2 UNDER 2 Q&A! HOW TO COPE + WHAT IT'S REALLY LIKE | 2 under 2 survival tips | Justine Marie
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- čas přidán 8. 06. 2024
- I get a lot of messages from panicked moms who are about to have 2 babies under 2 or from exhausted moms going through it asking for tips on how to cope. People always talk about how hard it is, which is true, but it doesn't have to be bad and it is only a season and gets better! In todays video I am going to be answering your questions about what it is really like to have 2 under 2 and sharing some amazing wisdom and advice from mommas who have gone through it! Thanks for watching my 2 UNDER 2 Q&A! HOW TO COPE + WHAT IT'S REALLY LIKE | 2 under 2 survival tips video! My hope is that you come away encourage, refreshed and confident that you got this!
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One great way to stay engaged with your toddler/other child while caring for your baby is to *NARRATE* , *NARRATE* , *NARRATE!*
"I'm picking up the blue blanket to put on (baby's name). Now I will wrap the blanket around her two legs and two arms: (while doing it) One leg, two legs. One arm, two arms."
**Invite the child to see/help/participate when it is appropriate to do so just like everyone says- just remember to *NARRATE* whatever's happening as often as you can.**
**TIP** Make some mundane things a little event by announcing them with a *jingle*. You can sing or recite a simple rhyme like:
*(Tune of "Twinkle Twinkle")*
"Ella it's time to change diaper now. Zachary watch I'll show you how."
Choose a tune/phrasing that you can use instinctively. Switch up the lyrics to fit whatever you want to *"Jinglize"*.
*WHY NARRATE?*
*1) It's good for your toddler:*
He/She can feel included in your time with Baby and even begin to exercise empathy and care for Baby. Hearing you talk about Baby's needs and being included in helping Baby stay healthy and happy helps your toddler be invested in the well-being of his/her baby brother or sister.
*2) It's good for Baby:*
Baby is hearing you talk about his or her face, body, toys, food, big brother, etc. You're helping Baby discover the world, learn about communication, and feel engaged and connected to everyone and everything in their little world.
*3) It's good for YOU:*
Speaking at a low, steady tone can be an important way to temper stress and reduce the likelihood of feeling flustered and overwhelmed in certain situations. If you need to take 3 slow breaths, *Narrate that* and tell Baby and Toddler why. "There's a lot happening right now. Mommy's going to stop for just a minute to breathe in (inhale)..... and breathe out (exhale)." Now your own voice has preempted a panic response in your body and you have reminded yourself that you are in control of the situation and you can not only handle life but you can rock it!
There is no magic cure-all and trying times will come, but you are strong enough to find your *Groove*.
Love this thank you x
Wow, I didn’t know this but I am doing it all the time 😁 And my older one is really helping, she love to help me with whatever I do.
For example, I say: oh, the little one diaper’s need to or changed! And she go fast and bring me a new diaper😅
Or, I say: oh, the floor is wet, I need to fix this! And she goes and bring a napkin or something for drying the floor.
As I am tearing up during my first week as a mom of two, it really encourages me to hear from someone who has made it through.
Wow...i really remember being RIGHT THERE...There were days I called my husband crying and saying that i cant do this, im not enough for them....but God brought me through that and He made me enough for them. On those days I want you to look in the mirror and know that God picked you to be their mom, and he will equip you. It won't look perfect, it will be messy, but if they are clothed and fed and well cared for...YOU ARE A GOOD MOM.
Thank you. I truly believe that God only gives us what he knows we can handle. While things may be chaotic at times, these two young lives were chosen for me to nurture by him.
