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This scene is so satisfying. Not only are the movements so smooth, but it perfectly summarizes the mother's character. I really wish they didn't cut it out from the movie
I just don't understand why this is deleted since it was great.
@@Kaijufan360 When I first saw the clip some stupid people where saying the mother was erasing Christmas and against Christians because of it. So that could be why because other people can't accept the fact other celebrations and holidays exist outside of Christmas.
@@elcat2577 Probably Fox News...🙄
I do feel like it would have messed with the pacing if it was in the movie, but I'm definitely glad it was fully animated and made available to watch.
@@Kaijufan360the dad randomly appears
Her high heels sounds when she walked towards the screen was perfect
Fr
I love that that's what you noticed. I really like watching ppl who CREATE these sounds!
@@LilSweetheartRoo ikr, it’s like an ASMR
OMG I WAS ABOUT TO SEND THAT
Really satisfying
"So beautiful mama :] how do i look?"
"Perfect" ❤
Now I know the original sound of the so beautiful mama meme comes from
Why are the sound effects so satisfying
Ca să placă lumii
?
@@Itsonly_jenna❤
@@LavyOnDaBeatda 😂
Foley artists are really amazing.
The fact that she tilts the camera down slightly so Mei is perfectly in shot is so precious
I was wondering why she did it. Your explanation makes so much sense!
Aww I just realized that
The way she changed the whole scenery gave me flash backs of my mom “ cleaning my room “
XD
I FEEL THIS
😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😭 cerrar
Yep, and after that I cannot find literally anything in my room bc those were all in different places now🤧
@@mindu5854 this is the worst part!! Lool.
I appreciate the energy and confidence of a person who know's what they're doing and goes about doing it. It's strangely comforting.
I love the sounds her footsteps make. You can feel the confidence and power.
Ming yelling while ripping open the plastic is so relatable 😭
So true💀
2,000th like 💅
It’s the mom hiding the tag for me 💀
Honestly yeah bro
Ok, asked?
"Say Miracle Mart, Where-"
"We're not doing that."
Lol😂
Honestly I would say the same thing.
@@iamcat1797same I'll do it to
Don't forget bout the side eye 👀
OMG LOL FR
"So beatiful mama how do i look?" had me dying bc of cuteness🥺
“REEAGH”
got me 😭🤚🏽
I was looking for this comment 😭
😭😭
Jin the moment the camera flashes: “I’ve been summoned.”
Hola disculpe no te he llamado pero ni me voy al hospital y si ya vienes para
@@rubisaucedo6969 are you okay?
@@rubisaucedo6969 wtf happened to you ?!!
@@astronerd-yu6sh some granny who used the wrong app for her message. I know Spanish, her message seems important but at the same time poorly written.
I'm also sorry for my bad English, I'm just learning.
@@rubisaucedo6969 U good?
animators spending hours upon hours working on a scene just for it to be deleted:
fr
This is really true.
All that work and what did it get me...
она не удалена, она находится после титров
@@kathrine5447😵💫
i love how the dad just came out of nowhere in the final product he just magically ✨appeared✨
The mother so iconic❤😂
It really drives home how while Ming's mother *expected* her to be perfect, Ming genuinely thought Mei-mei *was* perfect.
She tried her best to be the polar opposite of her Mom and wound up giving Mei the same exact problems.
Gonna let you in on a secret...that's something alot of moms say to their kids .. so I wouldn't really say it only because of that
@@jaquelinealmazan7027 it... Had a lot of different connotations. That's how good writing works. It encapsulates multiple meanings into a single word
Yas
Well it is cute and also not that cute. By telling your children that are perfect the way they are as the main parent compliment, they refuse change on them so their parents keep loving them forever.
But Ming did try to do better.
The part when she said “how do I look” and then “perfect” it’s so cute
Hi, Marcy!
@@CommanderDarcy hiii!
I agree
Actually this moment is not cute when you break it down
When she says that she looks “perfect” rather than just beautiful it’s actually hinting at the fact that she wants to make her daughter the perfect child and that she thinks her daughter must only be the best of the best.
