Stop Being EMOTIONALLY DEPENDENT On People: Part 3: BK Shivani: English

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Komentáře • 725

  • @LiveOmkar
    @LiveOmkar Před 10 měsíci +300

    This maam saved my life when i was in my worst phase in 2017/18 god bless her

    • @jumisaaswatilahon1585
      @jumisaaswatilahon1585 Před 9 měsíci +22

      My worst phase is going on. She's helping me so much🙏🏻🙏🏻❤. God Bless Herl❤🙏🏻

    • @LiveOmkar
      @LiveOmkar Před 8 měsíci

      @@jumisaaswatilahon1585 sending prayer's for you my friend ❤️🫂

    • @ashwinih.y593
      @ashwinih.y593 Před 6 měsíci

      @@jumisaaswatilahon1585 q

  • @prakashmungekar3119
    @prakashmungekar3119 Před 11 měsíci +792

    Don't waste energy just for strangers on the road . Bless them that they reach home safely .. that was very powerful . Thanks very much Didi, Om shanti .

    • @yasmineamirodine2073
      @yasmineamirodine2073 Před 11 měsíci +4

      Didi please I am afraid of driving. I cannot handle thé stress. I easly get panicked. What should I do?

    • @wonderwellplayschooldumka777
      @wonderwellplayschooldumka777 Před 11 měsíci +3

      Yes

    • @Priyanka_Singh02
      @Priyanka_Singh02 Před 11 měsíci +4

      Not on road in life also sometime its not necessary to make them right. Let it be and don't waste our power on others.

    • @prakashmungekar3119
      @prakashmungekar3119 Před 11 měsíci +2

      Very much agreed madam . Thanks very much .

    • @nishabagri4498
      @nishabagri4498 Před 10 měsíci +1

      ​@@wonderwellplayschooldumka777
      ,

  • @N00PURA
    @N00PURA Před 11 měsíci +212

    Her voice is so calming ❤ plus she’s speaking facts!

  • @healthymotive3651
    @healthymotive3651 Před 11 měsíci +20

    I m just looking her face amazing glowing skin without makeup.... It's all about super natural power..... She is really pure soul.........

  • @ManiGupta49
    @ManiGupta49 Před 11 měsíci +83

    I guess this video came in my feed at the right time. I have been emotionally unwell from last week due to an incident which made me feel.. powerless, worthless, and someone who can be shouted at with no valid reason. I spent 2-3 days thinking: did I deserve that? Why it happened? Why is it always me who can be made feel invaluable? Why people don’t empathize with me?
    I knew i was being emotionally dependent and giving control to other people on how to dictate my emotional state. I knew I was being victim.
    Yesterday, I shouted at my brother since he is always engrossed in gaming and mobile, the moment he wakes up till the time he sleeps. In return, I was rebuked. And I slept feeling worthless, powerless again.
    I have decided to behave indifferent as anything I say, is either misunderstood or is invaluable to anyone. I gets lectures for saying little things or suggesting something. I have decided to be a speech minimalist, the least I speak, the least I am judged, rebuked, or lectured. I know it’s difficult doing what is being said by Shivani ji, but I’ll try my best to conserve my mental energy by not reacting to situations and become indifferent to it. That’s how I see it.

    • @javeriashahid8121
      @javeriashahid8121 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Same with me

    • @desibhukkadsindubai
      @desibhukkadsindubai Před 10 měsíci +2

      Our almighty knows when we need his guidance the most🙂

    • @shrii827
      @shrii827 Před 10 měsíci

      Same will me

    • @g51661
      @g51661 Před 4 měsíci +1

      I had similar incident few months back. I then connected to God through meditation, bhajans etc( like listening bhajan alone in my room/while travelling etc). I started spenidng time alone for positive self talk assuring myself that everything is peaceful and good and God loves me. God has unconditional love for all. My life is peaceful and happy now. I focus on my own peaceful state over others. Those who used to behave with me in a certain way which they shouldn't also now treat me with respect, peace and love. And some unhealthy elements also automatically sided away from life. Good things ( maybe good lessons through incidents which help us grow spiritually) automatically follow up when we connect to Divine. I pray you have a happy and peaceful state. Also each one has their own personal experience so we must have patience😊

    • @bhawanab4653
      @bhawanab4653 Před 3 měsíci

      Saw your comment and realized that I've been going through the same kinda pain for the last two days and now I'm trying to get better.

