Act Like A Success: There Is No Self Made Man || STEVE HARVEY

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  • čas přidán 28. 06. 2024
  • Steve presents another chapter study from his New York Times Best Selling book, "Act Like A Success, Think Like A Success," diving into chapter 11, entitled "There Is No Self Made Man." Bringing up examples from his own path to success, Steve explains that when you lose the shame in asking people for help, you’ll gain access to more power and success.
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  • @michaelangelo8898
    @michaelangelo8898 Před 8 lety +77

    "Lose the shame and you'll have more power"
    -Steve Harvey

  • @basicdose.9872
    @basicdose.9872 Před 3 lety +5

    This man is a walking talking inspiration.

  • @MimiHawk
    @MimiHawk Před 9 lety +41

    I love these segments of the show. Very inspiring

  • @symonef.6978
    @symonef.6978 Před 8 lety +104

    "If you have knowledge but you don't share it, how we know you got it?!"

  • @OriginalKoolade
    @OriginalKoolade Před 5 lety +10

    every "no" will bring you closer to a yes. Everybody can't say no!

  • @amethystingram7620
    @amethystingram7620 Před 4 lety +4

    “Success is about building a world the way you want it to look.”❤️❤️

  • @taseinefreeman
    @taseinefreeman Před 9 lety +21

    This show is very educational

  • @dfair
    @dfair Před 9 lety +15

    And bravo to you Mr. Harvey. I met you years back at NATPE in Vegas and you gave me suit advice about keeping that bottom button unbuttoned.
    Your daytime show is such inspiration. Sometimes hilarious, sometimes however, and it's needed; serious life topics.
    Keep up the amazing work sir!

  • @Fendt308
    @Fendt308 Před 9 lety +23

    I just ordered the book. Mr. Harvey, you inspire me to become the person I can be and achieve things I didn't think I could for 5 years ago. Now I'm doing a study to reach the next level and got a steady job where they offer me the chance to grow. Thank you sir.

    • @theman8447
      @theman8447 Před 8 lety

      +Fendt308 Im still on the same page. -_-

  • @stephenosoko6451
    @stephenosoko6451 Před 8 lety +28

    Right now I'm in that same place Steve was in. Not asking people for their support.
    It's only now that I'm really understanding the value of asking for help.

    • @goatygal
      @goatygal Před 5 lety

      Stephen Osoko Here’s my way to help. Where would you like to be 5 years from now?

  • @YourGirlSudanny
    @YourGirlSudanny Před 5 lety +1

    No is not a rejection... Love that!

  • @puppetshack4931
    @puppetshack4931 Před 5 lety +1

    So good.....stop trying to go it alone. Life is better when you share it & collaborate.

  • @Kevin-jc1fx
    @Kevin-jc1fx Před 5 lety

    Success is building a world that looks the way you want it to. So deep and true.

  • @ypnsfnetYPN
    @ypnsfnetYPN Před 8 lety +3

    always great advice steve....thx !

  • @Lucifer-vi6eq
    @Lucifer-vi6eq Před 5 lety +4

    2:26 "If you have knowledge buchu never share it, How we know you got it?" 😂😂😂😂

  • @sandramarney1346
    @sandramarney1346 Před 8 lety +1

    thank you Steve

  • @ghanasoul
    @ghanasoul Před 6 lety +2

    God laid my path for me. I've asked for help on things and never gotten it. Or i got was half ass answers. I get what Steve's sayin, but everyone's path is different. God bless the child that's got his own.

  • @janice7378
    @janice7378 Před 8 lety

    So right !!
    Never thought it that way. Gr8 advice Steve.

  • @thevoiceoffred9230
    @thevoiceoffred9230 Před 5 lety

    Thank you for posting this.

  • @magalysenecharles1901
    @magalysenecharles1901 Před 5 lety +4

    Thank you Steve Harvey thank you for the word of encouragement. I’m going through a similar situation like you right now but I’m not gonna give up I know God has better plans for me. I believe it’s going to get better for me. God bless you and your family.

