What Does It Mean To Be INFJ? The INFJ personality type, commonly known as The Advocate or Counselor, is one of sixteen in the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI). INFJs account for about 1-3 percent of the population. If you get an INFJ personality type, it suggests you're introverted, intuitive, feeling, and judging. Dominant: Introverted Intuition is your primary cognitive function. Extroverted Feeling: Auxiliary Introverted Thinking (tertiary). Extroverted Sensing is inferior. The MBTI test was designed to help people understand their own communication styles and how they connect with others. Knowing your MBTI type can help you better understand your mental processes and behavior, as well as adjust your interpersonal approach to various situations and people. 00:00 INTRO 00:30 10 The INFJ empathizes with anyone; the sigma INFJ listens only to those worth their time 01:51 09 The INFJ is innately emotional; the sigma INFJ won’t give the world access to their emotions 03:20 08 The INFJ is an all-out dreamer; the sigma INFJ knows when and how to quit 04:47 07 The INFJ is careful not to offend others; sigma INFJs won’t care 06:08 06 The INFJ wants to make people comfortable with them; the sigma INFJ leaves the atmosphere up to others 07:21 05 The INFJ fits in any group because of their flexibility; sigma INFJs only attract the like-minded 08:39 04 The INFJ sees the good in everyone; the sigma INFJ disregards that belief 09:36 03 INFJs are naturally selfless; sigma INFJs know when to choose themselves first 10:49 02 The INFJ would instantly volunteer; sigma INFJs won't 11:43 01 The INFJ can give second chances- but the sigma doesn't Do You Have Topics In Mind? Comment Below... ♥♥♥Help Us Serve You Better!♥♥♥ Show us love and support through our Patreon: www.patreon.com/ON_TRACK Share This Video Right NOW: czcams.com/video/EoUcVIaZ_0w/video.html ------------------------------------------------------------------------- Thanks for Watching! Are you an INFJ? What more would you like to add? We would definitely love to know! DROP A LIKE, SHARE, Click the SUBSCRIBE Button and HIT that notification bell to get the latest updates! SUBSCRIBE to our CHANNEL NOW 👉👉👉 bit.ly/2LY533N Help Our Channel Reach Awareness Share it With your Friends and Family. Caption Our Video To Your Language Here: 👉👉👉 bit.ly/3gBgWbU -------------------------------------------------------------------------- Videos You May Also Like: 10 Ways That CAN TURN ON AN INFJ czcams.com/video/9C_hjpv5Whg/video.html 10 Reasons Why The INFJ Stands Out From The Rest czcams.com/video/dRYZI9crnbs/video.html Is The INFJ The TRUE ALPHA Of The MBTI? czcams.com/video/CBgu8SnxxHI/video.html 10 Shocking Confessions of A TRUE INFJ czcams.com/video/iliHHAtMhm4/video.html How TABOO Is The INFJ Personality? czcams.com/video/jIHFIBeXNr0/video.html
and existentialism is a true infj and the overman is Sigma. Whether I'm right or wrong I know I'm right about this being connected and I want to know why nobody has put this together ?
,@@ryanarwood2317 I have no idea. The art of feeling someone out requires many variables. Like, culture, postures, tone, eyes or gaze, smell, clothes, jewelry, tattoos, environment, if I have knowledge of them personally, idiosyncrasies, and many other indicators. Intuition and comprehensive ability also plays a huge role.
Hm this makes me feel a lot better because sometimes I worry I am not the stereotypically warm, friendly INFJ. I care too much about myself. I make people uncomfortable by being honest about the issues I see in the world, or not contributing to empty conversations. I have always felt that I prefer to be authentic than popular. It actually makes me sad to witness INFJs (or anyone) that are tirelessly compassionate, never publically break, mask all of the time. Then I see how everyone applauds them for it. All the while I know how badly they want to stop smiling, and let go of the need of being hypervigilant about the perceived needs of others. I have been victimized a lot in my youth, that hardened me, and the best part of it all is I guess I am good at hiding it because people still perceive me as a naive cinnamon roll. Point is, INFJs even if you relax a lil' or a lot your warmth and empathy will still rediate because it is inherently that strong. Our strength is that we can carry so so many dark truths, and still spread kindness. Though with boundaries we may appear cold and dismissive to predators, win win!
Took 31 yrs to come to clear terms to this reality. God reassured me I'm on the right track now. Was unaware up until 3 months ago in a 9yr, now, marriage with a covert. Awakened now!
Hello. I hope you don't mind me bringing to your attention that while reading the Bible on my own, I've found that it never once says that Jesus is God. If you look for a plain scripture where Jesus says, "I am God," you will not find it. Nor will you find anyone saying "Jesus is God." The vast majority of churches in the world teach that Jesus is God, which according to my recent discoveries, is a doctrine based solely on interpretation. That's very dangerous, especially since God says he will not share his praise and glory with another (Psalm 42:8). Remember, this is Satan's kingdom we're in right now, and I believe this is the enemies booby trap under the church waiting to go off at judgment. Look at 2 Peter 1:1-3... "just as there will be false teachers among you, who will subtly introduce destructive heresies, even denying the Master who bought them... many will follow their shameful ways, and because of them the way of truth will be spoken evil of... they will exploit you with false arguments and twisted doctrine." "Denying the Master," how? As shown above, by taking the glory and praise due to God and placing it upon his Son, and exhalting him as God when he's a man like you and me, who has the same God and Father as you and me (John 4:22, John 20:17). To say again, detracting from the work of who and what Jesus is and did, which is his rightful glory, and putting God's glory as Father and creator on Jesus. This worship is causing the Son to eclipse the Father. Jesus never said "I am God." We shouldn't put words in his mouth.
#11 - INFJ's can feel other peoples emotions and can get overwhelmed, Sigma INFJ's have known how to shield themselves from unwanted energy and can filter which energy to focus on. #12 - INFJ's can be susceptible to teasing and bullying, Sigma INFJ's have grown thicker skin because of the teasing/bullying in their past and have evolved beyond that mentality, which is why they will go to other people's aid when they see those that are being bullied.
Shielding myself from other people emotions is what I've been having the most difficultly with. I've basically been door slamming the entire world and taking things from there. I haven't been completely cutting myself off emotionally, but just enough to not care as much.
@@RedandBlackS10 There is a way you can protect yourself from other peoples emotions, I thought I was the only one to come up with it but found out I wasn't the only one. What I am talking about is something called a moving barrier. It uses your own aura/energy like a tornado/cyclone, that surrounds you and your place of residence, unless you live with other people then their energy can get added, it is the simplest but strongest there is as I have been using it for over 20 years - here is how: 1:- Relax your mind (go out into nature or listen to calming music) and feel the warmth around you, that is your own energy. 2:- Visualise your energy surrounding you, then like the wind, have it moving around you in a clockwise direction (left to right in front and right to left behind) . . . . thats it. The whole process will take time to achieve effectively, but you can not only add to it, you can also adjust how far from you that you want it - your own arms length or like a second skin. The more you practise it, the faster you can have it up, and the less you will need to remind yourself to activate it, it can soon become a subconscious activity. Whenever I feel overwhelmed by other peoples emotions, I take a deep breath and visualise the barrier, by the time I exhale it is up and at full strength. It is much better than Meditation and/or the White Bubble, which are 2 other types of protection.
