S&G Daily Question - #1 Who said “I love you” first? / Squirmy and Grubs

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  • We are starting a new, daily Q&A series where we answer questions about our relationship! Today’s question: Who said “I love you” first?
    Hannah and I absolutely love making videos for you. If you would like to support our work so that we can continue sharing our life and relationship with you for years to come, you can do so on our Patreon: / squirmyandgrubs
    Thank you SO much!
    MORE INFO ABOUT US AND OUR CHANNEL:
    You can follow us on Instagram at:
    Shane: / shaneburcaw
    Hannah: / hannahayl
    Our address:
    Squirmy and Grubs
    PO Box 16411
    Minneapolis, MN 55416
    SUBSCRIBE for more! 👉 / squirmyandg. .
    Intro animation made by Pinkietoons! Check out her Instagram page to see more of her awesome work: / pinkietoons
    Shane was born with a neuromuscular disease called Spinal Muscular Atrophy that requires him to use an electric wheelchair. He is the author of several award-winning books, the President of a nonprofit organization called Laughing At My Nightmare, and a renowned public speaker who has performed across the country at places such as Harvard University, The University of Florida, The University of Connecticut, Princeton University, and many more.
    Hannah is a senior at Carleton College, studying sociology and anthropology. She works as a researcher for an educational consulting firm. Her future aspirations include attending law school and owning a goat sanctuary. She films and edits the “Squirmy and Grubs” vlog.
    Shane and Hannah have been dating for over 2.5 years and living together in Minneapolis in recent months. Their interabled relationship often confuses people, because much of society still cannot fathom people with disabilities being involved in loving, intimate relationships. Anyone who watches these episodes will quickly see their relationship is just as “normal” as any other. Sure, Hannah helps Shane use the bathroom and brush his teeth, but those activities do not detract from the emotional, intellectual, and physical connection they experience together.
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  • @SquirmyandGrubs
    @SquirmyandGrubs  Před 5 lety +471

    What else do you want to know about us?!

    • @Luke-tt7wx
      @Luke-tt7wx Před 5 lety +54

      Squirmy and Grubs what are your biggest daily struggles?

    • @richardwhite231
      @richardwhite231 Před 5 lety +11

      I wanna know when you guys are doing a meet and greet I'm all the way I little ol Rhode island. And I really wanna Kno if Hanna has a sister then I could be part of the family and we could hangout all the time hearts you guys are adorable

    • @tatyana5692
      @tatyana5692 Před 5 lety +22

      Who edits your vlogs & videos? Happy 2019!

    • @mr.willie9578
      @mr.willie9578 Před 5 lety +70

      Squirmy and Grubs when Shane going to pop the question to Hannah?

    • @BeautyMonster1000
      @BeautyMonster1000 Před 5 lety +38

      What is your guys' favorite thing to do together? :)

  • @BigNikVideos
    @BigNikVideos Před 5 lety +610

    Damn Shane! Dropped the “i Love you” first, what a legend 😂🔥

    • @ericaj8867
      @ericaj8867 Před 5 lety +3

      Hi big Nik!(:

    • @Zakkkkkkkkkka
      @Zakkkkkkkkkka Před 5 lety +1

      Lol big Nik

    • @youtubeusernamehere6553
      @youtubeusernamehere6553 Před 5 lety +17

      Big Nik I’m just shook that big nick is here lol.

    • @J_-xk8uz
      @J_-xk8uz Před 5 lety +13

      Big Nik I was not expecting to see Nik in the comments

    • @anniefranks6881
      @anniefranks6881 Před 5 lety +3

      Woo-hoo, I’m loving that we have Big Nik in the House🎤🎼...also legend ❤️🙏🏼! It would be amazing to see you meet up with them, vlog & give the world a lesson on how to move past all the things that don’t really matter! Xo

  • @Andrea-xs4ny
    @Andrea-xs4ny Před 5 lety +801

    I think I said "I love you" to both of you after only 2 videos. lol Is that embarrassingly early? Maybe I should have waited 2 weeks. 😁

  • @andreagallardo2139
    @andreagallardo2139 Před 5 lety +581

    I love how giddish she was when Shane was telling the story

  • @debzwatchin
    @debzwatchin Před 5 lety +667

    Oh my froot loops I'm so amped that you answered my question! Thank you so much!

