 10 lety +7

    The emotion she conveys in this song is great. The lyrics get me every time.
    :)

  • @TheAlor555
    @TheAlor555 Před 10 lety +15

    i´m so glad I found her

  • @sheefadreyer777
    @sheefadreyer777 Před 5 lety +3

    To all of those who have been in abusive relationships, I hope that you have found the strength to walk away and not take it anymore as you deserve better....

  • @Maxianaconda
    @Maxianaconda Před 5 lety +5

    Still my favourite Banks song! Touches me every time.

  • @debbiedebs69
    @debbiedebs69 Před 10 lety +10

    I love her voice, makes me wanna fly over to california and see her at coachella.

  • @thesunbrightlight1498
    @thesunbrightlight1498 Před 8 lety +15

    Banks is something special. For real, For real!!!!!!

  • @M1STER420
    @M1STER420 Před 10 lety +155

    the chorus sounds like every relationship that ever existed

  • @Rutsruh
    @Rutsruh Před 2 lety +1

    3:21 on is like a phoenix rising from the ashes… from the wreckage of a disastrous relationship. It’s inspiring.

  • @will2tao
    @will2tao Před 9 lety +41

    Just found this artist, and I am enjoying it.

    • @elizabethmedici7030
      @elizabethmedici7030 Před 9 lety

      Interesting singer…. I like her lyrics in Beggin for Thread.

    • @will2tao
      @will2tao Před 9 lety

      You are certainly on google.plus a lot.

    • @elizabethmedici7030
      @elizabethmedici7030 Před 9 lety

      hahaha, actually NOT…. I just saw that you posted. It shows up in my e-mails. I only go there when someone posts.

  • @genevieve222
    @genevieve222 Před 6 lety +3

    This song is so tragically beautiful, my heart breaks for anyone that can relate to it

  • @chinna8894
    @chinna8894 Před 2 lety +1

    The first half described my ex and the second half described me. Mental health can really break a relationship. The flow of the song is gentle but so heartbreaking and raw.

  • @scarletrose10
    @scarletrose10 Před 6 lety +1

    this is the first song i ever heard from you and it's 2018 now but wow, seeing you becoming more and more talented and showing us more of yourself throughout your career has been such an honour. you're beautiful not only as a person, but as an artist and i just wanted to say thank you for showing up a bit of yourself and sharing your art with us

  • @daniellesousa2405
    @daniellesousa2405 Před 10 lety +9

    Can't get over your music. In love.

  • @theintrosproject8598
    @theintrosproject8598 Před 3 lety +7

    this song is for those who are in a very toxic relationship - where one-sided love is dominant.

  • @kristen.t
    @kristen.t Před 10 lety +52

    I'm not even gonna go into detail about how painfully beautiful this song is with such a powerful message. This is my favorite song by BANKS. Anyone know if she'll drop a video for this one?

    • @EmmyKhan
      @EmmyKhan Před 6 lety +3

      Kristen T. Is a video needed? This song gives me chills just listening to it. The beauty of it reaches my mind with via the beautiful audio... Her voice is art

    • @kristen.t
      @kristen.t Před 4 lety

      @@EmmyKhan Idk how I didn't see this comment sooner -- but definitely not. I just selfishly wanted one at the time. 😂 Her voice is most definitely art. I'm happy to return to such an uplifting community within her fan base!! ❤️❤️❤️Hope you are well! 😊

  • @pureknightxs
    @pureknightxs Před 10 lety +15

    heard her opening with the weeknd, epic

  • @riarose2388
    @riarose2388 Před 10 lety +6

    Currently OBSESSED!! i love her && this song smh yea somebody comes into mind

  • @inavihsrahan5017
    @inavihsrahan5017 Před 10 lety +1

    Can't get over how amazing her voice is! Saw her live Friday night in Birmingham! Flawless!

  • @ADGEMUSIC
    @ADGEMUSIC Před 10 lety +7

    this should be more popular than it is, it's a great song!

