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  • Content warning: Discussion of self harm
    Antonia Gentry and Brianne Howey took my breath away in this scene.
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    New relationships and challenges await Georgia and Ginny as they navigate life in Wellsbury - until secrets from the past threaten everything.
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  • @erikadelatorre.
    @erikadelatorre. Před rokem +6844

    "is it me? is it because of me?" she keeps thinking she has the fault of everything and that's so heartbreaking. I love georgia.

    • @LifeisaBeautifulting
      @LifeisaBeautifulting Před rokem +223

      To be fair Ginny does blame everything on Georgia

    • @YanAsims
      @YanAsims Před rokem +51

      @@LifeisaBeautifulting I wonder why..

    • @Starpinklittle
      @Starpinklittle Před rokem +57

      *I was created for a single mom, and I see Georgia like I see my own mom, I remember what SHE HAD TO FACE AS PEOPLE'S JUDGMENT about her choice to have me, I remember the rebellious moments I lived with her and the happy moments we had too. Georgia wants to protect Ginny to prevent her daughter from going through all the bad things she went through as my mom also did for me 🥺😖😪. And this is so sad.* I hope them both find the happiness they deserved in the 3°rd season.

    • @katorobles823
      @katorobles823 Před rokem +1

      It's because she's white and she has severe white guilt

    • @xElmaniix
      @xElmaniix Před rokem +15

      ​@@LifeisaBeautifulting she didn't blame her for this...

  • @debanjalimajumder6783
    @debanjalimajumder6783 Před rokem +8788

    “You give all your pain to me. I can handle it”
    Always breaks me. 😭

    • @creedorian
      @creedorian Před rokem +1

      @JC shut up why do ppl always do this

    • @bojuu
      @bojuu Před rokem +42

      @JC girl

    • @-ddict-
      @-ddict- Před rokem +25

      @@bojuu he ain't lying tho

    • @holly3393
      @holly3393 Před rokem

      @jc7497bro shut upppp

    • @mr.lunatic3157
      @mr.lunatic3157 Před rokem +20

      ​@@-ddict- georgia took all the pain for ginny ..🤷

  • @olyanaioannidou8526
    @olyanaioannidou8526 Před rokem +4907

    The way it starts, with Georgia almost being angry “Show me!”, “I dont understand!” is so realistic to a parent’s reaction. Also the way it continues and how she softens after she sees Ginny is so to the point.

    • @giorgiamilan79
      @giorgiamilan79 Před rokem +10

      Si io mi chiamo Giorgia e il mio nome da personaggio è bestia e also e altro ancora hai capito adesso ok ciao buona serata e ho chiuso per sempre e definitivamente ok ciao e ho chiuso per sempre e definitivamente ok ciao e ho chiuso per sempre e definitivamente ok ciao e ho chiuso per sempre e definitivamente ok ciao e grazie mille per il video e le foto e altro ancora e io non sono morta era solo uno scherzo uffa non posso neanche divertirmi con voi personaggi e i vostri amici ok ciao buona serata

    • @sloppypeanut_butter
      @sloppypeanut_butter Před rokem +20

      @@giorgiamilan79 What?

    • @giorgiamilan79
      @giorgiamilan79 Před rokem +4

      @@sloppypeanut_butter leggi quello che ho scritto ok ciao buona giornata

    • @jessetm7732
      @jessetm7732 Před rokem +15

      @@giorgiamilan79 you’re weird, man

    • @giorgiamilan79
      @giorgiamilan79 Před rokem +3

      @@jessetm7732 leggi quello che ho scritto ok ciao buona giornata

  • @gm.8805
    @gm.8805 Před rokem +7484

    i appreciate how they don’t show the actual burns. it can be triggering for people that self harm themselves.

    • @noonecares200
      @noonecares200 Před rokem +25

      @@monochrome8552really?

    • @BriaUpNext
      @BriaUpNext Před rokem +127

      @@noonecares200 yeah for like a couple seconds i forgot what episode it was. it was one of the first three

    • @t-payne4915
      @t-payne4915 Před rokem +91

      13 reasons why I’m looking at you 👀

    • @BruceWayne-fj9bm
      @BruceWayne-fj9bm Před rokem +57

      What’s with all this “triggered” bull crap?

    • @Emma_anne
      @Emma_anne Před rokem

      @@BruceWayne-fj9bmstuff your too ignorant to understand

  • @trinaq
    @trinaq Před rokem +8377

    This scene was incredibly moving and heartbreaking , and well acted by Antonia and Brianne. Georgia may be incredibly flawed, but she would jump over fire for her children.

    • @simpleshow5571
      @simpleshow5571 Před rokem +156

      I think she would even kill for her children XD.

    • @elseluitjes2487
      @elseluitjes2487 Před rokem +55

      @@simpleshow5571 she did

    • @simpleshow5571
      @simpleshow5571 Před rokem +64

      @@elseluitjes2487 Yeah I know. This was is actually why I wrote it.

