Stop Being EMOTIONALLY DEPENDENT On People: Part 3: BK Shivani: English
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This maam saved my life when i was in my worst phase in 2017/18 god bless her
My worst phase is going on. She's helping me so much🙏🏻🙏🏻❤. God Bless Herl❤🙏🏻
@@jumisaaswatilahon1585 sending prayer's for you my friend ❤️🫂
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Don't waste energy just for strangers on the road . Bless them that they reach home safely .. that was very powerful . Thanks very much Didi, Om shanti .
Didi please I am afraid of driving. I cannot handle thé stress. I easly get panicked. What should I do?
Yes
Not on road in life also sometime its not necessary to make them right. Let it be and don't waste our power on others.
Very much agreed madam . Thanks very much .
@@wonderwellplayschooldumka777
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Her voice is so calming ❤ plus she’s speaking facts!
Yes she is an angel a free therapist
I m just looking her face amazing glowing skin without makeup.... It's all about super natural power..... She is really pure soul.........
Absolutely correct
I guess this video came in my feed at the right time. I have been emotionally unwell from last week due to an incident which made me feel.. powerless, worthless, and someone who can be shouted at with no valid reason. I spent 2-3 days thinking: did I deserve that? Why it happened? Why is it always me who can be made feel invaluable? Why people don’t empathize with me?
I knew i was being emotionally dependent and giving control to other people on how to dictate my emotional state. I knew I was being victim.
Yesterday, I shouted at my brother since he is always engrossed in gaming and mobile, the moment he wakes up till the time he sleeps. In return, I was rebuked. And I slept feeling worthless, powerless again.
I have decided to behave indifferent as anything I say, is either misunderstood or is invaluable to anyone. I gets lectures for saying little things or suggesting something. I have decided to be a speech minimalist, the least I speak, the least I am judged, rebuked, or lectured. I know it’s difficult doing what is being said by Shivani ji, but I’ll try my best to conserve my mental energy by not reacting to situations and become indifferent to it. That’s how I see it.
Same with me
Our almighty knows when we need his guidance the most🙂
Same will me
I had similar incident few months back. I then connected to God through meditation, bhajans etc( like listening bhajan alone in my room/while travelling etc). I started spenidng time alone for positive self talk assuring myself that everything is peaceful and good and God loves me. God has unconditional love for all. My life is peaceful and happy now. I focus on my own peaceful state over others. Those who used to behave with me in a certain way which they shouldn't also now treat me with respect, peace and love. And some unhealthy elements also automatically sided away from life. Good things ( maybe good lessons through incidents which help us grow spiritually) automatically follow up when we connect to Divine. I pray you have a happy and peaceful state. Also each one has their own personal experience so we must have patience😊
Saw your comment and realized that I've been going through the same kinda pain for the last two days and now I'm trying to get better.
" I have to create the right thought in response to their wrong behaviour" ... exactly defined what we needed to listen.
Your car is been rammed by a stranger out of no where now what is the right thought that you would create please let me know
How to ? Because they hurt us is it so easy to forgive them and subside that anger and still respect them
She is very clear and so sorted ....respect you sister ...
I have already watched thousands of videos about emotional intelligence and independency but still have unclear thoughts. And I'm a person who gets irritated and sad easily by people's actions especially people I love. Because of you madam, feels like I think i can also control my mind. Because I am the one who makes me feel sad, angry and depressed, not them. So, I accept that fact and create my power to be stronger and more mature. Thank you so much Madam. Your video saves me and a lot of people.
Emotional independence & protection from other’s drama is the key to our own peace.. 💜🙏🌹
Om shanti...10 years ago when I was in class 9 i watched awakening with Brahma kumaris daily..every evening i just waiting for the program...my childhood become so beautiful..and now i am 27..after 5 years of marriage everything is going wrong..i starting to watching again and things going to perfect... I found my peace of life.. thank you shivani di..u r shiv Baba's most beloved child ❤
did you divorce?
@@tpb1006😂
@@tpb1006Possibly 😂🤣
If want PAECE of mind 😃
Just like you I also used to see that show but because kiddish nature I am not able implement such knowledge. But now I want control of myself. That's why I m here
@@kamlesh_kumar707Good luck to you mam. May you succeed.. Om namah shivay
☺️🙏
very soft spoken like flaws of river .
सबका जो सपना हैं ..
