Is It Relevant To Know Your Partner’s Past In A Relationship? Let’s Talk‼️

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  • @nanaboateng14
    @nanaboateng14 Před 11 měsíci +40

    I agree with Sheldon. It's not about trust issues. It's about preferences. You'll not put park a Lamborghini in a rural area even if it has the best safety/security features.

  • @mafiooato7233
    @mafiooato7233 Před 11 měsíci +28

    The real Kojo sheldon is back,he is talking sense now. I hope the real kojo sheldon is here to stay.

  • @NyantakyiwaaLydia-pu5ff
    @NyantakyiwaaLydia-pu5ff Před 11 měsíci +10

    Sheldon is never wrong
    The head is big for a reason indeed 😂❤

  • @jhay2747
    @jhay2747 Před 11 měsíci +20

    Sheldon knows that guys no get good intentions but Scanty doesn’t know that side of boys 😂😂😂

    • @Mr.ENJ1
      @Mr.ENJ1 Před 11 měsíci +4

      He'll learn sooner than later

  • @fosteraddo6670
    @fosteraddo6670 Před 11 měsíci +7

    The key word is "boundaries" ..having friends is not a crime ...not having boundaries is !!

  • @PatrickAsiedu-mf1bg
    @PatrickAsiedu-mf1bg Před 11 měsíci +11

    Team Scanty 😂✌🏼✌🏼. It’s really important to know the past chalie. Squad dey do things.

  • @iammulla
    @iammulla Před 11 měsíci +36

    If it has a way of affecting your present or future, it is important

    • @lovelycutie7787
      @lovelycutie7787 Před 11 měsíci

      exactly my dear thank you, if not why do l want to know? l don't care lets on the present n our future 😊😂😂

  • @LucasJunior74
    @LucasJunior74 Před 10 měsíci +4

    I think Sheldon should be showing up in the bant and rant everytime because ein den Scanty ein combo always dey give top tier vibes 😂😂❤❤❤❤

  • @Emmanuel_Amoah
    @Emmanuel_Amoah Před 11 měsíci +6

    If you don’t have enough experience or you have too much experience, you tend to feel the past shouldn’t matter.

  • @kojok5823
    @kojok5823 Před 11 měsíci +11

    This is a no brainer. Any serious situation requires knowledge of the past. This includes job interviews, business deals etc. Why should a potential life altering factor such as a relationship be excluded?
    Having a high body count makes pair bonding and relationship success difficult to attain. This goes for both sexes, but is more so for women, as they are more likely to catch feelings with every sexual encounter.

  • @shadyric
    @shadyric Před 11 měsíci +9

    Totally agree with Sheldon. Skanty get more growing up to do lol. You have to let your boundaries be known. If you allow your girl to get into certain situations, you go see pepper

  • @richardani9192
    @richardani9192 Před 11 měsíci +14

    Always serving us with good content 😍😍

  • @baahedward7190
    @baahedward7190 Před 11 měsíci +19

    This is a healthy positive conversation and I’m buying that!

  • @therichboss.1
    @therichboss.1 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Sheldon is just so intelligent and smart charlie 🔥👊🏾

  • @myzgod
    @myzgod Před 10 měsíci +4

    For me it is important. It helps me know how to relate with them, to understand them and know what errors not to commit.

  • @kelvinkyere8756
    @kelvinkyere8756 Před 11 měsíci +3

    I fully agree with Sheldon

  • @nanaagyei4996
    @nanaagyei4996 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Everyone has jealousy but others learn to not care or decide not to care when that emotion comes up.

