My Wife Spends Money Like There's An Endless Supply!
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My ex spent money like it grew on trees. Getting divorced was the best thing financially for me.
Usually is for men
@@dreg5845 Not in my case. Men like to buy big boy "toys".
Lol, great decision buddy.
I hear that.
@@MrTargetone Very true too
Never. Marry. A. Spender.
Correction: Never Marry. There I fixed it for you.
ââ@@jsd2799problem is people don't know how to pick.
People get caught up in "love" and then avoid all the important topics prior to marriage.
â@@whothou That doesn't work when your beloved hides who they are.
@@whothouYup. She must be really beautiful and he picked her based on that.
Another reason why I love being single.
Don't have that BS to worry about .
Another adult acting like a spoiled brat and convincing them to grow up. No thanks
Sooo true. It's ridiculous
That's not realistic and not the answer
Haha it sounds like your trying to make yourself feel better man. Not all women are like this. Just like not all men are dogs.
Exactly right â€
Itâs easy to spend someone elseâs money.
Exactly
Exactly, just look at Congress
My wife waited until after the marriage to begin spending recklessly. Tried everything, we ended up getting divorced.
Sorry dude; I hope you didnât lose too badly going through the divorce machine.
Chameleon achievement unlocked
Did you wait to move in together?
Define recklessly. Were you just cheap and she bought extra gum?
@@sobeliever1638 nice gaslighting
She will absolutely destroy him. Cut her loose if she isn't willing to devise a plan and stick with it.
Bingo!
Spending is an addiction for some people and carrying debt is normal life. Don't marry an alcoholic, gambler or spendthrift.
Sell the....dude just run.
You tell her to GET ON YOUR PROGRAMâŠ.OR YOURâe OUT!!!!
Some people donât understand whatâs heading our way. Theyâre in denial
Some people are not mature enough to be married
A buddy of mine has been through this scenerio so many times that he had "ATM" tattooed across his upper back.
Well that wasn't a smart purchase either lol
Thatâs the dumbest thing Iâve heard of in awhile
That simple action of your buddy just gave his wife permission to spend money like it's an endless supply as he's now endorsing that activity.
@@Ka_Gg Yes actually it was as he's got chics falling all over him at the pools everywhere he goes. Bye ATM wife - Hello ladies that love his tattoo.
@@JustinCase780 so he got more girls that wanted money to chase him.
Sounds like another loss.
DAVE: "Sell the wife!"
The wife will never be the one to go; sell the husband is more like it. Women are infallible to the men on the Ramsey team. If you watch enough you learn Rachel is the most level headed red-pilled member of the team.đđ
Go out and find yourself a $1500 wife that runs wellâŠ
Sell the wife and make any potential future wives think they're next.
Good advice
Husband is spending tons of money: âitâs the husbandâs faultâ
Wife is spending tons of money: âitâs the husbandâs faultâ
Davejust scolded the wife a few days ago so what you thought is untrue.
False equivalency, but good try.
Whoever calls first gets Dave on their side.
Women owe 2/3 of all student loan debt.
Women owe more than 70% of consumer debt.
Imagine for decades of your life. Getting free gifts, vacations, drinks and zero accountability for your life decisions. This is the life of a modern woman in a first world country.
It's BOTH of their faults, it being a marriage, by definition, makes it a "we" problem.
Whichever one of them is actually blowing the money, the other one is an accessory for letting it happen on their watch.
When the fox raids the henhouse, you skin the fox AND you bust the guard dog for sleeping on duty.
This is why smart people don't get married.
Smart people marry good people
Dated a spender. Run away from her, don't walk.
This guy seems so chill he has help a lot of people
Be extra careful before you get married.
Simps are gonna simp
Good answer Dave. âWhat are the reasons we are getting out of debt ?!â
The thought of having her on your bank account is painful. Go see a marriage counselor TAday.
It makes no sense to see a marriage counselor. He should go see a divorce attorney.
We are in a tough time, Iâm sticking to my invstin schedule ( like Graham like ) but man , its tough to see portfolio take major hits. Hold strong
@Chloe Baker My dad always said "humans are bias on what they misjudge" have a financial plan that outlines your goals for both short and long term, most times financial advisors are recommended for such operation.
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Trust Brandon with your moneys!!!
To HER there IS an endless supply, thatâs sadly your fault for enabling her throughout the years!
its only his fault if he lets it continue now that he knows. This is all fixable without any blame.
