How American Social Climbers Sold Their Children for Rank

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  • čas přidán 15. 06. 2024
  • In the 1870s, rich Americans came up with a new scheme: they sold their daughters abroad, marrying them off to British aristocrats in exchange for a title. In a country without an aristocracy, suddenly every rich American wanted a duchess in the family. The young women, who often didn't have a choice, became known as the Dollar Princesses.
    Buying noble titles was an old practice, of course, but Americans took it to a new level with Gilded-Age marriages. American brides carried huge fortunes across the sea, including some of the most lavish dowries in history.
    #DollarPrincess #BritishAristocracy #WeirdHistory
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  • @maheenm.k1015
    @maheenm.k1015 Před 3 lety +5683

    Wow, men were the original gold diggers.

    • @BriarMB13
      @BriarMB13 Před 3 lety +150

      Oh god, yeah

    • @05bastille
      @05bastille Před 3 lety +632

      Its funny how it started with families selling off their daughters to gain a title and in the end a dude comes and says "hard working men make money just for their daughters to toss it across the sea" as if it was the girls decision to who they get married off to, as if he himself didn't marry off his daughter *big face palm*

    • @justsomehaatonpassingby4488
      @justsomehaatonpassingby4488 Před 3 lety +164

      Well men did do the whole gold digging before children and women were accepted in underground mines......... I'll see myself out

    • @Insanepie
      @Insanepie Před 3 lety +104

      anyone can be a gold digger... no one ever said it was just women

    • @hafsa2952
      @hafsa2952 Před 3 lety +8

      @@justsomehaatonpassingby4488 lol

  • @m0L3ify
    @m0L3ify Před 3 lety +3342

    Americans to the British in the 1700's: We don't want your taxes
    Americans to the British in the 1800's: We want your titles tho...

    • @tubecat4596
      @tubecat4596 Před 3 lety +36

      Funny they now have to pay a percent their taxes to the queen of England and has been in effect since before the 1800’s 👀 USA is uks bitch we can turn your taxes up hella high.

    • @InuMiroLover
      @InuMiroLover Před 3 lety +89

      "NO TAXATION WITHOUT CORONATION"

    • @m0L3ify
      @m0L3ify Před 3 lety +133

      @@tubecat4596 lol None of our taxes go to the Queen. Maybe you're confusing us with Canada?

    • @fearlesssabertiger
      @fearlesssabertiger Před 3 lety +57

      @@tubecat4596 okay the states history education is fucked but the fuck goin on in yalls curriculum? this shit wrong too

    • @tubecat4596
      @tubecat4596 Před 3 lety +12

      @@fearlesssabertiger Yeah they didn’t teach us shit 👀

  • @carinfonk1695
    @carinfonk1695 Před 3 lety +2689

    "luckily her marriage to prince du Polignac was much happier. Most likely because he was also a homosexual"
    AND THEY WERE ROOMMATES

  • @Sheepskin501
    @Sheepskin501 Před 3 lety +3860

    In the words of a famous American poet: "they do anything for clout"

  • @6thsavage
    @6thsavage Před 3 lety +2353

    Wait, wait wait...it's NOT trendy to dress up like Byzantine Queen Empress Theodora anymore?....I'm embarrassed.

  • @wyndiahighwind7477
    @wyndiahighwind7477 Před 3 lety +1851

    A lot of these women were daughters of self made millionaires, and these millionaires would not be accepted in the circles of old money. This also had the unfortunate side effect of limiting their business options. So they sold their daughters off to be able to say "if someone we raised could be accepted into the circles of European nobility, then we are good enough to be here." It was reprehensible, as they were selling their daughters, but the tactic often worked.
    Incidentally, I intend to remain single.

  • @LizzyDidntDoIt
    @LizzyDidntDoIt Před 3 lety +2122

    I swear if I EVER hear a man utter the words “gold digger” again, I shall bring forth a history lesson of epic proportions! 😤

    • @BlackCatedialogue
      @BlackCatedialogue Před 3 lety +35

      My point same

    • @sandrallewellyn2632
      @sandrallewellyn2632 Před 3 lety +160

      Actually the original use of the word WAS in reference to men, then it became gender neutral, then it became associated with women. Same thing happened with heels as well.

    • @Insanepie
      @Insanepie Před 3 lety +41

      but why? If someone feels like they have a gold digger in their life how would it help if you explained all this to them?

    • @jaopeke
      @jaopeke Před 3 lety +30

      @@Insanepie because it let's her be able to grandstand

    • @rodgomola
      @rodgomola Před 3 lety +16

      The term is 'fortune hunter' when it's a chap.

  • @webby3109
    @webby3109 Před 3 lety +1297

    Huh. I never knew that Winston Churchill’s mother was American. Neat.

    • @runningfromabear8354
      @runningfromabear8354 Před 3 lety +182

      In upper class social circles he was often referred to as 'that bloody American.' He got to run for Prime Minister when the government (elites) realised the public weren't on side with them submitting to Germany. The British public were anti-Nazi but much of the British aristocracy were related to the Germany aristocracy. Churchill was part of a minority in the aristocracy who didn't give two shits about that, he agreed with the average man on the street. Fight the Nazi's. Left to their own devices, the British government would have surrendered except Post-WW1 they had been forced to give the unpropertied the right to vote. Suddenly it mattered what the British public thought.
      Yes, it took until the blood bath of WW1 for the average Brit to get the right to vote.