    • @SalvoBS
      @SalvoBS Před rokem +49

      screw that, georgia would walk in fire for them

    • @beatrizlopez2733
      @beatrizlopez2733 Před rokem +51

      I find it interesting that she (Georgia) instinctively went for her arms - remembering that she used her sleeves to cover her own bruises

  • @Butterfly-ll7mm
    @Butterfly-ll7mm Před rokem +3132

    “My special miracle baby girl” it hit me, Ginny saved Georgia all those years ago❤️

    • @urfavsh1teditor
      @urfavsh1teditor Před rokem +8

      700th

    • @indierock110
      @indierock110 Před 11 měsíci +29

      this relationship hits home for me and my mom she is mama bear she has done so much for me, we would not be here without each other. even after a fight my mom is like Georgia “you are the best thing that ever happened to me”❤

    • @wolfthitagames8235
      @wolfthitagames8235 Před 7 měsíci +3

      Eu acho que o milagrosa que ela se refere é que mesmo a Geórgia ter passado por tudo aquilo e não ser o maior exemplo de mãe teve uma filha como a ginny, que é criativa, estudiosa e autêntica

    • @tionnewalzier1832
      @tionnewalzier1832 Před 6 měsíci +1

      that part always gets me!

    • @susiehowe18
      @susiehowe18 Před 5 měsíci +2

      And when the silent night played in the background

  • @Emilyisabel724
    @Emilyisabel724 Před rokem +5683

    Brianne had so many incredible performance moments this season. Truly deserves all the awards! When Georgia said “give all that pain to me, i can handle it” i sobbed 😭

    • @microwavebinn4720
      @microwavebinn4720 Před rokem +53

      Literally she should at least get nominations at emmy

    • @valeriasv9442
      @valeriasv9442 Před rokem +12

      Me too 😭😭😭

    • @sallyavantmusic
      @sallyavantmusic Před rokem +43

      Georgia just demonstrated what Jesus is all about in this one scene.

    • @angel-fk6rn
      @angel-fk6rn Před rokem +9

      @@sallyavantmusic honestly 🥺

    • @anyssavolarath2082
      @anyssavolarath2082 Před rokem +9

      agreed!! There were a couple of times where i've rewind brianne's scenes because they were too good lol

  • @SK-te6ly
    @SK-te6ly Před rokem +3240

    Georgia Miller has a dozen of flaws but she is the fiercest mother and would literally make her life hell if that is what is needed to give her kids peace.

    • @bridge2148
      @bridge2148 Před rokem +4

      🤍🤍

    • @daisanchez6205
      @daisanchez6205 Před rokem +34

      I think that’s the problem. Her life being hell would make her a demon. Georgia is sometimes portrayed as a demon mom. It shows in her childrens’ affect.

    • @tiamarrow6366
      @tiamarrow6366 Před 10 měsíci +17

      To be honest….she’s not a good mother. Yes she’s done a lot for her kids but she’s a narcissist who like Ginny says “is a force and takes up so much space” Georgia makes everything about herself, and can never fully admit when she’s in the wrong. Yes she was abused as a child, but she’s an adult now….all of those illegal things that she did as a teenager, and running away from her problems….she doesn’t need to do that anymore, and she doesn’t realize that by continuing to do that it actually sets a bad example for Ginny and Austin because it’s teaching them that when things start to go south….run away from your problems instead of facing them. There’s also the fact that she doesn’t understand Ginny’s struggles with being black since she and Austin are white, she committed fraud by purchasing two debit cards in Ginny and Austin’s names which if and when they try to get debit cards once they turn 18….their credit scores will be screwed. There’s also the fact that Georgia might’ve killed both of her ex-husbands, she stole money from her job, and she’s most likely the reason that Ginny and Marcus broke up. Georgia didn’t have a good childhood, and now that she sees Ginny acting like a teenager and having a good relationship, she’s jealous of her….she literally told Marcus that he’s damaged…..All that happened with Marcus was that his best friend died, now yes he was devastated but I doubt he was “damaged” and it seemed like when Georgia told him that….she put fear into his mind which caused him to doubt himself, and when Marcus broke up with Ginny and Ginny cried to Georgia…..Georgia didn’t even seem like she cared that much. Ginny was clearly hurt, but Georgia tried to dismiss her pain by saying “you’re fine” when sometimes all a child needs is to let their emotions out and be sad.

    • @ladytesha1
      @ladytesha1 Před 8 měsíci +6

      ​@tiamarrow6366 facts, now why is that so hard for people to see that, Georgia not there for her kids mentally and emotionally

    • @annagonzales8178
      @annagonzales8178 Před 7 měsíci

      And has

  • @christinamomern9100
    @christinamomern9100 Před rokem +4583

    Im glad they did a scene like this. Really shows the reality of living with mental health issues in the most accurate way without being so graphic. Both of these talented actresses deserve an award for this.

    • @evancahill8950
      @evancahill8950 Před rokem +27

      Way better than 13 reasons why

    • @xhoanamali9688
      @xhoanamali9688 Před rokem +10

      I I hope they do more things like this in the following seasons. I love Ginny and Georges dynamic.

  • @LupercalRising
    @LupercalRising Před rokem +2423

    Self harm is incredibly disturbing, as a parent I cant imagine how it feels to see that on your child

    • @BriaBarrows
      @BriaBarrows Před rokem +68

      Heartbreaking

    • @reecenichols4425
      @reecenichols4425 Před rokem +176

      Fam, my mom got pissed off at me and grounded me when she found out I sh from like everything and yelled at me because "you aren't supposed to be sad, you have a better life than a lot of people so you aren't allowed to be sad"

    • @meganrose7942
      @meganrose7942 Před rokem +77

      @@reecenichols4425 I'm so sorry.. i know how that feels.. my mom says the same thing to me. And every time she taunts me about this. Take care love !

