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this has taken us a long time to be ready to talk about in detail, but we're so blessed and grateful for the outcome. if you're comfortable, let us know your birth story in the comments 🤍
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Our birth story was also a very traumatic event and it took me also a very long time before I felt comfortable talking about it. One feels so 'robbed of the happy event you imagined it would be'.
So me and hubby fell pregnant with twins. At 32 weeks I was dilated 1cm and therefore admitted to hospital for observation and getting meds to try and stop the process. One evening as I was bringing a glass of water to mouth, a nurse rushed in and told me "don't drink that water, you are giving birth ASAP". Bloodwork showed I had pre-eclampsia and had to get an emergency c-section. Immediately I was transferred to another hospital (due to their very good neonatal ICU). SO within the hour I was rolled into a theatre (in the other hospital). I was overwhelmed with the amount of medical staff (a medical team for me, as well as a team for each one of the twins). This is where I went into shock, everything was happening so fast. So, I got the c-section, twins was born, I barely saw them before they were rushed to the NICU (my husband going with them). Doctor started to close me up, and here I started get vary sleepy, I just want to pass out, and everybody tries to keep me awake. Ok, sowed up, wheeled to recovery, doctor goes to family to report. Doctor comes back to check up on me, and this is when sh*t got real. Also same story, uterus didn't contract and I am laying in a pool of blood. Doctor starts massaging uterus (one hand inside, other hand on top) ON TOP OF THE C-SECTION I just had! (spinal block was working out, and I started to feel everything). That hurt like a b***tch. Doctor said she was vary sorry, but she has no other choice. At this point my husband was freaking out (he saw the doctor standing in a pool of my blood and trying to save my life, and in another part the hospital our two vary small babies are also connected to machines) I went in and out of consciousness several times from the pain. After hours of struggling, bleeding stopped, but instead of going to the maternity ward I was send to the ICU as I had to receive several units of blood. SO put on morphine for the pain and drama over right? No! Within the next 24 hours I contracted an infection and had a terrible fever. So more days in ICU with antibiotics to fight the infection. After a few more days, I was taken to see the twins for the first time. Seeing those small babies broke my heart. I felt this extreme guilt that my body failed them. But, long story short, after 6 weeks they were discharged from hospital and today they are perfect, 100% healthy 13 year olds.
I def started crying when Tricia started to cry. Tricia, you are SO STRONG. Birth is no joke and you and Kam are GREAT parents already. Thank God you ended up clotting 🙌🏽.
Same !!! 😢
Yess
Me too 😢
But she chose to do it
Kam is such a great provider, supporter, great communicator, and such a good husband and father to tricia and Kylah. I love how he puts tricia before everything and how he communicates telling all what happened! So calm, cool, and collected having gone through everything they went through!
He's a boyfriend not a husband
Love you guys god got you this make mi cry
@@jessicajohnson8378 he is a husband the moment they had sex that was his wife you have to get away from the modern day government contract bs
@@jessicajohnson8378the only difference is a government piece of paper 😂 how miserable you must be to nitpick a thoughtful comment.
You are a strong momma Tricia. When I was pregnant with my second child, my son. The last week so of my pregnancy I couldn't feel him move any more. I told my partner that I don't feel the baby kicking or turning anymore. A week before my due date I was feeling slight contractions but not enough to put me in labor. It felt like slight menstrual pains nothing serious. This went on for a while. I called my doctor and he said to come to the hospital that they will monitor the contractions and the baby's heartbeat. After a couple of hours went by they were still not strong enough. I started walking up and down just to see if that would help but nothing. It was almost night time and still no strong contractions. They put the thing on my belly to monitor the baby heartbeat but could not find it. They pushed and shook my belly still nothing. I could hear them talking to each other about not finding it and what they were gonna do. My partner was sweating in panick and I was so worried about my baby. Then an older nurse came and she literally lifted the baby inside my belly (she pushed her hands in the sides of my belly and lifted and shook him). It hurt but then we could finally see the baby's heartbeat on the monitor. Because the contractions were still not strong enough after so many hours they said that they would give me something to make them stronger. My water didn't break fully by itself. It was just dripping small bits of fluid. So they broke it with that thing that looked like a hooking needle. And in minutes the pain started getting worse and the baby was coming. While I was pushing the nurse told me to stop. Because the umbilical cord was wrapped around his neck and would get tighter if I pushed. She put het hand between his neck and the cord so it would not choke him. It was almost impossible to just stop pushing in the middle of having strong contractions. She removed it from his neck and told me I could push again. When he was born they had to put him in a box for oxygen and light because he was a little yellow and you could hear fluid on his lungs because he stayed in my belly so long before they got him out.