@@XyraStarI was thinking the same thing but I think it works on both levels.
Her mom means what she says, and she means it in a positive way, but the upsetting part is that she attributes perfection to being something like what beautiful describes. It's not that she is trying to avoid complementing her it's that she thinks that she is perfect and that anything less would be unappealing.
I'm suprised they took this scene out of the movie given how significant it is to setting up Mei and her Mom's characterization
Something about the sound effects in this scene I find sort of satisfying. Also, I think child Mei Lee's voice sounds so precious to me. ❤
She fkn ate w this setup tho
“Please help yourself to a festive decoration”
Mei mei: **dies**
Well he placed a dusty hat on her head without asking.
888 likes
@@LaSisiNono2310 3.2k
Holy-
#herebeforeitblewup
I actually really like this. It shows just how much of a perfectionist she is without it coming across that she would ever intentionally hurt her daughter.
Bruh, it's a ficcional plot (hate me and my grammar 😭)
@@xdn_t Exactly, thats why this matters
@@xdn_t u can't even spell fictional, and it's almost like every story has an underlying theme or moral.. this is basic first grade literature and comprehension bro
Thank you!
@@xdn_t dragon ball average fan
The man: "please help your self to a festive accessory"
Mei mei: *completely dying*
wow, the 孝 in the background is so real in the movie 😭
"How do I look?"
"Perfect."
I'm tearing up.
...it wasn't a good thing.
Tearing up in a good way or bad way-
Cause this symbolizes her mother needing her daughter to be perfect all the time in order to "earn" her love.
@@DevinDoesAnimation Earn? She’s always loved Mei she never acted like she didn’t love her. She did want to keep her locked up safe and sound holding her hand too tight but she always loved Mei. Even when Mei attacked that boy she blamed Mei’s Friends and defended her. The only wrong thing she did was not understand that her daughter is old enough to start making decisions on her own. In their big fight Mei literally had to say she made those decisions on her own accord for her mom to start to understand that she wants to do different things now and start to let go of the idea that she needs to fully depend on her to be okay.
@@toadboy-me9tj fxvjr 👍eiwifov
@@DevinDoesAnimation Ming didn't want Mei to be perfect she just was just an overprotective mother
"so beautiful mama how do I look?"omg little Mei-mei voice is too adorable ;D
Ikr
I feel like I heard it before her voice
@FOOT CRUST why am I saying foot crust
@@Alex-2.0 what now Allie the wolf
I know right
The wonderful asmr the animators put into this scene for it to be deleted is wonderful. I could watch this for ages.
I can fall asleep to this, and I also love the ASMR so freaking much!
I just realised the mother hid the PRICE TAG of the fake flowers. She's probably going to return them after this.
I respect the hussle if so
BRO that detail is so good
Loll yesss, my mom does the same thing with flowers she gets for parties.
It is a life saver tho, these things get expensive
Ne is more aesthetic for the photo or if who knows a mystery to the universe
2 bad they can't do a night mare before crissmas family photo # red 🐼style kityy meow reow
The dad just spawned in like “Dad had entered the room”
What do you mean he was always there
@@nobodyinparticular1290 yea he was just invisible? How was he there the whole time. Where
No he was the bird that's why the bird disappear when he appeared
@@krissy172 aah yes of course.
😂😂😂
The detail of the word 孝in the back is so perfect! (It means respect and obedience to parents)
The way her heels sound is so satisfying
“Just like we practiced!”
**Insert flashback of intense crying because shoulders were too high for the 5th time**
Ngl, I laughed a little too much at this comment 😅
I'm curious, this kind of photos is a tradition for Chinese families in other countries?
I'm from El Salvador I don't really know if there's a big Chinese community in here
Oh no, please don’t, my memory just caught on me and now I’m crying with a instant shoulder pain😢
@@TheRociprincess something like that happened in my family. My ancestors were Germans Military during the first world war and they kept that prussian "Military Nobility" attitude through the years. On the one hand, it made my family prone to tactical and leadership skills over the decades and on the other hand it gave them a big fat ego. (You can be both a good leader and egotestical.)
