Overworked Boyfriend Calls You Immature [Argument] [Apology] [Little] [ ASMR Boyfriend] [M4F]

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Komentáře • 455

  • @minikkura
    @minikkura Před rokem +2844

    i started crying the moment the listener started talking about how they feel when people said to "grow up" ㅠㅠ being childish isn't a bad thing, it's just being urself and having fun x

  • @Woofshii
    @Woofshii Před rokem +480

    Bro really hurt our feelings and then wondered if we started making dinner💀

  • @abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyzabca

    Him:Let's eat dinner, i'm starving
    me: I'm not really hungry
    Him: Oh, you're not hungry?
    me:CUT THE CAMERAS

  • @turiipipipturi
    @turiipipipturi Před rokem +1531

    As someone who had to grow up young, this hit too close to home and this audio made me cry more than any of your other audios
    You really outdid yourself this time! 😁

    • @notyourlocalgirlhere3963
      @notyourlocalgirlhere3963 Před rokem +25

      Same it literally touched my heart

    • @turiipipipturi
      @turiipipipturi Před rokem +21

      @@notyourlocalgirlhere3963 fr 💀
      Bro really decided to stab my heart ☠️

    • @Strawberryfroggy_13
      @Strawberryfroggy_13 Před rokem +15

      I felt that first part tbh

    • @anikatasnimsaba
      @anikatasnimsaba Před rokem +7

      Can you tell me how you grew up alone?

    • @turiipipipturi
      @turiipipipturi Před rokem +11

      @@anikatasnimsaba growing up young or also known as growing up too fast is kinda like having a mature mindset during your childhood. Not being as innocent like every other child your age. Idk how it’s like in other people’s perspectives but it’s based from my experience

  • @NosotrasReViciadas
    @NosotrasReViciadas Před rokem +346

    2:48 “yeah, I got myself a happy meal, you know since I’m so childish, but seems like I forgot your food… too bad” and that’s how I would react

  • @kaibeef
    @kaibeef Před rokem +157

    The fact that listener was trying to show that they are grown up made me cry

  • @beebo_
    @beebo_ Před rokem +735

    I love this part 14:18 where he acknowledges the fact all it takes is one comment for me completely shut down and take a long while to heal
    This audio was really relatable since I’m autistic so being told to grow up by the one person who actually tolerated my childish behaviour would make me completely hate myself and change everything, Tysm for the comfort it was really great 😭

    • @rockmangurlx4973
      @rockmangurlx4973 Před rokem +14

      I'd probably be overreacting somewhat, yet I don't know if I’d really trust them for a long while.

    • @Nightdominia
      @Nightdominia Před rokem +6

      Same type of reaction with PTSD here before I really got a decent therapist. I used to emotionally shut down hard if anyone got remotely angry or irritated. I still do if someone close to me hits a low blow in an argument. Sad thing is most of the people who do it "don't remember" doing it. 😢

    • @beebo_
      @beebo_ Před rokem +1

      @@Nightdominia yeah I’ve noticed that as well, whenever someone yells at me I shutdown start dissociating and can’t talk

    • @Nightdominia
      @Nightdominia Před rokem +3

      @@beebo_ That's me when it gets really really bad. Once it for some reason hit when I visited my in-laws and accidentally stepped on their cat's tail. My brain just noped out for a minute or two, people were yelling at me to move off the poor kitty's tail, but it's like nothing worked.

  • @llamac0splay353
    @llamac0splay353 Před rokem +510

    This hits way too close to home, I have autism and a bubbly personality. That two mix together which makes me seem childish, I'm almost 18 and I'm always hearing " You need to grow up", "you need to act your age", or "why do you need to be this way" but it was nice to hear the ending.

    • @MeckaylaRandall
      @MeckaylaRandall Před rokem +25

      I have Autism Spectrum Disorder and I had people telling me that I was too childish. I am 17 years old and I still watch kids shows because I can feel like I'm a little kid.

    • @gothicpixi
      @gothicpixi Před rokem +8

      sameee

    • @potatochip14
      @potatochip14 Před rokem +9

      I’m constantly hearing those exact words to. I’ve just turned 17 and am getting assessed for autism

    • @anonymousanonymous9209
      @anonymousanonymous9209 Před rokem +6

      @@potatochip14 I hope your assessment goes well. Sometimes they can be stressful.

    • @mkdaweirdo3889
      @mkdaweirdo3889 Před rokem +12

      Tip from a 20 year old autistic: Be yourself. It doesn't matter that you like childish things, just be happy.

