5 Surprising Reasons ENFPs LOVE INTJs ❤️

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  • @JoaoJGabriel
    @JoaoJGabriel Před 2 lety +402

    sounds accurate, I also love myself

    • @myenfp-ness
      @myenfp-ness  Před 2 lety +20

      😃

    • @JoaoJGabriel
      @JoaoJGabriel Před 2 lety +10

      @Moon we're great at this flattery thing huh?

    • @lautre.
      @lautre. Před 2 lety +1

      Hello fellow intj👋i love ourselves

    • @lautre.
      @lautre. Před 2 lety +2

      Hello fellow intj👋i love ourselves

    • @MC怨霊
      @MC怨霊 Před rokem

      Same

  • @jenniferhanses
    @jenniferhanses Před rokem +36

    Nah, we don't let your dreams be dreams, my friend.
    We will make your dreams be reality.

  • @Jade-ib9np
    @Jade-ib9np Před 2 lety +76

    As a INTJ I am now on the search for an ENFP

  • @lionbay884
    @lionbay884 Před rokem +11

    This INTJ finds ENFPs adorable.

  • @lianawei8711
    @lianawei8711 Před 2 lety +243

    Me an ENFP listening to the traits: I can't believe I fell in love with a personality type.

    • @myenfp-ness
      @myenfp-ness  Před 2 lety +20

      Crazy right?? I can’t get enough!

    • @miles.popsicle
      @miles.popsicle Před 2 lety +10

      Well as an INTJ, I'm glad

    • @fariahayat3771
      @fariahayat3771 Před rokem +4

      And here your ego get hurts only enfps can do this and you think alot about us as weirdo and you just love us madly but will never accept first kind of cute but honestly we are scared to get hurt neither we want to hurt you.

    • @Erensunofficialparent
      @Erensunofficialparent Před rokem +2

      As ENFP I have to agree...
      WHY DID I FALL IN LOVE WITH PERSONALLITY?!
      (I'm from Poland, so sorry for mistakes in grammar or something)

    • @Abutaher-ne1lz
      @Abutaher-ne1lz Před 5 měsíci

      hi really you love my mbti​@@Erensunofficialparent

  • @notherepim
    @notherepim Před rokem +9

    Enfps are truly unique and most love-able type in my eyes. - intj.

    • @RT-mp1kg
      @RT-mp1kg Před rokem +1

      Oh thank you much.. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ lots and lots of love
      -ENFP

  • @suzihoude
    @suzihoude Před 2 lety +40

    love the charming ENFPs in my life but i'll be honest - i'm AMAZED that an ENFP was capable of posting a video that clocked only 1 minute. well done.

    • @tanjakragelund3380
      @tanjakragelund3380 Před rokem +2

      😎😎 You are so right! I would definitely struggle with that one! (I am an ENFP).

  • @ajadegirl
    @ajadegirl Před rokem +22

    Im an intj and my dad was an enfp. It was one of the most incredible friendship and he was an incredible father. I love and miss him tremendously.

  • @livelife5947
    @livelife5947 Před 2 lety +154

    1. Beard: check ✅
    2. Likes planning: check ✅
    3. Gets dark humour: check ✅
    4. Likes INTJs: check ✅
    Are you single? Asking for a friend 👀

    • @awake144k
      @awake144k Před rokem +5

      😂

    • @imonteambringit2571
      @imonteambringit2571 Před rokem +10

      Beard is just like makeup… hiding flaws

    • @CatGee
      @CatGee Před rokem +9

      ​@@imonteambringit2571 so effective ✅️

    • @sandymakesplans
      @sandymakesplans Před rokem +1

      not at all 😂

    • @Frietoe
      @Frietoe Před rokem +3

      @@imonteambringit2571 Exactly. The flaw being not having a beard.

  • @carolannscott1943
    @carolannscott1943 Před 2 lety +89

    Intj here and appreciate all of your kind words you spoke 🥰😘

  • @captainfrosty31
    @captainfrosty31 Před 2 lety +41

    As an INTJ I just want to say I LOVE ENFPs! my daughter is ENFP and we are super close. 22years living together with no end in sight and I couldn't be happier for her to stick around forever.
    Num 6 ) They know how to give INTJs space dispite their need for constant company because they understand it's necessary for us.

