A lot of older women are dating younger men. When men do it, it’s never looked down upon. So, we should extend the same attitude wot older women dating younger. And, age isn’t what it used to be. It’s completely different than it was 50 years ago.
Sometimes, they have to use certain words not to be flagged. But he explicitly mentioned that she realized she groomed. So disappointing to see her with someone her children's age. She definitely knows wouldn't want them with someone in her age bracket.
This is why she played that role in “For Colored Girls” so good, she was able to relate. That was my introduction to her, and I never felt like she was “acting” in that movie. I pray she’s healed and found peace.
@@757Princesswow, the judgementalness of people sometimes, she is a good actress to me, not every body is meant to be pleased by you. Lots of people can be bad or good actors. Doesn't matter, we all have a craft and cannot change what we are for nobody. Them saying she is horrible is just an opinion, they be jealous half the time, hating on celebrities and people in general in these comments, I clearly said what I said, too, to "Lousinese", it's an opinion and ain't nobody people pleasing for them
@@newrainbow-or6nq if you’re talking facial features, then yes, but her skin and hair are lighter and she clearly doesn’t appear “fully” black/African - only half, and her daughters basically look white with curly hair. Nothing wrong or right about it, that’s just how genetics work. 🤷♀️
@@danisverseyeah, she turned out to be beautiful, but her parents weren't beautiful people. Not calling them ugly, she just took completely good genes
@@SunshineState-ou7pr We must be seeing from different lense then because I find both parents physically very attractive and I have a friend who looks a lot like Thandiwe and men find her very attractive to the eye so she has lots admirers. Unlike her, she is 3/4 Black as opposed to half like Thandie.
Thanks to Thandie's story and millions of others and now the technology available, it's important to educate your children about predatory behavior among us. Live and enjoy life Thandie. It is YOUR life.
Children still will not be able to identify what's really going on with Grooming. ADULTS have to be on the look out and talk to them, make them feel comfortable enough to tell if someone is being inappropriate with them *after explaining to the kids what that is.*
Exactly, because i would not have encouraged anybody to accept touching themselves and recording it, just so i could get a role, Hollywood is sick disgusting perverted creeps
The whole thing is sad, beautiful and informative. Shows how a woman can take trauma and turn it into beautiful life moments and fun in the end❤ go girl
@@ratelhoneybadger well I interpreted what you said as "it doesn't make sense to divorce after 20 years" Why wouldn't it make sense to divorce after 20 years if things have taken a turn for the worst???
Wow this really hurt me the part about the guy videoing her a d showing people at a card game like I hate how being submissive is usually pushed into like completely degrading and honestly demonic situations like enjoying sex is okay but it's like this negative attitude towards women almost like a high men get off of shock value, like "do something crazy". That sht made my stomach turn honestly. Men should go to jail for showing peoples videos to other men without that person's consent like that's my point Thandi isn't a pornstar and she isn't a prostitute like it's an inappropriate request and when men make inappropriate request the least they can do is have discretion with it
Lonr. Lonr. makes dope music. So before anyone says "who"? Go look up him and his catalog. I think theyre a good fit. Might even just be for a chapter. But it works for them. I salute them.
Her kids look just like her wow! And It’s TA not THA the h after the T throws a lot of people off. My daughters name is also Thandiwe, I am making sure to educate people on the right pronunciation. I don’t get too offended because it’s not common knowledge to most who aren’t Southern African. But the name is popular in SA, Zambia, Malawi and Zimbabwe.
@@velvetblue1888yes it's important to pronounce people's names correctly! Thandiwe has been explaining this to you all and even explaining the meaning behind her name. Respect that!
I knew Thandie was special when I saw her in” Beloved” film based on Toni Morrison’s novel, with Oprah, Donald Glover. Post slavery horror story. She enacted the mother’s dead baby returned from death 💀 as a young woman. The way she created this character, her movements was extraordinary. There was a scene where she’s conversing with her alive sister, who is trying to befriend her and Thandie’s is suddenly irritated she angrily responds, “…I came back for HER!” referring to their Mother who btw ended her life as and infant in desperation. The way she delivered that line, the voice her face contorted scared me GOOD! I’ve been a fan of hers ever since. Let’s not forget her Gorgeousness with Tom Cruise in a Mission Impossible film! ✨⭐️🌟💫🌟✨💫I’m glad she survived the Hollywood parasites. ❤
Lol, they take who ever they can get, these older men are tired of divorces, so they are choosing more careful now. Women don't want submission or to follow order and wisdom
Billions of men have done it but that's become acceptable even celebrated by other men to see older men with younger women like they won a prize but when a woman does it there's all sorts of backlash shuuuuuuuut up
@@Eliott799 no, can you stop, I just said that. Not all of us beautiful women of color self hate, and have a reason to wanna look white, that's if she said that. y'all need to quit low key feeding off the fact that some women of color do. And I I said what I said!!!!!