  • @lucymuse1917
    @lucymuse1917 Před rokem +271

    I really got into character and started bailing my eyes out when you said “because they’re too childish?” My mom always tells me to grow up already and stop being childish

    • @cynthiadagama9303
      @cynthiadagama9303 Před rokem +16

      Mine told me I'm useless... in a fit of rage. But ill never forget it💔

    • @orchid8235
      @orchid8235 Před rokem +10

      @@cynthiadagama9303 Well your not useless, sorry you felt that way :(

  • @NIYAHANMUSIC4L
    @NIYAHANMUSIC4L Před rokem +195

    This hit so hard as I was and still are always being told to “grow up” “your so immature for your age” I started sobbing as soon as he said it, Do I really need to change that badly?

    • @UTC_Audio
      @UTC_Audio  Před rokem +57

      No. Never.

    • @AsmofromObeyMe
      @AsmofromObeyMe Před rokem +9

      No, don't you ever change for anyone. You are amazing the way you are

    • @kaliepoulin9072
      @kaliepoulin9072 Před 7 měsíci +4

      Never ever change who you are, you’re perfect just the way you are

  • @kadiawho
    @kadiawho Před rokem +604

    Oh this one hit hard, the moment he said "I'm sorry" couldn't stop crying 😭 He actually apologized for what he said and not just justified why he said it, there is a huge difference. And your warm and calming voice just made this apology even more heartwarming ❤️😭

  • @Leanne-Lea
    @Leanne-Lea Před rokem +298

    This is what always scares me, I have a very funny,goofy and often flirty sense of humor and personality as well as loving,caring etc and so far it hasn't annoyed anyone and they say not to change, but I find a guy I truly love etc and be with it worries me that I may have to change :(

    • @UTC_Audio
      @UTC_Audio  Před rokem +63

      If that change isn't for the better, then it's the wrong kind of guy.

    • @Leanne-Lea
      @Leanne-Lea Před rokem +18

      @@UTC_Audio I hope to find someone where I wouldn't need to change :)

    • @robertamattos1688
      @robertamattos1688 Před rokem +15

      @@Leanne-Lea we all hope this, Lea!! And we will have someday☺️

    • @Leanne-Lea
      @Leanne-Lea Před rokem +12

      @@robertamattos1688 yes we will :)

  • @bellatoriananungus7111
    @bellatoriananungus7111 Před rokem +92

    When you got childhood trauma and this hits on another level 🤡👌

  • @TheAmnesia99
    @TheAmnesia99 Před rokem +86

    "I bet it's her usual dishes like mac and cheese" hell nah you did not just say that

    • @UTC_Audio
      @UTC_Audio  Před rokem +17

      Cheese Product for the win.

    • @TheAmnesia99
      @TheAmnesia99 Před rokem +7

      @@UTC_Audio that's right! but I can cook better than that if you want 😌

    • @frenchtoast9158
      @frenchtoast9158 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Mac and cheese With hotdogs in it 🤤

    • @Oceanmaid91
      @Oceanmaid91 Před 2 měsíci +1

      If he’s too good for Mac and cheese he better not ask for fettuccine alfredo

  • @levis_hoe69
    @levis_hoe69 Před rokem +75

    “You’ve never really liked Chinese food.”
    Me: “OH DEAREST LOVE. YOU WOUND ME. I LOVE CHINESE FOOD.”

    • @orchidheart2137
      @orchidheart2137 Před rokem +5

      I had some Chinese today (⁠~⁠‾⁠▿⁠‾⁠)⁠~ Chinese is the best

    • @Oceanmaid91
      @Oceanmaid91 Před 2 měsíci

      Maybe we just don’t like Panda Express? I mean the ones in my state leave a lot to be desired

  • @wolfiexox7156
    @wolfiexox7156 Před rokem +19

    This audio hurts in the way that when I get upset I hide it and then feel more hurt when nobody notices that I’m still upset. The way that he didn’t realize the listener was feeling upset for so long, even when they were acting so different from normal. The resolution of this audio is something I wish I got more in real life.

  • @bxzzing
    @bxzzing Před rokem +168

    i've never usually crying over a asmr, but, hear me out, THIS ONE MADE ME CRYING LIKE A BABY, I- 😫😭

    • @kinny_cake
      @kinny_cake Před rokem +4

      tbh same, the beginning already got me teared up and shit

  • @ellesaurus
    @ellesaurus Před rokem +70

    I sat through this entire video and cried almost the entire time because this is my biggest fear. I had to grow up way too early, and now I try to… I don’t know, get some of that lost time back. But people don’t understand it and think I’m way too goofy when I feel comfortable around them. And that’s why I barely allow myself to be just… me. So, thank you for this incredible video 🥺❤️

  • @RedAreas
    @RedAreas Před rokem +122

    I felt bad wtf. I hate my sensitive self sometimes

  • @BehindTheTrees
    @BehindTheTrees Před rokem +28

    The ongoing subtle panic in their voice when they kept listing a lot of fun things to make up for what happened and we keep saying no like 🤣🤣🤣 "i fucked up. I know i fucked up. and badly. "
    As someone that was forced to grow up so fast, this means a lot to me. I never had the chance to feel vulnerable, and am always pushing myself to put on a strong facade and smile, work my hardest. As much as I know this is good for me in a professional field, it hurts knowing people don't want the other side of me, a true side. Thank you for this video.