    • @ev1e..30
      @ev1e..30 Před rokem +62

      It’s hard to have a child who self harms, but what about the child ? :/

    • @user-pi3hd2bt3f
      @user-pi3hd2bt3f Před rokem +60

      My mom saw me do it once
      I she got mad then just pretended it never happened.
      She still does it. Please if God forbid your child ends up self harming don't get mad, don't yell. Its the worst thing you could ever do it only makes it worse.

  • @user-mc2tl1px3c
    @user-mc2tl1px3c Před rokem +3087

    I was literally crying. Their acting was insane in my opinion. Hope we will have S3

    • @kimchiboi3301
      @kimchiboi3301 Před rokem +25

      The girl who played Ginny is a terrible actor

    • @christinamomern9100
      @christinamomern9100 Před rokem +150

      No she isn’t. She is good. You don’t have to watch it or be disrespectful as if you can do any better

    • @user-mc2tl1px3c
      @user-mc2tl1px3c Před rokem +32

      @@kimchiboi3301 well, I don’t think so but it’s your opinion

    • @kimchiboi3301
      @kimchiboi3301 Před rokem

      @@christinamomern9100 I’m not being Disrespectful I’m just saying a fact that u idiots don’t Realize.

    • @karenalfred7224
      @karenalfred7224 Před rokem +74

      ​@@kimchiboi3301 She's really not. All of the scenes she did felt so realistic. Besides who are u to tell.

  • @annieberardino8732
    @annieberardino8732 Před rokem +981

    “You give me all that pain, I can handle it”
    ❤ parents, this is how you talk to your kids.

    • @BriaBarrows
      @BriaBarrows Před rokem +7

      Yup

    • @angelikalaser7778
      @angelikalaser7778 Před rokem +58

      Oh you mean not the classical: " you stop this nonsense immediatly, what have I done to deserve this" and " you think you have problems?!"
      I wonder how many parents are really so emathetic to be able to react like the mother shown in the show and not judge and control.

    • @shannonhill1078
      @shannonhill1078 Před rokem +15

      I did not have a family member that supports me they just yelled at me and threatened to leave

    • @John-ls4xh
      @John-ls4xh Před rokem +3

      @@shannonhill1078 you can talk sugar cube. What's bothering you, Jesus loves you very much btw sis

    • @shannonhill1078
      @shannonhill1078 Před rokem +4

      @@John-ls4xh I'm worried that things are not going to get better

  • @alicynsenior4952
    @alicynsenior4952 Před rokem +905

    Though Georgia invaded Ginny’s privacy by reading her diary, im glad she did because she was finally ready to listen and pay attention to the pain Ginny had been going through

    • @victoriabaez2769
      @victoriabaez2769 Před rokem +48

      Yeah, maybe. But soon or later she would know about Ginny's self harming. It's so sad, but our parents have to support our emotions and problems, so we don't need to write or keep it in secret, they need to make us feel comfortable to talk about our good and bad days without being judged.
      Georgia supported Ginny and also Ginny spit it out what was going on. It's good to have parents that care about our emotions, no matter how bratty we act towards them mostly. I'm not defending Georgia freaking out and looking for the burns, because her reaction gave me triggers of my parents doing the same. But her reaction is also relatable of a mom concerned about her daughter's mental health.

    • @Thisizmyname
      @Thisizmyname Před rokem +32

      Sometimes as a parent… you just have to be willing to piss your kids off. It may just save their life.

    • @domtube4783
      @domtube4783 Před rokem +8

      ​@@Thisizmyname this is so true. You can save them from themselves from doing decisions that can ruin or change their lives.

    • @littleleah310
      @littleleah310 Před 9 měsíci

      Yess

    • @annagonzales8178
      @annagonzales8178 Před 7 měsíci +2

      Priorities when you’re a parent and your child is going through stuff youd do anything to know and understand it’s what love is. As a parent your the bad guy a lot of the time for the right reasons but the healing can’t happen w walls and secrets.

  • @xxmajesticwolfxx6459
    @xxmajesticwolfxx6459 Před rokem +1784

    This scene was such a tearjerker, but Antonia and Brianne acted their hearts out for it. What a heartbreaking scene! I'm hoping you renew this show for an S3 Netflix; it deserves one.

  • @jessabruja
    @jessabruja Před rokem +341

    This scene reminded me of when Ginny’s therapist asked if she felt like Georgia was a safe space and she said no bc she would get revenge on other kids for messing with her instead of being emotionally supportive.
    Ginny finally gets that support from her mom and feels safe enough to cry in her mom’s arms and really let it out. This is also a monster Georgia can’t get revenge on or “teach a lesson” to.
    This scene made me cry like a baby, but I also felt happy for Ginny

  • @allisonpoynor4457
    @allisonpoynor4457 Před rokem +729

    I believe this scene perfectly encapsulates Georgia as a character. She has gone through about as many horrible and painful things as one could imagine, yet in this one scene you can see that she’s experiencing the most pain she’s ever felt. She has always done everything in her power to protect her babies, and knowing that one of them has been hurting herself for years and being oblivious to it? Heart breaking! I applaud Brianne and Anotonia for the Emmy award winning acting here.