@RedandBlackS10 well, that IS shielding yourself, most people can't even walk away from a physically abusive relationship, we can walk away ANY TIME we know there's no hope & isn't worth the mental chess, we're THE BEST at rebounding from what would destroy & consume most others, we can suck all their negative in, & dissolve it LIKE NOTHING
I am an older INFJ and agree 100% with this. When I was younger, my emotions bounced all over the place. I tried to help everyone. I was betrayed too often. As I grew older, I realized that's it's ok to have boundaries. Being a Signa INFJ is so much healthier. Thanks for this. Best video on Sigma INFJ i've seen.
As an infj cold stone I can really ralate to that brother i cried days until i learned that crying will never help and become mature at 14 because i was being gossip by others in get humiliated so bad that i don't really care what they think of me sometimes i almost had an fist fight with my own father being a drunk fool but recently he changes that was the best happened to me ever for grammar i trying to be better English is not my first language i hope whoever reads had a bless life
I am 69 and it happened last year with no knowledge of what a Sigma INFJ even is. I am no longer nervously cheerful. I was aware I was an INFJ and had a problem with narcissists and people-pleasing my whole life, trying to fit in with others. Now I'm calmer, more sure of myself. No longer a people-pleaser at ALL. I don't care at all if I'm liked or approved of. I'm more focused. It's wonderful for me, but my family seems concerned and have told me so. I smile and tell them I'm great. What I don't understand is how such a drastic personality change can happen without provocation. I think I had possibly seen the term Sigma once before, but had never studied or understood it. I did not TRY to become Sigma. It simply happened. It's a good change.
After depression, I have always wondered if I became another MBTI personality type cause I have noticed the stronger boundaries and my propensity to protect my peace. I thought I became cold. But I took the same test and I was still an infj. Turns out it was just a sigma awakening. Thanks for the vid. Now it makes sense.
This is how I feel. My peace, my time, and my goals come first. Growth, self awareness, and believing in yourself more important than anything else. Reconcile the past, focus on your future, but don't forget to live in the present. Be better, save your energy, and fuck the bullshit.
I'm a Sigma INFJ and this is very accurate. I can forgive, but I won't forget what people did. So it's difficult to stay with people who did huge mistakes.
I’ve been a sigma infj for a long time now. Growing up with diagnosed narcissistic sociopaths in my biological parents brought it out and caused me to door slam them without regret. Now I live without regrets. I learned to live with every decision I’ve made right or wrong. The path I’m on will be turbulent no doubt. However the ability to cut the abusive people out is the best way forward. I wish everyone could do it.
I'm really glad to know the overlap and the distinction between the sigma and the non-sigma variant. In the last year I have made the transition to sigma and I now understand myself completely and no longer feel some type of impostor syndrome.
I suppose I've never had a fear of family because it was always made abundantly clear that I was different. Never in any negative way necessarily.... For whatever reason I decided or accepted at an early age that there was a version of me that was different depending on who the person thinking about me was No one was ever really going to understand me. And I guess the reason why your question is inspired such a long response, is because I wasn't letting go of fear of family, but by becoming myself that fear for disappeared for the first time ever. I was born afraid. Understanding who I was made me brave
Like I just separated from my wife and she had a lot of very toxic narcissistic traits. And until I became a sigma INFJ I was doing typical INFJ behaviors and subsequently causing self-harm. When I started to lash out and became what she considered toxic. Instead of guilting myself over it I realized that this was just a characteristic of my personality because I was doing research on sigma Male videos etc. I had spent years going to a psychiatrist dealing with PTSD just this week I finally took my final dose of an antidepressant. So some of this context may be helpful. It was once I realized that it was okay to stick up for myself and never look back that I started to becoming what I now understand through this video is a sigma INFJ.
I noted a distinct change in myself but thought I’d just turned into a hard-ass in the last few years 🙂 I’m in my late 50’s and imagine this happens to most INFJs over time.
I’m in my mid fifties and I’ve turned into a Sigma (hard ass) in the last few years too. It feels like a very natural evolution to my INFJ status. I absolutely love the definition that Sigma gives to my INFJ-ness. I still retain most of the benefits to being an INFJ, but there’s a world-wariness to my interaction with others that wasn’t there before. I think a failing (albeit a commendable one) of INFJness is that we try to be all things to all people, becoming Sigma (to me, at least) means that you’re much more shrewd as to who gets your time and why.
Joining the military really helped me grow into the “sigma”. I was very idealistic before, committed to service and volunteering. And in the end, I was left more empty than before. The military gave me the thick-skin, put me up against those who would exploit/abuse/manipulate for the joy of others suffering, and taught me to commit to other without committing. There were reasons I learned to never again volunteer yourself (well, volunteering for what suckage you’ll suffer, not what good you’ll do). I think the simplest way for an INFJ to become a “sigma”, is to simply go into the most uncomfortable areas. Place your hand onto the stove and see how you handle the heat. You will break. You will question who you are, your beliefs, your life decisions. You may fail and hide in the corner to process the experience subconsciously, as we are wont to do. Or you’ll come out calloused, but stronger in your resolve. Or just end up with mental health problems and an alcohol problem.
Yeah if the military won't teach you the danger of volunteering nothing will. 😂😂😂 Of course my father told me before I went in that you don't volunteer for anything. So I knew never to raise my hand when they asked for "volunteers". I do think the military is an overall positive experience and gives you life skills you will benefit from for the rest of your life though. I think everyone would benefit but have seen the guys who washed out in BCT and know some are just to soft in general. 🤙
Amen, there you have it folks. I have cut long time friends out of my life when I saw their arrogance, it was directed at me, I say no, I say Oh Hell No!!! And GOODBYE... Did it hurt? Yes, but only for a little while, my peace of mind is priceless.
Deeply accurate developmental trajectory of INFJ's evolutionary traits, without idealizing or demonizing - the traps many other videos fall into. Whoever made this has keenly understood the transition from a bondage of an indiscriminate people pleaser towards a self-contained sovereign being quite well.
Have been a people-pleasing INFJ my whole life. Then something just changed. I no longer assume other people's opinions or beliefs are more accurate than my own. I have strong boundaries now, very new for me. I don't apologize unless I'm truly wrong. I'm no longer uncomfortable when conversation lags. I'm no longer uncomfortable with confrontation, a HUGE change from my former codependent self. Disapproval used to destroy my confidence, so narcissists just loved me. I still have feelings, but my expectations and needs of people are so different. I've always seen through people's lies but used to assume or hope I was wrong about them. Now I am just calmer, less reactive, expect less. I listen more and trust my gut. I'm no longer nervous around people or feel the need to please. It's a huge blessing and I don't even know why or how it finally happened. I hadn't heard of "Sigma" before running across it on YT. I really wish this had happened sooner.😊
You kind of made it seemed as if the INFJ becomes a sigma INFJ by way of going super saiyan.. All INFJs will become sigma at some point in their adult life. It's like puberty for your personality.
I can see your point. I'm a INFP. My husband is a Sigma INFJ. Being married for over thirty years, we do mirror each other's thoughts on the outside world. Which we don't care for. As for becoming a Sigma myself, I wished that trait would hurry up & get here. I still feel all the hurt & the pains from past relationships, that took advantage of my generosity. I hate narcissists.
