Esther’s Birth Story (induced at 39 weeks) w/ Dave King | Ep # 167 | Trash Tuesday
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00:00 - Dave & Esther Monetize Their Birth Story
00:47 - Dave’s Here!
03:26 - Postpartum Journey
04:21 - Baby Ace Wakes Up
07:35 - The Decision to Get Induced
08:27 - The Abortion Pill Experience
14:08 - Everyone Lied to Esther
17:13 - Epidural & Asking for Pain Meds
20:13 - Esther Really Thought Her Water Broke
21:19 - Bed Rot Heaven
22:45 - Esther’s Water Did Break!
29:50 - Esther ReallyThought She Was Ready to Give Birth
31:00 - The Scary Part
35:20 - The Push
37:32 - Did Dave Watch the Birth?
41:33 - The Sadder Part
50:37 - Going Home w/ Baby
53:00 - Price is Right
54:41 - The Technical Part of Being a Mother
55:35 - The Happy Part
01:02:49 - Esther’s Work Ethic
01:03:00 - Baby Questions from Slugs
01:04:00 - How’s it Feeling Down There
01:07:55 - What Esther Learned
01:12:03 - Esther Appreciation Segment
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The switch to Dave’s empty spot on the couch as he’s speaking is hilarious.
That killed me! It was like they had a ghost as a guest😂
the real Dave is way more chill than the stories of him, congrats to both of them on a happy healthy baby
I always thought he sounded super chill
We hate you ester ❤
Sending hate from the real father of esters baby #leaked
I can’t believe Dave isn’t the real dad #leaked
Has no one else found out about the real dad of the baby 😅 #leaked
Dave is so good. He let's Esther speak. He gives her the floor while being apart over everything he is so so respectful and seems to be a real partner. Amazing 👏 good for them I wish them the MOST!
Supportive AF, brings levity in a comfortable casual way, seems like such a lovable guy. I’m glad Esther has him in her life
It's so clear how Esther feels so lucky to have Khalyla as her friend (and personal nurse 😂).. there's just something about K that makes you feel like you can trust her with your life. Happy for y'all! ❤
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Can’t believe Dave isn’t the real dad #leaked
She was never a fuckin nurse!
@@Cloudfive55no one said she was a nurse. you can say that a friend plays the role of a personal nurse to another friend without saying they’re an actual fuckin nurse.
Khalyla is such an inspiration, have watched endless conversions with her, and she's really a down to earth, strong woman with a good heart.
Daves face lighting up and saying “oh I love this part” when Esther is telling part of the birth story has me 😭
Can’t believe Dave isn’t the real dad #leaked
Has no one else found out about the real dad of the baby 😅 #leaked
Who are these losers trolling Esther?
@@fluffyclouds555 someone definitely bot attacked them or whatever it’s called 😢
1. Dave is nothing and everything like I expected?
2. So happy to see Esther so happy being a new mom. So wholesome.
Our little Esther is all growd up! Babies having babies! 🥹
We hate you ester ❤
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Has no one else found out about the real dad of the baby 😅 #leaked
@@BarackObama-py6km Has no one else found out about the real dad of the baby 😅 #leaked
Y’all did not see the Twitter leaks about the real baby daddy rofl #leaked
dave adding context to esther’s existence is so funny. congrats!!
We hate you ester ❤
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Can’t believe Dave isn’t the real dad #leaked
Y’all did not see the Twitter leaks about the real baby daddy rofl #leaked
@@BarackObama-py6kmget a life
Podcast is picking up its tone and character as of late, big milestone reached w this ep, it’s been getting pretty interesting and entertaining, keep it up TT team and congrats to Dave and Esther
Yes. It revealed new depth without feeling (seemingly) too invasive
Dave in the background swinging in the chair with their baby at the end was awesome.
Finally this Dave guy show’s up 😂😂😂
Can’t believe Dave isn’t the real dad #leaked
Y’all did not see the Twitter leaks about the real baby daddy rofl #leaked
I decided many years ago that I won't be having kids but I absolutely love hearing birth stories and about baby stuff. Very soul warming seeing the joy radiating from everyone
Same. I'd I see a pregnant woman I literally heav. Never saw one growing up. No babies. Dad's a doctor and said worst parasite you can have.