    • @lumossk3657
      @lumossk3657 Před rokem +30

      I think what really hit her is that, when she missed this she could have missed much worse things too. That's why she's angry at the beginning. She can't handle the idea of not being able to protect her children

  • @Its_Becs25
    @Its_Becs25 Před rokem +340

    As a mum to a 14 year old daughter, this scene left me a sobbing wreck. “You give all your pain to me, I can handle it” is what did it, because all parents would absolutely take every ounce of pain from their children and take it into themselves if they could. When your children are in pain, you are in pain… The performances from Brianne and Antonia were incredible the whole season, but this scene in particular was beyond ❤

  • @sicilyperez6211
    @sicilyperez6211 Před rokem +440

    Georgia saying “give all that pain to me I can handle it” broke me

  • @arianna4513
    @arianna4513 Před rokem +701

    brianne deserves an emmy for this omg. Her performance is breathtaking

  • @You-dont-get-to-know-1001
    @You-dont-get-to-know-1001 Před rokem +216

    I watched this with my mother. We both ended up sobbing because we’ve had this exact conversation. It was so real.

  • @NatalieZii
    @NatalieZii Před rokem +502

    I SOBBED during this scene. It was so powerful and almost kind of a wish fulfillment. I think it was really great to represent a scene like this of a parent who really does care and want to be there, even if they haven't known how.

  • @ninawnguyen
    @ninawnguyen Před rokem +186

    this is what 13 reasons why wanted to be. they did everything right from the acting to not showing the burns. such an impactful scene.

  • @semiralms7323
    @semiralms7323 Před rokem +310

    their acting is incredible. i cried so much

  • @graciehadlich
    @graciehadlich Před rokem +297

    This scene was so heartbreaking. The fact that they just let the actors hug and cry for a couple minutes even after this scene was such a power move and I loved it ❤

  • @lovefromwonderland
    @lovefromwonderland Před rokem +152

    Brianne Howey killed it this season. Props to her, she should win an award

    • @anabananana2326
      @anabananana2326 Před rokem +6

      This plus her scenes with Gil especially in the coffee shop are outstanding. Truly brilliant and so nuanced

  • @bunnitrixelstrange3594
    @bunnitrixelstrange3594 Před rokem +182

    The pause and suspense of Georgia waiting for an answer after she asks Ginny “Why” the second time is beautifully done by Brianne Howey. You can see she’s dying for an answer but loves and cares about Ginny so much to give her the time and space to respond. Both these actresses slayed it. Awesome show.

  • @LayRoyalty
    @LayRoyalty Před rokem +682

    Just started watching this series Friday and this is probably the best show on Netflix. Its so raw and honest with depression, self-harm, interracial relationship, being biracial. It has so many layers, if people don't like the show fine but to diss it because you don't understand it is unfair to the incredible writers and actors. What really hook me to this show was the oppression Olympics. One of the scenes that was real and honest. Definitely a show I hope to keep seeing for at least 3 more seasons.

    • @ItsLondonCity
      @ItsLondonCity Před rokem +1

      Can I have some suppports guysss subzz

    • @samiapple9889
      @samiapple9889 Před rokem +52

      ok i’m gonna say that season 1 was not that good but season 2 stepped it up in every department necessary

    • @Eli43199
      @Eli43199 Před rokem +36

      @@samiapple9889 season 2 became more serious and it was good

    • @michaelokaysin4239
      @michaelokaysin4239 Před rokem +1

      Have u even watched 13 reasons why 😑😑

    • @Killer-Frost18x
      @Killer-Frost18x Před rokem +3

      @@michaelokaysin4239 fell off after 3-4 seasons

  • @TiredKriss
    @TiredKriss Před 14 dny +5

    I havent even watched the show but im still sobbing-

  • @caroline634
    @caroline634 Před rokem +42

    I love that they keep the part of the big reveal with no sound. This scene is raw. It's just the two of them and we can feel all the emotions that they are facing.

  • @brittanyghoor814
    @brittanyghoor814 Před 8 měsíci +16

    "my special miracle baby girl" 🥺

  • @kristagentilucci3661
    @kristagentilucci3661 Před 3 měsíci +8

    1:35 you can see the moment that Georgia reigns in all of her confusion, sadness, anger, and hurt so that she can be the strong one for her daughter. She went from all of those feelings at once straight into recognizing how badly her daughter was hurting and turned back into protector mode. It really hits me every time.

  • @eleanorrigby418
    @eleanorrigby418 Před rokem +75

    this is how a parent should react if something like this happens. people do it bc they think it’ll make them feel something. they need comfort, not badgering and yelling

    • @ThursdaysChild770
      @ThursdaysChild770 Před rokem +17

      Well the bit towards the end, the beginning isn’t exactly the best reaction but it is understandable

    • @lieke9129
      @lieke9129 Před rokem +1

      My parents only reacted like the beginning

  • @angelenapulis9083
    @angelenapulis9083 Před rokem +51

    Season 2 was so good. They handled these huge, complicated, heartwrenching topics so well.

