The Power Of NOT REACTING | The Best Reaction Is NO Reaction

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  • čas přidán 27. 04. 2023
  • If you remain calm and unconcerned about the situation or its outcome, including what may happen tomorrow, then everything is fine and there is no need to worry.
    Based on teachings from YourHigherSelf Channel and Sri Ramana Maharshi.
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  • @KnowledgeWords
    @KnowledgeWords  Před 7 měsíci +5

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  • @LOVEHAWKSTAR
    @LOVEHAWKSTAR Před rokem +1506

    This has always been my hardest thing to control. I have A-sharp tongue and I like to spue at times. I'm working on controlling that and not reacting. I find that when I pause and take a moment. I catch a lot of people off guard because they expect a quick response and I don't give it. Once we learn to control this we can control everything.😊 Stay strong, you got this in persistence and will power and having faith is crucial. God bless everyone and best of luck to you on this life journey.❤💗🙌✨️😊🙏💛

    • @stuartk2244
      @stuartk2244 Před rokem +20

      Your absolutely right 😇

    • @inalight.
      @inalight. Před rokem +52

      Giiirl im the same very sharp tongue. The problem is i say truths too which is hurtful. Yes very hard to control it!! Im with u

    • @legacyneshay222
      @legacyneshay222 Před rokem +17

      💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾 we got this!!

    • @METALHEAD550
      @METALHEAD550 Před rokem +9

      💯

    • @rachaelstalcup1802
      @rachaelstalcup1802 Před rokem +25

      Don't try to control your thoughts ..release them. You won't need them to be

  • @sglaser4777
    @sglaser4777 Před rokem +654

    Silence is Golden, golden!🎶 Go within and listen to the silence, no judgments
    , no chaos, total peace!

    • @METALHEAD550
      @METALHEAD550 Před rokem +6

      💯

    • @eri7-11
      @eri7-11 Před rokem

      SHUTUP! That's your mind writing. No reaction. ...

    • @eri7-11
      @eri7-11 Před rokem +3

      ikr, that's my mind too -_-

    • @lilnyicyor7266
      @lilnyicyor7266 Před rokem +2

      What if people say you are a fool

    • @K8299B
      @K8299B Před rokem +2

      @@alicefromwonderland5365what if peace gets lost?

  • @RealityTrailers
    @RealityTrailers Před rokem +539

    Whatever you recognize,
    you energize.
    ~ Rev. Ike

  • @markwalker5543
    @markwalker5543 Před rokem +613

    I consider myself an expert at not reacting, it’s one of the hardest things I’ve ever done, but it was worth it every single time.

    • @terefefeyssa877
      @terefefeyssa877 Před rokem +10

      Mark: If not reacting,is the hardest thing you have ever done. Just observe one thing if you can.
      If every reaction comes from the mind and at the same time the practice of not reacting is done by the mind, it becomes very hard and after short period of time, the mind practice doesn't work anymore.
      Noticing occurs between things that happen and the reaction follows. Noticing occurs between the gap where there is no thinking. When there is a gap between action and reaction, then reaction has no power to arise or at least be minimized without trying hard.

    • @SamJ_1980
      @SamJ_1980 Před rokem +44

      ​@terefe feyssa Stop trying to get a reaction out of Mark. 😂

    • @christineparker7534
      @christineparker7534 Před rokem +2

      I agree.

    • @angelface8336
      @angelface8336 Před rokem +15

      ​@@SamJ_1980 now that was funny😂

    • @pockettruthseeker8454
      @pockettruthseeker8454 Před rokem +4

      ​@@terefefeyssa877 Read the General Civil Letter that the Pope sent to Obama and All the Public Officials and the American People are not aware!!! One Love❤

  • @hoosierbaddy3052
    @hoosierbaddy3052 Před rokem +337

    A wise man said, ‘Leaning to ignore things is the greatest path to inner peace’. Things can be people and situations. Don’t take on problems that aren’t personally yours. We live in an age of too much media. I’m old enough to remember when the local newspaper was our connection to the outside world. Now there’s cameras everywhere fgs! We get to go on police chases and other harrowing journeys that aren’t ours! I stay in my own lane. Mind my biz. Let you be you and me be me. I don’t take on fears that is the sensationalism of journalism in America. I have no fear of death which frees me to live my life peacefully. And staying in the moment. Bc that’s the real time. The past and future are merely memories and anticipation. Give up the need to be right. That also frees up the mind. Ultimately we personally are responsible for our inner workings, not the world

    • @KevonnieElaine
      @KevonnieElaine Před rokem +14

      Well said.

    • @josephsalmonte4995
      @josephsalmonte4995 Před rokem +12

      Very good advice 👍

    • @umapurvimath2422
      @umapurvimath2422 Před rokem +8

      I really needed to hear this today which had a very calming effect on me. Thank you.

    • @khushboo6699
      @khushboo6699 Před rokem +5

      Great. I would like to attain such peace of mind.

    • @jocampbell6962
      @jocampbell6962 Před rokem +6

      Beautifully said and oh so very true - Thank you. I'm going to frame your comment!😊All the best from the UK!

  • @Goat67
    @Goat67 Před 10 měsíci +57

    My life has become so peaceful when I started saying and believing in "it is what it is "

    • @Earthbound369
      @Earthbound369 Před 10 měsíci +2

      That has been my mantra for years. Yes it does help to realize "it is what it is"
      Simple, yet effective. Namaste 🙏

    • @juinxxviii624
      @juinxxviii624 Před 9 měsíci +1

      I have a T-shirt that says that. A constant reminder that people are gonna do people sht.

    • @lou24291
      @lou24291 Před 5 měsíci

      💯

  • @CodyCole80
    @CodyCole80 Před rokem +32

    This is true at times. Some times the devil uses people to intentionally disturb your spirit. When you don’t react, it hurts the aggressor more than doing so.

    • @aceiam4370
      @aceiam4370 Před měsícem +1

      When Devil's at work, your not reacting causes distress to you too

  • @hollywoodeats33
    @hollywoodeats33 Před 11 měsíci +72

    Listen to this message 10 to 15 times. It will change your life.

