The Portah Family Elaborates On Living Poly Life As A Thruple, How The Women Worked It Out, & More

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  • čas přidán 10. 11. 2019
  • The Portah Family (Shantell, Shalaun, and Alex) stopped by the Madd Hatta Morning Show one year after coming on the show to update everyone on their polygamous 3-way relationship. Shantell and Shalaun elaborate on initial issues they worked through as women and how long it took for the thruple to thrive as one together. Watch The Portah Family explain more about their poly lifestyle and how far the family has come over the last year.
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Komentáře • 111

  • @robbydigital1159
    @robbydigital1159 Před 4 lety +63

    It's about honesty, humility, and finding the right personalities. I salute them.

  • @ericamonroe7659
    @ericamonroe7659 Před 4 lety +33

    I love them....I am a part of a closed polyamorous triad myself....our story is a lot different than theirs and I love hearing other poly families ❤🖤💚

  • @KicknItWitKi
    @KicknItWitKi Před 4 lety +25

    I love how open and mature they are. I love that I have a better understanding and a idea of this being able to work out for the 3. I've always been attracted to females all the way down to KINDERGARTEN. No I've never had a relationship with one, but I've gotten my "feel on" with a few. I'm open minded about going "all the way" I just haven't. Also I'm Christian, with religious beliefs and I was worried about disappointing my family ESPECIALLY my granny. She's gone on to be with the Lord, and I really don't feel like I have anyone else to make proud of me. I just wanna be MYSELF, continue to make a difference in peoples lives and enjoy life in a positive way and environment. What's been holding me back all these years is the perfect timing and the fear of not doing what's right and going against God. I know we have a loving God and out of anybody else HE knows me. I'm married now and I believe I can be myself in our marriage and a "truple" could work. Seeing this tho made me more courageous and with times changing I feel my time to work on ME is now.

    • @graveraider1029
      @graveraider1029 Před 4 lety +1

      God would want to see you happy and also im sure jesus would be very accepting of what makes you and you partner happy

    • @darrelljohnson9279
      @darrelljohnson9279 Před 3 lety +1

      Solomon was said to be the wisest man to ever live; and he was in a multiple relationship.

    • @nonanona3018
      @nonanona3018 Před 2 lety

      It is so nice to see people who are still obeying god’s teachings , god love’s you for holding yourself from sins , don’t make those radical leftist get into your head with their crap

    • @TeamMD0
      @TeamMD0 Před 2 lety

      Go read your Bible and learn about all the polygamous families within them , including David . God gave David his wives and god told him he wouldn’t have given him more has he asked for them. Remember god never changes so if he approved it for David he approves of it for us .

    • @angeljosephs30
      @angeljosephs30 Před 2 lety

      This is so beautiful transparent I struggle with the same wanting to just b me nd live my life without disappointment ima pray

  • @tameekawyndon2665
    @tameekawyndon2665 Před 3 lety +8

    This was the most mature and revealing example I've come across of the poly lifestyle. It was annoying to hear the few questions regarding their sex life. If you're grown you already know that sex happens, but the humanity and emotionality dynamics of this family was a beautiful & bittersweet development. Thanks for sharing.

  • @afocusedsouljah
    @afocusedsouljah Před 4 lety +33

    I admire these three people so much and I really want a relationship like this ❤🖤💚

    • @Kinghippi3
      @Kinghippi3 Před 4 lety +2

      im sure you'll get it ... my wife and i are looking for our women to love... remember just be happy

    • @dsciulli
      @dsciulli Před 3 lety

      @@Kinghippi3 same here but I’m not 100 if I want it or not so I don’t wanna OUT our situation by going on an app. Know what I mean? How u search?

  • @davidgray4685
    @davidgray4685 Před 4 lety +14

    They look so HAPPY TOGETHER!!

  • @e.vsanchez9580
    @e.vsanchez9580 Před 4 lety +11

    FINALLY! GREAT STRATEGIZING. KEEP PUSHING POLY... IT'S ALMOST OUR TIME!!!

  • @miyanthomas1169
    @miyanthomas1169 Před 3 lety +5

    And how can I get my current situation to be like THIS??? DAMN!!!

