Shonda Rhimes '91 Delivers Dartmouth's Commencement Speech

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  • čas přidán 7. 06. 2024
  • Shonda Rhimes '91, the wildly successful television writer and producer, told the Dartmouth Class of 2014, "Ditch the dream and be a doer, not a dreamer."
    Rhimes, creator, writer, and producer of the ABC hits Scandal, Grey's Anatomy, and Private Practice, told the graduates, faculty members, trustees, and guests assembled June 8 for Commencement that she had wasted time dreaming of becoming Toni Morrison before she settled for a job writing for television.
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Komentáře • 370

  • @shadesofvintageblue
    @shadesofvintageblue Před 6 lety +809

    Who else paused their reading of her book and came here? This woman is amazing and I’m thoroughly enjoying her book, Year of Yes. Great speech and so true of everything she said.

  • @Justindiego
    @Justindiego Před 8 lety +628

    Who else is here because of her book? YES!

    • @victoriamcknight1491
      @victoriamcknight1491 Před 8 lety +3

      yes just got the book for xmas and as soon as she talked about it i put it down and looked it up. It was great.

    • @victoriamcknight1491
      @victoriamcknight1491 Před 8 lety

      yes just got the book for xmas and as soon as she talked about it i put it down and looked it up. It was great.

    • @pamelajackson9035
      @pamelajackson9035 Před 8 lety

      +JDiegoTV Im here just started reading yesterday . loving it!

    • @Justindiego
      @Justindiego Před 8 lety

      +pamela jackson changed my life!

    • @boho_sol
      @boho_sol Před 8 lety

      +Justin Diego Yes I came here because of what she says on page 72.

  • @user-op6ji5bs4p
    @user-op6ji5bs4p Před 5 lety +220

    1. Be a doer not a dreamer
    2. Don't be self-centered
    3. Accept that you cannot do everything

  • @kellicaaren
    @kellicaaren Před 8 lety +206

    I'm currently reading her book, "Year of Yes," and this speech was BIG for her!!!!! She's not lying about all of her fears, she was serious!! Great speech, I'm almost 40 and it inspired me.

    • @yolandaallen5155
      @yolandaallen5155 Před 7 lety +1

      Yes! I've come to this video because of the audiibook. You are absolutely correct. Just listening to the audio version of this speech in the book brought me to tears at lesson #3. I had to find the video in order to share it with others.

    • @chandreshlefevre3034
      @chandreshlefevre3034 Před 7 lety +2

      Kelli Evans I just finished it 2 days ago and it was so good and you're right she's not trying to get laughs she's telling the truth

  • @annaswan8517
    @annaswan8517 Před 6 lety +162

    Everybody read her book. Its freaking amazing

  • @MomTheEbayer101
    @MomTheEbayer101 Před 8 lety +208

    That was by far the best and the most realistic commencement speech I've ever heard. From beginning to end she had me engaged.

    • @jessicastuart5691
      @jessicastuart5691 Před 5 lety +2

      Have you read Year Of Yes yet? Brilliant

    • @QueenluluTV
      @QueenluluTV Před 5 lety +1

      Its like the way she keeps you engaged in her book. Year of yes

  • @cindymalinga8808
    @cindymalinga8808 Před 9 měsíci +4

    2023 reading the year of yes and i have seen this speech over and over but i had to come back after reading the chapter... Love miss Shonda

  • @khristinedelacruz03
    @khristinedelacruz03 Před 3 lety +17

    My attention was fully in from the first second to the last. And not a second did I zoned out. Shonda, you are a phenomenal woman and writer! You are my idol! Truly!

  • @forevernishiboo9196
    @forevernishiboo9196 Před 4 lety +19

    Just reading ‘Year of Yes,’ in 2020 and watching this speech! Hhhaaamaaazzzingggg 🙌🏽

  • @hopperthemarxist8533
    @hopperthemarxist8533 Před 8 lety +53

    I would also add to this great speech -- it's important to know that you can fail. That things don't always work out. That its about how much you contribute not what you get to have. You give then you get. And life doesn't owe you -- I personally experienced a lot of pain in my 20's as everyone does but it's important to have some perspective and look past your stories.

