And here your ego get hurts only enfps can do this and you think alot about us as weirdo and you just love us madly but will never accept first kind of cute but honestly we are scared to get hurt neither we want to hurt you.
As an INTJ I just want to say I LOVE ENFPs! my daughter is ENFP and we are super close. 22years living together with no end in sight and I couldn't be happier for her to stick around forever. Num 6 ) They know how to give INTJs space dispite their need for constant company because they understand it's necessary for us.
My INTJ man is an expert strategist , has twisted humor like me and makes my life easier/happier. I’m grateful that we finally got together after years of friendship. ❤ -ENFP They also pair well with more mature INFPs. My mom is INFP and they get along great.
Thank ENFP to exist 💙 One of the rarest type who notice me, and talk directly, no scared of me, accept me as I am. I know what people can think just by the way they watch me, and I know they think I am weird, stupid, and useless. Unconsciously they are afraid of me, because I know when people lie, behavior don't lie.
But, as an INTJ it is really hard for us to trust someone... for example it took me 3, 4 years to trust my friend and also it's true that we make a long-term plan, like 1 to 10 years or even more I remember once I planned for the next 20, 25 years...
Oh ya , you guys are like that lol. It took Lisa (my INTJ) girlfriend around 3 years to become 99% her real self around me. Just another 50 years to go for that last 1%! lol
The fact that ENFPs can appreciate our excellent qualities shows their intelligence. Which we like. So we like you back. And since most of us are sapiosexual, we just might love you back
Number 4 is my favorite. It's a definite need to be seen and appreciated and INTJs can SEE ENFPs. It's SUCH an easy thing to take for granted, but living without it is pain. They're very flattering that way.
Yeah, as an INFJ, I love to talk to INTJs as well. We both have dominant Ni, we can truly understand one another. I have yet to knowingly speak with ENFPs and ENTPs but I would love to see how those conversations would go. Also, I would love to have a time with an INTJ, ENTP, and an ENFP all in the same room with me. That conversation would be freaken awesome and quite dark, and fun.
Just look for people wearing bright colored clothing, large sunglasses, and most likely singing. Then, don’t pay them any attention. That’s how you nab ‘em lol
@@myenfp-ness this comment is hilarious. Thank you. Also they might accidentally put their skirt on inside out. If their eyes look like they are beaming with joy, happiness, or enthusiasm that is also very well. They have a lot of raw genuine emotion. A good example of an ENFP and INTJ is 1995 Pride and Prejudice. Another ENFP is Rapunzel from Tangled.
My sist and best friend from college are ENFP, and I'm INTJ. we get along so well. in my perspective it's because most of ENFP, looking at us (INTJ) as a human. Most of the time people seems scared at me, feel intimidated, and I think I looks like unapproachable when in reality we (an INTJ) also want to blend with people but we just don't know how to. Though at some point, if I didn't find an ENFP, I think I'll just being alone and it's also fine, because I get used to with it and there will be more time to work things that I wanted to accomplish.
Okay, I definitely need to find an ENFP. Because the thing with talking about people's plan and trying to help them realize them by finding potential pitfalls and then problem solving for that so that it doesn't happen (ie supporting your dreams) is often not appreciated and we get accused of being negative.
I don't understand this. What is this creature called ENFP? I have yet to meet such a being that can like an INTJ like me. This baffles me completely. 🧐
My oldest daughter is an ENFP, and so is my pastor. I’ll say the enjoyment goes both ways. You guys have more vision than anyone, your humor is smart, and you guys like to think. I even have sympathy when my daughter struggles to pin down only one option because I feel the pain of pruning my visions to what can actually fit into a real life.
LOVE NO 4! No DRAMA RAMA over it and just finishes the sentences and adds to the convos regardless how random unlike the other MBTI's which are ball ache having explain EVERY detail
My best friend is an ENFP and he sees me exactly as you describe me. And I also see him as he is! He hugged me first and I appreciate that very much, otherwise it would never have come to a hug! He shows me that emotions are okay and you can't control everything. Just the spontaneity thing brings me a deep sigh, but also a grin. It's a great win-win friendship, that never gets boring. BTW Nice and sympathetic video! You are very similar to him in movement, facial expressions and speech after all. Interesting!