Now he is 3 years old with no problems at all and just being a boy 😅.
It was the most traumatic and wonderful day of my life. I love him so much
As I'm reading this comment, I'm also panicking hoping you both will be OK and I'm so happy that he's grown up and healthy 🤗😍
I was having goosebumps while reading your story, I'm so happy for you❤
@@TebohoandAsithandile me too, I honestly was ready for a horrific ending but praying and trusting God for happy ending. Wow! God is just awesome.
My 1 born was still born and was already dead 2 weeks in my tummy I was in shocked the heart stop the doctor say when they look the umbilical cord was wrapped so tight around my First Born he was a son. It was the worsted experience I face. One year I grief then 2 year I fall pregnant and I checked each month 3 times a week the bay on scan. And doctor always tell me this one will be alive and today he is 10 years old ❤❤❤❤
@@abitofeverything21 the same happened to me but my baby boy was 12 days dead, couldn't believe it. Was so hard for me to handle but that was a few years ago like 4years
The same thing happened to me when i gave birth to my son. I remember how the Dr's and nurses were running round, one nurse started weeping so Bad, aDr Steenkamp was called from home, he came in and that man saved my life. My sister told me she came into the ward it looked like a cow has just been slaughtered blood was dripping to the floor from underneath my bed. My son is 38now with 3 grandchildren I am blessed. Thank God for saving your life Tricia. Kam God bless you.
Sending hugs to all mother's in the comment section who passed through this and survived may God continue blessing you Tricia and Kam for sharing your story to us because we're many who passed through this
I started crying when Tricia started crying! 😢 the whole process of labor and delivery is scary but thank God everything got resolved and Tricia and baby Kylah are healthy. Props to Kam for acting like a husband and think about Tricia’s well-being under pressure.
Same... I couldn't hold my tears
Same I cried as well , I was scared and nervous bout giving birth to my baby boy because I lost a friend when gave birth to her baby but my doctor had talks with me and when I was giving birth everything turned out great I did lose some blood but they gave me some to put in my body
I’ve had 2 traumatic births and they are the reason I don’t want any more kids. Thank you for sharing your story. Your story is your story you don’t have to say there is worse stories. Your feelings are valid ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Same
If you do want more kids would you adopt?
If you change about wanting more kids, you could always adopt or use a surrogate!!
@@michaelamitchell1603 most likely! ☺️
Two kids is just fine💕
Tricia is so strong … This is one of the toughest pregnancies I’ve witnessed a CZcams couple go through. I’m so glad she’s okay and kylah is here ,healthy and beautiful. Not forgetting kam for being so supportive ❤
Juju and destiny went through hell during their pregnancy should check their story out
@@DonnaStone-84 I know
It’s why I said
“One of the toughest “ they are both strong women
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@@DonnaStone-84what’s the comparison for? we’re not on who ever that couple is youtube move along!
@@user-wr7st1gx7h ok?
First let me say, thank you for being brave enough to share this story. You are right, it happens way more than it's ever talked about. And it's so scary. I am so sorry you went through that. Second, you are both so strong for different reasons. Tricia you made it through a life or death situation. And Kam, you checked to make sure she was okay. Most men don't think like that honestly. I know Kylah is worth it all ten times over. But it's still a traumatizing experience. And I'm glad to see that you are working through those feelings and emotions in such a healthy way. I had tears running down my cheeks as you were talking Tricia, because I'm a mom and I know how scary it can be. I was 19 years old when I had my twins via c-section, and one of them wasn't breathing when he was born. I felt so helpless because I couldn't get up and help him. And I was so traumatized. Make sure you keep talking about it and processing it in a healthy way. Those negative feelings can sneak up when you least expect them, so processing is the best thing you can do. Maybe talk to your obgyn and get information about why it could have happened. I honestly believe education can help everything. But you guys are amazing! Tricia you are such a strong woman and I respect you so much! And you have such a beautiful baby girl! I hope you keep sharing her as she grows... Lol I'm invested now 😂 love you guys❤❤❤
Child birth is no joke and I’m so glad that all of you made it through ❤ and Kam don’t get a lot of recognition for being a wonderful man to Tricia. She submits to him taken lead and provides emotional support as well as actually listening to her. Nice team you got there❤
I couldn’t stop crying Tricia you are so strong I’m so grateful you’re ok we are all here for you and you’re so brave 💖🙏🏽
Tricia is such a warrior, she is so strong. Love her❤️❤️🥺 Wish she heals fully.