    • @gothichanako-chan3300
      @gothichanako-chan3300 Před 7 měsíci

      What episode was it

    • @xhoanamali9688
      @xhoanamali9688 Před 7 měsíci

      @@gothichanako-chan3300 season 2 episode 6 a vary marry Ginny, and Georgia Christmas special

  • @ladyezmia
    @ladyezmia Před rokem +124

    It makes me cry knowing my parents blamed me for my SH- that my mom didn’t hug me, that my dad didn’t comfort me, that they only got pissed off and told me I couldn’t tell anybody else or it would make them look bad. I wanted this reaction, I wanted help and comfort like this :)

    • @RayOSunshine98
      @RayOSunshine98 Před rokem +20

      Me too, except my mom would taunt and mock me all the time asking if I was gonna go c*t myself anytime I was slightly upset, or whenever I’d go into the kitchen. We deserved better ❤

    • @wg6276
      @wg6276 Před rokem +9

      my mom threatened to beat me then send me to a mental hospital. then still tried to make me go to school as I was a sobbing mess then took me back home because she didn’t want me to embarrass her in public like that… I didn’t want to show her & I never wanted her to break down and coddle me but in the back of my mind I just kept thinking about how good it would feel for her to hold me. I doubt she even remembers it, honestly 🫠

    • @moooavila
      @moooavila Před rokem +7

      my mother just told me it looked ugly and to stop :/ sorry we went through this

    • @Sanjali04
      @Sanjali04 Před rokem +6

      Narcissistic abusive parents are some of the most evil monsters on the planet. We deserved better

    • @sammah-lammah527
      @sammah-lammah527 Před rokem

      ​@@RayOSunshine98 my mum does exactly the same every time we argued she say and don't go c*t yourself and taunt me for it uuuh I really wish she'd be like this video 😢😢

  • @Ace_Opal
    @Ace_Opal Před rokem +223

    I havent seen this show before and have heard very little about it. But as someone who has struggled with this exact situation it is immense how accurate it is

    • @anikaxmeisel
      @anikaxmeisel Před rokem +10

      I was looking for this comment! It was like reliving it except I wish my parents were this caring/supportive

    • @Mattie69-
      @Mattie69- Před 5 měsíci +2

      The exact thing happened to me,
      Except it was cutting
      Huge vent/story ⬇️
      I’m sobbing right now watching this scene again
      It all just got blamed on me.
      My mom didn’t even care
      She laughed-
      She pulled the “we haven’t mistreated you.” Card
      The “oh I’m such a terrible mother”
      She told me to hide it, to not let anyone else see because they would investigate and potentially call cps on her.
      I stopped for a little while, then I started again
      My brother rat me out
      My mom grabbed my wrist
      (She did that the first time too)
      I had to literally push her away so I could go back inside the house
      I ran inside and was scared to death
      I knew what was going to happen
      She came in and started cussing me out with the most evil scariest grin on her face
      She grabbed me and said “oh so you’re doing that again?!”
      And yelled for my other brother to come in the room
      She held my arm up to him and said
      “guess what she’s doing again.
      She’s doing that shit again!”
      It was always my fault with her.
      My stepdad didn’t do anything, he didn’t care
      When my mom asked me why I did it all I could say was I didn’t know
      He would back her up
      And repeat her question
      “Your mother asked why.”
      I couldn’t tell them
      I wish I could
      But it’s that they don’t even care, they’re the reason.
      I’m clean rn, sorta close to a year
      I mean I had one minor relapse but I didn’t choose to count it because it was just a scratch and technically not a cut
      I just don’t get it
      Why it’s always my fault
      Why she didn’t care about how I was
      She was just angry with me
      It still hurts
      She’s so emotionally abusive and such a narcissist
      I can’t handle it she’s so neglectful

  • @risjones
    @risjones Před 3 měsíci +6

    I've never cried like this at a scene from a TV show I haven't seen. I wish I had had this so much. So much. That kind of support would have saved me long before I found the courage to save myself.

  • @anxiousbean1685
    @anxiousbean1685 Před rokem +33

    “im so sorry that i missed this” got me full on sobbing

  • @Thehannahnichols
    @Thehannahnichols Před rokem +132

    This scene makes my heart drop every time. So real.

  • @amymitman173
    @amymitman173 Před rokem +25

    this entire season got so raw and dark. i remember having a conversation like this with my mom when i was ginny's age. this scene really hit home for me.

  • @eliza2601
    @eliza2601 Před rokem +124

    we need a season three this was too good the acting the storyline all the cliffhangers. I cried every episode this is beautiful

    • @xhoanamali9688
      @xhoanamali9688 Před 11 měsíci

      We also need more moments like this in seasons 3

  • @CountryCowboy008
    @CountryCowboy008 Před rokem +56

    When she said “You give all that pain to me. I can handle it,” I did that awful and deep heave before giving way to an ugly cry; you know? That feeling like you’ve been gut-punched that you couldn’t inhale for a good couple of seconds. That’s the effect of this scene has to me.
    Honestly, if Brianne won’t get AT LEAST an Emmy nomination, then we should just cancel entertainment industry for good.

  • @nicholasgarrick8855
    @nicholasgarrick8855 Před rokem +66

    This scene is so touching, and beautiful but its also heartbreaking. It's perhaps the most powerful scene in the series.

  • @shtrurtle
    @shtrurtle Před rokem +41

    Georgia has been through so much abuse and hardship in her life - more than Ginny can ever even imagine- yet, she still has so much empathy and grief for her daughters struggles. A lot of people would say "well i had it worse", but Georgia doesnt care about that. She would rather suffer than see her children hurt

  • @hannahp.fletcher9969
    @hannahp.fletcher9969 Před rokem +25

    Georgia and Ginny are such a sweet duo... They conflict as every mother daughter does.
    How shes portrayed as a mom is amazing. She looks at her own life and has always tried to shield those kids from the hurt that she felt... She's. A good. Mom.