  • @sheilahightower-allen129
    @sheilahightower-allen129 Před 10 lety +46

    Those straight-laced ivy leagued professors...didn't know how to take this address! But, the students and most of the parents did. One of the most honest I have heard in a long time. Very motivational and extremely truthful!

  • @victorgarcia6462
    @victorgarcia6462 Před 8 lety +16

    That was the most lackluster applause... She's Shonda Rhimes goddammit!

  • @alessandrarizzi
    @alessandrarizzi Před 8 lety +136

    Great speech. She's a genius and an inspiration. I totally share her view. I can't believe how detached and "bored" the students were. Many people prefer listening bullshits about their amazing future, their big dreams, the peace in the world...but unfortunately that's not the real world. Shonda is too intelligent for them. And they are too stereotyped to understand it.

    • @AliceDymally
      @AliceDymally Před 8 lety +11

      +Alessandra Rizzi yup I agree. I don't think they will know it until many years later when they've actually experienced the things she is talking about. I am 10 yrs out from my college graduation & the speech definitely resonated with me.

    • @GrBr42
      @GrBr42 Před 8 lety +4

      +Alessandra Rizzi My thoughts exactly. I don't think they realized how lucky they are to have this amazing person talking on their graduation..

    • @jacklu1190
      @jacklu1190 Před 8 lety +4

      Looked like a hot, stifling day

    • @jazze.2729
      @jazze.2729 Před 6 lety

      Amen to this!!!!

  • @bookerlr1
    @bookerlr1 Před 10 lety +34

    She was truthful and authentic! She gave great advice to the Dartmouth graduates and many others are benefiting from her awesome address!

  • @neish9520
    @neish9520 Před 4 lety +13

    Currently reading her book, “The Year Of YES.” Wonderful book. She was NOT playin’ about how nervous she gets.👀 Genius diffusing it by talking about it. And, despite her visible and admitted anxiety, THIS WAS A REAL ASS COMMENCEMENT SPEECH! 🙌🏾

  • @aboutjbe
    @aboutjbe Před 8 lety +33

    I watch this at least once a month.

    • @bobkuusela3273
      @bobkuusela3273 Před 7 lety +1

      Jessie b. Evans bitch, please. Get a life and some autonomy

  • @blue-ku5db
    @blue-ku5db Před 4 lety +5

    I visited here because her speech was published in English textbooks in Korea :)

  • @betzaidagonzalez9889
    @betzaidagonzalez9889 Před 8 lety +30

    I'm here because of the book!

  • @gabriellacloiseau3007
    @gabriellacloiseau3007 Před 5 lety +8

    This was by far the most inspiring and yet down to earth commencement speech! I loved how real she is and I can see every bit of Olivia Pope in her! I was at the Park reading her book "Year of Yes" when I decided to check this speech on CZcams! Black is power don't you all agree 🙏🏾🙏🏾👌👌☺☺

  • @joseray2002
    @joseray2002 Před 10 lety +22

    So refreshing to hear the real truth, and she's brave and real to admit it.

  • @gg-ic6rh
    @gg-ic6rh Před 4 lety +7

    I am a korean high school student i m in a mid test of my school . So I memorize this speech for the test . Its really hard but I have gotten a lot motivate thanks for the good speech Rhimes!

  • @helloitsdaniel
    @helloitsdaniel Před 7 měsíci +1

    i love u shonda. you made me realize that being a dreamer is not enough you have to be a doer.

  • @DrRippr
    @DrRippr Před 9 lety +10

    i've watched this 5 times. every time I love it just as much

  • @ginnagw
    @ginnagw Před 5 lety +9

    I think the students we’re too young and naive for this speech. I don’t think most knew the power that stood before them. This was awesome.

    • @rebekahkimball5631
      @rebekahkimball5631 Před 5 lety +2

      We appreciated it. We were all just miserably hot and dehydrated. I grew up in Florida, and I was still sweating so much that I had to take off my graduation gown.

  • @giareneeble
    @giareneeble Před 10 lety +30

    That speech was great! The applause was so...weak

  • @KimyonZari
    @KimyonZari Před 10 lety +15

    Yes, yes, get up. This speech definitely deserved a standing ovation. Very raw and from the gut. Go ShondaLonda!!!