Thank you for talking about this, I feel like social media can glorify pregnancy but you are really risking your life each time. Postpartum hemorrhage is so scary and the fact that it happens after your baby has arrived safely is so scary as well . So glad you are ok Trish, thanks for sharing 🤍✨
the way he looks at you and your baby is so incredible, i love seeing a man who cherishes the women in his life like that. you are such a beautiful and strong mom!
🥺🥺🥺 when Tricia explained the hard part for her, I cried with her , big hugs girlie 🥺🩷🫂.
Mad respect for all women especially mothers !!!!! Maaddd respect
This made me cry , I’m 34 and have 3 kiddos one was a c section he’s happy and healthy almost 2 years old now and I went through the same thing as you I won’t go into detail but it’s beautiful how raw and honest y’all are so thank you :) also my last little one is 8 months old and I had her natural so very delivery with your kiddos will be different , love y’all
The moment Tricia started crying hurt me🥺🥺🥺... U are a strong woman Tricia... Cameron is amazing... Being so calm despite being tensed just to make Tricia calm... U both are amazing 💯💯💯
I felt the emotions from this video, when Tricia started crying telling her story she had tears coming out of my eyes. You had every right to not want to share this story right away but thank you so much for sharing your birth story. Kam is so supportive and it’s amazing that he kept Tricia in mind and was worried about her. I’m so glad you and the baby came out of this experience healthy! I love you guys and Tricia you are so strong and are just such an amazing person ❤
Tricia you handled the whole situation like a champ, the whole TK family is here for you both 💗
I just want to give her a hug when she started crying. I remember that feeling when I had post partum bleeding a week after giving birth to my daughter and it was extremely scary. You are strong momma! I’ve been there too. Congratulations to the both of you!
Literally balling my eyes out as Tricia was crying and explaining her thought process at that moment 😢😢 Tricia you're a warrior ❤❤ you're a great mom , thank you so much for going through all this to birth life !
Ugh as soon as she started crying I lost it. I’m so sorry you guys went through that. I’m so glad you both made it through okay. God bless you both
You are so strong, pregnancy and delivery is such a mental battle and postpartum depression is a real thing. And don’t ever feel like you were alone. I went through it with both of my kids. You are such a great mom and Kam you are such a great father
Thank you for being so brave and open and sharing your story with us- we love you so much and are here to support you no matter what ❤️❤️❤️
Both of you guys are amazing and Trish, you're a warrior, no need to explain if it was less than others, it's your story and valid. Kam, you're amazing! You were being a father but most of all of being a husband, you were present in the toughest of times. A huge hug to both and blessings to the three of you ❤.
My mom went through something similar when she had my little sister. I wasn't there because I was 9 at the time but both of my parents told me what had happened. She actully passed out and had to receive blood. Stayed in the hospital for a week and went through the same feeling of guilt for leaving my newborn sister and me behind but she's a tough one and thank God she's still with us ❤ I'm currently 35.
Much love and respect, you guys taking the time to talk about this was inspiring and emotional. Y’all stay Lit!❤
So glad everything turned out okay! Child birth can definitely be traumatic for everyone involved! I had a very different experience but I understand the “final moments” thoughts because I had them too. I nearly died in a very different way and I know how hard it is to talk about! My daughter is currently 8 months old and it’s still a sore spot that makes me emotional so I commend you for talking about it so openly and publicly so soon! Feel free to reach out if you want to hear my birth story or if you want to talk more about yours because it truly takes a village and you are not alone 💕
Wow...I was practically crying the entire time Tricia was narrating this experience ❤God bless all mothers out there. My experience was with a C- section. It was like my heart was been ripped off my chest and I was conscious but unable to move...I just kept praying to God in my heart. Having my baby in my arms eventually made the entire process worth while. Thanks for sharing your experience.
I'm so happy you and Kylah made it through everything and are happy and healthy! I'm 4 weeks postpartum as a first time mother, and my birth experience was traumatic for me as well. Your family is beautiful and I know exactly what you mean, when you say seeing and holding your baby makes it all worth it in the end!
This video was so emotional to watch❤ you guys are so strong for sharing this part of your story! So glad everything ended up okay!
Tricia was made to be a mom, hearing her talk, she carries herself like a mom! God bless you guys and your journey! Kylah is a miracle baby - she has purpose and gonna be such a blessing to everyone she encounters. Being a Christian, this is not by accident, even though everything was chaos, we may not understand whats going on in the moment and can be scary, but God works out everything for good! You guys are a beautiful family with so much love, so happy for you guys! love yall!