  • @naelan9
    @naelan9 Před rokem +43

    I'm not childish!
    *crosses my arms, puffs my cheeks and pout*
    When I was a child, people was always telling me I grew up too fast, that I didn't have a realy childhood and stuffs. And now that I'm an adult, they actually call me childish...
    It's called healing your inner child, and it's actually healthy! 😋

  • @katyrevel2452
    @katyrevel2452 Před rokem +70

    I didn't even know I was sensitive about being called childish. I just started crying.

  • @maryamfaris8335
    @maryamfaris8335 Před rokem +211

    I love argument asmrs especially when we run away and their like no wait- like yes I love drama 😭
    If this was in real life tho that would be a different story
    You have a really nice voice btw

    • @UTC_Audio
      @UTC_Audio  Před rokem +42

      Thank you! I live for the drama.

    • @maryamfaris8335
      @maryamfaris8335 Před rokem +25

      @@UTC_Audio as long as I’m not involved in tje drama I love it

  • @stabewy
    @stabewy Před rokem +30

    I have autism and a bubbly (and picky) personality, but I kinda dress pretty goth, so when I’m told to “grow up” I act more “mature, gloomy and serious” which actually is when I’m angry, but people think I’m doing some sort of goth character so they leave it because it’s more close abt how they want me to act… it was nice hearing someone noticing and apologising instead of just blaming me

  • @_.Madd1e._
    @_.Madd1e._ Před rokem +82

    Fun fact : When they say “Forget about it/Forget it” they didn’t forget about it…
    But dang this audio made me ball my eyes out i was crying so hard 😭

    • @southpark4008
      @southpark4008 Před rokem +2

      Another y/n :O

    • @_.Madd1e._
      @_.Madd1e._ Před rokem +2

      @@southpark4008 im the anime lover
      Gojo is my favorite 🤩

    • @southpark4008
      @southpark4008 Před rokem +2

      @@_.Madd1e._ I'm a sanrio / hello kitty lover and I'm more mha and demon slayer-

    • @everyytchanelnameistaken
      @everyytchanelnameistaken Před rokem +1

      @@southpark4008 agreed sanrio is adorable!!
      (Not much of a demon slayer fan)

  • @Ur.local._.ninjag0_.and.mlp.

    * Me trying to hold in my tears after he told listener to grow up *
    * Also me at the end literally crying*
    GREAT JOB 👍👍👍👌👌👌👌

  • @lmao8731
    @lmao8731 Před rokem +44

    Honestly, this hit home since I'm used to people calling me childish or immature, but this was different because he apologized and that's not something that people are willing to do because they don't understand their mistake. Thank you for making this!

  • @anonymousanonymous9209
    @anonymousanonymous9209 Před rokem +25

    If your partner ever tells you “Just forget about it” or “Don’t worry about it”, you either:
    1. Hurt their feeling and should ACTUALLY WORRY! Maybe panic a lil.
    2. It’s nothing but a meme or inside joke between your partner and their friends.
    3. They could be like me and have ADHD and could have completely forgotten something so it’s literally nothing.

    • @missyzalgo6738
      @missyzalgo6738 Před 15 dny

      Or
      4.they have thier walls up so high they get angry at you just for asking what's wrong, I have had people do that to me

  • @SoftySenpaii
    @SoftySenpaii Před 7 měsíci +8

    Oh, this one HURT. I have had so many people say I'm 'childish' to the point where they shame me for what I like, then suddenly make it my fault when I decide to give up on what they see as 'childish'. It's like, what do you expect to happen? I'm gonna be upset.

  • @lily-annefindlay1795
    @lily-annefindlay1795 Před rokem +62

    TW: There some mentions of my experience of growing up young, that may upset people. There are also some capital letters in this, I understand some may be triggered, I promise that is not intended. Ends with some words of encouragement for you, guys.
    I have always been way too mature for my age, I get told all the time, by parents, relatives, friends, even sometimes strangers that I am in a safe situation to talk to. I always had added responsibility, expectations and just an 'advanced' mindset that other people of my age didn't have. This audio hit really hard and made me cry. Which isn't necessarily a bad thing. Audios that make me upset or cry, like this, are really helpful to me. They help me to get in touch with my emotions, which I have a lot of issues with regulating and just not knowing how to feel. These help me feel something real and remind me that I am human. To anyone going through a hard time. Whatever it is. YOU are VALID. YOU MATTER. Your FEELINGS are VALID. YOU WILL get through it. And when you think everyone is against you, know there is at least one person,(me, hi) that hasn't even met you, yet knows that you are EXTRAORDINARY. If you want to talk about anything, comment here, if you feel more comfortable, I can give you one of my socials to talk to me instead. Have a great day/night, Darlings. you are all loved. At least by me. ❤❤

    • @cl0cl070
      @cl0cl070 Před rokem +5

      Did you just put a TW for capital letters.

