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  • @superunnecessary1182
    @superunnecessary1182 Pƙed 2 lety +8639

    Feel sorry for that girl, you can tell she is super affected by her mothers behaviour.

    • @DA-js7xz
      @DA-js7xz Pƙed 2 lety +204

      Most humans shouldn't be parents.

    • @SwiSherBabii
      @SwiSherBabii Pƙed 2 lety +142

      Her mom seems like a hater. Lmao. Like her mom for sure knew that telling her dad would affect how he views her. And she gave no ducks.

    • @sunmi2539
      @sunmi2539 Pƙed 2 lety

      Yes

    • @bboxxxx7573
      @bboxxxx7573 Pƙed 2 lety +9

      @@SwiSherBabii My thoughts EXACTLY.

    • @tylerrock1453
      @tylerrock1453 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      I don't believe she's even 21.

  • @martispartis05
    @martispartis05 Pƙed 2 lety +19876

    EVIL for u guys to give them a vodka shot as their first sip of alcohol ever LMFAO

    • @grannyperson
      @grannyperson Pƙed 2 lety +262

      When i was like 12, i had vodka as my first drink lmao

    • @trillz1k468
      @trillz1k468 Pƙed 2 lety +1010

      @@grannyperson not a flex lmao

    • @martispartis05
      @martispartis05 Pƙed 2 lety +196

      BeatboxingtoadofWARRRRRRRR and u deserve financial compensation for that😭😭

    • @LeftOfToday
      @LeftOfToday Pƙed 2 lety +8

      It could have been Screech!

    • @BakedByBlara
      @BakedByBlara Pƙed 2 lety +170

      no chaser too 💀

  • @jaky411
    @jaky411 Pƙed 2 lety +520

    I feel for the girl tearing up on her story of disappointing her parents for losing her virginity and especially her dads reaction to it as well but also knowing it’s a natural part of life at that teen phase and at least she did not get pregnant or happened out of feeling pressured or out of her own will


    • @SlickWorks
      @SlickWorks Pƙed 8 dny

      I feel bad for the father big time.....

    • @CJRamos-jv3pb
      @CJRamos-jv3pb Pƙed 5 dny +1

      @@SlickWorks I feel bad for you.

    • @SlickWorks
      @SlickWorks Pƙed 5 dny

      @@CJRamos-jv3pb i take it you dont have a daughter?

  • @kayakkarate
    @kayakkarate Pƙed 2 lety +431

    "It feels kind of culty" is the exact reason I left the church ten years ago (that and many, many others). Growing up Mormon is hard, and leaving is even harder. I hope these two find their chosen families outside of church and explore all that life has to offer, without the fear of judgment attached.

    • @barlaggg
      @barlaggg Pƙed 29 dny

      Mormon isn't real Christianity it is kind of like ad cult i recommend joining a actual christian church

  • @michelleijomah1895
    @michelleijomah1895 Pƙed 2 lety +10763

    u could see the shift in emotion when her mom texted her. i hope shes ok :(

    • @babyinvasion
      @babyinvasion Pƙed 2 lety

      Her mom is a big b!tch coward. I hope she's ok too.

    • @lemeoriy1185
      @lemeoriy1185 Pƙed 2 lety +5

      when?

    • @kuma5201
      @kuma5201 Pƙed 2 lety +102

      @@lemeoriy1185 when her mom texted her
      2:33

    • @CuratedByKD
      @CuratedByKD Pƙed 2 lety +407

      & I feel like she lied about where she was when she answered that’s why they bleeped it out bc she was def not on the phone lol

    • @MeganLee1313
      @MeganLee1313 Pƙed 2 lety +151

      It's definitely tough to tell Mormon family that you're leaving the religion. It took me almost 10 years.

  • @rawrv42
    @rawrv42 Pƙed 2 lety +11872

    The amount of courage they had to stand up for themselves and be here in this video is nothing short of admirable

    • @paulwaltersheherfeministvl521
      @paulwaltersheherfeministvl521 Pƙed 2 lety +6

      GAGAGAGAGA I just disliked my own face because I am unpretty. HOWEVER: I always like my GOOD videos however. No dislikes allowed where I come from. Don't be mean, dear rarwr

    • @carsn6244
      @carsn6244 Pƙed 2 lety +6

      absolutely bruh I felt for them so much watching this like dam her dad..

    • @Johnny.bar99
      @Johnny.bar99 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      I've met thousands who've done this lol

    • @nadsplo5379
      @nadsplo5379 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      Banner under heaven

    • @erin4924
      @erin4924 Pƙed 2 lety

      @@paulwaltersheherfeministvl521 Axxl I know that's u

  • @LockeDemosthenes2
    @LockeDemosthenes2 Pƙed 2 lety +864

    Ex-Mormon here. Starting out with hard liquor as your first alcoholic drink is SUCH a horrible idea. It's better to ease into it with beer, wine, or sweet cocktails. My first alcoholic drink was Shock Top, which was a perfect choice.
    As a side note, alcoholism amongst Ex Mormons is unfortunately SUPER common. When we're prohibited from using something our whole lives, it's not surprising that we overcompensate later in life, and that can lead to addiction problems. Sex and porn addiction tends to be pretty common too, for the same reason. Just remember, use moderation and common sense when transitioning from high demand religion.