    • @miasharpe5508
      @miasharpe5508 Před 5 lety +47

      “oh my froot loops” omg this chanel’s comment section is the best one on youtube-hands down 😂💓

    • @TheAnnieDeppeChannel
      @TheAnnieDeppeChannel Před 5 lety +20

      😂😂😂😂Ill be saying oh my froot loops from now on....

    • @mydailyreward2090
      @mydailyreward2090 Před 5 lety +10

      Aaaannd....my new saying is born 😂😂

    • @hollyshahan4320
      @hollyshahan4320 Před 5 lety +9

      “Oh my fruit loops” is now officially my favorite expression! 😂

    • @monetteshia
      @monetteshia Před 5 lety +5

      Looool....oh, my froot loops! The cutest saying ever!!!

  • @hannahedoss9345
    @hannahedoss9345 Před 5 lety +145

    “when you need your fix of Hannah’s beauty” literally goals

  • @fayewilkinson1681
    @fayewilkinson1681 Před 5 lety +35

    So, I know my circumstances are very different to yours. However I am in a relationship with someone who was in a car accident two years ago. He is paraplegic and has no feeling of movement from the waist down. We have been together for a year and he has made me so much of a better person. He is full independent so does not need me for personal care, however you realise very soon that other people do not look at your relationship the same as you.
    I love him will all of my heart, inside and out. He is the best person that I have ever met and I have no doubt about spending the rest of my life with him. However, even my friends and family have doubts about our relationship. They don’t see it working out or that the love we have can withstand the test of time.
    Seeing people like you, so in love with each other honestly makes me see that no matter what, love will win. We are the most soppy, lovey and affectionate couple that I know, and I have faith in myself and him, thanks to you, that no matter what, our love is real.
    I really wish other people could have the understanding that love isn’t just a physical thing. It’s everything someone is and has been, and it’s the one thing I know I’ll always have with him.
    Thank you.

  • @LittleMissCrista
    @LittleMissCrista Před 5 lety +424

    I am gonna love this series! You guys are such an adorable, loving couple. I enjoy your videos so much 🙂

    • @gina1h3
      @gina1h3 Před 5 lety +1

      Awwww!! My husband and I said it early too about 4 weeks in. 15 years together and still in love!

  • @debbiev888
    @debbiev888 Před 5 lety +44

    "i wanna say somethingggg" THAT IS SO CUTE

  • @hleal9635
    @hleal9635 Před 5 lety +96

    Omg u can legit feel the love thru the screen 😍

  • @erinstravels
    @erinstravels Před 5 lety +110

    Every video I think I can’t love you more...and then I do.

  • @calihanna4053
    @calihanna4053 Před 5 lety +61

    My husband and I also said The L Word embarrassingly early! We weren’t even officially an item, had only been talking about 3 weeks. He moved in the next day, and now we’ve been married for over 3 years. When you know, you know.

    • @hollyshahan4320
      @hollyshahan4320 Před 5 lety +5

      Cali Hanna OMG same!!! No joke we were engaged after 3 weeks and we just renewed our vows for our 15th wedding anniversary. Everything id normally tell other people not to do has worked out for us.

  • @aileen8598
    @aileen8598 Před 5 lety +27

    how cute this little story made me smile. yall really deserve each other

  • @kayleedaughdrill6495
    @kayleedaughdrill6495 Před 5 lety +154

    When was yalls first kiss?

    • @Nirosha101
      @Nirosha101 Před 5 lety +2

      Yaaaaaa

    • @dianeaishamonday9125
      @dianeaishamonday9125 Před 5 lety

      There's a picture of them smooching from their first meet up on Instagram.

    • @mindyvaughn8217
      @mindyvaughn8217 Před 5 lety

      SuperWhoLocked Browncoat The first time they met? I have got to get on Instagram

  • @carolannehudson4217
    @carolannehudson4217 Před 5 lety +2

    I love y'all so much! I have 2 disabled daughters and I love to see you two show the world that disabilities don't stop you from living a normal life. You give me so much hope for the future generations to show my daughters the love and friendships you have! Love from Alabama 💙

  • @lyndseymua6603
    @lyndseymua6603 Před 5 lety

    I’m seriously getting butterflies from the way your both so giggly and just bubbly when explaining your first “ I love you “ you two are relationship goals! I’m so glad I get to be a part of your vlogging world. 🥰

  • @Leah-fw5kn
    @Leah-fw5kn Před 5 lety +3

    Sometimes I get to feeling depressed and your videos come along and brighten up the day. Thanks for sharing your awesome adventure/story with so many.