  • @ceelee4154
    @ceelee4154 Před rokem +20

    Having a kid makes this so heartbreaking. My son is only a toddler. But I cannot imagine finding out he was so depressed and hurt that he harmed himself. I feel everything Georgia says right here. I’d take everything on that he felt just so he didn’t have to and could only be happy. 😢

  • @shelby_button
    @shelby_button Před rokem +10

    “You give it to me. You give all that pain to me. I can handle it” 🥺💗

  • @BluesFanUK_
    @BluesFanUK_ Před rokem +75

    Something's wrong if Brianne Howey doesn't get any recognition for this. Brilliant actress.

  • @humanbeing2299
    @humanbeing2299 Před měsícem +2

    I think we all deserve to be held by someone we love, especially if we try to hurt ourselves

  • @meowz1894
    @meowz1894 Před rokem +17

    I know basically nothing about this show but this scene brought me to tears. Seeing and mostly HEARING the heartbreak in Georgias voice is heart wrenching.

  • @hollyshaw-elliemae
    @hollyshaw-elliemae Před rokem +35

    as someone whose never seen this show, this scene breaks my heart. this is how a mother should be, parents are supposed to be your ride or die. its sad that alot of people do not have that with their parents. i wish mine were a safe place for me.

    • @John-ls4xh
      @John-ls4xh Před rokem +2

      You wanna talk about it. Let me say Jesus loves you and your not alone. I hear you've been emotionally neglected and bullied at school and you wanted to end your life. God says " I am your father and I have a purpose for you, and I want the best for you. Honor me and I will guide you of all ways." I know you're in heartbreak and have been emotionally abused. Forgive your debtors as Christ forgiven you, be careful of the anger you harvest for it will consume you and become an anchor.

    • @Sanjali04
      @Sanjali04 Před rokem +1

      ​@@John-ls4xh She doesn't have to forgive abusers though. People have got to stop telling survivors to forgive their abusers. Forgiveness isn't always a good, healthy thing. Not forgiving doesn't mean the anger will consume you and destroy you. Also, forgiving can be dangerous as it can sometimes get you to go back to the abuser.

  • @tofunmitoyin-gbede7507
    @tofunmitoyin-gbede7507 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Ginny’s acting here is very underrated, the fear in her eyes when she realises her mom knows. Good acting all around

  • @faeagenda7995
    @faeagenda7995 Před rokem +16

    Ginny rolling her eyes and being Annoyed at trying to explain the reality she just lives with is so realistic

  • @yolandapedraza115
    @yolandapedraza115 Před rokem +41

    My parents reacted nothing like this when I told them about mine. It took them a while, but now they and Georgia act the exact same way towards it. In the show, after this moment, the second that Georgia sees Ginny cry, she drops everything and tries to be with her, comfort her, etc. So she doesn't hurt herself. And even though it's been years since I've done it, my parents still act the same way. The second that catch me crying, everything in the house stops and they immediately demand to know what's wrong and what they can do to help.

  • @RozenGhost
    @RozenGhost Před rokem +23

    This is one of the most emotional scenes I have ever seen. So damn well played by these actresses. My deepest respect to both of them!

  • @Kim-by5uy
    @Kim-by5uy Před 8 měsíci +7

    0:32 - Her acting here was fantastic

  • @penny0503
    @penny0503 Před rokem +8

    this scene literally gives me chills every single time. when you see how much georgia cares and seeing ginny finally break down brings tears to my eyes. they are such amazing actresses.

  • @alexandriaerson6848
    @alexandriaerson6848 Před 11 měsíci +7

    Georgia was such an amazing mom.
    She did everything for her kids.

  • @BecsWorld
    @BecsWorld Před rokem +10

    I have never watched this show a day in my life and only clicked out of curiosity but this made me cry genuine tears. I’ve been Ginny. Many times. I’ve had to face my parents after lying to them about how depressed I really was. I’ve come into their room at night crying hysterically and being unable to articulate what was wrong. My mom has mental health issues too so she understands me the most (my dad is super supportive though). Before, she would always try to find solutions when I was not in the mindset to hear any of it. Now, she knows that when I come to her like that, she just holds me just like Georgia held Ginny and lets me cry while letting me know that she is there. I love my mom more than anything in the world and I know she would do anything for me. This scene felt like my own life reflected back to me.

  • @coco63626
    @coco63626 Před rokem +81

    Such a good show. The acting, the writing, everything 🤩

  • @zayneshelton594
    @zayneshelton594 Před 8 měsíci +4

    When I watched this scene I cried so hard because I could feel the pain when Ginny said “I wanna stop” because I’ve had to say it that way too.

  • @SexyBooper
    @SexyBooper Před 4 měsíci +3

    This scene was so heartbreaking for me cause Georgia is such a good mom. Instead of blaming her daughter or accusing her of doing it for attention, she simply was there for her when she needed her. She even shouldered the blame on herself because she couldn't see her daughter was in pain. Not all parents react like this and it was what I wish my mother would have done when she found out. But my mother told me I was crazy and that I needed to go to a looney bin because I had no reason to be sad. I wish I had a mother like Georgia.

  • @thecrazymarvelgirl4287
    @thecrazymarvelgirl4287 Před 8 měsíci +3

    "You give all that pain to me...I can handle it....",
    My heart😥😥

  • @ItsLondonCity
    @ItsLondonCity Před rokem +40

    Remember no matter what … Mum is always be there for you so please respect mums and be kind to them

    • @0fficialselena__90
      @0fficialselena__90 Před rokem +7

      Hell no! My mother never did the same for me nor loved me and was just abusive as hell, I don't care for her

    • @a_krzyyx
      @a_krzyyx Před rokem +2

      mhm.. sure.