    • @xtro153
      @xtro153 Pƙed 2 lety +3

      I guess some people need a stronger dosage while others a weaker one

    • @SidV101
      @SidV101 Pƙed rokem +26

      honestly I think starting with a vodka shot is smart because it's abrasive and they're less likely to want to abuse alcohol than if their first experience was something pleasant like a pina colada

    • @X_natem
      @X_natem Pƙed rokem +3

      😂 coming from a Pentecostal family here my first drink was jack daniels 07 and I thought that it was the best shit until I started drinking crown and crown and the 8% harder mikes cans are my favorite things right now

    • @arthurdentist6630
      @arthurdentist6630 Pƙed rokem +7

      This made me laugh so hard! I can't believe they were given straight vodka for their first drink and shot gunning a beer, WTF? These guys will never touch alcohol again! Why such crappy choices for their first time? They should have given them a rum & coke or a gin and tonic for their first drink, maybe a daquiri or something, but a shot of vodka? đŸ€Ł

    • @jackr5131
      @jackr5131 Pƙed rokem

      @@arthurdentist6630 fuck that, they should've been given DMT hahahaha

  • @an6350
    @an6350 Pƙed 2 lety +2465

    The fact that her dad was distraught over her having had sex... that's fucked up. I hate that men can feel ownership over our body's, our decisions, to that extent. My dad is that same. It's just fucking gross honestly that a dad would want to keep this "pure" image of their daughter like he owns their fucking sexuality. Ewew
    I just watched a movie called Pure which was really satisfying because it hits on this issue.

    • @sunmi2539
      @sunmi2539 Pƙed 2 lety +12

      !!

    • @aaaaaa-dv5fv
      @aaaaaa-dv5fv Pƙed 2 lety

      @Kelly Q If it was true, the legislation would be like: adults are owned by other adults. But luckily each person owns just themselves. Kids belong to life, not to their parents. The whole father daughter purity thing is blatant sexism. Why don't we see mothers worry about their sons losing virginity? Patriarchy.

    • @an6350
      @an6350 Pƙed 2 lety +355

      @Kelly Q homie, he owned the seed when it was in his minging nuts, not once i became an individual consciousness. that's not how it works.

    • @cocolime6496
      @cocolime6496 Pƙed 2 lety +91

      @Kelly Q that's not how that works.

    • @annewhittemore3771
      @annewhittemore3771 Pƙed 2 lety +125

      My dad mourned me like I had died when I started wearing pants. These parents out here need some serious therapy. 😅

  • @Shane-sf5ul
    @Shane-sf5ul Pƙed 2 lety +4617

    No chaser for a vodka shot and straight up killed that beer, my guy is up to something lmao

  • @littlefurnace
    @littlefurnace Pƙed 2 lety +2889

    Couldn't have done like, a piña colada or a daiquiri to start them off with? What about wine or beer? You just straight-up fed these kids disinfectant as their first ever experience with alcohol.

    • @sqreambf
      @sqreambf Pƙed 2 lety +73

      Literally 😭😭

    • @KJA70
      @KJA70 Pƙed 2 lety +8

      So was mine at 17 lol, it’s not pleasant for everyone

    • @littlefurnace
      @littlefurnace Pƙed 2 lety +150

      @@KJA70 Sure, but at 17 you're doing it with your friends and having fun being dumb teens, and you likely weren't raised being told that it's evil.
      These poor kids are just alone in a room in front of a camera doing something that until recently they considered totally forbidden. They could have done with a bit of kindness from the producers. They're probably thinking "maybe mom had a point" now.

    • @kristijandimovski410
      @kristijandimovski410 Pƙed 2 lety +18

      @@littlefurnace ain't that deep bro

    • @DA-js7xz
      @DA-js7xz Pƙed 2 lety +4

      @@kristijandimovski410 right? Haha

  • @therkokid215
    @therkokid215 Pƙed rokem +92

    The girl is so innocent that it's actually cute. I hope things work out well for her cause you can tell she's dealing with a lot family wise.

  • @MrHpk4life
    @MrHpk4life Pƙed 2 lety +61

    I hope that girl is okay , she seems so sweet and I hope she gets to live her life the way she wants to live it.

  • @ednsav
    @ednsav Pƙed 2 lety +7232

    I hope she does get to move out soon and see how beautiful life can be without the restraints her parents put on her. I also hope though, that their relationship doesn't become estranged when that happens.

    • @rivermcfarlane7545
      @rivermcfarlane7545 Pƙed 2 lety +109

      kind of looks estranged already though, if she doesn't feel comfortable being herself :(

    • @jumpstreet2425
      @jumpstreet2425 Pƙed 2 lety +9

      😂 Mormon is very strict. They aint missing much that coudnt possibly mess up their lives. So thats what some of these people are having, fun... Restraints from parents with a s on parents is needed. Again morman is different im sure. I hope they atleast still be responsible and have accountability through their actions.

    • @DA-js7xz
      @DA-js7xz Pƙed 2 lety

      Those parents deserve to lose everything by treating their child like shit.

    • @jumpstreet2425
      @jumpstreet2425 Pƙed 2 lety

      @@stillthinking3740 its some auto correct and text in the response. Didn't proof read to see some words completely changed. Not sure why it did that. You a bright 1 i see 😂. Use better English... Hilarious

    • @kawehi13
      @kawehi13 Pƙed 2 lety +18

      I could relate to her a lot. I grew up in the same religion. My Papa was a Bishop and was even in the stake Presidency. My dad was a second counselor. So very into the church. I have a horrible relationship with my parents and no longer believe in God due to the abuse and sexual assault I went through from people of power in the church. The church is so toxic. I could go on and on about how horribly they treat sexual assault victims, BIPOC, women, and the LGBTQ.