I call bs!
Pretty sure it is her fault as well.Women have brains and impulses as well.
Donât agree. Whatever he did sheâs responsible for her.
That's why dave is right to call these sorts of things a marriage problem and not a financial problem.
Two cannot walk together unless they are of one accord.
If you can't see eye to eye with your wife, then you need to consider divorce.
Amputating a spendaholic from your family is painful but it's better than succumbing to financial cancer.
Let's be real, it isn't like she started spending money out of nowhere. She was doing it well before marriage.
Idk how all these ppl see these problems, then marry the problems and act all surprised after.
So true.
Couldn't resist that piping hot p sleeve. The older I get. The more I realize that hiring a pro for your bedroom needs. Is by far the cheapest financial option. For men in current society.
Most women act different after marriage.
@@J19118 and NOT for the better.
Wedding cake kills BJs.
EXACTLY. Men need to stop marrying these women today. Everyone of them always have regret
Don't get married unless you want someone else telling you what to do 24/7.
Bingo
I'll never tie myself to someone else financially đ«
Can't control what or how someone thinks about money. I do just fine by myself âșïž
Find the compatible partner, many do so and they are happy!
The biggest liability a man can have is a western woman.
@@jsd2799 đŻ absolutely. Your comment is so true. CZcams took it off đ€Ł
You need to discuss money by the 10th date. If you can't at least get a good vibe between the two of you, break it off. Never marry someone if you feel there is a misunderstanding about money and spending.
Kudo!! đđđ Finally, the wisdom is in the comment section.
In the United States, with no-fault divorce, and divorce and family courts stacked against men, the bigger question is: Why would a man get married in the first place?
Yes. You can't reason with these women
Mmk..get to know how they're with money
well women are very deceptive pal thats why they wear makeup!
Absolutely, marriage is a great deal for women and a terrible deal for men. If she wants to bail for any no-fault reason, your life is destroyed and it will take years to recover. If you have kids, make that decades.
These guys are placing blame on the wives. They're both responsible.m for their financial health. The time to talk money is prior to the I DO. There needs to be discussion about money and how to budget etc. That way no one is the brat and no one is the killjoy. It's our money and these are our goals and objectives.
True.
How is he responsible for someone elseâs poor decision making skills? Do you expect people to have to babysit their spouses like toddlers? Sorry but sheâs a fully grown woman with the mentality of a child. This is a relationship not a daycare center.
@@YTAccount82825 Finally someone with common sense
Yea the discussion needs to happen prior to getting married but also needs to continue throughout the marriage
No they didn't they blamed both of them. And who cares if they blame the wives.? They don't get a pass for just being a woman so idk why you felt the need to even make this comment.
One thing that bugs me about Dave Ramsey is whenever the husband is the problem when it comes to spending he attacks him ad calls him a little boy who can't control himself blah blah blah but whenever it's the woman who's overspending it's still somehow the husband's fault
Spending money ,impulse buying is an addiction. The spender gets a hit of dopamine buying something just like an addict taking a hit of what ever.
Soon to be ex husband spends $5k per month. Sueing me for more when he filed for divorce even though works from home in a business I started and I work on it as well when I get home from working full time elsewhere during the day. He said he works harder working from home from 8am 10 4:30pm. đą
Same here, my husband loves to spend, bugging me now to buy new $3700 sectional đł
Who earns the money though who earns the money
@@grantarmbruster6591 that's a horrible way to look at it
@@Ka_Gg It makes a big difference. If he is making the money then he gets to spend it how he wants .
@@TheVoidstonz so you guys are saying if a wife is a stay-at-home mom and the husband goes out and works, she has absolutely no say on how the money is spent?
@@Ka_Gg that's not at all what we said. We're saying that the one that earns get to make decisions about its spending a little more freely. And also yes there comes a point where a husband just needs to be followed.
They financed essentially an AIR MATRESS.
Why is the assumption that the generosity should go to single mothers rather than single fathers?
It sounds like he bought his way into the relationship. Sheâs gonna divorce him and take half if he dials back now.
I could tell from the title that these guys were gonna go full simp mode. Yes he made a mistake, he owned it, and that should be the end of it. This should not be considered a lifetime license to spend frivolously. As soon as I saw who was sitting with Ramsey I knew the first thing out of his mouth would be simping, and I was not disappointed.
Simp mode is JDâs only mode; how could you be a have decent counselor when you are in simp mode 24/7?
Your beard is epic!