    • @beyourself2444
      @beyourself2444 Před 3 lety +24

      I thought that was common knowledge

    • @fightnarcissism7112
      @fightnarcissism7112 Před 3 lety +61

      And Princess Diana had an American great grandmother!! ❤

    • @runningfromabear8354
      @runningfromabear8354 Před 3 lety +66

      @@fightnarcissism7112 She also had an Indian third Great-Grandmother from Surat north of Mumbai. Wealthy Scottish merchant in the 18th century had a child with a wife in India but when he died, his family took his daughter and left the wife in India. The Spencer's all have some South Asian ancestry, including William, Harry, and their kids.

    • @christopherseton-smith7404
      @christopherseton-smith7404 Před 3 lety +12

      @@runningfromabear8354 The 1918 Voting Rights Act extended the vote to men over twenty one (even when they didn't own property, good gracious), and women over thirty. Women over twenty one had to wait another ten years.

  • @prisonwifeprisonlife790
    @prisonwifeprisonlife790 Před 3 lety +2695

    “ Jenny who we are assuming is from the block”
    10/10 Best comment on any video

  • @regularcasanova7137
    @regularcasanova7137 Před 3 lety +1388

    When people say they were born into the wrong generation.

    • @reneelane5117
      @reneelane5117 Před 3 lety +153

      it’s so annoying like no kelly you would’ve had no rights but go off

    • @saltymcsaltface
      @saltymcsaltface Před 3 lety +46

      It was a lot simpler for a woman back then, marrying into a wealthy family would be like winning the lottery

    • @StopListenThink
      @StopListenThink Před 3 lety +8

      I feel displaced

    • @StopListenThink
      @StopListenThink Před 3 lety +95

      @@saltymcsaltface But often times men married a rich women and did not love them and treated him like crap same stuff that was on today they both use each other people don’t know what love is anymore

    • @pric4799
      @pric4799 Před 3 lety +125

      @@saltymcsaltface
      It was also harder to get out of an abusive relationship because women were essentially dependent on their men for money and an unmarried or divorced woman was shamed and outcasted by society.
      And that’s for the women who are able to marry rich - a lot of women weren’t able to marry rich, and got stuck in poverty with their husband without a chance of escape because divorce was frowned upon and illegal in some places.
      Times weren’t simpler, just different. Now, women have to work harder, but they get treated a lot more equally and get more opportunities.

  • @lelandunruh7896
    @lelandunruh7896 Před 3 lety +542

    My great grandmother once said, "Marry for money, not love. Love fades, but properly-invested money lasts your whole life."
    She married a wheat farmer, so I'm not sure she actually believed her own advice!

    • @taniquaf4143
      @taniquaf4143 Před 3 lety +149

      Maybe your grandma was giving advice based on her life choices. She probably regret marrying for love and was warning you to not follow in her footsteps.

    • @MOTIVATIONBYDAR
      @MOTIVATIONBYDAR Před 2 lety +72

      Poor people often give advice like this because they are busy looking at rich people thinking they are any happier.
      The truth is they are not and sometimes are more miserable and unhappy than poor families.
      This doesn't mean there aren't rich people who are happy but poor people who are busy fantasizing about being rich instead of appreciating what they have give advice based in their fantasies instead of appreciating the good life they had/have.

    • @pallabidutta968
      @pallabidutta968 Před 2 lety +25

      I think eating wheat grown by your man is much better than ending up with someone "powerful" like Adolf hitler. We all know the tragic ending of the latter's lover.

    • @lelandunruh7896
      @lelandunruh7896 Před 2 lety +27

      @@pallabidutta968 My great grandmother was five years older than Eva Braun but outlived her by almost 50 years. I daresay she made the better choice!

    • @kyliepechler
      @kyliepechler Před 2 lety +40

      @@MOTIVATIONBYDAR The fact that you wrote "instead of appreciating what they have" about poor people, indicates that you don't have enough knowledge of being poor, to make the statement you made.

  • @punkybrewstar83
    @punkybrewstar83 Před 3 lety +1203

    I can't think of anything better really than being very rich, and then married off to a homosexual guy friend. Especially if we lived in a castle.

    • @Candlewick14
      @Candlewick14 Před 3 lety +117

      Actually does sound totally amazing

    • @leonamay8776
      @leonamay8776 Před 3 lety +86

      Yep. Seems nice.... I'd totally be fine with doing our duty the required amount of times (cause babies) and then have a nice girlfriend / mistress. 😅

    • @swarajkanr
      @swarajkanr Před 3 lety +22

      and they helped artist!

    • @IvySnowFillyVideos
      @IvySnowFillyVideos Před 3 lety +23

      Bonus he could prolly cook too

    • @NightinGal89
      @NightinGal89 Před 3 lety +31

      Ikr, she was the lucky one

  • @rr8960
    @rr8960 Před 3 lety +838

    I definitely married for love. We were so broke back then, paying off student loans, renting his grandmother's cottage. And all these years (41) later he's still the love of my life.

    • @kae9341
      @kae9341 Před 3 lety +28

      That's so sweet ❤❤ That's my husband and I, too, but we're only 8 years in!!

    • @AGDinCA
      @AGDinCA Před 3 lety +26

      Similar story, but we are only 20 years in. Still happy though!!

    • @tracesprite6078
      @tracesprite6078 Před 3 lety +11

      That's so wonderful. Enjoy!