  • @luciannebeans6679
    @luciannebeans6679 Pƙed 2 lety +2620

    Utterly heartbreaking to see this young woman in so much pain. I hope she can get a job and her own place to stay ASAP, perhaps join a support group for fellow ex-Mormons.

    • @babyinvasion
      @babyinvasion Pƙed 2 lety +39

      Yeah she doesn't need any of that shame her mom and her religion has put on her. Run, girl đŸŒŒđŸ’›

    • @Ep1cTyl3r0n3
      @Ep1cTyl3r0n3 Pƙed 2 lety +26

      I’m an Ex-JW and there’s subreddits for both that are great support structures.

    • @yassqueenslay8730
      @yassqueenslay8730 Pƙed 2 lety +6

      @@Ep1cTyl3r0n3 exjw too and the subreddits are amazing

    • @DustyC75080
      @DustyC75080 Pƙed rokem +1

      @Lucianne Beans @Lexx - agreed, all the best to her - she seems like a great girl, just needs time, ppl that love, support her

    • @MandyBon
      @MandyBon Pƙed rokem +6

      It’s been about three years since I left the church, and it took me about that much time to feel emotionally stable again. I feel for her.

  • @minuteman49917
    @minuteman49917 Pƙed 2 lety +42

    So much respect to these two. Can’t imagine what it must be like to open up like this for a video. I hope they never regret trying new things, even if those things are mistakes! To live a perfect life in shame is no life at all

    • @truthdefenders-
      @truthdefenders- Pƙed rokem

      Some "mistakes lead to these: Bacterial Vaginosis (BV)
      Chlamydia.
      Gonorrhea.
      Genital Herpes.
      Hepatitis.
      HIV/AIDS & STDs.
      Human Papillomavirus (HPV)
      Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID)

  • @bellarose1562
    @bellarose1562 Pƙed 2 lety +57

    4:30 girl if your dad has that perspective that’s his problem. Your a human being and it’s not like your never going to feel sexual ever.

    • @Xxbrokenheart808xX
      @Xxbrokenheart808xX Pƙed rokem

      Seriously. He’s a hypocrite because she was literally conceived by sex by him and her mom. Like wtf

  • @vanessawhitney5796
    @vanessawhitney5796 Pƙed 2 lety +3393

    My heart aches for that girl. That said they are both so sweet and seem fun. Great picks!

  • @colinkarseth1495
    @colinkarseth1495 Pƙed 2 lety +1454

    Shouldve got them to talk to eachother obv. They have much in common and they would have a fun time aswell drinking for the first time with someone else doing the very same thing.

    • @90MysteriumFascinans
      @90MysteriumFascinans Pƙed 2 lety +127

      Seriously. Missed opportunity! It seems like it would have been a more inherently supportive and therapeutic experience for both of them, too.

    • @Its_tiy
      @Its_tiy Pƙed 2 lety +21

      Factsssss would have been so much more comforting as well

    • @dyyylllaannn
      @dyyylllaannn Pƙed rokem +7

      Tbh they probably filmed it on separate days

    • @jackr5131
      @jackr5131 Pƙed rokem +3

      And that, kids, is how babies are made! Hahahaha!

  • @Itsfalcon9
    @Itsfalcon9 Pƙed rokem +7

    this was edited so well lol with the choir sounds and such lol. also the set design is super nice. The way you have the chair sorta floating there is cool.

  • @iplaywithrocksforfun
    @iplaywithrocksforfun Pƙed 2 lety +18

    I wish you had them play a game together to further speak on their first impression of the effects of alcohol

  • @emmy182
    @emmy182 Pƙed 2 lety +1857

    Ex- Mormon here. It gets better. I can really say I don’t feel guilty about shit anymore.

    • @maliamichelle2059
      @maliamichelle2059 Pƙed 2 lety

      It took a decade to recover but I completely agree. It was the best decision of my life to leave the church. Fuck that multi billion cult. I work by the Mormon temple and they had a conference for the youth. People were passing out waiting to get in. They didn’t even provide water.

    • @laylagurl113
      @laylagurl113 Pƙed 2 lety +32

      Same here. I left the church few months ago, I really feel for her.

    • @nathanscottkieswetter3111
      @nathanscottkieswetter3111 Pƙed 2 lety +26

      Same! So much (and by that I mean 100%) of the "forbidden stuff" is so so great and if anything has significantly enriched my life.

    • @KennediSkyeB
      @KennediSkyeB Pƙed 2 lety

      Same!

    • @Angie13286b
      @Angie13286b Pƙed 2 lety

      I agree !

  • @Schnizzlemeister
    @Schnizzlemeister Pƙed 2 lety +679

    I like how the guy didn’t get a chaser for his shot. Just straight Tito’s

  • @zumjoshua
    @zumjoshua Pƙed rokem +8

    im getting PTSD from my own past in hearing these kids' experiences with their religion. I'm glad they're on their way out and having awesome social experiences with caring loving people. Sometimes that's all we need.

  • @supernicko123
    @supernicko123 Pƙed 2 lety +21

    As an ex-mormon myself, I understand exactly where she is coming from and what she is going through. The transition is not easy, but there is a reasonable, happy, free world out there when you get to the other side. I wish I could give her a hug, it is such a hard thing to go through. You can be a good person and be free of religion at the same time. At least for me, the morals that I live by didn't change much.

    • @Lilian040210
      @Lilian040210 Pƙed rokem +1

      There are things we do that hurt others, and thing we do that don't. That's it, that's the only morality there is, everything else is a bunch of bs

    • @gbd-oq1rz
      @gbd-oq1rz Pƙed rokem

      No such thing as a good person

    • @supernicko123
      @supernicko123 Pƙed rokem

      @@gbd-oq1rz Luckily, that isn't true.