@@mindu5854Sounds like chronic pain PTSD
I like that the mother said "Perfect" in response to how the daughter asks how she looks. Really sweet 🥰
No it's not. It's supposed to symbolize how her needing to be perfect was subtly engrained in her from a young age.
@@mocha7707 Just goes to show how prevalent this experience is, that to some people it’s normal or even sweet. I actually thought it was sweet too until I read your comment.
@@morganmiller6373 damn I thought the same homie
@@mocha7707 I mean, I think it can be both. Her mother definitely enforced a standard of perfection onto her, but she was doing it out of love because she thought she could protect her daughter from having to feel like she did I guess? She wasn’t doing it out of malicious intent, so it’s still sweet in its own way. And by the end of the movie the mother accepted that Mei Mei wanted to keep her red panda, so she showed personal growth since this moment and I think that’s what ultimately separates it. Hovever, that doesn’t change that she was forcing standards of perfection onto her from a young age. It doesn’t make it right or okay, but at least she was satisfied with who her daughter was (from what she saw) because we’ve all seen plenty of Disney moms who are never satisfied with their children’s efforts. Both perspectives are important.
Pp
The random paper bag so is accurate tho😂😂😂
That girl voice melt my heart. And mama attitude like real queen. ❤
the way lin says “perfect” just exemplifies the theme of the movie i’m gonna cry
Maybe
XD
@@unrandom-dv3lpewww shut up
@@unrandom-dv3lp nah not a maybe it DOES
I thought the same
“Why are you so understaffed?!”
That employee: Ma’am I’m paid minimum wage and have been here for 6 hours. I do NOT KNOW.
A Karen line.
Try doing 12 hours in one day for minimum wage
@@jujublue4426 no one asked for a pity party we all get it
@@jujublue4426 try working in a sweat shop until your hands bleed and not get paid anything and live in way overcrowded housing as a little kid. Feel better about urself yet?
@@holliberry144 Sometimes they're not even.paid
I feel bad for the animators who put so much effort into this just for it to be a deleted scene
Why is the mom acting like an Empress and her daughter as a servant?
because asians
And her “u look beautiful, how do I look?”
"Perfect."
Me thinking what the mom would say: ugly, my dear..
@@Vampire_cat13 same XD
@@Vampire_cat13 we’ll fix it in post 😂
The dad just appearing last second in the pic has me dying
Bro just teleported himself in... classic dad behaviour
Yeah I’m guessing they didn’t get far enough into to animate him before the scene got cut. Still a ton of effort just wasted.
I think they photoshopped him in 😂😂
I thought they photoshopped him in
I think that’s a different picture which they were recreating as the girls had no glasses in the end photo
I love the dad materializing in the background 😅🤣
The fact that my nickname is mei-mei aswell just makes me happy :)
“When dad’s is not here “
✨Photoshop✨
💀🤣🤣
Жизненно😂
:( haha
LMFAO!!!
Wow wish that could work with my dad
“So beautiful mama” 🥺🥺 stop that’s so precious
Ikrr
ITS SO CUTE-
😢 I havent seen the movie, I hope the mom treats her right
@@tenderlemon3318hahaha… you should watch it
You really feel how much Mei looks up to and loves her mother. 🥺🙏👍🥰😍❤️😭 I kind of wish they'd left this scene in.😅
Nobody talking about father teleporting in the photo💀
I can still hear Ming go: Did the red peony bloom? When she thought Mei Mei got her period 😂
Mei mei’s mother: *Aggressively tearing apart the thing* “EUGH!”
Coralines mom? :0
Omg yeah! My mom does the same shit everytime 🤣
“Don’t you dare disobey me Coraline…”
I know it gives me a weird feeling :[
I was looking for this comment
Disney really be spending hours creating one of the most wonderful scenes in the entire movie and then go "aight cut it out"
Pixar made this
@@duongnguyen-zk4rj same thing 😆
@@SuperYoshikong so Ghibli should be called Disney movie as well because Disney distributes Ghibli's films. Same thing
This was actually a promotional clip that was released outside of the film as a teaser and was never intended to be in the movie
@@duongnguyen-zk4rj that's different Disney owns Pixar like it owns Marvel Studios.