    • @picopico7114
      @picopico7114 Před 3 lety +6

      💖💖

    • @ffxiarcadius
      @ffxiarcadius Před 3 lety

      @@kae9341 Divorced within 8 more.

  • @sammiegirl883
    @sammiegirl883 Před 3 lety +178

    My father told my mother that after he died to marry for money because she already married for love.

    • @carolinacalazans7905
      @carolinacalazans7905 Před 3 lety +8

      Awwwwwww

    • @lisapoole1219
      @lisapoole1219 Před 3 lety +13

      Sounds like legit advice.

    • @sammiegirl883
      @sammiegirl883 Před 3 lety +6

      @crush broke He kept a roof over our head and food on the table. We had everything we needed but love and family was the most important. Taught us life is more than material things.

    • @sammiegirl883
      @sammiegirl883 Před 3 lety +4

      @crush broke My dad was a master chef but he lost the use of his hands and was disabled. We were lucky enough my mom could stay home for our early years. She had to go to work when my dad couldn’t no more.

    • @normagoff1916
      @normagoff1916 Před 2 lety +1

      Bold.

  • @Evy2526
    @Evy2526 Před 3 lety +913

    British nobles give their title in exchange of money, Rich americans give their daughter in exchange of a title.
    The poor bride gets stuck with a mocking nickname. Right. Sounds fair. -_-

    • @sethevans5318
      @sethevans5318 Před 3 lety +28

      For women back then it never was

    • @Nicolewps
      @Nicolewps Před 3 lety +6

      I think it’s because the rich women married into poor nobility hence “dollar princess”.

    • @leonamay8776
      @leonamay8776 Před 3 lety +42

      @@Nicolewps yep. Get mocked for something they most likely had no or very little control over/aka didn't choose.

    • @Evy2526
      @Evy2526 Před 3 lety +4

      @I am a strawberry Yes I was most definitely sarcastic. ;)

    • @joshwhipkey9957
      @joshwhipkey9957 Před 3 lety +10

      @gerard dearie actually it was surprisingly okay to make your daughter wed at gunpoint pretty much/ threat of loss of life, back then, you see women were a form of property even to parents. Which is why it would be so strange that women could even do things like join Parliament because with the attitudes at the time it was like them saying "ah yes this one is the exception to the rule" which could be perceived as both flattery and an insult to an entire gender.....soooooo

  • @katsa5296
    @katsa5296 Před 3 lety +205

    *American men force their daughters into mariages for titles*
    Frank Work : « The men work hard for their money and their daughters toss it to foreigners »
    The blame for men’s actions is, as always, placed on women

    • @katsa5296
      @katsa5296 Před 3 lety +11

      @Christine R horrible assumption that women don’t already.

    • @dimtim111
      @dimtim111 Před 3 lety +5

      I noticed that too...

    • @samsmom1491
      @samsmom1491 Před 2 lety +22

      I caught that comment, as well. Like the daughters had any say in the matter.

  • @SnoopyDoofie
    @SnoopyDoofie Před 3 lety +446

    Geez, if they had an eBay back then, they would have sold their daughters off to the highest bidder.

    • @valalava1
      @valalava1 Před 3 lety +1

      I love your username

    • @holocene2164
      @holocene2164 Před 3 lety +8

      Sadly, yes.

    • @violetlise8903
      @violetlise8903 Před 3 lety +28

      I think its more of the opposite, the men will be marrying the woman with the most money for their title

    • @lindamaemullins5151
      @lindamaemullins5151 Před 3 lety

      Ikr 😞

    • @susanfudge1737
      @susanfudge1737 Před 3 lety +8

      They were the ones paying. The British men were broke and the Americans paid them to marry their daughters.

  • @lordkiza8838
    @lordkiza8838 Před 3 lety +368

    Jenny definitely was from the block.

  • @mukunimulundika5359
    @mukunimulundika5359 Před 2 lety +38

    And the British upper class view Americans with disdain yet it took several million American dollars and wives to sustain their way of life. Ironic.

  • @steviehelena.s8850
    @steviehelena.s8850 Před 3 lety +136

    Why he use a picture of Empress Sisi? She was Bavarian princess before she married the emperor. Definitely not a dollar princess.

    • @lydiahaneder9634
      @lydiahaneder9634 Před 3 lety +26

      Ah I am happy someone else noticed, I was so confused!

    • @sonjaisaacs1200
      @sonjaisaacs1200 Před 3 lety +14

      I saw that too and came to see if anyone else spotted her!

    • @pipitameruje
      @pipitameruje Před 3 lety +11

      Also Queen Mary

    • @marinazagrai1623
      @marinazagrai1623 Před 3 lety +4

      Stevie...you recognized her too? These princesses probably wished they could be as pretty...sorry but that's the truth (and she was born with a future title).

    • @andreagriffiths3512
      @andreagriffiths3512 Před 2 lety +1

      I know right? That was just odd

  • @guard3745
    @guard3745 Před 3 lety +368

    Oh to be a rich 1800’s woman in a lavender marriage, and a patron of a the arts.

    • @tracesprite6078
      @tracesprite6078 Před 3 lety +7

      It's better in some ways but working conditions are deteriorating for many people, creating great stress as they struggle to survive.

    • @edwinholcombe2741
      @edwinholcombe2741 Před 3 lety +5

      I don't know about being rich in the 1800s. Have your heard about the toilets they had back them?