  • @chaukebothwell9146
    @chaukebothwell9146 Před 5 lety

    Needed this powerful message

  • @bigkatalysator
    @bigkatalysator Před 7 lety +5

    you know how many times i asked help... but sometimes nobody listens or wants to help thats the hardest to hear or see around you

    • @ryaan935
      @ryaan935 Před 3 lety

      Ask God for help then, he's always listening

  • @patrynaswritings7617
    @patrynaswritings7617 Před 5 lety +2

    I'm working on being able to ask for help and being able to receive. You such an inspiration Steve

    • @victortaylor7737
      @victortaylor7737 Před rokem

      Most people don't like to ask for help,thinking it makes them look weak& begging.it actually makes you stronger.

  • @PeaceFullTalks
    @PeaceFullTalks Před 5 lety

    Thank you Mr. Steve i am a big Fan.

  • @mr.abijah
    @mr.abijah Před 6 lety +1

    So true.

  • @dfair
    @dfair Před 9 lety

    ON POINT! I gotta get this book!

  • @delnayo9474
    @delnayo9474 Před 5 lety

    Yes- Success is about building a world the way you want it to!!

  • @mosesobasola7634
    @mosesobasola7634 Před 5 lety

    Great words Mr Harvey

  • @demaruswitherspoon2078
    @demaruswitherspoon2078 Před 5 lety +1

    It's not what you know. It's who you know

  • @cookiemelonfunz5065
    @cookiemelonfunz5065 Před 5 lety

    Love it! Steve you are an awesome guy

  • @harrymitchell1118
    @harrymitchell1118 Před 5 lety +3

    I'll consider myself as a giver I gave and gave and all they did in return was take and take until they threw me away and only brought me back just to renew their need

  • @FitDemo
    @FitDemo Před 9 lety

    You're the #1!!

  • @yb3539
    @yb3539 Před 5 lety

    So so awesome.

  • @sportsport1654
    @sportsport1654 Před rokem

    Genius 🔥

  • @classiql
    @classiql Před 2 lety

    Know your worth

  • @melodiewooten5863
    @melodiewooten5863 Před 7 měsíci

    Amen

  • @ademl4664
    @ademl4664 Před 4 lety

    trop,cool la vidéo❤

  • @tl566
    @tl566 Před 4 lety

    0:21 - there's a *survey that says*
    Me: *shivers in anticipation*

  • @devinreacts7165
    @devinreacts7165 Před rokem

    To the person who reads this, if you have a nice person in your life and they care about you, and you care about them, recognize what you have, and let that person know, as much as possible, how much you appreciate them.

  • @dinorahhenriquez7295
    @dinorahhenriquez7295 Před 5 lety

    Un hombre sin visión o un sueño perecerá. Know Your worth.

  • @evrongrant301
    @evrongrant301 Před 5 lety +3

    Steve...... Whats up with the tie man?

  • @robertgray320
    @robertgray320 Před 4 lety +2

    The Bible says, "My people perish from a lack of knowledge."

  • @classiql
    @classiql Před 2 lety

    "What is knowledge unless it's shared?"

  • @marniestab8841
    @marniestab8841 Před 2 lety

    🔥

  • @tabathastaples7884
    @tabathastaples7884 Před rokem

    Shepherd's Chapel Network !!!!!!! Do you have the Gift / Spiritual Discernment ???????

  • @icefleura8168
    @icefleura8168 Před 5 lety

    Tell them uncle Steve. This is a fact.

  • @Heluva32
    @Heluva32 Před 5 lety

    Been there non was given.