@Qui est Cet homme 3 WHEW, I needed to hear that. I used to have a strong walk with God. But every time, I entered a Church, certain people and pastor's would start hissing at me. Really kind of scary. It cleared out an entire Sunday School Class. Those that have degrees in Theocracy, would become offended, how I 'framed the things of God'. They thought, "I was just being arrogant". Eventually, they'd understand an apologize, when they saw how God, would move, in their life, from prayer. I would be exhausted when I got home. Being able to hide behind closed doors became easier. Thank you for taking the time, to show me the path & the light. Bless You.
There's a big difference between trying to fit and being diplomatic. For a sigma infj, Peace and harmony are always worth diplomatic negotiations, but we will be the first to walk away from anyone seeking to control or manipulate for personal gain
If I didn't know that their is a sigma type infj I won't literally say i'm an infj as i think there just so much difference with my personality but when you explained something like this and other similar videos posted in your channel it just adds up everything just fits so well,, I guess i'm a developing sigma infj ,, I don't know yet if it will match my personality test at our company maybe after 2 - 3 years for 6 sessions or more test procedures ,, well i did take a test online at 16personalities (retesting after 4-5 months maybe around 2 years by now) & Myers briggs (but hmm i'm just using it for free so it doesn't directly say what type i am) and still continuing to take it at our company,, Well my goal is just to know my self more in order to develop and know more how to keep improving myself,, So to sum it up I'm so thankful that you have this types of channel explaining personality types more power!
The above said things is very true as per my concerns. Few years ago I used be INFJ and kind to everyone & empathize with everybody who is in dare need, without giving a second thought that the same person would betrayed me when I was at my low. But as time pass and having lot of experience in dealing with these type of people soon I got to realised that I have made a tendency to understand their character and intentions. That would definately helped me to identify those fake people and make me realise their true intentions before making any relationship with them. You guys are doing a very great job 👍 These kind of contents really helps people to understand their own nature, even though it's not exactly true but you get an rough idea about your personality
Like this. This is also an example why some sociopathic circles try to shut down social and emotional intelligence. In part, it is to ensure their victims do not have the language to describe what is happening to them, or know how to escape and break free from abusive cycles. A more significant issue, is they do not want a collective group of Sigma INFJs and other understanding souls understanding the game and then take on the sociopaths' collective collusions such as pedophile rings, government corruption, war crimes, environmental desecration.
10. The INFJ empathises with anyone; the sigma INFJ listens only to those worth their time. 09. The INFJ is innately emotional; the sigma INFJ won't give the world access to their emotions. 08. The INFJ is an all-out dreamer; the sigma INFJ knows when and how to quit. 07. The INFJ is careful not to offend others; the Sigma INFJ won't care. 06. The INFJ wants to make people comfortable with them; the Sigma INFJ leaves the atmosphere to others. 05. The INFJ fits in any group because of his flexibility; Sigma INFJs only attract the like-minded. 04. The INFJ sees the good in everyone; the Sigma INFJ disregards this belief. 03. INFJ's are naturally selfless; Sigma INFJ's know when to choose themselves first. 02. The INFJ would instantly volunteer; the Sigma INFJ won't. 01. The INFJ can give second chances, but the Sigma INFJ does not.
It's not just _Sigma - Not Sigma,_ like flipping a switch. We move in the _direction_ of 'Sigma' as we grow and mature. Progress comes in fits and starts, and there are many pitfalls, and the process never ends.
This video just gave language to my conflict and helped me to decide firmly in what I want and who I want to be. I've been on both side of the spectrums in my now 31 years of life. Mostly, Innate understanding. But when I decided to transform and morph into the sigma state, I enjoyed not allowing people to have access to my emotions whenever they needed them and not being responsible for everyone else and their perception of me. Although sigma was short lived and I'm hiding myself again (Innately) due to truama, I much rather grow and be unapologetically me. It takes work to live in a sigma state but it's worth it. I didn't think I had the energy to evolve again but I'm realizing that I do and it's a must that we ALL evolve or the world will be in lack of great influential leaders!
It's not that I am unforgiving, I am very forgiving. I'm very understanding, and empathic to people's emotions. There is only so much empathy and compassion that I am capable of. Once you cross that threshold there is no turning back. Don't call me cold-hearted because I gave you a whole bag full of chances
Just as a cursory glance here, it seems to me that a total INFJ conversion to sigma, is a LOT more difficult than an INTJ doing it, because the INFJ movement requires deadening a lot of emotion apparently to make the move, something INTJ's very often have down pat (robots basically😂).
I believe it's always wise to look for the good in people. It is also wise to recognize who they are, so you know if they have a desire to change, or remain in their rebellious state, giving you more insight of how to act accordingly to the situation, especially after you have taught them from all different approaches to understand the value that has not been understood, and allowing them to respond in a mature way or an immature manner, without taking it personally, only doing so because you care greatly about their worth, or the worth of their soul, knowing that is up to them if they care about their soul as much as you do, and not taking on the responsibility if they choose not to uphold that same value. I also believe a wise Sigma INFJ will look for commonality, to bring more harmony in the situation that falls before the group, friendship, or couple.
Honestly, I've been pretty heavily on both ends of the spectrum at different times in my life. Finding a balance between protecting yourself and still letting the right people in is a neverending battle.
Wow..! This video really explained it All for me. Once upon a time I was an INFJ tru & thru. And then I transformed into a SIGMA almost overnight. Started getting selfish with my selflessness. "You gotta put your mask on 1st before you help the next man." I bore people with that quote all the time. Learning to accept self as well as we do others. Unapologetically. That is Sigma.
Well, this makes things make much more sense. Thanks for this video :) I thought I just had the door slam on permanent standby. When you finally realize that you don't need to stay where you aren't appreciated, no matter how much your sense of justice wants to fix the issue... sometimes it's just not worth your own sanity and health anymore.
Finally i got to know this. I was really confused about my MBTI change?. But now everything is clear to me thank u. It was just a transition. And im 23 now
Yes its exactly what i was looking...am INFJ and becane sigma infj...i was wondering why am i feeling this growth beyong my belief and BAM!!!! Spiritual Awakening and it all makes sense.. my time is all i truly have...why waste it in anyone who cant appreciate it or why waste my time with this small talk that i cant stand ..now i as soon as they open their mouth i give them 5 seconds and that is wnough time for me to kmow whether i would give this person any of time for any purpose amd can walk away now without worrying about your feelings...talk about liberating
Being a infj who empatizes a lot of people is very harmful trait and that is good thing explained and that is the reason too become selfcentred and work on yourself alone and be good only with people who deserve it
My sigma nature developed not only by my own life experiences, but I think my partner played a big role in helping me develop it over the years as well.
I am in between, finally. I’ve let go of those who abused me. To tell you the truth, I seem to agree with the things mentioned here. For instance, I don’t seem to give people a second chance after they’ve hurt me because their personality is not going to change. I forgive them and pray for them, but once they’ve crossed the line, they do not get a chance to cross the line again.
Okay, now! This makes sense. This I can accept. Regular INFJ sounds goopy. Don't take that personal, regular INFJ, because, I mean it sounds goopy for me. I am not as touchy-feely as INFJ is described. I have the ability to be, but not the desire. I also have been through a LOT.
I'm a Sigma INFJ/ Dark Empath & FULLY EMBRACE IT, i think almost ALL INFJ's will turn Sigma in older age, & Fall Empath from age & a lifetime of abuse,abandonment, & people letting us down, it's not like we don't care, we just learned to be more selective who we share our heart with, & it feels SO FREEING to NOT CARE what anyone thinks about me, i can still remember being a prisoner to that emotion....