  • @kainightshade5033
    @kainightshade5033 Před rokem +12

    I'm an INTJ and I admit, it's kinda lonely out here for most of us 🤣 glad to know we're compatible with ENFP's. Y'all sound lit!

  • @lunagregoria8827
    @lunagregoria8827 Před rokem +24

    My INTJ man is an expert strategist , has twisted humor like me and makes my life easier/happier. I’m grateful that we finally got together after years of friendship. ❤ -ENFP
    They also pair well with more mature INFPs. My mom is INFP and they get along great.

  • @Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes
    @Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes Před 2 lety +41

    Thank ENFP to exist 💙 One of the rarest type who notice me, and talk directly, no scared of me, accept me as I am.
    I know what people can think just by the way they watch me, and I know they think I am weird, stupid, and useless. Unconsciously they are afraid of me, because I know when people lie, behavior don't lie.

  • @HLD202
    @HLD202 Před 2 lety +79

    But, as an INTJ it is really hard for us to trust someone... for example it took me 3, 4 years to trust my friend and also it's true that we make a long-term plan, like 1 to 10 years or even more I remember once I planned for the next 20, 25 years...

    • @myenfp-ness
      @myenfp-ness  Před 2 lety +40

      Oh ya , you guys are like that lol. It took Lisa (my INTJ) girlfriend around 3 years to become 99% her real self around me. Just another 50 years to go for that last 1%! lol

    • @NB-qy7ku
      @NB-qy7ku Před 2 lety +10

      @@myenfp-ness that makes sense

    • @grazynawolska8160
      @grazynawolska8160 Před 2 lety +12

      @@myenfp-ness hehe...well we have many layers... like an onion... or a rose haha - intj

    • @-_deploy_-
      @-_deploy_- Před rokem +4

      ​@@myenfp-ness you are lucky to have an INTJ girlfriend, she will never betray you

    • @janco333
      @janco333 Před rokem +2

      ​@@-_deploy_- unless a hotter enfp catches her eye 😂

  • @V.Hansen.
    @V.Hansen. Před 2 lety +5

    The fact that ENFPs can appreciate our excellent qualities shows their intelligence. Which we like. So we like you back. And since most of us are sapiosexual, we just might love you back

  • @radioktiver_boomerang
    @radioktiver_boomerang Před rokem +8

    I'm an ENFP and I love INTJs so much, they are just so cool.

  • @dannyman2k
    @dannyman2k Před 2 lety +28

    Number 4 is my favorite. It's a definite need to be seen and appreciated and INTJs can SEE ENFPs.
    It's SUCH an easy thing to take for granted, but living without it is pain. They're very flattering that way.

  • @hein6870
    @hein6870 Před 2 lety +22

    I'm INTJ and I don't really think I can fall in love with an ENFP but life is crazy sometimes 🚶

    • @aparnagupta3812
      @aparnagupta3812 Před rokem +3

      You exactly fall, where you think you can't.
      ~ INFJ

  • @amethyst_moon12
    @amethyst_moon12 Před 2 lety +37

    I never thought I’d ever want any friends but I can’t help wanting an ENFP friend now. What have you done to me?!

  • @ultimategaming4265
    @ultimategaming4265 Před rokem +4

    As an INFJ we relate with the INTJ in those ways too.

  • @nickolaszissimos1189
    @nickolaszissimos1189 Před rokem +5

    Yeah, as an INFJ, I love to talk to INTJs as well. We both have dominant Ni, we can truly understand one another. I have yet to knowingly speak with ENFPs and ENTPs but I would love to see how those conversations would go. Also, I would love to have a time with an INTJ, ENTP, and an ENFP all in the same room with me. That conversation would be freaken awesome and quite dark, and fun.

  • @eli_luna3388
    @eli_luna3388 Před 2 lety +7

    I never saw someone compliment INTJ'S

  • @Ryuchan22
    @Ryuchan22 Před 2 lety +38

    Love this! I'm hoping I can meet an ENFP to connect with.