It's so wonderful how a person can't be a single personality type all the time. I'm an INFJ and as far as I know, most people inverts one of their functions to the opposite. For me, I invert my Feeling to Thinking sometimes, even though it's challenging, and all the thinks mentioned in the video, checks it.
As an Intj,and as someone who basically doesnt care about his own ambitions, i can confirm that we are way supportive of the other people's dreams,maybe even to a fault sometimrs😅
A lot of these are why my ENTP friend and I get along so well. Her ENFP son is a trip. (And an INTP partner) we're an interesting group when we're together.
I would be very decisive and planned out but do to my family freinds and school getting in the way of my ambition I have become quiet inefficient and somewhat lazy but when I leave school that's where my skills and traits will shine
@@Jack_howard_mayer I took the test n it turned out that I ma entp but after studying the cognitive functions I started thinking that I maybe an intj or Still maybe entp cause they both got the intuitive thinking as the top 2 thinking (intuitive) first which exactly wt I am but figuring out wether my thoughts r exterior or interior has been pretty rough on me.......
@@Jack_howard_mayer i want to be sure before labeling myself as something, cuz a lot of things can affect the results, it depends on how you feel emotionaly, so its a good thing to do it multiple times in few diffrent periods of time
Number 4 is my experience with my wife. She's the enfp and she will start talking to me as if we were just having a conversation and i will know what she's talking about.
We (INTJ's) also live in our own private world and aren't lonely about it. We're sure of our positions and don't give a flip about the judgment of others.
Heh taking the Ne doms crude humor or gloomy thought and outdoing them, taking them to their conclusion and making ENTP/ENFP actually worried is fun every time😂 (INTJ)
But i think sometimes it's hard for INTJs cause they might not have the ability to show their emotions or excitement as ENFPs have and it's like they don't have that much energy
I married an enfp who presented as mature when we were young and somehow became a complete idiot as we got older. Ended up parenting 4 kids entirely on my own so Mr. Enfp could enjoy his midlife crisis. Not cool.
sounds accurate, I also love myself
😃
@Moon we're great at this flattery thing huh?
Hello fellow intj👋i love ourselves
Hello fellow intj👋i love ourselves
Same
Nah, we don't let your dreams be dreams, my friend.
We will make your dreams be reality.
Exactly
As a INTJ I am now on the search for an ENFP
Hello Jade. How is the search?
@@NB-qy7ku it was joke lol
@@Jade-ib9np :)
@@NB-qy7ku *intjs being intjs
This INTJ finds ENFPs adorable.
Me an ENFP listening to the traits: I can't believe I fell in love with a personality type.
Crazy right?? I can’t get enough!
Well as an INTJ, I'm glad
And here your ego get hurts only enfps can do this and you think alot about us as weirdo and you just love us madly but will never accept first kind of cute but honestly we are scared to get hurt neither we want to hurt you.
As ENFP I have to agree...
WHY DID I FALL IN LOVE WITH PERSONALLITY?!
(I'm from Poland, so sorry for mistakes in grammar or something)
hi really you love my mbti@@Erensunofficialparent
Enfps are truly unique and most love-able type in my eyes. - intj.
Oh thank you much.. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ lots and lots of love
-ENFP
love the charming ENFPs in my life but i'll be honest - i'm AMAZED that an ENFP was capable of posting a video that clocked only 1 minute. well done.
😎😎 You are so right! I would definitely struggle with that one! (I am an ENFP).
Im an intj and my dad was an enfp. It was one of the most incredible friendship and he was an incredible father. I love and miss him tremendously.
1. Beard: check ✅
2. Likes planning: check ✅
3. Gets dark humour: check ✅
4. Likes INTJs: check ✅
Are you single? Asking for a friend 👀
😂
Beard is just like makeup… hiding flaws
@@imonteambringit2571 so effective ✅️
not at all 😂
@@imonteambringit2571 Exactly. The flaw being not having a beard.
Intj here and appreciate all of your kind words you spoke 🥰😘
As an INTJ I just want to say I LOVE ENFPs! my daughter is ENFP and we are super close. 22years living together with no end in sight and I couldn't be happier for her to stick around forever.
