The Life of Brian - a story of hope and possibility
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- čas přidán 16. 09. 2023
- Whether you're facing challenges of your own or seeking inspiration, this podcast promises to leave you with a renewed sense of hope and possibility. Freddo chats with Brian Kinney, the face behind the Paralyzed Living CZcams channel.
Brian shares his remarkable journey from the moment he faced a life-altering spinal cord injury that left him paralysed from the nipples down to his incredible transformation into a source of hope and empowerment.
In this candid conversation, Brian discusses the emotional rollercoaster of receiving a paralysing diagnosis and being told he'd never walk again. He opens up about the depths of depression he experienced and the challenging path toward rediscovering hope and purpose in life.
Discover how Brian defied the odds and started a family, despite the unique challenges he faced. Learn about his unconventional but empowering approach to raising funds for IVF treatment by selling nude photos of himself, a decision that not only provided financial support but also a newfound sense of confidence and agency.
Throughout our conversation, we explore the powerful connection between Brian's CZcams channel and the way it helped others, like me, navigate the early stages of paralysis.
Together, we reflect on the shared experiences, resilience, and determination that unite us on our journeys toward personal growth and fulfilment.
Tune in to this thought-provoking episode as we delve into the depths of adversity, the heights of empowerment, and the unwavering strength of the human spirit.
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First, I want to admit that I am possibly the #1 fan of Brian. Well, because he’s my little brother and I could not be more proud and honored to be his sister. That’s not the reason I’m commenting. The real reason is because both of you just worked so beautifully together on this episode. The vulnerability and willingness to be authentic and even make me laugh is just truly endearing. Perhaps you guys get to do more stuff together. You both are the true meaning of making the most out of a crappy situation. The fact that you both use your injuries to help others and prove what’s possible as long as you choose a positive perspective and don’t give up I feel gives real hope to others. Brian hates when I call him an inspiration but to me, he will always be just that. Thanks for making this interview happen. Keep up your incredible work of making a real difference for people! I wish you so many blessings! ❤
Thanks Erin, that’s such a lovely thing to say. It makes me happy that this conversation has the approval of Brian’s big sister. I appreciate the kind words and I’d love to collaborate with him again on another project, so watch this space ❤️✌️
Brian's first video called "Paraplegic Motorcyle Rider's View" was the first "English speaking videos" I have ever watched - although he does not speak in this one :) ...
I did show it to a fellow wheeler buddy, who got very jealous, because in Germany wheelchair-users are "not allowed to drive adapted motorbikes" (Quads or Trikes are the only option), and it was so awesome to see, it can actually work ! Back then Bruce Cook was still able-bodied and I had never heard of Nitro Circus ...
And Brian was able to help a few of my quadriplegic friends by suggesting the abdominal binder for example !
As a "Spaz" (CP) I had no idea, how good this works for them, to keep the blood pressure from dropping.
Just two days ago, I told someone to go watch his video on this topic, and the lady I gave this advice to is a quadriplegic for almost 40 years now.
I did not expect, that she had never heard of "this item" as something quite usefull.
So, although I have left some comments to Brian's videos over the past 12 years: "THANKS AGAIN, Brian !", your channel is a great source !
But Fred, your channel is awesome, too ! And I especially love your podcast and now your idea to have guest to talk to here on your channel as well.
Thanks for all your input, too - and all the best and lots of Love !
Thanks so much for the continued support on my creative outlets. I love that you love the podcast too and I really appreciate the kind words ❤️✌️
I am so happy that he was wearing that helmet.
Hello Brian, Fred thank you for this conversation 16 years ago I was injured C5-C6, Quadriplegic, I use an active wheelchair, Brian helped me a lot, as did Richard, Shane, Brittany, Tanelle...Peace ☮️💯❤
So glad you enjoyed the convo!
@@FreddotheWheelchairGuy Listening to you gives me a lot of peace, I am not a believer but I try to follow some Buddhist mantras, I like meditation. Excuse my level of English, I follow you from Alicante Looking at the Mediterranean ☮️🥵😎😜
Oh I watch his videos as well ❤. This is the crossover episode I’ve been waiting for since you and Brittney did those videos together.
I am a nurse and work on the spinal injury unit and have been getting my pts to watch these and listen to Freddo s podcast. As most of my pts are young men / boys this is going to be really important for them to see . A lot of our pts co.e back and see us a year or 2 down the track and its amazing how much they remember . i just know that sex is one of their major concerns but they do not say a thing
Wonderful ! Thank you for signposting your patients to this podcast, I really think it can be beneficial for them to hear us talk candidly about things like sex after SCI, and I plan on making more videos about the subject in the future ❤
@FreddotheWheelchairGuy its super helpful because I am not the right person to help them on this subject and i know its oneof the things that they need candid , honest , funny and genuine information about . They are more likely to listen to someone who also has a sci cos the one sentence that is never uttered to them from the staff is ...i know how you feel xxxxxxx
i been paraplegic since 1985 i think its great what you`re doing you are helpimg lot,s of people. I kmow you already know that but if you love cook do a you tube cooking channel. thank you for what you are doing i will paas it on you st
That's wild! Hitting the same tree!! What are the chances..