    • @myenfp-ness
      @myenfp-ness  Před 2 lety +18

      Just look for people wearing bright colored clothing, large sunglasses, and most likely singing. Then, don’t pay them any attention. That’s how you nab ‘em lol

    • @lianawei8711
      @lianawei8711 Před 2 lety +1

      @@myenfp-ness XD

    • @aishwarya2359
      @aishwarya2359 Před 2 lety +4

      @@myenfp-ness and the clothing is sometimes inside out (happened to me today in college)

    • @lovetobe6118
      @lovetobe6118 Před rokem +3

      @@myenfp-ness this comment is hilarious. Thank you. Also they might accidentally put their skirt on inside out. If their eyes look like they are beaming with joy, happiness, or enthusiasm that is also very well. They have a lot of raw genuine emotion. A good example of an ENFP and INTJ is 1995 Pride and Prejudice. Another ENFP is Rapunzel from Tangled.

  • @idontwannabeanonymous4725
    @idontwannabeanonymous4725 Před 2 lety +14

    My sist and best friend from college are ENFP, and I'm INTJ. we get along so well. in my perspective it's because most of ENFP, looking at us (INTJ) as a human.
    Most of the time people seems scared at me, feel intimidated, and I think I looks like unapproachable when in reality we (an INTJ) also want to blend with people but we just don't know how to. Though at some point, if I didn't find an ENFP, I think I'll just being alone and it's also fine, because I get used to with it and there will be more time to work things that I wanted to accomplish.

  • @natashaqueer
    @natashaqueer Před 2 lety +12

    You forgot to add the intense sexual chemistry

  • @jenniferhanses7064
    @jenniferhanses7064 Před rokem +7

    Okay, I definitely need to find an ENFP. Because the thing with talking about people's plan and trying to help them realize them by finding potential pitfalls and then problem solving for that so that it doesn't happen (ie supporting your dreams) is often not appreciated and we get accused of being negative.

  • @ditinta
    @ditinta Před 2 lety +61

    I don't understand this. What is this creature called ENFP? I have yet to meet such a being that can like an INTJ like me. This baffles me completely. 🧐

    • @myenfp-ness
      @myenfp-ness  Před 2 lety +16

      You have to find yourself an ENFP! They will change your life lol

    • @violet6507
      @violet6507 Před 2 lety +6

      @Ana exactly, like how one can like us in romantic way?

    • @ditinta
      @ditinta Před 2 lety +3

      @@violet6507 We must have Lisa explain this theory of romance. 😎

    • @FPT84
      @FPT84 Před 2 lety +3

      @@myenfp-ness how so? Pls explain

    • @dannyman2k
      @dannyman2k Před 2 lety +1

      Allow me to introduce myself.
      😎😎😎

  • @CheriFields
    @CheriFields Před 2 lety +2

    My oldest daughter is an ENFP, and so is my pastor. I’ll say the enjoyment goes both ways. You guys have more vision than anyone, your humor is smart, and you guys like to think. I even have sympathy when my daughter struggles to pin down only one option because I feel the pain of pruning my visions to what can actually fit into a real life.

  • @pugninja7037
    @pugninja7037 Před 2 lety +9

    As a entp , I love this type most.

  • @FPT84
    @FPT84 Před rokem +1

    LOVE NO 4! No DRAMA RAMA over it and just finishes the sentences and adds to the convos regardless how random unlike the other MBTI's which are ball ache having explain EVERY detail

  • @RachelLPapka
    @RachelLPapka Před rokem +3

    As an INTJ, this was very uplifting! Thanks for the affirmation!

  • @victoriousjoy9338
    @victoriousjoy9338 Před rokem +3

    I love this! From a woman enfp.

  • @Sophisticated-Alien
    @Sophisticated-Alien Před 2 měsíci +1

    As an intj, I'm....flattered

  • @Rue_Elpis777
    @Rue_Elpis777 Před 2 lety +11

    Damn... I definitely need an ENFP in my life to. Where can I order one from..?

  • @Bloody-Butterfly
    @Bloody-Butterfly Před rokem +3

    “Hi, I’m an enfp” I know, you’ve been talking for an hour.

  • @jesssss12
    @jesssss12 Před rokem +2

    ENFPs are the only people that don’t bore me lol. Their train of thought is just bizarre it’s great 😂.

  • @NB-qy7ku
    @NB-qy7ku Před 2 lety +6

    Wow, you give good compliment and seem to value Intj which is really appreciative

  • @handmadecoogie
    @handmadecoogie Před rokem +2

    Thank you for today's ego boost

  • @Vgjhkbtucru
    @Vgjhkbtucru Před 3 dny

    As an INTJ, I made a new document for important notes on my future love life to save this video to. Thank you for the new planner.

