How to deal with Judgemental people? Personality Development video by Skillopedia (Niharika)
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How to deal with Judgemental people? Personality Development video by Skillopedia (Niharika)
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People make comments about our career choice, living situation, life partner, child bearing decisions and hobbies and especially when we haven’t asked for their opinions or advice. Most of the times when we come across highly judgemental people, we do our best to put ourselves in their shoes and understand why they behave the way they do and why they feel the need to point a finger at those around them. Now we all as human beings, in some way or the other are good, kind and loving people but because of many challenges that life sends our way and because we of the many struggles that we all face, some of us become bitter and resentful. And when that happens, we begin to project our own pain and suffering in the form of blame, judgement and criticism on to the world around us. But this is what we always say when you judge another, you do not define them. You define yourself. So in today's session with Niharika at Skillopedia, let's have a look at different ways to deal with judgemental people in a more positive and in a more loving manner. - Jak na to + styl
1. Don't take things personally
2. Be compassionate
3. Say thank you in a firm tone of voice
4. Don't pour your heart out
5. Don't sing to their level ( my personal favorite)
6. Love those who love you
7. Keep a healthy distance
Yapp...but what happened when your younger brother wife always judging family members ...creat vary unhealthy situations...how to manage ( in jointfamily)...
@@MrGyanesh yes same in my case bro.
I sometimes get confused between having the courage to stand up for myself and simply walking away.
Stand up for yourself but if they make fun of you make fun of them and their families and personal problems because they will now know how you feel and back off
Sometimes standing up for yourself is simply walking away.
@@teeada6858 Well said
@@tiffanysar-lecluze5679 Thank you ☺
@@teeada6858 Ur welcome ;)
“Don’t waste your time judging the people who judged you”...... that’s exactly it.
I don’t want them to judge me but I’m here judging them from judging me 😂🤦♀️🤣 precious words. But it’s difficult to deal with the feeling 😞
I am at a place where I am always targeted by some group of negative people and at a time I feel very disturbed and disappointed but after going through your video learnt how to ignore judgemental ppl and walking away n maintaining a distance from them..its very helpful for me to deal with the the situations I am going through..thanks you so much ma'am for ur powerful video..
Should have posted 2 years before..! I have already suffered a lot by these kind of environment.
pragati swain ,Don't worry, you got a lot more see.
dont live in the past. keep moving forward. good luck. 😊😊😊
You are not alone 😍
Same
😥😥😥Dont suffer more, because Jesus loves you, so much, dont matter how much peoples Judge you, Jesus will ever to love you, Babe👍
NEVER THINK,WHAT THE SHIT OTHER THINK,
DIAMONDS FORM UNDER PRESSURE,YES WE WILL BLINK.
Saying Thank you to close an unwanted conversation is a good idea. I really need this in many situations.
The world will judge you whether they know you or not I’ve noticed it so far it’s like a game just deal with it and move on.
I wish I would have known that one need not pour their heart out. It took lot of time to understand that.
Finally I'm happy with myself today.
My friend always judge other girls .. I feel she is very jealoused about others...she is the only girl in our groups who judges a lot. I really don't like doing that. I feel she is wrong.
divya pujar she will receive it right back. I’ve been and have witnessed both sides. When I was younger, I judged (not understanding that it was wrong; it was the norm. Asian people judge everyone as if it’s the right thing to do). When I judged, I would get it right back. I’ve seen judge mental people get judged back x10 - doesn’t happen right away but when it does, it really gets them.
@@BeautifulDreamerK Thats so true... in my negihborhood and coutnry, they judge you based on your income, what car you drive, and the home you have. They are just continuously negative with themselves.
"Hearing my story is a privilege"...😍💓💪🏽👏
Thank you for posting these videos. I can't say how much I appreciate you. I needed this information to advance to the next level in my mental health. I don't want to describe what I went through, so I will just say I was being suppressed and now I am not. You have done so much for me. Thank you.
Yes quite often I too have encountered the same..
Kudos to the way you deal with it
Thanks a lot..
You deserve the credit!!
Thank you Niharika and specially for Skilopedia for uploading such a useful and helpful tips.......Stay Happy and Blessed Skillopedia whole team.....
Just its 100 percent fact when we pour our heart they judge us and u r tips are very true and thank you
First of all Thank you for your suggestions...even in my life i came across this type of situations which made feel low and depressed all the time...and now came to know few things through which i can face those judgemental people... and even ur videos motivates me so much...Thanks a ton.
