"I Punched A Hole In Jennifer Aniston's Dressing Room" - Matthew Perry On Chris Farley's Death

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  • čas přidán 28. 06. 2024
  • Matthew Perry speaks candidly about his struggle with addiction and tells Stephen how he reacted when he learned that his friend Chris Farley had passed away in 1997. Stick around for another segment with Matthew Perry and check out his book, "Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing," available everywhere now. #Colbert #Friends #BigTerribleThing #MatthewPerry
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  • @christofferjenzen78
    @christofferjenzen78 Před 7 měsíci +202

    Hearing him say, concidering how recent this is,that he doesn't wanna die...it just broke me. Thank you for everything legend, you did real good. Rest easy.

    • @King_Henry
      @King_Henry Před 7 měsíci +7

      Well said man. You nailed it there. He did his best, and even more than most. He probably went out good. We’ll probably see him in a future life, entertaining us all newbs again.

    • @oosthakker
      @oosthakker Před 7 měsíci +1

      You probably wont but not a bad thought

    • @laughingoutloud5742
      @laughingoutloud5742 Před 7 měsíci +8

      As someone who's in recovery, and a fan, I'm still really upset. His honesty hits me so hard, God. He's going to be very sorely missed for a very long time. Thank you Matthew. Your book is amazing and I will say your name every night when I say my gratitude list before I sleep. ❤💔❤️

    • @user-Mia-123
      @user-Mia-123 Před 7 měsíci +4

      May he rest in Peace

    • @_west33...
      @_west33... Před 6 měsíci +1

      Why????

  • @alixandragiordano
    @alixandragiordano Před 7 měsíci +64

    When he said “I missed all of you” my heart just shattered 🥺 Matty we all miss you

    • @MegPaterson2
      @MegPaterson2 Před 5 měsíci +1

      I thought the EXACT same thing, immediately 😓

  • @scoutsterling7224
    @scoutsterling7224 Před 8 měsíci +461

    and we're always going to miss you, Matthew Perry.....
    Rest in Peace, and rest easy....
    You deserved so much more out of this life after recovery...

  • @teacherlisa163
    @teacherlisa163 Před 7 měsíci +90

    And a year later, he's gone. He didn't want to die. He'd sobered up, but the damage was already done. Millions of hearts have been broken with his passing. It's really unbelievable. So sad. : *(

    • @lilly5157
      @lilly5157 Před 6 měsíci +2

      The died suddenly clot shot killed him.

    • @_west33...
      @_west33... Před 6 měsíci +8

      He was not sober.

    • @davidkruse4030
      @davidkruse4030 Před 6 měsíci +6

      @@lilly5157he died from use of drugs. Maybe one day you will realize not everything is a conspiracy

    • @blankpage555
      @blankpage555 Před 5 měsíci

      Amd his "therapists" walk free

    • @ItsOkImOnlyBleeding
      @ItsOkImOnlyBleeding Před 4 měsíci +3

      It was so hard reading this book after his passing because he was trying so hard to stay sober. Speaking as an addict who has been on and off different substances for years. I’ve been sober 7 months (this time) but it wouldn’t take a lot for me to jump straight back into it. Mathew spoke candidly about his addictions and the absolute daily struggle it is, no matter how much support, treatment or in his case, money you have! There’s nothing that can stop an addict other than themselves. He spoke about using ketamine for the first time, which is what I think his cause of death was and it’s just heartbreaking that it happened to someone who was trying so hard. There’s no conspiracy. He may have done it on purpose but only he could tell us that. I hope he’s finally found some peace because the life an addict is chaotic as fuck!! Which I also believe to be part of the addiction itself. Life is so boring when you’re sober and used to being high or drunk all the time. Nothing compares!

  • @michaelquigley1411
    @michaelquigley1411 Před rokem +1765

    I always enjoyed Matthew Perry's comedy and I could not be happier to know that he is in recovery. I've been sober for a bit over 33 years (knock on wood) and I heard a few key phrases from Perry which makes me think that this time sobriety will stick with him. Little by little more sunshine enters our lives until, before we know it, it's sunny every day.

  • @pinkysimmsBMMM
    @pinkysimmsBMMM Před 7 měsíci +242

    Watching this is so heartbreaking for those of us especially who experienced Friends as it happened. RIP Mathew thank you for the laughter.

    • @cricketcustomer2164
      @cricketcustomer2164 Před 7 měsíci +8

      👍👍!! RIP Sir!! Thank you for all the laughs.

    • @Bagglady889
      @Bagglady889 Před 7 měsíci +10

      It is so heartbreaking. This one got me most after Robin Williams. 😢

    • @hgrunenwald
      @hgrunenwald Před 7 měsíci +2

      …except for those of us who never found that simple brand of humor or sarcasm funny. The show was no Seinfeld. Lots of people never enjoyed it and don’t care about his death.

    • @cricketcustomer2164
      @cricketcustomer2164 Před 7 měsíci +8

      @@hgrunenwald Personally I never cared for Seinfeld. All the Friends characters were younger than myself. Still enjoyed that show more your favorite. We just agree to disagree 🤷

    • @hgrunenwald
      @hgrunenwald Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@cricketcustomer2164 If my comment doesn’t apply to you, why involve yourself? I’m just saying that when a person says “we,” etc., then they are attempting to speak on behalf of everyone. The rest of us will agree that the Friends show really sucked. That’s the part that got left out of the original comment.