  • @Normal_user_coniven
    @Normal_user_coniven Před rokem +1

    I feel that what you described is also in:
    INFJ×INTJ
    INFJ×INTP
    INFP×ENTP

  • @karolinavolkova8064
    @karolinavolkova8064 Před rokem

    INTJ here, thank you for your kind words. You seem like a person I'd love to talk to.

  • @justsomenobody889
    @justsomenobody889 Před 9 měsíci

    INTJ here; the feeling is mutual. ENFPs make me feel like maybe I do have a soul

  • @chloeanastasia8440
    @chloeanastasia8440 Před 11 měsíci

    Thanks for showing the love to INTJs we love you too !

  • @sikabo3376
    @sikabo3376 Před 11 měsíci

    My best friend is an ENFP and he sees me exactly as you describe me. And I also see him as he is! He hugged me first and I appreciate that very much, otherwise it would never have come to a hug! He shows me that emotions are okay and you can't control everything. Just the spontaneity thing brings me a deep sigh, but also a grin. It's a great win-win friendship, that never gets boring.
    BTW Nice and sympathetic video! You are very similar to him in movement, facial expressions and speech after all. Interesting!

  • @mindhunterasmr
    @mindhunterasmr Před 2 lety +5

    Aww this is so cute

  • @MC怨霊
    @MC怨霊 Před rokem +1

    Reasons are not surprising, but it's quite accurate so thank you for sharing

  • @tifneysaunders9492
    @tifneysaunders9492 Před rokem +1

    This alone time waiting period is been super hard tho

  • @prajyotshinde6995
    @prajyotshinde6995 Před 4 měsíci

    As an intj, we love to plan the future together
    & If the other party doesnt meet our expectations we'll not waste our time.

  • @Kalle875
    @Kalle875 Před 2 lety +5

    I'm INTJ

  • @luvmyutube1
    @luvmyutube1 Před rokem

    I met an ENFP and practically fell in love. I'm INTJ and I agree- very compatible

  • @luminyam6145
    @luminyam6145 Před rokem +1

    Wow, that was just so wonderful, thank you.

  • @sketchflix6425
    @sketchflix6425 Před 8 měsíci

    It's so wonderful how a person can't be a single personality type all the time. I'm an INFJ and as far as I know, most people inverts one of their functions to the opposite. For me, I invert my Feeling to Thinking sometimes, even though it's challenging, and all the thinks mentioned in the video, checks it.

  • @CarolinaCastillo23
    @CarolinaCastillo23 Před 2 lety +1

    All completely true! I’m an ENFP and my best conversations have been with my INFJ 💚

    • @NB-qy7ku
      @NB-qy7ku Před 2 lety

      What about infj in conversation do you appreciate?

  • @jacinto1477
    @jacinto1477 Před rokem

    As an Intj,and as someone who basically doesnt care about his own ambitions, i can confirm that we are way supportive of the other people's dreams,maybe even to a fault sometimrs😅

  • @davidbowman2035
    @davidbowman2035 Před rokem

    I am an INTJ. Ive read enfp is highly complementary.

  • @muraofamily5161
    @muraofamily5161 Před 2 lety +2

    So true,I try to be perfect in every activity I do

  • @C-SD
    @C-SD Před rokem +1

    A lot of these are why my ENTP friend and I get along so well. Her ENFP son is a trip. (And an INTP partner) we're an interesting group when we're together.

  • @kaydenbreak4283
    @kaydenbreak4283 Před 2 lety +3

    Lol I have an ENFP bff idk when and how she became my friend but I still love her

  • @violet6507
    @violet6507 Před 2 lety +8

    Enfp has dark side? I thought you guys are all bright and shining with positivism

    • @none.__
      @none.__ Před 2 lety +3

      Sometimes they overthink ....