Great chat fellas. I'm creeping up on 25 years since my SCI. Those stats on children are crazy.. Mine (twins) just turned 17 and let me tell ya.. 17 years flew by! Embrace every moment. Fellas, don't let the chair hold you back from travelling the world! I've been all over the US, skipped over to Japan a couple times, Cuba, Brazil.. So many beautiful places and people to see and meet. Oh and retirement.. lol I've been with the same company for 22 years which I am very grateful for.. but I will have no issues what's so ever retiring from my day job! 😁Keep rollin' fellas!
Thanks Shane, 25 years is a long time! So glad you enjoyed the conversation.
Sounds like you’ve lived a very full life since your accident. Would you like to chat more about it on a podcast episode?
I think it would be very valuable to share your story and insights 😊
I would be more than happy to share. How shall we connect?@@FreddotheWheelchairGuy
Sorry for the late reply , this comment went under the radar, I’d love to, fb messenger Freddo Smith 😉
Thank you for letting us know about contacting you guys. I mentor at my hospital for newly made paraplegics. I try to let them know the situation and things I had wished I’d known.
Great chat and thank you for your honesty. Living in this day and age where we can learn from video resources is definitely a blessing.
That’s why I do it! Thanks for the comment ❤️✌️
Jumping across from your comment on my video! This is a really good podcast. You guys smashed audio quality for a remote call. The only improvement id want to make for this vid (with the footage as is) is framing the subjects better in post. Cameras aren't level and I'd punch in a little. Not the end of the world, but just what I'd have done.
Biggest improvement you can make for next video is lighting. Either curtains drawn and light the room or spin the desk round so the window is lighting you rather than blowing out your background. Controlled lighting is the one if you can do it.
If you are keen id want go to a tighter focal length on you. This may involve moving the desk away from the wall a little so you can put the camera further back. This will help reduce the fish eye warp on your face.
Deffo keep at it! Lots of potential here!
Hi Tim, thanks so much for taking the time to watch and write such a detailed comment! ❤
Agreed, the idea of facing the window would have made a huge difference with respect to lighting my face up.
I know about focal length from one of your videos, so I agree, I used the wrong lens on the phone, another great tip for future recordings.
Brian recorded his audio and video using an iphone (front facing camera) and I cleaned it up with Adobe's free AI tool, which took out a lot of echo and made it sound crisp (and maybe 10% more "robotic") but it was an improvement.
It's all a great learning experience for future recordings and I appreciate all the tips, so thanks again ❤ ✌
I was in a wheelchair all 2022 from a wreck with broken legs. I love your honesty. I am forever altered. I can walk with walker and am grateful. I know thou one day ill be back in the chair. In Christ sending love and prayers
why would u have to be back in a wheelchair ???
I'm so happy you enjoyed the conversation ❤
Great interview! I found it really funny that Brian thinks Freddo sounds sophisticated. If you know British English, you know he speaks quite, hm, what word to use, not slang, maybe I can use the word "accented".
Common is the word I think you’re looking for 😂
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Thanks for getting together. His videos were some of the first ones I found and watched after my son was paralyzed and provided so much hope and showed so many possibilities. Enjoy both of your channels 🎉 thanks for sharing your life!
Thanks for the comment! I really enjoy this new form of communication with other people who have similar experience and sharing it with others, it seems resonate a lot! ❤️✌️
I have a syrinx too! Found it about a year after my injury. Have had 2 surgeries to prevent the syrinx affecting my hands.
I saw that on some of your videos. So glad the operation went well. I remember your daughter in the car 🥲
@@FreddotheWheelchairGuyI have a check up on Wednesday to see if it got any worse from last year! Watch for the update!
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This video gives me nervous thoughts about my husband who rides a motorcycle but he is a nurse like me and has seen so many young people struck down with terminal illness he says he wants to do what hoves and take the risk ... gosh is was awful how you found out the extent of your injury 😢
Yeah I used to ride motorbikes - minimal protection too. Glad I never had an accident.
Still ended up with a SCI tho!
My life was full of risks
His Helmet saved him. But how callous was that Dr . I had the same years ago.
Thanks guys! I remember he had a lot of issues with uti has he resolved them? If so how? Anyone got any uti prevention tips
My only tip is that I use speedicath compact and I don’t “clean “ before use, apparently with these catheters it’s not necessary and I haven’t had a UTI in years.
Take that with a pinch of salt tho, maybe I have a strong immune system?
@@FreddotheWheelchairGuygee you are brave rolling the dice with the no cleaning technique!,,😮 do you restrict yourself in your fluid intake so you don't have to use the bathroom as much ??? How is Luna ?????
@@Kenzie_McIntyre no not at all, I drink as much as I want. I think it's more likely that you get a UTI from lack of hydration, rather than emptying your bladder regularly.
The nurses told me not to clean, and some other folk on SCI groups had said they do it, but ONLY with this brand of catheter.
I'm not sure why and I was skeptical at first, but now it's been years of doing it this way with no infections
@FreddotheWheelchairGuy thats so good ....its probably because you flush your system well ..from what i see you keep pretty healthy and if i remember from an old video u dont drink alcohol which is so bad for uti s cos of the yeast ( mainly beer )
Yes I’ve been alcohol free for over 4 years 😊