They always do that.
They give the same general answer is what irritates me. If genders are reversed, they'd give the same answer. It's like pressing enter on my computer and run a program.
So stop watching Dave you guys. Why group whining?
"I was debt free.. until the fire nation invaded."
Who you DATE...is who you MARRY. People aren't doing 180's once they get married. The signs of who a person truly is are ALWAYS there....they may be subtle but they are there.
If you can't work with/through those traits BEFORE you marry.... DON'T GET MARRIED.
You can't change anyone...if someone never wants to discuss money, doesn't value your opinions, talks down to you or about you, embarrasses you for 'fun/laughs', etc...MOVE AROUND...They are being EXACTLY who they are....no amount of 'love/support/money/s**' you provide will change them.
Well Iâm never getting a girlfriend/wife cuz Iâm awkward so I donât have to worry about this đ
Single life is a simple life
I married, and am still married to, an awkward person!
@@cita_m nice! Happy for u both :)
There is an endless supply. Every country prints money every day, The US alone prints 38 Million notes a day with a face value of approximately $541 Million.
John is the woman. Dave is the man.
The last comment Dave made, buy a single mom a car. Absolutely not. Thats rewarding terrible behavior. Dont be a save a heux.
This would never happen in my house. I would file divorce papers immediately. Men need to get a spine. Spending money behind your back is financial infidelity.
It is not a vision problem but an attitude problem.
Well because of quantitative easing their is actually an endless supply of money
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But all the Girl Scout cookies đȘ and sell them for a higher price đ
4:33
Sorry man. You can always use more fishing line
Why do you follow the schedule and get nervous if you can start staking in Cross Staking?
My guess before I watch:
Financial infidelity
4:17 I feel personally attacked.
No I donât I itâs a joke but it for sure apply for me.
I am so tired of Dave's channel and taking the Female side. They will say it's both your fault or the man's fault when a man calls but when the woman calls, they will tell her it's the man's fault. This is on all topics. In this video he said he's good with his money, but then they keep getting on him about the bed. These guys are so wrong.
It's tough, my husband are on the same page about debt and spending but not on the long term vision. He wants to live like a pauper forever because it makes him feel good. Seeing that as my future makes me feel hopeless and less motivated.
You have a good POINT. Anyway I feel that his fear is deeper than the surface. His fear of losing money or spending maybe ingrained in his childhood or traumatic past experience. I suggest you to sit with him one day and talk to him compassionately. Deep listening to what he is saying about his fear without interrupting, just listen.
It is worth a try. Best wishes.đđđŒđ»
He wants to live like a pauper today so you dont live like one when you are 70, where you will expect him to still work while you stay at home because of some old age physical ailment.
@@WillmobilePlus No, he wants to live like a pauper forever. He's embarrassed of the idea of looking like we have any money. We have no goals.
@@ashleycnossen3157 you need to see a financial counselor. You donât have to live poor but you donât have to look rich. He needs help and you both need to find a balance. I hope it works out for you. Good luck.
My husband has an issue with visible wealth...but has $20k f tools in his shop... it's BS.â@@ashleycnossen3157
He got him and his wife some debt for their anniversary, how nice
She must be a democrat..
He must be a republican, that is why he has codependency.
She is if hubby is not gay.
9k for a bed đ€Šââïž
If someone passes away and is single, what happens to the debt?
My husband and I have separate accounts and separate locked up cash savings in the fire safe. We both work. The bills are split according him making the most but I have the things I buy for the house/us. Sounds like this guy gave his wife a credit card and she doesn't work. No way. He needs to cancel the joint everything and give her an allowance.
So many women can't accept the fact that this world doesn't revolve around them. They're miserable for everyone in their life, themselves included. Raise your kids, folks
These guys are completely spinless... There's absolutely no reason to blame his wife, because he allows it to happen.
True, but that doesn't excuse poor behavior, it just enables it.
Guilty!! I'm all or nothing!! However, I do small expenses like clothes, beauty, and entertainment that does add up. But I'm the one that listens to Dave all that time and I share with my hubby.
How is she over spending? And on what?
How do we know she is overspending, and that's not just what he thinks it is, but it's really not?
Do you ever listen to the calls? If he thinks she is over spending, she is!
This guy needs to find a new wife.
It's pointless because she still gonna get the house,the lumpsum money and alimony,a lot of wealth is yet to come to her if he leaves her.
