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  • čas přidán 18. 08. 2024

Komentáře • 67

  • @antoinettegorman8833
    @antoinettegorman8833 Před měsícem +47

    Narcissist need deliverance. Seriously. These demons run from the same script.

    • @SheldonBrown567
      @SheldonBrown567 Před měsícem +5

      Yep, the demons playbook!

    • @amandajohnson-williams7718
      @amandajohnson-williams7718 Před měsícem +8

      I definitely felt the narc I knew needed an exorcism and needed God in their life. He carried some darkness in his soul.
      I saw them described as 'devil's puppets' recently, which I felt held some truth 🤯

    • @kaoshi_kutie
      @kaoshi_kutie Před měsícem

      YES!
      They are literally demonic , Satan was the original Narcissist

    • @user-yy9be9mi6n
      @user-yy9be9mi6n Před měsícem +1

      The one I left cold turkey, NC, claims he was a Christian. I still CANNOT wrap my mind around that....
      How can light emanate from darkness, ie lies, cheating, gas lighting, etc .....

    • @pipers-lildogadventures5360
      @pipers-lildogadventures5360 Před měsícem

      I hear so many people say that, but who is going to deliver them when they are a reprobate? They are unreachable. Their deliverance is
      #greyrock
      #block
      #delete
      #nocontact
      Narcs are not going to seek deliverance and they will gaslight you back into the npd cycle of abuse.❤🎉😊

  • @SagittariusBabe87
    @SagittariusBabe87 Před měsícem +56

    "Narcissists are dependent people who pretend they don't need people." They literally blow up EVERY relationship. Push people away, fake break-ups and like idiots with all the crap they do. No one wants to deal with these losers after awhile. I'm pretty insulated at this point, from over a year since the first & final discard. I'm proud of myself, too. Still standing and stronger than ever! 💯💪 But, definitely always enjoy these new videos to keep me vigilant, discerning and careful for future cluster B's entering my life or, past ones....
    Beautiful images as always, Joe
    😍❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
    Have an Awesome Day and take care of yourself! 😁✌️☀️😘

    • @Kaif08610
      @Kaif08610 Před měsícem +6

      Completely right on blowing up every relationship... I've seen it with my own eyes...

    • @SagittariusBabe87
      @SagittariusBabe87 Před měsícem +8

      @@Kaif08610 yupp, their own spouses, gf's, bf's, friends, colleagues, neighbors, family members, list goes on & on. They're chronically miserable. They're their own worst enemy.

  • @ds7807
    @ds7807 Před 22 dny +3

    When I left and went no contact, I had to get an Order Of Protection from my narcissistic abusive husband. He can’t come near me for the next 2 years. Freedom is wonderful 🎉

  • @patriciapeeters7
    @patriciapeeters7 Před 15 dny +2

    Both people need to be accountable for their own behaviour towards each other. The way you let yourself be treated by a person is your own lesson in this life. You can't put all the blame on the narcissist. Stop being a victim and love/stand up for your self 💪🙏

  • @monarene44
    @monarene44 Před měsícem +45

    This week one year post reverse discard I get a hang up call from "that" number. Not taking the bait and hoping it doesn't escalate. It's so passive aggressive. I owe that person who lied and ran out on me and never properly apologized nothing.

    • @JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht
      @JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht Před měsícem +6

      You sure dont

    • @SagittariusBabe87
      @SagittariusBabe87 Před měsícem +1

      @@monarene44 please block them, Ms. Mona. You don't need the drama and they're energy vampires! They want you thinking about them, even after a year or longer!

    • @allthingsjana7870
      @allthingsjana7870 Před měsícem +1

      Yes , was hoovered with the 'accidental' whatsapp message... how creative 👏 Once I engaged they refused to give an apology for the abuse they gave prior to the discard. Doomed people they really are.

    • @SagittariusBabe87
      @SagittariusBabe87 Před měsícem

      @@allthingsjana7870 yes, this is common for them. They hoover but, there's no real substance to their messages. Just testing the waters. Seeing if you'll reply. It's not sincere or genuine.

    • @kryssis69
      @kryssis69 Před měsícem +1

      THAT number should have been blocked a year ago.

  • @allthingsjana7870
    @allthingsjana7870 Před měsícem +11

    He discarded me and blocked me then came to hoover me by unblocking me , sending me a message , deleting it and saying it was an accident. I'm kinda just laughing now at how pathetic it gets with such people.

    • @markallen5764
      @markallen5764 Před měsícem +4

      Block delete or get a new number
      Becky 🇬🇧 🇬🇧

  • @warangel4389
    @warangel4389 Před měsícem +5

    “The way you love me makes me sick” 2 weeks later “Why don’t you love me the way you used too”?
    There are thousands of examples.
    After 28 years No contact.