THE WAY CODY TOUCHED HER THIGH I WAS ON THE FLOOR LIKE THAT WAS SO CUTE 🤧👍
Y’all i forgot why i put this comment here and i don’t even know who Cody even is 😭🤚
*finishes animating a scene, smooth animation, voiced, 100% complete*
Some executive: actually guys let’s not?
I really liked this deleted scene from turning red.
Yess, it's so cute, it's sad that they deleted it, but understandable. Some people would think her mom is a Karen
@@oof6989 she is a Karen sometimes.
I think the reason that it got deleted because the dad teleported out of nowhere
edit: thank you so much for the likes I don't get this many❤❤
I believe they deleted it cause it didn’t fit in the movie and it could have villainize her as some narcissist to some viewers, when that’s not the point of the mom’s character
@@mylifeisslow959 that’s just what I thought when I saw the picture
I loved the employee here, he never got angry or said anything rude back. And seemed completely fine with everything they were doing, especially snice they brought their own props.
Very loud energy and sure as hell tried/ burnt-out but was still chill as hell.
Not sure how much of that was him being chill or him not being able to give any less of a shit lol
I’m sure its because he’s not paid enough to give a shit
@@insertnamehere7228 yeah that dude was checked tf out, anybody who ever worked a service typa job will get it lol
He's the type of dude who takes the retail work too seriously. Have your own fun and let the customers be their own demise
yeah its a cartoon, thats how they wrote the scene, the worker is a sentient being in the movie 😂 tf are you 12?
The footsteps and the the setting up sounds are just 🤯
Dad just appeared out of nowhere
“your dad still getting the milk?”
“no, he’s behind you.”
He came back, but at what cost
*turns around in fear only to see him standing there*
💀💀💀
Thank god
@@joemama_6229 lol
The employee mispronouncing Mei’s name at the beginning is too realistic
LOL true
Definitely.
Btw who drew your pfp?
It looks really good 😊
“Mai-…Mai?”
Omg that’s my life. My name is Mei and sometimes people called me Mai. And I be like: I’m not yours🤷🏻♀️
Classic american
The sound effects are so soothing/satisfying tbh
It sound so satisfying when she walks-
The fact the father flashed in so fast xD
666
Usually it's the opposite
Photoshop maybe?
Read the caption guys
@@kokoberry. you
I guess the reason why the scene was cut (despite the animation being fully rendered) was that it set up Ming’s character WAY too early.
this is the exact same "did its job too good so it was removed" bit they talk about in an anime called oshi no ko, seems harmless here but really puts into perspective how someone's or a team of people's work can just be removed if it doesnt fit a higher ups' idea of something
@@haveachocobarThe storyteller term for it is "killing your darlings," I believe
“How do I look meimei?”
That part was so soft❤
I love how animations are getting better at expressing body types, because seriously no one has arms or hips like Disney princesses
Mei-Mei is SO CUTE when she talks and look!👍
Yeah she's adorable but she was crowding
@@danecagno588 wut
@@Itisheylel it coughing but I heard this on shiloj and bros when shiloh was coughing but I think Elijah said crowding. And somehow ur name sounds like my name but it has a j in it
fr 😭😭😭😭😭❤️❤️
@@danecagno588 what?
The way mei coughed when the hat was on her- she acted like she was dying- 💀
Ikr right, such a drama queen
Dust mite allergies maybe? If the hat‘s being used for a lot of people and then stuffed in a dusty storage unit until next Christmas, this would actually not be an overreaction. Would also make sense that Ming would replace the whole set just for that reason alone.
@@rainpooper7088 Yes, I do this. I'm highly sensitive to dust. I love thrift shopping but I cough every time I go into a thrift store lol.
@@kingjulienthe13th my brother has allergy of cottan maybe she also does cuz the hat looks like its made of cottan bruh no need to call her a drama queen
It was probably dusty???
first video seeing you, already subscribed
this is proof to never got on a girls nerves💀
I always loved the audio for this scene
The way Mei Mei says “so beautiful mama” and “how do I look?”