    • @tracesprite6078
      @tracesprite6078 Před 3 lety +6

      @@edwinholcombe2741 I agree, Edwin. Life is way better now for the middle classes even compared with the aristocracy back then. Hans Rosling's book "Factfulness" astonished me with the improvements we have made. www.gapminder.org/factfulness/

    • @thaddeuscramer2312
      @thaddeuscramer2312 Před 3 lety +2

      The only thing better is to be with your true love, the tiger you fucked 😂 (This is a reference to Guard #3’s name and pic for the uninitiated so nobody thinks I’m actually suggesting bestiality lol

  • @HD-fd7tn
    @HD-fd7tn Před 3 lety +397

    I was able to tour the marble house in Newport RI a few years ago. The house belonged to Consuelo Vanderbilt and her family. During the tour they mentioned how her mother put so much focus on getting her prepared to marry royalty starting from a young age.

    • @LukeandLucas
      @LukeandLucas Před 3 lety +33

      Wonderful tour. I did the 5 mansion tour two years ago and well worth it. If anyone goes to Newport do the mansion tours but also assure you do the cliff walk, it’s an amazing hike/walk.

    • @HD-fd7tn
      @HD-fd7tn Před 3 lety +9

      @@LukeandLucas the city is beautiful. I went with my grandparents and they took us to the mansions and the cliff-walk

    • @madelineasmr926
      @madelineasmr926 Před 3 lety +20

      There are women who still do this to their daughters and that makes me so sad. If I had a daughter I would put her in the best school I could afford and spend money to let her enjoy hobbies and interests as much as possible.

    • @blippypippy8167
      @blippypippy8167 Před 2 lety +4

      Groomed for it.

    • @blippypippy8167
      @blippypippy8167 Před 2 lety +1

      @@madelineasmr926 yes. It still goes on.

  • @NotKimiRaikkonen
    @NotKimiRaikkonen Před 3 lety +138

    Churchill isn't thought to have another father. His parents had a long engagement and it was noted that he and his brother both looked like his father. He was just conceived before they married.

    • @annarose3354
      @annarose3354 Před 3 lety

      Who cares?

    • @justnoob8141
      @justnoob8141 Před 3 lety +5

      Huh, so they were busy before the wedding then, that explain why she gave birth 7 months later

    • @criznueve
      @criznueve Před 3 lety +1

      Was t his mother know. To be a tiger in bed hence she didn’t want to wait till marriage to consummate

  • @gareth449
    @gareth449 Před 3 lety +145

    not only did they save the mansions and estates , they probably saved the Gene pool cutting down on the inbreeding , but even though they saved the day at the time , today many of the aristocrats are in financial difficulties as the upkeep of a mansion and grounds are crippling ,mostly the only ones that are doing ok are the ones that put them into heritage trusts decades ago or ones that never had an estate

    • @asamanyworlds3772
      @asamanyworlds3772 Před 2 lety +2

      Real reason

    • @wendiwonderly1419
      @wendiwonderly1419 Před 2 lety

      This is why you have people like Eric Clapton buying up these castles

    • @hollysisk9975
      @hollysisk9975 Před rokem +1

      The English inheritance taxes are crippling which dramatically affected the ability of heirs to maintain the estates.

    • @AK-jt7kh
      @AK-jt7kh Před rokem +2

      Is this compassion for people born into wealth? That’s different.

  • @Nshy7
    @Nshy7 Před 3 lety +255

    "Living only on a small allowance from his father" the shade!!!

    • @ah5721
      @ah5721 Před 3 lety +17

      Back in the day some men weren't considered full grown until they married. Their fathers wanted to make sure they married to carry on the "legacy"

    • @rahimadreama23
      @rahimadreama23 Před 3 lety +8

      I think she means how a very popular ex President of the United States has said those exact same words, lol. "A small allowance of one million dollars"

  • @wholeNwon
    @wholeNwon Před 2 lety +27

    My mother once told me that it's just as easy to love a rich girl as a poor one. But, after I had dated two members of families that were among the wealthiest in the world, I learned that it just isn't true. They both lacked empathy for others.

    • @quanbrooklynkid7776
      @quanbrooklynkid7776 Před rokem +1

      That's crazy

    • @mocha7707
      @mocha7707 Před rokem +1

      I have an empathy issue and I've grown up poor so I'm pretty sure you literally just found the wrong people.

    • @wholeNwon
      @wholeNwon Před rokem +1

      @@mocha7707 You're probably right. I grew up with very modest means, too. Empathy for others is important to me.

  • @adamjenks9613
    @adamjenks9613 Před 3 lety +70

    The “Jenny from the Block” line was very well played.

  • @ipellaers
    @ipellaers Před 3 lety +118

    The cheek of Worth - "If it was up to me I'd make this practice a hanging offense" - after doing it himself first.
    Guy could have taken place in a modern government with that attitude.

    • @MsJubjubbird
      @MsJubjubbird Před 3 lety +12

      He was probably fine until his son in law spent all his money at the casino

    • @Jacques_a_dit
      @Jacques_a_dit Před 3 lety

      @@MsJubjubbird I’m not sure but I believe I saw in a Smithsonian TV series about this subject that his wife orchestrated the marriage (as most of this marriages) and he wasn’t very happy with it from the beginning. I also think she separated and he willed than to get the rest of his fortune his grandchildren had to move back to America and abandon the title.