  • @anch2023
    @anch2023 Před rokem +10

    I trled it a long time because I am very emotional person. Now I am more the70 years old women.
    and I got it. Allways stay calm and smile. Its a wonderful life. Pardon for my bad english.

  • @pauladavis1220
    @pauladavis1220 Před rokem +327

    I'm recovering from a stroke. I woke up this morning wondering how/what I was going to eat, how would I make it through the day. I'm alone. Than I came across this video. Yahshua is my provider. This as every day wil be filled with His Merciful Grace and blessings.
    HalleluYah!!!
    🕊🕊🕊

    • @saihemebillings2820
      @saihemebillings2820 Před rokem +9

      Same here I wondered, I really needed a answer.

    • @LoriKLynn
      @LoriKLynn Před rokem +13

      God bless you! And keep at it. The devil is a liar (you are already healed). And yet the Bible tells us he is a worthy adversary and so we shouldn’t underestimate satan’s ability to deceive us. But the Word ALSO says to stand still and see the salvation of the Lord. We have to learn to stand still. But it can be easier said than done; so my very best to you in your fight.

    • @GOITERBALL
      @GOITERBALL Před rokem +10

      Bless you Paula

    • @earthangel_1862
      @earthangel_1862 Před rokem +6

      God always provides💫🙌🙏💞

    • @lisarussell8874
      @lisarussell8874 Před rokem +6

      Sending you good thoughts, Paula.

  • @outlier1284
    @outlier1284 Před rokem +217

    1:51 - ''Do not by into your toughts and do not fight against your feelings'. Simply observe them.'

    • @josephsalmonte4995
      @josephsalmonte4995 Před rokem +10

      But DO buy into a dictionary & observe it very closely 🤣

    • @outlier1284
      @outlier1284 Před rokem +4

      @@josephsalmonte4995
      If you know a good french-english dictionary, let me know.

    • @kuyab9122
      @kuyab9122 Před rokem +1

      @@josephsalmonte4995 Thank you for being a sarcastic and a word-police person. What would we do without you kind of people to challenge our inner peace.

    • @bogusstudio1028
      @bogusstudio1028 Před rokem

      Osho

    • @cosmicentity1520
      @cosmicentity1520 Před rokem +1

      @@josephsalmonte4995 Bro 💀🤣

  • @zanedzikonski4234
    @zanedzikonski4234 Před rokem +17

    As a bonus the quiet mind will keep narcissistic people away from you as they feed off reactions and emotions. When you react less you notice just how much people react and how emotional we can all can be for no real reason. Still struggle with being silent and not saying anything. It confuses a lot of people and can be awkward at times

  • @michaelthompson-li7zs
    @michaelthompson-li7zs Před rokem +69

    I pray for the wisdom to stop reacting - this is proving my greatest challenge in my awakening - especially when faced with unreasonable/selfish people

    • @raegen5618
      @raegen5618 Před rokem +6

      I'm at war with this also. We will endure

  • @abhiraabhi4771
    @abhiraabhi4771 Před rokem +64

    Life is just flowing and when we resist it’s flow, we SUFFER

  • @erzhikaparvanova2388
    @erzhikaparvanova2388 Před rokem +114

    To be calm means to have well controlled emotions and thoughts. Be perfectly balanced.

    • @annekerotterdam7499
      @annekerotterdam7499 Před rokem +1

      True!

    • @Carson9121
      @Carson9121 Před rokem +4

      It's not that you're controlling them, but preventing them from controlling you by not giving attachment. Thoughts and emotions will always wonder. 💫
      The best way to put it is that the goal is to see a thought and emotion for what it really is. Leaning away from a diluted reality. Maintaining a bird's eye view from your higher self. ✨

    • @staticfolk9302
      @staticfolk9302 Před rokem +1

      SPOCK

    • @david4096
      @david4096 Před rokem

      Look where that got the ten million that Hitler and his sidkicks killed in 33.Where are the sheep ?

  • @fredcraven1699
    @fredcraven1699 Před rokem +35

    I am calm and relaxed in every situation, my mind is calm

  • @onedead3638
    @onedead3638 Před 11 měsíci +21

    06/02/23 (10:35 AM)
    I'll start to practice this, and I'll come back a year from now to see how my life has changed because of what I've learned from here.

  • @thejourneyofone2425
    @thejourneyofone2425 Před rokem +90

    Being non reactive was one of my most powerful practices in the past. Many aggressive people would relent and apologize for their incorrect actions. True wisdom is in non descension.

  • @DineseBeckert
    @DineseBeckert Před rokem +31

    My favorite thing....no one pays rent in my head, so.....I don't think about them!! If they fight to stay there, I remind them, this is MY HEAD, and I am not getting rent from this...GO! It's a ten-minute process, works for me every day, every time!!!

  • @kimberlyp8757
    @kimberlyp8757 Před rokem +13

    Calm is a Super Power!!

  • @debralaforest4281
    @debralaforest4281 Před rokem +62

    Yes, detachment is so important. Simple concepts but not always easy. Wishing everyone grace, ease and flow. 💖

  • @kingace4267
    @kingace4267 Před rokem +50

    As Dr Wayne Dyer once said..."By doing nothing, it is done"...no-thing or rather "know" the "thing"... those who have eyes to see shall see, ears to hear shall hear...here is WISDOM 👑😎💫

  • @doubleboy2388
    @doubleboy2388 Před rokem +48

    Always remember there is nothing to be done. I love that.

    • @debb7390
      @debb7390 Před rokem +1

      Imagine that? Nothing to be done.😅

    • @plumpus1634
      @plumpus1634 Před 9 měsíci +2

      Now do your taxes

    • @pinkifloyd7867
      @pinkifloyd7867 Před 2 měsíci

      @@plumpus1634 And take the trash out

    • @pinkifloyd7867
      @pinkifloyd7867 Před 2 měsíci

      ..That was just a reaction of the mind lol:))). Use discernement, don't react lol

  • @TheChannel-bc2lp
    @TheChannel-bc2lp Před rokem +29

    When criminal forces try to take over the world action is what is required!