  • @vmukamuka2464
    @vmukamuka2464 Před 5 lety +1

    Indeed
    Rwanda has given birth to A strong, Driven, Genocide Survivor and
    African refugee camps survivor, Determined, Passionate, Clothing
    Designer and Innovator, Fashion Model intellectual, Advocate, Business
    Owner, Leader, Professional and Role Model for YOUTH.
    " V-Muka
    Says " Perseverance, self confidence and team work are all qualities
    that evolved from the daily rigors of family life. It so happens that
    these are qualities vital for success in the fashion industry.
    Born
    in Western Uganda, V-Muka came from a very large family with seven
    sisters and five brothers. Growing up in such a size able family
    presented A lot of challenges that required a sort of strength that goes
    beyond the norm.
    VFASHIONS-MODELS was founded in 2000 in the
    fashion capital the world, New York City. V-Muka the founder of FASHIONS
    Inc is the first African women to own and operate a high-fashion
    modeling agency in the United States history and has become a presence
    in the world of fashion business. After arriving in the United States,
    V-Muka, began working as a professional runway model. Her years on the
    runway taught V-Muka the fundamentals of the fashion industry.
    VFashions
    products and Photography was created in 2011. With more than 15 years
    experience in the world’s fashion capital in NYC, VFashions Photography
    was specifically created by V-MUKA to make ”you” into a Fashion Star,
    For those of you who are passionate about fashion, your life will be
    forever changed at VFashions.
    Our Mission at VFASHIONS Products
    is to weave lasting pieces by providing the skills needed to create
    economic opportunities for the men and women, one person, one family,
    one village at a time.
    Yes....YOUR telling your self Oh no not me ,.
    This will never happen to me. So V.MUKA has made it JOB that every
    VFASHIONS products sold 10% will go directly to THAT child who is A
    Victim .
    Victimized children by Domestic Violence is living proof
    that there the one's who suffers most and now it's A EPIDEMIC. A NATION
    SUFFERS DIRECTLY OR INDIRECTLY, We as COMMUNITY SUFFERS most and is
    guaranteed to affect each and every one of Us at some point in our
    lives. indirectly or directly, like A winter storm, So our tomorrow, our
    Future , our joy, our lives will be slowly be gone. Together let's
    BREAK THE SILENCE. Living proof of is V-MUKA. go See for your self. at www.VMUKA.com.
    V-
    Muka says ” Fashion “is one of those artistic representations that hold
    great significance because you live your life in it. Whether you
    realize it or not, fashion is essential to your lifestyle because you
    need clothes that make you look your best at all times.
    FOR Boys and Girls fashion needs and SELF ESTEEM Uplifting go to www.VFASHIONSkids.com FOR Men and Women fashion needs
    www.VFASHIONSnyc.com
    To whom it may concern:
    Hello!
    My name is Ms. V. Muka. I am from Rwanda Africa and a public speaker
    and model who motivates and inspires all types of groups especially
    children with over 19 years of experience, in New York City,
    Massachusetts, and Africa.
    I would like to make you aware of my background and life’s experiences. I was born premature in many ways i shouldn’t be alive but by grace of god i am Alive.
    I was born in refugee camp in Africa in a family of 14 children. I had 8 sisters and 5 brothers. I am a survivor of the 1994
    Rwandan genocide that occurred in my country . People characterize me
    as a strong, driven person who is a role model for youth. Perseverance,
    self-confidence and teamwork were all characteristics developed from
    normal life in a large family. I have been re born by my life’s
    experiences and the wisdom comes from my ancestors.
    I
    have done many things to promote the causes of abused women and
    children worldwide as victim of abuse myself. I survived the domestic
    violence that is epidemic nationwide today and I survived the drugs in
    the fashion industry.
    In
    1994, I moved to the United States and became a fashion, runway model
    in New York City. My fashion agency, VFASHIONS Models, was founded in
    2000.
    I
    became the first African woman to own and operate a high fashion
    modeling agency in U.S. history. while raising child by myself I have
    learned how to deal with adversity and to remain positive. I believe
    that “when you have a positive mindset, you cannot be defeated.” I also
    believe that “whatever comes your way, you must shake it off and move
    forward.”
    I
    would like to come and speak to your group (possibly 10- 30 minutes) to
    motivate them to be positive, to persevere, to stay strong and to
    overcome adversity in their life. I am willing to negotiate with you a
    fee to cover my speaking engagement, my plane flights, my hotel and
    transportation. I would also be willing to do some volunteer work for
    your group in the community as soon as possible. You can reach me by
    phone at (214) 924-9669 or by email at VMUKA@gmail.com www.VMUKA.com www.VFASHIONSkids.com VFASHIONSkids@gmail.com. My
    references are available on request. Thank you for your kind attention.
    With best wishes, V. Muka, C/E/O/ and Founder of VFASHIONS inc.