  • @VanshikaMehta_16
    @VanshikaMehta_16 Před 9 měsíci +51

    " I have to create the right thought in response to their wrong behaviour" ... exactly defined what we needed to listen.

    • @mallikaj3240
      @mallikaj3240 Před 7 měsíci +1

      Your car is been rammed by a stranger out of no where now what is the right thought that you would create please let me know

    • @divyapoduval4402
      @divyapoduval4402 Před 3 měsíci

      How to ? Because they hurt us is it so easy to forgive them and subside that anger and still respect them

  • @JunaidKhan-xd7ti
    @JunaidKhan-xd7ti Před 10 měsíci +25

    She is very clear and so sorted ....respect you sister ...

  • @papaya6191
    @papaya6191 Před 4 měsíci +10

    I have already watched thousands of videos about emotional intelligence and independency but still have unclear thoughts. And I'm a person who gets irritated and sad easily by people's actions especially people I love. Because of you madam, feels like I think i can also control my mind. Because I am the one who makes me feel sad, angry and depressed, not them. So, I accept that fact and create my power to be stronger and more mature. Thank you so much Madam. Your video saves me and a lot of people.

  • @tellsudha
    @tellsudha Před 3 měsíci +5

    Emotional independence & protection from other’s drama is the key to our own peace.. 💜🙏🌹

  • @sarmistharoy-wn7gj
    @sarmistharoy-wn7gj Před 11 měsíci +112

    Om shanti...10 years ago when I was in class 9 i watched awakening with Brahma kumaris daily..every evening i just waiting for the program...my childhood become so beautiful..and now i am 27..after 5 years of marriage everything is going wrong..i starting to watching again and things going to perfect... I found my peace of life.. thank you shivani di..u r shiv Baba's most beloved child ❤

    • @tpb1006
      @tpb1006 Před 11 měsíci +1

      did you divorce?

    • @iconprajith3224
      @iconprajith3224 Před 11 měsíci +1

      ​@@tpb1006😂

    • @Nameles305
      @Nameles305 Před 11 měsíci +2

      @@tpb1006Possibly 😂🤣
      If want PAECE of mind 😃

    • @kamlesh_kumar707
      @kamlesh_kumar707 Před 8 měsíci +1

      Just like you I also used to see that show but because kiddish nature I am not able implement such knowledge. But now I want control of myself. That's why I m here

    • @Randomyetchaotic
      @Randomyetchaotic Před 6 měsíci

      ​@@kamlesh_kumar707Good luck to you mam. May you succeed.. Om namah shivay
      ☺️🙏

  • @mudasirarif1678
    @mudasirarif1678 Před 7 měsíci +3

    very soft spoken like flaws of river .

  • @jhumachattopadhyay6707
    @jhumachattopadhyay6707 Před 11 měsíci +11

    सबका जो सपना हैं ..
    मेरा वो अपना हैं..
    प्यारा वो कितना हैं...
    मुश्किल हैं बताना...
    उस रब का शुक्राना..
    उस रब का शुक्राना...
    ओम् शान्ति बाबा..
    ओम् शान्ति दीदी ॥

  • @misbahlatif5499
    @misbahlatif5499 Před 55 minutami

    Her way of speaking is just soothing..love and respect fronm Pakistan

  • @jayageetharoy4127
    @jayageetharoy4127 Před 11 měsíci +91

    Shivanididi you make us realize how simple life should actually be....but how complicated we ignorant souls have made it! Thank you for your presence in this world! We arw blessed. Om Shanti🙏