    • @itsnotanobsessioniswear
      @itsnotanobsessioniswear Před rokem +2

      No because this is me. Except now I act a little immature. I like to say I'm in the process of healing.

    • @lily-annefindlay1795
      @lily-annefindlay1795 Před rokem +3

      @@cl0cl070 yes, I don't usually but recently I found out that it really triggers people as it may remind them of upsetting yelling situations, etc, which I didn't. I try to respect these small things especially when talking about my past or personal matter. hope you understand :)

    • @lily-annefindlay1795
      @lily-annefindlay1795 Před rokem +2

      @@itsnotanobsessioniswear and that's perfectly fine and normal. I'm proud of you for how far you've come :)

    • @cl0cl070
      @cl0cl070 Před rokem +4

      @@lily-annefindlay1795 That's.. odd. But okay

  • @mariselamoreno8889
    @mariselamoreno8889 Před rokem +20

    As a person who acts childish this really made me feel better. I grew up way too fast, so I act childish to see it’s like to be free like a young one, but sometimes people just make fun of me or just tell stuff like “Your so immature for your age”, “Grow up!”, etc. And this video hit me real hard, thank you

  • @salmiller
    @salmiller Před rokem +108

    I was crying while listening to this and my brother was suddenly like "did he call you again?" he thinks that my ex called me, he hates my ex so much. great audio btw, I'm about to get into character lol (bcz people call me childish so many times) and I love LoFi bgm, it's comfy to listen

    • @HaiderAli-ft2hm
      @HaiderAli-ft2hm Před měsícem

      Awwwww, your brother is so caring and sweet 😊

  • @nekokneecaps
    @nekokneecaps Před rokem +52

    I had a family member call me childish because I still sleep with my childhood teddy bear and had bought stickers from the craft store. told me I should stop watching cartoons (they meant anime and animated movies) and act my age. I was upset at first but then I realized they are probably upset I still allowed myself to do such "childish" things as an adult. Life is fuckin hard and stressful as fuck so allowing yourself to have some fun or comfort every so often is a good thing in my opinion. I'm literally typing this while wearing unicorn socks and slippers lmfao
    also I might just be a weeb but is the ichigo's dad from bleach?

    • @UTC_Audio
      @UTC_Audio  Před rokem +18

      Isshin Kurosaki. I had finished watching the new season, and he's the kind of guy who is still a kid at heart.
      Runner-ups for stern over worked BF were Batou and Togasa from Ghost in the shell, but I couldn't find a good picture.

    • @nekokneecaps
      @nekokneecaps Před rokem +5

      @@UTC_Audio !!! I was thinking about that while listening! " I know damn well the pot ain't calling the kettle black" 🤭

  • @shhh6887
    @shhh6887 Před rokem +32

    3:44 THE WORRIED CHUCKLE WHILE HE SAYS THIS AWWWW
    4:55 “love yoou 😊😄😄❤️” that was so cute are you kidding
    10:02 the contrast from the first “love you” to this one is so heartbreaking
    UGH your voice acting is so gOOD

  • @janna_jammin
    @janna_jammin Před rokem +12

    I love how I come back to this to relisten everytime I want to get my feelings hurt and I can't blame no one but me

  • @anikatasnimsaba
    @anikatasnimsaba Před rokem +22

    I like that he speaks in his natural voice. It's refreshing

  • @Mega_Simp06
    @Mega_Simp06 Před rokem +217

    3:22
    “You’ve never really like Chinese food.”
    Me who loves Chinese food religiously: Who said that?!? 🤨🤚
    Also this was a great audio ❤

    • @dodechohedron4843
      @dodechohedron4843 Před rokem +2

      Like my parents would kill me if I stopped eating the food they cook(mostly Korean food)

  • @_timx.flixs.
    @_timx.flixs. Před rokem +18

    the way my heart broke when you said grow up bcs the amount of people who told me i need to grow up in life

    • @UTC_Audio
      @UTC_Audio  Před rokem +5

      Growing up just means you stop liking new cool things. It's a sucky term. Always stay young at heart.