  • @bridgetanne8242
    @bridgetanne8242 Před rokem +865

    As a recovering alcoholic, I appreciate Mr Perry being so open and honest.

    • @smmanoo
      @smmanoo Před rokem +3

      How did you do it?

    • @Jacob-ht7im
      @Jacob-ht7im Před rokem +7

      Congratulations getting this far, keep going. You're doing great.

    • @Slowhand871
      @Slowhand871 Před rokem +7

      @@smmanoo try AA. I was fortunate enough to just quit but I was 53

    • @Ludematt21
      @Ludematt21 Před rokem +3

      sameeeeee here doll

    • @stoodmuffinpersonal3144
      @stoodmuffinpersonal3144 Před rokem +5

      Hope the your recovery goes well, my friend 🙏🏻💖

  • @heatherbesocial
    @heatherbesocial Před 8 měsíci +89

    Fly high 🕊 Matthew Langford Perry (August 19, 1969 - October 28, 2023). You brought millions of people such joy with your talent and saved millions more by sharing your story. Rest easy friend. 💔 You'll never be forgotten.

    • @Gullvivas
      @Gullvivas Před 7 měsíci

      I was not watching this series,and dont know about him. I am in a older generation,and was to bussy at that time. The only actor I have been following lately is Johnny Depp. I really hope I am still around that day he die. Bc the media in west countries could be telling lies,and not be as good with him as with Matthew Perry. I just have that feeling in my belly. Hope the world media start to understand and support all genuin good and kind people. Good famous people.

  • @jenniferturek2917
    @jenniferturek2917 Před 7 měsíci +90

    "The one where the world's heart breaks". RIP Matthew. We loved you.

  • @stars_for_night_lights
    @stars_for_night_lights Před 8 měsíci +33

    The one where we lost a Friend 😢

  • @requiem5179
    @requiem5179 Před 8 měsíci +118

    He was just naturally charming and funny. A lot of us were always a fan. RIP Matt.

  • @mubashsheraashfaque4002
    @mubashsheraashfaque4002 Před rokem +618

    The long applause Matthew got made my heart melt..And then he said 'I missed you guys'😭❤️ He deserves the Love & Applaud ❤️

    • @nobody5867
      @nobody5867 Před rokem +14

      Hell yea. Let's all be happy for a moment Matt's alive and passing on his struggles to help people. Chandler will change lives! Could he BE a better inspiration? Honestly and truly I'm happy to see him again.

    • @mubashsheraashfaque4002
      @mubashsheraashfaque4002 Před rokem +13

      @@nobody5867 I'm so Happy seeing matt happy & sober..Person who made me laugh at my low..i really hope he gets the happiness he deserves ❤️

    • @darkvedge2
      @darkvedge2 Před rokem +3

      woohoo! he deserve all the applaud for sure! not like he wished for ppl death or something. yall make me sick.

    • @nobody5867
      @nobody5867 Před rokem +1

      @@darkvedge2 I didn't hear about this can you explain?

    • @hadoken95
      @hadoken95 Před rokem

      @@nobody5867 He lamented that River Phoenix died yet Keanu Reeves was still alive in his book. Pretty horrible thing to say, especially on someone who's well known as one of the nicest people around for real. Unlike Mr. Perry.

  • @kelkel261983
    @kelkel261983 Před 8 měsíci +52

    RIP Matthew 🕊️💔we will always have you in our hearts

  • @gerk7238
    @gerk7238 Před rokem +853

    I don’t know why but It’s great to see him out and doing well. He such a big part of our lives who grew up on friends. It’s like our friend is doing good again and hoping it lasts forever.

    • @patandrews4760
      @patandrews4760 Před rokem +18

      I’m so happy for him, seeing him looking so much better. I hope he stays the on the correct path for him and his family and people that love him .
      ❤️

    • @captainmercy87
      @captainmercy87 Před rokem +6

      Same for me

    • @csgollum
      @csgollum Před rokem +4

      Right?! My feelings exactly!

    • @marioquinoz7199
      @marioquinoz7199 Před rokem

      Shutup nerd

    • @yohanjohn100
      @yohanjohn100 Před rokem +4

      Don’t know why he’s annoyed with keanu though

  • @ramonaboggio7402
    @ramonaboggio7402 Před 7 měsíci +41

    Always loved Matthew Perry. The world was better for having had him in it. RIP.

  • @sarawydock4470
    @sarawydock4470 Před rokem +16

    “Being scared isn’t enough.” Truer words have never been spoken.

  • @100lightness
    @100lightness Před 8 měsíci +48

    Heartbroken and crying. I cannot believe this. He gave us so much laughter. Thank you. RIP.