  • @mackenzie8131
    @mackenzie8131 Před 4 lety +1

    One of many amazing OG songs by Banks. 🖤🖤🖤

  • @rwktotanes7045
    @rwktotanes7045 Před 5 lety +1

    This pierces.

  • @EMIRIANOROCHA
    @EMIRIANOROCHA Před 10 lety +3

    I think this is one of the best Álbuns of the year ... all songs are very good and her style is beautiful ;)

  • @augustlunaonline
    @augustlunaonline Před 4 lety +2

    This will always be my favorite song by BANKS. Sure, she’s written many great song, and some better than this; however this song always hits me hard and means so much to me.

  • @xyzlove13
    @xyzlove13 Před 10 lety

    So so SO freaking obsessed with this song I can't even begin to explain how much.The lyrics are just...ahh! I can't explain it! IT'S JUST SO AMAZING. period.

  • @Anonimox96
    @Anonimox96 Před 10 lety +15

    One of the best EPs of the year, next to MØ's Bikini Daze and Until the Ribbon Breaks' A Taste of Silver.

  • @morganforry5022
    @morganforry5022 Před 5 lety

    2019 and I'm still listening. I don't think I will ever stop falling back onto this song.

  • @notsotypicalful
    @notsotypicalful Před 9 lety +1

    I love her so much omg!

  • @chloeryan2292
    @chloeryan2292 Před 6 lety +1

    forever my favourite banks song

  • @Felixissogaylol
    @Felixissogaylol Před 7 lety

    this is the most powerful song from her, everytime i listen to it it hits harder

  • @soulowilliams4397
    @soulowilliams4397 Před 2 lety

    The ending is just perfect

  • @tatianasmith8864
    @tatianasmith8864 Před 10 lety

    I also saw Banks last night. She was so on point. I love when I see artist feeling there music as they sing it.

  • @whateverlove11
    @whateverlove11 Před měsícem

    We have the power to move on and grow, sisters ❤🔥 burn those bridges and fly

  • @GoBills1991
    @GoBills1991 Před 10 lety +4

    just saw her open for the weeknd! Awesome performer:)

  • @mamiecharleneybarra3673
    @mamiecharleneybarra3673 Před 8 lety +3

    I love "banks" her music is bad ass!!!!

  • @tracyjury2293
    @tracyjury2293 Před 6 lety

    Been there, done that, she puts it so beautifully...BANKS ARE THE SICKEST NEW BAND AND THE NEXT BIG THING...trust & believe.....

  • @sajidalexander6612
    @sajidalexander6612 Před 8 lety +2

    The end is so haunting 😩😩

  • @brunodetoledo5128
    @brunodetoledo5128 Před 10 lety

    My favorite song from the new EP! AMAZING!!!

  • @sheefadreyer777
    @sheefadreyer777 Před 5 lety

    what a beautiful song!!!!goosebumps

  • @tinomak1332
    @tinomak1332 Před 9 lety +5

    this song hit me really hard

  • @tipsyonteaaa
    @tipsyonteaaa Před 5 lety

    This was the first song I heard from her on tumblr. I’m so glad that I stayed listening to her. ♥️

  • @DeeRumania
    @DeeRumania Před 10 lety +1

    my absolute favourite song

  • @DanielBrazao1
    @DanielBrazao1 Před 8 lety +1

    A very good singer ,keep on this way making beautiful music All the best from Portugal

  • @firephoenix819
    @firephoenix819 Před 6 lety

    So hard to find anything that actually fits what I went through, thank you for your awesome music

  • @JJMJ777
    @JJMJ777 Před 5 lety

    Dame this had me in tears I felt this

  • @Br3Bre
    @Br3Bre Před 9 lety +1

    Her voice is so perfect....My gosh.

  • @TheLadysha
    @TheLadysha Před 10 lety +2

    yup! your voice takes me to another place! AMAZING NEW FAV in MY WORLD

  • @MattyIce2001
    @MattyIce2001 Před 10 lety +31

    New Wave R&B- Banks x The Weeknd x Miguel x Drake x Jhene Aiko x Tinashe!!