    • @lonestrela
      @lonestrela Před 2 lety +7

      "The most beautiful thoughts are always besides the darkest" - Ye

  • @nuggets796
    @nuggets796 Před rokem +1

    As an enfp I can confirm that's totally true

    • @anasking8747
      @anasking8747 Před rokem +1

      I'm really confused that all think said intp have it to so why not intp

    • @nuggets796
      @nuggets796 Před rokem +1

      Maybe because Enfp see's Intp in a more friendlier way it doesn't mean that we don't like Intp . They are all very nice person☺️

    • @anasking8747
      @anasking8747 Před rokem +1

      @@nuggets796 but what is that spical think that intj have that will help me alot

    • @nuggets796
      @nuggets796 Před rokem +1

      Oh so you wanna pull off an Enfp😂

    • @anasking8747
      @anasking8747 Před rokem +1

      @@nuggets796 yes👌😂

  • @Lol-ff1nb
    @Lol-ff1nb Před rokem

    As an intj female I’m really not like everyone and hates to write comments but the things you are saying is just true

  • @leigh5991
    @leigh5991 Před rokem

    INTJ here. I love ENFPs.

  • @Jack_howard_mayer
    @Jack_howard_mayer Před 2 lety +6

    I took a test like 3 times and got intj 3 times so I guess I'm an intj

    • @Jack_howard_mayer
      @Jack_howard_mayer Před 2 lety

      I would be very decisive and planned out but do to my family freinds and school getting in the way of my ambition I have become quiet inefficient and somewhat lazy but when I leave school that's where my skills and traits will shine

    • @Jay-wl1of
      @Jay-wl1of Před 2 lety +1

      @@Jack_howard_mayer I took the test n it turned out that I ma entp but after studying the cognitive functions I started thinking that I maybe an intj or Still maybe entp cause they both got the intuitive thinking as the top 2 thinking (intuitive) first which exactly wt I am but figuring out wether my thoughts r exterior or interior has been pretty rough on me.......

    • @SwordsmanMike
      @SwordsmanMike Před 2 lety +1

      I did it 5 times every time after 2 months, every time intj, just wanted to be sure

    • @Jack_howard_mayer
      @Jack_howard_mayer Před 2 lety

      @@SwordsmanMike yea i get what ya mean sometimes i get intj on test but it depends on the questions but i understand u

    • @SwordsmanMike
      @SwordsmanMike Před 2 lety

      @@Jack_howard_mayer i want to be sure before labeling myself as something, cuz a lot of things can affect the results, it depends on how you feel emotionaly, so its a good thing to do it multiple times in few diffrent periods of time

  • @SisterSeine
    @SisterSeine Před rokem

    All true. I have a few ENFP clients, and can figure out and link their convos together 😂
    -INTJ

  • @techypreethu
    @techypreethu Před rokem +2

    We aren’t intelligent it just as other are less into gaining knowledge

  • @okwatever3582
    @okwatever3582 Před rokem

    keep up ur dreams! Stay optimistic about the future❤ Don’t let reality constrain ur mind to dream big and beyond convention❤

  • @kristenstallworth5651
    @kristenstallworth5651 Před rokem +1

    This guy I’m having a crush on is an INTJ and oh boy I’m not looking elsewhere.

    • @abcdefghijk8925
      @abcdefghijk8925 Před rokem

      Leave some mystery to who you are, where you're going, where you've been. Don't let him figure you out too easily. This will add intrigue.

  • @fernandesadrienne28
    @fernandesadrienne28 Před 11 měsíci

    I have to say, as an infj married to an istj, number 4 is pretty much us.

  • @meechipeachi
    @meechipeachi Před rokem

    I sent this to a few friends who love me ! ~INTJ Female ~

  • @a.m.i.l.a
    @a.m.i.l.a Před rokem

    Im an intj ..and you'r sooo lovely how you anderstand ower minds..
    Arabic intj. 🇩🇿

  • @jovanameza3046
    @jovanameza3046 Před 2 lety +1

    Yessss I love my ENFPS

  • @GaaraOfDessertt
    @GaaraOfDessertt Před 11 měsíci

    Tornado, this is what we feel about you

  • @Philip550c
    @Philip550c Před rokem

    Number 4 is my experience with my wife. She's the enfp and she will start talking to me as if we were just having a conversation and i will know what she's talking about.