  • @christophermyers3758
    @christophermyers3758 Před rokem +416

    Watching Matthew walk out to that applause from the audience was so heartwarming, it brought me to tears.
    It proves that when someone falls from grace, and comes back, we are there to lift them up with love and support!
    Keep smiling Matthew, we're all your "Friends"!
    🤗🙂😁😀😊😉

    • @RadioSnivins
      @RadioSnivins Před rokem

      No, it didn't. It didn't make ya blub. You're exaggerating for dramatic effect, which is lying. You're a liar. Have a nice day ... ya lying liar

    • @hippiecheezburger5457
      @hippiecheezburger5457 Před 7 měsíci +5

      Matthew Perry was always so lovable, the best thing he did with his life aside from his comedy is writing this book and sharing his experiences. At least he got to do this RIP

  • @xiffany20
    @xiffany20 Před 7 měsíci +17

    You will never be forgotten, Matthew. I pray you are resting in Peace now.

  • @Sunshine74444
    @Sunshine74444 Před rokem +103

    “Reality is an acquired taste.” Matthew says. I love that description.

    • @Playsch00l
      @Playsch00l Před rokem +1

      i didnt quite get what that meant, would you care to explain it if possible?

    • @merz1637
      @merz1637 Před rokem +9

      @@Playsch00l I think Matthew means that he felt he needed alcohol/substances to feel good in his skin, in his life, etc. And so, it took time for him to appreciate life without drinking and using (which is why he calls it an acquired taste)

  • @jotac87278
    @jotac87278 Před 7 měsíci +28

    As most on here, i too, stumbled into this video after Matthew's passing. As a man in recovery, i can totally emphasize with this struggle. Nearly 5 years clean, but we only have today. It doesnt matter to me how he died. "What we do in life, echoes in eternity." Thank you Chandler Bing. Thank you Matthew Perry.

  • @vickydiehl2195
    @vickydiehl2195 Před 8 měsíci +38

    He will be remembered...he did leave his mark on the world for not only his work but his real person that he was....may u rest in peace Matthew🎇💝

  • @tyebo64
    @tyebo64 Před 8 měsíci +66

    To the man who brought so much joy and laughter to my life and the lives of all my family and friends. RIP Matthew, we'll miss you Chandler Bing.

  • @jessicapatton2688
    @jessicapatton2688 Před 7 měsíci +13

    It’s sad to watch this a year later knowing he’s dead. His death bugged me. 54 is young. When my stepdad died too. RIP Matthew Perry. U will be missed.

    • @sapphire7424
      @sapphire7424 Před 7 měsíci +5

      I'm so sorry your stepdad passed so young. Hope you're OK x

    • @dolindis
      @dolindis Před 6 měsíci +1

      My dad passed away at 54 too…😢

  • @rosevanguard
    @rosevanguard Před 8 měsíci +21

    Miss you Mathew Perry. One of my favorite characters in sitcom tv 📺

  • @gracea33
    @gracea33 Před rokem +388

    Man this interview. The questions. The honesty. Thank you Colbert and Perry.

    • @Playsch00l
      @Playsch00l Před rokem +6

      the question about whether or not he was a reliable narrator of his story when his story is lifelong addiction was a bit distasteful

    • @sharkfintech5893
      @sharkfintech5893 Před rokem +3

      ​@J R I respectfully disagree. Someone who spent so much of their life in denial of such a huge problem may NOT be the best chronicler of that experience.
      So it's actually a fair and logical question to ask, even if a "brutally honest" one.

  • @bettyboossister3918
    @bettyboossister3918 Před 8 měsíci +18

    R.I.P...So sad he has gone...I hope he is at peace now...😔

  • @thirstonhowellthebird
    @thirstonhowellthebird Před 8 měsíci +21

    Such foreshadowing when he mentions Chris Farley. This is such a devastating loss. I really hope he’s up there in Heaven with Chris making all the Angels laugh. It’s just so sad.

  • @kuldoxy5637
    @kuldoxy5637 Před 8 měsíci +62

    He fought for his life, he fought to live. 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿I'm just really glad that he was sober and was able to publish his book and help so many people before he left us. He will always be remembered for the right reasons cos of that.🙏🏿 We are so proud of u Matthew Perry.✊🏿 You lived a fulfilled life.🙌🏿 You will be missed.😞

    • @julielawlor5482
      @julielawlor5482 Před 7 měsíci

      Millions have had a worsee life than an over paid tv actor

    • @kuldoxy5637
      @kuldoxy5637 Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@julielawlor5482 So???

    • @wolf.eye._-
      @wolf.eye._- Před 7 měsíci +1

      ❤❤❤

    • @wolf.eye._-
      @wolf.eye._- Před 7 měsíci +3

      ​@@julielawlor5482 what difference does that make?

    • @julielawlor5482
      @julielawlor5482 Před 7 měsíci

      @@wolf.eye._- people making out as if he was some kind of tragic saint He was an over paid alkie who people pandered to

  • @ingridnorman7919
    @ingridnorman7919 Před 7 měsíci +39

    Almost exactly a year ago(depending on where you are) and I remember watching this then and being so happy to see him and hat things seemed to be looking up health wise for him. Just when we lost Robin Williams this hit me hard. And like Robin Williams it will forever feel a little weird they're not around anymore. Rest in Peace

  • @alf2633
    @alf2633 Před 8 měsíci +213

    This is heartbreaking to watch. Celebrities are idols and inspiration for many. To see someone go through massive effort to try regain control of their life to see them then pass at such a young age is just truly a shame.
    Strength to any of you battling your own battles.

