How To Win Friends And Influence People by Dale Carnegie Summary & Insights
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How To Win Friends And Influence People by Dale Carnegie Summary & Insights
Eight things this book will help
you achieve.
1. Get out of a mental rut, think new thoughts, acquire new visions, discover new
ambitions.
2. Make friends quickly and easily.
3. Increase your popularity.
4. Win people to your way of thinking.
5. Increase your influence, your prestige, your ability to get things done.
6. Handle complaints, avoid arguments, keep your human contacts smooth and pleasant.
7. Become a better speaker, a more entertaining conversationalist.
8. Arouse enthusiasm among your associates.
PART ONE: Fundamental Techniques in Handling People
PRINCIPLE 1 - Don’t criticize, condemn or complain.
Assume the higher level
Show them that you have been there before
PRINCIPLE 2 - Give honest and sincere appreciation.
PRINCIPLE 3 - Arouse in the other person an eager want.
PART TWO: Ways to Make People Like You
PRINCIPLE 1 - Become genuinely interested in other people.
PRINCIPLE 2 - Smile.
PRINCIPLE 3 - Remember that a person’s name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language.
PRINCIPLE 4 - Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
PRINCIPLE 5 - Talk in terms of the other person’s interests.
PRINCIPLE 6 - Make the other person feel important-and do it sincerely.\
PART THREE: How to Win People to Your Way of Thinking
PRINCIPLE 1 - The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it.
PRINCIPLE 2 - Show respect for the other person’s opinions. Never say, “You’re wrong.”
PRINCIPLE 3 - If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically.
PRINCIPLE 4 - Begin in a friendly way.
PRINCIPLE 5 - Get the other person saying “yes, yes” immediately.
PRINCIPLE 6 - Let the other person do a great deal of the talking.
PRINCIPLE 7 - Let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers.
PRINCIPLE 8 - Try honestly to see things from the other person’s point of view.
PRINCIPLE 9 - Be sympathetic with the other person’s ideas and desires.
PRINCIPLE 10 - Appeal to the nobler motives.
PRINCIPLE 11 - Dramatize your ideas.
PRINCIPLE 12 - Throw down a challenge.
PART FOUR: How to Change People Without Giving Offense
PRINCIPLE 1 - Begin with praise and honest appreciation.
PRINCIPLE 2 - Call attention to people’s mistakes indirectly.
PRINCIPLE 3 - Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person.
PRINCIPLE 4 - Ask questions instead of giving direct orders.
PRINCIPLE 5 - Let the other person save face.
PRINCIPLE 6 - Praise the slightest improvement and praise every improvement. Be “hearty in your approbation and lavish in your praise.”
PRINCIPLE 7 - Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to.
PRINCIPLE 8 - Use encouragement. Make the fault seem easy to correct.
PRINCIPLE 9 - Make the other person happy about doing the thing you suggest.
Listen to this, then pick up the book and read it, then hand write the notes in your own booklet, then go out in the world and apply, then re-read your booklet whenever you got a chance to refresh the ideas in your head. I find this method a great method for me to learn the best. I recommend technique to whoever that finds it appealing. It works for me nicely.
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@@akeemlawrence9750 Congratulations, just starting the summary right now while taking notes, how much did this book impact you in life and did it have many principles you adopted for everyday life?
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You're welcome Fabian, thank you very much for your detailed feedback and I appreciate your subscription.
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You've earned yourself a subscriber. It is a rarity to find useful videos like these that can help people with communicating. Prior to watching this I was in an emotional rut, but I used these tips and it really helped me connect with people. thanks
Thank you very much for your feedback and for subscribing, I appreciate it. I'm also very happy to hear that was able to get you out of the rut, onwards and upwards!
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Bought a copy in 2009, perused it. Just re-read it a few days ago and came to look for your video. Thanks for all you do with this channel.
re-listening to this book again after 10 years.....i am liking this as a companion while I am listening
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Thank you for posting this. Like you, I revisit this book every couple years. The messages in it have changed my life. I am teaching a Multicultural Communication class this semester and we are spending two lecture on this book. Great summary of the book with practical examples.