Num 6 ) They know how to give INTJs space dispite their need for constant company because they understand it's necessary for us.
I'm an INTJ and I admit, it's kinda lonely out here for most of us 🤣 glad to know we're compatible with ENFP's. Y'all sound lit!
My INTJ man is an expert strategist , has twisted humor like me and makes my life easier/happier. I’m grateful that we finally got together after years of friendship. ❤ -ENFP
They also pair well with more mature INFPs. My mom is INFP and they get along great.
Thank ENFP to exist 💙 One of the rarest type who notice me, and talk directly, no scared of me, accept me as I am.
I know what people can think just by the way they watch me, and I know they think I am weird, stupid, and useless. Unconsciously they are afraid of me, because I know when people lie, behavior don't lie.
But, as an INTJ it is really hard for us to trust someone... for example it took me 3, 4 years to trust my friend and also it's true that we make a long-term plan, like 1 to 10 years or even more I remember once I planned for the next 20, 25 years...
Oh ya , you guys are like that lol. It took Lisa (my INTJ) girlfriend around 3 years to become 99% her real self around me. Just another 50 years to go for that last 1%! lol
@@myenfp-ness that makes sense
@@myenfp-ness hehe...well we have many layers... like an onion... or a rose haha - intj
@@myenfp-ness you are lucky to have an INTJ girlfriend, she will never betray you
@@-_deploy_- unless a hotter enfp catches her eye 😂
The fact that ENFPs can appreciate our excellent qualities shows their intelligence. Which we like. So we like you back. And since most of us are sapiosexual, we just might love you back
I'm an ENFP and I love INTJs so much, they are just so cool.
Meanwhile intj deathstare 💀
Number 4 is my favorite. It's a definite need to be seen and appreciated and INTJs can SEE ENFPs.
It's SUCH an easy thing to take for granted, but living without it is pain. They're very flattering that way.
I'm INTJ and I don't really think I can fall in love with an ENFP but life is crazy sometimes 🚶
You exactly fall, where you think you can't.
~ INFJ
I never thought I’d ever want any friends but I can’t help wanting an ENFP friend now. What have you done to me?!
Ha ha! So adorable!! Enfp here!
Same! You guys are litterly so cute🎉❤
~Enfp
@@_IwassoIhungryIatemyname_ Thank you! 😅😊
As an INFJ we relate with the INTJ in those ways too.
True.
Yeah, as an INFJ, I love to talk to INTJs as well. We both have dominant Ni, we can truly understand one another. I have yet to knowingly speak with ENFPs and ENTPs but I would love to see how those conversations would go. Also, I would love to have a time with an INTJ, ENTP, and an ENFP all in the same room with me. That conversation would be freaken awesome and quite dark, and fun.
I never saw someone compliment INTJ'S
R u serious tho, cuz yall have so much potential its impossible not to!
~Enfp
You're joking right? As an infj, i wish i was an intj.
Love this! I'm hoping I can meet an ENFP to connect with.
Just look for people wearing bright colored clothing, large sunglasses, and most likely singing. Then, don’t pay them any attention. That’s how you nab ‘em lol
@@myenfp-ness XD
@@myenfp-ness and the clothing is sometimes inside out (happened to me today in college)
@@myenfp-ness this comment is hilarious. Thank you. Also they might accidentally put their skirt on inside out. If their eyes look like they are beaming with joy, happiness, or enthusiasm that is also very well. They have a lot of raw genuine emotion. A good example of an ENFP and INTJ is 1995 Pride and Prejudice. Another ENFP is Rapunzel from Tangled.
My sist and best friend from college are ENFP, and I'm INTJ. we get along so well. in my perspective it's because most of ENFP, looking at us (INTJ) as a human.
Most of the time people seems scared at me, feel intimidated, and I think I looks like unapproachable when in reality we (an INTJ) also want to blend with people but we just don't know how to. Though at some point, if I didn't find an ENFP, I think I'll just being alone and it's also fine, because I get used to with it and there will be more time to work things that I wanted to accomplish.
You forgot to add the intense sexual chemistry
Eso existe?