YES!! That is exactly how I am feeling right now. I've been losing my patience lately and can feel the Lord tugging at me to seek Him more and not satisfaction from this world. When you said, "I don't have to post this right now or answer that text right now." That's how I've been feeling. Instead of reaching for a book, the Bible, I scrolled on Instagram and felt even more unhappy and angry because I would think how I wish I had it that easy. Seeing a mom of 7 with full hair and makeup done, her kids in cute outfits I would feel like a failure and thats so not true. SO I am taking this time to actually do things I love and spend more time actually enjoying my life not trying to replicate anyone else's. I can honestly say you are my favorite mom youtuber because you have kept it real and speak nothing but truth so after I watch one of your videos I come away wanting to be better but in a good way, does that make sense? Sorry I'm rambling lol
Also I knew it was a problem when my youngest would say she had to go potty and I would be bothered that I had to stop scrolling or yell at my older girls because I barely sat down...smh...THANK YOU GOD FOR YOUR GRACE
I constantly have to check myself for this too! We can only try to be better each day! And yes thank God for his Grace! You are so sweet! Lol I would say you are my favorite subscriber but I definitely consider you a “real” friend!💕
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Your words are so beautiful and I can relate to everything you've just said. My babies are 14months apart. They are 2 years old and 14 months right now. I feel so much better and happier when I read my bible and ask God to help me. I ask him to help me be a better mother to my children and wife to my husband and he has❤ Thank you for sharing!!💞❤💞❤
How wonderful it would be if every mother knew the power of God and His word. These are sweet times that are for a short season. Thanks for watching
i agree with this .... its a journey but with God we will make it thru
i have 2year and 10monnth old
The part where you said that turning on a movie would hurt them less than you yelling at them would was the best advice…❤️
I loved this video! It was a great reminder to just be present with my little girls. I’m often so caught up trying to get all the things done and later realize the whole day went by and I didn’t really have any quality time with them. Also, as I was watching your video, I set an alarm to wake up before they do, so I can do my bible reading, so thank you for that!
Yes, that quality time with the kids and in the word is so important!! I’m so glad you found the video helpful!! Thanks for watching
I am so grateful for this video. I am soon having my second child in few weeks and I have my first born boy who is 2. Have been thinking about how everything will go. But, I am so happy to hear all these tips and wisdom from you. We can do all things He who strengthens us.🙏 Lord bless you my sister. Sending hugs to you❤️
Just found out about baby #2, also when my son is 10months old. Faith is a huge aspect of my life. Well... He IS my life. This gave me a huge relief of “this is going to be so hard, BUT it’s the best thing you’ll do.” & to lean on Jesus. So good!!
Just saw this video. Gonna be a 2 under 2 mom beginning in may and I'm already having a ton of anxiety from it. I can relate already to a lot in this video and it has given me peace of mind and encouragement. Thank you so much! ❤
Hope you and you're 2 bubbas are doing well!
This was such great advice! I didn’t have 2 under 2, my kids are 4 years apart but I feel like this can apply to any age gap. ♥️ I’m so thankful for my children, they have really humbled me and made my relationship with God so much stronger. Love your videos so much 😊
I love your heart! God is so good! Thank you so much for watching, and I’m glad you liked it
I loved this video & needed it badly. It made me feel so much better on how things have been going. I had my second daughter in July and have one turning 2 this month. My husband was luckily home with me for the first 6 weeks but since he’s been back to work we’ve been trying to get our house on the market so he’s spent every available moment working on it which means I’m single parenting. I felt amazing emotionally those first few weeks but lately I’ve felt myself on the verge of PPD. I feel like I just can’t juggle it all. This made me feel great about remembering it’s just a season and to not sweat the small stuff
Thank you for taking the time to make this video. I’ve been feeling so nervous about having two under two in just a couple of months. I feel significantly more equipped for the season ahead of me.
I’m sure you will be a great mother of 2 under 2! I’m so glad you found this video helpful. Thanks for watching!
Yeah so happy you finally got the head board. 🤩 I remember how many times you spoke about having it. Coming back to the video 😍 thank you so much for sharing your experience and answering questions. I love how much you speak about the Lord. It makes me feel so happy.
Such a beautiful video!Thank you!