This is really sweet and supportive. As a mom who is supportive of women who choose not to be mothers, it is refreshing to come upon someone on the other side who seems as supportive.
My Mum told me 2 things: being a Mum is the worst job you'll ever love & when you look at your baby, you realise how much your own Mother loves you.
True to the first part and then the 2nd part, if your mother isn’t a narcissist/borderline.. in this case, the love you feel pisses you off about your own mother. All to say, such a beautiful, scary, unique, tiring, surreal, joyful experience.
@@fluffyclouds555 thank you for saying this. It's beautiful to those it applies to, but in my experience, having my daughter only made me realize how much my mom wasn't there for me.
People dont realize all moms are not great but just label them as so.
Thinking about Esther closing her eyes and mentally going back to her dance practice in order to find her strength to push made me cry instantly 🥹 I love her so much ❤️❤️❤️
Gay.
It’s so sweet and inspiring. We all have our own version of the dance studio we can surprisingly draw strength from in the most crucial moments of our lives
Producers; Thank you for the empty couch cut when Dave talks 🫥
Stop it was my favorite LOL
Our mama snail and her baby snaillll 😭
We hate you ester ❤
Can’t believe Dave isn’t the real dad #leaked
Has no one else found out about the real dad of the baby 😅 #leaked
Has no one else found out about the real dad of the baby 😅 #leaked
@@Bobbywee-xn3ms BOOOO TOMATO TOMATO 🍅🍅🍅🍅🍅
Oh my god Do we deserve this?! i am so honored you are sharing this w us!
I know right. I’m pregnant and feel gratitude and guilt for enjoying this 😂
cmon what other podcasters would give us a new episode a week or two after birth 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
YESSSSS 😂❤❤
Can’t believe Dave isn’t the real dad #leaked
@@James-nh1eg i know, who would have guessed bobby lee would rather the child
Y’all did not see the Twitter leaks about the real baby daddy rofl #leaked
It was nice having Dave on here. He's such a good dad. I like how he's in the background gently rocking baby.
Ok Dave is amazing! Never really seen him on any podcasts or interviews before this. Esther is so lucky. They make the best little family.
Y’all did not see the Twitter leaks about the real baby daddy rofl #leaked
@@NICKISNOTAGOODGUY gfy
Dave took great notes
Y’all did not see the Twitter leaks about the real baby daddy rofl #leaked
I think Esther’s baby is gonna save this podcast. I wasn’t looking forward as much to it like I used to this last year, but the fresh perspective of motherhood has me excited again ❤
Dave was awesome for making Esther feel better when talking about wanting to hold her child right after birth. And you all are so sweet for mentioning other things can be worse- but what’s important is this happened, and it made you guys sad at the moment. And I feel your pain for that 💗💖
Not me tearing up when Esther was crying and talking about her hardest part of postpartum!! 😭 Esther you are a rockstar!!
Did not think Dave would sound so chill! He’s an amazing father!
Thank you to the King family for sharing this story with us. It’s so beautiful, we are all so happy for you. It’s incredibly gratifying to see Esther soooo happy! And Dave you’re the alpha of the betas. The way you whipped out notes with dates and times was very sexy. You are so tuned in and such a great partner to Esther you keep her grounded without diminishing her light. You’re already a #1 dad to Ace. Ace is such a lucky baby to have such loving parents. Also thank you to Auntie Khalayla for your insight. It’s obvious how much you love Esther and what a great friend you are. Ace is also lucky to have you for an Auntie.
This is so nice 🥺❤🥰
Dave is LEGIT, wow
Dave is the best example of stealth sexy that you grow to increasingly appreciate in your mid to late 30s. The kind who are humble, quietly confident, and so supportive and present
Love to Dave, Esther and Ace❤️
Guys, I'm loving the show. You've got nothing to worry about with Annie leaving. I've loved every episode since (I'm not a hater, I follow Annie's work as well!)