I love how transparent and genuine you two are!! Congratulations on your bundle of joy and I’m so glad you are ok ❤❤
I never heard of someone having such a similar birth story to me. The same thing happened to me with my first birth. Please know my other births after were so smooth and perfect that every labor and delivery will be different. You are such a strong woman and Kam you’re so strong for supporting her through it all. Congratulations ❤️
Same exact thing happened to me with my first birth. It was very traumatic that I started to look in to using a surrogate for our other 2 embryos. (We did IVF and I also have a gestational blood disorder) Ended up not using a surrogate for my 2nd baby and the birth could not have been more different. It was absolutely amazing! So I hope that encourages you for the future!
I’m over here ballin’ … Omgosh I’m so so thankful you overcame that Tricia. I can’t even imagine what that was like.
Thank you for sharing such a traumatic experience with us because you really didn’t have to. Kam you are truly a rock for making sure you know what was going on during & after delivery.
I have 4 kids. After I had my first daughter, my blood pressure shot up to the point where they had to take me to the ER. I was completely out of it for sometime.. I had the worst migraine ever, I felt so weird & I was very weak. My breathing was off and I literally thought I wasn’t going to make it. I prayed and told God I didn’t think He would bless me with a daughter and have me die without seeing her grow up. I was terrified! Thankfully, after some time, my pressure went back to normal and I was good to go. My daughter will be 14 this July! 😊♥️
Wooow!!! God is good!!! Thank God for keeping u!!! Always give him thanks for this for the rest of ur life
Our birth story was similar except our baby was 8 weeks early and struggling to breath and they rushed her out of the room to the NICU. I was hysterically crying and being stitched up. They’re giving me meds and everyone seems in a panic. My poor husband didn’t know what to do. I yelled at him to go with the baby. It was the scariest day of our lives. She stayed in the hospital for a month because she just couldn’t swallow and breath without choking. After a month she came home and it was the most amazing day we could have imagined. She is our only baby and she’s now 20 yrs old. It honestly traumatized my husband and we agreed to just have one child. The thought of that happening again was more than he could handle.
protect this man 😊the way he describes n story tells is amazing yu can tell how present n in love he is, God bless this fam☀️
You guys are so strong and know we are here for you guys! Thank you for sharing your story. This was definitely so emotional and I started to cry when Tricia started to cry. Love you guys!
We're here for you no matter what you
and your family
Tricia you handled the whole situation
like a champ, the whole TK family is
here for you both 💗
Thank you Tricia and Kam for sharing your story. Don't be afraid of judgment. I will definitely be keeping this in mind for my future. You're both so strong!
I’m so sorry you went through that, I cried as you were telling your story 😢 I am so glad mommy and baby are healthy and safe and good job daddy for taking care of your girls’ best interests always ❤
This post was worth the wait, post partum I’d tough and I’m sending you all the love. Well done Tricia and Kam, God is faithful!!
I have 6 kids and I’m pregnant with my last. I have had several traumatic births and I would do it all over again. Too long to write my birth stories but you are strong and you did amazing and cam did amazing as well. Y’all are the best couple and parents I’ve seen in a long time.
Thank you for sharing! There are so many unexpected things that can happen during pregnancy and labor/delivery. You just never know what to expect. Baby and momma go through so much. It is all worth it in the end. Love you all! ❤❤
You have NOOO right to have to keep everyone updated on your personal life 💜💜 you guys did amazing with the circumstances and your daughter is beautiful and so glad you are alive today! 🥰
I have never commented on any CZcams couple's video, but this one right here, makes the whole difference.
Tricia, you're a strong, beautiful and emotional woman, and I'm happy you have a loving and caring man like Kam beside you.
I hope and pray your daughter be the last piece of the puzzle that completes the whole picture for you guys♥️♥️♥️
Lawd I’m here bawling! I had an emergency c-section last year. So all those fears and thoughts went through my mind too. Pregnancy and labor&delivery is really life and death. After going through it myself I have such an immense respect for mothers. So glad you’re ok Tricia!
Yes same here emergency C-SECTION FOR Placenta rupture
Your story is yours and Kam alone. This CZcams Aunty is proud! All 3 of my delivery were traumatic: Rush c-section for 1st one, ICU and NICU for the last. All now grown and teens. I'm blessed through the struggle and so are you!❤
Good job Kam for being very proactive and stepping up and advocating on Trisha's behalf. I work in healthcare and I can tell you that these are the things that make the world of a difference.