Number 1 is perfect! I always gave second chances. Now I just feel the bad energy and caracter in hours or even some sentence and just think, to not don't waste my time, because I anyways can't change those people.
Odin sacrificed his eye in Mimir's well and he threw himself on his spear Gungnir in a kind of symbolic, ritual suicide. He then hanged himself in Yggdrasil, the tree of life, for nine days and nine nights in order to gain knowledge of other worlds and be able to understand the runes. You can call it sigma or whatever you like but to gain something you have to sacrifice something. Your time, your energy, your effort, your innocence, etc. More often than not it's probably something that caused enough pain and pushed you to your limits. A bad situation, a narcissist, your own paranoia, your body failing, your own failures, etc. That's my opinion.
All I know is I respect myself more than anyone. And if others dont like me then dont why would I bother myself on their opinions... Still I don't think that everythings revolves around me for I do have my own world and universe that me myself and I can enter..
Very insightful. Thank You. I agree that the abuse and exploitation that was intended to destroy me has only made me unstoppable. Every weapon formed against me is already prospering me.
I am on the way to becoming Sigma. I don't know whots happend and I start feeling nobody can't change or manipuoate my behavior. I put myself many questions whot is with me. Now after this fantastic expanation I think Its mastery.❤️🌹Thank You
Life eventually forces the change to sigma nature. Assuming we don't transition ourselves.... Speaking straight for myself. I was on the edge, but life burned the bridge underneath and finished it for me. It's Not Evolution as some of us prefer to claim. It's certainly not a spontaneous radical change in our DNA. 😁 If it's not our natural change with maturity. Then it's an adaptation to our environment. Don't get me wrong, I like the idea of our Evolution. I simply see absolutely nothing to support that grandiose theory. 😁
Hmm...I think that I may be in transition from one to the other. I'm sick of being taken advantage of, so I am learning to say "no" or stronger words than that.
The sigma infj knows that "quitting" is the only way they could fail. We do tend to find that once we get what we think we want, it sometimes didn't bring the fulfillment we thought it would, but we could have only learned that through experience.
I’ve learnt that I was born as a infj.But thru life trauma and near death experience just as a small example.I look at life people a lot differently now cause I used to trust see the best in people also try and fit in for people to like me.I now rather distance myself from people including family friends unless they earned my respect and trust especially as Ive experienced thru so much hatred jealousy for caring to much thru achieving things that they thought I couldn’t do or give me a chance or take away the opportunities.But they still rely on me for social gatherings and friendships which annoys me koz there the first to exclude me.I know now that I have changed and learned a lot about myself to be proud about and don’t care what anyone thinks or say now which used to be a big thing to me.I’ve become a sigma infj which now I understand from watching this video which gives me a understanding that I needed to know why I’m like this and feel different from anyone else.moral of the story.cool 😎
Was always wondering why the internet has been saying INFJ being so helpful and selfless etc when I wasn't, at least as of recent years despite being branded as INFJ after taking the personality test. Seems like I am in the transitioning period to become Sigma INFJ. Reason for transition, sick of people just abusing us wasting our energy when we provide education on how to avoid the occurrence of their issues they expect you to resolve their issue instead. Cheers and congratulations to all Sigma INFJ😇
Other people's opinion of me is none of my business. They have the right to think and feel whatever they choose, and I have a moral imperative to remain in integrity. Sometimes the Truth hurts.
I have no time and energy to prove to anyone that I do the right thing.....if they can't find it out themselves for the purposes best known to them,,,,,let them take me for what they want to,and I will ever be ready,like a chameleon,to dance to their tunes and see how far they can go coz after all,with time an egg will walk
Wow very interesting I’m a sigma infj that’s not what I expected I just thought that’s how I am after getting a reality check but there were some parts where I’m a normal infj so I guess I’m close
This is a goiid comparison, but also in your mention of a sigma not caring if they are hasrsh at times rather thain taking a more weimpish approach. I have has tgo face this myself over my many years, opwever there is yet another fine line in this that bodes pensivemenss for INFJs, wherher sigma or aspiring to same. "Tough Love" an INFJ if he/she tries can surely come up with the way to cut that line without becoming co-dependent. This however has the added concern of whether one is to apply tough love when the need truly and morally confronts one or if an INFJ would be motivated to seek out more of that ype of conundrum than truly confronts him. That may asw much as not be a case of balancing his time amongst many and diverse issues with which life confronts us all.
INFJ towards sigma: As one who has lived the life for all too long as the INFJ empath, and sees the problem of making INFJs contend with narcissists and narcissism, IMHO there is a fine line here to be cut and said distinction be made know, "imposed if necessary, but not necessarily imposed ". So we think of the INFJ, seeking to become sigma, yet caught with the conundrum of putting (as it were) the narcissist in hos place... "As Christians we are taught"... (That to mean that while we may have been taught X is a Christian environment, it still in practical common sense applies to ALL humanity, albeit in ecumenical fashion (AKA unity in diversity in some other religions) but also, in so propounding, makes due respect for other religions.) "A christian loves the sinner yet haters the sin" but this says little about just how to deal with the "combined conundrum". Hence, centuries later, we hear talk of "Tough Love"... So, rhetorically, might well the INFJ of this story think how best to impose the need for tough love on the narcissist, and then, on that basis, "Wash his hands". For the young and single set, is this not comparable to the "no communications rule" and all that entails and seeks to serve? Food for thought(iness)!
If turned Sigma during covid. Too many people let me down and the stupidity of society is a taste that I can never get out of my mouth. I got a Golden Retriever, and I’m finally at peace.
What Does It Mean To Be INFJ?
The INFJ personality type, commonly known as The Advocate or Counselor, is one of sixteen in the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI). INFJs account for about 1-3 percent of the population. If you get an INFJ personality type, it suggests you're introverted, intuitive, feeling, and judging. Dominant: Introverted Intuition is your primary cognitive function. Extroverted Feeling: Auxiliary Introverted Thinking (tertiary). Extroverted Sensing is inferior. The MBTI test was designed to help people understand their own communication styles and how they connect with others. Knowing your MBTI type can help you better understand your mental processes and behavior, as well as adjust your interpersonal approach to various situations and people.
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00:30 10 The INFJ empathizes with anyone; the sigma INFJ listens only to those worth their time
01:51 09 The INFJ is innately emotional; the sigma INFJ won’t give the world access to their emotions
03:20 08 The INFJ is an all-out dreamer; the sigma INFJ knows when and how to quit
04:47 07 The INFJ is careful not to offend others; sigma INFJs won’t care
06:08 06 The INFJ wants to make people comfortable with them; the sigma INFJ leaves the atmosphere up to others
07:21 05 The INFJ fits in any group because of their flexibility; sigma INFJs only attract the like-minded
08:39 04 The INFJ sees the good in everyone; the sigma INFJ disregards that belief
09:36 03 INFJs are naturally selfless; sigma INFJs know when to choose themselves first
10:49 02 The INFJ would instantly volunteer; sigma INFJs won't
11:43 01 The INFJ can give second chances- but the sigma doesn't
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I’m definitely an INFJ Sigma male.
and existentialism is a true infj and the overman is Sigma. Whether I'm right or wrong I know I'm right about this being connected and I want to know why nobody has put this together ?