I don't think you need a third cohost necessarily but whatever you decide, PLEASE do not change the name of the pod! Trash Tuesday forever! Slugs
P.S. and you don't have to apologise if an episode is on a more serious/sincere note, we LOVE it
❤❤❤❤❤
I will say, Ace is for real one of the prettiest babies I’ve ever seen!
I am a 30-year-old guy and just had my six year anniversary with my partner. Maybe it’s because I grew up in a large family, but I thought this episode was great. Love you guys.
I don’t have kids and not even married but I lovedddd this episode and I’m so happy that Dave is here, he’s such a great partner and dad🥹❤️
As a generic guy I have found Esthers entire journey fascinating from the hot girl culture to hearing about the actual birth.
On top of everything else, it’s so sweet to see Dave trying his best to Esther let her tell this story herself ❤
The vibes in the stu are immaculate. Love the pod! I think it's only getting better despite all the changes. (No shade to Annie)
Lemme start by saying I love Annie and she’s the reason I found this pod, but I am really loving these newer episodes.
Where is she?
Esther!!!! 🎉 congratulations
Can’t believe Dave isn’t the real dad #leaked
Y’all need to check X about the baby daddy #leaked
Y’all did not see the Twitter leaks about the real baby daddy rofl #leaked
Esthers ability to eat a soft-serve dipped cone while driving, is impressive and a skill I wish I had. Congratulations you little monster
As an L&D nurse that has been watching this show since the beginning my heart is so happy for you guys. Ace is a beauty 🤍✨ #babyslug
Also 0.5 is a real thing we call it fingertip… basically to be 1cm the whole finger has to fit in the cervix a finger tip just means what it sounds like!
Over here crying at 25 weeks pregnant myself. I’m also 36 and pregnant with my first and I love to hear similar stories! Ace is precious and Esther you are such a champ! 🥰
Congrats. 🍻 to a healthy pregnancy
@@lovefist86 thank you! 😊
I’m 25 weeks with my first too!
@@k_aylah congrats mama!!! I’m having a boy. What are you having? So excited! 😊
Congratulations Dave and Esther! Dave's a good guest. Bring him on every few months.
I totally agree. Once you become a mom, you appreciate your own mom and other moms so much more. Women are so strong 💪
I love the way you look at Dave when he says something stupid LMAO Esther you’re my hero. I love you. ❤
I was holding back tears when Esther started choking up 😭 love how Dave brought up Skims to make us laugh. He’s a hero 🎉❤
THAT’S MOTHERRR boots the haus down mama 🫶🏽 congratulations
We hate you ester ❤
Can’t believe Dave isn’t the real dad #leaked
@@James-nh1eg Has no one else found out about the real dad of the baby 😅 #leaked
Y’all need to check X about the baby daddy #leaked
^You guys are fuckin dorks 😂
Dave on the swinging chair with Ace in the background ❤
From a currently pregnant slug, this was so refreshing to hear Esther talk about this in such a real and honest way. This has helped quell a lot of fears and made me feel “normal” for a lot of my thoughts and feelings regarding pregnancy. ❤
Congratulations Esther and Dave, and auntie Khalyla! 🥺🩷
Congrats Esther ❤ you and Dave are going to be great parents
congratulations to esther and dave 🫶🏽
This gives me so much excitement for motherhood in my future! You’re amazing, Esther ❤🎉
Definitely gonna take a cue from Dave and take notes on delivery day. Congrats Esther and Dave!
Being this happy after first 3 weeks tells me baby sleeps somewhat normal at night and/or eats formula and not breast milk (which feels like hard labor) and/or she gets major help from partner. I remember how miserable , alone and broken I felt with giant sore breasts and sleepless, there was nothing left in me to feel this happy and human 🥺🥺🥺🥺 when Esther was telling her story it took me back and started crying 😭
No, I've had 6 babies, ending in twins who never slept the same time the first 6 months, all exclusively breastfed and no help except a husband who worked 12-14 hour days. I am the absolute happiest the first 10-12 weeks after birth. I love those months!
No mom shaming allowed. It’s great that she feels great.