Thank you🙏 It helps a lot for my self care time. I used to judges... so I won't let them to waste my energy because I know my self worth and how to ignore attitude. True keep a healthy distance. I give them smile but I avoid talking to them if possible. My time is important to me. I'm not use my time to nonsense people around me😊
Extra ordinary personality having u Niharika mam. Speaking continue 11 min without hesitate. You are the true inspiration for me to achieve something in life.
Thank you so much for your tips.Because in my life I find many judgemental people
who creticise a lot and predict my future
Yes there are people around me who judge quickly but I ignore them, nothing changes me. But ya sometime I loose my temper. So thanks for sharing this knowledge I hope it will help me to understand .
I just love the way you gave a very easy solution to a big problem in a very fun manner.......I love your channel. keep posting videos like this!!!!
thanx for this
ur all videos are very helpful n knowledgeable
Really, feeling good after watching this..
I will do this in my daily routine
Thankyou for sharing your experience
i love your advices because i really experienced judgemental people in our office and neighbors
People who are not really happy with themselves are usually judgemental😊.Sending you ❤ from Kashmir.
I watched all your videos and some of them more than two times for confidence and juice up myself. Thanks a lot.
I often face this issue with personal life and working area.
Thank you for your guidance Niharika!
Some people are judging me, ma,am. I'm ignoring them as much as I can .
It's a classy Vidio. Thank u so much , ma,am.😀
Hi Niha, I love your videos. Someone people are complicated, so we need are diplomatic and filter good things only and follow the life the better way as possible.
Niharika, when again you are going to be live?
This time I don't want to miss your session.
You are very optimistic person.
Thanks for this sessions. Niharika,you have winned my heart.
Your language is a very good.
Wow! The best video I came across so far about these kind of toxic judgmental people... I love your insights. Thanks ❤❤❤
Thanks!!! I am glad to see this video. I am facing these kind of people both in my personal and professional life ... thanks !!
Thankuh soo much dear for sharing these tips 🤗🤗😊 now I'm feeling so good & I'm not at all angry with those who judge me also not upset with myself for not being the perfect one whom no one could judge ever or point out a finger at 😉
Misery comes when we take it personally. At that time thinking that the judging person is portraying his reality doesn't help a lot. Because we have already given them the power to lead. Instead by remaining conseous about the situation helps a lot. While being conseous, one needs to be silent and thoughtfull. Not to think, how to react rather focus on your work.
I hope you get something what i want to explain, i guess @Niharika.
Thank you! Your heart is so kind. Great minds think alike 😊 💌💞
It's so true.. "don't pour your heart out"
Thank you very much niharika.. One of the best from you. Very helpful to me.
Tnq niharika , iam fed with the judgemental people ,from now I will not take to my heart and tnq so much
Thanks for your inputs , i think they are pretty good. From now on i will focus on people who loves me and won't let people's judgement affect me.
This is something that I deal with on a daily basis. Thanks for this video.
I love the way how you do your classes it’s very knowledgeable 👌👌👌
From.last 17 yers to toxic ppl in my.life but I love it video cant waste my self any more
whenever I need some help or tips.. skillopedia.. helps me to come out of it. ya I know people who are close to me are so judgemental and its really irritating and brings anger in me. Thank you niharika mam.. ♥
Yes ma'am you are right we don't take it personally
thank you for your beautiful spaching and know when the true
Thanks Niharika it's really very helpful, useful and knowledgeable for me because I have suffered a lot because of this so called judgemental people
woow thanks Niharika mam you just make the world for the better place , you are my sun shine
Long time i want to say niharika mam , you have a good manner to teach , This section is also gd as all videos,
i am being judged by my mother in law and sister in law everyday. according to them i am really fat . they always judge me about my looks weight or for very acne on my face which somebody will rarely notice. it really hurts me every time. i used to cry in alone after their judgemental comments. no one ever judged me like this except my sister in law and mother in law. i cant do anything about it as they are family. cant reply back them. i saw your video it really gives me some positivity and tips to deal with such people. thanks dear.
Niharika is so pretty. What a doll!
This is absolutely great advice..!!! And yes you are so right, negative people do exactly all this , cause they have a problem with themselves & their insecurities, that’s why they quick to judge without thinking about it, or any empathy...
Such an amazing talk. Thank you.