    • @speedysandisk78
      @speedysandisk78 Před rokem +12

      And even then, action should be deliberate, calm and strategic, not reacting to each and every enemy provocation.

    • @mattyp8313
      @mattyp8313 Před rokem

      Even if the action that is required is to be sad everyday research everyday and possibly discuss problems everyday around the world when you’re from a little town in England. With people who do not care and will aid us towards “judgement” day, my judgement day happened years ago.. look at it 😂 the world is embarrassing and Inshallah we pay £20 for a loaf of bread like zi Germans did allegedly from war and printing unlimited cash

  • @alexxdaye1
    @alexxdaye1 Před rokem +191

    This video hit me so profoundly and with such magnitude today that I sat and listened to it MULTIPLE TIMES. Let this video speak to your soul! This was the most important message I received! The Universe knew what I needed today!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @DoreenBellDotan
      @DoreenBellDotan Před rokem +3

      Right. Let AI speak to your soul. Even if the words are true, do not react to AI.

    • @TheINFP_Diary
      @TheINFP_Diary Před rokem +7

      @@DoreenBellDotan is it actually AI or is it just a synthetic voice reading what someone wrote?

    • @Don_0089
      @Don_0089 Před rokem +8

      Me too I listen to this video everytime I get discouraged in life makes me feel better 😊

    • @teeniequeenie8369
      @teeniequeenie8369 Před rokem +2

      The one that came out today hit me hard…i bawled…sounded like I could have wrote it my self for my self…

    • @teresalafferty618
      @teresalafferty618 Před rokem +3

      This training empties your soul. God’s way to react will fill you with Love and the love of others and God’s love and his energy. This is not the path to your higher self in God’s plan.

  • @angie7278
    @angie7278 Před rokem +58

    This is such a struggle for me! I am a fiery soul and always feel the need to stand up for myself and/or others and I enjoy the feeling of power when I do.

    • @exaudi33
      @exaudi33 Před rokem +16

      Same here, but here's the thing: Staying calm is the Real Power and also best for your well-being. Takes me a lot of practice, every time!

    • @angie7278
      @angie7278 Před rokem +6

      @@exaudi33 Great response! Thank you ❤️

    • @soultrick7474
      @soultrick7474 Před rokem +9

      Ego loves to get snacks like one you mention here.
      Crazy good feeling when some bully gets reality check...
      But little by little it's possible to starve it down into oblivion and to earn the best power.
      Power over yourself.

    • @TheOfficialMorningSonder
      @TheOfficialMorningSonder Před rokem +1

      this is me no matter the consquences that come with it

    • @something-about-us
      @something-about-us Před dnem +1

      you still do, you still fight if you have to but mentally you are not attached to anything, thaths point a guess

  • @martymc6618
    @martymc6618 Před rokem +15

    I'm not perfect but, I have learned to respond and not react to situations. Being calm helps you see things so clearly, even in moments of turmoil. It's such a powerful skill. It makes you feel alienated though because you realize not everyone does it. When everyone is panicked, you're still, calm. You're thinking through next steps.

  • @jeffjohnson8362
    @jeffjohnson8362 Před rokem +15

    Very True,. But EASIER SAID,. Than done. Definitely requires much mindfulness and practice. But thank you

  • @albusdumbledore219
    @albusdumbledore219 Před rokem +60

    Faith over fear 🙏🏻❤️

  • @puckie55
    @puckie55 Před rokem +6

    It is not always the best way not reacting. When someone is rude to you or is abusing his higher position is better to speak. I have regretted it when I kept silent.

  • @MTAURUSSMYTH
    @MTAURUSSMYTH Před rokem +53

    To be free of emotion, to be free of rage, and the drama that comes with these things-that is bliss.

  • @gurjindersingh5829
    @gurjindersingh5829 Před rokem +12

    Power of not reacting comes when we remain connected with self.

  • @andreamelless2822
    @andreamelless2822 Před rokem +18

    I'm trying to observe instead of reacting. It really does help.❤🇨🇦

  • @federico6284
    @federico6284 Před rokem +94

    What am I? I am No-Body, No-Mind, No-Thought, No-Emotion, No-Ego,No-Self. Just a non-judgmental observer. One with God consciousness, one with Divine consciousness, one with Universal consciousness, one of Undifferentiated Self, one with pure conscious awareness, one with Atman, one with Brahman, one with the Absolute. Therefore , there is no ‘I’. 🙏❤️Namaste

    • @one-timeforthepast326
      @one-timeforthepast326 Před rokem +3

      Those other powers created by mind do not direct to enlightenment, those leads to wrong paths and just barriers in the correct path

    • @shree.ya99
      @shree.ya99 Před rokem +1

      U r just the soul🫂

    • @beelichoong2143
      @beelichoong2143 Před rokem +3

      U are an instrument of GOD!
      God bless

    • @federico6284
      @federico6284 Před rokem +2

      @@LaoshiDJ it is called Advaita Vedanta. This is a non dualistic Hindu Philosophy that has been around for over 1400 years . 🙏

    • @parulshukla2153
      @parulshukla2153 Před rokem +2

      So well expressed

  • @TheHarabunny
    @TheHarabunny Před rokem +8

    😊I was born that way..being always calm, and realizing that if you dont react contributes to happiness😊

  • @moonriseillusion
    @moonriseillusion Před 11 měsíci +12

    Thank you. I've been practing non reaction for like 4 days and my life has already been better ♥️

  • @rukathehamsteratwork8896
    @rukathehamsteratwork8896 Před rokem +78

    3:57 “Do not allow your thoughts to become bigger than you. And no matter what your thoughts say, do not feed them. Remember that your thoughts are not your friends.”
    This hits home. I tend to solve problems by logical analysis. I’m currently in charge of instructing a new colleague with mental disorders who’s always complaining about almost anything. And my manager is always irritated by the pressures from the top management and he demand me to do almost contradictory tasks about my team. I’ve been thinking about how to deal with them, and I’m really exhausted, to the point that I can’t sleep. Now I realized that “my overthinking” is harmful not only for me but also for my colleague.