    • @angel-fk6rn
      @angel-fk6rn Před rokem +1

      i’m glad i have a good mom. 🥺

    • @janderson947
      @janderson947 Před rokem +1

      Mom's are ik there are exceptions to that rule but that comment is referring to the ones that are.

  • @francessevilla8872
    @francessevilla8872 Před rokem +17

    This scene is a small reminder of how hard it is to discuss mental health battles and how much it can impact you and the loved ones around you. Mental health matters 💖

  • @luvvreni
    @luvvreni Před rokem +54

    there were a few people on twitter calling ginny dramatic on twitter. they clearly never struggled with their mental health. also season 2 is way better than season 1. i feel like the main theme for this season is growth

  • @sharis6869
    @sharis6869 Před rokem +7

    This is the first time I'm commenting on YT because this hit me really hard and deeply. I've been on medication for more than a month now that enables me to manage my emotions. My medication made me not to feel the sad parts even if there are situations around me that could have possibly triggered me, which in a way was good. Being on medication made me feel 'normal' again alongside being on therapy for more than 2 yrs now. But this scene opened up all the sadness and pain that the medication tried to conceal for me. In a month, I have never cried again like the way I used to.
    Watching this scene is beyond moving! The actors did justice to their parts. The script was beautifully and mindfully written. The execution of the whole production showed sensitivity to the topic. In a perfect, kind and caring world, this is what people with depression, anxiety or any other mental issue would hope others may see them. Some gets this full kind of support, others are made to believe that they are understood (but only to a certain point and only to their convenience) and there are those who unfortunately struggles to get the attention and validation from others like Ginny in the beginning of the series and the underdog, Abby.
    I hope others learn to see what a struggle it is to go through this. Not just a label of 'something is wrong with you' or 'not being able to handle things right and responsibly'.
    Self-harm is serious and frustrating for those who are doing it. It leads the doer to a point that they want to give up but have to result in giving themselves a 'fake hope' that things might end up better or they want their love ones to be saved from pain if they decide to fully harm themselves. The doer goes through this option because they need to redirect the pain and sadness they are feeling from the inside to being physical because they've had enough but can't do anything about it.
    I hope this scene, this show will save lives, relationship and hope no matter things can be hard. To those who are going through heavy stuff on their own, you are not alone no matter what quality of support you might be receiving around you. You deserve love and understanding. You matter. ❤️

  • @hajrakhan557
    @hajrakhan557 Před rokem +9

    The way Georgia called Ginny her special miracle baby girl 😢

  • @tWiGgAyyy
    @tWiGgAyyy Před 4 měsíci +3

    I personally adore the fact that Georgia made a lil joke to lighten up the atmospheric heaviness. It made me and most likely many other viewers feel happier; it really proves that laughter is medicine.❤

  • @shelenedvds8519
    @shelenedvds8519 Před rokem +11

    This scene is so strong. As a mom i feel georgia guilt so much, but unfortunatly we can't protect our babies of everything 😢

  • @zoradjurdjevic9987
    @zoradjurdjevic9987 Před 5 měsíci +6

    If my family saw me with selfharm they would sent me to menthal hospital with no words😭😭😭

  • @Mark_R_Tho
    @Mark_R_Tho Před rokem +7

    This. Instant tears.
    Two incredible actresses.

  • @Skie
    @Skie Před rokem +29

    I never watched this show but this really hits me. I wish my mother and sister acted this way instead of bashing me

    • @priscillarmalawo8908
      @priscillarmalawo8908 Před rokem +3

      You'll get through it with or without them 😊😊

    • @lovanawh3858
      @lovanawh3858 Před rokem

      Same :(

    • @angelikalaser7778
      @angelikalaser7778 Před rokem +2

      They don't have the strength and capacity to look past their own ego. Like if a child with mental illness makes them look bad or as if you chose to have the struggles and just decide to stop them to be well again.
      I am so sorry about that.
      Be your own mother, that you never had

  • @tmickey05
    @tmickey05 Před rokem +6

    I've never seen this show, this just happened to pop up on my timeline but MAN... this was heavy. When she said *I'm sorry I missed this*, the tears that rolled down my face. Incredible

  • @who8210
    @who8210 Před 13 dny +1

    I wish my mother would have handled it like that when I had went through it. Not only did she scream at me for it, but she didn’t comfort me neither.

  • @marian5508
    @marian5508 Před rokem +8

    I think this scene hits the hardest when some of us have been in Ginny and Georgia's shoes. This scene is perfect.

  • @IkiK-fb9jm
    @IkiK-fb9jm Před rokem +6

    This acting is so real and perfect

  • @milliegeorge4469
    @milliegeorge4469 Před rokem +7

    When she said my special baby girl it broke my heart.

  • @camden8538
    @camden8538 Před rokem +2

    I’ve watched this scene like 6 times now and I cry every time. Such an emotional performance

  • @sashat4833
    @sashat4833 Před rokem +5

    This touched way too many sore spots. I can't stop crying.