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@@jessmason2112 do you know what I am referring to
,@@ryanarwood2317 I have no idea. The art of feeling someone out requires many variables. Like, culture, postures, tone, eyes or gaze, smell, clothes, jewelry, tattoos, environment, if I have knowledge of them personally, idiosyncrasies, and many other indicators. Intuition and comprehensive ability also plays a huge role.
Hm this makes me feel a lot better because sometimes I worry I am not the stereotypically warm, friendly INFJ. I care too much about myself. I make people uncomfortable by being honest about the issues I see in the world, or not contributing to empty conversations. I have always felt that I prefer to be authentic than popular. It actually makes me sad to witness INFJs (or anyone) that are tirelessly compassionate, never publically break, mask all of the time. Then I see how everyone applauds them for it. All the while I know how badly they want to stop smiling, and let go of the need of being hypervigilant about the perceived needs of others. I have been victimized a lot in my youth, that hardened me, and the best part of it all is I guess I am good at hiding it because people still perceive me as a naive cinnamon roll. Point is, INFJs even if you relax a lil' or a lot your warmth and empathy will still rediate because it is inherently that strong. Our strength is that we can carry so so many dark truths, and still spread kindness. Though with boundaries we may appear cold and dismissive to predators, win win!
My brother in Christ.
Exactly 💯🙏💞
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Took 31 yrs to come to clear terms to this reality. God reassured me I'm on the right track now. Was unaware up until 3 months ago in a 9yr, now, marriage with a covert. Awakened now!
Hello. I hope you don't mind me bringing to your attention that while reading the Bible on my own, I've found that it never once says that Jesus is God. If you look for a plain scripture where Jesus says, "I am God," you will not find it. Nor will you find anyone saying "Jesus is God." The vast majority of churches in the world teach that Jesus is God, which according to my recent discoveries, is a doctrine based solely on interpretation. That's very dangerous, especially since God says he will not share his praise and glory with another (Psalm 42:8).
Remember, this is Satan's kingdom we're in right now, and I believe this is the enemies booby trap under the church waiting to go off at judgment. Look at 2 Peter 1:1-3... "just as there will be false teachers among you, who will subtly introduce destructive heresies, even denying the Master who bought them... many will follow their shameful ways, and because of them the way of truth will be spoken evil of... they will exploit you with false arguments and twisted doctrine."
"Denying the Master," how? As shown above, by taking the glory and praise due to God and placing it upon his Son, and exhalting him as God when he's a man like you and me, who has the same God and Father as you and me (John 4:22, John 20:17). To say again, detracting from the work of who and what Jesus is and did, which is his rightful glory, and putting God's glory as Father and creator on Jesus. This worship is causing the Son to eclipse the Father.
Jesus never said "I am God." We shouldn't put words in his mouth.
#11 - INFJ's can feel other peoples emotions and can get overwhelmed, Sigma INFJ's have known how to shield themselves from unwanted energy and can filter which energy to focus on.
#12 - INFJ's can be susceptible to teasing and bullying, Sigma INFJ's have grown thicker skin because of the teasing/bullying in their past and have evolved beyond that mentality, which is why they will go to other people's aid when they see those that are being bullied.
Word. On point.
Shielding myself from other people emotions is what I've been having the most difficultly with. I've basically been door slamming the entire world and taking things from there. I haven't been completely cutting myself off emotionally, but just enough to not care as much.
@@RedandBlackS10 There is a way you can protect yourself from other peoples emotions, I thought I was the only one to come up with it but found out I wasn't the only one.
What I am talking about is something called a moving barrier. It uses your own aura/energy like a tornado/cyclone, that surrounds you and your place of residence, unless you live with other people then their energy can get added, it is the simplest but strongest there is as I have been using it for over 20 years - here is how:
1:- Relax your mind (go out into nature or listen to calming music) and feel the warmth around you, that is your own energy.
2:- Visualise your energy surrounding you, then like the wind, have it moving around you in a clockwise direction (left to right in front and right to left behind) . . . . thats it.
The whole process will take time to achieve effectively, but you can not only add to it, you can also adjust how far from you that you want it - your own arms length or like a second skin. The more you practise it, the faster you can have it up, and the less you will need to remind yourself to activate it, it can soon become a subconscious activity.
Whenever I feel overwhelmed by other peoples emotions, I take a deep breath and visualise the barrier, by the time I exhale it is up and at full strength. It is much better than Meditation and/or the White Bubble, which are 2 other types of protection.
@RedandBlackS10 well, that IS shielding yourself, most people can't even walk away from a physically abusive relationship, we can walk away ANY TIME we know there's no hope & isn't worth the mental chess, we're THE BEST at rebounding from what would destroy & consume most others, we can suck all their negative in, & dissolve it LIKE NOTHING
I am an older INFJ and agree 100% with this. When I was younger, my emotions bounced all over the place. I tried to help everyone. I was betrayed too often. As I grew older, I realized that's it's ok to have boundaries. Being a Signa INFJ is so much healthier. Thanks for this. Best video on Sigma INFJ i've seen.
As an infj cold stone I can really ralate to that brother i cried days until i learned that crying will never help and become mature at 14 because i was being gossip by others in get humiliated so bad that i don't really care what they think of me sometimes i almost had an fist fight with my own father being a drunk fool but recently he changes that was the best happened to me ever for grammar i trying to be better English is not my first language i hope whoever reads had a bless life
This video is spot describing my personal evolution. It took 45 years for me to become “sigma”
Same here ☺️😎
Definitely, I agree it is an evolution. The sigma is more the finished product after life has beat the hell out of you for a while. 😂😂
I guess It’s cause I’m a kid in my mid teens so the reality check hit harder for me to become sigma faster
🥳 took me 40 years!!! Glad to be on that other side now. Years of abuse 😅
I am 69 and it happened last year with no knowledge of what a Sigma INFJ even is. I am no longer nervously cheerful. I was aware I was an INFJ and had a problem with narcissists and people-pleasing my whole life, trying to fit in with others. Now I'm calmer, more sure of myself. No longer a people-pleaser at ALL. I don't care at all if I'm liked or approved of. I'm more focused. It's wonderful for me, but my family seems concerned and have told me so. I smile and tell them I'm great.
What I don't understand is how such a drastic personality change can happen without provocation. I think I had possibly seen the term Sigma once before, but had never studied or understood it. I did not TRY to become Sigma. It simply happened.
It's a good change.
The only way I could have learned my sigma nature is by learning it the hard way.
After depression, I have always wondered if I became another MBTI personality type cause I have noticed the stronger boundaries and my propensity to protect my peace. I thought I became cold. But I took the same test and I was still an infj. Turns out it was just a sigma awakening. Thanks for the vid. Now it makes sense.
Same 🙂
Same here👍🏻
Indeed
true
This is how I feel. My peace, my time, and my goals come first. Growth, self awareness, and believing in yourself more important than anything else. Reconcile the past, focus on your future, but don't forget to live in the present. Be better, save your energy, and fuck the bullshit.
I'm a Sigma INFJ and this is very accurate. I can forgive, but I won't forget what people did. So it's difficult to stay with people who did huge mistakes.