Yes he’s a Leo and he broke my heart so many times don’t have power any more I remove my energy I need rest , I have learned that I have to love myself more than anything else,13 years of marriage 3 beautiful kids,he destroyed everything just listening to his family his mother,and still being married with me he was looking for another woman to marry ,the love and care I gave him all these years and the cry I cried every night I believe that God will replace with something beautiful in my life,we have to love God before any human being,he doesn’t deserve me and I forgive him
He dodged a bullet even though he can not communicate. It seems like she’s not very willing to compromise. She’s complaining about communication but she was not communicating either. Seems like they both wanted efforts they’re not willing to give.
Lost me at the end. 😂😂
😂 me too 😂
Yeah lost me too
😂 Can't be a cougar in peace? Rawrr😂
Dumbfounded 🤦♀️
A lot of older women are dating younger men. When men do it, it’s never looked down upon. So, we should extend the same attitude wot older women dating younger. And, age isn’t what it used to be. It’s completely different than it was 50 years ago.
She always looks sad even when she's smiling. 😢
Depression
She doeeeesss! 😢
You would be if you were surrounded by predators at a tender age
She's a DEVOUT Atheist. I would be sad also.
Yes lol😅😅😅
She was sexually abused by a 39yr old sex offender when she was 16. It’s “relations” when it involves two consenting adults.
16 is age of consent. Ridiculous…
If they see 16 as an adult it serious
Sometimes, they have to use certain words not to be flagged. But he explicitly mentioned that she realized she groomed. So disappointing to see her with someone her children's age. She definitely knows wouldn't want them with someone in her age bracket.
Only a pedo would say that.
Only a pedo would say that.
Okay the way that part was jus casually mentioned like it was nothing 😮
The title is misleading. All of her kids have the SAME father 👏🏾👏🏾
Right! They need to go on with that bs
That’s what was thinking.
She's stunning, so do her kids 😍
But wow She's 51 (still looking 30) and dating a 27 yo incredible!!!
she looks her age, which is ok.
Well I wouldn’t expect anything less from Thandie, she is exceptionally talented and beautiful ❤❤❤❤
Right?👀
A 51 year old woman dating a 27 yo is incredible, a 51 year old man dating a 27 yo girl is a perv. Gotta love the double standards!
Amazing
I always thought she was breathtaking beautiful.
She is absolutely gorgeous
This is why she played that role in “For Colored Girls” so good, she was able to relate. That was my introduction to her, and I never felt like she was “acting” in that movie. I pray she’s healed and found peace.
She’s a terrible actress so it really broke me seeing her so exceptionally well in that role
Amen! Praying total healing for her!
@@757Princess oof is she that bad? I only remember in the coloured girls movie n I thought she was good.
@757Princess idiot she an amazing actor she played Beloved so wonderfully.
@@757Princesswow, the judgementalness of people sometimes, she is a good actress to me, not every body is meant to be pleased by you. Lots of people can be bad or good actors. Doesn't matter, we all have a craft and cannot change what we are for nobody. Them saying she is horrible is just an opinion, they be jealous half the time, hating on celebrities and people in general in these comments, I clearly said what I said, too, to "Lousinese", it's an opinion and ain't nobody people pleasing for them
Her genetics are pretty strong
Care to elaborate on such a comment?
@@ellamitchell1270 Her kids look like her.
Yep. Her kids are gorgeous and adorable. 😊
Wait, she delivered naturally. I don't understand why that was necessary to add?
I think it’s AI. It’s just a really odd thing to include 😂
Also, I think another of celebrities use surrogates. I'm guessing that was the reason for that comment.
Thandiwe is her African mother's twin.