  • @user-zd2ti2wz2b
    @user-zd2ti2wz2b Před 8 měsíci +10

    Now we are ready to give peace and happiness to those who are lacking 😊

  • @chitragodar4367
    @chitragodar4367 Před 11 měsíci +5

    OM SHANTI BK SHIVANI SISTER 🙏🌹

  • @dikshajadhav1122
    @dikshajadhav1122 Před 11 měsíci +10

    I find it randomly because I need this Thank you Universe Thank You Angels 🙏🌼✨ for this love you Hare Krishna 🌼🙏

  • @lakshmimeda7732
    @lakshmimeda7732 Před 8 měsíci

    Simply superb no words. Will follow from today

  • @ainabrunetginard873
    @ainabrunetginard873 Před 11 měsíci +6

    Om shanti, Sister Shivani ❤️❤️❤️. Always, with love and Gratitude…..
    Thank you, thank you, thank you… ❤️🙏❤️🙌😇😘🌼🌺🌼💐☘️🌎

  • @mousumibhattacharjee4461
    @mousumibhattacharjee4461 Před 11 měsíci +9

    Good morning Sister Om Shanti stay healthy your teachings make me peaceful soul ❤

  • @Mischa337
    @Mischa337 Před 9 měsíci +3

    Youre the best ❤ just what I needed to hear! Thank you 😊

  • @AnshuSahu-jee2025
    @AnshuSahu-jee2025 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Thank you Shivani di i am dependent on myself i dont need anyone . I protect myself , my future is so bright , God is always with me , i am strong and powerful , loveful . I love myself , i take care myself , My thought my choice my destiny thank you ❤❤❤

  • @yashkapadiya5414
    @yashkapadiya5414 Před 11 měsíci +21

    Thank you sister for guiding us on our daily problems
    Thank you so much for bringing this real and relatable topic in everyone's life.

  • @BadalKaushal-yx7kg
    @BadalKaushal-yx7kg Před 7 měsíci +1

    Absolutely amazing talk 💯

  • @guriya.....7870
    @guriya.....7870 Před 11 měsíci +9

    Om shanti thanku shivani dii ,now i don't depend emotionally anyone... I am strong 😊

  • @SU9Pakistan
    @SU9Pakistan Před 10 měsíci +28

    What a peace in her voice and satisfaction..❤️

  • @manikandanm3876
    @manikandanm3876 Před 10 měsíci +7

    I am listening to this video every morning. Simple to follow yet very influential 🙏

  • @Readrevolutionhub
    @Readrevolutionhub Před 10 měsíci +3

    I am feeling blessed today because of this video 😇, thank you so much

  • @CuriouslyBrave7
    @CuriouslyBrave7 Před 7 měsíci

    This is the second podcast I’m listening to, I’m glad your video crossed my path: You’re an amazing speaker, thank you for your knowledge. ❤

  • @meerarathod270
    @meerarathod270 Před 8 měsíci

    Thanks Shivani mam❤

  • @nadyakhuwaja6842
    @nadyakhuwaja6842 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Very well said👏🏼

  • @udayamudari3888
    @udayamudari3888 Před 11 měsíci +7

    Wonderful, inspirational and life changing
    🙏

  • @shubhadajha3416
    @shubhadajha3416 Před 9 měsíci

    Thank you sister Shivani .

  • @shilpanandy8704
    @shilpanandy8704 Před 11 měsíci +12

    Om Shanti didi🙏🏻
    I am a powerful being
    I am a peaceful soul
    I am calm and stable always
    I am always happy
    Thank you thank you thank you Universe

  • @bhanuparameswaran
    @bhanuparameswaran Před 11 měsíci +18

    Shivani di's voice & words are so intense it penetrates throughout the body holistically.Thank you for your unconditional love🙏🙏

  • @yogyatajaiswal4915
    @yogyatajaiswal4915 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Thank you so much Shivani mam. This came on my feed when I needed it most. Love you didi ❤❤❤

  • @ukgukg9524
    @ukgukg9524 Před 8 měsíci

    Beautifully said 🙏 om shanti

  • @atanudas766
    @atanudas766 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Om Shanti 🙏🙏

  • @fatimak6440
    @fatimak6440 Před 7 měsíci +9

    I love the perfect example she used on traffic, it was the best use of the talk and she even suggested how to use your mind to reduce that one irritation. it was wonderful homework. we've all watched hundred of CZcams videos about inner engineering but I think when you can immediately use a take home example like this one, you can actually start implementing the talk LITERALLY on that same day..