  • @BananaEnvyPodcast
    @BananaEnvyPodcast Před 5 lety +69

    I love this idea!!!
    I’m glad y’all have decided to make daily videos, I can’t wait!!!
    Also, I high-key wanna hang out with you guys, you seem so fun lolol

  • @KatieNamteir
    @KatieNamteir Před 5 lety

    Your adorable banter, the way you see each other, and completely normal insecurities played out into a beautiful romance are so raw and sweet. It makes my own physical and relationship insecurities feel normal. Like I can overcome my fears and be completely content with someone too. It is just a matter of finding the right person.

  • @jillsutherland8884
    @jillsutherland8884 Před 5 lety

    Loooooooooove your dynamic! Y'all are honest, lighthearted and super sweet. I appreciate your humor with one another and sharing your journey with the world!

  • @jordanfazio9319
    @jordanfazio9319 Před 5 lety +17

    I genuinely love you guys. I don’t know how to explain it but I feel like I am just hanging out with you when watching your videos. Super rare to feel that way in the CZcams community nowadays! Keep on keeping on guys:)

  • @jodia1856
    @jodia1856 Před 5 lety +5

    What a great idea for one question a day!!! I'm looking forward to it!!
    I just found you two lovebirds last week. I'm going through a really difficult time right now and your beautiful spirits are lifting my spirit, so thank you for being amazing!!! 💜💜😊😊

  • @rebeccabensman3856
    @rebeccabensman3856 Před 5 lety

    I love you guys too. With all the "not so good stuff" going on in the world, you both are so refreshing and enjoyable to watch. You put a smile on my face everyday.

  • @shottynaberhaus1086
    @shottynaberhaus1086 Před 5 lety

    One of your videos recently popped up out of the blue. I'm now obsessed with watching the two of you. You are a joy to watch. Keep the videos coming.

  • @Jamesamong007
    @Jamesamong007 Před 5 lety +3

    I love your guys's short intro, you definitely should make a short animated/cartoon series in that style. :D

  • @yungskrrratl9933
    @yungskrrratl9933 Před 5 lety +6

    This girl Hannah is an absolute angel and so pure and Shane you have a awesome personality my dude ya'll are both amazing

  • @mjmsn
    @mjmsn Před 5 lety

    Your announcement just made my life. Every morning, I wake up, nestle into my chair with a bagel and coffee, and watch you two. It's been re-runs until you post. So, now that you will be posting every day gives me an assured dose of comic relief and love. Thanks bunches!

  • @Serendipityismyfaveword

    This daily question thing is an amazing idea. Squirmy and grubs every single day. Cant think of anything better. You guys r so made for each other xxx

  • @lifeaslindsey6229
    @lifeaslindsey6229 Před 5 lety +7

    Love this idea. I’ll get my squirmy and grubs fix every day!

  • @naomi-iz3zn
    @naomi-iz3zn Před 5 lety +254

    I've been wondering something ever since you two mentioned you want a family. Would you two try to naturally get pregnant if possible? If not, what are your plans on starting a family ( if you feel comfortable answering of course)

    • @Vicksen80
      @Vicksen80 Před 5 lety +5

      Naomi Williams good q !!!

    • @Al-kb2xl
      @Al-kb2xl Před 5 lety +5

      I wonder if his condition is hereditary 🤔

    • @shakoe1943
      @shakoe1943 Před 5 lety +8

      Why do you always ask about kids? That is so private....

    • @tubester4567
      @tubester4567 Před 5 lety +6

      If they could get pregnant why wouldnt they do it naturally? Ive never heard of a couple who love each other choose to get pregnant by artificial means if they can get pregnant naturally.

    • @Sarah-ft8jr
      @Sarah-ft8jr Před 5 lety +24

      tubester4567 incase his condition has a high chance of being passed on.

  • @jenniferroy364
    @jenniferroy364 Před 5 lety

    You two are an inspiration!!!!! I love tha t she chose you knowing all your disabilities! I became disabled 23 yrs in to my marriage and constantly feel like a burden to my husband!! You two make me smile so much just watching you! I'm hooked for life!!!!