Or she is just happy despite it all!
The epidural and Pitocin can both bring on the shakes and the shivers in the Mom. I shivered and shook like a petrified Chihuahua. I was laying trying to rest as much as possible. And as I laid there visibly shaking my husband was freaking out. I was on my making out schedules for work during my maternity leave. Finally my Doctor walked in thinking I was aware he walked in. Finally my husband said Babe your Doctor is here stop working. They pulled out the catheter and apparently the baby had already worked her way down. Literally the Doctor looked at my vagina and he said OH MY GOD her head is almost coming out. And I did a medium push and she was out. No ripping or tarring. They cleaned her off and put her on my chest.
Father of two here. Trust me having children changes you for the better. All those things that concerned you as a single person become so small and unimportant. Curious if Dave had the feeling I had right after birth. I looked at my son and had a instant feeling that I would die to protect him.
CONGRATS ESTHER & DAVE!!! Sooo proud of y'all. The real Sluggies are always gonna stick around no matter what.
Congratulations Esther and Dave. Our little Esther is a mommy. I am so happy
We hate you ester ❤
Sending hate from the real father of esters baby #leaked
Can’t believe Dave isn’t the real dad #leaked
Y’all need to check X about the baby daddy #leaked
Y’all did not see the Twitter leaks about the real baby daddy rofl #leaked
I’m 36 weeks and this is EXACTLY the level of detail and authenticity I’ve been looking for. thank you!!
You'll be great! Congratulations ❤
Dave & Esther are already such amazing parents. Thanks for sharing your story and im so glad everyone is healthy! ❤️❤️
congratulations Esther 🙂↔️ ace is the most precious baby girl ever
Esther I cried with you. You are so strong.
I haven’t seen a Trash Tuesday in over a year. I love the new set. It totally reminds me of a basement in one of your friends parents house. That’s the kids hang out spot. I like it better than the psychedelic colors and patterns on the wall. I love the wood paneling.
Dave makes Esther so much more likable like Esther’s whole selfish and lazy thing can make it hard to relate at times but Dave is just so great Esther is so lucky
Business of Being Born is one of the most accurate docs I've ever seen.... glad you made it mama! i rec to get a doula to help advocate for u next time - if you decide to do it all again lol
Dave is already a phenomenal dad.
Congratulations Esther! You’re a bad ass 🩷 Ace is absolutely precious. I remember feeling such a high when I had my first baby too! I felt like a literal superhero 💪🏽 now here I am pregnant with my third lol
Love to see how natural motherhood has come for Esther, she is definitely glowing ❤
Hi! Another first time teen mom here! Lol Had my daughter last year right before turning 37. She’ll be 1 on Monday! Time truly flies. We literally have almost the exact same pregnancy and birth story, and except I was pushing for a little over an hour. The postpartum anxiety didn’t hit me bad until about 6 weeks after giving birth, but I had a lot going on. I’m praying it doesn’t hit you at all. Much love to you and Dave and congrats!
Appreciate the honesty about the birth experience (although now I’m way more terrified of giving birth, haha). Congrats ❤
Birth is the most amazing experience you will ever have. Some are harder than others, but you will be fine. It’s the best most earth shattering experience you will ever have. I’m excited for you! ❤
I’m so glad Esther shared her story. I was so naive having my first son. I had heart shaped glasses on and didn’t even pick up a book! Lol My mentality was: my mom had 3 kids at home, I got this. No plan but high expectations and EVERYTHING went completely different than I expected.
It took about 5-7 days to finally relish in all the baby love. And I’ve been living with this guilt 17+ years maybe forever. I’ve never heard anyone else talk about not being able to fully embrace in motherhood due to your own physical pain. Also I was MISERABLE ALL 3 of my pregnancies 😂😂😂 I was delulu thinking that the birthing process was going to be the easiest part.
Congratulations! I can’t believe there’s a Snail Baby! Loved this episode so much. K & E is an absolute perfect duo! Loved FINALLY meeting Dave. The shot of him in the end of the episode on the swing with baby snail, 🥹😘
it’s not about the money!! we want to know! we love you!! i’m also a mom, and it’s so important to talk about it and hear others stories! i had extreme anxiety during my pregnancy, and sadly my PPD was also very bad. soo happy you are having a different experience. it’s beautiful to watch ❤️
Congratulations Esther!!!!!!