  • @dontblameme.3063
    @dontblameme.3063 Před rokem +19

    This should be every parents reaction, by not let their sons feel guilty, but help them. You can tell how good Mother Georgia is. Brianne played her so well. ❤

  • @alexxmartine1655
    @alexxmartine1655 Před rokem +3

    Sometimes all we need is a pure hug from the ones we need from. Though we still suffer, I love how she can be honest with everything. As, for myself all I ask is for a pure hug too.

  • @pasnik_asmr
    @pasnik_asmr Před rokem +10

    It felt so heartbreaking seeing this scene. I experience sh and when my dad found out at first was angry, following me bc he wanted to see. But after he understand the pain I was going through he starting crying and that broke me. Since then, all the thing he does it’s be with me and helping me in the situations where I feel tented of sh. Both of my parents are giving me so much support and I’m just so grateful for that

    • @angel-fk6rn
      @angel-fk6rn Před rokem +1

      you’re so blessed 🥺💕 it’s honestly blessing to have good parents. my mom not so much, but my dad for sure.

    • @pasnik_asmr
      @pasnik_asmr Před rokem

      @@angel-fk6rn tbh my mom it’s not the kind of supportive mom, like georgia for example, but she gets it and doesn’t get angry if something happens. I’m happy ur dad helps u and everything 🤍

    • @angel-fk6rn
      @angel-fk6rn Před rokem

      @@pasnik_asmr that's good though. i am a daddy's girl and he'd give me the stars in the sky if he could. i'm blessed to have him and i cherish him with all of me.

  • @driazia
    @driazia Před rokem +22

    This scene killed me. These actors were at the top of their game. Applause! Give them all the awards.

  • @aribrown5576
    @aribrown5576 Před rokem +5

    This was literally heartbreaking!!!

  • @Ashley-lz9jh
    @Ashley-lz9jh Před rokem +11

    I’ve never seen this show in my life and I’m absolutely sobbing wow

  • @jordiniomupati6716
    @jordiniomupati6716 Před rokem +2

    "My special miracle baby girl " oh our mother's love is so deep

  • @Maddie56780
    @Maddie56780 Před rokem +47

    i do love this. but as someone who struggles with SH it’s also hard seeing her try to force Ginny to show it to her. that’s one of my biggest fears.

    • @marshmallow7640
      @marshmallow7640 Před rokem +8

      That happened to me, it was ✨ traumatic ✨

    • @flipfliplas
      @flipfliplas Před rokem +1

      same

    • @cecilycook5592
      @cecilycook5592 Před rokem +9

      As someone that has SH for 20 yrs ..... it may be hard.... but extremely necessary tbh, to help get it out in the open. You cant hide it anymore when someone knows. And it may be hard to handle at first, but it does truly help. My husband still checks from time to time. Last time i harmed was about 4 yrs ago. Still get the urge constantly when life gets rough. But my husband holds me accountable in my recovery from SH.

    • @Maddie56780
      @Maddie56780 Před rokem +1

      @@marshmallow7640 me too!!

    • @APerson032
      @APerson032 Před 11 měsíci

      Honestly as a kid who had their mom do that it was hard to watch. Like practically painful hard to watch

  • @ChanBoogie310
    @ChanBoogie310 Před rokem +3

    What I like the show did this season was showing how everyone is learning to understand and think about how others are feeling and not just worrying about their own problems but also being there for others.

  • @Olivetree80
    @Olivetree80 Před rokem +5

    This the most beautiful and heart wrenching scene of the series

  • @marieantoinette5233
    @marieantoinette5233 Před rokem +2

    I’m so impressed with the second season of this show. They really turned it around and took the criticism and made major changes.

  • @Mimik_lmao
    @Mimik_lmao Před 2 měsíci +1

    The fact it’s only 3:15 minutes long yet feels like over 10 minutes shows how emotional it is

  • @brittany5891
    @brittany5891 Před rokem +14

    When I tell you I had to pause this scene cause I nearly bawled my eyes out during my lunch break 😭

  • @jessicabrown3184
    @jessicabrown3184 Před rokem +2

    The mother in the scene was some of the best acting ive ever seen

  • @kierachaos8886
    @kierachaos8886 Před 8 měsíci

    This scene makes me cry, she had her young but she is such a good mom

  • @AmelieWan
    @AmelieWan Před 16 dny +2

    ‘You give all your pain to me’
    “I can handle it”
    So sad😢😂❤

  • @caffeinatedshawty
    @caffeinatedshawty Před 11 měsíci +3

    this whole scene had me absolutely sobbing.

  • @CM-hk8so
    @CM-hk8so Před 6 měsíci +5

    As a person who went through a long period of self-harm and has struggled with it in continuing years, this scene guts me. As a teen, I wanted so bad to tell my parents before they found out, but it was sooo hard. And when they finally did find out, it wasn't easy but I felt so much relief. Things weren't perfect, and there was a time after where my parent of the same gender would need to check me routinely for any injuries (because I didn't want to stop), but I felt a weight off my shoulders that they did know. And in this scene you can see how badly Ginny needed her Mother to know. Her primary anchor and protector in life.

  • @sarwanamahbub110
    @sarwanamahbub110 Před rokem +2

    this is the only video where i will always tear up no matter how many times i watch this

  • @suhanijain9603
    @suhanijain9603 Před rokem +3

    The most emotional scene of whole show...love the show

  • @tilanaviljoen4710
    @tilanaviljoen4710 Před rokem +7

    I was absolutely crying at this scene 😭 it shot me so deep in my chest 😢