"...how do I look?"
_"Perfect"_
Having complicated relationship with parents who really do love you with their whole heart just hits different....
Ikr ! For a moment in animation it was either the parents that love you too much or no matter what or the opposite with toxic parents that despise you
This.
Same thing with Mitchells vs the Machines
@@myklchan why has no one said that yet
To the point that the dad comes back ☺️
"Bro said gimme a bottle"😮😮
the way ming screams trying to open that blanket made me laugh in the way the dad teleported
edit: thanks for loving my comment! and thanks for 4k likes!!!!!!
@Canman18 are you the real camman18?!
@@sieg4669 no its not check the chanel
@@stefaniamaria4781 already did
The way Mei Mei said “you’re so beautiful mama” was so adorable I almost cried 🥺💕🥰
same 😭🤌
I think that's what every child would say
I think
@@lorddiavolo646 mmm not every child but what ever they say it sounds adorable
@@lorddiavolo646rude
All that and the final shot was ruined by homeboy in the back 💀
I really wish this scene still made it into the movie. It’s actually so perfect
The way he said “alright…” felt too real 😩
I know right? 😫
@@valcanodudehe does not get payed enough 😫
I HAVE THE POWER
She didn’t say alright
@@dannellahaney4793 they meant the guy
How do I look mei? “So beautiful mama”
Was so sweet 🥹
Little mei mei was so cute 🥹
She calls her beautiful tho
She is so sweet and cute in little 😫❤️
@@LovebyjennieFr
@@SummerAlleriaWindrunner k?
Ming: REAUGGHH 👹 *rips package*
Ming .2 second later: 😌✨️💅
No bro, the dad just teleported😂
I barely noticed the dad. He's like the staff that accidentally got caught on film.
💀🤣🤣🤣
Lol 😂🤣
This staff is the exact same as Gandalf's.
“Say Mirac-“ “we’re NOT doing that”😂
"We don't do that here"
My favorite bit for sure.
Sandra Oh is awesome
Why is he so chill about it 🤣😂🤣😂🤣
Her mum:*aggressively rips the tiniest monocules of plastic with demons inside her* Ě̵̢̧̛̦̼̜̲͕͕͍̤̙͉͓́̅͒̽̍̐͋͜͝R̴͇͌̀̆̍̽͝͠ͅ️R̴͇͌̀̆̍̽͝͠ͅ️U̴̡̥̱̫͕̞̐͂͒̑̽̋̐͊̈́͗̚Ą̵̘̥͉̘͖̱̥̺̿̀̈̒̂̅̀̅̈́̓̏͊͘͝G̶̨̛̼̹̮͚̻͔̘̣͉͈͚̏̈́̿̅̀̏̀͌͒̀̐̇́͘Ḩ̶̳̣̮̻̪̜͍̹̭͓͍̳̼̈́̅́̄̍̀͐́̊̽͌̊̂͂͠͝͝!
Her dad: *Magically appears out of no where.*
He must be a god…
I think he was actually the red bird that was previously placed on the branch…
True 💀@@valcanodude
bro got photoshoped 😭
Reverse "I'm going to get the milk" moment
"We have our own vision of this..."
*Pulls out a whole Qing Dynasty vase*
*The Dad just teleports*
I think their family might be refugees from when the civil war started or when Mao zadong took over
@@Pocoentertainmentstudio What?
@@user-fi2vc7ei8v during the revolution the Chinese people were afraid do to battles breaking out so the fled the country to country’s that would allow Chinese refugees
And once the Qing dynasty fell a mao zadong took over a dark time of china started and caused vast numbers of deaths with estimates ranging from 40 to 80 million victims through starvation, persecution, prison labour, and mass executions. The Chinese people once again fled from the country and was able to arrive in Japan Taiwan Canada America Korea if living on the east and other Asian countries if on the south
She’s like frekin Mary Poppins! 🤣
When turning red was literally blowing whatever it’s called got me dying
💀☠️
Dad teleported out of nowhere 😂
Achievement Unlocked: "Father Came Back With The Milk"
I'm still trying to unlock that achivment... I may never platinum 😭😭😭
:O I have so many likes with this meme
@@paleindian10 also oof
@@paleindian10 have you tried playing "become rich" quest? He tends to respawn after gaining rewards of that
@@anthonymedina9425 omg it worked! Dad came back lololol 😂
The dad just teleported himself 😂
Yeah Xd
True but OMGGGGY ITS SO CUTEEEEEEE🥺🥺🥺🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍✨✨✨✨
Photoshopping…
..