  • @buildingbuildercip8292
    @buildingbuildercip8292 Před 4 lety +11

    I’m in the process of starting my own trio w two women. Being honest and communicative is key. It’s scary as fuck to confront them with the concept of being a throuple. It is very important to communicate and express yourself as clearly as possible... then just hope they agree. Gotta just take the leap.

  • @alfinar5487
    @alfinar5487 Před 3 lety +15

    To decide to be poly with your husbands & side chick because he probably will not stop cheating is heartbreaking. I believe In poly but this isn’t the purest way to start.

  • @ddsgoodeezandmore
    @ddsgoodeezandmore Před 3 lety +5

    I love this! Me and my husband are looking for our Queen...

  • @bashiixd5665
    @bashiixd5665 Před 4 lety +11

    Beautiful family ❤ and I soooo love their honesty it's refreshing

    • @dsciulli
      @dsciulli Před 3 lety

      I’ll be honest with you. Your beautiful

  • @BIGLEGEND1017
    @BIGLEGEND1017 Před 4 lety +13

    Im taking applications to start this type of empire. Im single at the moment so the stage is set

  • @kabalove7938
    @kabalove7938 Před 3 lety +1

    Great video. Really digging this family.

  • @appleoshun2571
    @appleoshun2571 Před 3 lety +10

    Dope part.. Shantell..(2nd wife) just a baby last week 🤗 .. #poly

  • @MzNesha
    @MzNesha Před 3 lety +6

    I am not judging at all. I feel it's takes a strong woman to follow her heart and stand up for what she believes in. Me personally don't know if I could do that. But then again I have been situations and dealt with certain that I never thought I would and found myself doing it. So I would say if they happy that is all that matters.

  • @stephaniewoolard2365
    @stephaniewoolard2365 Před 3 lety +4

    I love these beautiful women! What a great relationship! ❤️

  • @michelletucker7268
    @michelletucker7268 Před 3 lety +2

    I just started watching their videos... I luv it even tho i dont live this way.... Long as they are HAPPY

  • @rosaenid3134
    @rosaenid3134 Před 3 lety +5

    I love what they have it's beautiful the Respect they have for each other and the understanding they have dame I want that I'm bi and can't find what they have

  • @milahmillions
    @milahmillions Před 4 lety +12

    Love them!❤

  • @lifeasdej27
    @lifeasdej27 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I love my poly its crazy how it started but im literally in love with both people

  • @fromthemindofbri2214
    @fromthemindofbri2214 Před 4 lety +7

    So interesting

  • @youvebeenlovegrammeddr.lov4585

    Great interview, very interested
    You should start a CZcams channel, I love watching y’all
    I think most information that was discussed today was very good information that gave great understanding

    • @TheAfroassassin
      @TheAfroassassin Před 4 lety +3

      YOU'VEBEENLOVEGRAMMED DR.LOVEGRAM they already have one its only got 3 videos rn but look up “Porter Family”

    • @astyn3117
      @astyn3117 Před 4 lety +1

      YOU'VEBEENLOVEGRAMMED DR.LOVEGRAM this is crazy interesting, I’ve had 3sums with my Wife and she’s had a girl friend before but I’ve been wanting a Thuple for a long time from this but I’m not sure how to introduce it to her

  • @ilissawalker7051
    @ilissawalker7051 Před 4 lety +3

    Im happy for them. The life Can Work😘..

  • @JDMJOE
    @JDMJOE Před 2 lety

    I think they are a lovely family!! God bless them.. 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

  • @rachannarounds6069
    @rachannarounds6069 Před 3 lety +2

    I want this dynamic 😍

  • @duyannagoodlet5366
    @duyannagoodlet5366 Před 4 lety +20

    I wonder if the wife felt like she was going to loose him if she didn’t do this. Is this a way to keep her marriage together.

  • @sharjohn84
    @sharjohn84 Před 2 lety +7

    So, he cheated and THEN they became poly…they didn’t start out that way. So I’m wondering if the wife went into being poly by default, because in 20 years of marriage they NEVER practiced a poly relationship? I think that if he never got caught, they would still be in a “monogamous” marriage.