  • @dazaiosamu3660
    @dazaiosamu3660 Před 2 lety +2

    Seems like the relationship between my ENFP younger cousin and me an INTJ🐱

  • @skyeblue5134
    @skyeblue5134 Před rokem

    Stayed for the compliments

  • @bbjudyfit
    @bbjudyfit Před rokem

    My boyfriend is constantly surprised by ability to laugh at his crude humor🤣
    -INTP

  • @elypelowski5670
    @elypelowski5670 Před 2 lety +6

    Yup. All this 👍

  • @helenericka5611
    @helenericka5611 Před 11 měsíci

    The most important question: How far away from me do you live? This is almost too much to hope for.

  • @illunux
    @illunux Před 3 měsíci

    Pls I’m an intj with an enfp best friend and this is the most accurate thing ever

  • @daylinlott5723
    @daylinlott5723 Před měsícem

    Harvey Firestein looks great

  • @Annamiri12
    @Annamiri12 Před 2 lety +4

    No wonder that's why I love myself so much🤣& the real INTJ will not go to dating apps

    • @myenfp-ness
      @myenfp-ness  Před 2 lety +2

      That’s true but I highly suggest you INTJs take a chance on a dating app :) you guys are amazing

  • @lawxs9114
    @lawxs9114 Před 11 měsíci

    As intj and have ex girlfriend ENFP this make me laugh how accurate it is. 😂

  • @JohnDavis-mu9je
    @JohnDavis-mu9je Před rokem

    We (INTJ's) also live in our own private world and aren't lonely about it. We're sure of our positions and don't give a flip about the judgment of others.

  • @_IwassoIhungryIatemyname_

    U intjs sound so adorable thoo:D hope i get meet one soon:))
    ~Enfp❤❤

  • @whimsicalfr13
    @whimsicalfr13 Před rokem +1

    I love ENFPs I need an ENFP best friend

    • @bbjudyfit
      @bbjudyfit Před rokem

      I have one .. they are the best.

  • @user-ic9np7yt5p
    @user-ic9np7yt5p Před 2 měsíci

    I agree as intj.
    Me and my bigger sis is literally bestie, and she is enfp❤😂

  • @godKiller.369
    @godKiller.369 Před měsícem

    Heh taking the Ne doms crude humor or gloomy thought and outdoing them, taking them to their conclusion and making ENTP/ENFP actually worried is fun every time😂 (INTJ)

  • @runnimiku7984
    @runnimiku7984 Před rokem

    As an intj, I also loves enfp

  • @skimaskcitizen301
    @skimaskcitizen301 Před rokem

    Awww thanks broo🖤🤣(Intj)

  • @HeVn7LaO
    @HeVn7LaO Před rokem

    My friend is an ENFP and this seems an accurate description of me and my friend’s relationship…

  • @am74343
    @am74343 Před 9 měsíci

    I'm a male INTJ looking for an ENFP male partner. But it's very hard to find someone these days who can accept my INTJ weirdness.

  • @dianadias3
    @dianadias3 Před 9 měsíci

    Exactly!
    you explained it very well

  • @weathforjr
    @weathforjr Před 11 měsíci

    They'll go socratic or ask where your dreams go and end up as.. you've been warned.

  • @baharvanaei2549
    @baharvanaei2549 Před 2 lety +2

    But i think sometimes it's hard for INTJs cause they might not have the ability to show their emotions or excitement as ENFPs have and it's like they don't have that much energy

    • @hein6870
      @hein6870 Před 2 lety

      We really don't and we don't really care too 🤷

  • @teodorbelaj4882
    @teodorbelaj4882 Před rokem

    Who doesn't love INTJs man, who doesn't love INTJs?

  • @sighanblossom5721
    @sighanblossom5721 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Thanks ! Intj female.

  • @michellerakowski2429
    @michellerakowski2429 Před rokem +2

    I married an enfp who presented as mature when we were young and somehow became a complete idiot as we got older. Ended up parenting 4 kids entirely on my own so Mr. Enfp could enjoy his midlife crisis. Not cool.

    • @anasking8747
      @anasking8747 Před rokem +1

      No he is just searching for the milk🙂

    • @anasking8747
      @anasking8747 Před rokem +1

      So then why you don't marry intp instead

  • @obsessed_mae4274
    @obsessed_mae4274 Před 8 měsíci

    Any infj out here wanting an intj now

  • @philweeks6196
    @philweeks6196 Před 7 měsíci

    Enfp here. My best friend is an Intj.