  • @thecandleshopbelize952
    @thecandleshopbelize952 Před 3 měsíci +1

    2024 and reading the Year of Yes and had to pause reading to come listen and follow along in the book

  • @miruna6382
    @miruna6382 Před 9 lety +15

    I really appreciate her honesty. We need that subjective truth from our elders in order to understand what is going to come in our way and how to win those battles of life.

  • @ElenaWilkins
    @ElenaWilkins Před 8 lety +25

    So glad I took the time to watch this, while reading Shonda's book. I am so not 20, but the speech is awesome for any age as a reminder of reality. Well done!

  • @anastasimankesemokgobu1724

    I am back here in 2022 while reading her book, she was so nervous about this speech and woow, she spoke so well. I wish she knew how amazing she really is 💛

  • @JonathanGardnerTV
    @JonathanGardnerTV Před 10 lety +18

    ALL the inspiration I needed!

  • @kerrygriffin3128
    @kerrygriffin3128 Před 10 lety +27

    One of the most profound and inspirational speeches I have ever heard as a working mom. #beadoernotadreamer

  • @AnnetteWarren
    @AnnetteWarren Před 9 lety +15

    I had a serious quarter life crisis after graduating! I can relate so much to what she says

  • @BrittneyColemanActress
    @BrittneyColemanActress Před 10 lety +3

    Much needed! Thx.

  • @tobiehewitt8318
    @tobiehewitt8318 Před 7 lety +4

    I have heard dozens of commencement speeches in my life and this, by far, is the best. Thanks!

  • @lauralopez7646
    @lauralopez7646 Před 8 lety +13

    Currently reading her book... so inspiring. . there are so many similarities but I dropped out of college and she didn't. . The book is inspiring me to have a YES year in 2016!!!!!

  • @denisec6123
    @denisec6123 Před 9 lety +13

    Love and appreciate her transparency.

  • @maryvermont8325
    @maryvermont8325 Před 8 lety +4

    thoroughly enjoyed this speech!

  • @morganeminmy7007
    @morganeminmy7007 Před 5 lety +4

    This woman inspires me so much, i am reading her books and paused for see this video. She is literaly a queen after all she been through. She s amazing, an example for all of us. I adore you Shonda❤

  • @RoyreeToomer
    @RoyreeToomer Před 8 lety +10

    Inspiring!!!! Thank you Shonda!!!! Facing the fears and becoming a doer. It is never too late!

  • @tiefajones4366
    @tiefajones4366 Před 8 lety +5

    Wow! This was an amazing message, Shonda!!! Do not dream, Do!

  • @jacqueline2291
    @jacqueline2291 Před 5 lety +4

    She is so real and down to earth.

  • @peterpiperdiedharper
    @peterpiperdiedharper Před 10 lety +7

    WOW! BAM! awesome. needed this.

  • @itseitheranaorcarol
    @itseitheranaorcarol Před 8 lety +4

    24 minutes flew by. Shonda, you are awesome! :)

  • @hiraimaria
    @hiraimaria Před 2 lety

    What a great book and speech for the first day of the year. Happy 2022, people!

  • @shush03
    @shush03 Před 5 lety +3

    Shonda! You are the bomb. Your book is incredible and liberating. Thank you for teaching us to choose ourselves 1st and to work hard. You are a legend 👑🎉

  • @arizonarobbins7316
    @arizonarobbins7316 Před rokem

    Big fan of Shonda and her work. From being a fresh grad to someone who has gone thru a lot in life, her speech really resonates with me. Love the honesty!

  • @Tocsin-Bang
    @Tocsin-Bang Před 4 lety +2

    I'd never heard of Shonda Rhimes prior to just a few minutes ago. WOW what a lovely lady, truly inspirational. Wouldn't she make a great President!

  • @RyanLongArt
    @RyanLongArt Před 10 lety +4

    Great talk!!

  • @kasedits1700
    @kasedits1700 Před 4 lety +5

    I was just reading the book year of yes and when she was doing this speech and i saw how hard it was for her to get up there and do that
    She's really motivational and makes me want to do better In life.♥️

  • @stephaniew8709
    @stephaniew8709 Před 8 lety +1

    I'm here because of her book and her speech was awesome!

  • @twondiesel22
    @twondiesel22 Před 8 lety +7

    I think its awesome that she touched on stage fright.