    • @julielawlor5482
      @julielawlor5482 Před 7 měsíci

      Over paid spoilt people Millions of people starving and dying and people crying over alkie

    • @jakeherter
      @jakeherter Před 6 měsíci +1

      He had infinite money and could not go to rehab. Grow up.
      There are places out there like origins behavioral health center that will work with you until you are on the other side of an addiction. It's the place Dr Phil sends it's worst guests.

    • @Zett76
      @Zett76 Před 6 měsíci +3

      @@jakeherter did you even watch the video?
      He probably spent more money on rehabs than anyone else on this planet.
      Show some humanity.

  • @melaniekennedy6261
    @melaniekennedy6261 Před rokem +116

    Just started his book this evening-- it's a good read. What an enormous challenge this man has finally defeated, after so much misery.

  • @yvettetorres7829
    @yvettetorres7829 Před rokem +279

    Matthew is a jewel. Even after addiction has ravished his body and brain, he is still here. Alive and destigmatizing addiction by talking openly about it and how it is a disease that needs treatment, support, and hope.

    • @lauradegregorio5005
      @lauradegregorio5005 Před rokem +3

      He has money

    • @tonyanthony5105
      @tonyanthony5105 Před rokem +3

      He’s destigmatizing addiction for Celebrities. Real people aren’t pathetic enough to need $9 million worth of “treatment” to figure out how to control themselves. They either grow up and stop, they wind up in prison, or they die. Shout out to Keanu

    • @luckyjasonfan
      @luckyjasonfan Před rokem +7

      @@tonyanthony5105 "or they die"
      Real people die of addiction. Cool story, bro! Great commentary.
      I guess you don't realize that _plenty_ of RICH people aren't celebrities. So, are those people "real" or not? 🤔

    • @helenal.7881
      @helenal.7881 Před rokem

      How on God’s earth is addiction a “disease”???? Someone made the stupid choice to take drugs and drink. When people get a real disease they get it at no fault of their own.

    • @tonyanthony5105
      @tonyanthony5105 Před rokem

      @@luckyjasonfan if it costs them 9 million dollars to stop doing dr&gs then no, they aren’t real people, they are spoiled fools

  • @UTVilla
    @UTVilla Před 7 měsíci +28

    Just finished the book and although I’m lucky enough not to suffer with addiction I can see that book is going to help people with it. It’s honest and graphic and everyone should read it

    • @ajn8863
      @ajn8863 Před 7 měsíci +2

      I am reading it now, I had no idea how much he was hurting.

  • @rickwiglyjr7422
    @rickwiglyjr7422 Před 8 měsíci +19

    RIP Matthew Perry be at peace legend 🙏

  • @KandeShack
    @KandeShack Před rokem +104

    I pray he continues on the path he is on. Addiction is a life long battle, not something that happens overnight. Prayers for him🙏🏻

  • @greenblood64
    @greenblood64 Před rokem +31

    I love Matthew Perry and I only wish him the best of everything that life has to offer. He is brutally honest and appreciate his honesty.

  • @lisamareeaccary5132
    @lisamareeaccary5132 Před rokem +131

    Matthew said it perfectly
    “Reality moved to where it should be “ that was also my experience with past addiction

    • @therealdeal3672
      @therealdeal3672 Před rokem +11

      That was very well put. An apt description of burying oneself in one's addiction.

    • @nicholascoburn6152
      @nicholascoburn6152 Před rokem +10

      fucking scary, that line brought me to tears

    • @Berlynic
      @Berlynic Před rokem +3

      I'm glad your well 🙂❤

    • @Sentientpotatoh
      @Sentientpotatoh Před rokem +12

      That line finally helped me make sense of a loved ones struggles. I always wondered why the beautiful life they have isn't enough, but I see it now. It's that reality doesn't feel the same to them.

    • @AnaAcuraErica
      @AnaAcuraErica Před rokem +2

      ** Wear not where - and yes it matters 🙄🙄🙄🙄

  • @Anthony-jd8pg
    @Anthony-jd8pg Před 8 měsíci +8

    Life is & will forever remain what it is. Rest easy sir.

  • @waffleoutlaw9951
    @waffleoutlaw9951 Před 8 měsíci +10

    Had to come back here after the news today... 😥

  • @yankeegirl3380
    @yankeegirl3380 Před rokem +219

    My heart swelled when the audience gave him such a wonderful welcome. And the look in his eyes at the audience, so much gratitude. You can tell he feels loved. Matty, we've missed you! We love you! Welcome back, handsome!

  • @annarousiadou784
    @annarousiadou784 Před 7 měsíci +8

    So sweet, down to earth approachable. Such a sweet spirit. Cannot believe it. Heart wrenching to watch,so unfair.May he rest in piece.