I’ve been a sigma infj for a long time now. Growing up with diagnosed narcissistic sociopaths in my biological parents brought it out and caused me to door slam them without regret. Now I live without regrets. I learned to live with every decision I’ve made right or wrong. The path I’m on will be turbulent no doubt. However the ability to cut the abusive people out is the best way forward. I wish everyone could do it.
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I'm really glad to know the overlap and the distinction between the sigma and the non-sigma variant. In the last year I have made the transition to sigma and I now understand myself completely and no longer feel some type of impostor syndrome.
Can you tell me more how it feels? I mean how did you overcome the fear of family....etc
Same here
I suppose I've never had a fear of family because it was always made abundantly clear that I was different. Never in any negative way necessarily.... For whatever reason I decided or accepted at an early age that there was a version of me that was different depending on who the person thinking about me was
No one was ever really going to understand me. And I guess the reason why your question is inspired such a long response, is because I wasn't letting go of fear of family, but by becoming myself that fear for disappeared for the first time ever. I was born afraid. Understanding who I was made me brave
Like I just separated from my wife and she had a lot of very toxic narcissistic traits. And until I became a sigma INFJ I was doing typical INFJ behaviors and subsequently causing self-harm. When I started to lash out and became what she considered toxic. Instead of guilting myself over it I realized that this was just a characteristic of my personality because I was doing research on sigma Male videos etc. I had spent years going to a psychiatrist dealing with PTSD just this week I finally took my final dose of an antidepressant. So some of this context may be helpful. It was once I realized that it was okay to stick up for myself and never look back that I started to becoming what I now understand through this video is a sigma INFJ.
@@dickdilligaf9240 thanks for sharing your story
I noted a distinct change in myself but thought I’d just turned into a hard-ass in the last few years 🙂 I’m in my late 50’s and imagine this happens to most INFJs over time.
I’m in my mid fifties and I’ve turned into a Sigma (hard ass) in the last few years too. It feels like a very natural evolution to my INFJ status. I absolutely love the definition that Sigma gives to my INFJ-ness. I still retain most of the benefits to being an INFJ, but there’s a world-wariness to my interaction with others that wasn’t there before.
I think a failing (albeit a commendable one) of INFJness is that we try to be all things to all people, becoming Sigma (to me, at least) means that you’re much more shrewd as to who gets your time and why.
I'm 33 but i feel the same, it's like describing me 3, 4 years ago vs now 😅
Yes, also started happening in my late 50s.
Joining the military really helped me grow into the “sigma”.
I was very idealistic before, committed to service and volunteering.
And in the end, I was left more empty than before.
The military gave me the thick-skin, put me up against those who would exploit/abuse/manipulate for the joy of others suffering, and taught me to commit to other without committing. There were reasons I learned to never again volunteer yourself (well, volunteering for what suckage you’ll suffer, not what good you’ll do).
I think the simplest way for an INFJ to become a “sigma”, is to simply go into the most uncomfortable areas. Place your hand onto the stove and see how you handle the heat.
You will break. You will question who you are, your beliefs, your life decisions. You may fail and hide in the corner to process the experience subconsciously, as we are wont to do. Or you’ll come out calloused, but stronger in your resolve.
Or just end up with mental health problems and an alcohol problem.
Yeah if the military won't teach you the danger of volunteering nothing will. 😂😂😂 Of course my father told me before I went in that you don't volunteer for anything. So I knew never to raise my hand when they asked for "volunteers". I do think the military is an overall positive experience and gives you life skills you will benefit from for the rest of your life though. I think everyone would benefit but have seen the guys who washed out in BCT and know some are just to soft in general. 🤙
Amen, there you have it folks.
I have cut long time friends out of my life when I saw their arrogance, it was directed at me, I say no, I say Oh Hell No!!! And GOODBYE... Did it hurt? Yes, but only for a little while, my peace of mind is priceless.
True 💯
Deeply accurate developmental trajectory of INFJ's evolutionary traits, without idealizing or demonizing - the traps many other videos fall into. Whoever made this has keenly understood the transition from a bondage of an indiscriminate people pleaser towards a self-contained sovereign being quite well.
Have been a people-pleasing INFJ my whole life.
Then something just changed. I no longer assume other people's opinions or beliefs are more accurate than my own. I have strong boundaries now, very new for me. I don't apologize unless I'm truly wrong. I'm no longer uncomfortable when conversation lags. I'm no longer uncomfortable with confrontation, a HUGE change from my former codependent self. Disapproval used to destroy my confidence, so narcissists just loved me.
I still have feelings, but my expectations and needs of people are so different. I've always seen through people's lies but used to assume or hope I was wrong about them. Now I am just calmer, less reactive, expect less. I listen more and trust my gut. I'm no longer nervous around people or feel the need to please.
It's a huge blessing and I don't even know why or how it finally happened. I hadn't heard of "Sigma" before running across it on YT. I really wish this had happened sooner.😊
You kind of made it seemed as if the INFJ becomes a sigma INFJ by way of going super saiyan.. All INFJs will become sigma at some point in their adult life. It's like puberty for your personality.
Really?
I can see your point. I'm a INFP. My husband is a Sigma INFJ. Being married for over thirty years, we do mirror each other's thoughts on the outside world. Which we don't care for. As for becoming a Sigma myself, I wished that trait would hurry up & get here. I still feel all the hurt & the pains from past relationships, that took advantage of my generosity. I hate narcissists.
@Qui est Cet homme 3 WHEW, I needed to hear that. I used to have a strong walk with God. But every time, I entered a Church, certain people and pastor's would start hissing at me. Really kind of scary. It cleared out an entire Sunday School Class. Those that have degrees in Theocracy, would become offended, how I 'framed the things of God'. They thought, "I was just being arrogant". Eventually, they'd understand an apologize, when they saw how God, would move, in their life, from prayer. I would be exhausted when I got home. Being able to hide behind closed doors became easier. Thank you for taking the time, to show me the path & the light. Bless You.
@Qui est Cet homme 3 haha I never thought of it that way. I'll remember that. 🙏
This video has described my personal evolution perfectly
There's a big difference between trying to fit and being diplomatic. For a sigma infj, Peace and harmony are always worth diplomatic negotiations, but we will be the first to walk away from anyone seeking to control or manipulate for personal gain
Through the ashes a phoenix rises. Mental breakdown is part of the path towards becoming a sigma infj
The only way to unleash sigma is to endure abuse by those you try to help.
If I didn't know that their is a sigma type infj I won't literally say i'm an infj as i think there just so much difference with my personality but when you explained something like this and other similar videos posted in your channel it just adds up everything just fits so well,, I guess i'm a developing sigma infj ,, I don't know yet if it will match my personality test at our company maybe after 2 - 3 years for 6 sessions or more test procedures ,, well i did take a test online at 16personalities (retesting after 4-5 months maybe around 2 years by now) & Myers briggs (but hmm i'm just using it for free so it doesn't directly say what type i am) and still continuing to take it at our company,, Well my goal is just to know my self more in order to develop and know more how to keep improving myself,, So to sum it up I'm so thankful that you have this types of channel explaining personality types more power!
Bro you're still working a 9-5? I wasn't able to handle it and left my job within 2 years LoL 😆
The above said things is very true as per my concerns. Few years ago I used be INFJ and kind to everyone & empathize with everybody who is in dare need, without giving a second thought that the same person would betrayed me when I was at my low.