I have just grown to adore you both more after this raw surreal video. In tears as you were telling us and how scary that truly was for all of you was insane. Kam as a partner soulmate father the respect we have for you has grown so much greater, that is how you love that is how you are there even though you felt like you were helpless you were so much more then that. Tricia’s protector your families protector . You mom raised a good man and I am so happy for the both of you and even more happier that you all are okay and everything worked out. We love you all ~ blessings love ~skyscraper
Tricia you are so very very strong! I admire your strength! I appreciate you so much for sharing this with us because you didn’t have to. You are a total bad ass! Kam, Kam, Kam, Kam…you my brother are definitely being amazing! The way you love Tricia, and care for her, and the the attention you show is nothing short of phenomenal! Truly one of a kind and I appreciate YOU for being a man and stepping and showing her that you are ALWAYS there for her no matter what! A lot of guys out here could definitively learn from you! Really we could all learn from you both! And to be at your age , you guys know better and are better better than most people 20 & 30 years older! Literally cried while watching and currently boo hooing right now ! So glad everything worked out for the two of you and that baby girl, Ms Kylah Skye is so strong and healthy! She’s beautiful! I’ve said it before and I’ll keep saying it! I love you guys so so so so much and i am grateful to be part of this family. The TKFamily! ❤
I just wanted to tell you know that you guys are very strong and well done because I know it wasn’t easy to share your story❤ it’s also part of the healing process and your story.I’m grateful to God that you are doing well and alive and with your new blessings your daughter. ❤️❤️❤️
Good job Tricia for staying strong and kam for staying strong, being so supportive, and making sure that you had Tricia’s back.
I love how they constantly give each other their flowers. Congratulations on Kylah she’s absolutely beautiful 🥳.Some men truly don’t understand some of the hardships pregnant women go through
I am 42 and a mother of 8! I was a young mom, but every pregnancy and deliery has been different. I had a couple really scary dekieveries and pregnancies. I am so happy that both mom and baby are both healthy and happy and home! Y'all have such a beautiful family! Congratulations to you both🙏🏽🩷
This story had me feeling everything you guys felt even though I’ve never experienced being pregnant. It’s just the fact knowing that something can go wrong and all you want to do is be with the people you love….
Tricia you are so so strong. I’ve gained so much respect for Kam, knowing how he worried solely on his wife. I just love you guys and your little family. I’m so sorry pregnancy was as tough as it was but you guys came out of it warriors, honestly. And now you have babygirl🤍
So sorry you guys had to go through all that, but I’m so glad of the outcome. What a blessing! Thanks for sharing this with us.❤
Appreciate y’all ❤️May the lord continue to strengthen your bond
Kam is amazing honestly... The care is IRREPLACEABLE 💯💯💯
This teared me up brings back so many memories. When I had my daughter (now 14) I under went emergency c section because her heartbeat was dropping. Doctor's refused to do anything and was going to send me home until I freaked, I knew something was wrong. Fast forward.. I had her via section and was lucky, the surgeon said if I would've waited my baby wouldn't have made it. She was blue, had cord wrapped around her neck, arm and leg. Thankfully she's a healthy teen. Then when I had my son (age 11) during csection my heart stopped. I don't remember much other than nurses telling my ex he needs to leave and seeing a white light. When they finally got me back my head was pounding, and confused to find out later in postpartum that my heart stopped, and they lost me for a bit. I'm blessed every day to be here with my kids. Thank you so much for sharing ur story as not every situation is the same. You're strong girl and happy you all are doing good now. Much love 💕
I’m so sorry for what you both experienced 💔 I hope you continue to heal from what you both experienced. I watched in awe and extremely proud of how you overcame this ❤️ Thank you for sharing and God bless your family 💝
My birth story was almost exactly the same as yours. Only thing different is that my daughter was born not breathing and I was not clotting. I had two doctors and a room full of 10 other people working on me as I was going in and out of consciousness. It all happens so fast and I remember screaming “is my baby okay,” over and over as I watched them scream on the phone and up the hall for the NICU nurse. My mother was in the room and had to catch my husband because he collapsed as he watched them prep me for emergency surgery. Birth can be very traumatic but to this day me and my daughter are happy and healthy. You are so strong and she will look up to you one day as you tell her that story!❤
Girl, I went through the same with my second child. I know how scary that is. Mine wasn’t apparent right away and I ended up passing out going to the bathroom and then the bleeding wouldn’t stop. I had to have a blood transfusion as a result. I’m so glad that they were able to stop it right away. You are a strong woman and great mother and that baby is beautiful 💗
Your channel wound up in my recommended. For some reason, I've never seen you guys before. But I just had to comment. Your intro is so beautiful. You guys did a great job on it!