  • @emilycryer1116
    @emilycryer1116 Před 5 lety

    I help support adults with disabilities. I use your videos as inspiration. It’s amazing to see the happiness you two have.
    Much love ❤️

  • @OL2L9703
    @OL2L9703 Před 5 lety +117

    Hanna where you scared at first to get into a relationship with Shane or was it the easiest decision you made ? My boyfriend of almost one year has SMA2 and we meet on line as well , I was smitten with him right away . Do you have any fears ?

  • @christinamariemoney
    @christinamariemoney Před 5 lety +99

    I’ve been loving your videos and how down to earth you both are! You always make me laugh 😂❤️ I was so excited for you when I saw you were the “creator on the rise”. That is a dream of mine, to be recognized by CZcams and hopefully grow my channel to 10K! congrats on all of your success!

    • @shaneluke346
      @shaneluke346 Před 5 lety

      As a disabled person myself , just want to say I LOVE YOUR VIDEO'S Posted from London ENGLAND

  • @candysantillo3325
    @candysantillo3325 Před 5 lety

    You ,two probably don’t even realize how much light you’ve brought to so many lives.Well,done!

  • @donisickles755
    @donisickles755 Před 5 lety +1

    I love the idea of a question a day! Your humor and laughs are contagious!! Shane and Hannah on a daily basis is good for the Soul! 😁

  • @laneythelame
    @laneythelame Před 5 lety +14

    Literally living for these

  • @jonaHISTS
    @jonaHISTS Před 5 lety +3

    Ugh. I can't handle how cute this story was. 😍

  • @piperpilot26
    @piperpilot26 Před 5 lety

    You both are the absolute definition of love. Shane, I hope you come to realize the impact and influence you have on the people who are fortunate enough to cross paths with you, whether on CZcams or in person. You have definitely made an impact on me. And Hannah, the love you have for Shane is nothing short of beautiful. I wish nothing but the best for you both in the future. -Cheers.

  • @MsAmaya15
    @MsAmaya15 Před 5 lety

    You guys are truly amazing. Shane’s spirit is better than any man I have ever met. I just love your love for one another. It’s beautiful!!!!! Xoxoxo

  • @dragonfairy22
    @dragonfairy22 Před 5 lety +9

    I met the love of my life on the internet last summer, he lives in the US and I live in Europe. We had been texting for 3 weeks or so when I told him I love him. Later he said he knew only 2 weeks in that I was the right one for him.
    5 months later (a month ago) I went to visit him in the US and it was amazing. I guess I will be moving to the US in the near future 😀
    Just wanted to share, as your story was kind of similar to ours 😀
    P.S. You guys are a joy!! ☀💕

  • @rumley29
    @rumley29 Před 5 lety +4

    I love this idea!!! This way we get that many more videos!!!!!! You guys are amazing.

  • @Cr84life
    @Cr84life Před 5 lety

    Your videos are fantastic!! Once your videos came up on my feed I watched it and then had to binge watch all of them!! You two are hysterical!! You make me smile and your relationship warms my heart!!

  • @Izabela-kh5lz
    @Izabela-kh5lz Před 5 lety

    You are so awesome together, I enjoy your videos so much. Both of you seem like very optimistic people and your sense of humour cracks me up. Keep filming!!! You're great at it!!! Sending hugs xxx

  • @HeartFallenstar
    @HeartFallenstar Před 5 lety +3

    Really need more of you guys haha your both awesome 💗

  • @keraaa3185
    @keraaa3185 Před 5 lety +3

    I love you guys channel and you guys so much your my favorite can't wait until until 200k

  • @stephenfleming7918
    @stephenfleming7918 Před 4 lety

    There’s a whole lot of love surrounding you guys! May God bless you Folks

  • @miraclesforus2
    @miraclesforus2 Před 5 lety +1

    WOW. Follow your heart. Great way to live and love.
    I really enjoyed this heartwarming talk.
    Looking forward to so much more!