But as time pass and having lot of experience in dealing with these type of people soon I got to realised that I have made a tendency to understand their character and intentions. That would definately helped me to identify those fake people and make me realise their true intentions before making any relationship with them.
You guys are doing a very great job 👍
These kind of contents really helps people to understand their own nature, even though it's not exactly true but you get an rough idea about your personality
Like this. This is also an example why some sociopathic circles try to shut down social and emotional intelligence. In part, it is to ensure their victims do not have the language to describe what is happening to them, or know how to escape and break free from abusive cycles. A more significant issue, is they do not want a collective group of Sigma INFJs and other understanding souls understanding the game and then take on the sociopaths' collective collusions such as pedophile rings, government corruption, war crimes, environmental desecration.
Brilliant. Explains me perfectly. Years of hurt and betrayal has evolved me into a Sigma.
10. The INFJ empathises with anyone; the sigma INFJ listens only to those worth their time. 09. The INFJ is innately emotional; the sigma INFJ won't give the world access to their emotions. 08. The INFJ is an all-out dreamer; the sigma INFJ knows when and how to quit. 07. The INFJ is careful not to offend others; the Sigma INFJ won't care. 06. The INFJ wants to make people comfortable with them; the Sigma INFJ leaves the atmosphere to others. 05. The INFJ fits in any group because of his flexibility; Sigma INFJs only attract the like-minded. 04. The INFJ sees the good in everyone; the Sigma INFJ disregards this belief. 03. INFJ's are naturally selfless; Sigma INFJ's know when to choose themselves first. 02. The INFJ would instantly volunteer; the Sigma INFJ won't. 01. The INFJ can give second chances, but the Sigma INFJ does not.
Thanks for this summary!
Thanks!
A sigma infj can assume the good in others and dismantle the false ego projections, but only if it's worth our time and effort to do so.
It's not just _Sigma - Not Sigma,_ like flipping a switch. We move in the _direction_ of 'Sigma' as we grow and mature. Progress comes in fits and starts, and there are many pitfalls, and the process never ends.
The sigma nature is matured when one has realized that what they care about can have control over them, and infj's like sovereignty.
This video just gave language to my conflict and helped me to decide firmly in what I want and who I want to be. I've been on both side of the spectrums in my now 31 years of life. Mostly, Innate understanding. But when I decided to transform and morph into the sigma state, I enjoyed not allowing people to have access to my emotions whenever they needed them and not being responsible for everyone else and their perception of me. Although sigma was short lived and I'm hiding myself again (Innately) due to truama, I much rather grow and be unapologetically me.
It takes work to live in a sigma state but it's worth it. I didn't think I had the energy to evolve again but I'm realizing that I do and it's a must that we ALL evolve or the world will be in lack of great influential leaders!
Sigma INFJ always sounded so confusing to me.
But slowly-slowly I'm learning more about it.
Soon I'll start my own journey of becoming a Sigma INFJ 😎
It's not that I am unforgiving, I am very forgiving. I'm very understanding, and empathic to people's emotions. There is only so much empathy and compassion that I am capable of. Once you cross that threshold there is no turning back. Don't call me cold-hearted because I gave you a whole bag full of chances
Barriers are essential.
Just as a cursory glance here, it seems to me that a total INFJ conversion to sigma, is a LOT more difficult than an INTJ doing it, because the INFJ movement requires deadening a lot of emotion apparently to make the move, something INTJ's very often have down pat (robots basically😂).
I believe it's always wise to look for the good in people. It is also wise to recognize who they are, so you know if they have a desire to change, or remain in their rebellious state, giving you more insight of how to act accordingly to the situation, especially after you have taught them from all different approaches to understand the value that has not been understood, and allowing them to respond in a mature way or an immature manner, without taking it personally, only doing so because you care greatly about their worth, or the worth of their soul, knowing that is up to them if they care about their soul as much as you do, and not taking on the responsibility if they choose not to uphold that same value.
I also believe a wise Sigma INFJ will look for commonality, to bring more harmony in the situation that falls before the group, friendship, or couple.
Honestly, I've been pretty heavily on both ends of the spectrum at different times in my life. Finding a balance between protecting yourself and still letting the right people in is a neverending battle.
Now I feel everything makes more sense. Thanks.
Wow..! This video really explained it All for me. Once upon a time I was an INFJ tru & thru. And then I transformed into a SIGMA almost overnight. Started getting selfish with my selflessness. "You gotta put your mask on 1st before you help the next man." I bore people with that quote all the time. Learning to accept self as well as we do others. Unapologetically. That is Sigma.
Honestly am an Infj but complicated with both traits of Sigma and the Normal.
INFJ become the sigma one when they realise that they too deserve their own kindness ...!
Well, this makes things make much more sense. Thanks for this video :) I thought I just had the door slam on permanent standby. When you finally realize that you don't need to stay where you aren't appreciated, no matter how much your sense of justice wants to fix the issue... sometimes it's just not worth your own sanity and health anymore.
Finally i got to know this. I was really confused about my MBTI change?. But now everything is clear to me thank u. It was just a transition. And im 23 now
That is what I do now instead of going by the flow - which cannot be.
Yes its exactly what i was looking...am INFJ and becane sigma infj...i was wondering why am i feeling this growth beyong my belief and BAM!!!! Spiritual Awakening and it all makes sense.. my time is all i truly have...why waste it in anyone who cant appreciate it or why waste my time with this small talk that i cant stand ..now i as soon as they open their mouth i give them 5 seconds and that is wnough time for me to kmow whether i would give this person any of time for any purpose amd can walk away now without worrying about your feelings...talk about liberating
Ok so I was an INFJ then grew into a Sigma INFJ ! I Evolved!
Being a infj who empatizes a lot of people is very harmful trait and that is good thing explained and that is the reason too become selfcentred and work on yourself alone and be good only with people who deserve it
Thank god I have evolved into a Sigma INFJ. Otherwise I would've killed myself. This world is so cruel and mean.
Agreed
In my opinion, the Normal INFJ is like the Pure INFJ, while the Sigma INFJ is like an INFJ who learned and incorporated INTJ traits.
You got it
My sigma nature developed not only by my own life experiences, but I think my partner played a big role in helping me develop it over the years as well.
I have sooo many more sigma traits and it all makes sense now
I am in between, finally. I’ve let go of those who abused me. To tell you the truth, I seem to agree with the things mentioned here. For instance, I don’t seem to give people a second chance after they’ve hurt me because their personality is not going to change. I forgive them and pray for them, but once they’ve crossed the line, they do not get a chance to cross the line again.
Okay, now! This makes sense. This I can accept. Regular INFJ sounds goopy. Don't take that personal, regular INFJ, because, I mean it sounds goopy for me. I am not as touchy-feely as INFJ is described. I have the ability to be, but not the desire. I also have been through a LOT.
It sounds like some kind of science project…Projected on two some…
Thanks for this video! After all those struggles, I unlocked the sigma within me.
This makes so much more sense for my INFJ personality. I'm definitely Sigma as opposed regular INFJ👍
I think I'm kinda in transition between the 2 INFJs. And it took many years of emotional abuse to get me there.
I'm a Sigma INFJ/ Dark Empath & FULLY EMBRACE IT, i think almost ALL INFJ's will turn Sigma in older age, & Fall Empath from age & a lifetime of abuse,abandonment, & people letting us down, it's not like we don't care, we just learned to be more selective who we share our heart with, & it feels SO FREEING to NOT CARE what anyone thinks about me, i can still remember being a prisoner to that emotion....