    • @sierrabellz7306
      @sierrabellz7306 Před rokem

      It’s true. Lol they acting slow like this was love for them all. She’s got the most subtle Stockholm syndrome I’ve ever seen.

    • @cheyenneramos6656
      @cheyenneramos6656 Před rokem +1

      They didn’t start completely poly but Alex and his wife did have other situations where they had 3 sums with other women which is off of what leads into becoming open enough to have the conversation of poly lifestyle/relationship

  • @miyanthomas1169
    @miyanthomas1169 Před 3 lety +2

    I LOVE this family. The wife is my SHERO!!! I LOVE how open minded and mature she is when it came down to understanding why he stepped out and how rational she was about the other woman. And I love how he, once caught, remained solid and was honest about what he did and NEVER speaking ill of his girlfriend. That loyalty he had to the other woman is what helped create this beautiful dynamic because it showed yes, I love you, but she's top-notch as well.

  • @malkg_music
    @malkg_music Před 4 lety +2

    This is the life ❤️❤️

  • @Pinkflamingo138
    @Pinkflamingo138 Před 3 lety

    I love them!

  • @yannibrowneyes
    @yannibrowneyes Před 4 lety +13

    I love them ❤️❤️

  • @elishellhorn6649
    @elishellhorn6649 Před 4 lety +2

    What’s there social media’s

  • @Mr.Oct___
    @Mr.Oct___ Před 2 lety

    Pretty kool. They seem ro have complimentary energies..

  • @chasemichaels5083
    @chasemichaels5083 Před 2 lety

    Interestingly...I've done this before...

  • @pgearthyluv
    @pgearthyluv Před 4 lety +3

    ♥️♥️

  • @tyronebrown2943
    @tyronebrown2943 Před 3 lety +8

    Alex wack for lying I thought he started honest

  • @doctorroc8633
    @doctorroc8633 Před 3 lety

    Doctor RoC Love both oF my wonderful woman

  • @RealDealChic
    @RealDealChic Před 3 lety +2

    This interview shows his true feelings for his wife!💯

  • @gireauxe
    @gireauxe Před 4 lety +11

    Final Question !!!! [→ 45:42 ←] Jaz seems like she wantz some huh ? or maybe want to be # 3 ?😜

  • @jdemcee7904
    @jdemcee7904 Před 2 lety +1

    It takes a lot of maturity to talk through something like this.

  • @alboss4700
    @alboss4700 Před 2 měsíci

  • @ej1722
    @ej1722 Před 4 lety +2

    They off the chain😳😂Could not be me though, yet this is better than my husband creeping👍minus the same sex sex.

  • @jordangilbert814
    @jordangilbert814 Před 2 lety +2

    My ex boyfriend tryed to get me in to this I didn't appreciated because I already told him no and he just kept asking me so he said he had to think about what he wanted so we broke up because of that's so I can't really juge nobody but your not just gonna force me into anything I don't wanna do

  • @tahashaholloway3688
    @tahashaholloway3688 Před 2 lety +1

    I feel like if the couple would have had a discussion to become a ploy couple and picked someone together He would have avoided all this drama

  • @teekay4389
    @teekay4389 Před 4 lety +6

    At the you don't have to explain homosexual parents couples at school

  • @nicolefisher4779
    @nicolefisher4779 Před 4 lety +15

    I just don’t understand what they both see in him that make them want to share him. There’s plenty of men out there.

    • @chaycesmom1212
      @chaycesmom1212 Před 4 lety +1

      He seems cool though

    • @nicolefisher4779
      @nicolefisher4779 Před 4 lety +8

      cherie hunt I’m glad you commented. Lol. But why would you want to share a person? I can’t imagine my partner telling me is in love with another woman and I’m suppose to be ok with it.

    • @purpleprince4386
      @purpleprince4386 Před 4 lety +29

      Nicole Fisher It’s easier to understand when you accept that no one belongs to you. You don’t own anyone. People stay with you because they want to , but everyone here is walking their own path. Hopefully you can find someone to walk the path alongside you , but you are always on your own path.
      We can and do love multiple people at the same time: our mothers, fathers , sisters , brothers. We have to share them don’t we? So what’s the difference?