    • @Xxbrokenheart808xX
      @Xxbrokenheart808xX Pƙed rokem +2

      Exactly! I’m an ex mormon too but both sets of grandparents are still heavily mormon. I wish we could befriend her so she knows she has people who understand 😱. It’s hurts because you can see how scared she is to speak her truth

  • @christopherbanuelos4780
    @christopherbanuelos4780 Pƙed 2 lety +802

    Gets a buzz and says, "I feel like I could like hug everybody right now, definitely"
    Same girl, same! Spread love.

    • @truthdefenders-
      @truthdefenders- Pƙed rokem

      And catch these: Bacterial Vaginosis (BV)
      Chlamydia.
      Gonorrhea.
      Genital Herpes.
      Hepatitis.
      HIV/AIDS & STDs.
      Human Papillomavirus (HPV)
      Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID)

  • @dking6742
    @dking6742 Pƙed 2 lety +395

    Dudes an absolute beast for shotgunning that that whole beer on his first time drinking lmaoooo

    • @b1njjj95
      @b1njjj95 Pƙed 2 lety +13

      He was preparing for this moment his whole life đŸ€Ł

    • @mvtthew8394
      @mvtthew8394 Pƙed rokem +10

      right he bodied that

    • @rixs4309
      @rixs4309 Pƙed rokem +3

      @@mvtthew8394 yeah sure.... first time lol

  • @ThijmenCodes
    @ThijmenCodes Pƙed rokem +2

    A mother going through her daughter's trash? I can't even imagine. Give those two a hug!

  • @tatacousin
    @tatacousin Pƙed rokem +4

    I just want to give the young lady a hug! I understand her feelings of disappointing her dad.

  • @prettyyboyki
    @prettyyboyki Pƙed 2 lety +328

    y’all couldn’t have given them a smirnoff ice to start off??😭😭 straight vodka right away is evil lmao

    • @sunmi2539
      @sunmi2539 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      LMAOOO

    • @ItsJayYork
      @ItsJayYork Pƙed 2 lety +2

      the savagetry man

    • @b1njjj95
      @b1njjj95 Pƙed 2 lety +4

      Gotta just rip off that band-aid!

    • @DAICHI-SENPAI
      @DAICHI-SENPAI Pƙed rokem +1

      Honestly, it's just titos it's not that bad. I got my first experiece with some fucking warm ass uv blue and smirnorff (not the ice one either)

    • @Xxbrokenheart808xX
      @Xxbrokenheart808xX Pƙed rokem +1

      Right? And the worst flavor of white claw đŸ˜©

  • @420jdizz
    @420jdizz Pƙed 2 lety +280

    That poor girl.. feeling awful like that. Can't imagine feeling trapped in a life like that.

    • @truthdefenders-
      @truthdefenders- Pƙed rokem +2

      How would you like one of these instead? Bacterial Vaginosis (BV)
      Chlamydia.
      Gonorrhea.
      Genital Herpes.
      Hepatitis.
      HIV/AIDS & STDs.
      Human Papillomavirus (HPV)
      Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID)

    • @truthdefenders-
      @truthdefenders- Pƙed rokem

      @Miriam Svenson I don't assume anything she expressed her degenerate promiscuity, why I do assume is that filthy degenerate immoral liberals will applaud her sexual deviance.

    • @nmpltleopardi
      @nmpltleopardi Pƙed rokem

      @Miriam Svenson easily avoided? Maybe on planet silverMoon, or wherever wonderland, where condoms don't break, you're from. As for atheists being much more promiscuous than normal, religious people - that is simply statistically true. Stop making a fool of yourself and shush until you actually have a shadow of an argument.

    • @CodGeronimo
      @CodGeronimo Pƙed rokem +2

      @@truthdefenders- I would gladly take any of those over a repressed life of religious ignorance. It's not too late for you to realize that you're wasting your life away because of archaic nonsense.

    • @truthdefenders-
      @truthdefenders- Pƙed rokem

      @@CodGeronimo Cool, go for it, so which one of "those" did you pick and why, do tell.

  • @vvvody
    @vvvody Pƙed 2 lety

    they’re both so sweet I love them đŸ„ș

  • @alexh2065
    @alexh2065 Pƙed 7 měsĂ­ci +1

    5:42 That girl being like if that's the best you've got, maybe it is best to stay away from alcohol.

  • @SlapSister
    @SlapSister Pƙed 2 lety +353

    I come from a similar background. I was 20 when i lost my virginity and my dad could barely speak to me for years. Both my parents response was deeply emotionally abusive and scarring. My dad thought I had lost my value as a human being because I wasnt a virgin anymore. My mom sat me down and called me a slut over and over in my face, even though I had been dating the guy for an entire year and was 20 years old not living at home..... Not only that but being indoctrinated by these beliefs gives you a complete loss of identity once you start doing things you were supposed to never ever do that 'define' your value as a person. Your identity is formed by all the things you dont do in those communities, but life happens and once you start entering adulthood its like you have no idea who you are anymore, because youve done the things you defined yourself as never had done. If that makes sense.
    My heart goes out to that girl. I hope she reads this and knows shes not alone.

    • @kathleenmallory154
      @kathleenmallory154 Pƙed 2 lety +7

      Such an insightful comment.

    • @DA-js7xz
      @DA-js7xz Pƙed 2 lety

      I'm so sorry you were raised but absolutely trash human beings.