  • @user-yr4cg6qs7r
    @user-yr4cg6qs7r Před 3 lety +15

    우린왜 이걸로영어시험을 볼까

  • @sthapiigirl3923
    @sthapiigirl3923 Před 3 lety

    I had to find this video after reading her book. It was very important that I watch her speech❤️.. I love her for being her most authenticself.

  • @niar3214
    @niar3214 Před 2 lety +2

    That was a good speech and even more impressive for her to have done it the day before. Incredible job

  • @Iamtammyburton
    @Iamtammyburton Před rokem

    Yes, I paused reading her book (Year of Yes) to watch this video. 😊The most real and inspiring commencement speech I’ve heard.

  • @MomTheEbayer101
    @MomTheEbayer101 Před 8 lety +102

    Now on the other hand, Wow...that was the weakest applause ever for such an awesome speech! I see it took the African American woman to stand first before the other scholars followed suite!!

    • @hermesmercury
      @hermesmercury Před 8 lety +9

      +Mom The Ebayer “Dumpster Diving” Actually it was a standing ovation. It sounded weak because you cannot hear what is not under a microphone reach.

    • @myandersonangelsjalynnlail252
      @myandersonangelsjalynnlail252 Před 3 lety

      I agree!

    • @maymadison3620
      @maymadison3620 Před 3 lety

      The 1st woman who stood up was not an African-american. Stop making things about race!

  • @mabrown5307
    @mabrown5307 Před 7 lety +2

    Fantastic commencement speech!

  • @deehowe4141
    @deehowe4141 Před 4 lety +1

    I'm here today 8/6/19 because Toni Morrison died last night, and a piece of this address showed up on my Tw feed...
    Thank you, Shonda.
    R.I.P. Toni.

  • @theonlycontessa8771
    @theonlycontessa8771 Před 2 lety

    Listening to Shona reading her book on Audible October 2021. Shona you are an inspiration. You also have an audience of mature women too. I so wish I’d heard your speech as a young woman, but hell, I’m listening now. Love the book.🦋

  • @mamo5556
    @mamo5556 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you shonda for this.

  • @rookie1718
    @rookie1718 Před 5 lety +3

    This speech was included in the textbook of my school!!

  • @Ain_2222
    @Ain_2222 Před 3 lety +5

    8일의 기적...난 외운다...외울 수 있다!! 다들 중간고사 화이팅..🥺

  • @JohnLinder
    @JohnLinder Před 10 lety +2

    I am in love!

  • @CiecieNewson
    @CiecieNewson Před 7 lety +1

    So wow. Now that was a great speech. ~Smile!

  • @vanta4867
    @vanta4867 Před 2 lety +15

    고1 교과서 보고 왔으면 조용히 개추 눌러라

  • @TinyPrettyNini
    @TinyPrettyNini Před 2 měsíci

    I love and look up to Shonda so much, I’m an aspiring screenwriter who also wants to publish novels one day, she said so many things here that I can relate with, so many things that I agree with. I’m gonna keep coming back here to watch her speech❤️ I appreciate everything she said here. I hope one day I’ll be able to sit and have dinner with her🙏🏾 she’s really my idol.

  • @Miss_pee
    @Miss_pee Před 3 lety

    Thanks Shonda for beautiful words♥️

  • @Kking142Love
    @Kking142Love Před 10 lety +23

    Why did they not give her a proper standing ovation! She was phenomenal. I mean, she wasn't super funny like Tina Fey..but really people?

  • @LumkaJwara
    @LumkaJwara Před 7 lety +8

    I,love hearing her speak. I am enjoying her book. I just view her in a different light. She was honest in sharing about her life before YES

    • @nassorm5634
      @nassorm5634 Před 6 lety

      Lumka Jwara OMG. I searched for a free pdf of that book everywhere 😅😅 (#broke).. i looooove her, she's so poetic..

  • @Heresheis0818
    @Heresheis0818 Před 2 lety

    Her works have inspired so many women with thoughts and attitude. She is an incredibly intelligent person.🌈

  • @jm8323
    @jm8323 Před 6 lety +2

    That was a great speech.

  • @MelodyMaker151
    @MelodyMaker151 Před 10 lety +6

    I like what she said about tradeoffs ... Very upfront.