  • @Kenyaprince
    @Kenyaprince Před 8 lety +5

    I know how to fish...I'm trying to own the pond...RQQ!!!

    • @user-lb4su8tq7g
      @user-lb4su8tq7g Před 7 lety +1

      If you know how to fish then you need to learn how to make profit from what you're catching. AND THEN, eventually, you'll have made an empire(maybe a little lake and a river after that) from "fishing" that you won't need the pond, you'll have an ocean. 😉

    • @Kenyaprince
      @Kenyaprince Před 7 lety

      Yes! I agree!

  • @Womenswell022
    @Womenswell022 Před 5 lety

    How do we know you have got knowledge if you dont share it...

  • @classiql
    @classiql Před 2 lety

    "No dream/want, You might as well push yo chips up to the window. It's over."

  • @brittaneyjames5433
    @brittaneyjames5433 Před 5 lety

    It take a village to raise a child.

  • @louishart1
    @louishart1 Před 3 lety

    Not everyone needs money to be happy.

  • @junebanks4163
    @junebanks4163 Před rokem

    Damn Steve that was too much in one 4 minute video , I can change my whole life based on what you just said

  • @renawilliams4803
    @renawilliams4803 Před 5 lety +2

    HE LIVED IN A CAR FOR 5 YEARS HOMELESS...
    AND HE HAD CHILDREN AND A WIFE.

  • @classiql
    @classiql Před 2 lety

    If they refuse yo didn't have it anyway 😂 😂

  • @vee0427
    @vee0427 Před 4 lety +1

    35 dislikes are from the ppl who doesn't want to ask for help

  • @TheNewRiflemanBob
    @TheNewRiflemanBob Před 7 lety +3

    Talking like a straight up Republican.

  • @onlygodcreates9500
    @onlygodcreates9500 Před 5 lety

    You never had it anyway

  • @anonymous-nn9rb
    @anonymous-nn9rb Před 6 lety +2

    Hope he didn’t read ‘Think and Grow Rich’ and a few other famous books just to repeat what he read in his own words just to sell his book to increase his income.

  • @badgerfishinski6857
    @badgerfishinski6857 Před 7 lety +2

    Steve, your definition of "self made man" is misconstrued. Of course every "self made man" engages others for help along the way. Who says he doesn't. A self made man is simply someone who plots a course for ones' life, pursues it, and then achieves it. Often times it REQUIRES relationship building and making the right connections. It's the self made man who makes the conscious effort to ask others for help, and to be willing to change course to achieve his goals. Hard work alone does not make a self made man. Working smart and with the right people on a "consious" level makes you a self made man. In summary "self made man" does not mean that he does not engage others for help, but it means that he plots a course and takes whatever measure/course to achieve that goal. Consciously building relationships and asking for help along the way is one of the major ingredients that define a self made man. It means quitting a dead end job because it's not leading you to your goal, no matter how hard you are working in that job. It means continuously positioning yourself with the right people in the right situations to get you to your goal. The "self made" is simply the approach you take to achieve your goal, and not let others discourage you from achieving your goals. Being head strong on accomplishing your goal. Avoiding and shaking the negative naysayers while embracing the positive people who will help you along the way. Self made does NOT mean that you never ask people for help. Self made means that you consciously commit to becoming a success, and jump over every speed bump along the way. It means consciously aligning yourself with other successful people along the way that can help you along the way, while ridding yourself of the negative people and things that hold you back. It means constantly asking yourself if that person you are dealing with is going to help you achieve your goal or hold you back. It means having the courage to dump those people who are holding you back, while embracing those people who will help you achieve your goal It means having the courage to leave a relationship that is dragging your down, and finding a relationship that is going to build you up.That's the definition of a self made man.