Okay, I definitely need to find an ENFP. Because the thing with talking about people's plan and trying to help them realize them by finding potential pitfalls and then problem solving for that so that it doesn't happen (ie supporting your dreams) is often not appreciated and we get accused of being negative.
I don't understand this. What is this creature called ENFP? I have yet to meet such a being that can like an INTJ like me. This baffles me completely. 🧐
You have to find yourself an ENFP! They will change your life lol
@Ana exactly, like how one can like us in romantic way?
@@violet6507 We must have Lisa explain this theory of romance. 😎
@@myenfp-ness how so? Pls explain
Allow me to introduce myself.
😎😎😎
My oldest daughter is an ENFP, and so is my pastor. I’ll say the enjoyment goes both ways. You guys have more vision than anyone, your humor is smart, and you guys like to think. I even have sympathy when my daughter struggles to pin down only one option because I feel the pain of pruning my visions to what can actually fit into a real life.
As a entp , I love this type most.
LOVE NO 4! No DRAMA RAMA over it and just finishes the sentences and adds to the convos regardless how random unlike the other MBTI's which are ball ache having explain EVERY detail
As an INTJ, this was very uplifting! Thanks for the affirmation!
I love this! From a woman enfp.
As an intj, I'm....flattered
Damn... I definitely need an ENFP in my life to. Where can I order one from..?
Haha
“Hi, I’m an enfp” I know, you’ve been talking for an hour.
ENFPs are the only people that don’t bore me lol. Their train of thought is just bizarre it’s great 😂.
Wow, you give good compliment and seem to value Intj which is really appreciative
Thank you for today's ego boost
cool, you said it
As an INTJ, I made a new document for important notes on my future love life to save this video to. Thank you for the new planner.
I feel that what you described is also in:
INFJ×INTJ
INFJ×INTP
INFP×ENTP
INTJ here, thank you for your kind words. You seem like a person I'd love to talk to.
INTJ here; the feeling is mutual. ENFPs make me feel like maybe I do have a soul
Thanks for showing the love to INTJs we love you too !
My best friend is an ENFP and he sees me exactly as you describe me. And I also see him as he is! He hugged me first and I appreciate that very much, otherwise it would never have come to a hug! He shows me that emotions are okay and you can't control everything. Just the spontaneity thing brings me a deep sigh, but also a grin. It's a great win-win friendship, that never gets boring.
BTW Nice and sympathetic video! You are very similar to him in movement, facial expressions and speech after all. Interesting!
Aww this is so cute
Reasons are not surprising, but it's quite accurate so thank you for sharing
This alone time waiting period is been super hard tho
As an intj, we love to plan the future together
& If the other party doesnt meet our expectations we'll not waste our time.
I'm INTJ
I met an ENFP and practically fell in love. I'm INTJ and I agree- very compatible
Wow, that was just so wonderful, thank you.
It's so wonderful how a person can't be a single personality type all the time. I'm an INFJ and as far as I know, most people inverts one of their functions to the opposite. For me, I invert my Feeling to Thinking sometimes, even though it's challenging, and all the thinks mentioned in the video, checks it.
All completely true! I’m an ENFP and my best conversations have been with my INFJ 💚
What about infj in conversation do you appreciate?
As an Intj,and as someone who basically doesnt care about his own ambitions, i can confirm that we are way supportive of the other people's dreams,maybe even to a fault sometimrs😅
I am an INTJ. Ive read enfp is highly complementary.
So true,I try to be perfect in every activity I do
A lot of these are why my ENTP friend and I get along so well. Her ENFP son is a trip. (And an INTP partner) we're an interesting group when we're together.
How it is intp partner?
Lol I have an ENFP bff idk when and how she became my friend but I still love her
Enfp has dark side? I thought you guys are all bright and shining with positivism
Sometimes they overthink ....
"The most beautiful thoughts are always besides the darkest" - Ye
As an enfp I can confirm that's totally true
I'm really confused that all think said intp have it to so why not intp
Maybe because Enfp see's Intp in a more friendlier way it doesn't mean that we don't like Intp . They are all very nice person☺️
@@nuggets796 but what is that spical think that intj have that will help me alot
Oh so you wanna pull off an Enfp😂
@@nuggets796 yes👌😂
As an intj female I’m really not like everyone and hates to write comments but the things you are saying is just true
INTJ here. I love ENFPs.