    • @NandyNT
      @NandyNT Před 2 lety +1

      That was Mr Work. Worth was the French couture dress designer. :)

    • @anthyavila9726
      @anthyavila9726 Před 2 lety +1

      @@Jacques_a_dit That still doesn't justify why he is blaming THE DAUGHTERS who obviously had zero input in marriages.

    • @anthyavila9726
      @anthyavila9726 Před 2 lety +3

      It's almost as if he were sour that his daughter only managed go snag a baron, while the other girls got counts, and even princes, making their family quite ordinary in comparison.

  • @Amstro515
    @Amstro515 Před 3 lety +617

    At least their parents believed they were worth something.... T_T

  • @sacred-chan157
    @sacred-chan157 Před 3 lety +229

    parents now: I will give you $5.
    Parents then: I will give you FOR $5

    • @canwetalkaboutthat6117
      @canwetalkaboutthat6117 Před 3 lety +6

      5...5 dollar foot long.

    • @privatename2426
      @privatename2426 Před 3 lety

      Hahaha

    • @tracesprite6078
      @tracesprite6078 Před 3 lety +8

      American parents were saying, "I will give my daughter plus millions of dollars in return for titles."

    • @Gaga682
      @Gaga682 Před 3 lety +2

      Nowadays parents readily sell their kids into slavery or organ extraction.

    • @tracesprite6078
      @tracesprite6078 Před 3 lety +1

      @@Gaga682 That's so horrifically sad.

  • @sestinator
    @sestinator Před 3 lety +65

    Me, an American with $3 to my name in 2021:
    *You're welcome British aristocracy*

  • @penlimjoco
    @penlimjoco Před 3 lety +35

    It could also be said as “how British nobility traded titles to pay debts”

  • @kirstenirwin9084
    @kirstenirwin9084 Před 3 lety +241

    They're the Million Dollar Princesses. Elizabeth McGovern, the actress who played Cora on Downton Abbey, did a series of documentaries for the Smithsonian Channel about these ladies.

    • @clwdT
      @clwdT Před 3 lety +3

      Whats the documentary called?

    • @Sarah-wf2bl
      @Sarah-wf2bl Před 3 lety +8

      @@clwdT “Million Dollar American Princesses”

    • @MsJubjubbird
      @MsJubjubbird Před 3 lety +4

      I think they're called dollar princesses because it implies that they're not real aristocracy (a bit cheap)

    • @salina8653
      @salina8653 Před 3 lety +3

      @@MsJubjubbird Yep, take the money but you get no respect.

    • @bharnden7759
      @bharnden7759 Před 3 lety +5

      Old boy downtown, blew through his family money. Went through his wife's money. wanted cousin matthew's money.........and more.

  • @shammydammy2610
    @shammydammy2610 Před 3 lety +39

    The peacock dress doesn't actually have feathers on it. The design is gold and silver threads with bead work and beetle wings.

  • @sabrinayorde5315
    @sabrinayorde5315 Před 3 lety +347

    Jennie wasn’t called “Lady Randy” for nothing, she carried on multiple affairs, remarried a man 20yrs her junior and even got a tattoo!! A real badass lady!

    • @debrajenkins5390
      @debrajenkins5390 Před 3 lety +10

      Love Jenny; ahead of her time!

    • @ivy3001
      @ivy3001 Před 3 lety +9

      How is she a badass lady

    • @annabellevy3388
      @annabellevy3388 Před 3 lety +1

      She was gorgeous too

    • @stevehorspool2969
      @stevehorspool2969 Před 3 lety +12

      A "badass" or a complete douchebag? If it were a man your outlook would be completely different. 🤢🤮

    • @tosinakin2508
      @tosinakin2508 Před 3 lety +27

      @@stevehorspool2969 Yes, but she was a woman living in the early 20th century. For her to do those things was a departure from the oppressive gender norms and quite nearly a political statement. For a man to do those things was typical and expected. They're not comparable in the slightest. If you want to compare genders here, pick a man who flouted the gender norms for men.

  • @juliansearcie1758
    @juliansearcie1758 Před 3 lety +81

    Call it what you will .sounds like pimping to me

  • @spaceman081447
    @spaceman081447 Před 3 lety +59

    It works the same way inside America as well. Jackie Bouvier was from an "old money" American aristocratic family. Unfortunately, while the family may have been rich in "status," they were "cash" poor, at least relatively speaking. However, Jackie "married well" by becoming the wife of a congressman. That was how she became Jackie Bouvier Kennedy. Five years after her husband was killed, she again "married well" by becoming the wife of a wealthy Greek shipping magnate. That was how she became Jackie Bouvier Kennedy Onassis.

    • @InsaneNuYawka
      @InsaneNuYawka Před 2 lety +3

      So that was her “skill” 🙄😒

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe Před 2 lety +8

      @@InsaneNuYawka she got traded like a crypto actually.

    • @InsaneNuYawka
      @InsaneNuYawka Před 2 lety +2

      @@PHlophe she could’ve not participated in this lifestyle

    • @plumblossompanda4567
      @plumblossompanda4567 Před 2 lety +2

      @@PHlophe Traded like crypto 🤣🤣🤣

    • @maryrose4712
      @maryrose4712 Před 2 lety

      You seem to forget that Jackie's mother remarried to Hugh Auchincloss, who was very wealthy,

  • @drweir
    @drweir Před 3 lety +45

    The girl shown at 8:35 was Gabrielle Ray, an English stage actress and this image is actually from a postcard depicting her in a play called "The Dollar Princess". It also starred Lily Elsie, who made fashion waves in 1906 for her role in The Merry Widow as it helped to popularize the big hats of the day.