Already liked before watching 💖 I love the music and editing to your videos, they feel so calm and fresh!
Also I just wanted to let you because we talk on there most of the time 😆 I’m taking a break from my Instagram, I just found it wasn’t bringing me joy and I’ve had a lot of personal things going on so I decided to step back from it for now. But I will for sure keep CZcams because I love your videos 💖 You have seriously been killing it lately with the editing and music and content 👍
You are so sweet! Thanks Lisa! Haha thanks for letting me know, I will look out for your comments more here!💕
Wow! 8min’s in and I already like you! How you talked about how your connection to the Lors helped you go throught it and how it was hard being alone most of the day with the kids because your husband was working. I could relate so much. Thank you! Ok back to the video now
Thanks Justine.. Really appreciate how patiently you answered all the questions.. even for questions that were repeated you took time to explain.. Really love your channel..
Thank you so much! And thanks for watching!
I’m pregnant With baby girl #2 my first is currently 15 months old and will just turning 18 months old when her sister is born. I’m already feeling overwhelmed and anxious with what to expect as my lil one is already a handful! Thank you for this informative video. I love watching your videos. So real and down to earth.
It is a hard season but I know you can get through it! Thank you so much for watching. I am so glad you were encouraged!💕
Expecting my 2nd 14 months apart, and 100% noticing a little regression right before the crossover to two- what you said about treating your 1st like a baby, doing the things baby is doing- I will definitely take that with me. Of course developmentally they have regressions without siblings but I will almost actively be regressing my son to help him feel like he's still my baby and included- bc even compared to some 2 under 2 age differences even a bit larger, it's true. I'm not rushing around to grow up my 1st any faster, it's just unrealistic to expect him to be anywhere else but where he's at developmentally! I say that because some people have already called him a "Toddler" since I'm expecting a 2nd and i'm like, no he is very much still a baby!
Thinking of planning to have two under two. I have a brother who is 19 months younger than me, and it was so great growing up always having a playmate, I want to give that to my son
Hi! I just want to say thank you for making this video. I subscribed a little bit ago and you are such a breath of fresh air whenever I watch your videos. I have 2 under 2 and this inspired me a lot! 🧡🧡
Oh, I’m so glad you found it useful! Thanks for watching! I’m so happy you joined us
Soon to be mama of 2! Super nervous for this new experience, but also excited!🥰
Thank you so much justine this was so encouraging:)
I’m so glad you found it encouraging! :)
First time mom here with a 2.5 month old baby and thinking about having 2 under 2!
Aww! Thanks a ton Justine. It was 100% useful content. And I feel sorry that my doubt broke u out🌿
I’m so glad you found it useful! Thanks for watching
A realistic routine is so helpful. Unexpected things will come up everyday so having as many controlled variables as possible helps you keep your footing level and your mind clear. No rush, No pressure- Be flexible ( have patience with *yourself*).
It's all about finding your *Groove* !
So nice!!! I have my two boys 💙 who are only 10/11 months apart :D (April 1st & Feb 28) it’s too much work at times, I’m always tired, but they’re worth it! They’re currently 16 months and almost 6 months ❤️ and some times I just really have to pray for some patience 😂
Justine you are super mom! I love your idea about the verse on your mirror. Really enjoyed this video ❤️.
Haha Some days I feel like a super mom, but others... not so much ;) I do rely on God every day though. Thanks for watching
Eres la onda Justine! 😉Thx for sharing!
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Muchas gracias Karii! Thanks for watching! :)
Thanj you so much for this video. I needed it.
Glad it was helpful! Thanks for watching!
Your video is just golden !
Thank you for sharing your experience with all of us, your growth shines through and is going to touch a lot of our lives. Keep growing and glowing. Sending you love and warmth from India :)
This video is such encouraging! But at thr same time so realistic! I'm expecting our 4th one ,my oldest will not be 6 yet...so i know the struggle! But at the same time i wouldn't change anything , motherhood is such a blessing! Thank you again!! So true lean on the Lord and everything will be easier! Goda bless 😊❤️
You are a busy momma! I agree with you: I wouldn’t change anything either! Children are a great blessing from the Lord. Thank you for watching!