  • @user-ex7em8mk7u
    @user-ex7em8mk7u Před 7 měsíci +8

    Literally so young yet his body and demeanor moved like an elder. Addiction is a powerful and horrible thing. Rip

  • @touchtherapy4kidz
    @touchtherapy4kidz Před 7 měsíci +5

    Coming back to this, now that he's gone, hits different 😢

  • @biatch1966
    @biatch1966 Před 7 měsíci +28

    It’s just so sad that he’s gone as he could’ve helped so many. I know he wants his book to be remembered for so I hope many read it & he is cheering on those from heaven that got help by reading his story 🙏🙏🙏

    • @jenninscho1980
      @jenninscho1980 Před 6 měsíci

      I'm so glad his book got out in time, because a year later he's not here anymore. I'm reading his book now. I struggle with addiction and I keep saying "that's me too" when he describes addiction, etc. What an awesome man.

  • @bessmahaneypilates8638
    @bessmahaneypilates8638 Před rokem +32

    Just seeing him walk out brought tears to my eyes 😢, so happy for him. 😊😊😊

  • @phunke0305
    @phunke0305 Před 8 měsíci +8

    This so surreal. RIP Matthew 😢

  • @emmapoole3644
    @emmapoole3644 Před 8 měsíci +7

    R.I.P. This was terrible news to wake up to this morning.

  • @jamiecarroll2173
    @jamiecarroll2173 Před rokem +179

    I am so grateful for Mathew Perry. In my opinion his comparison between a person having one drink and "feeling a little wonky" and how for him that one drink would reset his world to normalcy is the best description I've heard about alcohol use disorder. I am 14 months sober and honestly, the best addiction medicine is hearing a person who struggled similarly to me share their story. I struggled for 30 years with drinking and/or smoking MJ and inside of it there is so much shame and regret over not being able to stop even knowing that you are hurting yourself and people you love and whom love you....and there is so much judgement pointed towards those of us with genetic markers of addiction, PTSD, mental health differences, and folks suffering from racism and social injustices.
    I plan on reading and putting Mathew Perry's book and this interview in my sobriety tool kit.

    • @jonathanmayberrydesigns
      @jonathanmayberrydesigns Před rokem +1

      congrats. but you made one large error. equating pot to drinking. thats apples to oranges. alcoholism and opiate addiction are the worse two addictions, period, with a strong argument that alcohol is much worse. You cant reason with a drunk and if reason is not in the room, well, nothing else is. But pot, jesus, you could smoke an ounce a day with little to no effect on your life except if you choose to use it an an excuse. You really should be careful about leading the unknowing on to dangers in life, pot aint one of them. This is coming from someone who has been addicted to everything at some point in life, EXCEPT alcohol, thank god. And alcohol is legal, imagine that.

    • @MrAlistairrobertson
      @MrAlistairrobertson Před rokem +5

      Clearly you have no understanding of addiction. Any drug from weed to heroin is dangerous for an addict. One is too many a thousand is never enough. Once you start the cycle again some people never get the chance to be clean again after picking up again.

    • @jonathanmayberrydesigns
      @jonathanmayberrydesigns Před rokem

      @@MrAlistairrobertson Actually, clearly you do not. Quit reading from books written by people that havent been addicts or addicts of only one thing. I have been an addict to EVERYTHING, except alcohol, and a differnt points in my life. I could write a book on thew differences of each addiction and how they are ENTIRELY different from each other. I have been addicted to things like marijuana (which was not a real addiction) to IV drug use of everything, literally. They are anything but the same and the addiction qualities and actions so much different from each other. Quit talking about something you clearly have no clue about except through "reading". And someone that has only been addicted to one thing in their life has no idea either and no right to speak or equate them all the same. All the BS know it alls through no experience of their own are what make addictions so clearly misunderstood.

    • @MrAlistairrobertson
      @MrAlistairrobertson Před rokem +2

      Thank you for proving my point. Maybe you should go and try and understand what addiction is rather than sounding so Ill informed. The thing that qualifies me is I am an addict been an addict for the entirety of my life. It doesn’t matter the drug you are addicted to it all leads to the same point

    • @jonathanmayberrydesigns
      @jonathanmayberrydesigns Před rokem

      @@MrAlistairrobertson all i have to say is hahahahahahahah! you have NO clue!!! I work with addicts everyday and they ALL agree!! but go ahead with your outdated self, to each their own😂😂😂 Im quite sure you also think addiction cant be cured either and is a lifelong "problem" and 12 steps is the only way. You may not live long enough to see that change in the mainstream, but it will! Keep white knuckling it and teaching others its the only way lol. Myself and others will sit back with popcorn and watch you all live the true definition of insanity by relying on such programs to make it thru life. Cognitive behavioral therapy will change the world when people stop pushing such BS, setting people up for a lifetime of pain! I cant speak for alcoholics (the weakest willed of all addictions) but I can for all others!

  • @glr4275
    @glr4275 Před rokem +47

    Love his realism and forward attitude. The path of recovery from addiction is really hard and can take a whole life. Thanks for this testimony.

  • @audioreacts4957
    @audioreacts4957 Před 8 měsíci +4

    this video is eerie now that his is finally at peace. God bless Matthew Perry.