    • @cherishlife87
      @cherishlife87 Před 4 lety +8

      Purple Prince PREACH 🙌🏾 That mindset changed my entire way of thinking and dating. I refuse to ever be with anyone again who looks at me as their property.

    • @tietearoddy
      @tietearoddy Před 3 lety +4

      Mental illness is the reason

  • @Potentialaj
    @Potentialaj Před rokem +1

    The wife did the best she could and I so admire her but I totally disagree with her grilling the mistress w/ questions

  • @leggs4113
    @leggs4113 Před rokem +3

    They are not poly. This is a man that cheated and his wife put up with it. She’s still hurting.

    • @gumodokamehuna915
      @gumodokamehuna915 Před 5 měsíci

      How does poly start...u are going to tell your wife about a girl that you even don't know about? This is hypocritical

  • @Liz-tj6du
    @Liz-tj6du Před 2 lety

    The 1st wife must be an Aquarius 😂 she giving me those vibes

    • @sierrabellz7306
      @sierrabellz7306 Před rokem

      She’s a Leo put some respect on us. Her bday was yesterday.

  • @chasemichaels5083
    @chasemichaels5083 Před 2 lety +1

    I love this niga Alex...much RESPECT to him

  • @teekay4389
    @teekay4389 Před 4 lety +8

    I would like to know why you guys gave them a hard time and not give the gay or lesbian life style the same energy

    • @angeljosephs30
      @angeljosephs30 Před 2 lety

      Right will end ur whole career nd rep if u dnt approve of them lol

  • @livefromplanetearth
    @livefromplanetearth Před 4 lety +4

    +1000

  • @Adrian0deadends0
    @Adrian0deadends0 Před rokem

    Shalaun does not seem happy

  • @marieshante9075
    @marieshante9075 Před 3 lety +6

    These eyebrows tho 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @sadescoon3237
      @sadescoon3237 Před 3 lety +2

      Thank you lord someone said it . The girlfriend’s eyebrows are horrible . Too much of them to not tell her fix it

  • @melissasears6145
    @melissasears6145 Před 2 lety

    🤦

  • @astatine0085
    @astatine0085 Před 3 lety

    "“But I want you to know that the head of every man is Christ, the head of woman is man, and the head of Christ is God.”
    (1 Corinthians 11:3)
    READ THIS
    A husband is to be to his wife what Jesus is to the Church. Now this is not for her punishment; it is for her protection. Just as God the Son is under God the Father in the Holy Trinity, the woman is under the man in God’s scheme of things. This does not mean inferiority.
    If you know Bible theology, you know that Jesus Christ is co-equal, co-eternal with God the Father. Because God the Father is the head of Christ the Son, it does not mean that Christ the Son is inferior to God the Father. Likewise, no woman is inferior to a man. Galatians 3:28 says: “For there is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither bond or free, there’s neither male nor female: for ye are all one in Christ Jesus” (KJV). We’re all one in Christ. But still, God has given this line of responsibility in the home.
    CONSIDER THIS
    How might you have thought wrongly about the biblical definition of submission in the home in the past?
    What would your home look like if each member lived according to God’s line of responsibility?
    DO THIS
    If you are a married man, what can you do this week to show care for your wife, as Christ has loved the Church? If you are a married woman, how might you better submit to your husband as Jesus demonstrated submission to the Father?"
    Pastor Rogers.

  • @godschild2432
    @godschild2432 Před 3 lety +6

    No short of sin. Repent this lifestyle is again the law of a holy God. This is celebrating sin.

    • @lillianastilwell3253
      @lillianastilwell3253 Před 2 lety

      Ew your one of those people who shove religion down others peoples throats aren't you. That's sad man, maybe you should actually read the Bible, what's that one verse hmmm. Love thy neighbor? Yeah that one. Shut up and be respectful

  • @hooddykeedition5204
    @hooddykeedition5204 Před 4 lety +4

    Swinger and freak kinky

  • @lovesmam
    @lovesmam Před 3 lety

    A very interesting dynamic but the guy in the black hat and hoodie, was talking too much, that's NOT how interviews are conducted.

  • @malkg_music
    @malkg_music Před 4 lety +2

    This is the life ❤️❤️