    • @veebee3837
      @veebee3837 Před rokem +4

      You are going through a tough situation, and it's taking a toll on your mental well-being. I send you some love and hugs ❤

    • @rosemaryrogers1478
      @rosemaryrogers1478 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Your thoughts aren’t your friend? It’s according to what you are thinking..only time things don’t matter is when you are dead..I can understand silence but this video is very confusing..🔥

    • @Giggles50
      @Giggles50 Před 10 měsíci +3

      If you have a bad boss, consider finding a new job. Learn what you can and then move on. It’s not worth the constant stress. These managers don’t deserve their positions, they don’t know how to treat staff.

    • @pinkifloyd7867
      @pinkifloyd7867 Před 2 měsíci

      @@rosemaryrogers1478 It's the discernment part that is hard for most to understand, you can only understand that when the mind is quiet. good luck with that, it takes practice and perseverance but it's worth it.

    • @pinkifloyd7867
      @pinkifloyd7867 Před 2 měsíci

      @@veebee3837 It's happening worldwide now, repeat, rinse, repeatand stick deeply within your own peaceful self now more than ever..

  • @billbrenne5475
    @billbrenne5475 Před rokem +11

    I agree. Not reacting throws others back on themselves and forces them to listen to their own words.

    • @terefefeyssa877
      @terefefeyssa877 Před rokem

      Bill: In a life situation, non reacting does mean to let people step on you.
      There are situations, you say nothing but without internal resistance. There are situations when you say yes, but checking our internal resistance.
      There are situations when we say no without resistance or reaction. It is like a flow without resistance like the waterway.

    • @billbrenne5475
      @billbrenne5475 Před rokem +3

      @@terefefeyssa877 The flip-side of letting others walk all over us is that, barring danger of being killed, control clearly belongs to us. My upstairs neighbor has been noisy for some time. In February, he took to waking me up at night, pounding on his floor, shoving furniture around, and even screaming (mostly inarticulate, with the exception of hearing the words, "Get away! Get away! Get away!" On one occasion. At first, this was nearly intolerable, but I bought an inflatable bed, kept the lights on in the bedroom and living room (he had been running in and out of his apartment and it took me a while to catch onto the fact that he was checking to see if I had reacted to his noise by turning on the lights) and used earplugs. The disturbances dropped dramatically at that point. This was because he couldnt tell where I was so that he could make noise wherever I was), and I showed no signs of reacting to him and giving him a payoff to his making noise. Aside from getting an inflatable bed, so I could sleep where I saw fit, I think I could be forgiven by describing the situation as having been brought under control by the mere flipping of a light switch at night. And he has no choice but to turn in on himself. The question is whether he will take things to the next level. We'll see as far as that's concerned.

    • @terefefeyssa877
      @terefefeyssa877 Před rokem +2

      @Bill Brenne : I deeply understand you . There are people who are totally dsturbed and looking for negative reactions from others to keep them going. They are everywhere. They are the testing ground for us how much we become stable in the midst of chaos. You meet them at the workplace, you meet them at your surroundings, or when you watch TV, you can clearly see how they provoke by feeding negative energy. What you are doing is very wonderful, but always check your inner feelings if there is inner resistance or not. That is our scale all the time.

    • @billbrenne5475
      @billbrenne5475 Před rokem

      @@terefefeyssa877 if th err re is inner resistance,there is outer resistance. In the same bein, people think of emotions as internalized feelings when the salient aspects of emotions are external. (emotions are predator-prey relations in human form, and I can prove that).

    • @terefefeyssa877
      @terefefeyssa877 Před rokem

      @Bill Brenne : At any moment, anything happens in the outside world.
      Good things, bad things, or neural things. The way we meet them matters in our life. We are the ones of our own makings. I am not saying that we should be indifferent to things. Indifferent is the near enemy of equanimity as the far enemy is reacting to things. You have to explore and experiment. Your Experential knowledge is the only factor here.
      It doesn't matter what I say.

  • @joelwarnaerts279
    @joelwarnaerts279 Před rokem +34

    The best thing on the whole internet for ages ❤ thank you for that 🙏

  • @HubOfWisdomYT
    @HubOfWisdomYT Před 9 měsíci +8

    This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my CZcams channel about self development. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I couldn’t have learned without getting started in the 1st place! ❤
    To everyone reading this, I sincerely pray for that whatever is causing you pain or stress will pass. May your negative thoughts, excessive worries and doubts disappear, replaced by clarity and understanding. May your life be filled with peace, tranquility and love 🙏

    • @marthagherici5808
      @marthagherici5808 Před 8 měsíci

      Thank you ❤️🙏🏽 Be blessed ❤️🙏🏽

    • @yesterdayfortoday592
      @yesterdayfortoday592 Před 8 měsíci

      And a good name too,
      Hub of Wisdom
      I am not a nike fan
      but
      JUST DO IT
      says it all
      GOOD FOR YOU, and now the best part,
      the journey you are on,
      many people need to begin

    • @Slavic_Queen
      @Slavic_Queen Před 7 měsíci

      Best wished, keep on 😊

  • @anitacarter8060
    @anitacarter8060 Před rokem +44

    Love this!!!!
    Your calmness is your superpower
    😊🫶🏻

  • @willywagtail4182
    @willywagtail4182 Před rokem +26

    Stillness is everything..that is who we really are..❤

  • @obinnanwaudeaja7228
    @obinnanwaudeaja7228 Před rokem +6

    Well said silence 🤐 is power, people can’t hurt what they really no nothing about. Smile, look more and walk away. Always smile be playful to see the through reaction of man 👨 Don’t judge, complain, procrastinate!!! React when is the perfect and right time. React and withdraw immediately.