Watching this was so emotional for me. I was also induced but ended up having a c section and also started hemorrhaging in the recovery room. I tried telling a nurse 3 separate times that something wasn’t right before my boyfriend looked under my blanket and called a nurse so they could actually check on me! I remember having similar thoughts as all the doctors rushed into my room and handed my newborn to my boyfriend and told them they have to leave the room…. Very traumatic for me. I ended up pregnant again within a year and although my second birth was also a c section, it was sooo much smoother so please don’t let this scare you for future pregnancies. They really are all so different. I’m happy Tricia and baby girl are here and healthy and I’m excited to watch you guys as you grow along this new journey ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for being so open about your experience
Love from Nigeria 🇳🇬❤️❤️
As a L&D nurse there is so much that we see & do that people are unaware of. Most deliveries are complicated but patients don’t hear or feel our stress. Delivery is no joke. People sadly still die from complications
As a L&D nurse you'd also know that most of these complications are actually caused by medical providers and induction drugs. Birth when left alone allowing it to progress in a physiological way the way it's intended to progress is extremely protective for both mum and baby.
Rotten health system is also rampant with racism.
We love you all so much. Thank you for sharing such a vulnerable moment with us. And thank you God for protecting this family.
Also - just wanted to say because you guys keep saying “y’all thought Tricia was selfish and going to wait until next week to get induced” - Tricia, in no way would you have been selfish for doing that. Your body is made to do this and God prepared you for it and if you waited to do it when you felt ready then you would still be every bit as incredible and loving of a mom as you are having not waited. Of course I fully respect your choice to have her that night and we’re so excited she’s here, but just wanted to assure you that whatever choice you made would be perfect for you and your baby and you don’t have to justify it to anyone.
She is very beautiful.. Tricia did such a great job in delivering baby girl.. Cam is such a great daddy.. I have a story kinda similar but different, I had twin daughters back in 1996 and I had to have a c-section.. I remember waking up out of recovery to the nurss saying I need help we are going to lose her.. I was hemmorrhaging badly and I immediately started crying for my mom.. The doctor came in and pulled big huge blood clots out of me.. I was pale and week, but long story short they caught it just in time.. Thank you God and my twins are now 26..
Birth trauma comes in any form my labor was 3 hours long and didn’t get an epidural til right at 9cm I was 35 weeks and it all happened so fast and I wasn’t prepared. Tricia please remember it’s okay to not be okay! Post partum is hard sending you guys so much love enjoy this time because you will miss it so so much ❤️
I also had a precipitous labor 💕 hugs
Same with my birth!
Mine was 50 hours long before emergency c section 😢
@@stephanygonzalez5802 I had an emergency C-section too. It was so scary. 😢
Bring life into this world is both amazing and nerve wracking. I’m so glad you all are okay and we’ll to share your experience ❤ God bless you guys.
I started crying too when you cried, i went through the exact same situation with my baby boy. You’re very strong than you think Tricia because a lot of women don’t make it out of there but you did so proud of both of you ❤❤
Thank you for opening up. Tricia’s shaking her leg, she’s really anxious. Glad to welcome baby Kylah into this world. 💜
My sister almost bled out on her second kid. It was beyond scary. So I know what your feeling. But don't be discouraged, she has four kids in total now. You'll have more blessings. You guys deserve more. You are such beautiful people.
An extremely similar situation happened with me! I could feel exactly what you were saying. When I got the vitamin k shot in my leg, I was also hyper focused on my baby & just trying to role play in my head what would come next. I thought they would take my son away from me & roll me away for a blood transfusion. I was calm but also really scared. I also get super emotional when I tell our story, and he just turned 2! Thank God our bodies clotted properly and we're both here to be moms to our babies!! 🥹 Big hugs!!
Y’all about to make me cry over here God is just simply amazing the love you guys have for each other is so beautiful wishing you guys nothing but the best days ahead 🫶🏽💪🏾❤️😊🙏🏾
You guys are so brave. So kind hearted to share what you’ve experienced. This is your story! And you own it. Every part. No one can tell you any different and you don’t let them! Tricia & Kam you have a beautiful love story, keep growing , keep loving each other now with your beautiful baby girl!!🎉🎉🎉 Celebrate your lives. And Love hard even when it’s HARD! Time waits for no man! So say and do what you wanna do when you need to! To God be the Glory! You are all warriors and Victory was and is, yours! God is with you all🙏🏽🙏🏽✨God Bless !!🙏🏽🦋✨
Dang, hearing Kam talk about his experience anticipating his baby made me cry.. it got me so excited to meet my own baby in 3 months!