    • @victoriaherrera6289
      @victoriaherrera6289 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      I know exactly how you feel, thank you for writing this đŸ§šâ€â™€ïž

    • @andreabradley5837
      @andreabradley5837 Pƙed 22 dny

      That's awful! I'm sorry that happened to you.

  • @sieke87
    @sieke87 Pƙed 2 lety +75

    A piña colada, margarita and a beer would've been a more kind introduction to alcohol tbh

    • @sarahcarr7343
      @sarahcarr7343 Pƙed rokem +1

      I had my first pina colada a few days ago and it was delicious!

  • @ethanbonney9155
    @ethanbonney9155 Pƙed 2 lety

    this made my heart happy, live your life as you feel you should no matter the hatred that comes spoon you.

  • @caitlinweiss8801
    @caitlinweiss8801 Pƙed 2 lety

    I just want to give all these people a hug and let them know things are okay are their are people out there to support them.

  • @justmechickadees
    @justmechickadees Pƙed 2 lety +351

    LOL you guys gave them the worst drinks 😭😭😭

    • @1986Dams
      @1986Dams Pƙed 2 lety +13

      The only ok drink they got was beer and then they had to drink that in the WORST possible way, I felt so upset for them. I need a (nice) drink now.

    • @marysc1308
      @marysc1308 Pƙed 2 lety +8

      I had to scroll so far for this comment! Like there are so many fun cocktails they could’ve tried, and they started with a shot of vodka?! Maybe they were trying to help them recreate the college experience?

    • @andreabradley5837
      @andreabradley5837 Pƙed 22 dny

      The girl liked the Cosmo at first and then she didn't. I like a good Cosmo occasionally.

  • @kaiakoloa9381
    @kaiakoloa9381 Pƙed 2 lety +175

    Being from Utah where literally 70% of the people here are Mormon.. I feel for you girl. Good for you for breaking out of a societal box and doing what feels right for you, not what feels right for your family or anyone else. You deserve the world!!đŸ€

  • @pedley5644
    @pedley5644 Pƙed 2 lety

    they both seem like genuinely fun people!!! i only wish the best for them :D

  • @Barbiee248
    @Barbiee248 Pƙed rokem

    I love her! So genuine great picks

  • @eatmoretacos1890
    @eatmoretacos1890 Pƙed 2 lety +205

    Really hope the girl can almost get away from her mother. She seems like such an unnecessary stress on her life.

  • @spencerblair4110
    @spencerblair4110 Pƙed 2 lety +69

    I better see them ripping the bong next week

    • @-Kal-
      @-Kal- Pƙed 10 hodinami

      "And for your first hit of weed, here's a dab rig."

  • @its_brittany_boo
    @its_brittany_boo Pƙed rokem

    I hope that sweet girl is doing better. I dealt with similar stress from my father. I just wanna hug her đŸ„ș

  • @austinkotz9233
    @austinkotz9233 Pƙed rokem +7

    Props to you guys , I love when people decide to be their own person and not listen to everyone else pounding down on them to be something they want. That’s not how life works and it shouldn’t be that way. Live your life how YOU want too. One love đŸ™đŸœâ€ïžđŸ™ŒđŸœ

  • @LEMATTOFFICIAL
    @LEMATTOFFICIAL Pƙed 2 lety +255

    Glad to see people opening up haha. I will say there is more to opening up than drinking but this is fun! Leaving religion helped me grow into a far more loving person today

    • @gbd-oq1rz
      @gbd-oq1rz Pƙed rokem

      Maybe because you were never interested in it in the first place.

    • @Yan_Yan209
      @Yan_Yan209 Pƙed rokem

      Sure opening yourself to the gates of hell.

  • @Godmylastalias
    @Godmylastalias Pƙed 2 lety +40

    Starting with a vodka shot is definitely a decision

  • @NASAFanboy
    @NASAFanboy Pƙed rokem +5

    That girl is the embodiment of many Mormon people, but unfortunately many of them just accept their fate and never question anything. It is a cult in every aspect of the word and I am so glad more people are starting to realize.

    • @ascotter
      @ascotter Pƙed rokem

      Exactly! I was a totally devout mormon until I started coming to terms with my sexuality because of a middle school crush in 6th grade. Jesus Christ, it's a cult. I'm glad that even though I'm not physically out, I don't believe their harmful bullshit anymore. Once I turn 18 I'm 100% out

    • @andreabradley5837
      @andreabradley5837 Pƙed 22 dny

      I was twelve years old in 1980 growing up Mormon and realized that I liked what Ozzy Osbourne had to say more than Brigham Young. I started to ask questions about polygamy and why black people weren't allowed. Needless to say, I currently belong to no religion, I don't want to. Love is god and hate is fear.

  • @Mssexymarshmallow
    @Mssexymarshmallow Pƙed rokem +6

    I hope she's doing ok. I left the LDS church too but i was 3rd of my siblings to do the same thing, like it wasnt even a shock to my parents when it happened. It's harder being the first and maybe only person in your family to leave. She has a right to privacy and life experiences and i hope she's happy.