  • @ragingspeedhorn
    @ragingspeedhorn Před měsícem +16

    Over a year on from the breakup, Ive never been throught such a renaissance ! Hard at first, and I was screwed out of a lot of my own money.
    I dug deep into my soul and reconnected with the new me.
    I wasnt alone...my authetic self was recognised by everyone that mattered to me.
    Since then...more have come into my life.
    They say that a narcissist is sent to you when the devil cant reach you?
    Well, she dances with that devil still, while I head towards the light of truth and integrity. ❤

  • @brianjarrard869
    @brianjarrard869 Před měsícem +36

    They live in fantasy land

  • @minaak4185
    @minaak4185 Před 28 dny +3

    Yes I was the one he chooses to marry , I was literally like a slave.. many times I had panic attacks anxiety even I cut my arm ...I had depression and very low confidence and self esteem.. he ruined me I always begged him I apologized a lot but now after Three years and having two kids I came to know he got exposed and his rage was horrifying he and his family abused me mentally emotionally verbally psychologically spiritually a lot and I had 2nd c section two months ago with my second baby my physical health was badly affected and then I took stand for myself and told my parents everything I even recorded his abuse to prove I was right so that my family trust me... I walked away and it was the best decision and now I'm moving on Alhamdulillah Masha ALLAH I'm confident and know my worth

  • @leticiavillafranco6347
    @leticiavillafranco6347 Před měsícem +3

    I've seen a narcissist that has gone a long time without good supply. It brought back a passage from a Ann Rice vampire book I read a long time ago. A shell of themselves! Almost catatonic! Scary to watch.

  • @stylist62
    @stylist62 Před měsícem +7

    Yes told me he hated me all the times. Psychopaths don’t deserve anybody

    • @viewerwatching5712
      @viewerwatching5712 Před měsícem +1

      She would tell me she hated me many times over 20 years. I should have left a long time ago.

    • @markallen5764
      @markallen5764 Před měsícem

      They have the illness nobody else
      They see nothing wrong in themselves...let them crack on
      Becky 🇬🇧 🇬🇧

    • @stylist62
      @stylist62 Před 21 dnem +1

      @@viewerwatching5712 because you are loved by God they are demon possessed

  • @amandajohnson-williams7718
    @amandajohnson-williams7718 Před měsícem +6

    Things were left off very badly on his part luckily for me, so NEVER any further contact. Such an awful experience but so wonderful to escape!! 😂

  • @tammyfitzgerald5336
    @tammyfitzgerald5336 Před měsícem +10

    Walking dead ❤sad mental health

  • @kerimorgan6665
    @kerimorgan6665 Před měsícem +12

    As draining as it can be for the narcissist I would say it’s just as draining for those of us who experienced the confusion because of the narcissist.

  • @antoinettegorman8833
    @antoinettegorman8833 Před měsícem +16

    Empty meat suits.

  • @lioubovgrant1935
    @lioubovgrant1935 Před měsícem +7

    21K !!! I will do little magic too 😊

    • @joebhouse
      @joebhouse  Před měsícem +4

      You are too kind ❤❤❤

  • @ritapeters1330
    @ritapeters1330 Před 2 dny

    Great video Joe, very helpful

  • @gabrielkepiro474
    @gabrielkepiro474 Před měsícem +2

    Until you finalize the boundaries they will in fact harass and torture you and blame the nicest most normal person for this aggressive sick behavior they insist on you

  • @Sarah_sunshine14
    @Sarah_sunshine14 Před měsícem +6

    Just love listening to you Joe. Thankyou for all that you do 🙏🏻❤️❤️

  • @michaeladenton8178
    @michaeladenton8178 Před měsícem +1

    Geezlus he would have to have a car n license to bother hoovering lmao

  • @lioubovgrant1935
    @lioubovgrant1935 Před měsícem +1

    Good evening ! 🍷🍷 WOW !!! Magic just keep coming ! One more magical video for us and its perfect as always ! Thank you Joe ! 🤗❤ What is Mad Hatter doing here, he sure look like magician 😊

  • @kakashiteam
    @kakashiteam Před měsícem

    Wow this video is just amazing and sad at the same time!😢

  • @jayendepersil6607
    @jayendepersil6607 Před měsícem +1

    That was m. I connected with the Hatter. Johnny was very handsome there.

  • @WhineyOne
    @WhineyOne Před měsícem +4

    Can you do a video that describes when the narcissist hoovers FORMER Grade A supply and the consequences on both sides.

  • @Mandooze
    @Mandooze Před měsícem

    I just subscribed to your channel, great content. Thankyou.❤

  • @lindagodwin3680
    @lindagodwin3680 Před měsícem +4

    I have been there ... I am gone.

  • @romansepiol
    @romansepiol Před měsícem

    Thank you ❤

  • @tb22k
    @tb22k Před měsícem +1

    True

  • @JacK-qn4zh
    @JacK-qn4zh Před měsícem +2

    I will never know anything again about my bf of 35 years.... Nor will I ever. I walked knowing...all our "friends" for the last 10 years...were Hers ..not mine.
    So what I'm asking is...How is it possible to know this? How do you know the struggles when all ties have been cut?

    • @ritapeters1330
      @ritapeters1330 Před 2 dny

      How is it possible to know what? Whose struggles? Explain it again and I'll have your reply.

  • @trinitristant3527
    @trinitristant3527 Před měsícem +1

    🙏💙

  • @LazarusRises-lc5sc
    @LazarusRises-lc5sc Před měsícem +2

    War buks in clown outfit she holding one got ones hand orther woman the one making the deall then the three littel girls was walk of with her and her clown seen they one more time the next moring last time seen the last thang the seen was a freak in clown sute