  • @Anna-ts4lg
    @Anna-ts4lg Před 5 lety +12

    Love your videos so much!! ❤️❤️you guys are the cutest couple ever

  • @LUCKYGIRL1
    @LUCKYGIRL1 Před 5 lety +4

    I seriously love you guys and your videos

  • @sarahgrace6394
    @sarahgrace6394 Před 5 lety +1

    God your guys' content is so refreshing. No crazy editing or effects. No drama. Just a simple vlog with wonderful people. So pure.

  • @summerfields2792
    @summerfields2792 Před 5 lety

    Hells to the yes, more vids. I’m so happy! This made me tear up and no it’s not weird to say I love you that quickly. My husband and I said I love you very soon in the relationship and here we are 10 years later. When you know, you know. ❤️

  • @Swtch_blade
    @Swtch_blade Před 5 lety +3

    Wow I'm early what to say?
    Uhhhh
    Welp love you guysss. You guys are amazing and bring me so much joy to watch

  • @Carlyjuanita
    @Carlyjuanita Před 5 lety +7

    Aw I literally smiled the whole story

  • @carolinesuarez8756
    @carolinesuarez8756 Před 5 lety

    Omg the way Hannah looks at him is soooo cute! She is legit in love and you can tell. This was the cutest!!

  • @heyCinnamonSticks
    @heyCinnamonSticks Před 5 lety

    I love the idea of an occasional question video popping up among other content, this is awesome!

  • @KingTomato117
    @KingTomato117 Před 5 lety +18

    My night just got better.

  • @adamgoen6118
    @adamgoen6118 Před 5 lety +5

    I love this!

  • @renmonpic
    @renmonpic Před 5 lety

    Everyone needs a daily fix of "Squirmy & Grubs!" 😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄 Thank you for the video!!!

  • @YvonneWilson312
    @YvonneWilson312 Před 5 lety

    You two are just the cutest couple! This was such a lovely start to the series. Can't wait for more!

  • @essargee14
    @essargee14 Před 5 lety +5

    so sweet! how did you decide when you were going to meet in person for the first time, and where did you meet?

  • @leslie3586
    @leslie3586 Před 5 lety +7

    Hahaha the moral of today's question!

  • @emilyyokel5386
    @emilyyokel5386 Před 5 lety

    How lovely😊 I look forward to your videos! This would be a great way to engage your viewers everyday, while also focusing on one another and your budding careers. Adore you both!

  • @mollyhenhapl5795
    @mollyhenhapl5795 Před 5 lety +2

    I just discovered you two and subscribed to your channel, then a few days later, I walked into my student teaching classroom and I saw Shane's book!! So cool!

  • @ninagoldstein5313
    @ninagoldstein5313 Před 5 lety +20

    When did you decide to move in with each other?

  • @lilacsworld9478
    @lilacsworld9478 Před 5 lety +7

    My question is “if there was one place to visit on your honeymoon, where would it be”?

  • @ashleychanelle1997
    @ashleychanelle1997 Před 2 lety

    You guys sharing makes me remember my own love story’s beginning and it’s just so wonderful!

  • @taylarichter9589
    @taylarichter9589 Před 5 lety

    I’m so glad you’re doing this series! After finding your channel, I binge watched all of your videos in a day and then I realised I had no more videos left to watch and I’m so impatient haha I’m looking forward to getting to know more about you via this question and answer series. Love from Melbourne, Australia! 🇦🇺

  • @MIssBabyyLove
    @MIssBabyyLove Před 5 lety +30

    What’s your favorite memory together so far?

  • @eliaspratt8690
    @eliaspratt8690 Před 5 lety +3

    “It was probably like a month”
    “It was two... it was two weeks”
    “Two weeks? What is wrong with us?”

  • @aprilsummers9930
    @aprilsummers9930 Před 5 lety

    Thank goodness for daily videos, cause I just finished binge watching all your videos!

  • @happyeverafterful
    @happyeverafterful Před 5 lety

    Your personalities just click SO SO well. You seem to have so much fun together!

  • @phantomwheeler81
    @phantomwheeler81 Před 5 lety +3

    aww What a sweet story you are both so sweet together. I'm so glad I came across your channel when you only had less than 26,000 subs I'm a paraplegic born with Spina Bifida and I'm in a wheelchair. My question to you both is Hannah what do you think you love most about Shane and Shane what is it you love most about Hannah?