  • @lastnamefirstname2390
    @lastnamefirstname2390 Pƙed 2 lety +38

    He killed that beer 😂

    • @jasonmoore3980
      @jasonmoore3980 Pƙed 2 lety +4

      Something tells me that wasn't his first shotgun lol

  • @Alyssa-mt9bb
    @Alyssa-mt9bb Pƙed 2 lety +18

    Seeing them shotgun a beer felt weirdly wholesome lol, I'm glad they got to have fun and openly talk about their experiences. So cute

  • @christinaflutter5411
    @christinaflutter5411 Pƙed rokem

    They both seem super sweet. Love the girls style, suits her so well and omg her hair is so nice

  • @ClaireEliseLumiere
    @ClaireEliseLumiere Pƙed rokem +1

    Man I feel for the girl, she really bared her soul right there, I hope she finds the freedom she so desires

  • @honestylee11
    @honestylee11 Pƙed 2 lety +16

    I wish I could give them both a hug. I definitely understand how her mother’s behavior affects her

  • @kamrynadams7959
    @kamrynadams7959 Pƙed 2 lety +94

    i am not an ex mormon- i still go to church and believe in what is taught and will probably continue to stay in the church but i can definitely sympathize with both of them. i’ve had several friends leave the church and although i believe in it doesn’t mean that others will or i should force them to. i’m a big believer in the freedom to choose so i stand behind them. a family’s responsibility esp the parents is to love their kids even if they don’t believe the same things as you

    • @ApRiL3706
      @ApRiL3706 Pƙed rokem +13

      I still go to church too, but now I am happier. I used to feel guilty about a lot of things and be hard on myself. I don’t care anymore. I just do what I think is right and try to be a good person in general. I am a firm believer in making your own choices. Pro-choice, pro gay marriage, pro whatever the hell you want to do as long as you not hurting yourself or others!! It’s funny how this girl’s mother is crazy and mad about her daughter making her own choices. Mormons believe in free agency. Her mother is being a hypocrite.

    • @andreabradley5837
      @andreabradley5837 Pƙed 22 dny

      @@ApRiL3706 Sounds Christian to me.

  • @vanessamarquis5954
    @vanessamarquis5954 Pƙed 2 lety

    Love that they’re being there authentic self!

  • @DigitizedSade
    @DigitizedSade Pƙed 23 dny

    I’m so happy for them. I hope she forgives herself and heals from the trauma her mom caused. They both deserved better

  • @zaixai9441
    @zaixai9441 Pƙed 2 lety +9

    She is so sweet. Its horrible she has to go through that from her mom.

  • @rhyrhyrhy
    @rhyrhyrhy Pƙed 2 lety +75

    I had the same experience about 7 months ago. I was a muslim my whole life, never really believed in it but changing it never seemed possible. I was so scared of my family. I told my mom that I am not a muslim but ended up just saying that i won't wear the hijab anymore to my father. Both took the news really hard. My dad still doesn't know why. My mom told me if i do drugs, drinks or sex she would cut all relations with me. I neve lie normally. I hate it but I cannot say that I have a boyfriend and we do have sex, I drink sometimes too. I just wanted to say that, never do this to your kids. They'll do what they want anyway, at least know it. Be there for them because if you don't, you'll probably lose them. My mom always cries asking me why we never talk. Why we are so distant. Because she made me think that I cannot talk to her. And I don't.

    • @bethany_burns
      @bethany_burns Pƙed 2 lety +12

      That’s got to be really hard. You’ve very brave for stepping out and standing up for yourself.

    • @banalsawalha
      @banalsawalha Pƙed 2 lety +9

      I was also born and raised Muslim from both Arab and Muslim parents.. I stopped being Muslim a year ago and til this day they still don’t believe it. I hope you feel better and become closer to your parents.

    • @hafsahm4486
      @hafsahm4486 Pƙed rokem +2

      honestly I’m surprised u were even able to tell her ur not Muslim anymore. I stopped believing 4 and 1/2 years ago, but I wouldn’t dare tell my mom, I know I’d be dead to her 😞

    • @rhyrhyrhy
      @rhyrhyrhy Pƙed rokem

      @@hafsahm4486 I thought the same way actually. My brother was the first one that I told because I felt like he didn't believe either. I was right, he stopped being a muslim 2 years ago and he told me "Mom knows and she took it suprisingly well. I think you should tell her too" And my mom is a really smart woman, she would never believe that i "just" wasn't going to wear the hijab anymore. As soon as I told her that I won't, she asked me "You don't believe in Allah anymore?" So I couldn't and didn't want to hide. I am really sad for you tho, it is so hard to lie to people you care about but you feel like and probably have to

    • @ninaaden8338
      @ninaaden8338 Pƙed rokem +4

      I'm a Muslim as well. Islam is such a beautiful religion. It's a shame how some people who come from a strict, sheltered upbringing with parents and an environment where people are ignorant of the real prinicples of Islam and use fear to control others does to a person's psyche.

  • @CloudStudiosPhoto
    @CloudStudiosPhoto Pƙed rokem

    I love these people! Hope to see them again and that they both continue on their journeys for freedom! Great video đŸ€™đŸœ

  • @itsratso.
    @itsratso. Pƙed 5 dny

    for this girl to be crying for living her life is heartbreaking. they deserve much better.

  • @carlizeaploon2506
    @carlizeaploon2506 Pƙed 2 lety +23

    Rooting for you girl!! As an ex-mormon myself I know how hard it is to be a confident less active. Left when I was 18, went to Uni and found myself and Love myself, I am a much happier person, I have better relationships and I am actually excited about life, because at the end of the day Heavenly Father did not bless us with this world and the people around for us to not enjoy it.
    You're doing great❀

    • @carlizeaploon2506
      @carlizeaploon2506 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      At no point did I mention anything about alcohol in my comment. As an ex-mormon, I understand the traumas that come with that and they are very very real. It takes a hell of a lot to leave, especially if its all that you know and drinking is definitely not reason alone, everything else, however is.
      I am just here trying to support this girl, because I understand. I also know that once you make this decision you are completely seperated and Isolated from your whole life ( family, friends) and so everyone making the decision deserves all the extra support they need.
      Once left, a new journey starts where you have to find out who you are, understand what happiness really is and build a new and healthier relationship with yourself and your spirituality and that is what I am rooting for.