    • @dominicwashington4023
      @dominicwashington4023 Před 9 lety

      im re posting this lol

    • @kevinfranca8191
      @kevinfranca8191 Před 9 lety +1

      Miguel? tf

    • @anelek7148
      @anelek7148 Před 4 lety

      Tinashe? Gurl 😂 😂 😂

    • @noranjoku7651
      @noranjoku7651 Před 2 měsíci

      @@anelek7148Yes. Listen to her mixtapes In Case We Die, Reverie, Black Water, Amethyst.
      Her songs Sacrifices, Cold Sweat, Sunburn, Soul Glitch, Bet, Ghetto Boy, Party Favours are moody dark spiritual R&B masterpieces

  • @pisicinebune
    @pisicinebune Před 10 lety

    This is the song of this autumn. Love it forever!

  • @loximanifestation
    @loximanifestation Před 9 lety +1

    MY FAVORITE ARTIST! Your music is amazing!

  • @cartooneyed
    @cartooneyed Před 4 lety +2

    This is my all-time favorite song by Banks. The second is Contaminated. It touches me like nothing else can.

  • @starisesun7692
    @starisesun7692 Před 9 lety +11

    I cried so hard to this song cos all my exes say the same shit n been through the same shit and they always hurt me

  • @loliaibanibo2268
    @loliaibanibo2268 Před 10 lety

    i'm OBSESSEEDDDDD with this song.

  • @bringingging
    @bringingging Před 3 lety +1

    Banks is so incredible

  • @sizebarnes
    @sizebarnes Před 9 lety +5

    21 GUN SALUTE BIG FUCKING TUNE I HAVE LIVED THIS. VIBES BANKS ENERGY

  • @salinajewell
    @salinajewell Před 10 lety

    Fell in love with her at The Weeknd's tour stop in Chicago. Amazing voice.

  • @KingSeda96
    @KingSeda96 Před 8 lety +2

    Love BANKS!!!! BABY DONT GO

  • @davidwu8275
    @davidwu8275 Před 2 lety

    My fave and still going strong

  • @stonkbonk3512
    @stonkbonk3512 Před 5 lety

    I know I'm late but u couldn't write this shit any better. I'm in awe, big respect for this woman

  • @loximanifestation
    @loximanifestation Před 9 lety +1

    I love way "Goddess" has that vibe. And your songs are really addictive. #cantstoplistening

  • @HollieRutterr
    @HollieRutterr Před 10 lety

    Love it. Just such lovely sounds.

  • @LunaCurativa
    @LunaCurativa Před 10 lety +1

    this is some, pour a glass of wine and light the candles in a bubble bath music. love

  • @DjMeow
    @DjMeow Před 6 lety

    Her whole album is so dreamy

  • @tealaniebaldwin5530
    @tealaniebaldwin5530 Před 10 lety +1

    The type of song you lose yourself in...Simply Amazing.

  • @Safe_and_Well
    @Safe_and_Well Před 10 lety

    Love this girl!

  • @veem8089
    @veem8089 Před 10 lety

    the fact that it sounds so good makes this song even sadder ;n;

  • @AshCamilliHenny
    @AshCamilliHenny Před 10 lety

    Fell in love with her voice instantly on itunes radio!

  • @MrPrettyHair
    @MrPrettyHair Před 10 lety

    she's so incredible

  • @InAerLiber
    @InAerLiber Před 9 měsíci

    I've never experienced what others in the comments say or what the song is about, but this song brings me sadness in a joyful form, overall makes me feel good. 🤣

  • @valentimvitor3248
    @valentimvitor3248 Před 6 lety

    💘 Heart beat 💘

  • @dailydosesofdee
    @dailydosesofdee Před rokem

    proud of everyone who escaped an emotionally abusive relationship 3 months out of mine literally had to go cold turkey no communication and it’s been the best decision! my life is so much brighter and better now

  • @jaeville
    @jaeville Před 5 lety

    BANKS COME BACK!!!! We MISS you!!

  • @Lauren-xe2mx
    @Lauren-xe2mx Před 5 lety

    Yay more BANKS