  • @DaniellaHowusu-or4rp
    @DaniellaHowusu-or4rp Před 11 měsíci +5

    I agree with Sheldon 😂

  • @saviourjumpah5044
    @saviourjumpah5044 Před 11 měsíci +1

    I agree with Sheldon 💯

  • @deadexp8357
    @deadexp8357 Před 11 měsíci +24

    When you come back from lectures ..ad you see a Kwådwō Sheldon’s vid notification 😩✊🏻

  • @princeotu8753
    @princeotu8753 Před 11 měsíci +1

    I agree with what Sheldon is saying

  • @isaaceduam250
    @isaaceduam250 Před 11 měsíci

    Kojos sense is back. Hope it does not go away

  • @LucasJunior74
    @LucasJunior74 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Kwadzo Sheldon and Scanty can never be on the same page da! And it always make the conversation interesting 😂😂

  • @brenyahagyeiemmanuel4597
    @brenyahagyeiemmanuel4597 Před 11 měsíci +2

    I agree with Sheldon.

  • @joshuakonadu-mensah1710
    @joshuakonadu-mensah1710 Před 11 měsíci

    I agree with Sheldon, some people will be eyeing their bestie’s and a little chance can be dangerous

  • @maximgenius
    @maximgenius Před 8 měsíci +1

    I agree with Sheldon 😊

  • @AT_Studios
    @AT_Studios Před 11 měsíci

    This is a Productive conversation

  • @aman90ebenezer
    @aman90ebenezer Před 8 měsíci

    @scanty thank u 4 that "if u receive car 4 birthday present an my situation now i will be shaking small"

  • @kwakumiller7323
    @kwakumiller7323 Před 11 měsíci

    I agree with Sheldon 110%

  • @rosemarysena4207
    @rosemarysena4207 Před 11 měsíci

    I get so excited whenever I see a new bants and rants video negl

  • @charlesodumasi3373
    @charlesodumasi3373 Před 11 měsíci +2

    The whole kwadwo Sheldon studio scanty be hard guy hrrr😂😂😂

  • @Mr__Aboagye
    @Mr__Aboagye Před 11 měsíci +3

    House of content!!!😊❤️

  • @delaavemegah-qs6nw
    @delaavemegah-qs6nw Před 11 měsíci +2

    Scanty always day talk sense 😢❤

  • @japhetheboarkison2013
    @japhetheboarkison2013 Před 11 měsíci +2

    The Princess girl she conf ano dey blame am that be what the system dey do to everybody 😂

  • @WazirinJosnEnvirons
    @WazirinJosnEnvirons Před 11 měsíci

    'The person may have changed'-famous last words. As an older guy, let me enlighten this panel. My resources are increasing and the rewards are increasing. All that struggling for babes when you are 20 evaporates as a 35+ year old. Someone like Scanty now, I know in my heart when he starts making 10K USD per month his babe no go see in breaklight😂😂😂

  • @TrinityBrownTV
    @TrinityBrownTV Před 11 měsíci +2

    I agree with Sheldon and I think he is speaking from experience

  • @DRIVEMIND211
    @DRIVEMIND211 Před 11 měsíci

    There are still good people out there. ❤❤❤

  • @loonyking
    @loonyking Před 11 měsíci

    Scanty is one smart funny dude

  • @kyerematengasamoah2393
    @kyerematengasamoah2393 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Kojo Sheldon studios your camera de3 serious oooo, bars my nigga 👍👍

  • @ramseysackitey9214
    @ramseysackitey9214 Před 11 měsíci

    I agree with Sheldon. It’s not about trust issue

  • @Viderls_World
    @Viderls_World Před 11 měsíci +1

    Yes, it is very important

  • @BoniCryptoFX
    @BoniCryptoFX Před 11 měsíci +3

    Once again I'm here for Adwoa 🥰🧐🤣😊

  • @TopComment26
    @TopComment26 Před 11 měsíci

    Decent conversation ❤

  • @XiangWellington
    @XiangWellington Před 11 měsíci +3

    I disagree with kwadwo.
    A woman chooses the man to open her legs to. Men are just y3 KO) nkoaa. If a lady doesn't open her legs to a man, that man isn't getting sex and that's why women are judged on their sexual past
    Men are judged on possessions and physical attributes becuase, u need to be able to provide, protect and also be the masculine figure in the house. And that's why men are questioned on their status in terms of wealth and masculinity
    And that's what attract the ladies

  • @selorm522
    @selorm522 Před 11 měsíci +8

    Sometimes if your partner knows about your past, they might use it against you.