Dave I have medical bills but I have insurance yet I'm already in collections for some...what do I do
I could never have a show cause Iâd tell dude to take a life insurance policy on her prior to her âdisappearanceâ đ
just rent the wife out occasionally until she learns the value of hard work
This is pretty common usually when they don't work,females like to spend money specially when is the boy friend or the husband...!
I financed a Milky Way.
These men need to stop marrying these women, at least until they really get to know them. If he had it to do again, would he?
Always defending the wifeđ€
No. Dave just scolded the Wife the other day. Do you have a confirmation bias?
@@jomontanee like a slap in the hand.
I thought it was just me, but guess what, I continue to watch Dave's show.
SRB
... Nothing today /. ..
Nothing stupid about fishing line !
Tell your squaw you will catch & eat fish & it will save $$. Just look at the price of
not fresh store fish $7 per pound & up.
LFOD !
Women L-O-V-E their credit cards!
Dont give her money to spend simple as
Get a new wifeâŠkidding
MEN........STOP MARRYING!!!!!
What about the legacy,the heirs,that's what beats me,I'm a 42 year old man and I'm not married and no kids.
@@ShimiNicholasKomane-tg3bt Who cares about that?
@@johnlanier3616 What do you mean who cares about that, if you die who's gonna inherit your wealth?
cash her out . find a new one that is on your program. Do not get married again. A girlfriend will have better behavior than a wife, because she will not have the state on her side to get her way.
Bingo. Getting married under USA laws and courts in 2022 is high risk with little reward.
Depends on the state.
Most women do not want to be someoneâs everlasting girlfriend. Good quality women run screaming away from men who are afraid of commitment.
@@montymython754 fair enough , but please help me understand why there are so many unmarried mothers?
@@dothedanmthing Midlife crisis affairs
Women arenât risking a second marriage
Dave would actually say sell the wife !
lolđ€Łđ
Do hard work, earn money. Let your wife spend as much as she wants on herself. Then your children take some of part of it for themselves. Whatever is leftover you put all that in savings.
Complete slavery
Dave be like â divorce herâŠthen sell the kids to recoverâ
Women are never at fault and there are no consequences. That why women are the one that usually push marriages they don't act like this when you date them. 70% of the time a man loses his income a divorce is filled within a year. Women don't care about us we are a utility to them just the guy she settled for after her prime. Stay single, stay free stay sane stay well. đ
Well said brother. There's enough data to support this. Women are the only ones who benefit from marriage.
Who hurt you
@@d_all_in probably the woman who took half his stuff. Thatâs about 45% of adult males in this country.
Personal experience maybe?
@@ryannparker9191 Iâve never been married but again the divorce rate is about 45% so many have had horrible experiences.
Smart men don't get married, more money out, less bedroom fun, it's too obvious.
It's the husband's fault. It's those two words he said... "I do."
It's his fault he spoiled her
He was just the first to break their agreement not to use debt. Once debt was on the table, she ran with it. They both need to recommit. (Or commit for the first time if they didn't mean it the first time.)
The young guys out there youâre going to assume that the big deal is this woman spending but it really isnât. The worst part of the story is this is his second marriage. Thatâs two too many, you donât need to be married to have a great relationship with a woman. Itâs a financial contract that youâre entering into when you get married donât do it.
He obviously learned nothing after the first failure; newsflash, second marriages are much more likely to fail. How many years before he calls back with a question concerning his third wife?đđđđđ
You've clearly missed the whole point of marriage, (as have many over the years). Marriage is a commitment, not to be entered lightly. You marry someone because you want to be with them, and take care of them, raise children, grow old with them. Someone you wouldn't want to live without, and that you respect and trust. You don't marry someone as an experiment. It isn't always easy and you won't always agree. It takes work! You have to be willing to happily do more than your share. 50/50 will never cut it. If you would gladly give 100% to be with that person for the rest of your life, you will never be disappointed.
If you think marriage is just a financial contract you aren't marriage material
@@d_all_in A personal attack, OK keyboard warrior lol. Have a great day
@@thegenxgamerr He is correct.
There is nothing wrong with financing as long as you budget for it.
You shouldnât financing things that dont generate income!
@@jomontanee Some of us have hobbies that take money!!!! Income producing hobbies sound like mini jobs!
Only on a home
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I'm confused đ€. He called in and told what he financed and blamed it on the wife. Men like to blame women for their mistakes. I would have liked to have hear a few things that she bought because in man math, it could have been groceries!!
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