  • @ShellyBomb
    @ShellyBomb Před 7 měsíci +7

    Simply heartbreaking that almost one year later (after this interview) - Matthew Perry is gone!
    R.I.P. 🙏 🕊️ ❤️‍🩹

  • @theaniacz
    @theaniacz Před rokem +21

    I could honestly listen to Matthew Perry and Stephen talk for hours upon hours and I would be in heaven 😍 what a class man Matthew is!!

  • @Babygottaeat249
    @Babygottaeat249 Před rokem +38

    Really beautiful. I’m so happy for him that he’s letting this all out and being received so well. Addiction is a disease and this helps people suffering and those who love people who are suffering.

  • @BlakieTT
    @BlakieTT Před rokem +67

    I just have SUCH LOVE AND APPRECIATION for this man, for the laughs and tears and times that he's given to me, just by playing Chanandler Bong. 😭 Thank you, Mattie!

  • @Patrick-jj5nh
    @Patrick-jj5nh Před rokem +37

    he looks and sounds so much better than during the reunion.. wish he had been at this level when they had that moment together

    • @rebeccamystery9897
      @rebeccamystery9897 Před rokem +3

      He just had dental surgery at that reunion

    • @ellie-tk4jy
      @ellie-tk4jy Před rokem

      He was together for that. It was his stupid teeth. I wish people would stop getting fake teeth. Looks like snow in the mouth.

    • @spongebobsqueeze
      @spongebobsqueeze Před rokem

      It is so hard for some of us to truly understand addiction and how anyone could do anything to death. I do not really understand it but I know it is true. I feel very fortunate that as I hit my teens no one or nothing has ever been the boss of my life.

  • @dancewithme1975
    @dancewithme1975 Před 7 měsíci +5

    When his death was announced, but had just started listening to his book, which he also narrated. Hearing his struggles, in his words and his voice was heartbreaking. Then seeing finally get to a place in his life where he found some of the happy that he was missing was hopeful. Chandler was my favorite character on friends but he was also helping people battle through the same struggles he did. He knew what it took to beat it and was ready to help others in the same situation. I miss him, but I hope he found the peace that he looked for his whole life.

  • @PintsWithAquinas
    @PintsWithAquinas Před rokem +6

    I love how vulnerable this bloke is. God bless him

  • @philthemovieguy81
    @philthemovieguy81 Před rokem +14

    He’s so right about what drinking does to the addict/alcoholic. It does turn on you after a while. It’s all fun and games at first, until it begins to dismantle your life piece by piece and the last thing it takes away is you. “Man takes a drink, the drink takes a drink, and then the drink takes the man.” Been Sober 2 years & 11 months. Glad to know Matthew is doing well.

    • @Repomidnight
      @Repomidnight Před rokem +1

      Glad you’ve being doing well mate. Thanks for sharing. All the best.

  • @debbiedemichele7375
    @debbiedemichele7375 Před 7 měsíci +6

    So sad that a year from that taping Matthew would pass away. He will be truly missed

  • @Zoelis17
    @Zoelis17 Před rokem +28

    He literally makes me happy every day - I love Chandler on Friends, he is my favorite character and it hurts so much that he’s led a completely different reality during his time filming friends and afterwards. I really do wish him the best and hope he lives a great life today and every day. As he has made so many people happy and laugh

  • @margierose05
    @margierose05 Před rokem +106

    Very well worded questions, with respect and consideration. Stephen is such a great interviewer.

  • @hippiecheezburger5457
    @hippiecheezburger5457 Před 7 měsíci +7

    I really admire this period of his life, like him sharing his experiences and promoting his book that can potentially help millions

  • @JRufu
    @JRufu Před rokem +25

    I've always wanted good things for Matthew Perry. I'm glad to hear he's doing well after this long fight.

  • @colleenshea2293
    @colleenshea2293 Před rokem +20

    Sharing addiction stories is a very very real way to help people and save lives! Thanks Matthew Perry !!!

  • @debbie1247
    @debbie1247 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Colbert does a great job with his questions. RIP Matthew

  • @toddnickell6507
    @toddnickell6507 Před 7 měsíci +5

    A wonderful guy, he made millions of us laugh and love him and helped many with addiction and was a dear friend to the lucky. Thanks for always giving us your best. Love you man.
    Rest In Peace.
    We're keeping your wonderful spirit here, with us.

  • @unseeliesidhegoddess
    @unseeliesidhegoddess Před rokem +43

    Addiction isn't a personality flaw. It's not something that "bad" people deal with. Addiction stems from feelings of loneliness, and emptiness, and of being unloved and unlovable. Yes, addictions can bring out the worst in people, make them do terrible things, but in general they aren't bad people at all. They're just hurting and they need help.

    • @unseeliesidhegoddess
      @unseeliesidhegoddess Před rokem +10

      And as someone who has dealt with depression and anxiety my whole life, I know the strength it takes to get help. It takes a hell of a strong person to battle those kinds of inner demons and come out breathing on the other side.

    • @tracydutton7577
      @tracydutton7577 Před rokem

      @@unseeliesidhegoddess it's the struggle that makes 1 stronger

    • @TheStarsAlly
      @TheStarsAlly Před rokem +1

      @@tracydutton7577 What a naive thing to say. If that were true, the rates of death in us with mental illness whether it is addiction or other wouldnt be so high.

