How To STOP Bickering With Your Spouse 😉
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At the beginning of this episode, we share our favorite tips on how to bicker with your spouse. Of course, we are playing and the real intention of this episode is to identify why married couples fight and bicker and to help you learn how to stop bickering in a biblical way.
Show Notes:
(7:47) James 4:1-2
- Flesh / Temptation / Don't devour eachother
(9:51) Galatians 5:13-15
- Walk in the spirit, Don't Provoke each other
- (11:43) Galatians 16-26
(16:50) James 1:19
- Be slow to speak and slow to anger but quick to listen
(19:50) Proverbs 15:1
- A Soft Answer
(20:48) Proverbs 17:14
- Stop quarreling before it starts
(22:38) Luke 6:43-45
- Bear good fruit
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This is so good, and true! Love it. Wow, when you say it like this, makes me realize how dumb I am for doing those things. Sheesh! God speaks through you both!
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This is our BIGGEST struggle!
Great video!
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You guys are amazing,am in a phase where I find it hard to open up to my partner because I feel he'll think am too nagging,but the little things he doesn't do right Nd that I avoid talking about really affect me,so listening to you today has made me subscribe to your channel I feel I have found my councilors, thankyou for sharing.
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Amen
LOL thats great about right b4 bed, b/c the bible says dont go to bed angry, so ur adding to the sin by waking up with it
17:26 oh no... and im yelling at the kids all the time... but its never going to produce the righteousness... well crap.
im also learning my anger problems arent anger problems, they are control problems. (control girls - shannon popkins)
Hi guys!
I'm unable to find a way how to DM you, so I'll write my question/request under this video, which seems to be the closest one to the issue that has come up recently between us (although we are not married yet, we are intentional and moving towards this step).
There have been a lot of things happening, and as I struggle with mental health issues, he has been my main support in accessing professional help and doing psychotherapy. But we have come to a conclusion that recently I have been putting too much on him expecting he will solve all my problems & in a way shutting down other support channels like friends etc. That together with other issues that life often throws at people (he is building a house and trying to navigate relationship with his teenage son) he has found himself in a rather difficult situation. And his way of dealing with it all is to "take time out" and stop communication with me (not completely, but I would describe it as withdrawing).
The question I wanna ask is how to best support him in trying to solve the problems as I most certainly don't want to injure his "man pride" by doing or suggesting something to him.
Would you be able to share your thoughts and advice on this?
Really appreciate you talk about the difficult subjects so openly and bring a lot of support to couples around the world! Keep up the good work!
God bless +
Just focus your recovery apart from the marriage because your health issues come first
We never bicker because I am always right and he knows it!! 😉
BUT: i wouldnt say stop talking completely... or it ends up feeling as if you're stonewalling..... you want to say SOMETHING, but waiting for the other person to give full thought to their words, engaging, REFLECTIVE listening "ok, i hear you saying _____" and of course, not using that as a weapon "i hear you saying im a big fat jerk" (i mean, unless they said that. :P)
But I don't know how to do this: To listen without having a reciprocal answer, especially when a claim made by my spouse is erroneous, or based on a wrong interpretation. I'd like for anyone to help in this situation. What do I do?
Thanks a lot.
Conversation is good though. You just have to watch your motive and your tone. That's my take anyways.
Amen