  • @scrumps101
    @scrumps101 Pƙed 2 lety +6

    I LOVED this! The girl here seems so insightful and I love that she’s her own person and not afraid to be just that. I know first hand how much pressure the Mormon church puts on people and she is strong and brave to get out regardless of the stigma that will follow her from her Mormon peers.

  • @eunicen5427
    @eunicen5427 Pƙed 2 lety

    Be did really well shot gunning that beer. Blessings to them both

  • @jaredjenkins
    @jaredjenkins Pƙed 11 dny +1

    bro nailed his first ever shotgun with his first ever man beer lets goooooooo

  • @kane2557
    @kane2557 Pƙed 2 lety +158

    These people need therapy in the nicest way humanly possible, sounds like theres alot of traumas etc

  • @dominikunger2290
    @dominikunger2290 Pƙed 2 lety +7

    is it just me or is the couch kinda trippy?

  • @Crator444
    @Crator444 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    I just love the chair they are sitting on

  • @korkunge
    @korkunge Pƙed 2 lety +1

    That girl need to be in more videos trying more stuff! the "Oh hell yeah lest do it" sounded like she is taking her life in her own hands her decisions her choices, I am so glad for her! đŸ˜đŸ˜đŸ˜đŸ˜đŸ˜đŸ˜đŸ˜đŸ˜đŸ˜˜đŸ˜˜đŸ„°đŸ„°đŸ˜˜đŸ˜˜ You go Girl!
    Any one got Lilys Socialmedias if she has any?

  • @TheChukso
    @TheChukso Pƙed 2 lety +38

    almost the story of my life, being all the time under this christians things you CAN'T do because someone that doesn't exists say

  • @voiddroid.
    @voiddroid. Pƙed 2 lety +40

    Would that chair tip over if you sat on the left or right side by yourself?

    • @ashleymontague81
      @ashleymontague81 Pƙed 2 lety +3

      The legs look wide enough to stop that from happening but I’m not 100% sure

    • @grannyperson
      @grannyperson Pƙed 2 lety +2

      I was thinking that lmao

  • @suckmybutt4224
    @suckmybutt4224 Pƙed rokem +1

    The beer spat in his glasses’ lens đŸ€Ł

  • @visualvanisher5405
    @visualvanisher5405 Pƙed 2 lety +2

    4:30 *hits blunt * Damn

  • @Thecurlynative
    @Thecurlynative Pƙed 2 lety +12

    He handled that shotgun like he had some experience, you go kid!
    I empathize with the girl, I hope she’s okay and can cope + eventually find healing. I can’t imagine how high of standards they expect her to meet, she seems like a sweet girl who just wants to be able to fully live life and be her true self without consequence. Sending so much love and light her way đŸ€

  • @kaybee7854
    @kaybee7854 Pƙed 2 lety +15

    I MISS FEAR PONG!!! bring it backkkkkk.😱

  • @MrMricecreamman1
    @MrMricecreamman1 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Cut always be bringing that crazy boundaries of topics! LOVED THIS VIDEO!!!

  • @cassandrabuitron427
    @cassandrabuitron427 Pƙed 28 dny +1

    I want to hug both of these people. As a mom my heart hurts.

  • @RachelIlous89
    @RachelIlous89 Pƙed 2 lety +85

    Aww man, I grew up in religion that everything from what you eat to what you wear where attacked to laws! As I got older the moment I turned 18 I disobeyed a lot of the rules, so I get it!! Poor girl sounds like she has a terrible relationship with her mom and that’s just as unhealthy . I feel for her :(

  • @sydneygodwin7181
    @sydneygodwin7181 Pƙed 2 lety

    they both seem like such sweet people

  • @Highsloth024
    @Highsloth024 Pƙed 2 lety

    That guy had so much fun doing this he’s been waiting lmao

  • @jay53648
    @jay53648 Pƙed 2 lety +57

    I would like to say this to both of them:
    Be free, do what you want, it’s your turn to live the life you choose. And no one out there can hold you back but your self. Get out there and experience life, go fail, so you can be successful and be able to tell your kids/grandkids how many trial and errors it took u to be successful & one day you can inspire those that look up to you who ever they may be. Y’all are both young adults now y’all know right from wrong. I heavily support both of you, seek your happiness & you’ll find your purpose along the way. Just remember this lifetime isn’t free just short, one thing we’ll never get back is time so be sure to make the rest worth it.

  • @vivday6489
    @vivday6489 Pƙed 2 lety +12

    Wish it was longer.

  • @beyou2133
    @beyou2133 Pƙed 2 lety

    Can we just appreciate the set? It's perfect for this video.

  • @lecture42
    @lecture42 Pƙed 2 lety

    That guy is a definite OG for that last part!

  • @josiahwink8538
    @josiahwink8538 Pƙed 2 lety +117

    as a former catholic, this was so special for me to watch

    • @eenchantress5113
      @eenchantress5113 Pƙed 2 lety +3

      But we drink alcohol

    • @carlwheezer2808
      @carlwheezer2808 Pƙed 2 lety +3

      im catholic but my family is super chill. im sorry your experience was so negativ

    • @an10e619
      @an10e619 Pƙed 2 lety

      @@carlwheezer2808 my grandpa always said he was a believer of the Catholic faith but he wasn’t Catholic bc catholics are die hard and can be hypocrites. We not Ángels, we all sin but we not here kicking puppies and spitting blasphemy. Ya knowz

    • @darreldennis7115
      @darreldennis7115 Pƙed rokem +2

      I dont know any catholics who dont drink. We even serve wine at the church lol.