True 🤣🤣
Me:My foot hurts!
Mom:The picture is gonna starts soon!
"meanwhile mom making for an hour:"
Dad just telaporting like : Im BaCk wItH tHe MiLk☠️💀☠️💀☠️💀☠️💀
Mei’s cough🥹🥹
It was cute though lol
@@kittyheartflamer._.7775 mmmmmm I don’t think so
She so cute 😊 ☺️🥰
Covid
@@PaperSans dusty 10yo hat?
I like how her tearing the sheet and stepping over the table in a dress showed her impatient, quick to anger, and more childish side while her methodical fast set up showed her perfectionism.
The "your perfect" bit was the positive affirmation she never got as a child but the micro management of her daughter was her childhood.
Everything in this short foreshadows her parenting style. Even the dad allowing his wife to do her thing and just being there to support everyone in the end shows his parenting style.
That wasn't positive affirmation, that was an expectation to live up to.
@@StuninRub not rlly. she wasn’t forcing her daughter to be perfect or anything , she just was overprotective. she always thought mei was perfect , but she didn’t give mei room to always have a choice because she didn’t realize that mei was old enough to make important choices on her own.
@@meowzers.p yeah. Turning red is just abt a kid going thru puberty imo
@@StuninRub in her eyes it was, a lot of time parents don’t realize or lack the words to express their feelings to their kids.
@mew Only white people can watch somebody meticulously stage, reherse, and control every little tiny detail and then claim that the person was not controlling or forcing. Karen's are very easy to find.
"REAAUGHH-"
Got me 😭
The amount of work that was put in just for it to be deleted, animators deserve a raise
The fact that her control-freak mother says she looks 'perfect' instead of beautiful too.
That's a sign of narcissism
@@briannalovely-hz1pz the mom told mei mei that she looked perfect and mei told her mom she looked beautiful. thats not narcissistic
The should have told her she looked beautiful too
@@briannalovely-hz1pz You can have one Narcissistic trait and not have the disorder, You need to score multiple traits to be consider a clinical Narcissist.
In the case of Ming she is more of an Helicopter Parent than a Narcissistic parent.
Narcissistic parents love their kids conditionally, don´t see their kids as individuals but as extensions of themselves, are not capable of taking accountability of the damage they cause since they have no capacity for empathy, they deflect and shift the blames and they are perpetual victims.
Helicopter Parents on the other hand are controlling not because they don´t see their kids as their own people but because they are extremely anxious people that want their kids to always do well and always be safe to a point that is detrimental and toxic and ends up backfiring. It comes from a place of love and care but it ends up being harmful.
Plus the explanation of why Ming is so obsessed with perfection is not because she is a Narcissist but because, Just like Mei, She grew up having to behave perfectly walking on eggshells to please her mother, And when you have untreated trauma and unaddressed baggage because of your parents you end up repeating their harmful behavior when you have kids.
This is why no one should have kids before healing their childhood trauma.
and don´t get me wrong, I´m not justifying her, she is not a good parent most of the time, I´m just pointing out that the reason of her bad parenting is not narcissism.
Ive suffered with a narcissistic mother as well
“No we have our own vision for this”
Proceeds to change the whole room
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The ASMR for this is so 👏💅🤌🤌🤌
It’s just occurring to me that turning red is just a very accurate flashback. And this movie came out in 2022 but it was set in 2002. Mei was 13 in 2002 so the makes mei 33 years old in real time. Plus the extra two years after the movie came out and since her birthday is between April and May, that makes her 35 years old…damn💀
ming: how do i look mei-mei?
mei-mei: you look so beautiful mama.
me: *literally dies of cuteness overload*