  • @stephaniem5329
    @stephaniem5329 Před 3 lety +221

    I think the most confusing thing about this video is that it's on WEIRD History at all. Families have been marrying their sons and daughters off for benefits for literally hundreds of years. The idea of marrying for romance is a new concept. People marrying off women who might not have liked their spouse because the man was noble? Literally standard practice.

    • @rezandrarizkyirianto-1933
      @rezandrarizkyirianto-1933 Před 3 lety +6

      Yeah, it was as stereotypical as a villain living in a castle surrounded by a moat of lava

    • @heatfoe
      @heatfoe Před 3 lety +34

      Exactly why dowries are a thing. And have been for centuries. Females were/are treated as a commodity to be bought and sold.

    • @Introvertsan
      @Introvertsan Před 3 lety +19

      Exactly marrying for love is an extremely new concept you grow to love the person usually

    • @leonamay8776
      @leonamay8776 Před 3 lety +7

      @@Introvertsan the concept actually isn't that new. But the fact that most of us (in the West, at least) try to do it? Yep, modern.

    • @Introvertsan
      @Introvertsan Před 3 lety +7

      @@leonamay8776 Yes but it doesn't work obviously as the divorce rates are high with the marrying for love phenomena

  • @shirahime23
    @shirahime23 Před 3 lety +58

    I immediately thought of Cora Crawley, nee Levinson, the Countess of Grantham.

  • @zombieboobies
    @zombieboobies Před 3 lety +80

    Gold digging goes both ways

  • @lalakuma9
    @lalakuma9 Před 3 lety +29

    I didn't expect the Churchills to be so broke

    • @alexzadrazil7242
      @alexzadrazil7242 Před 2 lety +5

      After being prime minister a second time, he was so broke that his friends bought a house for him and let him live in it for the rest of his life.

  • @The7Reaper
    @The7Reaper Před 3 lety +62

    "Why are people so weird in the 21st century"
    Meanwhile in the 19th century:

  • @mooioom09
    @mooioom09 Před 3 lety +44

    It's actually not strange. We humans have done this shit for thousands of years. It's just part of history we must learn not to repeat.

  • @G0thCrayon
    @G0thCrayon Před 3 lety +225

    Ye gods... Consuela was a pretty, pretty lady.

    • @juliacrespo5415
      @juliacrespo5415 Před 3 lety +32

      Highly intelligent to boot

    • @stevecarter8810
      @stevecarter8810 Před 3 lety +12

      Ten points for "Ye gods!"

    • @erictroxell715
      @erictroxell715 Před 3 lety +10

      Holy cow she was indeed GORGEOUS

    • @G0thCrayon
      @G0thCrayon Před 3 lety +5

      @@erictroxell715
      The mustachio that Winthrop was sporting in that new-fangled picture-box painting was pretty badass as well.

    • @G0thCrayon
      @G0thCrayon Před 3 lety

      @@stevecarter8810
      Well, even that super-eccentric, baby-genital-fixated weirdo "named-but-must-never-be-named," (A.K.A.: ghost-writer/author of the *Bible*) at least straight-up admitted to other gods existing. Which makes the use of the singular proper-noun "God" seem... Peculiar logic.

  • @ItscharliebabyXD
    @ItscharliebabyXD Před 3 lety +78

    I was eating while watching this and almost choked when I heard “Jenny who we are assuming was from the block” lmao 😂

  • @cynthiatolman326
    @cynthiatolman326 Před 3 lety +29

    No doubt, but it was mostly an exchange equal on both sides for the families. They each got what they wanted except for the bride, her feelings weren't important, not unusual for the time.

  • @Elle--lc7ep
    @Elle--lc7ep Před 3 lety +21

    I like how you structured this into several smaller bits that kept my attention. Also, I liked your humor too! I have been subscribed for a while to your channel and I feel like this documentary really stood out. Anyway, awesome job during these crazy times and keep up the good work!

  • @jlshel42
    @jlshel42 Před 3 lety +185

    America: the world hates us, but loves our money. Biz as usual.

  • @guard3745
    @guard3745 Před 3 lety +25

    Hey Cathy Hay has been working on remaking the peacock dress for years now. It’s been a crazy process and Bernadette Banner even got involved at some point.

  • @anahinayeli
    @anahinayeli Před 3 lety +42

    Love your videos!! The part where you mentioned the marriage went unconsummated with the woman who was a lesbian got me thinking how people knew when marriages were officially consummated. Got to googling and THAT is definitely a weird history lmao maybe a good video idea?? Thanks for the knowledge & entertainment!!

    • @Justahousewife-10
      @Justahousewife-10 Před 2 lety

      Where is the best place to learn how to tell if marriages were consummated back then?

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe Před 2 lety

      @@Justahousewife-10 the family would be on the other room while people smash . but in the Maghreb and turkey men have to bring proof of a consummated marriage to the family.
      I feel like for most lesbos and gays . it would be smart to camouflage like this since half of the world is super hostile to gayness.