  • @ashleysnow7470
    @ashleysnow7470 Před rokem +62

    Most of us spend our life searching for our way, looking here and there, but when you start to create the space that you are in, and look at what is now as if it was what you wanted, your space will start to look like the one you want, start treating people how you want them to act, show up for people the way you want them to show up for you, but you have to accept that it’s you who changes first, it’s your thoughts about the things you look at that need to be first and then when those things don’t change right away, you have to keep treating as though it already has. It is the test of strength, willingness and faith that you must get through before seeing things change, as you change the people around you see and feel different, they no longer can react the same way towards you because you have changed, this happens throughout our life’s we treat others accordingly to how the show up, well you can ultimately change who you are and how you show up,
    This is why you find people who say that guy is the meanest person and there is the other person who seen nothing but kindness from that guy. If you expect to see someone show up a certain way, they they normally do, and even more so if you have already witnessed them show up that way, same is true for you, if you previously acted or reacted a way then the person is expecting you to show up the way you always have. Give people a reason to start treating you better, when they don’t recognize the person you are, they have no choice but to treat you as a stranger and adapt to new ways of reacting to you.
    Just like bullies, when ignored they no long get the reactions ( same person) that showed up yesterday..
    If you live like the victim then you will be seen as such, rewrite the story and become the hero of your own life, see how people start treating you when you grab hold of your life and put on a new face of emotions reactions.

    • @LOVEHAWKSTAR
      @LOVEHAWKSTAR Před rokem +2

      Love this ❤😊 Thank you 💗

    • @karenmcardle142
      @karenmcardle142 Před rokem +1

      Very well said . Thanks for sharing 💐

    • @usharanichef
      @usharanichef Před rokem

      wowww.....thanks alot for sharing this wisdom

    • @jessiehaun3891
      @jessiehaun3891 Před rokem +1

      So if your husband is screaming obscenities at you about you spilled too much salt on your food you just don't react to his obscenities. Right
      .Just continue to eat your food. Please explain.

    • @ashleysnow7470
      @ashleysnow7470 Před rokem +3

      @@jessiehaun3891 ignore the unwanted behaviour, and do your best to fix the issue without reacting, however I do caution if your being abused in anyway find the help and support that you need and don’t provoke an abuser, but if this is just an uptight narcissist when they no longer have control over your emotions they will turn to someone or something else to control.. “ok and my apologies I meant no Ill intentions “ works wonderful..
      Allowing the people around you to be who they are, and you telling yourself that all insults and things unwanted that happen is the reverse, the insult is a compliment and the unwanted is happening because it’s going to bring more wanted.. change the way you look at what is and is coming expect good things with out expectations of outcome, also your whispers about others is how they show up, be careful what you call this person under your breath, as they will show up as just that.. see and look for the positive changes, notice the good things, little things and show your appreciation towards this person, must be genuine tho, or it will back fire find things to be grateful for and more will show up,
      And if it’s not maybe that’s your sign to move towards what you do want and will make YOU happy.., and this will be the last thing, focus on your happiness, do things that bring you joy, sometimes we just want others to just be happy and that fixes the tension and the stress that might be coming up with daily life..
      Hope this helps 😊🥰

  • @blueberrypie3452
    @blueberrypie3452 Před 8 měsíci +6

    But what if you were exploited, and you walked right into the trap? And you didn't realize what was going on because you don't do those things to other people. What then? How do you deal with plotting and conniving people?

  • @valeriehartman3705
    @valeriehartman3705 Před rokem +12

    This is so hard to control because we all carry baggage and we never know what tomorrow will bring. I have anxiety from working hard for my dream career and not seeing any results. So yes, I tend to react with frustration, fear, and sometimes anger. I always try to be the better me but hey, I am not perfect. I keep smiling, that's what I tell myself.

  • @raycosmic9019
    @raycosmic9019 Před rokem +39

    Ultimately, the most significant choice we make at any moment of the day, is between unconscious compulsive reaction and conscious creative response.
    The Rhythm of Life is a movement and a rest. The optimum (Heaven), is always found somewhere between the extremes of too much and too little (hell).
    Pleasantness is the Rose found at the Heart of the Optimum.
    Narrow is the Way, and few there are that find it.
    Angels = empowering thoughts/perspectives
    Demons = limiting thoughts/perspectives
    We are Life at large, experiencing itself as all of us simultaneously. Therefore, we are all It, to an unknowable/inexhaustible extent, as the facets of a Diamond are 'both' distinct from each other 'and' the Diamond itself.
    Love is the recognition of our shared Being.
    Be still and silent, and know That which is/That I am = Being aware of being aware.
    Freedom is a Way of Being. Being aware of being aware is unmodulated by the 5 senses, thus unfettered, which is the resonant inner state frequency closest in alignment with the frequency of the all-inclusive Absolute, where all things are possible (Wisdom and Understanding).
    What the living fire of conscious attention dwells on today, we dwell in tomorrow.
    Ask a compelling question as you fall asleep, receive a compelling answer as you wake up.

  • @DennisMoore664
    @DennisMoore664 Před rokem +4

    "Live in the now, man!"

  • @masonharrison7298
    @masonharrison7298 Před rokem +13

    THANK YOU . ...
    I AM THE DIVINE LIGHT SAYS THE ONE .....

  • @nellymadumbu3570
    @nellymadumbu3570 Před rokem +3

    It's like having faith in God and completely trusting in him.

  • @jorunnhaaheim7231
    @jorunnhaaheim7231 Před rokem +25

    Much gratitude for your inspiring message❤️🍃☀️

  • @victorialawrence7042
    @victorialawrence7042 Před rokem +27

    Thank you, I was so out of it yesterday. I am grateful for your wonderful encouragement!!!