And Thandiwe's daughters look exactly like her too
yes african genes are strong
Shut up she look like her white king father
Twins? Thandi looks like her father too.
@@maryamkim1281 No she doesnt. She's the spitting image of her african Mother, looks nothing like her father. Her daughters looks like her too.
@@newrainbow-or6nq if you’re talking facial features, then yes, but her skin and hair are lighter and she clearly doesn’t appear “fully” black/African - only half, and her daughters basically look white with curly hair. Nothing wrong or right about it, that’s just how genetics work. 🤷♀️
The "Tha" in Thandiwe is pronounced "Ta" as in "ta-da". The Nguni in me is pained to hear this pronunciation.
I am South African and I cringed when he pronounced her name
Thank You for sharing the correct pronunciation! Saying someone’s Name correctly is important.
Don't be cringe their choice to use it dear am South African by the way 😂
Lol. They've only just learned to pronounce her name correctly here in the UK...30 years later
It's a AI speaking. Seldom do give correct pronunciation. When humans pronounce my name incorrectly it makes me cringe as well.
Now I understand why she played beloved so well.
ikr, and gorg looking genetics i must say.
@@danisverseyeah, she turned out to be beautiful, but her parents weren't beautiful people. Not calling them ugly, she just took completely good genes
@@SunshineState-ou7pr We must be seeing from different lense then because I find both parents physically very attractive and I have a friend who looks a lot like Thandiwe and men find her very attractive to the eye so she has lots admirers. Unlike her, she is 3/4 Black as opposed to half like Thandie.
Thanks to Thandie's story and millions of others and now the technology available, it's important to educate your children about predatory behavior among us.
Live and enjoy life Thandie. It is YOUR life.
💯 Truth
Children still will not be able to identify what's really going on with Grooming. ADULTS have to be on the look out and talk to them, make them feel comfortable enough to tell if someone is being inappropriate with them *after explaining to the kids what that is.*
Exactly, because i would not have encouraged anybody to accept touching themselves and recording it, just so i could get a role, Hollywood is sick disgusting perverted creeps
She unfortunately was a casualty of exploitation before #Me too.
So many powerful men take advantage, not caring about the consequences.
Omg her second daughter is gorgeous
All her children are gorgeous ❤❤
@@ninajones5315 Exactly all of them are simply stunning.
I was about to reply the same 😂 all of them are beautiful gifts. Never get when people single out children from there siblings 🤷🏽♀️
@@ninajones5315all look like her
That ending threw me off. I wasn’t expecting that lol.
Right like what?
Me too 😂😂
Exactly. I'm like she must still be working through some thangs. 😏
@@blacksongbird100 she has to be because she really back tracked lol.
@@ead3nblvck938 😂😂
2024, Okay, she is a really good actress.
The whole thing is sad, beautiful and informative. Shows how a woman can take trauma and turn it into beautiful life moments and fun in the end❤ go girl
Im convinced no young actress made it in the industry without sleeping with someone. That's extremely fkn sad
Love her, blessings to her and her family.💐💛✌️
Ok.. I wish much happiness for her..
I wish her to encounter Jesus Christ
Her daughter is a VERY talented actor!
I wasn’t ready for that ending.😂😂
Wow...there are some real pre dators out there!!!...he should have gone to jail!!
I was not expecting that ending BLOUSE AND SKIRT 😂😂😂😂😂
She elegant and Beautiful 🌹🌹🌹
She is so gorgeous..
Well damn she did a uno reverse and now she's dating young
@cortezconquistador I guess she’s a cougar
She is probably dating who she feels safe with
And black
It's not the same!!
@cortezconquistador
🎯🎯🎯
What a beautiful woman.👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿❤️❤️❤️
That's Good.. Dating younger men is the real deal no expectations just fun
And just dating for more fun may add to more trauma
Divorces after over 20 years will never make sense to me.
Is there a statute of limitations when to get out of a bad or gone bad relationship???
@@mcfact1827 Not that I'm aware of. Maybe that's why it doesn't make sense "to me".
@@ratelhoneybadger well I interpreted what you said as "it doesn't make sense to divorce after 20 years"
Why wouldn't it make sense to divorce after 20 years if things have taken a turn for the worst???
ii knw right
@@mcfact1827cause you’re supposed to stay for better or worse. Have you seen any wedding?