I'm the youngest of 2 under 2 with another sibling 7 years later. Love this
Thanks, Deirdre!! I’m so glad you liked it!!
You are so sweet- I reaaly enjoyed this video!!
Thank you so much!!
Thank you so much for posting this video! My son will be 2 yrs old around the time my daughter will be due! Although my husband and I will have both of our parents coming out at different times to help out, I’m still nervous for when they leave!!
I’m sure when the time comes that you have to be on your own you will be amazing! That’s a blessing to have both sets of parents be able to help out! Thanks for watching, and I’m glad you found encouragement
Thank you so much for this video, I really needed that. Our son will be 2 years when our daughter is due to be born... but I am still a bit worried... I love your videos and your very open and soft heart for the Lord. Thank you so much!
When the time comes, you will see that God has equipped you! I’m so glad you found this video helpful
Love your honestly. Thank you for these God sent reminders how to deal with motherhood. God is so evident in you and it’s so amazing how he is working in your life! Thank you for your channel! 💕
God is so good!! Thank you for your encouragement, and thank you so much for watching
Hi, I’m currently expecting baby #2. My first born will be around 23 months when LO arrives. I’m 33 yo from Portland, OR. I just finished my degree and am a stay at home Mom for the time being (since my son was 4 mo when this pandemic began). I look forward to watching your material. I will be starting potty training with my first born soon (maybe next week).
Aww that story about you and Daniel is so sweet 💖 It was hard to transition from no kids to one to two to eventually 3 🙃 But like you said it’s important to make that time together and I’m glad you guys had an understanding of “it’s just a season” and you guys came out stronger!
Date nights is a rarity for us but we do try to make it at least once a month, we also share a lot of similar interests so there have been times where we will stay up watching a cooking show together and then want to replicate 😂
We are soooo bad with date nights! It’s really hard with both of us having our own business, but it is something we need to try harder to do even if it cost money to get a sitter!
And I am the same with cooking shows too haha! Especially the great British baking show!!!
Can u talk about the post p preclamisa did u have it with both
Do you have any tips for someone who wants to start reading or studying the Bible? I really need it as I’ll have 2 children soon and am already dealing with slight depression. Would really love to have this for postpartum! P.S. love that you showed us your “messy” house 🤗💞
Hello my name is jovanna and this video helped me call down a lot more my son is 13 months and I’m expecting my second and I have just been thinking so much about how he’s it will be but I just need to relax and enjoy the time I have with my son .. ♥️ loved the video really helpful..
I'm so glad! There will be hard moments but you are equipped to handle them. You are enough and hand picked for them and WILL get easier as they get older, it is a short season so soak it up and squish your littles!
Your words.... double edged sword. Wow! Thank you so much for this. glory be to God for his faithfulness!
Yes!! All glory to God for He is good! Thank you for watching!
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Thank you! And thanks for watching :)
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I'm interested in the stroller and couldn't find the link???
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My baby is 7 mo, I really want another one but also so scared in the mean time.
Hi Justine.. I really wish I could attended my crying baby rather than keeping the house clean. I do regret it now terribly. He is 5 now and I miss his child hood like crazy. :(
Thank you so much for your honesty! Hearing that is a reminder for me and I’m sure it will encourage other moms too! Thank you so much for watching!💕
Nice
Thanks!
My son is 7 y/o and now currently pregnant with our 2nd baby. And yes I am also panicking 🤣
😂😂😂"until Marcus woke up and ruined everything"😂😂 "and then he joined us on the bed" ❤
Lol Parent Life!!
She’s right because once you have 2 under 2 your GONNA NEED THEE LORD
Haha yes!
U r so Beauty girl
Well thank you! Thanks for watching!