  • @rontan8433
    @rontan8433 Před rokem +6

    As someone with high sensitivity and reactivity, having to survive in a face moving society is a huge challenge, especially with so much distractions and events that demands our attention

  • @Julia-qp1hb
    @Julia-qp1hb Před rokem +13

    This is literally what i needed to hear. Worry and overthinking have been the bane of my existence lately. The Divine lead me to this video. Thank You!! 💕🎉🙌

  • @jstarzz3780
    @jstarzz3780 Před rokem +44

    This is so powerful ❤

  • @NAMRATACHAUDHARY-mj2lc
    @NAMRATACHAUDHARY-mj2lc Před rokem +13

    Wow wow wow incredible wisdom...must be practiced...gratitude ❤❤🎉🎉

  • @karenmcardle142
    @karenmcardle142 Před rokem +9

    Great information , anyone who has lived with a narcissist, will have learned how to become reactionless, or maybe thats just me lol , 😊. I couldn't smile or i was upto somit , even when he had been with me 24/7, 7 says a week , i learned to not even flinch when it got tough , it works a treat , no reaction , it had a detrimental effect on my head but i believe everything happens for a reason, the good the bad and the ugly . Now years later , it was a survival skill, and now im glad i can do it , it sure pisses ppl of when u dont react . Then walk away with the biggest smile . Not looking back unless its to see how far you've come in life . Keep lifted and keep Real . Blessings ❤

  • @kennethkunz2449
    @kennethkunz2449 Před rokem +10

    In my continual pursuit for enlightenment, I have listened to thousands of lectures. This video has been the most profound.

  • @deepatewani4203
    @deepatewani4203 Před rokem +22

    Thank you Jesus for guidance,thank you for this wonderful message ,I needed this ,I have been suffering negative energy projections giving me pain and other problems in different aspects of my life,it makes me angry and loose control for the period the energy attack is going on ,trying my best.

  • @spacequeenruby
    @spacequeenruby Před rokem +3

    "Everytime you try and change something it feed your ego and leads to problems" so so true 😌

  • @privateprivate2421
    @privateprivate2421 Před rokem +5

    I learned this 50 years ago from a book by Norman Vincent Peale called You Can If You Think You Can and the Power of Positive Thinking

  • @kristbjorgolof3722
    @kristbjorgolof3722 Před rokem +18

    I agree with this in many ways and I see a lot of use for this information, but as an additional thought that I use every now and then and not as a constant state of mind. Life is an experience and thoughts and feelings are part of the experience. The state that so many meditators describe is the default state of the soul such a state that we have outside of human life, the experience of the soul itself, then we might as well let go of existence. Experience is why we are here, the lesson we are meant to experience. Instead of "turning off" the experience, we need to learn to live with it, it's good to restart in between, review ourselves, get back in touch with the self and take new directions, find the direction we want for our life and look at this as the miracle that it is.
    It is only the ego that is wounded, it is only the broken expectation that causes disappointment, and prejudice against oneself that creates fear. Let's learn from what we deal with to grow and become stronger as a result.
    I meditate, but on the other hand I let my mind and emotions flow because it is such a challenging experience, to feel the battle within. It is so fun being a living human being, so many different things to do and be, I want to try everything to get the most diverse experience, it gives the deepest understanding and the widest vision. In the end I will move closer to the soul through meditation, when I know that I am close to going back home, home to the world beyond. Well, unless unexpected death sent me there first.
    Live in harmony and peace, especially with yourself, but don't do it at the expense of the experience, because experience is the meaning of life.

  • @marcelbenbaruch4053
    @marcelbenbaruch4053 Před rokem +3

    when bad thoughts comes to me and I realise that they're troubling my mind my peacefulness I learn not to me angry or sad or frastrated or sorry about what's happened I just watch them as they come and I don't resist them I don't fight them or try to change them yes I look at them with no basis and let the sabsid and passaway and thoughts to me are like the clouds in the autumn they come and go but finally I know the sun will rise again and again but yes it need a lot of practicing but it work and those intimidating thoughts even they come again hear and there start to boring and unimportant and the mind become more and more clear and with great awareness of what is really important in life and what is nonsense

  • @LabradoodleTofuBoy
    @LabradoodleTofuBoy Před 4 měsíci +1

    I shut down text & have zero social media. Silence, best weapon we have. Silence, another practice of meditation.

  • @rudomachigere7187
    @rudomachigere7187 Před 11 měsíci +4

    Had an accident yesterday and I was an emotional wreck so I ran to this audio and it picked me up and put everything into perspective it made me very calm I am so grateful for it.

  • @ArchofFire3
    @ArchofFire3 Před rokem +7

    The secret to non-responsive is that it doesn’t require energy, and you can do it freely all day long. IMO sorrow is the end of depression not the other way around. Why are you in this world but to fall in love and war? You fell simply on transgression, but I fell here to help and have this once in a eternity experience (this is a miracle).

  • @dreamseeker2346
    @dreamseeker2346 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thank you, I needed this. The universe has been sending me messages about letting go of things that no longer serve me for over a year now, and I didn't completely understand the how of the process.

  • @ZenMasterNahc
    @ZenMasterNahc Před 9 měsíci +1

    Some people don't have the luxury of not reacting. It's do or literally die out here for some of us. I'm not letting anyone hurt or kill me without suffering some consequences.

  • @METALHEAD550
    @METALHEAD550 Před rokem +21

    I have found in these times it really helps to have a Munk state of mind, so much so that I feel more alive and less and less angry every day. like the saying= Don't sweat the small stuff. Plus, being a Psychic Medium has really helped me over the last 20 years to be more grounded and open minded, and to try to be less judgmental about what others around me do. Love and light to all...........\m/

  • @Abuazra
    @Abuazra Před rokem +9

    Thank you! God bless you!🙏❤️

  • @lauraleesoder3803
    @lauraleesoder3803 Před 10 měsíci +3

    IAM working on this now❤❤❤not reacting to Negative people and situations❤❤❤

  • @9SauceQuantumHealer
    @9SauceQuantumHealer Před rokem +8

    Flow state and peace the essence of consciousness 🎯

  • @Luckyracoon
    @Luckyracoon Před rokem +9

    I always keep calm in very stressful and/or in any urgent situations or accident and/or sad moments. Naturally my mind is empty and my heart goes fast but I stay still and remain with absolute calmness with a clear mind ready for action to help anyone in need and so is myself. This video speaks to me so much as sometimes I forget why I feel this way when others around me don’t. I don’t understand why some people gets frustrated when they see just how calm I am in these kind of situations, but I think it’s the reason they feel this way is they are unpowered by the fact that I can deal better than them and/or they also feel jealous that I keep a smiley or serene expression instead of a stress and anger with no control just like them. But these people, I let them be even if I would like them to leave me alone, because now I remember why I do that: I let life taking care of these frustrated people as I have no time to waste my energy for them. My time is precious and I value my energy, kindness and calmness. My mom always said to me: you are great to handle situations with serene and calmness all while being polite and understanding. Thank you so much for helping me remember why I stay on the ground while others don’t.
    I stay like calm water, what others see when they look at the calm lake is only their own reflection as they can’t see what’s in the unpredictable water. If they don’t like what they see when looking at the lake: it’s their own problem not mine.