मेरा वो अपना हैं..
प्यारा वो कितना हैं...
मुश्किल हैं बताना...
उस रब का शुक्राना..
उस रब का शुक्राना...
ओम् शान्ति बाबा..
ओम् शान्ति दीदी ॥
Her way of speaking is just soothing..love and respect fronm Pakistan
Shivanididi you make us realize how simple life should actually be....but how complicated we ignorant souls have made it! Thank you for your presence in this world! We arw blessed. Om Shanti🙏
Now we are ready to give peace and happiness to those who are lacking 😊
OM SHANTI BK SHIVANI SISTER 🙏🌹
I find it randomly because I need this Thank you Universe Thank You Angels 🙏🌼✨ for this love you Hare Krishna 🌼🙏
Simply superb no words. Will follow from today
Om shanti, Sister Shivani ❤️❤️❤️. Always, with love and Gratitude…..
Thank you, thank you, thank you… ❤️🙏❤️🙌😇😘🌼🌺🌼💐☘️🌎
Good morning Sister Om Shanti stay healthy your teachings make me peaceful soul ❤
Youre the best ❤ just what I needed to hear! Thank you 😊
Thank you Shivani di i am dependent on myself i dont need anyone . I protect myself , my future is so bright , God is always with me , i am strong and powerful , loveful . I love myself , i take care myself , My thought my choice my destiny thank you ❤❤❤
Thank you sister for guiding us on our daily problems
Thank you so much for bringing this real and relatable topic in everyone's life.
Absolutely amazing talk 💯
Om shanti thanku shivani dii ,now i don't depend emotionally anyone... I am strong 😊
What a peace in her voice and satisfaction..❤️
I am listening to this video every morning. Simple to follow yet very influential 🙏
I am feeling blessed today because of this video 😇, thank you so much
This is the second podcast I’m listening to, I’m glad your video crossed my path: You’re an amazing speaker, thank you for your knowledge. ❤
Thanks Shivani mam❤
Very well said👏🏼
Wonderful, inspirational and life changing
🙏
Thank you sister Shivani .
Om Shanti didi🙏🏻
I am a powerful being
I am a peaceful soul
I am calm and stable always
I am always happy
Thank you thank you thank you Universe
Shivani di's voice & words are so intense it penetrates throughout the body holistically.Thank you for your unconditional love🙏🙏
Thank you so much Shivani mam. This came on my feed when I needed it most. Love you didi ❤❤❤
Beautifully said 🙏 om shanti
Om Shanti 🙏🙏
I love the perfect example she used on traffic, it was the best use of the talk and she even suggested how to use your mind to reduce that one irritation. it was wonderful homework. we've all watched hundred of CZcams videos about inner engineering but I think when you can immediately use a take home example like this one, you can actually start implementing the talk LITERALLY on that same day..
Feel blessed to hear ur such powerful words 😇
I’m Shanti Sister. You will never know how much this helps me.
You are a very enlightened individual! Thanks for your lecture, it’s very valuable to everyone in every society!
You’re doing much better than any government I’ve seen lately!
Everything is of mind!
Thank you so much Ma'am.
Your words works like medicine to stable my uncertainty and insecurity.
Didi....
Ultimate solution for everything....🙏🙏🙏
Shivani didi is Divine.🙏🏻🙏🏻
Awesome..i am master of my mind n my body..i am ready to give power to everyone..om shanti
Loved the way you said. I felt you are saying all these to me only. ❤❤
Thank goodness I came across this video, As I spent my two years being emotionally dependent that drained my soul, I am ready to follow emotional independence ❤
Om Shanti My Sweet Sister Didi 👑 Sukriya BABA 👑 thank you very much for Energy today 👑
Emotional independence is the key to a happy life .
Its wrong. When you try to be emotionally independent, you are just turning off your emotions which is bad. If you want to be emotionally independent, then there is no love.
@@user-uh5pd2ex5kif it only hurts and betrays in the name of love then you must say Bye.
@@AbCd-ne1ck you are right. The point here is emotionally "Independent" is wrong because you are losing the fundamental "Love".. without love, one is as good as dead
True
Absolutely
OM SHANTHI AND HAPPY MORNING DIDI...