  • @laxmipatel6653
    @laxmipatel6653 Před 11 měsíci +4

    Feel blessed to hear ur such powerful words 😇

  • @premavallipuram4922
    @premavallipuram4922 Před 11 měsíci +4

    I’m Shanti Sister. You will never know how much this helps me.

  • @gregmcqueen4540
    @gregmcqueen4540 Před 7 měsíci +3

    You are a very enlightened individual! Thanks for your lecture, it’s very valuable to everyone in every society!
    You’re doing much better than any government I’ve seen lately!
    Everything is of mind!

  • @sanchalishaw5412
    @sanchalishaw5412 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Thank you so much Ma'am.
    Your words works like medicine to stable my uncertainty and insecurity.

  • @iyouweubuntu
    @iyouweubuntu Před 9 měsíci +1

    Didi....
    Ultimate solution for everything....🙏🙏🙏

  • @Itsme__265
    @Itsme__265 Před 11 měsíci +6

    Shivani didi is Divine.🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @samilarungapamestry6466
    @samilarungapamestry6466 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Awesome..i am master of my mind n my body..i am ready to give power to everyone..om shanti

  • @poornimaswamy2376
    @poornimaswamy2376 Před 11 měsíci

    Loved the way you said. I felt you are saying all these to me only. ❤❤

  • @dr.shivanii
    @dr.shivanii Před 3 měsíci

    Thank goodness I came across this video, As I spent my two years being emotionally dependent that drained my soul, I am ready to follow emotional independence ❤

  • @kadrimustafa8383
    @kadrimustafa8383 Před 11 měsíci +7

    Om Shanti My Sweet Sister Didi 👑 Sukriya BABA 👑 thank you very much for Energy today 👑

  • @foreverwithparamita
    @foreverwithparamita Před 11 měsíci +50

    Emotional independence is the key to a happy life .

    • @user-uh5pd2ex5k
      @user-uh5pd2ex5k Před 11 měsíci +3

      Its wrong. When you try to be emotionally independent, you are just turning off your emotions which is bad. If you want to be emotionally independent, then there is no love.

    • @AbCd-ne1ck
      @AbCd-ne1ck Před 11 měsíci +2

      ​@@user-uh5pd2ex5kif it only hurts and betrays in the name of love then you must say Bye.

    • @user-uh5pd2ex5k
      @user-uh5pd2ex5k Před 11 měsíci +2

      @@AbCd-ne1ck you are right. The point here is emotionally "Independent" is wrong because you are losing the fundamental "Love".. without love, one is as good as dead

    • @sweetyvlogs4394
      @sweetyvlogs4394 Před 8 měsíci +1

      True

    • @skincarerainbow4950
      @skincarerainbow4950 Před měsícem

      Absolutely

  • @krishnaenterprises8218
    @krishnaenterprises8218 Před 11 měsíci +1

    OM SHANTHI AND HAPPY MORNING DIDI...

  • @saahiljain6390
    @saahiljain6390 Před 4 měsíci +14

    Yeh sab school mei bata te toh mental health thodi achi hoti

  • @shilpadube9522
    @shilpadube9522 Před 11 měsíci +5

    Everything Sister Shivani speaks is gospel truth ❤

  • @farahnaz8885
    @farahnaz8885 Před 11 měsíci +23

    Om shanti didi 🙏💖😊
    Shivani didi you make life so easy and special…. When I listen to you I feel so happy and good 😌

  • @rajpsms
    @rajpsms Před 11 měsíci

    wow, how nice how right ..i never listened to her before. But i love every word she said

  • @srivani991
    @srivani991 Před 9 měsíci

    🙏🏼 Thank you to Shivani for this wonderful discourse. We Hindus are fortunate for someone like her to share such beautiful, sensible, logical talks. I see these talks so different from the talks given by Muslims and Christian leaders. I don’t see baseless, illogical directions from books. Our thoughts are spiritual logical and critically thought out.