  • @libertye1428
    @libertye1428 Před 5 lety +21

    Immediately clicks

  • @taylorg.6055
    @taylorg.6055 Před 5 lety

    I love this idea! Just finished binging all of your videos 😁 So excited to watch you two amazing humans every day!

  • @joyarnett2991
    @joyarnett2991 Před 5 lety +1

    I’m in love with watching the two of you. Y’all are beyond precious and have made me laugh with your sense of humor. I’ve stayed up watching your videos entirely too late. I just keep thinking I’ll just watch one more. The two of you are so beautiful and genuine. I am looking forward to catching up on all the videos and watching your new ones. So much love to you both.
    From Tennessee! ❤️
    Joy

  • @PROMOneil
    @PROMOneil Před 5 lety +9

    What was your favourite thing about meeting Chris from Special Kids?

  • @TwitchHappens
    @TwitchHappens Před 5 lety +15

    Who edits the videos? Editing is so hard and they always look so amazing! I edit everything on my channel so I get how hard it is to caption EVERYTHING. Just wondering~ much love

  • @georgehorning7027
    @georgehorning7027 Před 2 lety

    Thanks for letting me know that I will continue to receive a much needed daily dose of you two.

  • @morganherman8465
    @morganherman8465 Před 5 lety

    You guys thought you were joking when you were saying now we can get our daily fix of y'all... but for real you guys brighten up my day so freaking much❤

  • @zaneplayssavetheworld5492

    You are the best

  • @jacyantonucci
    @jacyantonucci Před 5 lety +11

    Hi guys I love you ❤️😘💕

  • @sarnjes4810
    @sarnjes4810 Před 5 lety

    This was actually the most adorable video I've ever watched on yt. Thanks for sharing!

  • @annlyp6303
    @annlyp6303 Před 5 lety

    I think I like this a lot more than big q&a's, only because you get to dedicate more time to one question, and don't feel like you have to keep moving on because you don't want the video to be super long

  • @floatingchimney
    @floatingchimney Před 5 lety +10

    Here's a question: How much are you alike in terms of musical taste?

  • @laurie4275
    @laurie4275 Před 5 lety +4

    3 years! So when is a WEDDING???

  • @amandamarthah3240
    @amandamarthah3240 Před 5 lety

    How do you see your life in 10 years?
    Like as a family, still on CZcams, etc.? Love your videos! You guys are so funny yet genuine, rare on CZcams these days.

  • @believeinyourself7511
    @believeinyourself7511 Před 5 lety

    Three years together in love. That is sweet. I smile while watching you two do your vlog.

  • @LilyIan
    @LilyIan Před 5 lety +5

    If / when you have babies, what are names you might use?! 😋 (-person in need of baby name ideas)

  • @jeffl.8748
    @jeffl.8748 Před 5 lety +4

    Question; what was the first time Shane asked Hannah to do for him in terms of his disability and how did Hannah react?

  • @fsalgado39
    @fsalgado39 Před 5 lety

    You guys are probably the first channel I put my notifications on for. 👏🏾

  • @enigm8530
    @enigm8530 Před 5 lety

    Love this concept! That way I can get my daily dose of you two every morning 💕

  • @karenburgess5699
    @karenburgess5699 Před 5 lety +4

    Have you two talked about marriage?

  • @ambermommasr1370
    @ambermommasr1370 Před 5 lety +3

    With the "disorder" you have do you have pain with it?

  • @jillpait
    @jillpait Před 5 lety

    I love this type of series as well as the other because it really gets to the emotional part of love between a man and a physical disability, of course not a mental disability, and a woman without and the other is about the day to day.

  • @zoew1602
    @zoew1602 Před 5 lety

    Some loves in life are just meant to be.....you two are a mighty fine example of this! ❤️

  • @sandypennington6242
    @sandypennington6242 Před 5 lety +7

    Do you guys plan on getting married?

  • @wesleybowers3651
    @wesleybowers3651 Před 5 lety +6

    Where do y’all see yourselves in ten years?

  • @barbaragoncalves8552
    @barbaragoncalves8552 Před 5 lety

    I never thought that I would be so excited to see someone's video pop up on my phone! Just love u guys and you make me laugh everyday ❤️

  • @Surfingbabe1224
    @Surfingbabe1224 Před 5 lety +1

    Love these short videos! Easier to watch smaller more often than sit down for a long Q&A video