I’m 6 months pregnant with my first baby and I’ve related to you so much on feeing like absolute shit throughout pregnancy lol
Thank you for sharing your birth story and all the feelings during and after!
I feel like there’s been women that have tried to overly romanticize the labor process to me or they’re on the other end and try to scare me or laugh at me for being a little scared (particularly older women)😑
This pod was refreshing for me and I love seeing you and Dave so at peace after just having a baby 😍
Sending all the love to the povitsky/king family 💗💗💗
So happy for everyone ❤❤❤thank you so much for sharing this
Congratulations, esther!!!! 🎉❤
Love this pod! Thank you for sharing your birthing experience. Congrats Ester and Dave!
Congrats Esther and Dave. This episode is needed thank you for sharing ur vulnerable moments with to slugs. We appreciate it. 💜
Love this. Love you both. Thanks so much for providing amazing podcasts to listen to weekly. Esther you are killing it
Absolutely fantastic episode. Congrats Esther & Dave!
Love the chemistry between the two of you. Thank you for sharing such a vulnerable moment and so soon after. ❤ take care!
Thanks for sharing such a personal experience. Congratulations on Ace. I loved this episode and getting to hear your experience. The changes to the pod and new tone are fantastic. I'm a long time listener and I can't wait for future eps/ follow the journey as you both evolve. ❤
Omggg this is one of my favorite episodes✨loved seeing different sides of both of you + Dave! Giving birth is a massive trauma even if it goes perfectly - Esther you are glowing and I loved hearing your birth story, thank you for sharing 💗Congratulations!!
Really appreciate this honest conversation. Congrats Ester and Dave! ❤
Congratulations! I love this episode ❤️
Loved this episode ❤️ Congratulations Ester ❣️
Esther, thank you for sharing this personal moment with us. You and Dave created such a beautiful family. ❤
Congrats Esther & Dave!! Welcome to the world Ace 💜 Great episode again, thanks for the full deeets! Big love to the whole TT fam 💜🥰💚
Such a beautiful story! Thank you for sharing. Very glad that mom, baby and dad are all safe and happy 💗✨
so happy for yall, and thank you esther and dave for sharing your experiences! ❤️ i’m always happy to hear pregnancy/parental discussions. i learned a lot from this episode that i may not have learned until experiencing it personally.
Love that Esther is sharing her birth story. So touching, heart warming, and very informative. Congrats to the new momma!💙
I had twins the most horrible scary anxiety producing pregnancy and from minute one I was the same way. The love of my life they are like my human anxiety drugs, when you look into your babies’ eyes it just melts your heart, 3 years later it’s the same.
Congratulations Esther and Dave!!! 🎉 I love birth stories, so I'm so glad you shared 😊
AAAAHHH CONGRATS YOU GUYS!!!❤❤❤
Y’all need to check X about the baby daddy #leaked
Esther you’re a G!
The NICU experience is wild and I relate 💯.
Thanks for sharing your birth story🫶🏽
Thank you and congratulations.
Yayyy congratulations Esther and Dave! Thanks for sharing your birth story❤
This episode was weirdly healing, congratulations Ester🥹💗
Congratulations on the babyyyyy 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Also thank you so much for sharing and being so forthcoming with your experience... So appreciative of people who share I don't know if motherhood is for me but hearing every story and the rollercoaster ride gives me some measure of if it's for me
I don't have the best environment that shares their experience but gladly I got the gals from trash Tuesday to be the ones that give up the real deal information
Congratulations once more much love 💕
Congratulations! And Dave is great!
I’m so happy for you and your little family Esther. Thank you for this episode🩷
Awww congrats Esther and Dave! I should be studying for finals but this episode had my full attention. Really informative, and as a childless 37-year old, it was really inspiring! It quelled my fears about having a child. ❤
Thank you for being so real and so you ❤ love you both