    • @tracydutton7577
      @tracydutton7577 Před rokem

      @@TheStarsAlly in my personal experience.

    • @eriomnyc6073
      @eriomnyc6073 Před rokem

      ♥️

  • @beckya640
    @beckya640 Před rokem +5

    His candor is so endearing. I’m so glad he’s better now.

  • @I_love_music_n_cheese_n_music
    @I_love_music_n_cheese_n_music Před 7 měsíci +14

    It breaks my heart to look back and know how much he questioned his place in the world. 💔

  • @Solasdeas
    @Solasdeas Před 7 měsíci +3

    I am so sorry that Matthew was hurting in life, I hope that he as at peace now ❤️

  • @newricoyorkonsoli5193
    @newricoyorkonsoli5193 Před rokem +32

    Awesome questions and wording, excellent. Matty is everything. I love him and wish him the best. He deserves happiness ❤

  • @TheSheila4444
    @TheSheila4444 Před rokem +28

    I love that he realized that we all have “contracts” in this life and they’re all about service to other human beings and that he’s telling his story to help others, bravo.

    • @cjfengshui1
      @cjfengshui1 Před 7 měsíci +1

      That’s amazing about the contract etc and he helped and will continue helping others through his book. What a wonderful beautiful soul!

  • @marybethschultz202
    @marybethschultz202 Před rokem +43

    He sounds really good here. I've seen interviews of him before that made me worry for him, but his voice, his mannerisms, his confidence all here sounds like he's in a much better place

    • @AnikanAndrew31
      @AnikanAndrew31 Před rokem +4

      He said in another interview that when he was doing the friends reunion he had just had some kind of dental emergency surgery and his mouth was burning when he was talking, but he might’ve sounded like that in other interviews as well I’m not 100% sure.

    • @barbarad3869
      @barbarad3869 Před rokem +1

      Yes, it seems that he gave Colbert his best self. He's probably still struggling but the effort was appreciable

    • @graciecat5540
      @graciecat5540 Před rokem +1

      Has his speech been affected permanently?

    • @AnikanAndrew31
      @AnikanAndrew31 Před rokem +1

      In his most recent interviews he seems to be talking a lot better I think he just needed a few weeks to get back to normal

    • @tamibayus3390
      @tamibayus3390 Před 10 měsíci

      I've been binging Friends and as much as I love the show, it hurts to watch him struggle. You can see it in his eyes, body, and speech. I'm glad he's doing something with this, and I hope it helps others.

  • @nycava0520
    @nycava0520 Před 7 měsíci +5

    Just when he was working so hard to restart his life..... Gone too soon. 😢 R.I.P. Matthew Perry

  • @The_Real_Mier
    @The_Real_Mier Před rokem +69

    Having observed the ruthlessness of Hollywood and everything attached to that, I realize even more how incredibly strong Matthew Perry is, by sharing his story to the world.
    I know he is helping people by telling about both the highs and the lows, about the joy but most certainly the pain.
    I might be a hopeless dreamer, but I consider this all worthwhile if even just ONE person finds the strength to take on his or her addiction because of Perry’s experiences!!

  • @GlitterHPGirl7
    @GlitterHPGirl7 Před 8 měsíci +10

    RIP MATTHEW PERRY WE LOVE YOU

  • @jordanreid2619
    @jordanreid2619 Před 7 měsíci +4

    Rip Mathew perry you were the best character in friends too

  • @Pratalax
    @Pratalax Před rokem +73

    Tremendously powerful, arresting, honest words that not enough people get to hear or take to heart. Big ups to him for this.

    • @sea_triscuit7980
      @sea_triscuit7980 Před rokem +3

      You mean "BING ups to him!" Haha jk idk why I did that

  • @chrisrw8939
    @chrisrw8939 Před rokem +149

    ❤ I always admire it when people in the public eye talk openly about their addiction battle. I’m an alcoholic who has been sober for 16months 🎊 🎉. Hearing him talk about it helps me remember I’m not alone. It also feels good to be able to admit my own battle so that I might help another to not feel alone. I’m thrilled to have my life back; it’s not been easy, but it’s so much easier than my life as an active drunk. My one wish, like most, is that I got help sooner…so if you think you might have a problem, (or if you know that you do), then please reach out to a rehab and/or a 12 step group. Stick with it, because the program works if you work it. I hope everyone who reads this has an exceptionally blessed day! Remember you are loved, and you are worthy❤❤❤

    • @helenhucker346
      @helenhucker346 Před rokem +8

      I just wanted to congratulate you on being sober for 16 months and I wish you all the best for the future.

    • @annageorge1992
      @annageorge1992 Před rokem +7

      Congratulations ❤❤ Please go ahead and be healthier and happier.

    • @sarahhorowitz1915
      @sarahhorowitz1915 Před rokem +2

      Congrats! Unfortunately, rehab, the cult that is AA and therapy doesn’t work for everyone.

    • @elizabethhoover4672
      @elizabethhoover4672 Před rokem +7

      Congratulations!! ❤ Good job!!🙌🏻🎉💪🏻⚡💖

    • @StephenPeever
      @StephenPeever Před rokem +7

      Good job!