  • @robertamattos1688
    @robertamattos1688 Před rokem +65

    Ohh, Man! Being told to grow up when you are just being yourself hurts a lot. I'm glad with being myself most of the time, but when we heard things like that, we started to evaluate each moment that could be different if we were more serious or something else. Glad everything in the end Works out, but in real life is not always the same

    • @UTC_Audio
      @UTC_Audio  Před rokem +14

      It's so easy to repeat what you've heard others say all the time, and not know how it effects your partner. Sometimes we don't realize we are the shelter in a storm.

  • @GamerGal13
    @GamerGal13 Před rokem +9

    Idk if ive committed on this video but i can relate to this because my own family has said i act to childish and it makes me want to cry everytime because one second its"be who you wanna be" and the next its "DONT BE SO F**KING CHILDISH GROW UP YOU LITTLE SH!T" and i always leave the room and go to my room of the bathroom and cry quietly for a hour and they always say afterwards "oh your just sensitive and cant grow up"...idk who else has family like this but no knows true pain until your family hurts you with words and makes it known they dont like how you are... sorry if this was to much to say i really am.

    • @UTC_Audio
      @UTC_Audio  Před rokem +2

      Don't be sorry. Your feelings are valid.

    • @GamerGal13
      @GamerGal13 Před rokem +2

      @@UTC_Audio thank you.

  • @mindless._.cosplays
    @mindless._.cosplays Před rokem +13

    I have autism and PTSD, which causes me to age regress, so this audio hit really close 😭😭

  • @redwillow311
    @redwillow311 Před rokem +5

    The second someone says that kind of shit to me I just... Shut down. They won't see me laugh or smile. I won't be in the same room as them and only do what they want or what they tell me to do. I go on Autopilot and just hide in my own head.

  • @NovaSnowNova
    @NovaSnowNova Před 8 měsíci +3

    But child!!! 😭😭😭😭😭 being a child is fun!! 😭😭😭😭 bro I still love coloring with crayons for no reason! It’s so fun! Especially when I’m stressed. It takes me back to my childhood! ☺️

    • @UTC_Audio
      @UTC_Audio  Před 8 měsíci +1

      Coloring never gets old.

    • @NovaSnowNova
      @NovaSnowNova Před 8 měsíci

      @@UTC_Audio never gets old! Coloring is so fun! ☺️☺️ (I just like how you recognize my name and pfp by this point cause I comment on every video! 🤣🤣🤣”

  • @ash_innit5464
    @ash_innit5464 Před rokem +8

    Yk this was a little different to me since I was always told I was “so mature for my age” or “more responsible that most.” I used to be really talkative and stuff, but I was told I was “annoying” and “I needed to give someone else- anyone else- a chance to talk.” And having working parents and a big age gap between me and my siblings I felt like I was behind. So I just started to force myself to grow up, it’s still a habit I have to constantly be responsible and mature but it’s hard. Even when my friends tell me that they like it when I’m more childish and relaxed, I find it hard to do so.

  • @xKira.
    @xKira. Před rokem +5

    Me and my sister grew up in a very mental abusive and toxic household, they always told us to grow up, to wear makeup, etc so that boys would like us more and that we'd marry a rich man someday so they can be rich. At one point, we had enough and started becoming aggressive and we'd start yelling at our parents all the time. They would always work and barely have time for us, my sister is older than me so when they used to yell at us and say rude things (e.x. grow up, stop being lazy, you're useless, etc) she used to comfort me, I genuinely love her so much and I don't know what I would do without her. So this really hurt but me and my sister are happy now and we solved our problems with our parents because we had a long talk with them and some therapists. So this hit home hard.

    • @UTC_Audio
      @UTC_Audio  Před rokem

      I am glad to hear things got better.

  • @Strawberry.18582
    @Strawberry.18582 Před rokem +7

    As someone who had to grow up really fast I can sometimes act childish and I get told to grow up all the time and it’s honestly sad and makes me cry

  • @bigdadbeefsticks
    @bigdadbeefsticks Před rokem +7

    There is no amount of "I didn't mean it!"s in the world and beyond that would ever erase the way this would alter my view of someone. And I'm petty enough to change my behavior to see if they really do treat me differently or if they'll realize something's wrong.
    And that's on needing therapy. 😘👉👉

  • @watercolourferns
    @watercolourferns Před 7 měsíci +2

    This audio hit so close to home it froze me...
    I'm AFAB and I had to grow too fast because of emotional and physical neglect and abuse at home. I was always told to grow up and behave, even when I was too little to understand what growing up and behaving meant.
    Once when I was in high school I went to buy clothes with a friend and I saw a very pretty pair of shorts that had embroidered lace patches and frills around the hems. I commented to my friend that those shorts were cute and that I could maybe wear those. But she shook her head and said: "I wouldn't wear that..." I asked why. And her words have haunted me to this day: "Because I'm not a child and neither are you... you need to grow up a little..." I never looked at frilly or "childish" clothes again for years.
    My then boyfriend broke up with me for similar reasons, saying I was too childish and immature. It triggered me changing my whole wardrobe in hopes he would go back to me, but after seeing the type of girls he had started to date I gave up, I'm not a stilleto heel type of person.
    It took a decade after all that for me to find someone who cared about my childishness in a positive way, and in fact who encouraged me to be myself, and even contributed to my new "childish" clothes or my stuffie collection. We're saving money to get married now...