  • @kirbymarchbarcena
    @kirbymarchbarcena Před 3 lety +20

    This probably inspired the "Mail-To-Order Bride" scheme

    • @SlapstickGenius23
      @SlapstickGenius23 Před 3 lety +3

      🤮 that was a bummer. Most Mail to order Hawaiian and Japanese brides (grooms are occasionally included) are in unhappy relationships with their white American mates.

  • @Sarafimm2
    @Sarafimm2 Před 3 lety +55

    There is a woman on CZcams who is hoping to recreate the "Peacock" dress.

  • @cymbolichuman433
    @cymbolichuman433 Před 3 lety +12

    Rough for a young innocent girl to be forced to marry for any reason.

  • @yateleyhypnotherapy2111
    @yateleyhypnotherapy2111 Před 3 lety +16

    Well, the Europeans were already trading their daughters for titles for generations anyway. It’s just there were a lot more people who could claim to have a tad of noble blood.

  • @rowenadanteilagan5868
    @rowenadanteilagan5868 Před 3 lety +4

    1800's: Dollar princess
    2000's: Sugar mommy

  • @rosehepworth3365
    @rosehepworth3365 Před 3 lety +11

    I saw that ‘Peacock dress’ in person in Kedleston Hall once and it was spectacular. The dress itself notoriously weighs over 4.5kg due to its luxurious materials such as gold and silver threads.

  • @Glesga_lassie
    @Glesga_lassie Před 3 lety +38

    Historical Fashion CZcamsr Cathy Hay is recreating the "peacock dress" you should check it out if you're into that kinda thing!

  • @fleurpouvior2967
    @fleurpouvior2967 Před 3 lety +15

    The peacock dress! I did not know she was a dollar princess, that dress is legend!

  • @___LC___
    @___LC___ Před 3 lety +7

    Omg!! The Peacock Dress!!! Hats off to Cathy for recreating it currently!

  • @shmashley
    @shmashley Před 3 lety +76

    When you see Mary Leiter and hope there's a Peacock Dress acknowledgement coming....

  • @zach7193
    @zach7193 Před 3 lety +47

    Man, that's something. Ulysses S. Grant had a daughter who married to a Englishman and their marriage didn't last long. Matchmakers exist? Man, I had no idea! It's like the book in Choices. Only the rich. Also I had no idea that the one of the Dollar Princesses was gay! Man, that's something. Boy.

    • @shayb8203
      @shayb8203 Před 3 lety +2

      Don't you love this channel!? I learn so much

    • @jennie-bq1eq
      @jennie-bq1eq Před 3 lety +2

      we are learning something new today ig

    • @Farouk04839
      @Farouk04839 Před 3 lety

      @@erinjaegernigeria Winnaretta Singer de Polignac.

  • @janen1120
    @janen1120 Před 3 lety +13

    3:18 Eyes can never lie and Consuelo Vanderbilt eyes looks so sad and depress in this video, its breaks my heart... I am happy she that she divorce her husband...

  • @shesaknitter
    @shesaknitter Před 3 lety +8

    The image at 10:41 is not a Dollar Princess. That is the Empress Elisabeth of Austria, nicknamed "Sissi" by her family.

  • @MoejiiOsmanTV
    @MoejiiOsmanTV Před 3 lety +61

    So basically the reason all these English castles didn't get destroyed is bcuz of America. USA! USA! USA

  • @Anna-po1sb
    @Anna-po1sb Před 3 lety +25

    It still goes on to this day with child actors

  • @DarkLadyJade
    @DarkLadyJade Před 3 lety +11

    This is basically marriage throughout history.

  • @ashleyknight4122
    @ashleyknight4122 Před 3 lety +2

    I’ve been reading so many books on this and watching shows about this topic. Excited you covered it!

  • @Ryanmanification
    @Ryanmanification Před 3 lety +22

    So the movie ”Crimson Peak” is based on this history?

    • @daimhinaubrey3194
      @daimhinaubrey3194 Před 3 lety +3

      damn you’re making a HELLA good point!!

    • @doeeyes2
      @doeeyes2 Před 3 lety +4

      Omg thank you! I couodnt remember the name!

  • @caroltomko9261
    @caroltomko9261 Před 2 lety +5

    I have read many books and watched many documentaries on this subject and I have never heard them called “Dollar Princesses”. They are referred to as American Princesses.

  • @adriannespring8598
    @adriannespring8598 Před 3 lety +6

    Sex trafficking is the oldest business deal.

  • @MsPiinkFllamingo
    @MsPiinkFllamingo Před 3 lety +3

    I love this guy’s voice! Great narration!!

  • @jessicamillard9206
    @jessicamillard9206 Před 2 lety +1

    I love your videos, they are always very informative!

  • @WorldBrideMagazine
    @WorldBrideMagazine Před 2 lety +4

    This was absolutely brilliant. Well narrated. Brilliant research. Love the connection you all made with then and now. We would love to share this content with our readers as we prepare to share more wedding information with the new movie Gilded Age coming this month.

  • @deecee9548
    @deecee9548 Před 3 lety +7

    Oh wow, the Peacock dress was absolutely stunning in it's time - just an aside.
    USA and UK had/ have a really strange relationship

  • @SheisB515
    @SheisB515 Před 3 lety +3

    "Dolla dolla 👸 y'all" 😂😂😂 that was unexpected but appreciated

  • @Garbeaux.
    @Garbeaux. Před 3 lety +11

    I love the Gilded Age. It was such a fascinating time. While Americans did marry into European continental nobility, the British aristocracy was seen as more exclusive. Therefore, rich Americans were fine with marrying their daughters to British nobles. They both got something out of the deal. Back then, unlike today, titles carried much more dignity, respect, and weight.