This brought back many scary memories! I was induced (never again) and then the epidural took 3 hours to come. Pushing was absolutely fine, but I lost a lot of blood afterwards and couldn’t even hold my son. I kept passing out, my blood pressure was SO low and I felt like I was going to die. My son was taken to NICU as we both got an infection from my waters being broken too. We spent days in hospital and I nearly had a blood transfusion but I have bad allergies to things so they did everything they could to avoid it. It was just horrific and I never want to be induced again 🥲 I’m SO glad you guys are ok and i’m so sorry you had that experience! But like you said, it’s worth every minute 👶🏼🫶🏼
I LOVE YOU GUYS SO MUCH AND I AM PRAYING FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY🩵🩵🩵I’m so proud of you for pushing through everything and I am glad that your still here! You both are so inspiring 😌🫶🏻
I did get teary watching this video. I hate that such a beautiful miracle of a new life can sometimes bring tragedy along with it. It's very scary. Just recently a young woman we know of gave birth to her 3rd child and died during that process. She wasn't married. I can't even begin to imagine the children that are left behind. I know the family stepped up majorly as they had no choice. My heart goes out to anyone going through anything remotely like this. We who go on to live relatively healthy lives after bringing children into the world are beyond blessed.
My birth story was very similar with my 3rd baby, i hemaraged around 1 hour after giving birth, the red button was pressed, the bleeding wasn't stopping, I passed a huge clot that got weighed on the baby scales, I needed lots of medication to stop the bleeding then a blood transfusion, luckily we are here to tell the story ❤
Ameen👐
Oh mama I can feel yo pain thanks to God you overcame🎉 congs
Oh my word, I am so happy you’re ok. That had to be so horrible. My gma had an undiagnosed blood disorder, and when she had my uncle it reared its ugly head. My Gpa had to take Huge clots outside and literally bury them in their back yard. They couldn’t throw them away because of the smell it would create. I’m so grateful it turned well, but my …..what a scary situation. I hope you’re having a wonderful day!
Labor is not easy,we all mother's,we know what we pass through in labor suit.Thank God dear,he protects,I respect mom's.cause I know how pushing is hard, giving birth to my first child was God,girls contractions are so painful,I almost died also,am happy for you dear.
My first baby I hemaraged so scary but he almost 17 and we both is ok
You are so right Trish! I had 36hrs of labor w my first son, 3.5hrs of pushing and ended up in an emergency c section so I had a very traumatic birth as well and as soon as your baby is in your arms none of that matters! It was all worth it
I’m so glad you are okay Tricia ! I can only imagine how tough and scary for you guys ❤. You rocked that labor process! You handled it with style and grace ! ❤❤
First I gotta say, Tricia you are one super strong woman! Second, I am so super glad you are still here in this world, and able to be with your family! I am so so sorry you had to deal with something like that with your first child, that's terrible, and I can't imagine how traumatic it was for you, and Kam, and the rest of your family! Kam, I applaud you for being the man you are, and in that moment, being focused on Tricia and the baby in all that commotion. Just like Tricia said, it all comes down to finally having your baby in your arms, all that negativity away. Thank you for sharing with us, even though you didn't have to. I've got 4 angel babies, and my rainbow miracle baby is about to turn NINE! I can't believe it lol I had the epidural with him, and every time I hit the button, I threw up and his heart rate dropped. So I only hit mine twice, but luckily I felt no pain, just pressure, and was up walking within an hour of having him. But that scared me to death knowing that was happening to him with my epidural, and it wasn't worth hitting that button no more. I would rather hurt, than risk anything happening to him! I'm so thankful he is here, and he's healthy! I'm scared to get pregnant now, I almost died twice with two of my past pregnancies, so he's my only child! But I'm so glad all you guys are good and healthy, and her heart is all clear and she's doing amazing, as well as you Tricia and Kam! She's beautiful and a blessing ❤❤ Thanks for sharing your story with us 💕💕💕
I have so much respect for kam it really shows how much he loves tricia ❤️🥺
I had a similar experience regarding being induced, the epidural & the bleeding afterwards. They literally said the same thing, I was bleeding so much and they had a hard time figuring out where it was coming from. I heard them say it & I was aware but at the same time I was also holding my son & I guess that was what kept me calm too.. very scary time for us mamas!