I wish I would have saw this 30 years ago!!! It would have saved me so much wasted time, money and bad relationships!!
I was born, and made by the world
Number 1 is perfect! I always gave second chances. Now I just feel the bad energy and caracter in hours or even some sentence and just think, to not don't waste my time, because I anyways can't change those people.
Odin sacrificed his eye in Mimir's well and he threw himself on his spear Gungnir in a kind of symbolic, ritual suicide. He then hanged himself in Yggdrasil, the tree of life, for nine days and nine nights in order to gain knowledge of other worlds and be able to understand the runes.
You can call it sigma or whatever you like but to gain something you have to sacrifice something. Your time, your energy, your effort, your innocence, etc. More often than not it's probably something that caused enough pain and pushed you to your limits. A bad situation, a narcissist, your own paranoia, your body failing, your own failures, etc.
That's my opinion.
Sigma INFJ’S are just INFJ’S after healing and boundaries ❤👑
Excellent topic!
Excellent content!
All I know is I respect myself more than anyone. And if others dont like me then dont why would I bother myself on their opinions... Still I don't think that everythings revolves around me for I do have my own world and universe that me myself and I can enter..
Very insightful. Thank You. I agree that the abuse and exploitation that was intended to destroy me has only made me unstoppable.
Every weapon formed against me is already prospering me.
I am on the way to becoming Sigma. I don't know whots happend and I start feeling nobody can't change or manipuoate my behavior. I put myself many questions whot is with me. Now after this fantastic expanation I think Its mastery.❤️🌹Thank You
Life eventually forces the change to sigma nature.
Assuming we don't transition ourselves....
Speaking straight for myself.
I was on the edge, but life burned the bridge underneath and finished it for me.
It's Not Evolution as some of us prefer to claim.
It's certainly not a spontaneous radical change in our DNA. 😁
If it's not our natural change with maturity. Then it's an adaptation to our environment.
Don't get me wrong, I like the idea of our Evolution. I simply see absolutely nothing to support that grandiose theory. 😁
INFJ is born
Sigma is born (very high IQ + talents) + made
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Sigma INFJ is born and made
Sigma nature loading up lol
Hmm...I think that I may be in transition from one to the other. I'm sick of being taken advantage of, so I am learning to say "no" or stronger words than that.
The sigma infj knows that "quitting" is the only way they could fail. We do tend to find that once we get what we think we want, it sometimes didn't bring the fulfillment we thought it would, but we could have only learned that through experience.
I’ve learnt that I was born as a infj.But thru life trauma and near death experience just as a small example.I look at life people a lot differently now cause I used to trust see the best in people also try and fit in for people to like me.I now rather distance myself from people including family friends unless they earned my respect and trust especially as Ive experienced thru so much hatred jealousy for caring to much thru achieving things that they thought I couldn’t do or give me a chance or take away the opportunities.But they still rely on me for social gatherings and friendships which annoys me koz there the first to exclude me.I know now that I have changed and learned a lot about myself to be proud about and don’t care what anyone thinks or say now which used to be a big thing to me.I’ve become a sigma infj which now I understand from watching this video which gives me a understanding that I needed to know why I’m like this and feel different from anyone else.moral of the story.cool 😎
MAKES PERFECT SENSE
Perfect timing I was seeking for it
Was always wondering why the internet has been saying INFJ being so helpful and selfless etc when I wasn't, at least as of recent years despite being branded as INFJ after taking the personality test.
Seems like I am in the transitioning period to become Sigma INFJ.
Reason for transition, sick of people just abusing us wasting our energy when we provide education on how to avoid the occurrence of their issues they expect you to resolve their issue instead.
Cheers and congratulations to all Sigma INFJ😇
Other people's opinion of me is none of my business. They have the right to think and feel whatever they choose, and I have a moral imperative to remain in integrity. Sometimes the Truth hurts.
SOOOOO SPOT ON!! Thanks💯👍🏻
All I know is my heart says maybe
I have no time and energy to prove to anyone that I do the right thing.....if they can't find it out themselves for the purposes best known to them,,,,,let them take me for what they want to,and I will ever be ready,like a chameleon,to dance to their tunes and see how far they can go coz after all,with time an egg will walk
I didn’t make the change until I was 47, full on Sigma followed
I am Sigma INFJ carefully built by life's setbacks.
Sigma INFJ. What a beautiful way to say bitter 🙃
Yesss I'm here finally. Thank you appreciate u for the videos
Wow very interesting I’m a sigma infj that’s not what I expected I just thought that’s how I am after getting a reality check but there were some parts where I’m a normal infj so I guess I’m close
This is a goiid comparison, but also in your mention of a sigma not caring if they are hasrsh at times rather thain taking a more weimpish approach. I have has tgo face this myself over my many years, opwever there is yet another fine line in this that bodes pensivemenss for INFJs, wherher sigma or aspiring to same.
"Tough Love" an INFJ if he/she tries can surely come up with the way to cut that line without becoming co-dependent. This however has the added concern of whether one is to apply tough love when the need truly and morally confronts one or if an INFJ would be motivated to seek out more of that ype of conundrum than truly confronts him.
That may asw much as not be a case of balancing his time amongst many and diverse issues with which life confronts us all.
You talk about me all you said is right I believed you thank you God bless!
I keep getting told they broke the mould after they made me.
INFJ towards sigma:
As one who has lived the life for all too long as the INFJ empath, and sees the problem of making INFJs contend with narcissists and narcissism, IMHO there is a fine line here to be cut and said distinction be made know, "imposed if necessary, but not necessarily imposed ".
So we think of the INFJ, seeking to become sigma, yet caught with the conundrum of putting (as it were) the narcissist in hos place...
"As Christians we are taught"...
(That to mean that while we may have been taught X is a Christian environment, it still in practical common sense applies to ALL humanity, albeit in ecumenical fashion (AKA unity in diversity in some other religions) but also, in so propounding, makes due respect for other religions.)
"A christian loves the sinner yet haters the sin" but this says little about just how to deal with the "combined conundrum".
Hence, centuries later, we hear talk of "Tough Love"...
So, rhetorically, might well the INFJ of this story think how best to impose the need for tough love on the narcissist, and then, on that basis, "Wash his hands".
For the young and single set, is this not comparable to the "no communications rule" and all that entails and seeks to serve?
Food for thought(iness)!
My Sigma Nature Awakened out know where it seems like we're cold but we're not
Thank you for sharing this video🙏🙏🙏
Thanks 💜
¡I think INFJ is for the pure Ones, and Sigma INFJ is for the toxics?
Perfect description 10 de 10
Sigma INFJ @ 65, all pretty much right on
Great video 💯👍 great advice 💯👍
Cette vidéo est très utile. Merci beaucoup !
If turned Sigma during covid. Too many people let me down and the stupidity of society is a taste that I can never get out of my mouth. I got a Golden Retriever, and I’m finally at peace.
I think i feel like im a 50/50 is this possible?
Yeah I can also feel that
I think under certain circumstances you can revert to your earlier, less evolved behavior.
Evolving is a process, so you could be half of the way there! Hard to really quantify, but I doubt many of us are 100% sigma lol.
dear me, how true
Spot on!
Another accurate video, thanks so much for your interesting content.
You are darn right!