Thank u so much for teach me this lesson
My story is that i am not like a normal people i have some physically problem i always have fear of what people think me after see me and their judgement
So i am very thank full to u mam
You are a very good speaker.Thank you for your suggestions neharika ❤️❤️❤️
I'd certainly agree with every single aspect of yours. It happened a lot with me at my work place when one of my colleague always used to comment over my dressing style while every single person including authorities and trainers used to appreciate my dressing and way of communication. He always used to be like, you must try keeping your cuffs folded, your trouser doesn't fit you, your must change your shoes with a different design, or get a new hairstyle as thus doesn't suits you" . First I thought it might be true, but then I thought that the whole institution that I handle has not even a single problem with what I do and wear but they appreciate it almost daily, and rarely somebody likes his dressing style. Finally, I ended up ignoring him and telling him the truth, like whenever he used to be like "sir, you must fold your cuffs" and I used to reply , "that's not formal" .
Always inspired by you mam😊thank you
i am a sensitive person, i use to hang out with less people.
so i have made a friend in college and he was so judgemental that he always use to show me my flaws and make me remind my mistakes again and again, and he use to complain a lot.
i have a hard time recognising that i have make a toxic friend, he has caused the damage to my personality, but surely i think from now i will make friends wisely.
i have learned this lesson the hard way.
hey niharika.. i have seen many videos of u..but this one is unique in psychological term..i had learnt many lasson from this...thank you so much..and your way of talking is very easy to understand.
Thank you! I think this lesson will help me a lot.
thankyou so much Niharika so informative n awakening session..love and blessings❤
Everyone is to a certain extent judgemental. Some of us admit it and others believe they are never judgemental, they are wrong!
My uncle passed away in 2015. He was a Pisces man. He was very judgemental
I agree. Thank you😊
should have seen this video earlier. very informative.thank you.
Thanx niharika.💛💛💛💛💛
Hello mam, Thank you so much. its very beneficial for me.
thanks niharika mam u r so good in speaking i loved it
Really...this was very very useful.....and yes it happened with me...I m now in Pune...for my future Studies...and yes there was the people who discouraged me...who judged me..and off course...they don't play any role in my life..then also they didn't stop judging me..but this session gave me the points to deal with them...
thanks a lot
Thank you for your judgemental video. It helps so much in the workplace and places you go.
Lost weight Niharika, back in shape and great in content as usual. Thank you.
i love the way u spoke niharika mam and i wanted to change myself
pls help me to ignore people but i couldn't do it
hey wow..very informative niharika...thank you so much for this video..I gained soo much confidence,support and love from the points you have said..I AM HAPPY AND GRATEFUL FOR YOU..
I like watching your video not only for the content but also for you personality. If I am sad your smiley face makes my day happier:) THANK YOU.
luv u niharika as a teacher
You go girl! Excellent. Beautiful words and content. Thank you.
I love the way u speak niharika mam
Ami Parikh achi hai kya weak
thanks for giving me my friends meaning
Thank you for this video I find it very helpful because I have same one in life that is very jorgemental.
I've experienced communicating with such irritating people and it really helped me beside my own strategies how to get thru these situations, i started ignoring them but not to hate them,bcuz it doesn't harm them but harms us psycologically too, to hate people, bcuz in order to be a practical muslim i have to try hard to keep my heart clean and pure from all kinds of bad felings about people :) tnx for this knowledgeable video ..
It was very helpful, I will rewatch it.
Thank youuu! 🖤
This is such an amazing video!!
Thank u ❤❤
Great.. Thank you. 😊❤️
It’s always the ones who are doing nothing less than you with their lives judge you the most. And always watching what you are doing and not what they suppose to do.
Yours idea thought provoking.keeping everything in heart makes me more stress.Any one day it comes out of pressure without control.
Very helpfull thank you Niharika!!! i love your talking
Thank you-for your video
Niharika Sis.. Always best 🤗
Thanks a ton for this video Niharika. Much needed.
thanks a ton.. you answered many of my doubts.
Something To Think About... Thxs.
I just want this suggestions... thnx for making this vdo skillopedia
Thanks for ur guidance
Thank you mam.. Now i can speak English easily
Thanks for these amazing points!!! Very precious :)
I love your lessons dear ma'am
Thx Nihrika for your effort and your simple and easy way that you follow your are really skillful and talented. ..fast forward my dear ..
Maam i like your all videos and your way of speaking in english. I just love to learn from you❤️
i love your voice and speaking tone ,u r incredible maam
thank you so much mam this video is very helpful because in our life we find many judgemental people
they creticise a lot .
I surely know that your tips will definitely help me .
again thanks a million mam
you are fabulous English teacher and also a good personality trainer.
Srishti Parihar i
Even I like all your vedioes.. They are really helpful.