  • @nartouzumaki8232
    @nartouzumaki8232 Před 8 měsíci +5

    What a cooL Dude 😢 .. RIP Matt

  • @pdxpete48
    @pdxpete48 Před rokem +27

    I am newly into sobriety, but I get inspired by people who didn't give up and made it through. I love Mathew Perry and I'm glad he is still with us, his words really help my confidence I can do it too.

    • @russswanson3820
      @russswanson3820 Před rokem +7

      You can do it. Just keep talking to others in your same boat. 👍🏻

    • @michaelbray109
      @michaelbray109 Před rokem +6

      One day at a time and remember it only takes 10 seconds of not reverting but you need to fight that ten second battle repeatedly every day.

    • @ms.q7445
      @ms.q7445 Před rokem +6

      There’s a 12 step group for any problem you may have. Find support (if you haven’t already).

    • @SweetSirenia
      @SweetSirenia Před 7 měsíci +2

      Rooting for you. ❤

    • @MagicalTales11
      @MagicalTales11 Před 5 měsíci

      The Holy Spirit can help you

  • @cherylb2008
    @cherylb2008 Před 7 měsíci +11

    I read it, it’s very good. Honest and interesting. He worked so hard maintaining his sobriety.
    He worked so hard.
    I believe he had too much pickle ball, he’s middle aged
    Climbed into a hot jacuzzi and had a cardio event

  • @thiscatrblx9641
    @thiscatrblx9641 Před rokem +7

    We effin love you Matthew!! So happy to see you well and healthy. God bless you sweet man🥰💯💥

  • @sharrose7594
    @sharrose7594 Před rokem +5

    Matthew, if there's any way you see this, you're a hero to me. I have a loved one who has struggled so so many years and still does. The suffering is so huge. I read an article about you years ago before another relapse and thought of contacting you for help. Very glad you are doing better, took so much courage. You're helping countless people. Praying for you now.

  • @user-vt7lv8cx7n
    @user-vt7lv8cx7n Před 8 měsíci +5

    Rest in Peace, Matty!

  • @MonCherry13
    @MonCherry13 Před 7 měsíci +5

    😢he didn’t want to die. He was getting better.. I’m sure it was still a daily struggle. Life is so cruel. RIP 🤍

  • @LXSeaV
    @LXSeaV Před 8 měsíci +2

    I was here for this taping and I'm sorry that a year later he's not here anymore.

  • @sergiorrwodz
    @sergiorrwodz Před rokem +11

    Combert really managed that interview pretty well. Congrats. Good questions. Goos tones. No judgment. Good pase. No over drama or too much comedy.

  • @rawkarpojk
    @rawkarpojk Před 8 měsíci +10

    I read the book. If by any chance Matthew Perry sees this, please get an ADHD assesment. I read the book and found soo many likenesses with you. I never had the drugs but a lot of different ways. The anxiety, depression and so on. Everything is spot on. Please, please go check that out.

  • @rhondarichards3982
    @rhondarichards3982 Před rokem +7

    Love Matthew Perry.He kept us laughing through life's hard times.God Bless him.

  • @Zurpanik
    @Zurpanik Před rokem +106

    Seeing things like this are really powerful and I'm really happy more and more folks are comfortable and trusting enough to share this deeply personal information with us. It's about damn time we stop criminalizing people for just wanting to feel good and it's time we start realizing this is our one life and it should be lived feeling great and being close to the people we care about as much as we can.

  • @ciaransammon
    @ciaransammon Před 8 měsíci +13

    Unbelievably saddening. Sleep well, Chandler.

  • @gabriellerivera7551
    @gabriellerivera7551 Před 7 měsíci +3

    His remark about the 4th wall absolutely brilliant, in all its layers. He was a brilliant, intelligent, hilarious human being. He is, and will be, so missed.

  • @maggie198333
    @maggie198333 Před rokem +11

    I think it’s important for these kind of conversations and information, for people struggling with addictions to acknowledge their problems and to know that they are not alone, and also for their friends and families to understand the “reality” of people with addictions are experiencing. Glad he’s doing well.

  • @bitchenboutique6953
    @bitchenboutique6953 Před rokem +80

    I’m always down for funny people being open and honest about addiction. It gets easier to openly admit the more often you tell your story and the more people willing to ask good questions.

  • @soyzworldful
    @soyzworldful Před rokem +10

    It really is so nice to see him back and appreciate his honesty. 👍

  • @MaryseMeunier
    @MaryseMeunier Před 7 měsíci +4

    I thank him for everything he was. I wish he had much more time to enjoy the good. 😔

  • @alyssamihalik6219
    @alyssamihalik6219 Před rokem +3

    25 years this December 18th for Chris Farley’s death, R.I.P. to him, and I do hope that Matthew Perry can find happiness❤️🙏🏻

  • @jessm.porthos
    @jessm.porthos Před 7 měsíci +2

    Awe I grew up watching Matthew Perry and not only as a fan and someone from Canada … I am continually happy for him and am so sad for the loss his family and loved ones are experiencing RIP