One of the best summaries of this great book. Your insights and stories make it easy to retain more information after reading the book.
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Do not understand a single thumbs down. Thanks for your time in making this video. My appreciation💜
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I've read this book several times and shared it with s number of people. However your summary put a very helpful condensed spin on it.
Keep the great work coming..
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Love it, first time listen till end I will listen it again as you recommended
Keep up the good work
Thanks
I am getting ready to start the book! Thanks for breaking it down it gives me personally another way to comprehend the book in a different view.!!! Keep it up & thank you.
Thorough breakdown. Thank you!
We all are really grateful for the study notes you prepare doing so much efforts....
Thank u Joseph for putting the points in visual format. I will implement what I learned through this video.
Love ur way of presenting this material; great pleasant voice, kindness ... enjoyed it
Thank you , more to come :)
I’ve read the book and taken the course. You do a very intentional and easy to listen to refresher. I will be watching your other videos over the course of this week. Well done! I’m impressed with your thoughtfulness and tone.
is the book worth?
Hello Joseph, thanks for simplifying these books. It is a great work.
At first, I was like do I need to read the whole book or not because I feel so guilty because being a leader is not an easy job, I encounter different behaviors that aren't easy to handle. I'm not perfect, and I made a lot of mistakes so what I did, I stop reading for minutes I wrote down the things I remembered that I must change. It's like a reflection guide book!
I love and value your channel many thanks Joseph Rodrigue.
I saved this on my playlist a while ago, but never heard it b/c I always hear another Dale Carnegie clip. Today i was in a real rush so I accidently opened this clip. Glad i did! Thx u 4 sharing your wisdom.
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You're welcome, glad you liked it.
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Perfect health and unlimited joy!
my pleasure, thank you for the warm wishes Vladimir. I wish you the same :)
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This bestseller book is a real milestone for the self improvement topic. Some of the concepts in this books are principles that will have an evergreen value!
Excellently summarised. Truly inspiring.
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Best analysis of this book I’ve come across on CZcams. Deserves more views.
Thanks Joseph. Awesome comments, awesome work, as usual.
I have his book but I have been putting it off for a while. the way you laid it out was easier for me to understand and retain anyways.
Thank you these are timeless principles. Thank you for breaking down to it. I've listened the whole full audio book over 9hrs long and realise oh god! I've living it the wrong way! Dale Canegie got it all the right way! These book is the book like manual script you must come back to refresh again and again.
I like your channel materials and I do share them with many individuals and groups. Thank you Joseph
Thank you! Incredible content. I especially loved the part about making mistakes! Really connected a few dots for me :).
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I appreciate your kindness!
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Awesome break down very insightful thank you 🙏🏾
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Joseph, you master the art of being straight to the point and cut out the fluff. I need to learn from you! Thanks for a great video.
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Thanks for your kind words Alexander, you're welcome
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Just a feedback, it would be great if you could move the tabel of contents a little bit to the right so we could see it during the video.
Once again thank you!
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Good insights. Thank you for your dedication.
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i subbed!! bro there is another version called how to win friends and influence people in the digital age!!! can you do a review on that one please?? i read the books but your reviews give me alot more clarity ...i have trouble retaining information from books i read,,,the breakdown really helps!! thanks again
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Thank you Gurjeet, I appreciate the support, more to come :)
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thank you Joseph... Your summary was absolutely amazing and easy to recap the book.
you're welcome :)
Interesting perspective regarding the book, Thank you!
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my pleasure, I working on more and thank you for the motivation and support to make them.
Thankful to you for such wonderful summaries 😊
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You're welcome, glad you liked it. More to come.
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Classic book. As you said, can be read many times.
Thank you very much . I really enjoyed .
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This must have taken a lot of time to make! I appreciate the dedication. How long did it take you just out of curiosity?
The value you get out of learning these material is worth any amount of time. Teaching it to others will help you furthur and deepen your understanding of the topics discussed in the book - so it's a win-win situation. Appreciate your work @Joseph. Peace,