  • @kjell-akeapell3285
    @kjell-akeapell3285 Před rokem +4

    Thank you.Those who search will find...I found this calming words."The best way of reacting,is to not react att all".....a simple truth,but will become a truth,when someone speaks the word and you hear it.Again,Thank you.❤

  • @debb7390
    @debb7390 Před rokem +1

    I watched this earlier..... My husband and I were not seeing eye to eye... aka we were argueing. I watched this video and really believed this is the way to deal, it would make things easier. Later I found it a bad way to do things.. On the video he said, "Think or yourself as nothing.,, this is how you become happy". This is so aweful, it's like how cults sound. If you need some way to get through a hard time watch ... Sly Stallone.....Courage, get rid of your problem. I promise it will empower you. Thank goodness I found his short video before I really felt the way this video tries to make you feel

  • @staceys173
    @staceys173 Před 9 měsíci +1

    “Life is just flowing.
    When we resist we cause ourselves inner pain.
    Release. Be free flowing. Just be.”

  • @expensivenoodle
    @expensivenoodle Před rokem +8

    I’m so glad this is something I’m actually getting good at, and it’s because I believe the prerequisite to not be reactive is to genuinely not care. Why care so much anyway? 90% of the things we care about don’t actually deserve our emotional investment and attention. People who care too much are always looking for a reaction. When you don’t give them what they want, they flip out lol.

    • @jeshurun4616
      @jeshurun4616 Před 11 měsíci

      The moment you think you getting good is the moment you slip up lol

  • @stuartk2244
    @stuartk2244 Před rokem +10

    This is absolutely brilliant and totally accurate what a brilliant channel. 👍 😊 😇 😊

  • @mut8inG
    @mut8inG Před 10 měsíci +4

    “There ain’t no use in tryin to be what you isn’t because you are what you am.” 😇🌸

  • @abigailknox-leet6949
    @abigailknox-leet6949 Před 11 měsíci +3

    This is exactly what I need this Monday morning. Thank you.

  • @ChocolateAristocrat
    @ChocolateAristocrat Před rokem +16

    The Power of Choice is ALWAYS available. Chose to be Reactive or Responsive to life situations and the law of consequences shows up…how you Act, React and Interact is in your control.

  • @pauladavis1220
    @pauladavis1220 Před rokem +22

    This is confirmation for me. I've recently had a TIA stroke. I'm really extremely sensitive (do the human mind) struggling within me. Knowing I must not respond, react, and give into the "ego" is reality I'm being exercised in. I'm a place of acceptance with patience. Yes, my thoughts are the culprit of this existence..
    Yahshua in me is the key manifesting Elohim's Divine Attributes within me.
    HalleluYah!!!
    😇🕊🕊

    • @TheMiriam333
      @TheMiriam333 Před rokem +1

      Amen! He in your and you in Him. ONE. We are ONE. I also had a stroke. I am learning to absolutely NOT react to anything. I CAN’T. I’m just learning the hard way.. why. God is GOOD.

  • @hittgirl9272
    @hittgirl9272 Před rokem +3

    I've been not reacting to weird people my whole Guess that's why I'm blessed

  • @mr.chrisaquino
    @mr.chrisaquino Před 10 měsíci +3

    I must admit, I am a reactive person. But as I walk on spiritual path, this is one great lesson I learned. I am so eager and dedicated to get out of this negative personality, so with daily prayer and practice of not reacting, here I am getting out also with my depression and anxiety and I can control now my emotions especially anger and resentment . As an unsolicited advice, if you practice this, you will see yourself back at the start but fight back because failure will bring you to greater heights, just be aware.

  • @sandramatthew931
    @sandramatthew931 Před rokem +5

    This is always been the hardest thing for me in Life to stop thinking negative in my mind…. Peace be still that’s what I need inside. Sometimes I have so much to change inside of me and it’s so hard to come out in words what do I do, how do I say it, does that make me less intelligence no … I just need expression of the spirit to inside of me an all will be well.💜🙏🏾

  • @Meesh369
    @Meesh369 Před rokem +5

    Allow yourself to flow into the eternal Tao. Observe, don't react, use the nature of things to work in your favour.

  • @brandonrodriguez1181
    @brandonrodriguez1181 Před rokem +3

    After 3 burnouts I find it increasingly hard to do thankfully I was raised by an empathetic family who unknowingly instilled these values in me over the course of my life :)

  • @Blitzy279
    @Blitzy279 Před rokem +9

    I just started with anti-depressants. I hope this and the treatment will help me. I have a big hate towards myself for more than 10 years now, that I can’t control. I really hope soon I will be normal again. I even forgot how it is the life without this crippling anxiety and hate towards me, that my brain just creates it every day. Thank you for the video. Wish to you all the best.