  • @user-fz7qb9qu9r
    @user-fz7qb9qu9r Před 11 měsíci +10

    I Cant tell you how much positive energy all these words have given me.. This was much needed at this point of time in my life.. Thank you..

  • @user-zi8dl3mp2f
    @user-zi8dl3mp2f Před 10 měsíci

    I am speachless ,Gods way of making us understand .

  • @lavkushgoswami1020
    @lavkushgoswami1020 Před 11 měsíci +36

    Didi you have magical voice.... whenever I Heard you i forget all stress, anxiety and almost all the distraction...om shanti Didi ...

    • @bhanupriya162
      @bhanupriya162 Před 9 měsíci

      Yes I was searching the word
      Magical soothing voice
      🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @ratheeshrratheeshr9166
    @ratheeshrratheeshr9166 Před 8 měsíci

    Om shanti ❤

  • @sarojwadurkar3934
    @sarojwadurkar3934 Před 11 měsíci +5

    Good morning didi, I am very much influenced by you and follow you from so many years Om shanti didi.. ❤

  • @manasimotgi5483
    @manasimotgi5483 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Om Shanti Shivani didi 🙏

  • @shaifaligupta8597
    @shaifaligupta8597 Před 11 měsíci +7

    Good morning dii 😊😊
    Om shanti dii❤❤
    Aapki voice itni peaceful h jise sunke man ek dam shant ho jata h☺️☺️tq so much dii

    • @tamimsultana
      @tamimsultana Před 11 měsíci

      Thanks Shivani didi you are my inspiration ❤god bless you

  • @jchristy8384
    @jchristy8384 Před 11 měsíci +12

    Thank Universe because today The universe allowed me to hear worthy speech. I have always wasted my power while I was driving. Best Quotes I received that you mentioned to pray for them ❤.

  • @priyyyyyaaaaaaa7304
    @priyyyyyaaaaaaa7304 Před 8 měsíci +15

    Just going through a lot at this point of time, but atleast now i know that i was the only reason behind all my sorrows and " I" am the only one who can reduce this.... Can't thank you enough for making it so simple🌸 More power to you ma'am.

  • @sakshiyadav6092
    @sakshiyadav6092 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Accepts everything in positive way ❤ nd then you'll win in every situation

  • @vijayanand1019
    @vijayanand1019 Před 8 měsíci

    Thank you Ma'am. Thanks a lot.

  • @ku.shrutikayerawar1850
    @ku.shrutikayerawar1850 Před 7 měsíci

    Shivani didi what a motivational from yesterday dependent on others but from today this time l can't dependent on others....and don't waste energy on road strangers

  • @theblissfrequency
    @theblissfrequency Před 6 měsíci

    Feeling blessed to have come across her videos after buying the self mastery card by Brahma Kumaris. So grateful for all the wisdom so I can master myself and set myself free from cyclic suffering.

  • @user-vb4vu4wl9w
    @user-vb4vu4wl9w Před 9 měsíci

    Om shanti😊😊

  • @dr.gunjanpuneetrathi56
    @dr.gunjanpuneetrathi56 Před 6 měsíci

    Every day according to my situation, I find a video by you mam.. You are such a pure soul.

  • @matriciamoses
    @matriciamoses Před 8 měsíci

    Wisdom ✨️🤝 Om shanti 🙏🙏I need to learn this 🙏 🙌 I'm soooo ready 🤝

  • @sushmabhalla243
    @sushmabhalla243 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Thank you so much Shivani Maa for changing our precious lives ❤️ lots of love. Stay blessed everyone.