    • @latifaali915
      @latifaali915 Před 11 měsíci +2

      Thank youuu 🤝

    • @Mr.ENJ1
      @Mr.ENJ1 Před 11 měsíci

      So you're going to hide it from them?

    • @babaraneequaye9519
      @babaraneequaye9519 Před 11 měsíci +3

      That doesn't give you the right to hide it from him or her. The past is needed to build the future

    • @soniaainos7244
      @soniaainos7244 Před 11 měsíci +2

      I think you need to know your partner before opening up to them.
      There're some things that will affect the relationship now.
      I don't care about body count.
      What matters to me is that my partner should be comfortable opening up to me.
      Also, someone who is a go-getter.

    • @americarefines1135
      @americarefines1135 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Just get this in your mind... anytime you tell your partner about your past just remember he or she will refer to you one day when you guys have a misunderstanding especially if it's negative.

  • @danieldrahporseyjnr29
    @danieldrahporseyjnr29 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Sheldon is just like me hw3 we no dey trust anybody bro.

  • @decokingsley7631
    @decokingsley7631 Před 8 měsíci

    Sheldon is 100 percent right I agree with him because if you really know what he is saying you will understand him

  • @samuelboateng1085
    @samuelboateng1085 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Sheldon is being real here, but Scanty is trying to be like he doesn't care, but he dey fake. 😂

  • @abdulwadud8593
    @abdulwadud8593 Před 11 měsíci +1

    I agree with sheldon because i'm a man myself and i know what men can do

  • @kobbyedgraphics6185
    @kobbyedgraphics6185 Před 11 měsíci

    I agree with Sheldon.and scanty is over trusting

  • @Viderls_World
    @Viderls_World Před 11 měsíci +1

    I wish to join ur discussions one of these days 😊

  • @85SAVAGE28
    @85SAVAGE28 Před 11 měsíci

    sheldon is never wrong!

  • @septembergod8746
    @septembergod8746 Před 11 měsíci +1

    I side with sheldon ... It happened to me once bro ... Its not about trust bro is preferences

  • @AT_Studios
    @AT_Studios Před 11 měsíci

    That is why you need to have difficult conversation before marriage very important

  • @ksurvive8352
    @ksurvive8352 Před 11 měsíci +1

    When see say dem pair Scanty n Dingo just go home cos it about to go down😂😂💔

  • @bigbent3n
    @bigbent3n Před měsícem

    HOW CAN YOU PICK UP A CALL ON SET.AJOA IS TOO BEAUTIFUL

  • @HD-XTRA
    @HD-XTRA Před 11 měsíci

    Today perr, Sheldon talk sense

  • @ben_tee
    @ben_tee Před 11 měsíci

    Sheldon is right. Prevention is better than cure and you need to protect the one you love.

  • @yunussavage5542
    @yunussavage5542 Před 6 měsíci

    But the end of the show Sheldon and scanty talk paaaa 🙌

  • @MJOES_MOVIES
    @MJOES_MOVIES Před 11 měsíci +1

    With Sheldon a "billion" now becomes a single number 😂😂😂

  • @elvisnyarko2595
    @elvisnyarko2595 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Adwoa is lit ❤❤❤

  • @aman90ebenezer
    @aman90ebenezer Před 8 měsíci

    I can endure so many things but for stealing and lies am so sorry I can't handle.