I took a test like 3 times and got intj 3 times so I guess I'm an intj
I would be very decisive and planned out but do to my family freinds and school getting in the way of my ambition I have become quiet inefficient and somewhat lazy but when I leave school that's where my skills and traits will shine
@@Jack_howard_mayer I took the test n it turned out that I ma entp but after studying the cognitive functions I started thinking that I maybe an intj or Still maybe entp cause they both got the intuitive thinking as the top 2 thinking (intuitive) first which exactly wt I am but figuring out wether my thoughts r exterior or interior has been pretty rough on me.......
I did it 5 times every time after 2 months, every time intj, just wanted to be sure
@@SwordsmanMike yea i get what ya mean sometimes i get intj on test but it depends on the questions but i understand u
@@Jack_howard_mayer i want to be sure before labeling myself as something, cuz a lot of things can affect the results, it depends on how you feel emotionaly, so its a good thing to do it multiple times in few diffrent periods of time
All true. I have a few ENFP clients, and can figure out and link their convos together 😂
-INTJ
We aren’t intelligent it just as other are less into gaining knowledge
keep up ur dreams! Stay optimistic about the future❤ Don’t let reality constrain ur mind to dream big and beyond convention❤
This guy I’m having a crush on is an INTJ and oh boy I’m not looking elsewhere.
Leave some mystery to who you are, where you're going, where you've been. Don't let him figure you out too easily. This will add intrigue.
I have to say, as an infj married to an istj, number 4 is pretty much us.
I sent this to a few friends who love me ! ~INTJ Female ~
Im an intj ..and you'r sooo lovely how you anderstand ower minds..
Arabic intj. 🇩🇿
Yessss I love my ENFPS
Tornado, this is what we feel about you
Number 4 is my experience with my wife. She's the enfp and she will start talking to me as if we were just having a conversation and i will know what she's talking about.
Seems like the relationship between my ENFP younger cousin and me an INTJ🐱
Stayed for the compliments
My boyfriend is constantly surprised by ability to laugh at his crude humor🤣
-INTP
Yup. All this 👍
😃
The most important question: How far away from me do you live? This is almost too much to hope for.
Pls I’m an intj with an enfp best friend and this is the most accurate thing ever
Harvey Firestein looks great
No wonder that's why I love myself so much🤣& the real INTJ will not go to dating apps
That’s true but I highly suggest you INTJs take a chance on a dating app :) you guys are amazing
As intj and have ex girlfriend ENFP this make me laugh how accurate it is. 😂
We (INTJ's) also live in our own private world and aren't lonely about it. We're sure of our positions and don't give a flip about the judgment of others.
U intjs sound so adorable thoo:D hope i get meet one soon:))
~Enfp❤❤
I love ENFPs I need an ENFP best friend
I have one .. they are the best.
I agree as intj.
Me and my bigger sis is literally bestie, and she is enfp❤😂
Heh taking the Ne doms crude humor or gloomy thought and outdoing them, taking them to their conclusion and making ENTP/ENFP actually worried is fun every time😂 (INTJ)
As an intj, I also loves enfp
Awww thanks broo🖤🤣(Intj)
My friend is an ENFP and this seems an accurate description of me and my friend’s relationship…
I'm a male INTJ looking for an ENFP male partner. But it's very hard to find someone these days who can accept my INTJ weirdness.
Exactly!
you explained it very well
They'll go socratic or ask where your dreams go and end up as.. you've been warned.
But i think sometimes it's hard for INTJs cause they might not have the ability to show their emotions or excitement as ENFPs have and it's like they don't have that much energy
We really don't and we don't really care too 🤷
Who doesn't love INTJs man, who doesn't love INTJs?
Thanks ! Intj female.
I married an enfp who presented as mature when we were young and somehow became a complete idiot as we got older. Ended up parenting 4 kids entirely on my own so Mr. Enfp could enjoy his midlife crisis. Not cool.
No he is just searching for the milk🙂
So then why you don't marry intp instead
Any infj out here wanting an intj now
Enfp here. My best friend is an Intj.