  • @remalm3670
    @remalm3670 Před 3 lety +22

    ... also, there was that 'inbreeding' thing ...

  • @davidlape3325
    @davidlape3325 Před 3 lety +5

    Love the channel and content. Stay safe and blessed.

  • @btetschner
    @btetschner Před 2 měsíci

    A+ video!
    LOVE IT! That is an excellent topic for conversation too!

  • @kathleenreyes4345
    @kathleenreyes4345 Před 3 lety +8

    Only love can withstand “forever after”!!

  • @violadabratsche4914
    @violadabratsche4914 Před 3 lety +8

    AAAH PEACOCK DRESS SHOUTOUT

  • @HXXIIA
    @HXXIIA Před 3 lety +116

    So early I might just sell my kids to celebrate 🥂

  • @castlecity9746
    @castlecity9746 Před 3 lety +1

    That was so interesting! Thank you!

  • @victorrodrigueesoficial
    @victorrodrigueesoficial Před 2 lety +5

    Basically, Cora Crawley from Downton Abbey. She loved Robert, and he sort of loved her, but it was clear that the marriage was very profitable for both. The Levinsons had an Countess in the family, and the Crawleys received loads of money and wealth from the marriage.

    • @yinghongtan
      @yinghongtan Před rokem

      The happy marriage didn’t stop Robert from cheating on Cora Crawler.

  • @lynnefromqueenslandaustral1171

    My Grandma always said “Marry for love, but only love where there’s money”.

  • @rideordis810
    @rideordis810 Před 3 lety +19

    Fascinating to think about what would have happened without the infusion of cash. The aristocracy with centuries old properties slowly falling apart.
    Look what happened in France. So many abandoned former estates. No one can afford the upkeep.

  • @MBAinternetmktg
    @MBAinternetmktg Před 3 lety

    Excellent video, thank you!

  • @brendasmith7879
    @brendasmith7879 Před 3 lety +5

    Marry for Love not just money. Money helps but does not fulfill your heart.

  • @darnold817
    @darnold817 Před 3 lety +10

    Real question is...when are we getting 90s Timeline episodes?!

  • @willardSpirit
    @willardSpirit Před 3 lety +17

    Title daddies needs some sugar mamas' sugar?

  • @gaslitworldf.melissab2897
    @gaslitworldf.melissab2897 Před 3 lety +63

    Why not marry for both: love and financial benefits. After all, nothing is permanent. Whatever comes to be can be destroyed, including marriage and wealth.

    • @josephj6521
      @josephj6521 Před 3 lety +4

      Great tactic. I agree. 😉

    • @Crowvamp1979
      @Crowvamp1979 Před 3 lety +4

      Because it's just that easy, snap your fingers and find love with someone rich! Remember back then women were still considered property, they belonged first to their fathers and then to their husbands. If they didn't play along, it was off to a nunnery or the street.

    • @gisellerodrigues571
      @gisellerodrigues571 Před 3 lety +2

      Ain't nobody got time for that. I wouldn't be able to find a poor love to save my own life right now, imagine a rich one right in time to save my castle from ruin.
      It was easier buying a wife with titles back then, and it's still easier finding someone If you have something to offer back right now.

    • @Introvertsan
      @Introvertsan Před 3 lety +2

      You usually can't do both it's unrealistic and a lot of marriages for love crash and burn

    • @supermodelwannabe
      @supermodelwannabe Před 2 lety

      Maybe some were lucky but most of them were not.

  • @taestyinbusan3163
    @taestyinbusan3163 Před 2 lety +1

    1:03 I LOVE the mention of Theadora! I am fascinated by the story of her life.

  • @siphokazileratomalinga2969
    @siphokazileratomalinga2969 Před 2 lety +10

    It's interesting that these self made millionaires mostly had daughters but instead of treating them like blessings,they chose to not empower them in running the family businesses,for example. It's a damn shame.
    This video also highlights how important it is to be a woman of means. These women lived lives by their own standards and weren't shackled to being stuck in unhappy marriages

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe Před 2 lety

      Siphokazi, its old Belungu's Lobola. it got them to places.

  • @miggywiggy
    @miggywiggy Před 3 lety +3

    That Jenny from the block joke is the best one I've heard on this channel by far

  • @hannahale7932
    @hannahale7932 Před 3 lety +1

    i love the young persons guide to the orchestra in the back! one of my favorite pieces to play!

  • @laurenconrad1799
    @laurenconrad1799 Před 3 lety +2

    Someone: Money can't buy you class.
    Gilded Age Robber Barons: Hold my beer. And this check for ten million dollars.

  • @simonpeter5032
    @simonpeter5032 Před 3 lety +11

    11:05 he would have a point if these daughters were doing so independently, as if American millionaires of the 19th century didn’t control their offspring.

  • @thedragonoracle7627
    @thedragonoracle7627 Před rokem +7

    My grandmother has been married 3 times, the first 2 were for love. Husband 1 was an abusive alcoholic, husband 2 wound up being our country’s first official serial killer (not USA). Husband 3 was definitely just for convenience since my family’s banking and invention background was now ruined by scandal.

  • @bianca_1005
    @bianca_1005 Před 3 lety +1

    Love the background music!