    • @UTC_Audio
      @UTC_Audio  Před 7 měsíci

      Congratulations on the nuptials!

  • @aiminathusha3629
    @aiminathusha3629 Před rokem +14

    What a good way to cry after waking up , since I haven't been eating well or doing anything due to things like this , lol

  • @wradraws
    @wradraws Před rokem +10

    wow, this actually made me cry when he fully and whole heartedly apologised.

  • @scarlettmcandrew5570
    @scarlettmcandrew5570 Před rokem +21

    Being a very so called childish person this really hooked me hard and was really great to listen to ❤

  • @an_idiot_under_the_rain
    @an_idiot_under_the_rain Před rokem +12

    I kept swallowing the feeling of wanting to cry my soul out while this cuz im around family and they would take the phone from me thinking im crying because of someone and will ask countless questions that will end up taking my device away and maybe getting physical but i really like ur voice- TwT❤️

  • @southpark4008
    @southpark4008 Před rokem +7

    "Grow up"
    Me : b-but I wanna watch hello kitty 😃

  • @Chaotic_Observer
    @Chaotic_Observer Před rokem +7

    Its funny that i found this video when i did, because this morning i was feeling really down about feeling like everyone treating me like i was a baby. Its just always bothered me since i usually get ignored. Its just been hard for me to be okay with not having to act like an adult all the time. They act like I'm annoying or a nuisance, its just been hard for me to be okay with not having to be adult all the time, and that its okay to be silly and stupid

  • @alyssamcfarland4747
    @alyssamcfarland4747 Před rokem +10

    Bro??? I never cry over audios but DAMN this one came close. Hits different... could also just be the childhood trauma. Who's to say?

  • @Venezia-y-Valeria
    @Venezia-y-Valeria Před rokem +5

    It made me cry bc it’s so relatable.
    Edit: thank you for the like I suppose!?

  • @4Eyes_.ishere
    @4Eyes_.ishere Před rokem +4

    The fact that I didn’t fully live my childhood and I just grew up to be a child like figure and doesn’t have a interest watching irl movies but animated and childish shows/movies :’)) thank you for this audio

  • @ysabellabee
    @ysabellabee Před rokem +6

    You have a very similar speech pattern to a friend of mine and every so often I catch it in certain words. It's actually really nice, a sense of familiarity makes these pretty neat! :)

  • @thewrongalice7221
    @thewrongalice7221 Před rokem +25

    Let me get on my soap box, one sec
    Okay, so as someone who has a grocery list of mental issues, sometimes they overlap and weird stuff happens. Main example here is trust issues/abandonment issues, and attachment issues. It takes me a while to trust someone, but once I do they're stuck with my annoying ass. I've been through the ringer of "you need to grow up", and if someone I genuinely trusted on a deep level said that, it would definitely trigger the reactions of the listener here.
    Thanks for the amazing audio! Keep up the great work, and look after yourself!

    • @UTC_Audio
      @UTC_Audio  Před rokem +7

      Thank you for sharing. The author is really talented in capturing the behavior of the listener in ways I could never imagine.

    • @itsnotanobsessioniswear
      @itsnotanobsessioniswear Před rokem +5

      EXACTLY! Yes! My dad told me to grow up the other day for two days I was doing my best to just act normal. No stimming, no dancing around, no teasing my siblings. It took him a while to notice but it really does make people want to change so they are accepted by someone they care about for the sake of not getting left behind.

  • @dionysus2940
    @dionysus2940 Před rokem +6

    for someone who had to be an adult when she was 10 this hit WAY to close to home

  • @ecusileharalu8476
    @ecusileharalu8476 Před rokem +2

    5:03 when you yawned, it scared me so bad😭🤣

  • @male14anime
    @male14anime Před rokem +9

    This video was a random recommendation of CZcams, the first second I heard...I love your voice. I'm crying, idk why exactly... It felt so real. I'm too dense and childish even if I will be 26 year old this year. All my answers where responded by the questions of your character, it surprised me.