Yeh sab school mei bata te toh mental health thodi achi hoti
Everything Sister Shivani speaks is gospel truth ❤
Om shanti didi 🙏💖😊
Shivani didi you make life so easy and special…. When I listen to you I feel so happy and good 😌
wow, how nice how right ..i never listened to her before. But i love every word she said
🙏🏼 Thank you to Shivani for this wonderful discourse. We Hindus are fortunate for someone like her to share such beautiful, sensible, logical talks. I see these talks so different from the talks given by Muslims and Christian leaders. I don’t see baseless, illogical directions from books. Our thoughts are spiritual logical and critically thought out.
I Cant tell you how much positive energy all these words have given me.. This was much needed at this point of time in my life.. Thank you..
I am speachless ,Gods way of making us understand .
Didi you have magical voice.... whenever I Heard you i forget all stress, anxiety and almost all the distraction...om shanti Didi ...
Yes I was searching the word
Magical soothing voice
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Om shanti ❤
Good morning didi, I am very much influenced by you and follow you from so many years Om shanti didi.. ❤
Om Shanti Shivani didi 🙏
Good morning dii 😊😊
Om shanti dii❤❤
Aapki voice itni peaceful h jise sunke man ek dam shant ho jata h☺️☺️tq so much dii
Thanks Shivani didi you are my inspiration ❤god bless you
Thank Universe because today The universe allowed me to hear worthy speech. I have always wasted my power while I was driving. Best Quotes I received that you mentioned to pray for them ❤.
Just going through a lot at this point of time, but atleast now i know that i was the only reason behind all my sorrows and " I" am the only one who can reduce this.... Can't thank you enough for making it so simple🌸 More power to you ma'am.
Accepts everything in positive way ❤ nd then you'll win in every situation
Thank you Ma'am. Thanks a lot.
Shivani didi what a motivational from yesterday dependent on others but from today this time l can't dependent on others....and don't waste energy on road strangers
Feeling blessed to have come across her videos after buying the self mastery card by Brahma Kumaris. So grateful for all the wisdom so I can master myself and set myself free from cyclic suffering.
Om shanti😊😊
Every day according to my situation, I find a video by you mam.. You are such a pure soul.
Wisdom ✨️🤝 Om shanti 🙏🙏I need to learn this 🙏 🙌 I'm soooo ready 🤝
Thank you so much Shivani Maa for changing our precious lives ❤️ lots of love. Stay blessed everyone.
Baba aap jaisi aatmao ko aur Shakti de❤❤❤❤
Definitely this speech will ease my day..my life
Om Shanti sis ji 🙏 Gratitude
Om Shanti Didi 🙏🏻 suprabhat 🌹
Om shanti didi 💐 thankyou 😊
Your words make me feel ,yes,I can...
Even though, I have failed in life situations thousand times, but,You help me to gain confidence in myself...
I can,I can,I can.
Thanku mam...listening you is just like a flowering on me and I'll try to do right thing not wasting me power to unnecessarythings
God bless
Please keep revising these things everyday 😊❤
Thanks with Gratitude Sister, brings me tears, right time watched....God Bless
Don't know how to thank for your wise words. After listening to your videos I gradually developing the are of staying calm. It really helps to empower my family to sort out their own problems. I practically experiencing the results and try my best to develop that calmness. Thank you sister ❤❤
Very beautiful statement.
Still remember this great lady watching on television. Such a soothing voice she has.
Om Shanti.. shukriya Didi..
thank u so much mam ..........we love u lot
ur words are always priceless for me and always lead & direct me in my problems
I am not emotionally dependent on anyone ❤♾️life is peaceful so am I 🥰🥳
14:38
Love only works if you are emotionally dependent. So, you just turned off your emotions by being independent or you just don't know what you are saying.
Thank you mam....eye opener
I am blessed that I m watching this video
I seriously never reply to any comments but after listening to this ma'am it made me become a real human being thank you for spreading this much of positiveness may god bless you
Very beautiful and inspiring positive energy.thanks dear sister for feeding such powerful words.❤❤
Very helpful and positive thought..thank you so much ma'am ❤️
Thank you so much for this , such a pewerful talk and very helpful .
Simply superb msg.... Thank you sister.
Truly Shivani didi is a blessing for all the people of this world ❤
om shanti
Listening to her is like having your personal coach around,
You are the real Guru Didi. I have learned many things about how to handle a situation and make good decisions in my life . Thank you very much. Didi, I love you ❤