Wow this really hurt me the part about the guy videoing her a d showing people at a card game like I hate how being submissive is usually pushed into like completely degrading and honestly demonic situations like enjoying sex is okay but it's like this negative attitude towards women almost like a high men get off of shock value, like "do something crazy". That sht made my stomach turn honestly. Men should go to jail for showing peoples videos to other men without that person's consent like that's my point Thandi isn't a pornstar and she isn't a prostitute like it's an inappropriate request and when men make inappropriate request the least they can do is have discretion with it
Very immature
Yeahs it’s sad Sounds more like subjective than submissive
Women should not do this stuff for Guys
Lonr.
Lonr. makes dope music. So before anyone says "who"? Go look up him and his catalog.
I think theyre a good fit. Might even just be for a chapter. But it works for them. I salute them.
Sounds like grooming from beginning to end. Just sad all-round.
FACTs!!! SMDH
Exactly, that common thread is historical.
Can’t groom a grown man, the end was fine 😆
How so?? He's 27! He's grown!, Grown! 🤷🏾♀️
A 27 year old is an adult not a child or minor in any way. You're really stretching it!
She's so beautiful.😍 I remember first knowing her through her daughter Nico. Beautiful family.❤
Her kids look just like her wow! And It’s TA not THA the h after the T throws a lot of people off. My daughters name is also Thandiwe, I am making sure to educate people on the right pronunciation. I don’t get too offended because it’s not common knowledge to most who aren’t Southern African. But the name is popular in SA, Zambia, Malawi and Zimbabwe.
C'est important dans le cas présent ?😅😅 l'Afrique australe est loin voire inexistante. La machine a laver est passée par là.😅😅.
@@velvetblue1888yes it's important to pronounce people's names correctly! Thandiwe has been explaining this to you all and even explaining the meaning behind her name. Respect that!
❤❤I Think She's fabulous ❤❤
This gives me ALOT of hope 😂🙏🏾
You should pronounce her name without the h ❤
I’m would be so protective if I was her, my kids would be so far away from the industry because of what happened to her
⛔ STOP✋ HATING ON THANDIE’S LIFE & HER CHOICES! SHE IS A FINE PERSON, MOTHER & ACTOR! YOUR JUST JEALOUS & MEDDLING!
She is a timeless. Beauty seems like she never ages.
Well Dam What A Way To End Her Story 😅😂😅🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣😂
♥️ BO$$ I LOVE IT SHE LIVING HER LIFE♥️
She has always been a gorgeous lady and she always will be ❤❤❤❤❤
I love her forreal, something seem so sweet yet fearless about her
I knew Thandie was special when I saw her in” Beloved” film based on Toni Morrison’s novel, with Oprah, Donald Glover. Post slavery horror story. She enacted the mother’s dead baby returned from death 💀 as a young woman. The way she created this character, her movements was extraordinary. There was a scene where she’s conversing with her alive sister, who is trying to befriend her and Thandie’s is suddenly irritated she angrily responds, “…I came back for HER!” referring to their Mother who btw ended her life as and infant in desperation. The way she delivered that line, the voice her face contorted scared me GOOD! I’ve been a fan of hers ever since. Let’s not forget her Gorgeousness with Tom Cruise in a Mission Impossible film! ✨⭐️🌟💫🌟✨💫I’m glad she survived the Hollywood parasites. ❤
Why put their kids in the business if shit happened to them.
This 👆🏿
Maybe she's and their father are more hands on with their careers and is protecting them in ways she wasn't.
@@misstunes1765
🎯
No to the 27 year old Thandie!!! Throw that little sprat back 😁! Hope she gets better soon. I love her acting and wish her all the best!!!
Lol, they take who ever they can get, these older men are tired of divorces, so they are choosing more careful now. Women don't want submission or to follow order and wisdom
Woww! Love me some Thandie💋and Lonr… yess girl🤌🏽
This was a roller coaster packed into one minute ‼️
i love her little voice 😩
❤great actress & beautiful family
Yall forgot she played Beloved with Oprah Winfrey….and The pursuit of happiness🤦🏾♀️
Is this video supposed to positive, you spilling all the tea
She's gorgeous!!! ❤
❤❤❤❤❤❤😂 she's still beautiful she still got it
Sad they broke up. Their children are beautiful!