  • @rexamoako7077
    @rexamoako7077 Před 10 měsíci +6

    I had this friend i was just having casual sex with and we werent in a relationship, so after a year i started dating this new girl and she was constantly asking me if me and that girl have had something to do. i kept denying because we were still friends and we had stopped having any sexual relation and also because i felt like i knew her before this new girlfriend and that since there was nothing going on i didnt want her to overthink when she sees me with my old friend. after a year and a half my girlfriend found out about me and my friend and she literally ended the relationship with me because she says i lied to her. my problem was if i had told her there would have been issues any time she saw me with my friend. so i think i wasnt wrong when i didnt tell her

    • @ancestor6996
      @ancestor6996 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Assuming it was reversed and u found out that's d situation ur GF was in, wud u be ok wid it or u'd break up?

  • @joypeace3214
    @joypeace3214 Před 11 měsíci

    Boundaries must be set. Temptation is ripe all the time.

  • @Stevy19
    @Stevy19 Před 11 měsíci

    "Hwee nfa meho"saa..trust your partner buh the individual has to get it at the back of their minds...they need to do the right thing

  • @princekent2718
    @princekent2718 Před 11 měsíci +1

    She is tlkn about comfort ability and nw she is running 😅😂

  • @BoniCryptoFX
    @BoniCryptoFX Před 11 měsíci +2

    For me it's very necessary to know your partner's past tho
    So nothing will be new to you when things start popping up

  • @adamtey360
    @adamtey360 Před 11 měsíci

    Sheldon is right this time 😂

  • @IsTimeAfriyie
    @IsTimeAfriyie Před 6 měsíci

    Pearl has been comfort from childhood,so she has continue that way

  • @Ava_Young
    @Ava_Young Před 7 měsíci +1

    Convos like this with artistes like Kidi then Kuame Eugene Dems go bee was..shout out to Dingo

  • @De-Origin
    @De-Origin Před 11 měsíci +1

    For me I will never allowed my girlfriend to be so attached with any guy.
    Is not about trust issues but is managing the relationship, anything can happen

  • @Khlasik
    @Khlasik Před 11 měsíci +5

    Sheldon keeps saying he has never had a sexual affair with any lady before, believe me or not, adey believe am

  • @brilliantmindsmkt6271
    @brilliantmindsmkt6271 Před 5 měsíci

    it all depends on her past. If she has messed up in a similar way before, then there's a reason to have suspicions. People dont change, they adapt.

  • @emmanueletim1753
    @emmanueletim1753 Před 11 měsíci +2

    I don't think Scanty's heart has been broken before and trust has been lost.. Na why him still dey talk about trust like this. I stand with Sheldon.. This isn't about trust, its about setting boundaries. Simple!!

    • @Mr.ENJ1
      @Mr.ENJ1 Před 11 měsíci

      Don't worry bro. He'll learn sooner than later

  • @courtoftheword
    @courtoftheword Před 11 měsíci +1

    If there's anything that could affect childbirth or anything related to y'all health, let each other know. But be smart of what to say cuz the immature ones will use that to insult you during arguments or if things go south. Talking from experience.

  • @marwanibrah1370
    @marwanibrah1370 Před 11 měsíci +4

    If you trust your partner you can leave her in the mix of 10 guys ?? Nsem fu Sei 😂😂😂😂

  • @jhay_vine5083
    @jhay_vine5083 Před 11 měsíci

    Sheldon definitely has a point

  • @kojodapaa9070
    @kojodapaa9070 Před 4 měsíci

    Scanty the financial past won’t be a problem again when you start making more money or have a really good job

  • @kaybtalk
    @kaybtalk Před 11 měsíci

    Scanty please that thing, “ I trust my partner and my partner trust me is the grounds that we use to cheat a lot...
    I know what I’m talking about

  • @kwadwoantwi1502
    @kwadwoantwi1502 Před 11 měsíci +5

    The past should continue to remain in the past 🤝

    • @abdulmajid7474
      @abdulmajid7474 Před 11 měsíci +2

      😅😅dey play

    • @Jennyseddyami
      @Jennyseddyami Před 11 měsíci

      Exactly if only it won’t bring future situations or calamity

    • @babaraneequaye9519
      @babaraneequaye9519 Před 11 měsíci +1

      ​@@JennyseddyamiDon't worry your past would always affect your future.