  • @Starr_Wonderr
    @Starr_Wonderr Před 3 měsíci +1

    The way that in the beginning it sounds like we got pushed away against the desk is killing me

  • @bunnylover274
    @bunnylover274 Před rokem +7

    Him: when will you grow up?
    Me: never

  • @kal3cv
    @kal3cv Před rokem +5

    This is what I need to hear before I go to bed. I swear I'm addicted to this before I go to sleep lmao.

  • @Rawr-og6gn
    @Rawr-og6gn Před 6 měsíci +1

    I started crying when he told us to “get some self control”

    • @Rawr-og6gn
      @Rawr-og6gn Před 6 měsíci

      It reminded me of my dad😭

    • @Rawr-og6gn
      @Rawr-og6gn Před 6 měsíci

      But it was a good audio :3

  • @0Https..starzz0
    @0Https..starzz0 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I did a extra grade as a kid so I'm a year older than all my classmates, in result I act more childish, because Im around younger people, and it makes me upset to be called childish cuz I can't help it 💀😭 (wonderful video btw I enjoyed listening to it!!)

  • @wonderingactors274
    @wonderingactors274 Před rokem +2

    Where’s my makeup kit, I need to ugly cry
    “Please cry into a towel this time, not into your pillow.”

  • @prandalstanlyz8133
    @prandalstanlyz8133 Před rokem +5

    Bro really make us feel like shit and then take us to the mcdonald

  • @Hellokitty-ds5sn
    @Hellokitty-ds5sn Před rokem +3

    The fact that I went through this as a child made me cry so much

  • @lycheerii
    @lycheerii Před rokem +10

    Really went and made half of your fanbase cry 😭😭😭

    • @UTC_Audio
      @UTC_Audio  Před rokem +2

      Unintentionally, really thought this would be some good clean wholesome drama.

  • @whoisild
    @whoisild Před rokem +4

    I'm Bawling my eyes out rn.. I really need to hear this.. Noone Ever apologies to me after they Say all those Hurtful words To me..

  • @linkwolf8632
    @linkwolf8632 Před rokem +3

    When he said " ok, I'll drop it ". I legit imagined me being like: *in Kageyama's voice* WOULD YOU JUST DROP IT?!

  • @paisleydennis5738
    @paisleydennis5738 Před rokem +3

    As someone who’s been told they need to grow up and act more mature this hit home for me. Thank you so much for this I loved it, please take care of yourself🫶

  • @woah_there
    @woah_there Před rokem +2

    I’ve dealt with bullying from 5th grade to 7th it was always because I was childish, most of the time I guess.
    So, hearing the words “I would never ask you to change.” Made me cry,l. And they do every time I listen to this.

  • @sveee.v
    @sveee.v Před rokem +6

    did I cry? Yeah, is my nose stuffy? Yes

  • @pureiris7731
    @pureiris7731 Před rokem +7

    this rlly hits home
    btw i love your argument asmrs

    • @UTC_Audio
      @UTC_Audio  Před rokem +3

      Thank you, they are very fun to make. Always a wide range of feelings to try and express, and great stories.

  • @someone_169
    @someone_169 Před rokem +3

    As someone who had to grow up too fast bc my parents are divorced and i had to be like a second parent for my Younger sisters to help my dad with his mental illnesses and and some other disease's and my mum kinda ignored me and only really took care of my sisters her bf wasn't the best person to me but nice to the rest of 'em this hit quite hard totally not crying
    So sometimes I act a little childish with things and I get told all the time "U should grow up more" or "why r U acting like that ur not 10" and then people wonder why I'm so cold and harsh

  • @ye-junixox1859
    @ye-junixox1859 Před rokem +4

    THIS HURTS IN A DIFFERENT LEVEL, I MEAN COME ON. HOW IN ETERNITY DID YOU BREAK THROUGH THE 4TH WALL AND KNOW MY FAV IS MCDONALDS, *CHICKEN NUGGETS SPECIFICALLY.*

  • @mayamea7632
    @mayamea7632 Před rokem +5

    Stop bc I broke down when we started to clean out the closet 😭 idk whyyyy I got extremely emotional….my inner child was feeling sad and I cried so hard

  • @shoto5827
    @shoto5827 Před rokem +3

    This somehow made me cry instead of being Cheated on

  • @maybesad758
    @maybesad758 Před měsícem

    I had to start working from the age of 16 due to the situation in my country (Venezuela). I had to grow up and mature quickly at my age. In that context, when I behaved "immature" It's because I feel comfortable. Being judged for behaving in such a way hurts a lot... Because I never had the opportunity in my childhood to be "immature."

  • @void5875
    @void5875 Před rokem +6

    I really like this audio, even though I'm not a girl, it's nice listening to some drama. Lol

    • @UTC_Audio
      @UTC_Audio  Před rokem +1

      Thank you. You aren't alone. It's about 11% of my audience.