    • @nyla7899
      @nyla7899 Pƙed rokem +2

      @@darreldennis7115 I was thinking the same
      The first time I had alcohol, I was 7 and had it in church lol

  • @emilieclarke5074
    @emilieclarke5074 Pƙed 2 lety +20

    One of the wildest experiences is when you're a kid and you go to your friends house... and their family does things totally differently. It expands your mind. I feel like they're experiencing this in a different way!

    • @90MysteriumFascinans
      @90MysteriumFascinans Pƙed 2 lety

      Interesting point! Also makes me realize that I was probably somewhat lacking in that during childhood. Makes me think!

  • @boubafett
    @boubafett Pƙed 2 lety +3

    "this is the weirdest therapy session ever" Cut in a nutshell. Love it!!

  • @JoeSki253
    @JoeSki253 Pƙed 9 dny

    Hell yeah! To Rainer beer at the end! That’s my go too

  • @voldemortified
    @voldemortified Pƙed 2 lety +8

    Everything about this was great, except for the drink choices 😆. Here would be my suggestions:
    1. Start with a good sweet cider, or a nice craft beer if they want to try it and like the flavor
    2. Let them choose a really palatable, delicious fruity cocktail, based on their flavor - maybe a pina colada, a fuzzy navel, or a mojito
    3. A nice glass of wine, red or white, based on their preference
    4. END with a shot (not start 😆), if something with a nice flavor - maybe a really high end, smooth bourbon, or a tequila or mezcal

  • @allyjolason6093
    @allyjolason6093 Pƙed 2 lety +67

    I also grew up in a strict independent Baptist church my whole youth. This really helps people like us that are struggling to transition to a normal life outside a cult. This was cute!

    • @jumpstreet2425
      @jumpstreet2425 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      Depends on what you call normal.

    • @jumpstreet2425
      @jumpstreet2425 Pƙed rokem

      @Miriam Svenson every religion aint no cult. 😂 just because more people are moving to be free spirited, open relationship, plus whatever. Dont mean its normal. Example: man and woman reproduce. Not man and man or woman and woman just example. Only 1 will make babies. You can choose to be nice about things 😂... The first comment called religions a cult basically... Alot of things are not normal today simple.

    • @naadilee1316
      @naadilee1316 Pƙed rokem

      @@jumpstreet2425 sex is also for pleasure and not solely for reproduction. Any combination (man and man or woman and woman) produces pleasure for the consenting individuals. Also not everyone wants to have kids.

    • @ObeyLucifer
      @ObeyLucifer Pƙed rokem

      @@jumpstreet2425 cope

  • @CactusJack252
    @CactusJack252 Pƙed 2 lety +10

    I know exactly what that girl is going though. Even though I'm a guy, my dad was very very controlling. The best thing I did was leave the house not to long after my grandma passed. She lived with us at the time, and I only stayed because I was forced to take care of her by myself during the day.

  • @Jboogieluv3
    @Jboogieluv3 Pƙed rokem

    You guys have the best content hands down how can I get a job with you guys all jokes aside !

  • @obsoquasi
    @obsoquasi Pƙed 2 lety +3

    huuuuuuger respect to both! You took all kinds of leaps over your own shadow!!

  • @ChiefsFanInSC
    @ChiefsFanInSC Pƙed 2 lety +105

    Giving a first time drinker a shot of vodka is INCREDIBLY irresponsible. Vodka shots should be avoided at all costs. Give them some good mixed drinks.

    • @phunkyphresh3799
      @phunkyphresh3799 Pƙed rokem +1

      My first drink was a homemade hard cider I made from apple juice, champagne yeast, and sugar. I let it ferment in my dorm and when I tasted it I almost threw up. I poured the rest into the toilet.
      I tried a few shots of bottom shelf vodka a day later and the first thing I thought was “Jesus this is so much better than my hard cider”

    • @NithinJune
      @NithinJune Pƙed 29 dny

      why? why is it irresponsible. They’re presumably not driving home. They’re probably going to be fine

  • @neonnoise9927
    @neonnoise9927 Pƙed rokem

    I love the touch of the angelic choir singing while they shotgun their first beer lmao

  • @AlmostMileHighInUtah
    @AlmostMileHighInUtah Pƙed 2 lety +1

    I get the whole Mormon thing. I just want to hug this sweet, young lady.

  • @meghan_shew3360
    @meghan_shew3360 Pƙed 2 lety +3

    Awe! What a wholesome and amazing video! Alcohol for the first time is something a lot of people can probably relate to at any age! Good on them for having the courage to share their experiences and to try something new! 💖

  • @raquellifts1541
    @raquellifts1541 Pƙed 2 lety +5

    Cut has the best videos hands down

  • @lexilestarge8860
    @lexilestarge8860 Pƙed rokem +1

    Oh this poor, sweet girl.. baby you’re perfect. Do not let her get you down, you very clearly made the right choice. Start introducing healthy boundaries. Watching you get anxious seeing a TEXT from her shows so much.:(

  • @hannahbittner8464
    @hannahbittner8464 Pƙed rokem

    i feel for you girl

  • @trapt29
    @trapt29 Pƙed 2 lety +4

    Faith requires your own journey, not someone else's.

    • @spewky2955
      @spewky2955 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      Love this, well said

    • @trapt29
      @trapt29 Pƙed 2 lety

      @@spewky2955 thank you