Omgoodness!!! I said that gurl from Last of Us looks exactly like her!!! Wowww! Makes sense now because that's her Mom! 😅
She has very beautiful children they got all that from mom.
You go girl! You are getting stronger and knows what you want! Do not owe anyone an explanation!
😮 27 year old. No girl.
She's a groomer now
His almost 30 😒🤦let grown adults date who the want
But its ok for a man to do it. Double standards will never cease. I hope he keeps her young.
He’s using her for money and clout. She’s using him for “fun,” and we all know what kind of fun she’s having.
Billions of men have done it but that's become acceptable even celebrated by other men to see older men with younger women like they won a prize but when a woman does it there's all sorts of backlash shuuuuuuuut up
She's very talented! Love her
I remember when she told Oprah that she's always mistaken as a white woman. She looks like a light skinned African American woman to me.
Right, she looks completely light skin black woman, not close to white. And a beautiful biracial woman, no need to wanna look white!!!!!!!
She looks biracial
Can you stop with that. She looks mix. Neither white nor black.
@@Eliott799 hush and go away,bye!!!!! don't answer my post, nobody asked you to!!!!?
@@Eliott799 no, can you stop, I just said that. Not all of us beautiful women of color self hate, and have a reason to wanna look white, that's if she said that. y'all need to quit low key feeding off the fact that some women of color do. And I I said what I said!!!!!
Wow, thandy is a cougar 🐾
Gorgeous family ❤
Such a lovely looking woman.
💚❤💚 go girl you didn’t loose anything after that divorce you only gained 💚an internal forever Love 🥰 be happy let yourself enjoy that. Okay
Yall need to get your facts together. This was passive aggressive!
Very beautiful actress, who had/has relations with men who are almost as beautiful as she! Color me green with envy! You go girl!🎉😊
Girl friend Colombia 😂😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤
Was she in Eddie Murphy movie Norbit ..
No that was a Somali top model.
She has beautiful kids👈🏾💯👈🏾
Oh lord to the young bf 🤧
“girl you did not wanna go there, but ok”
light skin is powerful
Poor thing. She has serious issues.
❤didn't expect th end tho hehe.thandi newton always been a beauty
Never understood what any 50 something year old has in common with a 20 something yr old.
Really you don't understand what grown adults have in common??his literally pushing 30 .🙄🤦
Eclecticism
Libido
SHE IS GORGEOUS I FIRST SAW HER IN INTERVIEW WITH A VAMPIRE .😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
And why did your mother let her date a 40-year-old man
The lead up to the end 😅😂 priceless
She finally went back home..
There he's ...🥴
Yes her biracial home
@@SE-gs6gd offended?
No, she's just on vacation
Funny why you make that remark....bc if someone with less melanin in their skin said that...they would be labeled a racist
I love ❤️ her
You’ve got her name wrong, it’s Thandiwe* not Thandie. She changed it back years ago. 😊
Lonl has one of my favorite songs! Didn't expect this couple 🤷🏽♀️
Stop sending kids into Hollyweird. What is wrong with parents?
She’s beautiful
She has beautiful children,,,
I had no idea that was her daughter. She is an amazing actress just like her mother.
Yes he’s a Leo and he broke my heart so many times don’t have power any more I remove my energy I need rest , I have learned that I have to love myself more than anything else,13 years of marriage 3 beautiful kids,he destroyed everything just listening to his family his mother,and still being married with me he was looking for another woman to marry ,the love and care I gave him all these years and the cry I cried every night I believe that God will replace with something beautiful in my life,we have to love God before any human being,he doesn’t deserve me and I forgive him
Thandiwe got her groove back
If you love good deeds you will eventually marry ďennis hello god bless
Dating someone that young is a NO for me.
I will never forget when she played a ghost in that movie with Oprah called "Beloved". I always thought she was a badass acress.
Waited until the end to level down…
Beautiful lady and very talented
the way i screamed at her dating Lonr. i was completely flabbergasted
Much love and hugs ❤
Brad Pitt! My high school crush. He never looked better than interview, except for fight club
Wow, Cambridge
He dodged a bullet even though he can not communicate. It seems like she’s not very willing to compromise. She’s complaining about communication but she was not communicating either. Seems like they both wanted efforts they’re not willing to give.