& what an amazing dad & partner for kam to be so focused on you during that time too & making sure you were being taken care of properly, it makes all the difference in the world having that support and level of care from your partner for sure! 🥰
Tricia I've said this since the beginning of loving you and Kam long time ago you ARE ONE OF THE STRONGEST WOMAN I know and I'm sorry things were traumatic 😢 it makes it hard for you to have a difficult time while having such a beautiful moment be ruined !!!
I love you so much ❤❤ I'm excited to be a part of your journey and excited to support you through each and everything ❤️ and just be there for you
Just know that everyone has different birth stories but this is your story. ❤I’m so happy that you had Kam and the doctors there to help you!!! I have been praying for you since I found out you were going to be induced. I love you and your sweet family. Please keep us posted because I feel like you’re my family as I’m sure so many people do. ❤❤❤
Once I gave birth to my son . We both was healthy went home and I experienced pancreatitis and I had to go back to the hospital and I was in there for 9 months and I became a diabetic and I weighed 300 till 98 pounds. I thank God I survived and my baby survived amen and amen to u and your family
glad y’all safe❤️
You are so strong and beautiful no matter what ❤️ you know you always got us !! We are proud of you and Kam in every aspect ❤️ And y’all made a beautiful babygirl ❣️
I totally feel for y'all in this situation because it's scary. You think you're just going in for a regular visit but then the doctor says that you need to be admitted that same day & it's a shock & your emotions are all over the place. I went through something similar with the birth of my first baby. I went in for a checkup which I was doing often because I had preeclampsia & high blood pressure & all of a sudden the doctor says, "We need to induce you today because your blood pressure is too high." I walked over to the hospital, got induced, waited all day for something to happen but nothing did. Around 8pm they said we need to do a c-section. I had a c-section & after my baby came out, I passed out. Thank God they were able to revive me & baby and I were fine after that but it was just so traumatic. I'm glad Tricia & baby are doing great & everything worked out.❤
This birth story touched my heart so hard..i had my son 4 years ago at 26 weeks so he was born prematurely and i also didn't know what was going on and if my baby would survive, i didnt hear him crying because he was so small that he haven't had a voice yet, i found out afterwards that he wasn't breathing when i gave birth to him because i was so black out that moment of everything happening around me. He spend 81 days in nicu and that was the longest 81 days of my life he had to go through so much and he survive through everything even though they told me every day that he is stable now but they can't promise if he will be tomorrow and that hurts a lot hearing that as a parent march 14th this year he turned 4 years old and i thank God every day he is a miracle baby. Thank you so much for telling your story, i know how painfull it can be and wrapping our heads around whats going on in that moment.
Oh my Tricia, I cried with you. You are a strong woman.
My traumatic birth story:
The day before I had my son I went to the hospital. They did blood work, took urine, monitored my son's heartbeat and my contractions. They also checked to see if my cervix was still closed. I was there for probably about 2 hours and they never once did an ultrasound. They discharged me so we went home. 5am the following morning, my contractions came back and then I felt a really warm gush of something. I ran into my bathroom and there was nothing but blood running down my legs. I ran back into my room and told my boyfriend to call 911. They rushed me to the hospital, and I was actively bleeding throughout the whole time. I was cut out of my clothes and rushed into an emergency c section. What happened was my placenta had ruptured so I had an abruption. If the hospital would have done an ultrasound, I would have been admitted because my placenta was detaching from my uterus.
I was exactly 35 weeks when my son was born, he had to stay a week in the nicu but now in just 2 days he'll be 2 months old. A perfect happy and healthy baby boy. ❤
Oh waoooooh. You survived 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
The same happened to me. I was 33 weeks and my little man spent 24 days in the NICU. He is a healthy 7 year old today. ❤ I'm happy your baby boy is healthy and doing good.
@Tiffany Law thank you, the same to you as well ❤️
@@mirabelchidinma2189 yes, thankfully we both did
Yes ❤
Hi guys I haven't commented in a while but sometimes we don't know how much we go through until we hear it like this, thanks for sharing. We give God thank for taking yoh both through this. Having a man love and support a woman bringing his child into the world is a great and blessed feeling. That's why its so important to know your partner.🙏❤🇯🇲
I love how Tricia didn’t hesitate when Kam asked her if she wanted more kids.❤️ YOU ARE A CHAMP…
Tricia is looking extremely beautiful
Her post pregnancy glow is amazing
Thank you kam for being an amazing support to your whole family 😩❤️❤️