    • @IAMinfiniteandfree.
      @IAMinfiniteandfree. Před rokem

      Legal drugs will not help you, it will only numb you for a little while, but side effects will give new health problems very soon. Why do you hate yourself? Because you're subconscious/God will give you whatever thought you entertain. We have been mindcontrolled in believing that we are the body and the mind... negative thoughts are never true, lovely thoughts about yourself are the real truth Remember that. A good way to stop hurting yourself is looking at a picture from yourself, as a child. Now would you use abusive condensending language towards this precious child? God/inner child/ subconscious is perfect calm, harmonious, happiness and love, therefore you are love. But if you don't know this, you take in the negative words and believes of the same lost humans, outside of you. They become your innervoice, the tyrant. But you do this to your innerchild.. you can take back control.... Every child would become depressed when continously being verbally abused. That's what is happening. You are abusive against your own innerchild/God. But we have been given free will. Remember God will not condem you,. BUT he will show you exactly what you are doing to yourself. As he is no respector of persons. And creation is finished, the good the bad and the indifferent...all 3 are infinite deep and have infinite of experiences. So as long as you keep telling abusive words to yourself, it will get worse by the day. Listening to songs and mantras to reconnect with your soul essence, will sooth your body mind and soul. Without even knowing why ..Indian mantras are very helpful...Frequency sounds like 963 also. It's not your fault you only needed to be guided back to the truth. I hope this will help you.

    • @annettefowler4704
      @annettefowler4704 Před 11 měsíci

      Through expérience i started taking a good qualite vit B1 and B12.look up Dr Eric Berg on you tube tube, he has many videos on health. Wish you the best.😊

    • @tinac7084
      @tinac7084 Před 10 měsíci +1

      You are not alone. You have the strength within yourself to do this. Forgive yourself, learn to love yourself, and find out who you even are. You are your own best friend. Cherish her! I'm speaking from experience because I was where you are. You deserve love and to be loved.

    • @Blitzy279
      @Blitzy279 Před 10 měsíci

      @@tinac7084 Thank you very much. I am starting to try everything that will help me to get over this disorder. I started with meditations, even that I was very skeptical about it, I tried the meditation of a doctor, after reading his book. And I wanted to try the psychedelics mushrooms treatment to, but I am afraid to not become addicted to them:( I just want to ask an opinion: do you think that going to group therapy sessions will help? I am just fighting this how much I can, because I really know that if will not become well, I can’t live like this anymore.

    • @Blitzy279
      @Blitzy279 Před 10 měsíci

      @@annettefowler4704 Thank you. I will try that to. I am always taking vitamins tho:(

  • @Offnrunnen1624
    @Offnrunnen1624 Před rokem +12

    Thank you for this video. It is very important to me at this moment. I am consciousness, I am peace and I am happy
    ✨🙏✨♥️✨

  • @grahamm8750
    @grahamm8750 Před rokem +68

    I'd just like thank you for all your help your videos have really helped me understand, ive had/going through a spiritual awakening, there's so many things I'm realising it's overwhelming to understand sometimes, I am awake. This a long journey I'm glad your here ❤

    • @Bobcatspiritdude
      @Bobcatspiritdude Před rokem +3

      Namaste

    • @ButterflyAwakening
      @ButterflyAwakening Před rokem +3

      Happy Saturday! May today be a day of peace, joy, and spiritual growth for you. Take some time to connect with your inner self and reflect on the blessings in your life. Remember that every moment is a gift and an opportunity to spread love and kindness to those around you. Embrace the beauty of this day and let your spirit soar!💜🦋

    • @pockettruthseeker8454
      @pockettruthseeker8454 Před rokem

      ​@@ButterflyAwakening Read the General Civil Letter that the Pope sent to Obama and All the Public Officials and the American People are not aware!!! One Love❤

  • @JoeHart-yy7er
    @JoeHart-yy7er Před rokem +1

    Not being able to controll my actions pisses me off at myself .I'm learning and I will get there .

  • @bubbleutunataint4431
    @bubbleutunataint4431 Před rokem +2

    Being able to see my thoughts was a wonderful wonderful thing it help me quit smoking alleviated my depression as well as heightened lucid dreaming all because I actually learned how to see my thoughts instead of being my thoughts it's a world of difference

  • @kelliebrooks9094
    @kelliebrooks9094 Před rokem +3

    U blessed me with neutrality an the consciousness....an i was expecting people to come at me 3 times harder with their ignorance thank you lord for protecting me with ur Love...and blessing.....there are many ways to get a child to do what u want them to do or hear ur voice thankfully God u are the infinite intelligence that knows many many ways to do it....Thank you for ur Love...others may not know but i see....i try not to cry too much...

  • @livondiramerian6999
    @livondiramerian6999 Před rokem +6

    Consciousness is a blessing.

  • @Lexthebarbarian
    @Lexthebarbarian Před 11 měsíci +1

    "A lion doesn't concern itself with the opinion of sheep.'

  • @ilonkaleibfried2142
    @ilonkaleibfried2142 Před rokem +5

    Helpful
    Beautiful
    Calming bliss
    🙏🫶🦋

  • @nickkarean
    @nickkarean Před rokem +3

    We will not be able to not react to negativity without mastering our ego first. When we have tamed our ego, humility helps us welcome any negative circumstances and even insults from others about us, our loved ones, our beliefs, and everything else we deeply revere and hold dear. Only then will we no longer feel hurt or go into rage.
    With practice, we will slowly but surely tame our ego and begin to understand that there's no longer a need to react to negativity. No longer a need to blame. No longer a need to be defensive. No longer a need to argue or complain. Instead, we will feel compassion for the person who insulted us. We will also have enough compassion for ourselves in not dwelling and suffering from negative emotions.

  • @saranevillerogueart9627
    @saranevillerogueart9627 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I need to do this. I get body pain when I get mad and scream back at people who fuck with my calmness

  • @elisabethannwexler4728
    @elisabethannwexler4728 Před rokem +2

    Learning how to respond & not to react is a healthy goal. It is human nature to have concerns about any situation that we find ourselves in. The point is how we respond to having concerns. Yes, we cannot control the outcome of any situation. If we do feel worry or anxiety this is human. We can use meditation & practice mindfulness, self-witnessing, etc. to lessen our worries, anxieties & reactivity. We can learn to engage with ourselves & others in a balanced way. This takes time & practice for many of us. We also need to each take responsibility for what part of each dynamic we create. To be part of a dynamic & to withdraw when the other person becomes upset can be a passive-aggressive way of dealing with situations & an example of spiritual-emotional bypassing. Developing a deeper understanding of what is going on with us is key. Also, to have tools that will help us cope with our lives.