  • @serenagrey5019
    @serenagrey5019 Před rokem +3

    Not my typical go-to voice script type but figured I'd listen anyway. Felt more like an old sister to the listener than the listener themselves 😂 got me frustrated af cause of course they changed their behavior due to what you said, how dare you say something so hurtful 😤 older sister hugs for all the listeners who really felt this audio

    • @UTC_Audio
      @UTC_Audio  Před rokem +1

      Thanks for giving it a chance!

  • @XxaveryxX52
    @XxaveryxX52 Před rokem +2

    When is there never a time for hugs like there is always time for hugs

  • @GachaLogicExistsSadly
    @GachaLogicExistsSadly Před rokem +2

    I'm only a couple seconds in and I already know I'm gonna cry

  • @strawberrycatcake8023
    @strawberrycatcake8023 Před rokem +3

    This video hit so close to home for me, it even made me cry.
    Thank you for this amazing video...

  • @royalty_of_horror9791
    @royalty_of_horror9791 Před rokem +3

    Anyone else have a moment of “stop. GOW DID YOU KNOW THATS NE?!” When he said your friends and family tell you to grow up? I started crying because that was always the reason I got broken up with I acted like a “toddler”

  • @barisweetone
    @barisweetone Před rokem +2

    When I was little my mom and dad almost always had to fight about something and me being a little kid probably 2 or 3 years old I watched them fight about things a lot and I had to hide the pain and suffering of not feeling loved.

  • @einfach1mensch
    @einfach1mensch Před rokem +4

    welll shit that hit hard my mum always yells at me saying how childish i am whenever i tell her about my sister bullying or hitting me
    it also reminded me of something my best friend said to me about how one doesnt need an enemy if they have me and its stuck in my head whenever i see her because i cant tell if she really meant it which actually was the reason why i relapsed after being clean for over 100 days
    i think i might be autistic which would explain me coming across as rude, childish or like really goofy sometimes but that doesn't matter my mum doesn't want me to be autistic so i wont try to get a diagnosis
    But still it hurts so much that i don't feel super comfortable around my best friend anymore and that i always hold myself back when a topic I'm really interested in comes up
    Like i could really use some comfort with learning for my exams just to get them all back with bad grades while everyone else I'm kind of friends with is like REALLY good and my mum just telling me to study more
    to be honest i dont know what I'll do if my math exam on monday doesn't go well
    idk probably just leave, let everyone have a beautiful life yk
    Sorry for the rant
    I probably shouldn't have written all of that because nobody profits from trauma dumping haha
    Anywayyyy if anyone bothered to read this
    I hope you're doing great and if not I'm sure it will get better for you
    Have a wonderful day

  • @Dr.Hyde_SCPfoundation
    @Dr.Hyde_SCPfoundation Před 5 měsíci

    This has actually been the very first asmr I’ve cried to.. coming from a kid that had to grow up extremely fast when young knowing way to much for my age and always being told to grown up and change.. but I really liked this asmr made me feel happy to hear a apology even though it’s not technically real great asmr

  • @azula4786
    @azula4786 Před rokem +5

    this audio exist
    Me who's been a grown-up ever since I could remember walking and talking and acts like a child to compensate for my trauma : 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @kvr0m.i
    @kvr0m.i Před rokem +2

    me thinking being told to "grow up" is normal:: 🤨

  • @Angiee..
    @Angiee.. Před rokem +4

    Someone pls stop me it’s 3 am I need sleep but I have to listen to this

    • @Emobabe22
      @Emobabe22 Před rokem +1

      STOP 🤚YOUR UNDER ARREST 🙌

  • @Bad1ng_ka_jk_lng
    @Bad1ng_ka_jk_lng Před rokem +2

    I can't believe I can't believe I relate to this audio-

  • @jennifercanada973
    @jennifercanada973 Před rokem +1

    My ex used to get mad at me just becaues i wanted attention and he allways hangs out with his frinds instead of me so this hit really really hard

  • @Maybenotaperson
    @Maybenotaperson Před rokem +1

    Him: * Said something about McDonald’s being a favorite*
    Me: okay camera, be gone

  • @Vixxydollz
    @Vixxydollz Před 7 měsíci

    this makes me so happy to hear tbh, as an age regressor this is like a pain that i needed to experience and get over again and again

  • @kit-n_kat.
    @kit-n_kat. Před rokem +2

    This hit really hard. I was not expecting to relate so much to this

  • @stichmapache1126
    @stichmapache1126 Před rokem +31

    Una de mis muchas traumas de pequeña JAJAJAJA toco llorar 🐱