  • @UnfilteredRishu
    @UnfilteredRishu Před 11 měsíci

    Baba aap jaisi aatmao ko aur Shakti de❤❤❤❤

  • @ZakirShobuj
    @ZakirShobuj Před 11 měsíci +4

    Definitely this speech will ease my day..my life

  • @subhadrabanerjee1820
    @subhadrabanerjee1820 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Om Shanti sis ji 🙏 Gratitude

  • @meenaxibhadauria422
    @meenaxibhadauria422 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Om Shanti Didi 🙏🏻 suprabhat 🌹

  • @navikadahiya7670
    @navikadahiya7670 Před 11 měsíci

    Om shanti didi 💐 thankyou 😊

  • @Psychewithoutsoul
    @Psychewithoutsoul Před 9 měsíci +2

    Your words make me feel ,yes,I can...
    Even though, I have failed in life situations thousand times, but,You help me to gain confidence in myself...
    I can,I can,I can.

  • @Shanayas_talk02
    @Shanayas_talk02 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Thanku mam...listening you is just like a flowering on me and I'll try to do right thing not wasting me power to unnecessarythings

  • @Celestialkarma
    @Celestialkarma Před 8 měsíci +1

    God bless

  • @g51661
    @g51661 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Please keep revising these things everyday 😊❤

  • @Vibi-cy9xf
    @Vibi-cy9xf Před měsícem

    Thanks with Gratitude Sister, brings me tears, right time watched....God Bless

  • @rasangikanarangoda1358
    @rasangikanarangoda1358 Před 10 měsíci +10

    Don't know how to thank for your wise words. After listening to your videos I gradually developing the are of staying calm. It really helps to empower my family to sort out their own problems. I practically experiencing the results and try my best to develop that calmness. Thank you sister ❤❤

  • @nandataware7513
    @nandataware7513 Před 9 měsíci

    Very beautiful statement.

  • @legaleagle8078
    @legaleagle8078 Před 4 měsíci

    Still remember this great lady watching on television. Such a soothing voice she has.

  • @perpetuakanyutu2610
    @perpetuakanyutu2610 Před 2 měsíci

    Om Shanti.. shukriya Didi..

  • @nehaghate2456
    @nehaghate2456 Před 9 měsíci

    thank u so much mam ..........we love u lot
    ur words are always priceless for me and always lead & direct me in my problems

  • @navkaur_1723
    @navkaur_1723 Před 11 měsíci +28

    I am not emotionally dependent on anyone ❤♾️life is peaceful so am I 🥰🥳

    • @sampurnaphani3575
      @sampurnaphani3575 Před 11 měsíci

      14:38

    • @user-uh5pd2ex5k
      @user-uh5pd2ex5k Před 11 měsíci

      Love only works if you are emotionally dependent. So, you just turned off your emotions by being independent or you just don't know what you are saying.

  • @thesparkoflife4947
    @thesparkoflife4947 Před 9 měsíci

    Thank you mam....eye opener

  • @manisha8451
    @manisha8451 Před 8 měsíci

    I am blessed that I m watching this video

  • @shreyagd7747
    @shreyagd7747 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I seriously never reply to any comments but after listening to this ma'am it made me become a real human being thank you for spreading this much of positiveness may god bless you

  • @neerupachauri7505
    @neerupachauri7505 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Very beautiful and inspiring positive energy.thanks dear sister for feeding such powerful words.❤❤

  • @kaberikalita5107
    @kaberikalita5107 Před 10 měsíci

    Very helpful and positive thought..thank you so much ma'am ❤️

  • @tenzindolker2655
    @tenzindolker2655 Před 10 měsíci

    Thank you so much for this , such a pewerful talk and very helpful .

  • @ashok1776
    @ashok1776 Před 10 měsíci

    Simply superb msg.... Thank you sister.

  • @priyankabohra793
    @priyankabohra793 Před 7 měsíci

    Truly Shivani didi is a blessing for all the people of this world ❤

  • @puneetyadav9112
    @puneetyadav9112 Před 8 měsíci +1

    om shanti

  • @niharikasharma678
    @niharikasharma678 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Listening to her is like having your personal coach around,

  • @mayadevi7572
    @mayadevi7572 Před 11 měsíci

    You are the real Guru Didi. I have learned many things about how to handle a situation and make good decisions in my life . Thank you very much. Didi, I love you ❤