  • @futuresenatorleader7210
    @futuresenatorleader7210 Před 5 lety +2

    Brilliant speaker...I love her

  • @cynderfish56
    @cynderfish56 Před 10 lety +3

    She was great! This was great!

  • @lizzybeth428
    @lizzybeth428 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I am actually reading Year of Yes, and I am right where she steps up to the podium and takes a deep breath.

  • @miss-velani
    @miss-velani Před 2 lety

    How crazy! Just today I read this part of the book. Shonda is amazing.

  • @dagmawitmersha3282
    @dagmawitmersha3282 Před 3 lety +2

    I have seen thousands of these types of commencement speeches from Oprah to Denzel...and she pointed out probably the one thing they all have in common though they had not admitted it. This is by far the greatest commencement speech ever. Though this was like a fire side chat grateful it was streamed to the world so we could all benefit from it. 😀😀😀😀😃

  • @MeghanBasarab
    @MeghanBasarab Před 6 lety +1

    I just love her...

  • @ajf098
    @ajf098 Před 3 lety

    Thank you, Shonda!

  • @babskenky
    @babskenky Před 3 lety

    Excellent book, one of the best I ever read!

  • @user-gp7ew2un2o
    @user-gp7ew2un2o Před 4 lety +1

    It is hard work that makes things happen and creates change,.

  • @vanle3828
    @vanle3828 Před 10 lety +7

    My favourite writer was a student from my dream school? Hell Dartmouth couldn't get better.

  • @fdja001
    @fdja001 Před 9 lety +3

    Its a great speech and real.

  • @Qodeshi300
    @Qodeshi300 Před 7 lety +2

    i needed to hear this thank you ... just do say yes to anything that makes me scared..

  • @sudeeksha9459
    @sudeeksha9459 Před rokem

    Year of Yes....👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻Shonda Rhimes '91

  • @xxxmichalaxx
    @xxxmichalaxx Před 3 lety +3

    I’m just in the middle of reading her book, just got to the chapter about the speech and it’s led me here! I love her already. Iv not even watched any of her shows. I’m gonna start with greys anatomy as soon as I’ve read the book haha x

  • @nitsrini06
    @nitsrini06 Před 6 lety +2

    A great speech

  • @XimenaZhaoArchive
    @XimenaZhaoArchive Před 3 lety +1

    Just going to watch Shonda Rhimes interviews and speeches until I get hyphy enough to hit the zone. Thanks for this! :)

  • @cql8878
    @cql8878 Před 6 lety +1

    this speech is surprisingly good!

  • @BarbaraJean2
    @BarbaraJean2 Před 10 lety +6

    Yes, Shonda Rhimes runs Thursday night and I love it. Ms. Rhimes, you are a Success because you give 100% even though your return may only be 90%. But that is better than not doing it at ALL. That 90% makes me even more happier to be a Woman.

  • @mikaeligor2612
    @mikaeligor2612 Před 3 lety +3

    "O ano que eu disse sim" me trouxe até aqui❤️

  • @octaviajackson-underwood9384

    Great!!!

  • @LaveyBooVI
    @LaveyBooVI Před rokem

    Reading again in 2023 and just like the first time came here to listen once I got to this part of the book.

  • @sandratabansi4320
    @sandratabansi4320 Před 4 měsíci

    Came here from the book! This speech is so good!

  • @Sloomfarah
    @Sloomfarah Před 3 lety

    Amazingg!!

  • @meganlam1112
    @meganlam1112 Před 10 lety +2

    Great speech! "Dreams are lovely, but they are just dreams, fleeting, ephemeral, pretty. But dreams do not come true just because you dream them. It's hard work that makes things happen, it's hard work that creates change" really resonated with me. But the part that affected me the most was... SHE MISSED SANDRA OH'S LAST SCENE EVER FILMED ON GREY'S ANATOMY. (Goes to the corner to sob my soul out)

  • @wangumungai4210
    @wangumungai4210 Před 2 lety

    Loved how she kept it real

  • @user-sx4pt8bl7e
    @user-sx4pt8bl7e Před 4 lety +11

    6:06 중간고사 화이팅!!

  • @shyamalpatel8281
    @shyamalpatel8281 Před 6 lety

    One of those talks, that make you nod,oh so firmly. All the time.Applause and standing-ovations would be under-rated. Not hats,"heads off" lady.