    • @benjaminkissi4564
      @benjaminkissi4564 Před 10 měsíci

      @@Jennyseddyamiit will always affect ur future.

  • @sphykhid6088
    @sphykhid6088 Před 11 měsíci

    Sheldon dey talk sense to scanty

  • @adamsalia3523
    @adamsalia3523 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Sheldon don't judge a book by its size

  • @user-fi4jv4qj9v
    @user-fi4jv4qj9v Před 11 měsíci +1

    Body count is not a big deal for me oo, anaaaa I’m going mad😂😂🎉

  • @wood_creates
    @wood_creates Před 11 měsíci +7

    Scanty do ein Yomo thing again 😂😂

  • @richardosei2312
    @richardosei2312 Před 11 měsíci

    Nah scanty you need to set boundaries,u for have principle’s.

  • @techinturk6753
    @techinturk6753 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Think am the first person here 😂

  • @rocksonJeron
    @rocksonJeron Před 11 měsíci

    Ah na that princess girl nu is she okay 😂💔like ‘we should travel ‘ to where OMG ‼️😪😪😪

  • @footballworld3340
    @footballworld3340 Před 8 měsíci

    i wish i could send an audio Men always want to mark their domain so i agree with Sheldon. its not that you have trust issues but its that you are concern about some other man coming into your domain. hope am clear

  • @andrewsappiah8106
    @andrewsappiah8106 Před 11 měsíci +2

    The lady is showing clearly that women live in a fantasy world 🤣🤣

    • @Mr.ENJ1
      @Mr.ENJ1 Před 11 měsíci

      That's why they say 95% of women want the 1% man

  • @brayawbmt
    @brayawbmt Před 11 měsíci +2

    First to comment ❤❤

  • @jaughnekow
    @jaughnekow Před 11 měsíci

    All in all, promiscuity should not be normalised on both sides and yes, it's important to know each other's past.

  • @tfio7985
    @tfio7985 Před 11 měsíci

    You guys must know that trust must be earned through positive actions and behavior. So Scanty you just don’t trust.

  • @estherotoo4381
    @estherotoo4381 Před 11 měsíci

    20:42
    In my opinion he can really love you BUT what’s his end goal with you? What are his intentions?

  • @denkyeayim4763
    @denkyeayim4763 Před 11 měsíci

    I agree with you tho, buh if you have a "cut -off " point for your partner's body count, c'mon a woman who really loves you, will lie to you, so that's you wouldn't leave her.... Besides who are you going to do enquires from

  • @Mrkentvshow5512
    @Mrkentvshow5512 Před 11 měsíci

    It depends on the work my gal friend is doing

  • @debofahnathan6673
    @debofahnathan6673 Před 11 měsíci +3

    I think scanty start dey watch fresh&fit podcast...i like that 😅

    • @Mr.ENJ1
      @Mr.ENJ1 Před 11 měsíci +1

      After saying what he said earlier about the trust issues... I DISAGREE

    • @debofahnathan6673
      @debofahnathan6673 Před 11 měsíci

      @@Mr.ENJ1 lolz yeah 🤣...buh I think he is just being cheeky about it...this kind pple be jealous pass...they just want to look tough 😉

  • @Escobar65
    @Escobar65 Před 11 měsíci

    Eiii scanty😂…….you dey trust woman

  • @eboebynah2671
    @eboebynah2671 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Adjoa Addy🥰🥰

  • @donaldbrakoh
    @donaldbrakoh Před 11 měsíci +1

    KSS 4 LIFE

  • @benandoh4774
    @benandoh4774 Před 11 měsíci

    As a Roman Father watching this dierrr anka body count fa me ho ben 😂